| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 10 | Corporate LibFem wants to eliminate women’s right to self-protectWhere are you based out of? In studying abroad in Europe and would love to take advantage of this group! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 08:39 PM |
| 11 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONYes, it is. That's why I think she feels the need to gaslight herself. Considering how marginalized the LQBTQ+ community is, I could understand her trying to make herself "be okay" with casual sex because normal emotional sexuality is called demisexuality now. Liberal feminism completely screwed women over by trying to sell that we're just like men and have the same emotional and sexual wiring. Before libfems pushed this narrative this woman wouldn't feel abnormal for having emotions towards sex… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 07:07 PM |
| 41 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONShe probably feels like she has to because of all the nonsense messages women are told by society about how casual sex is empowering. Just the fact that the term "demisexual," exists implies that needing an emotional connection with a partner is some kind of other or abnormal sexuality, so I'm not surprised she's trying to gaslight herself. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:26 PM |
| 88 | FDS RESCUE MISSIONLiberal feminism convincing women that casual connectionless sex and trying to do this to themselves is normal and healthy is the biggest load of social engineering bullshit that was ever sold to women. It doesn't benefit us, situations like this only ever benefit men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!The only good I could see coming of this is using deep fakes to track people who are watching the stuff and lock them up for the good of society. At least in the US, can we please release everyone ever imprisoned for non-violent drug crimes? I'd rather live by a harmless guy who smokes wee and doesn't get off to child porn or snuff films. And would rather pay taxes to lock up all the men who watch child porn and sniff films. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:53 PM |
| 5 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!Shouldn't deep fake child pornography still be illegal even if it's not using real children? It's still catering to child predators and helping them possibly escalate to abusing real children. Same thing for snuff films, my understanding is that snuff films involve torture? Just because people want to watch something sick doesn't mean they should be able to. Even if it was made with a deep fake I would consider someone watching child porn or snuff porn completely degenerate. This is actually giv… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 03:02 PM |
| 16 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!Omg. Please say this is why he's your ex because you dumped him for this stupidity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:49 PM |
| 14 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!If pornhub doesn't verify well enough that the videos of the 15 y/o who was abducted were allowed to be uploaded, I highly doubt that they check videos for things like deepfake is really scary. Someone could just take your profile picture from and account, make a video and ruin your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:47 PM |
| 3 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!I didn't know it existed until now. But it's seriously making me consider deleting all my social media. And removing every picture of myself possible from the internet. I'm cursing myself for ever letting men I dated have pictures of my face. I naively thought I was safe from revenge porn because I've never sent nudes or risqué photos. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:40 PM |
| 15 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!After doing some cursory reading about the software, I don't see how it could bring any positives into the world. It seems like it can only possibly be used for negative reasons, be it deep fakes or propaganda. I'm very uncomfortable that it exists to be honest. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 02:37 PM |
| 17 | Man (21M) finds porno of woman who resembles his GF, lets his ego take over, puts his ego ahead of the relationship... "his pride won't have it". DAILY REMINDER TO TAKE ZERO SHIT FROM THESE MEN!!What is a deep fake? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/20 11:44 AM |
| 20 | Tradwives have no idea what real traditional cultures are like.OP, can I ask what culture you come from? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 04:45 PM |
| 2 | FDS works. Here's my story. It's long, so prepare yourself.This does not read like it was written by a woman. Seems like LVM larping as a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/20 02:49 AM |
| 3 | Parents and enmeshment, mama's boys versus girls relationships to father's and dating marriage, wondering what people's thoughts are?I've just always told them if they genuinely like me then they will respect the cultural difference and participate accordingly. Reasoning being, if they see any potential to take the relationship to marriage they should be willing to show proper respect to the man who raised me to be marriage material. Thank you for explaining the difference between enmeshment and my situation, since we advocate against mama's boys I wanted to check myself on if this was being a "daddy's girl." | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 11:45 AM |
| 7 | Parents and enmeshment, mama's boys versus girls relationships to father's and dating marriage, wondering what people's thoughts are?I have a childhood friend who also has this sense. If he or my dad tell me something is off about a guy, I dump them now. Every time I've not listened to their sixth sense because I had on rose colored glasses, something ended up being wrong with the guy in the end. So I've learned from experience that listening to them will save me a lot of time, trouble and heartache. Part of the reason I want them to ask his permission is he does pre-marriage counseling at our church. So there are questions h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 08:09 AM |
| 12 | Parents and enmeshment, mama's boys versus girls relationships to father's and dating marriage, wondering what people's thoughts are?My motivation is 2. I trust my dad's intuition to pick up on anything off about guys I might not being seeing through rose colored glasses. If he gets an off feeling about a guy the entire relationship would never sit right with me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/20 07:21 AM |
| 10 | When even weeboos and manga addicts make fun of pedophiles 😂lolis are underage anime girls but onee-sans are mature womenSomeone hit the breaks, please. I want off this planet. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Lurking on this sub for awhile, after reading a recent post about signals sent by men and women, I have a questionThat's why I'm asking. After spending time on the FDS sub I realized a lot of the women were single moms or are divorced. Both of those are situations I don't want to find myself in. | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 06/03/20 03:35 PM |
| -1 | Lurking on this sub for awhile, after reading a recent post about signals sent by men and women, I have a questionI've tried dating guys that I actually didn't find attractive because they were really nice to me, hoping that attraction would develop over time. However it didn't, and it's not fair to either person that one in the relationship finds the other unattractive. As far as signals, I've cooked dinner for most of my past boyfriends. Done laundry if they needed it and helped tidy their apartments of they were busy with classes. I'm getting a good degree and make my own money besides that my dad provid… | /r/WhereAllTheGoodMenAre | 06/03/20 03:21 PM |
| 2 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfLink? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 03:34 PM |
| 12 | I can't even. I'm good enough to fuck but not date wtfThe Y chromosome is falling apart? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/20 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Pickmeisha in the wild?I would honestly rather consider sister wifeing it up with another HVW and a well off HVM who could perform and was a good lover as opposed to monogamy with a LV porn sick man. I don't even think LVM realize that's how sickening they are. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:45 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha in the wild?My friends all swear the choking thing is normal behaviour. I'm so sad for them that they think it is normal. I would rather be alone than risk giving someone a 50 shades defense over my "accidental death" Honestly, the world needs way less people. We have more than what th earth is made to sustain. We would be better off if the weak men weeded themselves out by making themselves impotent with porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 06:42 PM |
| 13 | Pickmeisha in the wild?This might sound callous, but I think for the 18-30 crowd this is a new form of natural selection that's badly needed in the modern world. I think the dangers of pornography need to be taught in schools from a young age in health and sex education. But as a 23 year old who has had a fair number of interactions with porn sick men, I don't think there is any hope for the already corrupted ones. They're a lost cause. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 12:22 PM |
| 3 | Pickmeisha in the wild?Article link? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | How to become more datable and lovable?? For ugly girls?? Tired of the 100th rejectionFor the acne scars, would you be able to get prescription hydroquinone cream? An 8% strength helped mine improve greatly. And Glass skin serum from Peach and Lily if you're located in the US! Feel free to PM me for more scar care suggestions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/20 08:44 AM |
| 5 | How to figure out if he will be a good dad, would any FDSers with children be willing to share what vetting worked for them?Do you think there is any hope for someone who didn't have a good father figure to become one? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 07:53 PM |
| 4 | How I picture men who expect their wives and girlfriends to be their bangmaid mommies.Imagine trying to justify that this isn't roleplaying pedophillia. Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:57 PM |
| 18 | How I picture men who expect their wives and girlfriends to be their bangmaid mommies.I really hope people have the sense not to expose their children to this. Exposing children to their parent's links seems like it should be considered sexual abuse if it isn't already. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 7 | How I picture men who expect their wives and girlfriends to be their bangmaid mommies.I'm 23 and I usually date guys who are at least 29 or more because I feel like I'm dating actual children when I date guys my own age/age range. So I don't think you sound old at all. For example, last year I dated a 26 y/o who still actively played Pokemon. Like, wtf dude? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 04:01 PM |
| 85 | How I picture men who expect their wives and girlfriends to be their bangmaid mommies.How is that not closet (or not so closet) pedophillia? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 03:14 PM |
| 5 | Man gets life for kidnapping stepdaughter, holding her captive for 19 years and making her have 9 of his childrenSomeone had to date him and marry him for him to become a stepfather and gain access to the girl. I would consider it relevant because of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/20 12:10 PM |
| 11 | Reminder not to date men into Anime or Porn. This poor woman's marriage is being ruined by her husband's addictionHanding them an L? The first part of this is kind of problematic, it makes it sound like there is a correlation between having autism and being a pedophile??? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 08:00 PM |
| 43 | Reminder not to date men into Anime or Porn. This poor woman's marriage is being ruined by her husband's addictionThat's not a bad thing? I feel like porn induced ED/Inability to finish is going to be the next step in natural selection for the cushy modern societies we've created. And something needs to thin the gene pool. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 07:52 PM |
| 26 | Reminder not to date men into Anime or Porn. This poor woman's marriage is being ruined by her husband's addictionIt isn't a couple's problem. It's a him problem. He needs therapy. The commenters, y'all need Jesus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 07:51 PM |
| 44 | Reminder not to date men into Anime or Porn. This poor woman's marriage is being ruined by her husband's addictionPeople in the comments are telling her to stay with him and I can't deal with it. It's awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 06:35 PM |
| 25 | Reminder not to date men into Anime or Porn. This poor woman's marriage is being ruined by her husband's addictionI wouldn't date someone with an addiction. (Learned the hard way during my pickmesha days, dated someone in AA. Never again.) Where did you meet your boyfriend? I would love to have a partner who also enjoyed anime, but every guy I've ever met who is into it is gross over ecchi shows or watches hentai. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 04:46 PM |
| 63 | Reminder not to date men into Anime or Porn. This poor woman's marriage is being ruined by her husband's addictionI usually treat it as a mild red flag because it's so hard to find men who are into Anime who aren't using it for excessive escapism. Your husband is the first I've heard of. I actually also really like anime, but I usually avoid men who also enjoy it because every guy I've ever dated who was into it had issues that the common interest wasn't worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/03/20 04:14 PM |
| 39 | I guess another thing young women need to worry about now is angry short men infiltrating work spaces and intentionally trying to sabotage their careers because they can’t fuck or grow a couple inches.What is wrong with these people? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 06:48 PM |
| 18 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?I'm American and I greatly prefer uncircumcised. I mostly date European men now because Americans are always circumcised and I hate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 06:46 PM |
| 31 | How do you women feel about uncircumcised penises?I prefer uncircumcised. Uncircumcised makes hand jobs and oral a lot less work for the woman, imo. And I've never had an uncircumcised guy try to weasel out of a condom with the "but I can't feel anything," line. I think their increased sensation helps with this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/02/20 06:42 PM |
| 10 | Getting ready to put lots of effort into a booty call at 11 pmThis physically hurt to watch. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:06 PM |
| 9 | are typos a deal breaker? how to bring it up in a kind way?It kills me when I'm dating an engineer and they use the wrong your/you're. How did you survive upper level calculus but you don't know basic grammar rules? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:35 AM |
| 5 | Dreaming of a French lover? Think again! REVEALED: A fifth of French men don't change their underwear every dayGermans and anal sex | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 11:16 AM |
| 7 | Dreaming of a French lover? Think again! REVEALED: A fifth of French men don't change their underwear every dayI can't figure out why though. Like what from their culture causes this?! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Can you still expect a quality partner if you have chronic health problems?I'm sorry about your diagnosis. If you need to talk to someone who understands coming to terms with chronic illness, PM me. I also have Lyme disease unfortunately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/20 09:08 AM |
| 41 | Dreaming of a French lover? Think again! REVEALED: A fifth of French men don't change their underwear every dayHonestly, this is Germans. Can confirm because every German man I've ever dated enough to discuss possibly having sex with wants anal more often than regular sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Can you still expect a quality partner if you have chronic health problems?I also have ADHD, but I don't usually tell people about at because I understand the stigma surrounding it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Leveling up through networkingHow do I cross post? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 09:15 AM |
| 3 | Can you still expect a quality partner if you have chronic health problems?I guess it wouldn't. Sometimes I just struggle with not feeling like I'm defective because I have to have medication to function properly do to my body's inability to make what it needs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 07:09 AM |
| 13 | Can you still expect a quality partner if you have chronic health problems?Holy shit that's so insidious. I can't imagine someone trying to talk me out of taking my meds. I would yeet them out of my life sooooo fast. And I think they would change their tune when it made me gain weight. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/20 12:11 AM |
| 7 | Can you still expect a quality partner if you have chronic health problems?Sometimes I will go through periods that the medication needs adjusted and that can make me quite tired. During these periods I may need more help with house chores. For example, I might nee the guy to do 60/40 instead of 50/50. I've also seen other users say they wouldn't date a guy with health conditions like ADHD so I was wondering if the same applied in my case for quality men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 11:48 PM |
| 19 | Have you ever been in relationships where you liked your bf more than he does?If you're lying to people about an STD status instead of being honest with them it sounds like therapy would be in order before you worry about dating, tbh. That's a huge red flag to me about maturity level. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/20 12:39 PM |
| 51 | "Trad" pickme says she'd even accept a silicone engagement ring and that OP oughtn't expect to have a say in her ring. Turns out she's a forever girlfriend!My mom made my dad return her original engagement ring and get a different one because he picked something in a style she didn't like. He was happy to do so when he realized his mistake, he didn't know what to buy because my mother never wore jewelry to hint at a style and he wanted to surprise her.🤷 If a man wants to lock you down with a ring, he should buy something you like. I would see it as a red flag if the man didn't care if the ring suited the woman's tastes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 06:23 PM |
| 3 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustingThanks for the tip, I didn't know they could only be stored for ten years | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 12:24 PM |
| 11 | I kind of exposed this guy to all the women who could be his fiancé... long story how I found out. My heart was racing! I know it’s the right thing to do but I’m a quiet girl I normally don’t do this stuff but I felt so bad for his fiancé about to marry a cheaterMy grandmother once told me "Men are only as faithful as their options. If you want a really successful attractive man, be prepared to be content with him loving you enough not leave your marriage for anyone else, while not necessarily being faithful." I'll be damned if that isn't the truth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:46 AM |
| 13 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustingI think I really struggle sometimes because even though I'm only 23, all of my friends from high school are married or have children. All my parent's friends have grandchildren. Anytime I go home to visit I'm only ever asked about if I have a boyfriend or are dating anyone, even though I work as an undergraduate research assistant. It makes the pressure, and feelings of inadequacy for being single hard to manage sometimes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:14 PM |
| 27 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustingI asked my parents about helping me afford to pay to have my eggs frozen, since I'm just entering my career and can't afford it right now. They told me if I'm that concerned I should quit being so picky and settle down sooner 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:34 PM |
| 6 | Women who standard-shame other womenIn that context I wouldn't take it as a red flag. It's understandable he thinks it's the best place. I take it as a red flag from native born Americans. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:23 PM |
| 3 | Women who standard-shame other womenIn the US a man in trades may often be in a better position to provide financially and have less debt than someone who went to University. For example, I would rather date someone who completed post secondary education in a trade and makes 80k with no debt, than a guy with a masters in a field with no job prospects and 30k or more in student loan debt. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 09:18 PM |
| 11 | What is a random red flag that holds true? Let’s discuss patterns we’ve observed 👑👇🏽Felt the CS one in my soul | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Finding fit men, how to get approached at the gym? Other venues?Isn't getting used what the 90 day rule is for? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:18 PM |
| 2 | Finding fit men, how to get approached at the gym? Other venues?No idea, but I'm willing to look into it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:18 PM |
| 8 | Women who standard-shame other women"America is the best place on earth," is a red flag immediate boy get cancelled statement for me 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:16 PM |
| 44 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustingI really don't want to end up alone because I want kids and a family. I want to give them a strong father figure too. This holding out worth it, but makes ageing panic inducing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Finding fit men, how to get approached at the gym? Other venues?Puas? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:12 PM |
| 30 | A Note On StandardsBut you bet they have standards on who they take as a wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 08:03 PM |
| 70 | Healthy dating and marriage should not be this exhaustingI feel like everyone I know has a fucked up marriage like that and I wonder if it's possible to have a good, long term happy marriage? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 06:23 PM |
| 4 | Women who standard-shame other womenYou're not the only one sis. I want someone who also speaks my second language because I want my children to learn multiple languages from a young age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 05:23 PM |
| 9 | Women who standard-shame other womenAs an American from a non immigrant family being bilingual is more than most people. I'm working towards C1 in German. And B2 in Japanese and French. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:46 PM |
| 18 | Women who standard-shame other womenSame. I'm going "Prague, Tokyo, London?" I don't like to date other Americans because so many of them are monolingual. 😭 I want someone I can speak my second language with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Finding fit men, how to get approached at the gym? Other venues?The club sports teams at my university aren't co-ed :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:25 PM |
| 27 | Women who standard-shame other womenAre we the same person? I also have this problem with having lived abroad, men from my area not wanting to travel or not being very cultured. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:24 PM |
| 5 | Finding fit men, how to get approached at the gym? Other venues?I'll definitely look into that and see if it's available! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:29 AM |
| 8 | Finding fit men, how to get approached at the gym? Other venues?I live in a major city that isn't anywhere near good areas for hiking, or I would do that. Unfortunately, I can't run because I have a damaged knee from running cross country in high school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 10:07 AM |
| 9 | Soo settle-y and depressing. Yikes.This just explained one of my exes. I didn't know I needed to be made aware that this existed, but I needed to know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:38 AM |
| 15 | Soo settle-y and depressing. Yikes.Alexytthemia? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:19 AM |
| 1 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?Yes, but I'm trying to move to the country I'm doing my exchange in long term after I graduate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:47 PM |
| 3 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?When we discussed it he said he felt like wanting me to come home soon was selfish because he knows I'm enjoying my time abroad. I told him I didn't think it was selfish unless he started actively pressured me to change life plans to pursue a relationship with him, which he isn't doing currently. I told him if push comes to shove he has to follow me here because it's my country of preference for residence and I'm not giving that up for a man 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 07:00 PM |
| 5 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?A childhood best friend's husband works there. He confirmed for me that the policy exists. Otherwise I would have dropped him already because I would have assumed it was a lie. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:13 PM |
| 1 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?Proceeding with a lot of caution, especially since he isn't my first choice out of who I'm dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 06:08 PM |
| 22 | Um? Wtf? I hate when women support stuff like this. Rough sex? Really? 😒😒😒Cat girls? I don't even know if I actually want to know what fresh porn sick hell cat girls is coming from 😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:14 PM |
| 22 | Um? Wtf? I hate when women support stuff like this. Rough sex? Really? 😒😒😒That's why. I don't have Twitter or any other social media besides this sub on Reddit. I find SM to be a waste of time and a hamper on productivity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:13 PM |
| 6 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?I'm extremely busy luckily. I went to a country in eastern European last week on my own for four days. And I'm getting ready to start a four month internship in my field for my bachelor's thesis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:02 PM |
| 18 | Um? Wtf? I hate when women support stuff like this. Rough sex? Really? 😒😒😒I'm 23 and I've never heard anyone say this. How young are the girls using this language? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:01 PM |
| 2 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?I'm not. I've still got guys in rotation where I actually live too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 05:00 PM |
| 2 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?He works 7-5. I think he goes to the gym sometimes after work and often spends a lot of time with his dog. We don't have a status right now. I didn't want to agree to one before I left home after Christmas, but he says he wants to try something when I get back. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:59 PM |
| -4 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?My gut is telling me he's a high value male, but I'm not sure how interested he actually is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:56 PM |
| 6 | His job makes everyone lock their phone up, so we can't text much during the day. How to handle?Not a lot, but sometimes he won't answer or write for over an entire day. So then when he says stuff like "I can't wait for you to get back," I'm not sure if he is breadcrumbing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/20 04:55 PM |
| 4 | Most men don't care about their sexual healthI thought men couldn't be tested for HPV? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Despite 2 restraining orders, Amie Harwick’s LVM ex-boyfriend broke in, strangled her, and threw her off a balcony, ending her life. Reminder to break it off EARLY and COMPLETELY with LVM, before they get attached.Oh, that's why I've never heard of it. I thought you were referencing a very recent event. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:19 AM |
| 3 | Despite 2 restraining orders, Amie Harwick’s LVM ex-boyfriend broke in, strangled her, and threw her off a balcony, ending her life. Reminder to break it off EARLY and COMPLETELY with LVM, before they get attached.How have I never heard about this? That's horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 10:06 AM |
| 5 | Despite 2 restraining orders, Amie Harwick’s LVM ex-boyfriend broke in, strangled her, and threw her off a balcony, ending her life. Reminder to break it off EARLY and COMPLETELY with LVM, before they get attached.ALL OF THIS. I'm studying STEM and there are a lot of guys with serious issues. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 09:30 AM |
| 3 | "You need to pretend to not be as smart or it will intimidate boys/men"This is what I want too! I'm studying to be an engineer so I can afford to have au pairs who are native speakers in the house from the time my kids are babies. 😄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:33 AM |
| 6 | "You need to pretend to not be as smart or it will intimidate boys/men"I think it intimidates American men because I'm not an immigrant. I had to move to the country of my second language for over a year and take intensive courses to learn it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Do you consider personal improvements like improved mental health leveling up?I have TMJ and it was making my jaw hurt really badly. That helped. I think more than that, i just looked at how ugly my hands were and thought "I hate this. I'm doing it to myself. I have to stop and I have to stop today." I finally just found the willpower to make myself knock it off. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 11:12 PM |
| 35 | When you find out he follows Instagram PornographyI always wonder if these same boys would be willing to marry girls who had posted or been paid for pictures like that. What are you going to do if your son finds those on the internet in 20 years because a LVM raised another LVM who is looking at pornography and he sees his mom?! Ugh. The absolute state of men is appalling. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 11:42 AM |
| 12 | Men using "feminist" buzzwords to violate your boundaries and pressure you to have sex you don't want.I also want to watch this episode, which one is it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:08 AM |
| 55 | When you find out he follows Instagram PornographySame. We're both students and the guy commented that the girls do it for money. Well, no shit but shouldn't you be incensed that they have to debase themselves because of financial desperation instead of supporting them being taken advantage of? It's morally abhorrent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 08:06 AM |
| 48 | IMO insecurity is the biggest thing you should avoid in a man. What are some signs of insecurity that youve noticed???Unwillingness to take direction in bed is a huge insecurity red flag for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/20 12:47 PM |
| 27 | The golden pussyWhat is the golden pussy? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 10:27 PM |
| 13 | AnalIf that's not your thing that's fine too! To each their own and make your boundaries clear on not liking it. Never falter on them or feel bad about them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:35 PM |
| 35 | AnalI once dated a guy who did enjoy having it done to him and so we did everything properly. It can be enjoyable if your partner isn't a blithering idiot and understands how to go slow and prepare everything. Edit: the problem is most men are idiots who just watch porn and don't understand how much preparation and foreplay it takes to make anal enjoyable for a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 12:18 PM |
| 26 | LVM jealous of baby because he himself is a babyI can't believe this comment got down voted? What is wrong with people? But isn't that dysfunctional? A father's role is of a father. Not that of an another child. Only siblings get logically jealous. Adults shouldn't act like jealous toddlers because they are the ones meant to care for the kids. This x1000 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:55 AM |
| 15 | Has any dude that says he “speaks sarcasm” ever turned out to be HV?Run from anyone who identifies with any of those characters, goodness that sounds awful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 08:49 AM |
| 5 | What’s the deal with military men?My dad is retired military and told me never to date service members because of the amount of cheating he saw go on. That's all I need to hear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 12:37 PM |
| 9 | It's okay to not want to "try new things" in bed.He always said he wouldn't ask me to try anything he wasn't willing to also let me do to him, and it was true. Anything he wanted to try I did to him first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 10:34 PM |
| 59 | It's okay to not want to "try new things" in bed.What if they do want you to do it to them too though? I've been with a guy who wanted anal just as much as he wanted to give it. However, he was willing to take the time and had the patience to practice it correctly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Woman engaged to “gamer” does all the household chores and works full time but her fiancé can’t be bothered to come down for dinner she prepared because he’s playing Fortnite. The worst advice subreddit on this entire website blames her.What do you do if you mom is the "will not" person in your family? Because of this I get stuck doing all the cooking when I'm home from Uni. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 08:06 AM |
| 2 | Is planning and paying for dates still HVM behaviour if they always ask what you want to do on the dates?Yes. We'll discuss what we want to do and on what day, but we usually set the time and meeting place later during a different discussion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:21 AM |
| 1 | Is planning and paying for dates still HVM behaviour if they always ask what you want to do on the dates?This is why I was confused | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/01/20 08:18 AM |
| 11 | Sharing history of abuse with potential HVM?I've been to extensive therapy for it/the resulting PTSD and made huge leaps in personal growth about it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:23 AM |
| 3 | Sharing history of abuse with potential HVM?I just don't know if I should mention some of what happened, specifically French kissing. Because if what happened I hate it and usually men find not liking that very odd because it is so common. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/20 12:21 AM |
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