| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 71 | The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)I have a pretty good tiktok following and I made a comment about how MFF seems so common and MMF IS rare. And ohh boy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 12:29 AM |
| 289 | The price of being the “cool girl” who totally looves threesomes. (But is actually just desperately trying to keep her LVM happy)I bet, the first husband doesn't go down on the wife or doesn't go down enough on the wife and it was triggering for her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:55 PM |
| 1 | "Vegan" pick-mes...Ya, they are pretty because they are taking additional care 9f themselves, personally I could never give up meat. But I have vegan, friends who always get hit on in the same manner on tinder Was he atleast hot | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:51 AM |
| 1 | "Vegan" pick-mes...I know some men that eat like crazy crap and try to date vegans. So that they can have youthful and healthy partner and pack on the pounds themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:45 AM |
| 1 | If a man is not going down on you for AS LONG AS IT TAKES then he ain’t worth shitHonestly I did think that. I have been told that u can't feel anything anyways. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 07:33 PM |
| 8 | Reddit men love getting their egos strokedI guess, I thought I did | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 08:40 AM |
| 179 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂Introverted just means, ill never wanna go out and do things. U will basically be single, minus the ability to date others part. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:07 AM |
| 30 | "I look like a goblin but I want a thin princess" smh 😂😂😂Lol, he is 45 and the women he wants to date are 15 years younger than him and only up to his age. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:05 AM |
| 24 | If a man is not going down on you for AS LONG AS IT TAKES then he ain’t worth shitOk, so i don't do blowjobs without a condom or various reasons including that I was raped and the taste and texture of it makes me dissociate and I have mild germophobia that would just make the whole experience next to unbearable. So obviously these rules wouldn't apply to me right? Like I can't judge the cunnilingus or lack of it. When I am not doing bjs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 06:02 AM |
| 14 | Reddit men love getting their egos strokedIs anyone in the comments, calling them out or is everyone just jumping in on the band wagon. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 05:53 AM |
| 5 | We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏Older guys in my experience are like, "young, firm tits yum." And they put tons of effort and then they are like "ok, I did my part","now ur turn, till I die" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:19 AM |
| 7 | We 👏 Don’t 👏 Chase 👏Be careful though, this can easily have the opposite effect too. Once they have u, effort goes to zero. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 01:15 AM |
| 3 | Reading Andrea Dworkin's ''Intercourse'' and this reminded me so much of people's reaction to FDS. She was so perceptive, a visionary.☀️✨I talked about not getting an abortion if I got pregnant and people acted like I was raping the man. He knows the deal, dont have sex with me if it's a dealbreaker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 09:46 PM |
| 31 | "Pretty Privilege" is just another proof guys don't care about the women they don't find attractiveThere was tiktok, where a guy did this. And all the men where supporting him. I said "great ,you can date him" "not like that as a friend, we stand with him" "Then you useless to him, he is looking to date" "U don't understand humor" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/21 03:38 AM |
| 33 | Is anyone feeling particularly sad for their pick-me mom after finding this subreddit?I think honestly she can leave whenever she decides to. So there is still hope. There is hope till she is alive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Women 👏🏼 are 👏🏼not 👏🏼rehab 👏🏼centres👏🏼 for👏🏼 badly 👏🏼behaved 👏🏼men.I am go tired of this narrative | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 09:14 AM |
| 59 | I’ve noticed a pattern: When guys ask you a ton of random questions and then the questions get less and less random.The shave ur legs one is hilarious. I would just ask equally demeaning questions, would rather date a pretty girl who is dating u for ur money? Or an ugly girl who really loves u? Would you rather date someone who workout but holds u to the same standard or a fat person who let's u be u when u choose what to eat?. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 19 | No one asked him to research love languages...That is really surprising. I usually comment on posts that seem biased and them other people back me up. But I can't believe no one bought up the love languages thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 09:10 AM |
| 5 | Men are best served cold.Lol, love a good pun | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 11:14 AM |
| 6 | Momma’s boyI just had to come back and ask if ur best friend managed to get away from the situation and whether the brother was atleast told to stop? Obviously u don't have to answer if you don't want to. I am just so stumped on parents allowing that. I have seen some parents that favor a child heavily but never ones that let sexual abuse between siblings slide. I guess I am hoping that they came to their senses eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 09:32 PM |
| 17 | Momma’s boyI got to ask, why treat you harsher and coddle the male. Like to deter you from telling? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 07:19 PM |
| 30 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesMy ex said this all the time to justify shaming my weight gaim. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:31 AM |
| 31 | Nothing says love and monogamy like a room full of naked ladiesMy only response if why partner was going to see strippers, would be "me too". And then watch it make him very upset. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:29 AM |
| 6 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"Well for genetic disorders, can sperm banks do a test? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 12:25 AM |
| 4 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"Honestly u genes play very little role in who the baby will become. But this logic u shouldn't adopt children because their parents could have been trash. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:27 PM |
| 4 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"I have seen plenty of posts about how they want kids but their men are unmotivated to have them. So, why not just get sperm from the bank and artificially inseminate.. that's what I meant. The government subsidies are great. Not really wrong but my point is their is a work around. Although like I said. I don't think the men are all too unmotivated, I think the government just wants immigrants as well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 11:11 PM |
| 29 | Scrotes in the comment section on a video about Denmark having low birth rates. Men complaining about having "responsibility without authority". Translation: "I refuse to be a productive member of society unless I get to be in charge and rape women with impunity!"Honestly I think the women in Denmark, got this wrong. They should just go to a sperm bank and have kids whenever they want. If men are actually avoiding relationships. Although the one Danish man, I know is married with triplets. So I am inclined to believe that, the Danes are doing fine. They just need immigration like Canada does. That's all. Lots of countries do. I think France also but not sure | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:41 PM |
| 17 | I guess this is my cue to delete bumble cuz I’ve finally seen it allI assure u the pictures are far.more attractive than him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 12:06 AM |
| 28 | I hate when men, pickmes and fakefems say that "Men have just as much to do with creating life as women"True | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Why can't we mention user names and subs in our posts? I am seriously asking.It just feels like they are targeting us because I have seen other subs do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Why can't we mention user names and subs in our posts? I am seriously asking.Thats so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 01:55 PM |
| 11 | Excuse the fuck outta me?!??! 🤨 “It’s just a joke” hahaha that’s so funny to disrespect and degrade your partner for internet pointsWhy would he say bitch. Why. So many other things could have been said. " thank you, the best gf" off the top of my head. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:03 AM |
| 1 | I cant roll my eyes hard enoughOk ill make sure to follow these rules. I am not debating whether I will follow the rule. But I got to ask, how do we do rescue missions? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 04:42 AM |
| 2 | I cant roll my eyes hard enoughI am not trying to get it banned, this how I have been posting and this is the first time I have heard of it. I also don't know what brigading is? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 02:43 AM |
| 7 | I found this thing called MDS.So most of it, is like falsely advertising yourself. And for us most of it is catching the false advertising | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 11:05 PM |
| 9 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedAhh, I see. I guess I am used to seeing my parents do cheap celebrations for everything. But maybe I should change my standards now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:22 PM |
| 7 | Imagine playing the cool girl for a guy who talks about you like this. This is not an appropriate Valentine's date and I hope she leaves before they get marriedOk, I need help. What did I say that was wrong? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:16 PM |
| 44 | I found this thing called MDS.For the 4th point. He only talked about the sexual standard for women and not men. Like if a guy has hooked up "atleast once" do we consider him low value? I am seriously asking. What do u think? Also is that point like he is hunting for virgins? Edit: I just noticed point 8. He say men can go for hook ups | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 09:51 PM |
| 41 | This man going viral as his many wives figure it out.I bet, guy are like, "he is living the dream". He did it Boyz etc. Yuck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 07:56 PM |
| 3 | WARNING The incels over at Cringetopia have been screenshotting our posts and sharing themWhy was this removed? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 10:24 PM |
| 23 | Ghosted my cheating boyfriend of a yearGood job | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 07:17 PM |
| 5 | They’re too busy screaming not all men at abused women.What is this? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:19 AM |
| 5 | Woman dumps her partner of 13 years after finding out he watches porn. Comments tell her she’s overreacting. Ladies, you do not have to accept porn in your relationships!I never thought of it this way. Shit I might have to change my stance on this now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 12:11 AM |
| 15 | LV lurker gets triggered by a comment I made here, lets me live in his head rent free 😂Wow dude. U can tell he wouldn't hit it off with the girth ladies. Also to be technical saying I am girth women means I care more about girth than length. Not saying that it should be big 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:34 PM |
| 2 | She really needs our helpI am a germophobe, I am right there next to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 01:30 PM |
| 5 | She really needs our helpOhh, thanks for explaining. Honestly it shoulds so similar to my germophobia anxiety. That's interest | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 10:39 PM |
| 7 | She really needs our helpCan u explain to me what this anxiety for taking a shower feels like. Its new to me but I have mild germophobia and I wondering how opposite anxieties feel. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:18 PM |
| 10 | She really needs our helpI know. Yikes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 04:15 PM |
| 12 | Comeback queenShare the mail. Its always fun to see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 12:50 AM |
| 3 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereYou something 42 year old women can absolutely get pregnant. My sister had hers at 48 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/21 12:47 AM |
| 2 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereI though about this too. He is clearly lying to her about how he feels. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:03 PM |
| 3 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereWell obviously who wants to be windowed at 40 dude. Why would I marry u if not for money if ur 30 years older to me, thats not a real relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 12:57 PM |
| 25 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereHe is married, all the other comments had wife written. He probably didn't wanna write "u have convinced i can get younger puss so I will leave my.wife now" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 02:21 AM |
| 18 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereAnd some replied to this. Be a women is so stupid. Like wtf. Being a women is great. Men are stupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:45 AM |
| 42 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereThat's why ur FDS sister. We know better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:40 AM |
| 11 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereI assumed the women was old. The age difference in the post is 8 years so seems like a lot of work for 2.5 years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:40 AM |
| 22 | I'll leave her for a younger one. Good to see you are out thereU know I never realized it till u said it. But my ex did have girl lined up they day he left me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 01:37 AM |
| 3 | Men are just so gross.Ya because it easier to "build a bitch" at brothels than worry about them being humans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 04:00 PM |
| 4 | Men are just so gross.Because its a good quality fleshlight. He doesn't care about the human part of her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:58 PM |
| 6 | Men are just so gross.Ya, well 20 isn't much either though | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Men are just so gross.I can see ur point of view. But he is clearly only interested in his own physical pleasure. And is encouraging other incels to pay for euphoria. He repeatedly mentions the strippers age, citing it as the reason the experience was good. He is definitely viewing women as fleshlights. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Men are just so gross.👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:28 PM |
| 11 | Men are just so gross.I agree, I had my first kiss at 26. And i definitely had a something "wrong" with me. (Rape truama+ purity culture) You have to work on urself and then get out there . | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:27 PM |
| 4 | Men are just so gross.The comments are all about whether or not they are will pay for this while Chads get it free. Nothing about improving ur mental health. Also I feel kinda angry that they semi forced this 22 years old to participate in this. They are going to make him a dopamine junkie | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:24 PM |
| 18 | Men are just so gross.Just a warning to be careful. They will do anything to be touched. Incels i mean | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 03:08 PM |
| 3 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭Ok. I just have never seen ur flair before so I was curious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:24 PM |
| 5 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭Ya. He is just a bigot. Umm u have Pickmeisha next to ur name. What is that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 02:09 PM |
| 12 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭He will be surprised when girls date him only for his money. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:45 PM |
| 10 | Kevin Samuels - “A woman who has had a baby has no right to make a “HVM” man wait for sex if she had the child with a “LVM” in the past”. My heart is breaking at this😭The double standard is so weird. Why would I wanna date a dad, if he doesn't wanna date a mom. What bullshit. He isn't even discriminating against single parents equally. Luckily they are tons of HVM who don't think like this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:44 PM |
| 8 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseLol. If I do have an arranged marriage at some point. I am going to ask the guy to get tested even if says he is a virgin and offer to be tested myself | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:39 PM |
| 21 | Just a heads up, this is MENA men and their way of thinking. Theyll string a girl along for 4 years, sleep with her countless times, and then once hes had enough using her as a cum rag he'll bring home a 'virgin' wife to marry, and if he finds out said wife isn't a virgin all hell breaks looseA syrian women posted on R/relationships that she found out her husband lied to her about his virginity and people in the comments were like "drop it, dont even confront him". If genders were reversed i guarantee these men would not feel the same. Its the same in my culture (indian). Women virginity is important and men is not. Wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:00 PM |
| 1 | Lvm readers will be so triggered lol but she's completely right and now I want one tooWould u mind dropping a link. I have never seen one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 10:23 AM |
| 7 | How the Hot Girl with boundaries suddenly becomes invisible ✌️ You become unattractive as soon as they realize they can’t control you with their cheap ‘validation’ and no longer have a reason to lead you on. You are more than enough on your own.I lost a lot of weight but I haven't kept it off. And honestly to some extent when I lose weight again, i wouldn't want to lose all of the excess weight. I am going to keep about half of it. So I can filter such slime out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 02:11 PM |
| 3 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’Ya, the "u will change ur mind" guys are the worse. "I'll just get is somewhere else". Etc | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 08:47 PM |
| 3 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’Good for u. I am sure u will find one worthy. Just stay strong | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/01/21 01:41 PM |
| 30 | Emotional F*ckbois: The Subtlest Gaslighters of AllThis is really scary. Is this the reason that dads tease their daughter sometimes to point of tears. I have seen that dynamic in multiple families | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 09:10 PM |
| 40 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’I don't give blowjobs. Not going to lie sometimes I am concerned that ill never find a man who is actually ok with that. And accept me as is. Obviously I don't need a man to be happy in life but a lot of female friends have tried convincing me to bend this boundary. And men on r/datingoverthirty actually got really angry with me like "tell him on the first date that u don't, don't waste his time." It seems that the world has decided that a women that won't give oral sex is worth less. I hope tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 08:56 PM |
| 15 | Proud of myselfCongrats. Everyone on this sub is proud of u. Keep it up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 02:41 PM |
| 2 | Get off of OLD!Thanks, this seems easy enough to apply in my life. Once the pandemic ends ofcourse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | Get off of OLD!What are some alternative ways to date? I cant think of any? I am an older women so school is kinda outta the picture. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 08:48 PM |
| 111 | Don't apologize to men to preserve the peace or their feelings. They wouldn't do the same for you.Me and my ex ( I have only had one all my stories are about him) were arguing about ✨politics ✨. And he got tired that I had such feminist views and wouldn't support trump. He told me to go a suck a dick. I said "gladly, it just won't be yours". He mopped around like a child for hours after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 5 | Man in YT comment section explains why he won't reject a woman who makes the first move even if he's not attracted to herThey have very little value for the other person. They are ok leaving her depressed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 08:25 PM |
| 18 | Warmed My Sober HeartThis is so wonderful to hear. I hope that he is your hvm. It is a big contrast from my ex who knew that alcohol and sex together were a rape trigger for me. So he would try to drink before I got there and then gaslight me when I could taste it. I was ok with him drinking he just had to tell me so I dont kiss him or initiate sex and he couldn't do that. It warms my heart to hear this experience, to see that there are hvm out there. Would u mind telling me ur age. I tend to feel like all the him m… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:40 PM |
| 17 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡Thanks, I actually got a pixie cut yesterday something my ex never let me do. I feel like I could easily be happy with a man. I might get a sperm donor and have a kid. In my mid 30s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:30 PM |
| 11 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡Ohh. Lol. Seems besides the point of the post. Thanks for answering me 😊 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:50 PM |
| 13 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡I missed it. Could u tell me what the comment was? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:44 PM |
| 69 | If most men had to suck dick, they’d quit. And yet LVMs are out here demanding hour long unreciprocated head 🤡I cant give a bj. I have crippling germophobia and some residual rape trauma. Men are surprised when I am ok with it when they say " I can't date u,if u can't give a bj". Like they expect me to beg them to stay. Nah man. I am good. I can live without men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 02:11 PM |
| 7 | This sad. We have a second invisible global pandemic happening and its called male narcissismI feel like ur right. Everyone has probably had one abusive experience with a man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:01 AM |
| 6 | This sad. We have a second invisible global pandemic happening and its called male narcissismI have been called old lady too because I got a headache when the radio was too loud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 03:00 AM |
| 8 | Lack of support of independent female children is neglect.Ohh, I never knew that was a thing. My mom and me share clothes sometimes but mostly its me forcing my mom to be more fashionable.I also borrow my sisters(9 years younger) clothes sometimes especially on vacation because I usually run outta clothes.I think it ok to wanna feel young and wear younger clothes. But I can't imagine seeing anyone with a 20+ years age as competition because they would be dating a different age group, let alone my own daughter. I wonder why this happens. Like what in th… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 05:28 PM |
| 11 | Lack of support of independent female children is neglect.Can someone explain the mom daughter competition thing? I have seen it mentioned a few time but I dont really know for what. Father's affection? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:56 PM |
| 5 | Scrote threw out her skincare. She works 12 hour shifts, pays the bills, and pays for his "hobbies" . And what does he offer? Nada. He threw out her safe space 😤Wonder what would happen if someone made a similar post about gaming equipment. I good he is being told he is an asshole | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 01:47 AM |
| 11 | He’d rather be drunk with his friends and fishing with his dad than take her out. And the comments.... this is the first time I’ve really witnessed Reddit men’s attitudes about datingI commented that she shouldn't date a bloke that wouldn't support his child anyways. And that getting the women pregnant is a risk that men take when having sex. I suggested that they could hold off on sex till both parties can agree on what to do in case of a birth control failure and people where so furious with me. I wonder if there is a way to spread awareness of FDS on that subreddit | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:33 PM |
| 15 | He’d rather be drunk with his friends and fishing with his dad than take her out. And the comments.... this is the first time I’ve really witnessed Reddit men’s attitudes about datingHonestly the dating over 30 subreddit is toxic. U get more balanced advised on relationship_advice. I saw the same post about a women not wanting and abortion and wanting to talk to her partners before starting to have sex just in case bc fails on both subreddits and r/datingover30 was basically telling her, no one is going to want a date if she doesn't want an abortion and is open about it from before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 08:22 PM |
| 8 | Men are not stupid. They are smart. They know when they are doing something wrong, they just don’t care. Stop giving them the benefit of the doubt that they don’t know what they are doingI feel so bad for people like this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 07:12 PM |
| 22 | Men are not stupid. They are smart. They know when they are doing something wrong, they just don’t care. Stop giving them the benefit of the doubt that they don’t know what they are doingCan i get an article or something about the incident, I wanna send it to my mom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/01/21 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Wow! I think we all know this deep down, but it really struck me seeing it written out so succinctly.I was actually really lucky my case ,even his own dad knew he was the bad guy. But it could be a horrible position to get stuck in. Ill be sure to keep an eye out for this too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 03:31 PM |
| 9 | Wow! I think we all know this deep down, but it really struck me seeing it written out so succinctly.It makes perfect sense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:49 AM |
| 44 | Wow! I think we all know this deep down, but it really struck me seeing it written out so succinctly.Just my experience, my ex was a delight to waitresses and nurses, female janitors etc. He was the best for our first year together, and then he was mean to me, blatantly but he was still nice to female staff. And it was his unique brand of gaslighting. Something to watch out for. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/20 04:48 AM |
| 6 | Saw this in one of my local groups. Most of the comments were telling her to get a divorce lawyer for Christmas.Ya, I am beginning to realize this. Sex just feels like a big deal for me and it feels way harder to back out. But I won't let it stop me again. Time is definitely more valuable than sex in this respect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 07:47 AM |
| 5 | This Level of Possessiveness? RED FLAGIf ur profile get banned for no reason. We also know why now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:28 AM |
| 6 | This Level of Possessiveness? RED FLAGHe realizes we can do it too now! And he don't need 3 phones. We can just post the profile here and ask FDS for help. We can do this for pedos or people who do rapey shit too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 01:27 AM |
| 12 | Saw this in one of my local groups. Most of the comments were telling her to get a divorce lawyer for Christmas.What is the sunk cost fallacy? I have a guy pretend to be normal for 4 months and then once we had sex, he turned into a video game addict. So I know this happened to me but I wanna understand it better. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/12/20 12:30 AM |
| 16 | Anyone else find it odd that men are posting women's entire profile on reddit for upvotes?I have always wondered why we block the names of men on those subreddit but the men never block our names. I have stopped blocking the men's names and almost everytime. Some guy comments saying that I should block it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 10:56 AM |
| 18 | I just realizedLooks should not be the reason u date someone anyways to be honest. I am weary if a guys past gf was much younger than him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 11:56 PM |
| 2 | You don't deserve her neckbeardYa, but honestly 2 can play that game if a guy has a history of fetishizing a race or dating much younger women i stay clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | You don't deserve her neckbeardHe is one who broke up with me so I am not sure about that. But I do know that girl he asked out after me rejected him. I noticed a pattern were white girls were rejecting him almost everytime. Maybe they are able to see a red flag that get covered up as a cultural difference to asians | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:31 PM |
| 2 | You don't deserve her neckbeardWow, that's crazy. The funny think is my ex was also a trump supporter and had a compensation vehicle. He was also rasict and said the worse things about Arabs and (drumroll) the Chinese people often implying that the US was correct in every political stance and that Chinese men rape their women and have no regard for consent. I am going to stay away from trump supporters after this. It is good that she got away from him but honestly if her child is mixed race living in india is going to be an u… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 01:28 PM |
| 17 | You don't deserve her neckbeardI am not sure she did. I blocked him after that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:07 AM |
| 29 | You don't deserve her neckbeardYa, I can kind of see some signs of abuse but I am not sure if I am making it up in my head. Like she stopped posting online and he made a social media to impress her but stopped posting after the initial few pics. He did a similar thing with me where he pretended to love extreme sports and rollercoasters and then just stopped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 02:06 AM |
| 100 | You don't deserve her neckbeardYa, I am indian, my ex was white. Now he is with Chinese girl. We are all phd holders so I would think he would worry about what people think of him. But he posted a picture with himself and the gf and titled it, "the good kind of asian". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/12/20 01:42 AM |
| 9 | Just NVM ThingsI got to ask, why do we block out the names. I personally would like to expose such men. It been in the back of my head for a while | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 12:43 PM |
| 15 | Men really do miss the days where a man could just forcibly impregnate a woman and then abandon her on a whim, leaving her desperate and penniless. This is why we vet ruthlessly.If financial abortions become a thing. I will just stop have sex with men. The fact that men continue to have sex with women under the current law shows that they already know, this is more than fair. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 03:49 AM |
| 6 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.Tell me about it. I leave a paragraph explaining that less women will sleep with anyone before marriage if that becomes the case and then they lose there minds | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:47 AM |
| 8 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.I dont sleep with these men, these are before sex conversations for me. But I put it out there before itself. In case they are planning to try anything funny. And if I get anything but enthusiastic. "Its ur choice. I will use condoms religiously". I dip | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:46 AM |
| 3 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.Its not the same as carrying a child. It should carry a physical scar for them, then they might understand. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 1 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮She will probably kick him out too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:07 AM |
| 18 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.I didnt even think about if it a baby boy, since I always imagine girls. Lord. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:05 AM |
| 49 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.Ya, exactly. As a practice I tell the guy I wouldn't get an abortion before we have sex so that he is diligent in using condoms, and sometimes this doesn't work either. Most of time, the guys get angry that I wouldn't have one. Its my choice bitch. I am using depo and u are using condoms so what u worried about unless u trying to weasel outta condoms. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:04 AM |
| 101 | The next step to taking away our rights and freedoms as women has been taken. That's why we need FDS more than ever.Can we please talk about how men are demanding paper abortions now. They want to take even less responsibility that they already do. They are doing this under the guise that we have more rights than them. And paper abortion are needed to equate the rights 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 06:41 AM |
| 1 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisUmm..ok that's sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 2 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisIf I guys asks for a tit job, I ask to rub my clothes against his chest. He usually makes a face. Then I say ya, exactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 01:09 AM |
| 4 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisI hope he didn't get any bjs from her. I posted on reddit asking for advice on when to bring but my no bjs policy. And everyone said I would die alone or first date, because he deserves to know what he is getting into. But guys bring up their flaws after sex. Wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 4 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisYa, like pegging is a super rare kinky thing because its uncomfortable for men but anal so common because care about women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/20 12:40 AM |
| 6 | Who told old men young women want them?I fought with a guy on tiktok about this. He said droopy. I said ya, old guys have droopy dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:24 PM |
| 52 | “PoRn iS eMpOwErInG” ok sisI want pegging porn to be so common. Like blowjobs. U can find any good porn without blowjobs. I dont like giving Blowjobs( I was sexually assaulted and it has led to sex related germophobia, I can only do it with a comdom) and it hard to find blowjobless porn so it a real downer. Also guys think its a requirement. If pegging was made this common. Then guys would get, "its just porn". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 03:13 PM |
| 26 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮Thats why I won't date serious gamers. If someone's main hobby is gaming. I am out. It can take up hours and they won't realize. When I play, I am ALWAYS will to put it down for human interaction whether my mom wants to visit or a friend wants to vent. This isnt true of male gamers. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 12:12 PM |
| 10 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮I also just came back to say, I am gamer myself. And this is still my opinion. So a non gamer girl would shoot him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:56 AM |
| 28 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮I bought up cunnilingus in the comments and illiteratly no one responded. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:55 AM |
| 14 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮They are honestly really not worth it. And then they say, atleast i would never cheat on u | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 10:49 AM |
| 89 | The "perfect" relationship 🤮I actually saw this video as I am tiktoker and I when he says he leaves, "leave us alone to do our hobbies". Thats all they will ever do. I have dated plenty of gamers and the rest of the relationship either doesn't happen or is work for the gaming bf. So ya lol no. Also his surprise is a BJ and her surprise she is get to do a hobby she has no interest in or has no skills at and then she suppose to beat an avid gamer. Wtf. There is no cunnilingus anywhere in this relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/10/20 09:32 AM |
| 1 | Always trying to hide shit.I wonder if I did a women one. Where I was like post nude on reddit without a face and keep any income for it. Would get a good response. Instead of only fans | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:25 PM |
| 1 | "You have no control over your body because my "hotdog" is more important than you as a person". Absolutely disgusting.Lol..older. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 02:24 PM |
| 24 | Douche only allows girlfriend in his hospital room; not wife and kids.More of this. Less of that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 06:22 AM |
| 7 | The jig is up!I always wondered if we should have a database for men that seriously hurt us. Like raping, robbing etc. And then women could reference it. A picture and full name with offense | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:16 AM |
| 0 | Always trying to hide shit.What sub reddit is this? Is there a male dating strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:10 AM |
| 3 | Why ask a woman out if you can’t afford it? 🤡I am 29, so i feel like I might be hitting a wall. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 04:07 AM |
| 52 | "You have no control over your body because my "hotdog" is more important than you as a person". Absolutely disgusting.I wonder if anyone told her. She was right | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:59 AM |
| 32 | "You have no control over your body because my "hotdog" is more important than you as a person". Absolutely disgusting.I will.never marry anyone more than 5 years old. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 03:58 AM |
| 2 | This poor woman 😭Thank Goodness honestly that none of you have his kids or are married to him. The fact that he got 2 women pregnant tell me he either careless with condoms or refuses to use them. Either way he shouldn't be having sex. I am really glad your free of him. I hope the rest of ur life is good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 04:21 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else gets suspicious when men go on about how “busy they are” unprovoked?They aren't busy, they are selfish | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:04 PM |
| 1 | This poor woman 😭Can i ask if it was an ex husband or boyfriend? I am kind of shocked. I had to come back to ask | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/20 12:01 PM |
| 2 | This poor woman 😭Wow. I would make this story so public with his face and name that he would never get a date again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:27 AM |
| 2 | This poor woman 😭Omg. I didnt think men leave like that. I hope the courts make them pay out the nose. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:20 AM |
| 2 | Yet women somehow are to blame for initiating divorces...🙄Lol, somehow these trupples are just 2 women and one man. Its never the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:12 AM |
| 2 | The fact that men are fertile 100% of the time and women are fertile 2+ days out of the month and yet the burden of birth control falls to the woman is one of the greatest schemes of the patriarchyI posted a question of the men's right site. Long ago about if they would use male control. And everyone said they needed to change the child support laws. I replied to a few comments saying that women would just stop having sex. As the risk would be to much for us and also sleathing would increase. And they lost their shit. Luckily it was a throwaway and I deleted it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 08:04 AM |
| 3 | Story of my 1 year life transformation thanks to all of you amazing ladiesI had a similar experience. I will follow ur example | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 06:45 AM |
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