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On her. Not on you? You seem a hopeless beta. I think she's way better without you.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 12:56 PM
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Hi chief. Thanks for your comment. Looks like it. I want divorce. And, after divorce... why should I plate a girl my age when I could plate a girl 10 yrs younger? I've got fed up of my shitty life. OK, I made the vows. They were void from the start. First, I was alcoholic by then. Church allows dissolution of marriage. Second, I broke them, by not caring. Third... dread level: MAX. Then, I started to think, why the fuck am I caring about this so much, what does it give to me. Nothing. I've had e…
/r/askMRP14/10/15 10:41 PM
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No. I don't want to save the marriage. It is unsalvageable. Discussion here helped me make my mind. I'm hardly compatible with this woman. I looked deep inside me and I saw that I can have whatever I need at lesser cost. I can't afford her ATM.
/r/askMRP14/10/15 10:28 PM
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Hi, 1) yes, kind of. Re-reading it now. 2) no, never, bought 2 days ago 3) yes, since 1.5 yrs, fucking love it, even got my diet together finally (low fats + carbs post-workout fit me best; working on mass now) 4) explain "manly". No, really, just explain. I have no problems assembling furniture, drilling walls, camping, chopping wood, I built a raspberry pi based robot + camera, wrote code for it, I can fix shit around the house, I've got a lot of hi-quality equipment; I love "manly" stuff, onl…
/r/askMRP14/10/15 10:20 AM
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She doesn't respect/like/want you, she just feels bad about herself because you seem to be slipping away. This looks exactly like it. Except that "I have sworn by the altar" I see absolutely no reasons to be with this woman. No reasons at all.
/r/askMRP14/10/15 10:13 AM
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3 boys aged 8, 6 and 7 months... ... and my belief, that I did not yet do everything possible. And, as you can see from the comments, there is much truth in this belief. I know, that it is a valuable lesson to me. Doesn't matter if we'll be together, I can learn this lesson now. I'm ambitious. I don't give up too easily. Maybe the lesson for me is, that the best way to win something is NOT to fight. I was alcoholic when I married; after 4 yrs I decided to sober and I started behaving beta, apolo…
/r/askMRP13/10/15 09:43 PM
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With all that said, I read your insecure post above, and have a translation of what she said. Translation: "Blah blah emotions blah blah so I don't want consequences for my actions blah blah emotional manipulation blah blah give me the pussy pass, ok? Blah blah blah emotional manipulation." Yes, I am seeking validation. This is what I've read between lines. You validated me. After some more posts like this I won't need you any longer, I'll be able to understand woman stuff myself. THANKS. Just i…
/r/askMRP13/10/15 09:45 AM
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Ah, come on, shrug it off. We understand. Did she shat your bed? Or, was that grease from MickeyD?
/r/TheRedPill13/10/15 08:27 AM
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If it's divorce. Acta non verbal. She filed. She can back the papers. It would be entering her frame if you give into those comfort tests IF you are dead set against trying to make it work. If your not so convinced then say it out loud that you feel conflicted. Partly conflicted, ROTFL. The deal is... I have a choice between a 1-2 months of honeymoon phase, then it's back to the sexless marriage, quarrels and perhaps cheating over FB/real life for me... and, another option is, divorcing her and …
/r/askMRP13/10/15 06:29 AM
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she wants you back in the beta box. My first, matrix-connected, bluepill thought was "OMG, she loves me, she wants me back". Then I realized, no, this is not the case. She wants beta-me back, so she can flit over FB, treat me like shit, go to another city using car I bought her and probably fuck another guy AND not have enough guts to set things with me straight. So, as I wrote in previous posts, I don't have any confidence, but I firmly believe it will be safer for me to drop her. No idea how t…
/r/askMRP13/10/15 06:05 AM
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What can you say, I let myself go totally by that time. The deal is, I thought I am improving. I gave up drinking, I lost weight, I met people. All was cool except my game. I started apologizing her for me in my past and started giving her stuff. I somehow still can't get over it, I mean - I'm like "shit, I was trying to be SO PERFECT and SO GOOD by that time". Nice guy - why not, but I fixed myself, I was able to measure it. This way after 2 or 3 years of such marriage problems I'm still stunne…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 08:22 PM
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Its his fault. Next step really does depend. Every situation is unique. It is 100% my fault. She cheated with her ex, she knows that guy 2 yrs longer than me, that makes 12 yrs or so. THEY'RE SOULMATES. TRUE LOVE (yes, this is sarcasm, but on the other hand, why that 'alpha fucks' wasn't that my neighbor, really?) I'm texting her because of that. If I can know anything in this situation for sure, I know that she will never give up contact with this guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 10:42 AM
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Glad to hear you're taking control of your own life. The deal is pretty simple. I was hooked up on reddit, reading multiple comments and posts about cheating women. Everything fit, but yet I was not willing to believe. I was not willing to give up my Disney fantasy. When I decided, when I realized, what actually is going on, when I stopped ignoring my gut feeling, I achieved CLARITY. I don't need this much time and this much posts on reddit I needed for the past few days. What I am going to do i…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/15 12:29 AM
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Good report, I dont have an opinion on whether you divorce, it doesnt really matter to the sub at large Well, it does matter, because I'll either stay subscribed or not! Just kidding, I'm getting divorced AF, fuck that bitch. If it means I can't join your club right after, well, shame on me, but I'll do that, still. The reason it doesnt matter is there are no rules about deceitful women. ... unless you're an MD working 24-hr long shifts, you better make some rules about such women in general (li…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 10:52 PM
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Talking about your dick size in front of your child. Not respecting you or herself enough to talk in quiet. I wonder what the fuck went wrong with me myself if my reaction to this after 10 yrs of knowing her is just a shrug. No, really. About her... typical emasculation behavior, she must have been well taught (when I look at her parents I wonder no more who did she take this from).
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 05:27 PM
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My lawyer knows about my situation, I called them 2 weeks ago. I'm not looking for new place yet, I paid 80% of mortgage from legacy money, why should I loose control over something that I own. Agreed on that 5 days. On the other hand, no pain no gain =)
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 03:15 PM
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she has some serious issues Like?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 03:13 PM
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You guys are harsh. I think this sub is very good the way it is. Harshness is what we all need. I realized, that I no longer have a wife in my heart. I have a roommate, a despicable one. I have no home - that's good, I'm free AND that's one more thing for "not working my ass off". I did not get that house with 30 years of mortgage, that's very good. 2 kids are mine, need to test that 3rd one, probably mine too. That's very good. There's that Chrome tune, "Wake up (Benny Page remix)" . My home is…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 01:42 PM
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Check in and let us know how you're doing as this progresses. Don't be shy about posting if you need a sounding board - we got your back. Thanks man. For today, my only main conclusion is that I really put the pussy, the woman and the marriage on the pedestal way too high and for far too long. And now... now I'm totally sick. Sick when I read about poor, fat beta trying to negotiate sex and attractiveness on AskMRP. I'm sick when I see another AWALT article at the main sub. I'm sick when I see P…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 09:07 AM
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So here's the deal. I wrote something very similar to this not long before everything suddenly turned around with my wife. Exactly - writing this is a manifestation of entering IDGAF. While we did not have the whole Alpha Widow drama, I believe that even in your case, restoring attraction is possible. TBH, I'm not sure if "alpha widow or just stupid". Before she knew me, she was talking with this guy over some internet chatrooms (back in the days!) for a longer period of time, 6 months or so. Sh…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 04:49 AM
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Maybe something to work on no? Even if the divorce goes through; still something that even a fractured family should have. I totally agree with this on you. Divorced or not, we're still living and we still have contact. We still live. You're right MRP does work, but only when we do. This sounds exactly like some stuff they say in AA, by the way. Regards.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 04:42 AM
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Took pictures of TV for eBay purposes, took it off the wall and put in cardboard box. Disconnected gaming gear, took pictures, put in cardboard boxes. Sat for 2 hrs at mickey d coding. Was honestly stoic, IDGAF and STFU for the whole day. There is more but that's not the point. I'm the guy who wrote "I'm on 1.5 yrs of TRP and it's not working". What I was missing was inner game and as /u/whinemoreplease wrote below, my decision. Now I have both clarity and direction in my life. It is a tremendou…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/15 04:41 AM
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Commenting "You're right, have an up vote" for the sake of IRONY!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/10/15 11:37 PM
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My advice for you is to get rid of the hotel scenario at all. Go for a walk, do some hiking, biking, ask her out to a gym, pool, whatever. Have a date. Think what you would like to do. Plan some interesting stuff. Go out, have fun. You seem to be clingy/needy about this sex thing and I bet this makes her pussy feel like a sand paper.
/r/askTRP10/10/15 11:16 PM
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You would be better off spending your time working on the self-improvement angle and trying to nurture and foster male friendships in the real world. What can I say, man, you were totally right. 3 or 4 days hardly slept, total fear, puking over MRP/askMRP, yesterday I created some plan, started doing some shit, feels much better. Thanks.
/r/askMRP10/10/15 11:04 PM
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Getting into hotel room means SEX. I bet this was slut defense. Did you give her any non-sexual reason to go to the hotel room? Like, "let's go see a movie, I've got a DVD and my laptop" or anything like that? It can sound stupid, it can sound unbelievable, but it must be something non sexual. Like, "OMG, look, how cool are those curtains in the window, let's see their other side". Or, "OMG, I forgot my left sock, we must get back there".
/r/askTRP10/10/15 11:03 PM
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After long period of lifting I realized I no longer like video games. OK, they need to go, cool. How about porn? I saw a porn flick few weeks ago. The girl? I didn't see a girl. I saw a female human being fighting for survival by selling her body in exchange for food and shelter, that's what I saw. She was UGLY. The dude, on the other hand, was pretty well built, low body fat and such, guy must have exercised. BTW, no homo. Stuff that they did had NO relation to the real world, choosing sexual p…
/r/askMRP09/10/15 07:11 PM
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How do you work on inner game? Is that a matter of picking thoughts that work for you and pushing aside others? Being bolder? I have no fucking idea. I'm working on this myself. Just have a look how guys at AskMRP or AskTRP destroyed me in comments. From what I see it is a matter of getting into one's own frame and acting from that. And, it should include abundance and amused mastery. Easier said than done. One time I actually felt "working on it" was NOT acting upon my thoughts of insecurity. P…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 06:47 PM
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I noticed what appeared to be dried vomit on the passenger side door How low do you want to go in your life? If I have to question her fidelity, she's not LTR material. You negotiate attraction, you beg for sex already. Maybe tell her you're sorry and go clean up her car from that vomit. Maybe you'll find semen stains. If you do, just lick them, smell them, masturbate and tell her about it. Be a fucking real cuckold for once, don't hide it from us.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 06:50 AM
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Not sure if sarcasm or trolling.
/r/askTRP09/10/15 06:42 AM
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I was in a similar situation. I'll tell it what it looks like. You will NEVER hear the truth. I once pushed a bitch so hard she confessed she fucked a guy, then as he saw me falling into betadiness she told me she was kidding. You will NEVER know the truth. It's either HARD EVIDENCE, HARD FACTS or nothing. Don't ask woman, she won't tell. Don't ask ex, he won't tell. The only thing you can do is to walk away from this situation. Not this particular girl, but this situation. The facts you're worr…
/r/askTRP09/10/15 06:41 AM
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But when she arrived, the gate was locked. The Farmer has never locked the gate before, she thought. Why would he start now? Man, love this story for this specific part. I wasn't aware of TRP for a long time, betided myself totally and AWALT happened in my marriage. But not any longer. My garden is locked. Lovely allegory .
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 01:08 AM
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And when you start being awesome, women want to fuck you. And then you fuck one and realize it's nothing too special. And it's much less work than getting a proper ABS. As Kanye line in "Classic", "when you can afford it, the car ain't important" Source: I'm me.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 01:03 AM
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I am in a situation where my wife is not taking her weight and diet seriously. In a few months I may need to move on Care to post your recent lifting progress pics?
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:53 AM
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she had sexual trauma (rape) at a young age I once dated a nurse, who was sexually abused by her uncle age 9. Great tits, small ass, we fucked like rabbits, everything was on the table and when I say everything I mean everything. She loved me. Man, those were the days.
/r/askMRP09/10/15 12:51 AM
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I'm not sure where are you coming from. You have pretty good conclusions: it is about acting alpha, IDGAF, aloof, it's not about dick size, why? She can't see your dick before she decides she wants to have sex with you. It's that simple. Her talking about ex dick was a gigantic shit test. There was some AskTRP post I believe about a woman who told a guy that his dick is small during intercourse. Most commenters wrote that this was a gigantic shit-test and that she wanted him to pound her harder,…
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 12:40 AM
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Holy shit, man, thanks for sharing this. I mean, the whole peaceful attitude that you accept this, you don't fight, you just go your way AND you never used "omg I have abundance mentality now" in your post. I'm going to use this as an example for myself.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/15 12:35 AM
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Collect bulletproof evidence, hire a PI, use key loggers, use sound recorders. Don't confront a guy EVER. If you need to use those means it means your relationship is already over, prepare to GET OUT, consult a lawyer, divorce, separate, part your ways. Source: confronted a guy, wanted to believe both his and wife lies badly, believed them. After a year or so I started to put the elements of the puzzle together, nothing fits, both must have lied as fuck, gut feeling AND impossible to confirm.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 11:42 PM
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Gold & sidebar!
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:22 PM
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Thanks, love your replies, your suggestion's interesting, but I'll stay with red cock ring AND a face tattoo :-) Seriously - thank for making me aware that this is attention seeking, somehow this escaped me. THANKS.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 10:22 PM
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Slowed down and STFU. Helped a lot and I'm having astonishing number of insights. Posting here to let you know your replies to my posts and comments are NOT wasted time. Win report coming in 12 months, though :-)
/r/askMRP08/10/15 03:25 PM
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Of course, I haven't. First I need to leave my workplace. Thaks for your support.
/r/askMRP08/10/15 03:38 AM
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no sleep = low T there was that post at TRP of a guy who wanted to get T shots from NHS, he didn't sleep for 2 nights
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 07:23 PM
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Later, I pressed her about it. I couldn't help it. WHAT THE ACTUAL FUCK. WHY. Also VICTIM THINKING, aren't you in control of what comes out of your mouth? When's the last time you've been lifting? Are you T-levels negative? How much body fat are you?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/10/15 07:12 PM
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It's the difference between beta puke after a year of trp, and 3 months till your improvements. That's what I actually did. I realized that when I think about myself, my plan, my mission, my stuff to do - I feel happy. So, I prepared a list of stuff that needs to be done... a funny list, because there are things that take 6 months AND things that will be done this Saturday. I felt much, much better. Happier. And, I've got stuff to do.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 07:06 PM
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It doesn't mean you instantly forgive her, and treat her as blameless, it just means that you can only control your part. I actually analyzed her behavior and reminder how she treat me. I am not a saint, by any means. But she... man. Man, man, man. Just took her off pedestal.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 07:04 PM
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Thanks. Done. First court case is planned no earlier than in February 2016.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 07:03 PM
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I analyzed this today. She's a manipulative psycho bitch. Perhaps AWALT and perhaps I acted beta way too much. Perhaps there are other problems, connected with addiction. When she wants people to love her, she's schweet.
/r/askMRP07/10/15 07:02 PM
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puking all over reddit instead of working on yourself is a waste of your time and everyone else's I realize that there's a profound difference between knowing something and doing something. But... recent changes in my mindset would not happen without that "puking" you mention. I agree on not posting here, I think I know where's that coming from.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 11:59 PM
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You messed wall socket and TCP socket.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 11:28 PM
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October 21, never forget.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 10:23 PM
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Perhaps the problem is when he switches that switch, YouTube goes blank.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 10:22 PM
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My wife, without question, think her SAHM "job" is harder and more important than mine. Not exactly. She thinks SAHM is the hardest work in the world. This is because it is the hardest work in the world SHE EVER DID. I was today at the gym with my 6 month old kid, he was laughing when I made silly faces while I did cardio. It was totally possible to take him there and do a leg day. I went there during low traffic hours, there weren't many people, because otherwise it would be too dangerous for h…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/10/15 09:49 PM
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Become a selfish motherfucker and treat her like a roommate she is Please give 3 examples that would not look butt-hurt.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 09:21 PM
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I think you're right. Also, from this perspective, either I get my shit together and I fix this situation, or divorce won't help at all. Divorce will just change legal situation between us two but it won't change anything else in my feelings and in my behavior. It's really time for me to think about myself, my life goals, my plan. To own my shit, whatever I did in the past, I own it today. Thank you.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 08:57 PM
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More I think about it, more I believe the divorce is likely to happen AND is also a much better option than staying together. I'm not sure how will I manage my relationship with kids after, I know they need me, I know I need them, I won't leave them alone... ... unless she moves somewhere, leaves abroad to work or whatever. This part does not look good. As for the new crew, I neither need it nor can support it at the moment, so sorry, but this is not the time to get a new crew for me.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 08:48 PM
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Cool. You expect, you highly doubt. The deal is, AWALT, she may cheat, she may "let herself go" additional 50 pounds. Chances are unlikely, but... You seem to be a really hardcore mofo, but don't forget about it please. I'd fight about kids if she was addicted or something. She's just childish and stupid. And, in that situation that occurred before the divorce, I also acted irresponsibly. And, 2 months... is your wife breastfeeding? I took my youngest to the gym today. He's 6 months.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 06:51 PM
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Well, I think I fucked up enough relationships because of similar approach. IMO red flags matter. Those "small lies"... maybe bitch wants you to make her accountable for her words and actions.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:11 PM
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If you ask me, this post actually screams "I have low value and I need to prove it to you guys". Phone? Maybe someone else checked "last calls"? Car? When I drive alone, my style is very different than when I drive with kids.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:00 PM
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WE LOVE YOU! What's the reason for this post?
/r/askMRP06/10/15 03:53 PM
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i wouldn't because i wouldn't spend time with people i don't trust in the first place. I'm not using "woman" and "trust" in same sentence ever. I won't spy, because I don't want to spend time nor money for this kind of shit. When I did that in the past, I was looking for sexual stuff and I was very excited (not in sexual manner) when I spied. High adrenaline. Felt addictive. Perhaps that's some kind of my fetish, or maybe it is true, that "control is the ultimate addiction". Also... I had an ide…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 03:52 PM
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Shit tests are foreplay. You hate that she was constantly evaluating whether you were a worthy man for her? I finally understood that yesterday. That she was heavily shit-testing me. Thanks.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 03:45 PM
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If we're meant to be together, we will grow up and be together. No such thing. You've been watching too much Disney. I didn't mean Disney. The deal is... I found TRP in the right exact time, not a month later, not a month earlier. Providence, fate, destiny, God? I chosen to believe. This does not mean I can just lay on my ass doing nothing. This means if I want something and do stuff to get this... I may get this... in the right, exact time, not a minute later or earlier. Somehow I think she may…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 03:44 PM
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a really good picture of drama here. In no way should you be fighting to keep this going. You should be improving yourself Exactly. Bitch loves drama. And conflict.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 03:05 PM
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you know you're not getting "it", really. Thanks for the up vote. How do you think, what would be the most important step in my life now to get "it"?
/r/askMRP06/10/15 06:02 AM
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I'll bring up her infidelity and contacts with ex bf for over 2 yrs, I'll bring up 2 or more witnesses of my bitch whining at group therapy, I'll bring up my notes how she behaved. Mind that this was BEFORE I (hopefully I) got her pregnant for the 3rd time - getting her pregnant might mean that I forgave her and all this won't count. If this fails, I own 80% of the flat we live in and she will probably want it. If she has anything on me and the court will accept it - we'll bargain. I don't want …
/r/askMRP06/10/15 05:51 AM
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I entered my marriage as an addict. After few years I started treatment. This changed relationship dynamics. Thus, even I find my wife guilty of cheating - I have proof for emotional cheating AND her words, that she would cheat physically if she could - I do NOT feel in position to throw a stone at her, I do NOT feel enough anger to retaliate in court. 50-50 custody. Why? I undestand, that if my wife entered a marriage with a 30-kg overweight jovial fatty alcohol abuser and heavy smoker she coul…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:55 AM
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Quit acting like you give a fuck. You don't, I know your looking for validation so here it is. Your wife is fucking someone else and you would be perfectly justified in documenting it, getting a bad ass fucking lawyer, put nothing in writing in relation to your pursuits or infidelity(delete anything close) speak to her as little as possible)), and admit to nothing. This was the case in 2014, I got some proof, I filed for divorce. Then, I fucked her and we have 3rd kid. She was pregnant. I cancel…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:31 AM
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check your kids. get them tested. 2 are mine; already ordered the kit for the 3rd one. Do you think my marriage is salvageable? Not your fucking problem right now. Your problem right now is you're a gigantic whiny spineless cunt. AYE! FUCKING AYE! Give me up to 12 months. I'll post a WR. ... what's a WR? WIN REPORT. Thanks for everything.
/r/askMRP06/10/15 04:23 AM
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Look man, I'll give it to you straight: you're a mess. You still believe that Blue pill fantasy that women will be loyal and true just because you're you. I just realized for the whole my life I was dating a girl because of safety. Seems I did not want a girl, I wanted MOMMY. Ignoring my own stuff to make mommy stay with me. Regardless of whether you stay with this woman (you shouldn't), you need to learn to love you first. You're all fucked up. Hit the Career Beta guide and pull yourself togeth…
/r/askMRP06/10/15 03:26 AM
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