| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I have trouble with self esteem, but I'm confident. Need help.Sorry for your loss :( | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 07:26 PM |
| 1 | I have trouble with self esteem, but I'm confident. Need help.I suffer from a lot of suicidal thoughts, I've gotten very close to attempting at one point. I just want to stop feeling like shit all the time. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 04:40 AM |
| 1 | I have trouble with self esteem, but I'm confident. Need help.I know, my goal in life is happiness. Money is just a means of temporary happiness, I just see it as hell if I can't be happy might as well be rich. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 02:12 AM |
| 1 | I have trouble with self esteem, but I'm confident. Need help.Not right now, since I'm doing school. Focused on getting internships for my future benefit. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Best way to connect to women emotionally?I think this could depend on how "genuinely" kind the girl is. Like to anybody. But that's vague I can either talk about a dark past, or what I plan on doing in the future and how I started being determined etc.. which is safer. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Best way to be blunt/woman with a woman?Feelings, like I wanted to say like "Hey, just wanna be blunt.I want to get to know you, just tell me where you stand on this :)?" | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 04:47 PM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling like shit, with friends successHe's 20. I'm 19. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 01:25 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling like shit, with friends successI have a crap ton of confidence,not shy at all. Also he never tags me along, also this guy is my godfather. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 01:21 AM |
| 1 | How to stop feeling like shit, with friends successNo, the word is envy. | /r/seduction | 26/08/17 01:17 AM |
| 2 | Ways to increase Dating/Social Value?Well, I don't plan on texting her for like 2-3 weeks, she told me cause college was coming up and she goes to a different college as me she dorms there but she lives in the same city with her parents as me. She didn't reschedule another day, she just said "We'll talk soon" so I have some doubts. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Ways to increase Dating/Social Value?Yes, I've been physical with the girls I've been on dates with which never ended with too much. With the ones I've asked not as much but hugging and a little bit of touch sure, I've actually had this one girl flirt up the ass with me, she was really hot too, would randomly come hug me. Turned out she actually has a boyfriend. Currently I'm talking to some girl I've known since elementary that was in my college class for like 2 weeks, so far after asking her out she said she was busy this week an… | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Ways to increase Dating/Social Value?Well, I didn't start really talking to women until I got into college about a year ago, before then I was shy and "Saving myself" for a girl which didn't work out. I stopped being shy and said "fuck this shit", I've been on a few dates and had a girl ask me out before as well. The thing is I don't really get women I like on an emotional level. I actually enjoy their company, but seems like those women aren't too interested. I have many hobbies, skill sets, I'm not obese just a tad overweight in … | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 05:13 PM |
| 1 | Ways to increase Dating/Social Value?Unfortunately, I'm 3/4 of those. Having trouble with the last one, but I've only had that problem for a year. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | She called back,what next?Texted twice, meaning in two separate occasions. | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 02:13 PM |
| 1 | I have a problem. I cant for the life of me get any girls and what scares me is that i feel as if i dont have the energy to pursue anyoneI mean, you've already had sex a couple times. Seems likes it's working for you. As in terms of getting hard you might be impotent. Also you don't have low confidence, just low self esteem. I know this, because I suffer the same issue of self worth/being a man/etc... | /r/seduction | 23/08/17 05:06 AM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsI mean she did, just saying. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 02:14 PM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsNot weird that I'm doing that again lol? | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 06:06 AM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsOnly fear is calling her again and not picking up and having to wait for her again, if she says she's busy I'm just gonna tell her I want to be straight up. | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 05:15 AM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsThanks Adam. Would you say her calling me back is at least a small sign of interest? | /r/seduction | 22/08/17 01:38 AM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsAh ok, what do you mean by inabit if I may ask. I was gonna say like I don't want to waste your and my time etc.. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 10:11 PM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsSo is it worth it asking her again later, I was thinking of being blunt and just saying I just want to get to know her better etc... It's a yes or no thing etc.. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsI just didn't want to do it through text, cause I think it's kind of dumb, and my texting with her went too casual and she just kept saying lol in every text. I'm aware it's hard to build a connection with text that's why I did it. I also would've asked her out in person but she dropped the class, and goes to a different college. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsI mean, she did call back and I'm sure she knew what it was about. As for sincerity, she had a mellow voice, she did say she's so sorry etc.. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Called a girl, she called back asked her out. ThoughtsI mean, she did call back and I'm sure she knew what it was about. As for sincerity, she had a mellow voice, as she always does and said she's so sorry etc.. | /r/seduction | 21/08/17 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.Thanks, I used to lift a lot actually got very strong don't have the muscle mass I used to 2 years ago, but if anything it made more pissed off, it was a gateway for my anger. Thanks for writing that paragraph. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.I play basketball, used to do track,Strongman, etc.. I do masturbate though. I'm not shy or anything. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 02:07 AM |
| 1 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.As scary as it sounds, I have trouble making good things out of shitty experiences. I get suicidal/homicidal thoughts and listen to metal and I feel like beating the shit out somebody. That's how I cope with it. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 02:00 AM |
| 1 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.Yea, but that ain't gonna do much. | /r/seduction | 20/08/17 12:56 AM |
| 2 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.Thanks. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.I used to do Strongman/Powerlifting, now I'm more into music, and studying and just learning more. As in terms of philosophical foundation I'm a pessimist that get's hope every once and a while, but then that "hope" really doesn't do anything so I go back into being a pessimist. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 09:55 PM |
| 3 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.Problem with me also is I get panic attacks and take things to heart, which just grows my hate for a lot of people. I just think a lot of times life is truly a game of luck since day 1. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.Thanks for taking the time to write, you kind of hit the nail on the head. In the 3 years, I've been depressed the reasons were always different and added up, a lot of times I know my depression is a lot of ways dumb. As for as the whole time thing goes, I've been thinking over time it'd change,get better, etc but I haven't seen that day yet. I'm starting to grow more and more impatient. | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 09:10 PM |
| 4 | Depression is killing me, Need advice.Socially, I hang out with friends as much as I can so it takes my mind away from things. But a lot of times it comes back, especially when they talk about the success they got with women. I've explained 2 of my close friends with depression but they don't get it. They say dumb shit like "Don't give a fuck". My other close friend kind of backstabbed me, so I kind of don't trust him. I told him my current mental state, he started ignoring me because he used me as a scapegoat, cause he was cheating… | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Need help. Having trouble with dealing with rejection/coping with depression.Socially, I hang out with friends as much as I can so it takes my mind away from things. But a lot of times it comes back, especially when they talk about the success they got with women. I've explained 2 of my close friends with depression but they don't get it. They say dumb shit like "Don't give a fuck". My other close friend kind of backstabbed me, so I kind of don't trust him. I told him my current mental state, he started ignoring me because he used me as a scapegoat, cause he was cheating… | /r/seduction | 19/08/17 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Girl randomly doesn't respond to a text.What now. | /r/seduction | 11/08/17 04:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm a virgin, but women seem to like me?Lmao, don't want to go through the trouble of getting them to learn english etc.. Also they might just want me for a visa XD | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 07:08 PM |
| 1 | I'm a virgin, but women seem to like me?Cultural thing. Especially since my city is a 40% ethnic community of 1 race. My race marries virgins. A bit complex. | /r/seduction | 09/08/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | I'm a virgin, but women seem to like me?Very fucking true. I've been recently thinking of taking things naturally. But I always had this view where even when I didn't worry about things I had no success, maybe I was too young I don't know. | /r/seduction | 08/08/17 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Using a woman's friend to get her.Well she just randomly added me on snapchat through phone #(My friend). So I'm guessing she does like me so bad idea? | /r/seduction | 05/08/17 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Using a woman's friend to get her.Fair enough answer. Well our parents know each other, but I don't really hang out with her she's asked me before too but I forgot. I'm probably just gonna tell if she's really into me and if not, then I'll bring up her friend. | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Using a friend to get a girl?I don't understand what you're saying is kind of contradictory. You're telling me to bring her up but not tell her I like her friend. Seems a bit ironic. | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hugged the girl I'm going for.Not best friends but a friend. Just wouldn't know how to approach it. | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 04:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Hugged the girl I'm going for.Thanks,pal. | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 12:34 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Hugged the girl I'm going for.Thanks for the feedback. | /r/seduction | 04/08/17 12:04 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Hugged the girl I'm going for.Should my first time texting her(first day), ask her out. Or should casually text her for like a good while. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 11:59 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hugged the girl I'm going for.So you're suggesting I ask her out through text. I was planning just casually texting her, and then dropping if she's down to go hangout and go get something to eat at like a vegan place. Btw, I didn't really talk to her until this class, she's been in numerous of my elementary school classes. I didn't get to know her until these last 2 weeks, you can check my previous threads. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 11:47 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hugged the girl I'm going for.Lmao, makes sense. Is texting fine, cause I won't see her at school anymore. Should I do it this week? | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 11:34 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Hugged the girl I'm going for.What do you mean by that, like just keep it simple rather than having some sort of complex plan. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 11:22 PM |
| 1 | For anyone that has been super honest about what they want, called a girl out for not texting back, or asked them what is going on, has it ever worked out better for you?I kind of wondered that too, since honestly I have no fear of calling women or men out. Honestly sometimes I feel like calling a woman out on like an opinion once you've gotten to know them is a good thing so you build a relationship rather than just agreeing with everything they say. | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 12:13 AM |
| 3 | Take care of your mind and the rest will followI can speak for men who think like this because I am like this and trying to change. I'm even self aware of my issues, but the thing is it's not easy to change. We've been feeling like shit for so long that we're used to it. Even small hindrances get's us more sad and pissed off. Most men who are like this start feeling a lot of hate and have envy. Every time they try being happy, they end up failing as well. I recently trying into self improvement and I'm trying to get to know a girl and start … | /r/seduction | 03/08/17 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?Hmm, I get it. Thing is I want to have sex, but at the same time find a relationship as well. I have friends who have clean marriage material gf's who don't do anything. But fuck girls on the side. The thing is I'm working on right now is self improvement as you can tell me earlier posts I'm not in the best mental health. I'm slowly starting to lose a lot of weight like I used too, and trying to build up my self esteem. I'm not shy around girls, but I've always placed myself lower than a lot of … | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?Also, one thing I had a girl in my last college class where I would do this. I would talk to the girl before class and after talking a while I asked for her snap and if she wanted to hang. She said she was busy and gave me her snap. I didn't message her, later on after talking to her in class etc. etc.. She ended asking for my number, and asked me what I was doing after class ended up getting coffee with her. She did end up flirting with me, but in the end nothing major happened. Just a little f… | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?What if you see the a girl as a potential partner rather than just for fucking. This girl is clean btw,(Cultural thing). Both the same race. I know this doesn't change the atmosphere but just curious. Thanks for the feedback. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?I have a question, how do I get her more engaged. Meaning, every time we talk to each other it's usually about like school, about the lecture we had etc.. I got to know her better what her major was etc and even talked about the whole, vegan thing, the only thing I got out of her telling me that I didn't need to lose weight which I saw as a compliment and thanked her. I probably should've how sweet of you or something. I recently teased her saying "Oh no meat eating protests today?" and she smil… | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 06:26 PM |
| 1 | How to change myself back to being happy, and changing myself for the better?I get what you're saying, and I agree with it. I am feeding my own negativity. I've been feeling like shit so for so many years that it's grown on me. I'm gonna start by deleting those dumb dating apps. Also recently I've been talking to a girl in my class, and I want your opinion on it. It's one of my recent threads. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 01:39 AM |
| 1 | How to change myself back to being happy, and changing myself for the better?Thanks for the response. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | How to change myself back to being happy, and changing myself for the better?Thing is man, I have hobbies. I'm a musician, I work out, edit videos, do photoshop etc... I have even more skills. Thanks for the feedback though. The center yourself part makes sense, but when I was centered I still wasn't getting any pussy. | /r/seduction | 02/08/17 12:40 AM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?Thanks. Hopefully I get more opinions. I got you and some other guy who have different opinions so, I wanna hear more. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | A thing I've noticed on this subredditAre you referring to my thread lmao | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?Noted. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 08:05 PM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?I didn't stalk her, I just knew she was a vegan cause she was known as a vegan girl from school. Thanks for the opinion. Also I told her I'm currently not vegan, I was. I made that clear. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Update from yesterday. Success?How would I go on by doing it. Also, once again I fear she might not be interested. The only plus I see in this that I'm legit one of the only people in my city who actually was/is Vegan. Also, I'm in a very ethnic community.(She's the same race as me) She also spoke some words in our language which was random something I never heard come out of her. I would speak to her in my native she would just usually reply in english. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 07:47 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl interested?Made an update man, what do you think? https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/6qyi82/update_from_yesterday_success/ | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 07:15 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl interested?Ok, thanks. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 02:59 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl interested?Dude honestly, I just reread what you said. The whole short small talk first is genius. I'd say something like when the convo is over. Oh, also hey I'm gonna go to Starbucks soon to study you should come we can study for the midterm. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 01:42 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl interested?Alright. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 01:30 AM |
| 1 | How to get a girl interested?What if I say I'm gonna go to Starbucks to study soon, would you be down to come study together? | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 01:25 AM |
| 2 | Let's be Honest Here About VirginityTo me it even seems like life is also a game of luck. | /r/seduction | 01/08/17 01:13 AM |
| 3 | How to get a girl interested?Seems a bit forced doesn't it? Geussing this has worked for you. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 10:50 PM |
| 2 | How to get a girl interested?How does, I'm gonna probably go to Starbucks to go study for the midterm, if you want you can join me we can study together. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 10:26 PM |
| 3 | How to get a girl interested?What do you mean by that | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 08:22 PM |
| 3 | How to get a girl interested?I'm not scared of asking women out on a date. If she says she's busy, should I ask her later on if she's down to kick it? | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 07:23 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl interested?The thing is I fear she would decline studying with me. Or say she's busy. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How to get a girl interested?How would I bring that up in a conversation. Like me for example I'm into Music, playing guitar etc. | /r/seduction | 31/07/17 06:05 PM |
| 1 | 19M never had a girlfriend,kissed, etc. Need adviceI've kissed a girl on the cheek before. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 10:22 PM |
| 1 | 19M never had a girlfriend,kissed, etc. Need adviceFunny thing is every girl I've been out with I have escalated i.e touching etc.. but none of them were that into me for sex or even kissing on the lips. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 08:14 PM |
| 1 | 19M never had a girlfriend,kissed, etc. Need adviceThanks for the feedback. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 07:19 PM |
| 0 | 19M never had a girlfriend,kissed, etc. Need adviceI'm sure it won't. Just seems like I've been cursed for some reason. | /r/seduction | 16/07/17 07:19 PM |
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