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Text chains sunk my ex. Let her move on, set up her social life, have it conflict with her parenting time and be ready to take on all parenting responsibilities. Give her enough rope to hang herself This is what needs to be done. Don't argue, don't try to stop her. Just let her do her thing and document everything.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 07:55 PM
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I'm 9 months in and I started keeping a record and saving screenshots of texts and conversations. I'm not recording them in audio yet but writing down what she is saying.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 07:52 PM
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No prenup but we're in a no fault State so everything is 50/50 except what we brought in.
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 08:13 PM
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Do not get married until you're 35 Nope. Tried that on my second marriage. Worked on myself, dated and when I found "the one" I stopped seeing everyone else and strictly "dated," more like became best friends, her for over 6 months to make sure she really was what I was looking for. I asked her out and we dated for 6 years and then got married. Fast forward 10 years and one child and she comes out as gay and she knew she was for a while. I know not every situation is the same but it doesn't matt…
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/23 08:04 PM
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Truth!
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/23 02:53 PM
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Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 12:30 PM
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Yea. No paperwork has been filed. We're just verbally separated. She's already dating so it's definitely over. I just don't want her racking up bills on the card seeing it's only in my name.
/r/Divorce_Men02/06/23 11:58 AM
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Thanks. True that
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 08:49 PM
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Nice. I like this reply!
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 08:36 PM
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Yeah. I know. I mean, I wouldn't want her to live a lie though. I'll figure it out. I have an appointment with a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 06:14 PM
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Got an appointment. Not sure about financially being ok. I I'm a stay at home Dad. I don't drink and I've been working out to keep my stress level down. Not sure about finding the other side being wonderful. I've been through a few relationships and thought this was finally the one. I guess I was wrong again. I'm not even going to bother anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 05:14 PM
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She really was emotionally a lesbian and "figuring it out." A lesbian can still enjoy sex with a man physically, I'm really thinking this. . She wants to be your roommate and that was never part of the agreement. She already mentioned that. I only make about fifteen grand a year and was a stay at home dad for a year and a half, my son is two, I make $0 and we have a preteen. The system is fucked. I learned that a long time ago I am getting a lawyer. Just waiting on callbacks now.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 01:01 PM
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Yes she said she's lesbian. I hope after all the good times we had she would not ruin my life by being dirty. Now that I look back though she did have a lot of gay friends. Men and women. Maybe I should have seen it. Either way, I'm preparing. I found some good articles about what to start doing even before getting a lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 12:13 PM
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What makes you think she's violent? I will contact someone and get legal advice.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 11:45 AM
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Especially when I didn't get any vibes of her liking girls. She was all into me up until about 7 months ago. I mean, Love letters, affection and even sex was amazing. Who knows. I just think it's time to CMOA! I'm not going to get screwed.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 11:05 AM
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Honestly I'm not even thinking about sex. My wife just told me she's lesbian. I'm still processing this an haven't thought about sex since.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 03:11 AM
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Yes. No shit. I've been thinking that too. I told her that she better think again if she thinks I'm going to babysit so she can go screw around. I have to set some harsh boundaries.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:52 AM
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That's the thing. I don't think she has met anyone. She had a major life event and she said since that day she started to realize that she wanted to come out. It just took her another 7 months to do it. Even then, I had to pry it out of her.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:45 AM
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No signs at all. She said she felt like this for a long time but was just doing what she thought she was supposed to do and get married and have kids.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:42 AM
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I don't even feel like eating. Lost almost 30 pounds in a couple of weeks plus can't stop exercising because it's the only thing keeping me grounded.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:40 AM
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She said she's definitely not bi and there's no way we're having sex ever again.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:39 AM
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I know. It's making me sick though. This was the woman of my dreams. What I thought was the perfect life. And I got rug pulled.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:33 AM
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I haven't slept more than 3-4 hours since I found out. That's only after I basically pass out from being exhausted. As far as eating. I only eat when she's around. I usually feel sick and often throw up. So I understand.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:31 AM
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I'm sorry to hear that. The best advice I can give is just keep working on yourself. That's what I'm doing and it helps me through the hard emotions. One thing that really helps me is exercise or going for a long walk or bike ride.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:18 AM
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The emotional pain is unbearable. I didn't even have a clue. Bad enough I thought it was something that I did and it was all my fault. So I started looking at myself and making changes to me and my actions. Which in hindsight is always good to do anyway but when she came out with that, the realization that no matter how much I fixed me, it was never me to begin with.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 02:09 AM
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Wow. The first part of that sounds a lot like what I'm going through. Then the other day she told me that she was lesbian. I did not see that coming. My whole life is destroyed. Good luck to you and hopefully things will turn out ok for you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/23 01:58 AM
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