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Mate, I will be the first person to admit that I am generally pretty bad with girls. At least getting somewhere romantic with them, anyway. That being said I can get a hug out of probably 7 or 8/10 girls I speak to. How? It’ll probably sound ‘beta’ to half the people here but treat them like people and smile, be friendly, be flirty and laugh. After a few minutes of building rapport, when you’re ready to walk away, just open your arms out and say “hug?” If you haven’t creeped her out then she’ll …
/r/seduction04/12/18 12:09 PM
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In this case (and others of its nature), I can’t understand what makes these guys think that snapping a pic of their dick and sending it to strangers is going to get them anywhere. Maybe it’s worked once for them and they see it working again, I don’t know. It really is damaging to society though. One or two instances can alter perspectives in the wrong direction and it’s those who’ve not done harm that often suffer... shit has got to get called out more often.
/r/seduction07/07/18 09:23 AM
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I just don’t get it haha
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:17 AM
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So for the longest time I’ve wondered why women don’t post here... this post was up for a total of a fucking minute before you posted your dick. I wonder no more... this is why women don’t post here.
/r/seduction07/07/18 07:11 AM
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I'm introverted and that's what led me to this post initially. This post is fantastic, but not just for introverts. I think this is solid dating advise for literally anybody. It all starts within, and you outlined that brilliantly. Going from mental attitude to body language. Through physical fitness and nutrition to actually building a life that's interesting and attractive to both yourself and people around you. That's what everybody needs to have in there heads and always refer back to: "I'm …
/r/seduction30/05/17 08:14 AM
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I wasn't expecting of you to have asked him on the first date. I was just curious if it had been mentioned because like I said, I'd dig it. The guys who say it's wrong to do what you did simply feel emasculated. They're insecure (like everybody is about something. Don't get that twisted people). Like I said, just fucking ignore them.
/r/seduction30/05/17 08:03 AM
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I fail to believe that girls have less sex drive than men. In fact, I think I'd put money on girls being hornier than men, most of the time. Girls are conditioned not to express it openly through fear of being slutshamed (which is obviously wrong).
/r/seduction29/05/17 04:02 PM
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OP. Firstly, seriously well done for breaking the social norms and overcoming any fears. You stared rejection (fear) in the face and acted in spite of it - that's courage. You have more balls than 95% of this sub combined, me included. Secondly, I'm glad your date went as well as it did. That's a message to literally everyone that maybe it's worth the difficult task of facing rejection. Thirdly, honestly I skimmed through the majority of your post because it was so long and I'm tired so I apolog…
/r/seduction29/05/17 03:58 PM
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I'm going to try this. I will fucking try this. I have to try this, for my sake. Working nights in retail makes this just a little bit more difficult but I'll make it work. How far should the conversations go though? That's the only question I have. This is the kind of reply I was looking for, by the way. Something practical. I'm going to do this and I'll update r/seduction in 30/ and/or 60 days. I'm taking you guys along with me.
/r/seduction25/05/17 04:43 PM
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Cheers mate.
/r/seduction25/05/17 03:00 AM
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Thanks for the good words. I'll put it to use!
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:55 AM
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Thanks man. I intend to make this time the time. I don't want to be sitting in the same position in a few months.
/r/seduction25/05/17 02:51 AM
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I'm pretty sure offending people who need help shows you're rather hopeless, mate.
/r/seduction11/01/17 07:50 AM
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There isn't any sarcasm there, positive thinking won't get you all the way, but I'm a firm believer that it can take you eight tenths of the way there.
/r/seduction07/01/17 11:45 AM
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He did. But so did Einstein, decades before a fictional character did.
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:56 AM
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u/ThrowawayPUA maybe it would be wise to put field report guidelines as a pinned post on the sub? I fear putting them in the sidebar might make them too hidden, especially to new guys and even more so to this who use their mobiles. I get that it should be natural but today was the first time I read a field report that actually had any sort of value giving in a long time. I feel they should involve a section at the bottom or at intervals throughout talking about what OP was thinking/thinking abou…
/r/seduction07/01/17 06:14 AM
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Probably the best written FR ever. Congrats on the while thing. You owned it. Really inspiring! Keep it up brother.
/r/seduction07/01/17 05:51 AM
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Dude. Just read your post from four years ago (I've only been around for 8-9 months). I'm in the same boat you were (and are in currently) and that story hit home, maybe more than anything I've read. Re-read that story. Re-read it again. You can do it. Use what you've done in the past as confidence for the future. You've done it before, you will do it again. Best of luck, loser. ;)
/r/seduction06/01/17 07:05 PM
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Yeah, no, I know what you meant brother. I realised after I typed the comment it'd come off as weird. I'll try to make the point again. Doesn't matter if it's placebo or not, it still works to some degree and as long as it works, who cares?
/r/seduction06/01/17 04:59 PM
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If you like said girl (who you said you were going out with) then ask her out. Seriously you're just lying to her and, more importantly, yourself if you mask your feelings. It may make things weird if she says no but trust me, you'll feel better having aired your honest self vs a version you want to show her because you're afraid of making things awkward.
/r/seduction06/01/17 03:20 PM
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I won't argue for or against this as I haven't tried it, however, you mentioned it possibly being placebo. Who the fuck cares? If it works it works.
/r/seduction06/01/17 03:17 PM
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I am in the same boat, you know. I'm fully aware it's not easy but do you really want the rest of your life to go the way it is? That the question I ask myself every time I talk myself out of it. Fortunately I have past experiences with rejection and humiliation and I'm still standing (well, laying; I'm in bed) so I can always go back to those as references. I get the feeling you don't, however. If you want it bad enough, you'll find a way. No matter what. We're men. We lead. It's time to fuckin…
/r/seduction05/01/17 06:18 AM
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Second this.
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:38 PM
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Ok. All this is bollocks. You can change, but you have to want it enough to go for it. It will not come to you. Step-by-Step guide on how to increase social skills The video isn't mine but I stumbled across the channel recently and was blown away by the usefulness of the content he created. Give it a watch.
/r/seduction04/01/17 05:35 PM
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Check out Improvement Pill on YouTube. He did a great video on it. That and his other videos are all super useful.
/r/seduction04/01/17 04:54 AM
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Picked the book up a couple of weeks ago. About 60 or so pages in and it's good. Not as good as Models as of yet but I hold high hopes.
/r/seduction04/01/17 01:10 AM
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Approach Anxiety is my biggest hurdle. I'm working on it... slowly. Buy a course? I'm out of the house so I won't be looking them up until later but I imagine they're unworldly expensive? Do you journal? It's something someone else recommended and I started it yesterday and don't feel like it'll work? If you did/do, how'd you go about it? I've had big moments that break my comfort zone (whilst on holiday; asked two fellow tourists, on their own trip, for their numbers, proceeded to meet them tha…
/r/seduction03/01/17 06:44 AM
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Approach Anxiety is a bitch. It's easily the one thing stopping me making any progress. By the sounds of it only way to tackle this really is to approach and learn. Self-evaluation. I'll certainly check out the RSD videos and it's really surprising seeing Manson excluded from your top books. Thanks for your help man! Here's to a stellar 2017.
/r/seduction03/01/17 06:37 AM
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It's a logistical nightmare but I can try. I work nights, finish at 6am, go to the gym and leave by 8. I don't live in a busy city so it's not busy whatsoever. I'd have to cram them in all over Friday and Saturday. Plus AA is strong with me. Hitting on girls sober will be hard.
/r/seduction03/01/17 06:32 AM
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Two questions. What counts as an approach? Is it simply asking for directions or casually talking to a cashier, bartender or receptionist? Or is it trying actually hit on girls? and What happens if we don't make five? Just move on to week 2?
/r/seduction02/01/17 08:59 PM
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Improvement Pill reference?
/r/seduction02/01/17 08:56 PM
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I'm holding you accountable man. Let's make 2017 ours.
/r/seduction02/01/17 08:56 PM
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As someone who wants to make 2017 a success in this department I'd really appreciate some pointers. What steps did you take to get through it? Did you delve deep into self-improvement? Or was it a "fuck it, I'll talk to her and hope this shit works?" Or maybe it's something else? Like I said, I want 2017 to be mine and this is the one area I'm lacking in the most. Any help would be appreciated? PS - Congrats on the great year by the way!
/r/seduction02/01/17 08:49 PM
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Thanks for the help man! I'll be sure to implement the gratitude thing too. It might help enforce a positive mindset... and whilst that isn't something I find all that difficult, I think it can only do good things.
/r/seduction02/01/17 01:42 AM
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Is that a bad thing?
/r/seduction31/12/16 06:20 PM
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Any pointers on how to start a journal out? Never done something like this before...
/r/seduction31/12/16 01:01 PM
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I get what you're saying Spike. The journaling thing seems very practical, which I like. Will probably give this a go.
/r/seduction30/12/16 12:31 PM
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I like this. This is aggressively to the point... and something I'm very in favour of adopting. Just gotta be careful about becoming narcissistic... don't want to be doing that.
/r/seduction30/12/16 12:29 PM
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I'll look into it for sure!
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:24 PM
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Thanks man! I need to learn to accept my flaws for sure. As with all of this, it's something I'm eager to get the best of but not completely sure how to go about it... 😐
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:11 PM
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Insightful! Thank you bud!
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:09 PM
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Incredibly helpful comment. This is the sort of thing I'm looking for. I'm much more of a practical guy so to see a list of things I can work on makes it easier in my mind. I may end up PMing you in the future for more information but until then, thank you!
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:08 PM
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I like the idea of positive affirmations. I've started doing them every morning. Speaking in third person about myself in front of a mirror. Not even five minutes of my time. Will it work? Maybe, maybe not. I'd like to think it will - so hopefully it will. I can only try. Thanks for you words of encouragement.
/r/seduction29/12/16 08:02 PM
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That's a long arse process. I don't often find my morals or values questioned on a daily basis so to almost 'strengthen those muscles' is quite tough for me. I guess it's just about holding strong when they are tested.
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:33 PM
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I'm not a slob in my mums basement. I'm 20 and do still live at home but with serious plans on moving out. I have a relatively stable job and begin a hobby in the next two weeks that allows me to get after what I want in life. I work out no less than twice a week (wish it was more) so my body is pretty good. I am getting somewhere, just not very fast.
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:31 PM
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>Are you the Confident, Fun, and Exciting guy a women wants to be with? All things I want to work on. But confidence, true confidence, is something I'm concentrating on at the moment. That's the point of this post. I see this mindset as the final destination of developing confidence. If you can truly believe that you're the prize then the chances are you are a confident, fun and exciting guy. I do need to ask though; I don't know how to be 'fun' or 'exciting'. My definition of having fun is prob…
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:28 PM
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His post is like a story. You start off with the negative, he begins to swerve you - making you feel like he's being arrogant and then he closes making you feel like you just want to throw your fists in the air in congratulations. Honestly, fantastic post. Will save and revisit again and again. Thank you.
/r/seduction29/12/16 07:12 PM
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I have to say, I never finished the linked article, I read the article about teasing and how to do it right as it's an aspect of this that I need to work on (one of many) and the article was well structured and very well written. Not an expert with women or at writing (unfortunately) but you have potential with the latter for sure! Great stuff!
/r/seduction28/12/16 06:42 AM
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And as a sarcastic person I understand that what you said was simply an example of such. That wasn't sarcasm. My point was I am not in a good position with my self confidence and would like pointers. That's the bottom line.
/r/seduction28/12/16 05:38 AM
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This is one of the best articles I've read on this matter and as someone who does sometimes feel this way it really sheds light on why it happens inside our head (because lets be honest, thats the only place it happens) and how we can tackle it. Summed up, to stop being creepy; a) stop thinking you are b) learn to be confident through challenging oneself constantly. Set goals and look to achieve them.
/r/seduction27/12/16 09:16 PM
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How do suggest one who does work in retail and is average looking (which I do/am) finds it within himself to truly like myself?
/r/seduction27/12/16 08:46 PM
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So how does one tackle a negative mindset? Is it literally as simple as fighting off negative thoughts with positive affirmations? What worked for you personally?
/r/seduction27/12/16 08:37 PM
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Probably the best comment I've read in a long while.
/r/seduction27/12/16 07:20 PM
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Dude... I've jumped into a little bit of what you linked in there and I really like the concept of it. You mentioned torrenting what he sells... any ideas where I can get it?
/r/seduction22/12/16 01:25 PM
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Buy a copy for iBooks or your tech's equivalent.
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:16 AM
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OP needs to read this. In fact, I feel this could be sidebar worthy. Seduction is another form self help/improvement. Mastering oneself, if you will. We mention subconscious messages we send out all the time on here and our insecurities are a big part of those messages. Tackling those head on will be a big step in helping ones problems.
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:15 AM
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Coffee shops don't just sell coffee. They sell all sorts of drinks... water, tea, coffee obviously... I've read through many of your replies to people on the thread and you're beating yourself up over fuck all. I'm 20 and still a virgin. Does it suck? Fuck yes. Do I get down about it? Absolutely. Difference is I make myself aware of the situation and try and correct it. I don't beat myself up, or blame myself, or find shit excuses. I use it as motivation. I read on another post that seduction is…
/r/seduction21/12/16 11:02 AM
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Seduction in a nutshell.
/r/seduction21/12/16 10:46 AM
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Dude, this is great. Maybe a challenge I'll consider adopting, even. As someone who also lives in the UK, albeit a bit more into the countryside compared to London, I've always had an irrational fear of women being less receptive than out American counterparts. I'm just starting on my journey and this is a fun challenge to read and learn from. You're abundantly more confident than myself so if I were to jump into what you're doing, I'd be shot down far more often than not. Not that that should s…
/r/seduction18/12/16 10:15 AM
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I live in the UK so this information might not be of any use to you, but I'll say it anyway. Over here there is a thing called Bio Oil. It's a white box with orange writing on. It apparently helps the healing of scars. The second best treatment is time. Fortunately I never dealt with seriously acne, just the occasional breakout, so I can't relate to how it makes you feel but just hang in there, it'll heal with time. Keep a healthy diet and give the scars no reason to hang about. Best of luck dud…
/r/seduction18/12/16 09:55 AM
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It doesn't come naturally to a lot of men in this generation. What Seddit is about isn't the way any generation we can relate to went about this in the same way. Seddit provides men, who aren't naturals or haven't adjusted yet or simply aren't aware enough of what to do yet, with the tools and know how to truly love both oneself and others. Granted, a lot of posts here nowadays are bullshit but there is the odd diamond or two amongst the piles of shit. You have to make the effort to find the goo…
/r/seduction16/12/16 08:04 AM
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It's not a lack of knowing what to say exactly, or how to act even. It's literally the act of approaching cute girls. I appreciate the help though!
/r/seduction15/12/16 09:04 AM
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Whilst I appreciate that I asked for help, and I'm certainly not in a place to push advice back, I have to say that will not work for me. However, if it worked for you then, by all means, you do you.
/r/seduction15/12/16 09:03 AM
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It's you! Funny story actually, less special now I begin typing it out but still... I was sitting on the toilet yesterday morning, scrolling through Reddit and saw your post about making a cartoon for Seddit and I have to say, I was pretty impressed. The one you linked here was incredibly useful. I did reply to another comment on this thread which mentioned the progressive desensitisation of AA, something Mark Manson had mentioned on his website, I believe. In short, my brain knows that I easier…
/r/seduction15/12/16 08:59 AM
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I like the concept of what Manson suggests but my brain has a problem with it. I know that I'm asking the question not for the answer, but for something else. See, if I have a question, a legitimate question, for something I don't have the answer for, I will ask. But I carry my phone on me all the time, so can answer those two questions. It's like theres two sides of me; one telling me to ask that girl for the time, knowing it'll condition me for 'things to come' and the other side says "na, you…
/r/seduction15/12/16 08:48 AM
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Yeah, I worded the title pretty poorly. Overcoming it isn't the aim, its knowing how to tackle it effectively. Ah. The three second rule. I've heard this used a few times before and can actually see it working for me. As a matter of fact, the time in Spain that I spoke about actually involved the three second rule. I was too nervous to ask (I was talking whilst packing my beach gear in my bag), but I counted to three, swallowed my pride and asked them for their numbers, both of which I got. It'l…
/r/seduction15/12/16 08:40 AM
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