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Fundamentalsthrowaway_womenstuff/r/seduction27/10/21 02:59 AM
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Lifestylethrowaway_womenstuff/r/seduction31/10/21 12:51 AM
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This guy never disappoints A girl I’m dating actually told me the same thing. The moment she stopped caring was when she overheard some guys talking about her walking by. One thought she was cute and the next thought she wasn’t. So she realized everyone has different tastes so it doesn’t matter who thought she wasn’t cute. It’s more important what she thought. She learned that in college. We all have to do the same thing. It’s not always automatic to be at that point
/r/seduction06/11/21 08:47 AM
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The fact that you’ve been hanging out with her, plus her group of friends, constantly is likely a factor man… see if just hanging with her alone once a week helps
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:36 AM
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You’ve been very consistent with that
/r/seduction04/11/21 01:23 AM
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Would you say most of those girls were ones who didn’t go to the same school as you? Or was it the same circles, just different environment
/r/seduction03/11/21 10:07 PM
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Did you do mostly day/social circle in college? Or did you stick to online and bars then too?
/r/seduction03/11/21 03:21 PM
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Yup, it can still be blamed on the guy and rightfully so. But the difference is you don’t care and you own it. If you have a preference they can take it or leave it. But that’s your preference and if it helps the interaction move forward and more enjoyable for you then it’s valid. How I see it at least
/r/seduction03/11/21 06:11 AM
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This is the way
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:55 AM
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And if they push you away, keep having fun and talk to someone else who’s fun. You can end up talking to them again later on in the night. Everyone wants to have fun, so they’re gonna be even more receptive if they are open to your next approach
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:50 AM
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For sure bro, I have the same story as you; ages different but that’s how my woman life started. You then become used to ONS and same day lays to the point where you think something is wrong if it’s more drawn out. Could be a bad thing or good thing depending on how you look at it and your goals
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:09 AM
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I’m a grower too and it’s definitely a personal issue. But I’ve found that it’s never been an issue with girls I’ve been sexually compatible with. It only comes up when it’s a girl that I think should or would turn me on, but they don’t due to their personality or me not listening to how I feel internally My advice would be to make the sex process natural and smooth, on your time not hers. Don’t ignore your feelings. When it’s more calculated and forced that’s when you get in your head
/r/seduction02/11/21 03:07 AM
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Assume that’s her real personality…sounds like she really likes you
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:46 AM
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Wow… that last point was insightful and entertaining. Happy for you bro!
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:44 AM
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You heathen
/r/seduction01/11/21 09:19 PM
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Keep in mind replies are not the goal. Meeting up is Edit: don’t want to become texting buddies
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:48 PM
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If she’s already locked in I’d agree. And I agree with this in general bc I hate texting a lot. But in the beginning I’d lean toward Therocksays’ comment, just to keep the interaction moving forward to meeting. Phone call better though
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:46 PM
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Nothing wrong, just different. Sooner you accept that, the better my guy Just don’t base any major life decisions around their compliance to anything
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:40 PM
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I have an alternative opinion than to instantly nexting. If I was op I’d just continue as usual, except with no pressure from now on. If she reaches out, resume the relationship without talking about it. It’s not a bad thing to be the “good for now” guy while she figures out what she wants. That takes the pressure of you. Sometimes that lasts longer than the perfect guy
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:39 PM
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No, sonic here is right. They don’t understand how they feel half the time. Can’t expect them to be logical. As men we can not be feeling a girl 100% and still entertain her due to some logical reason. That’s why talking to multiple girls are recommended. You never know what they’ll be on at any given moment, and you can’t control that. Just be there when they’re feeling like doing what you want to do with them
/r/seduction01/11/21 08:32 PM
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How bad can it get? Nothing wrong with nicely friend zoning a girl. It’s not the end of the world if a girl calls you gay either lol.
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:23 PM
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I hate your indirect passive aggressiveness… but this post was prob a waste of time and excuse making so ima suck it up and focus
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:50 AM
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You know what, there aren’t 100 hrs in a day. I do know what I gotta do. I’ll stop making excuses
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:32 AM
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You speaking vague or to this post?
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:27 AM
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This is the way. Plus you have plausible deniability about the schedule thing. They’ll be willing to hangout when you want to bc they know you working Now that I mention it I might start telling girls I got a hectic work schedule lmao
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:26 AM
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I come from a community where everyone is tatted. It’s expected that I have a tattoo and it’s unique that I don’t. Especially with muscles. I’ve seen dudes with tattoos not be able to pull anything. It’ll help you if it’s content with your vibe. Otherwise it’s nothing even if the girl loves tattoos. Just an alternative viewpoint. Different girls have their own thing. But I would lump tattoos under style. It can enhance that style if it’s congruent with it. But if the goal is only for women, it’l…
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:23 AM
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Ime it works if the relationships are more casual. If not, you have to practically be integrated in their social circle
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:12 AM
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Agreed. I tend to roll alone and I like girls like that too. Dating girls with large social circles aren’t fun for me either. They tend to be FBs at most just bc of availability and time issues. Plus all the opinions their friends may have (comparing all their relationships and sex lives) The happy medium is a girl part of a larger social circle who likes keeping her sex life private
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:10 AM
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I value your question man. I’m 25m too and I don’t know how ppl balance a healthy sex life with their ambitions. If you just have 9-5 and do nothing else then I can understand. You could go on dates from 7-9 during the week and on weekends. Then just let them know your schedule and they’ll understand. Having a fuller life makes it tougher. Could keep it casual bc of that unless you meet someone who likes you enough that they want to see you whenever you have time. Go into it knowing that you’ll …
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:58 AM
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You can go out and still keep her as a friend. Don’t you have fun and go out with your friends?
/r/seduction31/10/21 12:52 AM
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Bruh…
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:56 PM
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I agree Ironically there are still times when everyone is busy. If it’s super late at night and one is on their period, one has to work, one can’t leave their parents house that late, one is sleep, etc. Then without fail they all hit you up the next day when your good. Then you rationalize why you need to continue talking to girls lol
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:12 AM
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I treat those situations different. You really have to feel out the vibe because she’s not just a random. She’s in your class and by extension a social circle you’re in. Don’t be reckless. Proceed as you said but don’t rush unless those are the vibes. Make sure you’re on the same page. You’ll know. Unless this is your or her last semester, then do whatever lol.
/r/seduction30/10/21 07:04 AM
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I agree that ppl who have one won’t necessarily say it’s a rotation. They just do it It’s not that taxing because ironically even if you’re talking to 3-4 girls, not all of them will be available when you want all the time for various reasons. Girls are busy sometimes too. And all the relationships don’t have to be serious. But you can have a rotation and still enjoy this sub. Having a rotation isn’t the pinnacle of seduction for everybody. Hopefully everyone here reaches their goals.
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:59 AM
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I disagree with that premise
/r/seduction30/10/21 06:54 AM
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You’re good my man
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:50 PM
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Nothing wrong with going lone wolf…gotta be aggressive
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:48 PM
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Thanks for the perspective. I’ve actually been with ppl that aren’t black was just curious about the perspective that the advice comes from. I’ll definitely put more thought into perception though. A girl I got with that saw me around campus said Il she thought I was serious no nonsense. Couldn’t be further from the truth. But I do have thick eyebrows and a strong ridge so I can get that, unless I’m smiling. Don’t know how to fix that, like a resting bitch face
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:38 PM
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Gotcha, makes sense where that general advice comes from then.
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:35 PM
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Sexual and more Saying it likely if he feels like you’re not picking up his drift lol
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:28 AM
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Lot of ppl may not agree with my opinion, but: Night game ironically, if you can Learn to communicate with nonverbals. How to move. How to convey your sexuality and exude your desire. You want help with communication, and clubs are terrible places for conversation. But communication is mostly nonverbal. You’ll learn more eye contact, how to touch, and how to be more aggressive. You can always tone it back later. And you’ll realize the benefits of being in shape with night game. It helps a lot. T…
/r/seduction27/10/21 09:10 AM
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Great! That girl liked you. Ask a couple more questions, about her. Then ask her out next time my man! Great start!
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:58 AM
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What is a reserved approach? Not following up as much? The advice wasn’t given to me specifically, just to black men Me personally, I chat a little then just ask if they want to link up later or grab their number to hang out. I really emphasize us hanging out at that point bc I’m not trying to get a bad number, just for them to not respond. Then over text follow up with the hang out. I admit my patience is pretty short though… if they don’t want to hang out or respond within that week, I’m movin…
/r/seduction27/10/21 06:10 AM
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Yeah I never dm girls, don’t have social media. So def cold approach or through the same circles. Thanks for the insight. I don’t even care to do all that extra, I’m just gonna do me lol
/r/seduction27/10/21 04:27 AM
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This. Act the same but turn your attention to other girls. She’s just a girl at work so it should be a no pressure situation no matter what happens. Literally don’t pursue or try to influence the situation at all, leave it. But still be cool with her
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:49 AM
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Then you’ll start saying “I don’t got time for this sh*t” You realize how weird it is. No matter what you can’t control how someone else feels about you so you stop trying That isn’t a bad thing, it’s actually good in my opinion. You’ll stop caring if they are interested or not If you have a high sex drive you’ll likely still want to approach girls and talk to them. But you’ll do it in a way that it can fit into your life Or maybe you don’t care at all and go on to accomplish great things
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:43 AM
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How you feel out what they’re used to without seeing them around any dudes I know I’m not the first black guy approaching any girl no matter their race. I’m in a melting pot
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:38 AM
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Write down your major goals for the year. That always levels me. That’ll affect you more than what a girl will or won’t do. If you do get the girl and you don’t meet your own personal goals then you won’t be happy. At least I wouldn’t I’m the most sexual person ever but even I know no amount of sex will help me in my goals. It’ll probably hinder me moreso actually
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:28 AM
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Do you approach other girls that same way you’ll step to a black girl
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:22 AM
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That’s the part where I’m confused. I’m pretty chill. For black girls I gotta try to be more aggressive to register most times. I’m wondering if that advice is just going off a stereotype or for all black guys.
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:18 AM
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Dude you’re not alone. I have plenty of experience but it happens to me with new girls too. It’s the connection part of it. If I feel a connection with the girl (even superficially) or I can feel their desire then I have no problem. Even with girls I know and have a friends connection with, I have to feel that sexual connection to get my partner in crime to work as a unit.
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:16 AM
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Interesting. I had the same thing happen. Positive it’s because I was in my head and I felt pressure. I’ll try the viagra tip. Also, no one may mention this but it never happens if I’m going bare. It’s an issue because I get used to a consistent partner where we trust each other to not feel each other completely. Then when it’s a new girl and I have to use a condom, I’m not as excited no matter how she looks. Sometimes even if she’s super tight. Unless she’s all over me. I wish I could make thes…
/r/seduction27/10/21 03:11 AM
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I haven’t found this to be true at all actually. I keep a very close circle and have more acquaintances than friends. You’re not hanging around your friends while you’re with your girls most of the time so it’s irrelevant. What is relevant though is the social skills and fuller life you’ll have by having really good friends
/r/seduction21/10/21 05:52 PM
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Would you do that again? Focus on business wheel you’re young and then girls way later (after 30 like you), or would you just focus on game from the get go Not so much a seduction question as an opinion question
/r/seduction21/10/21 03:45 AM
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I agree I think my issue is that when I started getting women I only practiced getting to sex fast To the point where I don’t know how to seduce girls in social circle in the same way where it’s congruent
/r/seduction21/10/21 02:20 AM
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