I suspect this may not be the best place for this question.

But how do you stay focused? On improving the financial side of your life.

Beautiful women all around you. Being young (25M) with high testosterone.

I feel like I had much better delayed gratification before ever having sex.

I know I don’t want to be in the same place 5 years from now and I rationally know that women now aren’t as important as improving that area of my life. And I can rationalize that if I didn’t talk to another girl in 5 years I’d trade that for financial and lifestyle success. But that’s easy to say rather than follow through with.

I think I’m a pretty motivated guy. I set goals and typically reach them.

But there are other goals that are tougher and require more time and focus. I do well when I’ve already had sex but after 3-4 days I go into a downward spiral and lose track. How do you older or younger guys who been through this focus on other things aside from women for long periods of time?

I think a part of it was that before learning about social dynamics and game I didn’t think you could have sex with women by having game to the extent that you can. Knowing that you don’t have to be a millionaire to have a healthy sex life. I want it for myself but then I’ll get unsatisfied with my women life and then there’s my focus bc naturally you’ll want to fix that immediately.

Any serious comments are really appreciated.

Tl;dr: Successful/business men who love women, how did you balance building your future with your woman life?