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I know this thread is a bit old, but I'll clarify: Hinge is notoriously the app for finding serious relationships Hinge absolutely shows the same people you've rejected (over and over and over) One of the better ways to train Hinge's algorithm is by selecting "report" and then choosing "I don't want to see this person" Hitting the "x" doesn't seem to have much of any effect for tailoring the algorithm to your own preferences, while going the "report" route does. I've used the same method myself:…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/09/24 12:00 AM
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It seems as though you're taking a strong all-or-nothing approach. I'm exaggerating for impact; I don't have reason to believe this is your actual mentality: "You think I'm aggressive?! Fine. Let's see if you like it if I never speak again!" "I'm too shallow? Ok, I guess you just want a girl who doesn't even try actively tries not to look cute!" "You think I'm too career oriented? Sure, how about I act like I'm not proud of my accomplishments, find no fulfillment in my work and am just wallowing…
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/23 10:16 PM
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Haha yeah she also didn’t want me to jack off. Very controlling. I became the perfect example, the cautionary tale, of the guy who employs TRP just enough to get the girl, only to discover that I was still - at heart - blue pill. I eventually dumped her and she’s been trying to get me back for years now. Anyway, look up the holy grail like I said, that’ll tell you everything that’s recommended.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/22 08:48 PM
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There is a medical procedure that can be done to bring abnormally small testicles into the normal range (not sure if it can be done if they were damaged as opposed to a genetic predisposition). I know it involves testosterone injections by a medical professional. Look into that. As for load volume: look up “cum holy grail supplements” on reddit. The recommended stack works. I didn’t need it, per sé, but my ex would closely analyze my output and accuse me of cheating if it didn’t meet whatever ar…
/r/TheRedPill30/06/22 05:16 PM
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I know this thread is a year old but I wanted to wholeheartedly agree. Austin is amazing in comparison to the small, garbage town I grew up in. That being said, the best way I can describe it is, as you so eloquently phrased it, "meh". It's easy game, sure, but your standards have to be pretty low to enjoy it. Austin is packed with self-impressed - albeit friendly - tech bros. The women are for the most part underwhelming: an Austin 9 is a Miami 6. [Mini rant: I am so sick of the glowing accolad…
/r/askTRP16/12/21 04:51 PM
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I can attest to this. The girl-next-door/innocent looks get the highest pay. I should know, that's why I dumped my "innocent" ex.
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 06:02 PM
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What the fuck are you on about
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 05:46 PM
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I was in a situation similar to yours. I was 25, didn't know how to socialize, had never been on a date, didn't even know how to talk to guys, much less girls. I felt robbed of my life, having been socially isolated my entire life and not knowing how to socialize and take advantage of the opportunities when in college (which I dropped out of). I'm here to tell you there's only a year difference between where I was and where you are, and it's no big deal. TRP transformed my life. I'm now 28 and s…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/21 05:00 PM
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That's very possible, but if you're surrounded by motivated men with goals and ambitions that gives you a model to live by. When you immerse in the typical demographic you'll stand out. A millionaire doesn't stand out amongst billionaires, but he puts anyone under him to shame.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 10:13 PM
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You can show vulnerability without showing weakness. Weakness states "I'm not strong enough". Vulnerability states "this is tough for me, but I will persevere." Edit: when my dog died, I cried in front of my ex. That wasn't weakness, it was pain. Weakness was when I complained to her how much I was suffering financially without stating my plan to fix it.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 02:26 PM
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Your final point really hit home. I set all sorts of boundaries in my last [only] relationship and get didn't mean shit because I wasn't even considering proceeding without my partner. I finally took that stance and broke up with her, ad it really drove your point home for me.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 02:25 PM
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I may be able to take a stab at this one. The way I was raised was to be a subservient, non-confrontational, meek "nice" guy. My dad said I simply didn't have the genetics to build muscle. I was taught that men don't dress fashionably. That sort of thing. After finding TRP, I was in despair - it all rang true but I didn't see any possible way I could ever be more than I was raised to be. Then I started applying the principals. The smallest acts of dressing better and lifting transformed my socia…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/21 01:31 PM
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Your point-by-point breakdown is absolutely incredible. You really delved into each statement with so much detail and explanation that provoked a lot of thought, regardless of its relevance to OP. After your explanations I am pretty sure my recent ex is at the very least either BPD/NPD. She made me feel like such a catch, was always telling me how hot/talented/perfect I was, and it never once occurred to me that it could have been a way of complimenting herself for her choice to be with me. It m…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/20 01:18 AM
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Being happy in an LTR is fine, but you must always keep your guard up, continue to improve yourself and keep gaming your girl. Look at it this way: if the two of you split up this very moment, she would be able to step into a bar and go home with somebody within 5 minutes. Would you be able to do the same? Constantly improve yourself and be alert.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/20 09:16 PM
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This! I used negative self talk my entire life into my 20's. I didn't get my first date until I started telling myself in the mirror each morning "I'm awesome." That single affirmation set the course for raising my self-esteem and confidence which translated to external success.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 07:59 PM
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She confessed to me. Her therapist told her that was the issue that kept making her feel like we were distant from each other and making her feel like I couldn't be trusted. I have to respect her for coming clean. She knew it would be the end and she did want me - she just wanted extra money too, enough to lose me. AWALT. Action with no consequences until one blows up in their face.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 10:42 PM
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My point is that the statistics exist, but they don't have to define you. Be the exception. Be the healthy 128 year old despite the drugs. Survive the 33,000 foot fall. Be the 5'3" guy with the hot girl. Meditation may not change your appearance but it will change your perception of yourself, which will translate to confidence. I'll stop, you're obviously not looking to make any change whatsoever. Best of luck to you.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:29 PM
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Make it your point to talk to everyone, everywhere you go, so that it becomes natural to you. Anything simple, like asking a guy if his iPhone 12 was worth the upgrade, asking for a suggestion when you're ordering coffee, even remarking on the weather. Just get used to talking with everyone so you move out of your comfort zone
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:16 PM
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Learn to build simple websites and tell them you're a software engineer. That's associated with high intelligence and high income. Or put a little money in Robinhood or a crypto or forex platform and call yourself a day trader.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:13 PM
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Do it. Girls like guys that don't give a fuck. My ex was an absolutely incredible dancer and I was the literal opposite. We danced on the first date and she fell HARD. She liked that I just got into it and didn't give a fuck. Same type you're describing, 10 model. Also, learn to dance. Two step. Something cool with your hands. It's not that hard. Just be in the crowd and don't show your discomfort.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:11 PM
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There's two ways of looking at it. If you mean you're trying to hook up on the spot and they bring it up, then yeah, it sounds like they're looking for something more long term than a ONS. If it's any other situation, they could be planning for logistics. I guess keep your guard up and decide whether you want any involvement with single moms or if that's an immediate hard next.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:07 PM
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Stop with the statistics. Statistically speaking I should be earning less than half of what I earn now. Statistically speaking I should be heavily medicated. Statistically speaking I should be an abusive asshole. Statistically speaking I should have committed suicide by now. Drop the statistics, they are only bringing you down. I sympathize with you so much my man. That height is a huge deal and that's a fact. I can not and will not deny it. Don't worry about head shape. Purposeful baldness alwa…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 09:06 PM
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Focus on yourself. Become the oneitis for all the other hot girls you haven't yet met. Tell yourself that you are the prize, and treat yourself that way. Force yourself to look at other girls as potential dates. The way to conquer oneitis is to tell it to piss off.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:53 PM
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When girls compliment other guys around me, I agree with them. "Yeah he's super hot." They're just saying stuff to get under your skin. Show that it doesn't phase you. Then when they're gone, look at what you lack compared to who they complimented and make that change for yourself.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:51 PM
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5-8% means you've got visible abs. That's good. Now pack on the lean mass.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:50 PM
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You're in an incredible track! Keep it up! Video games are worthless Porn is damaging Traveling is more fun when you have a huge bank account and stay in 5-star resorts Keep on your track. Your friends are wasting their lives and you are building yours. I did the same. No porn, no video games, just focused on learning a high-paying skill and working out. When I started dating, I was making 6 figures and traveling at will. I had a kick-ass car and was a free agent, whereas my friends were with un…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:49 PM
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You can't unplug someone. I read all the sidebar and practiced TRP until I met my unicorn (hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha). Then I let it all slide until I confirmed the cheating. I had all the knowledge and beliefs but I willingly blinded myself. Your friend has neither the knowledge nor the belief. This is his path, just be there for him when it goes to shit.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:44 PM
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Just be passionate about it and show your passion. Girls like a guy who has a passion, a goal, something other than chasing women.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:41 PM
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Try pygeum. Natural herb that will get you rock hard. Don't use it if you're prone to migraines. Worked for me in a molly comedown.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:40 PM
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I think they are aware if you ever go to their place/invite them over you'll either meet their kid or be aware that they had to find a sitter. They're being up-front with you so that you aren't scared away in the future, as I'm sure they've experienced before. I think you're doing fine; you'll know they're after you as a provider if they want you to bond with their child, do something "as a family", anything other than hooking up with you.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:37 PM
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Not your friends. Ditch them and build a strong social circle that adds value to your life
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:30 PM
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Get yourself together. Resolve the issues that you used to enable your abusive behavior. There's no place for that. Stop chasing this girl, cut her loose and work on yourself. Become an alpha. Alphas don't abuse, they lead.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:29 PM
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Brilliant guide (Uncle-V), I haven't seen that before.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:25 PM
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Don't take weeks. Meet ASAP.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:18 PM
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Have stuff going on in your life so that there is actual mystery to you. Layers for her to uncover. You're intriguing at first but every time she peels back a layer she is more intrigued than before. "How are you sensing this?" "Well, I was doing social work in Africa and a shaman cast a spell on me." Boom. Now you're intriguing, well-traveled and mystical.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:15 PM
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Be amused by the topic. Let your humor come through. Relate things back to her. Introduce kino.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:12 PM
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Birth control can absolutely be a candidate, very common. Maybe try getting her off of it and seeing if things improve. Dread won't work if her hormones are that shot - she wouldn't even want Chad in that state.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:10 PM
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Be interesting. Be good looking. Lift and build muscle. Read Barron's and read "How To Win Friends And Influence People". Start conversations with random people. Listen more than you speak.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:08 PM
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Be interesting, be good looking. Good looks gain their attention, being interesting holds their attraction.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:05 PM
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If the clothes look bad on you, they're not right for you. Get the right clothes and make sure they fit. Get them tailored if need be. Go to an actual barber and get a haircut that matches your style - barbers can give excellent, honest recommendations. Receding hairline? Shave it all off, bald looks good when you're muscular. Ugly face? Find the things you can improve. Dental work is a thing. Acne can be cured. Moles can be removed. Posture can affect you greatly. Weight can be lost. I improved…
/r/askTRP21/11/20 08:01 PM
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Keep your options open the same way hers are. If you break up she can have another guy in 5 minutes. You should have had same power. Be good looking, be social, master your finances, talk/flirt with women.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:52 PM
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Girls act on emotion. You could be the literal perfect specimen but all it takes is one guy that gives them tingles when you're not around to make them risk you. They don't value you, they just like the way you make them feel. If you have a single shortcoming they will latch onto it emotionally and justify their actions.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:50 PM
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My ex was a literal whore too, clients paying for sex. It hurts. I went no contact when I learned. Focusing on myself, my business, and working out. Give yourself time to process it and do NOT try to figure out "why". She did it because she wanted to. Become the best version of yourself and realize this is always a possibility.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:44 PM
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Maybe they want to hook up, maybe they want a provider. Keep it to the hookup and don't invest in a relationship at all, and WRAP IT
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:41 PM
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If you're not attracted that'll happen. I realized pretty early on if she wasn't very attractive I just couldn't get it up. Define your standards and stick to them. I bet the hooker was hot.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:38 PM
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"Serial killer with immaculate taste in cheese" "Only one way to find out" "Interesting you bring that up, I've been looking for a partner in crime" When girls would ask what we'd do for a date, I'd tell them we'd pull a bank heist. It's banter, enjoy it.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:34 PM
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You can change. Hardwired connections can be unplugged/cut. Get a social life, hit the gym, realize that the girl you're obsessing over is one of billions. Been there, the only way through is to constantly improve yourself. Obsess over yourself.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:31 PM
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I got friends that don't even know my real name still This cracked me up. I'm the same with conversation but this is just perfect.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:29 PM
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I met a true unicorn. She ended up abusing me in every way and cheating on me. All of her exes are still obsessed with her - everyone considers her a unicorn. AWALT. She was as different as they come. Yet in the end she proved everything in TRP. I lurked my way through it enough to date the hottest girl I've ever seen, abandoned my learning and got every lesson I deserved. Now I'm back in TRP and realizing everything is true. There are no unicorns. AWALT
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:27 PM
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Look at it as a learning experience. "Been there, done that" mentality. I dropped my standards just so I could lose my virginity, because I didn't want to be clueless with a hot girl. I cringe every time I think about it, but it gave me the experience I needed at the time.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:23 PM
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Constantly improve yourself. If you're hot, 5s idolize you and anything above is still in your league. Do you look different from 7 years ago? Has your social circle changed? Is your life interesting? All of these are major factors. I'm holding off on dating until I've regained the muscle I lost in my first LTR, because of rule #1: be attractive. Girls are still into me but I'm building my own confidence so that I won't have to scrape the bottom of the barrel.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:21 PM
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It sounds like you have a wealth of information and you tend to share it. A lot of people can find the conversation stimulating while at the same time failing to feel entirely comfortable with it or possibly even being intimidated by it. Listen more than you speak, focus on the moment, and when you're on a date, try to discuss subjects in which you take an active role. For example, "I volunteer at an animal shelter on weekends" will get you much further than "These are my views on the manner in …
/r/askTRP21/11/20 07:14 PM
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