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LESSON LEARNEDthrowawayaimit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:25 PM
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FDS ANTHEM 🎶throwawayaimit/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:15 AM
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/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/20 08:25 PM
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Thank you, I'm looking it up now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:01 PM
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I try to keep my mental health treatment separate from friends. Family is the one who started the abuse so I'm pretty much on my own. I've burdened friendships before and it's not a good feeling. I have reached out to a local women's sexual abuse recovery group, I'll keep trying until I get the help I need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:00 PM
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That is exactly what I'm looking for. Someone to recognize that I've been through a lot of fucked up shit, and then show me how to deal with all the fucked up shit. I can do it, but I need proper advice, that's all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 06:41 AM
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I can't believe creeps can be so successful, it's insane. The system makes you crazy, literally abuses you, then shoves you back into a system that does it all over again. Seriously contemplating just living in the woods and chopping wood every time I get a flashback. That's probably exactly what I should do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:52 AM
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Thank you so much for confirming my gut feelings. Unfortunately his female psychiatrist supervisor also treated me lesser than. I hope to find the right person and the help I need to recover from multiple traumas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:50 AM
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Thank you for sharing. This world is messed up, I'm glad you're in a better place. That treatment was disgusting. The whole mental health system needs a revamp.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:47 AM
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Thank you. This is therapy through the local hospital system we have here. I would not be able to afford it. It's free public service which basically sums up the whole experience. Been through way too much b.s. to continue to go through b.s., but i'm never giving up on my mental health! I won't let this tear me down! Can you recommen those books that helped you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:43 AM
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Thank you for your comment, what was the effective method for PTSD? Please let me know!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:37 AM
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I have left a message to her supervisor as well. This whole interaction was unacceptable. Hopefully her supervisor is sympathetic. All I really want is a heartfelt apology (which I doubt will happen), and proper treatment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 03:36 AM
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Thank you so much for your comments, I'm so so relieved other people feel this way. It's helped so much reading these anecdotes. I just got off the phone with his (LVM Therapist's) pickme psychiatrist supervisor about 3hrs ago. She immediately told me, right after saying hello, "You know that %50 of the world is male so you can't pick and choose like that." I was shocked. I'm still shocked. I suffer from PTSD and Major Depression from being abused my entire life, and this was the last thing I ex…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:32 PM
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A shower thought I had was to just post as the man in the relationship. Flip the script, see the reaction, maybe then us women can get real online advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:58 PM
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I did this too, turns out he was cheating from the beginning. Literally day 1. I don't help anyone anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:50 PM
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Work/Volunteer in a homeless shelter then...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:43 PM
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LVM encounters. I'll start referring to them like that too. You're absolutely right, they weren't relationships...they were encounters of the scrote kind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 07:42 PM
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Plenty of self-respecting men out there, who don't watch porn, have a healthy mind and body, with good paying jobs! I'm on the same page sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:19 AM
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There's nothing you can say to support his mindset. He spells out his predatory ways right there. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:13 AM
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I am reporting this to the FBI for underage photo distribution.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 04:09 AM
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Show me 1 honest, well rounded, family oriented, mature, pro-athlete. Not sarcasm, I genuinely would like to know if there's a healthy role model in sports to look up to. I hear way too many stories of pro-athletes cheating, being predators, and getting away with shit. I mean there has to be a HVM somewhere in the mix right? right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:36 AM
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I've had to change my number twice because of this. If this option can work for you, consider it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 03:27 AM
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PREACH. I blocked him, he then called me 10 times, I shut off my phone. The next day, calls from private, then a call from a random number. I didn't answer any of them. I don't answer calls at all. Unless I know you and why you're calling me, I'm not answering.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:34 AM
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Going from addiction to just 3 hrs/month is awesome. So happy to read this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 04:57 AM
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Non-Acoustic Version: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WV2D7ZUQ9dA
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/07/20 08:16 AM
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I'm reading a lot of background about these 2 in the comments, I don't know them, but here's my 2 cents on the matter: Not to be confused with crazy guys who suggest marriage on the first date...or the second...or 2 weeks into talking. (All happened to me, it just shows he's insane or desperate.) A real HVM will keep that information to himself, observe (WITHOUT NEGGING) you as a HVW for a proper amount of time, around 6mnths-2yrs, to see if you're really who you say you are! Real HVM have a goo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 09:12 PM
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BEGONE TOT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 08:53 PM
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The best reply is NO REPLY. If you don't reply, he will think something like "huh i used to be able to get her in the past, i wonder what she's doing now?" If you reply, he'll think "haha got her, i still got it, oh yeah" and you'll be stroking his ego. Just don't! It's hard to resist I know, stay strong and delete and block or throw away the whole computer, whatever it takes, just don't give in!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 07:12 AM
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Read, eat, sleep, breathe, the FDS guidebook. It took me 2 reads to be convinced. 4 to take action. You have NOTHING to lose, in fact, you have way more to gain by leaving. It won't feel like it at first, but give yourself time, you won't regret it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:36 AM
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FUCK this guy. FUCK FACEBOOK. It was initially a website to rate college girls. There is literally no point to have facebook, why the fuck anyone uses it is beyond me. Oh and don't hit me with "Oh it connects me to overseas family". Get a long distance plan. Why are you foregoing your privacy and rights to communicate with family? If it's too expensive for you to do that...then maybe go without talking to them for a bit? Constant connected-ness isn't required. "Oh but I want to show them my pict…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:30 AM
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My heart goes out to you. What a monster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:15 AM
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"Dating and relationships are not customer service jobs for women." LOL Exactly, LVM and NVM just want transactional relationships, some of whom don't even pay for. It's disgusting. I used to feel bad for them, now I just laugh. Fully capable human beings with all limbs...there are people in the world suffering from actual real world issues with better mindsets than them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 02:07 AM
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Literally worthless. Go to school. Make something of yourself. Fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:58 AM
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What the hell lol. What if she was joking? He totally missed an opportunity for a witty flirtatious comeback. Step it up boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:57 AM
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When I was head over heels in love, other men physically repulsed me. I only had eyes for him, I didn't want to talk to anyone else. That is...until he showed his true colors. Which now, thanks to FDS, I can spot within the 1st date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:55 AM
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The stress in her voice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/20 01:51 AM
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That paisley ass shirt who the fuck does he think he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:41 AM
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"I'm sorry I grew up in a household where my mother did all the cooking, cleaning, laundry, therapy, home repair and child rearing, what am I supposed to do? Grow up?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:33 AM
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"I'm sorry that you think video games are a waste of time, I farmed enough gold to build us a virtual house, and look, I even put in a kitchen for you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:30 AM
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"I'm sorry that you want me to be a respectable, honorable, goal oriented person, but I've built my entire personality on the complete opposite of that, and I've never really thought I needed to improve, because I don't think I need to."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:27 AM
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"I'm sorry that you wish that I felt like I should be sorry."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:23 AM
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"I'm sorry that you think you deserve to be treated like a human being, I am but a rotisserie chicken."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:21 AM
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"I'm sorry that I want to keep you as an option while I look for someone better than you, your one leg hair really freaked me out that one time."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:19 AM
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"I'm sorry that you don't see me the way I see myself, in the mirror, everyday, multiple times a day, wow I look good, wait where are you going?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:18 AM
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"I'm sorry, the dish rack was full, so I couldn't do the dishes." (This one actually happened, he was a 23yr old college graduate.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:17 AM
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"I'm sorry, I literally have never been held responsible for any of the shit I've caused since infancy, so I don't really know why I'm apologizing, but you're beautiful."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:15 AM
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"I'm sorry that I hate myself, and therefore hate you, but I really like how you know how to do laundry, so I guess, what I'm really trying to say is, I love you."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:13 AM
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"I'm sorry that I'm a worthless piece of shit, you're way out my league and I'm just waiting for you to realize that, but until then can you make me mac'n'cheese and give me a blowjob after?"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:11 AM
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"I'm sorry that I cheated on you, but you put my socks in the wrong drawer and I got confused."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:09 AM
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Once more we spar, fuck 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:07 AM
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This is the shit I do like.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:04 AM
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The audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 06:00 AM
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Wow. We've really been regurgitating systemic scrote-fuckery generation after generation. Makes me grateful for my present day freedoms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:57 AM
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It woke me the fuck up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:38 AM
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CONGRATULATIONS ON YOUR PARASITE REMOVAL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:30 AM
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The irony lies in the fact that he (not this particular person but LVM in general) would save tons of money and time in the long run, if he went to therapy instead of blowing money on junk food, drugs, video games, and other stupid shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 05:18 AM
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This is my mindset: If it happens, great! But if it doesn't, I'm good with that too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 09:02 AM
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This was a word by word description of an ex. Sucks to be him!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:59 AM
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"Porn sex" should've been added to the dictionary by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:41 AM
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Just got out of a horrifying relationship, I have my whole life ahead of me. Here's some unconventional advice. With the safety of your area in mind, go to the forest, or the beach, or the mountains, or the middle of nowhere, leave your phone at home. It was only in that moment suspended between uncertainty and freedom where I realized, damn...I really can do whatever I want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:37 AM
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LOL JUST STOP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/20 08:34 AM
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ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:22 PM
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Totally agree. Common-law is great for couples who have committed to each other and don't care about a wedding or even a marriage certificate, why get married when you can have the same rights as a common-law couple? But common-law is not so great when it stems from living with each other prior to commitment. Then slowly drifting into common-law status, settling, when you truly want to be married. "hey at least i'm not single anymore" (Been there, done that, yikes.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 07:08 AM
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YES. I am on the same wavelength! Our tax forms don't recognize "girlfriend" as a relationship status. "Girlfriend" = STILL SINGLE. It's either MARRIED or SINGLE. There is "common-law" but that's a whole other conversation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/20 06:44 AM
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A boy: "I'm so ugly, no girl will ever want me." The same boy: "She's so ugly, no guy will ever want her."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:26 PM
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"I found things in his phone talking about Instagram models with his best friend, and I flipped my shit." Flip your shit swiftly towards the door and never flip it back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 11:21 PM
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