throwawaybeginner Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday		throwawaybeginner	/r/seduction	16/05/18 05:17 AM

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2	Why is being a former slut, pornstar, prostitute, sex worker, escort...such a dealbreaker for dating? I think it's really cool how instead of engaging on the topic you just throw an ad hominem and virtue signal. I explained my theory on why I and every other guy feel this way. And you respond with "no u". I guess a text like that would normally be a cringeworthy thing to do, but I sent it to a girl I've been hooking up with for a while whose really close so it wasn't really a big deal. When I sobered up and looked back on it, it was actually a very interesting moment of self awareness when I lea…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 06:57 PM
3	Why is being a former slut, pornstar, prostitute, sex worker, escort...such a dealbreaker for dating? When I was in a fraternity there was a girl who would constantly come by our parties that fucked 5 different guys in the fraternity. She would talk about how each guy was in bed and how big each of their dicks were etc. She was considered disgusting because anyone could have her, being with her was just a carnal sexual act. It didn't make you feel special or you couldn't be proud of it. Part of being a guy is constantly needing to prove yourself and your selfworth to yourself and those around yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 09:18 AM
3	The Myth of the Carousal I'll be honest after my first serious girlfriend and I broke up, I was like "I'M ONLY GOING TO DATE VIRGINS!!!" and I did and it was fucking horrible. Most "virgins" are super out of touch with their bodies, have sexual hangups or are crazy-religious. It was such a nightmare that I would get turned off if a girl I was seeing DIDN'T have a past lol Also I felt like that's why we (me and my 1st gf) might have broken up because she was a virgin and felt like she settled down before really exploring…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 09:05 AM
1	The Myth of the Carousal Wow relate way too hard to that (from the guys side). I definitely subtly brag and am proud of my sexual past, but I plug my ears and shut my gf up whenever she comes close to mentioning her 'number'. I know no matter what it is I won't be okay with it. That's so interesting that less experienced men wouldn't judge you. Maybe because sex was never a "prestige" thing in their life that they don't take pride it in themselves and won't judge others for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/02/20 08:53 AM
1	The Myth of the Carousal As a guy, I can explain why guys react like that guy above. You are essentially taking away their power and a women who is sexually empowered is VERY intimidating to most men (me included). The fact that a girl can casually have sex with multiple new partners a week is insane and makes it hard for guys to think they are "playboys" when the average girl can do 10x their numbers without trying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/02/20 08:29 PM
-1	RSD Tyler Is Getting Deported... Will RSD Shutdown? This post is going to get hidden, RSD does a good job monitoring this sub	/r/seduction	07/02/19 09:40 PM
2	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP Whats the middle ground then lol? I left going out all the time to focus on business and have only 1 fwb for the past few months. I don't think that's overvaluing women. And What are you doing?	/r/TheRedPill	27/12/18 01:04 AM
1	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP You're right. I'm going to just hang out alone and never try to meet women again. Thanks man.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/18 11:03 PM
4	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP Bro its not just your fraternity look around, its like 90% of relationships. Most guys in relationships are whipped AF. Based on your experience you probably realize this too, when guys have their TRP moment they either go full victim mentality, self pitying mode and cry that she was so mean and evil. Or they accept the reality of females and choose to blame themselves for being an unattractive guy and improve themselves to become an alpha. Even in this subreddit half the guys are just dwelling …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/18 08:24 AM
14	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP I think you missed the entire point of the story or don't really understand TRP if you believe that. The point: any girl can turn into this if she labels you a beta guy. She will treat you like garbage and genuinely not give a fuck about you while expecting you to provide. Worth noting: the entire time she was like this to me, she was a complete ANGEL to that other guy. Bro leave believing in that victim mentality bullshit to the feminists. Saying "Oh no she was so crazy! It's not my fault! I'm …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/18 08:14 AM
7	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP LOL @ Kappa Sigs. Nah different frat but random funny story about Kappa Sigma. Years later in college I, unknowingly, fucked this Kappa Sigs girlfriend while I had a douchey ripped shirtless profile picture. When he found out he lost his shit and got super insecure. He became super obsessed with me and they started having huge fights about how she could fuck a douchebag like that. It was trippy when I realized that I had basically become the other guy who destroyed my relationship years before. …	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/18 07:58 AM
1	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP Yeah maybe I should remove that part, I feel it comes off as racist. Its just those details were weirdly relevant at the time. More because of the personalities those specific people had not their race if that makes any sense.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/18 01:10 AM
10	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP I don't know man, I think its a pretty common sight. A newly single girl going on a cock carousel. As for the crazy shit she did, I think I pushed her to that limit by smothering her and refusing to let her break up with me. As I said I should have been man enough to let her leave instead of being a pussy and begging her to stay. But you might be right. Her family was really fucked up, alcoholic dad and narcissistic career model mom in a loveless marriage waiting to get a divorce.	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/18 01:07 AM
49	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP Well its a long story but you asked for it lol, how it ended and what brought me to TRP: It finally ended when she dumped me (as usual) but refused to get back together. For a month I begged her to take me back, but she refused. Weirdly, we were still fucking, weekends sleeping in her room, cuddling and cutsey nicknames, but not "together". Then after a month she finally cut me off saying its over forever. I was mentally fucked and I tried to kill myself. I obviously failed. I was extremely depr…	/r/TheRedPill	25/12/18 12:25 AM
103	Story of a cuck that was posted and why we need TRP Reading this was like deja vu, I was in a relationship EXACTLY like this a long time ago. She would constantly scream at me, undermine my accomplishments and emasculate me in the most humiliating ways. Including: constantly 'breaking up with me' and making me call her 50+ times while ignoring all my calls to "get her back". She would walk out in the middle of restaurant meals so that I would embarrassingly have to chase her and bring her back to the table. Once she broke into my apartment while …	/r/TheRedPill	24/12/18 09:14 PM
1	From Alpha to Omega TL;DR - Girls without friends are lonely and ONLY know how to use their sexuality to meet people (like how they met you in the first place). I think your missing something major, the fact that she didn't have friends and that you let her into your social group. A pretty girl will almost always have more value to a social group than a guy (guys vying for higher status, guys wanting the girl, overall higher social value) so they will take her over you every time. I have had two experiences with th…	/r/TheRedPill	14/11/18 08:45 PM
1	Finally said “Fuck it!” I did daygame at a mall and there aren't a lot of sets, how many sets do you approach during daygame? I also went out with a wing so we were switching off sets.	/r/seduction	29/05/18 06:27 PM
1	I hate being a male bootycall Great observations. What makes her turned on in her boy toy is the power he wields over her. All she wants is for him to notice what a good girl she has been... what she has done to deserve this great dick. Don't agree with this part though. Girls have boy toys for validation. They make guys they aren't emotionally attracted to but look so good that they can use them to stunt on other girls. Like when I first got on tinder a while ago I matched with this cute girl and went for a date. I was in c…	/r/seduction	28/05/18 07:48 PM
7	I hate being a male bootycall The bad grammar and ellipsis makes me think that he's an international middle school student.	/r/seduction	28/05/18 06:10 PM
2	My very best opener. Yeah lol I can't imagine this ever working for me. I'm pretty tall and big with muscle on my frame but have a babyface and soft features so I stay the fuck away from any "pretending to be gay" jokes. When girls would say "Oh she's my girlfriend" my wingman started defaulting to: "Oh we're gay too!", regardless of if they were actually lesbians or just wanted us to leave. He does it when he gets nervous and I cringe so fucking hard every time, roll my eyes and cover my face in dismay. Honestly, I…	/r/seduction	28/05/18 05:55 PM
66	I hate being a male bootycall Yeah I'm calling bullshit EDIT: After responding to /u/ tickledpic's comment below I think OP might be legit. Last paragraph in this reply comment is why I think so.	/r/seduction	28/05/18 05:36 PM
1	Finally said “Fuck it!” I don't agree that daygame is dependable access. I think you have to go out to clubs bars every weekend (thurs/fri/sat/sun) if you want to really improve your access. To give an actual example: I went out for 5 hours of daygame on Saturday and did 6 approaches and got 2 flaky numbers. In comparison, last night I went out for 5 hours in the club and did 20 approaches, got 10+ flaky numbers, 1 solid number close for a date and also got 1 girl back to my condo same night. I'm very new so my game is…	/r/seduction	28/05/18 05:31 PM
1	Having several fuckbuddies. (Jealousy, exclusivity, monogamy...etc) I've never had multiple fuckbuddies at once, but I am really open with my fwb back home and talk about my life with other girls without holding anything back. I actually told her about another girl for the first time when we booked a hotel in the city as a way of letting her know that this isn't a relationship or anything so she wouldn't get her hopes up. She definitely was upset and began putting less effort into our "fwb relationship" but I think it was best for our friendship and for her life…	/r/seduction	28/05/18 01:26 PM
1	Insecure girls and shit testing So its hard to explain it over text, but essentially she was baiting him to qualify. It's like her asking: "Why are you wearing that blue shirt?" If you began giving her reasons how it was the only shirt you had or its laundry day you already lost because you're in her frame. It's a shit test. She's giving you shit and the only way to respond is to not let it phase you.	/r/seduction	27/05/18 01:46 AM
1	I'm going out to my local mall with the goal of at least approaching one girl. That’s really cool man!	/r/seduction	27/05/18 01:21 AM
1	Programs/Courses What I said.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:42 PM
1	How? Yeah I don't think you're "I have many friends" is a good thing. I noticed almost all the most social people in my life struggle meeting girls. Or they have one girlfriend they've had for years. It's because they are nice agreeable people who are non-controversial. They're essentially people pleasers. Also you want to improve a pretty big part of your life without wanting to commit any time to improving it? Good luck with that man.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:42 PM
1	Programs/Courses Nah you just kind of ignore it. Like its going to be just as difficult the first time approaching as it is the 1000th time. But for me that's pretty motivating like this isn't going to get an easier so might as well suck it up and just do it.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:41 PM
2	Programs/Courses Hard truth: there's no real cure for approach anxiety. It never really goes away. It's the minimum requirement for pickup so if you can't do it, you really can't do pickup.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:28 PM
2	Programs/Courses You're a cool guy man, I agree with like every one of your comments.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:25 PM
1	Programs/Courses He faked all of his infield for this program. Would not recommend.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:24 PM
3	What's a good way to avoid questions regarding my work/occupation? Yeah so first lying is no big deal man. Girls lie constantly about their height, their age, their looks (makeup), their bodies, their relationships status, etc. so you lying about your job is nothing. But I get it, I feel bad when I lie too. You don't have to lie. What you can do is frame your job as a working at a female modeling agency. It's not technically a lie its really just a reframe. For example, I run a really successful business that makes most of my income but its not that interesting…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:22 PM
2	Losing Interest Over Text Exactly. Biggest mistake guys make, text is just to make plans to meet again. Nothing else.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:14 PM
2	how to deal after a flake? Now I kind of just ghost flakes because I'm getting so many leads that I don't care enough to follow through, but back in college there was one girl I met who flaked me literally 20 times. I kept following up and when we finally went on a date I ended up pulling and closing her immediately after. And then after we hooked up she's completely different, she would call me over to hook up and then drunk text me and show me off to her friends. I think the moral is that girls are all over the place an…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:12 PM
3	What's a good way to avoid questions regarding my work/occupation? Damn lol didn't expect that man. That's pretty insane profession. I would try to frame it so that you can brag about it because it is really original and probably could give you a lot of social proof but I don't know that much about Australian culture. My ex-girlfriend was Australian and she said that some stuff is a lot more polite than US so maybe its best to keep it quiet. But to answer your question: I would just not talk about your job at all and just focus on vibing and connecting on other…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 08:02 PM
1	Help me you guys are the last hope Lmao @ your title. You'll be fine man, you have a lot of time to improve yourself. I used to get a lot of girls in high school and my younger brother does now so this is my advice: join a lot of clubs to get officer positions, do a sport every season, have really good social media pictures, throw your own parties and invite people and finally don't do cold approach, seriously stay away from this subreddit. Pickup is for college and beyond it will mess you up in high school.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:58 PM
1	I'm going out to my local mall with the goal of at least approaching one girl. (have direct approached with wings many times, but solo game I get a lot of AA) Yeah tell me about it dude, this is one of my major sticking points and its so tempting to just ignore. If I ditch my wings and go out alone for a night it feels like I am shooting my chances of pulling in the leg even though its what's best for me. But yeah, I am going to up my day game insanely next month to try and improve. I'm moving back east to NYC (daygame heaven) so I need to get at least semi-decent at getti…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:50 PM
1	I'm going out to my local mall with the goal of at least approaching one girl. You can't trust your beliefs right now because they're all wrong and holding you back. For example, your belief that her "body language" tells you that she doesn't want to be approached just isn't correct but you won't know that until you try and get reference experience. You're an attractive guy and she would be lucky to meet you and introduced to you and your lifestyle.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:46 PM
42	Finally said “Fuck it!” That's really cool that you did that man! I remember I met this super cute girl at Optometrist office way back before I got into pickup and I just blatantly flirted with her the whole time. I kicked myself for not at least trying to close her so its cool you tried. Only thing you have to remember is that she's a hired gun, so she's essentially paid to be nice and flirt with you her paycheck literally depends on it. Plus you can only meet at most one maybe cute girl everytime you go out to eat. I…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:41 PM
3	I'm going out to my local mall with the goal of at least approaching one girl. I don't think this is a good idea. I tried doing this when I first got into day game and what happens is that jumping from a platonic interaction to sexualizing it is such a massive leap that you never actually do it. Also it feels disingenuous and qualifying if you randomly go: "actually i don't need directions you were just really cute". What I've finally realized after going out for a while, is that the brain normally takes 2-3 seconds to come up with an excuse. If you IMMEDIATELY start walki…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:37 PM
2	I'm going out to my local mall with the goal of at least approaching one girl. Approaching at the mall is really easy man. Girls in the mall / during day game actually never get approached compared to at night so its a lot easier with a lot lower bar for success. A solid instadate or number close is AMAZING during the day while a failure at night.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:33 PM
5	I'm going out to my local mall with the goal of at least approaching one girl. Hey man from my experience, I would try to work on your depression by yourself before getting into pickup. Don't expect pickup to help that at all, if anything it is going to take a pretty big toll on your mental health that you need to be very strong to handle.	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:32 PM
1	Insecure girls and shit testing Lol literally dealt with this same exact thing last night / 6 hours ago. This girl was just like insane with her shit tests, she was like non-stop with it. She was like eating my wingmen alive until I switched onto the set and started to call her out and handle it. We ended up pulling her and her sister back to the condo within 10 minutes. One of her best shit tests to one of my wings: Girl: "So you've never been to Arizona?" Guy: "No I have never been there before" Girl: "Why?" Guy: "..." scare…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 07:11 PM
3	M19 What are some good ways to diffuse tension when approach gets uncomfortable So I learned this from RSD Todd when I took his program, and realized it recently in the field: what works on a 7-attractiveness girl won't work on a 9-attractiveness girl. I noticed this in the club when we would approach a group of models. My wingmen would get blown out of the sets on the open itself and struggle to keep it going while I was the only one having a good set. For girls that are model type attractive, they know they are attractive and they assume that if you're talking to them you…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 06:58 PM
2	How to approach girls at very loud music bar? Yeah I struggle with this situation too, espescially when the girl is facing away toward the stage and trying to approach from behind. I would try to dance with her and match her energy while opening the group also talking in her ear. But it was almost a guaranteed blowout on the open or if I plowed it would end after 5 minutes and they had an easy out of going back to dancing. But I saw an advanced PUA do it a couple times and what he did was straight up approach her from the side alone, immedi…	/r/seduction	26/05/18 06:29 PM
2	Not to sound like the average Redditor, but is there a video-game to gamify learning pickup? lmao no just go out	/r/seduction	26/05/18 06:22 PM
6	Taking a brake from this sub That's a good idea, most of the people in this sub don't approach at all. then again I think that's the case with most pickup forums.	/r/seduction	23/05/18 07:04 PM
3	One of the easiest moves to build sexual tension Obviously man. I wasn't going up to random girls grabbing their things. This was after average 10 minutes into each set after they hooked and I had compliance on a few other things. Try it in field for yourself, it comes off as really awkward and weird.	/r/seduction	19/05/18 08:23 PM
1	How Effective Is Cold Approach When It Comes To Meeting Women? Hey man, its going to be a lot tougher if you're short but its definitely possible. But be ready for a 1-2 year long commitment going out consistently before seeing results. I know a short asian guy whose 5'4 that met his girlfriend through cold approach.	/r/seduction	19/05/18 10:27 AM
10	Best place to find prostitute now that backpage has been shutdown? lol the fact that this is the 3rd highest post shows how shit this subreddit has gotten.	/r/seduction	19/05/18 10:25 AM
1	I need serious help What do you think you should do	/r/seduction	19/05/18 01:11 AM
86	One of the easiest moves to build sexual tension I will try this tonight and see if it works UPDATE: Can confirm that OP's technique only works for incest-game. In all my sets that I tried this tonight the girls were very uncomfortable and 2 girls even asked: "what's wrong with you?" Every single girl I did it to shied away and pulled their shoulders away like their weirded out.	/r/seduction	19/05/18 01:09 AM
1	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday Good luck with that man. I've never really had trouble meeting girls through high school and college but after that it gets pretty hard unless you learn how to put yourself out there. All of my childhood friends took that route you described of just "hoping to meet a girl" and ALL of them have ugly girlfriends with terrible personalities (controlling/constant power trips/bitchy/entitled). They are basically married right now as they do everything with them and are probably going to wife them up …	/r/seduction	17/05/18 02:57 AM
1	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday Yeah I also do 4-6 hours of daygame on the weekend, but I can definitely do more. Its weird my personality is much better for daygame, but I find it a lot harder to pull and just get very flakey number closes. But I've met and number closed some of the most gorgeous girls of my life through day game, as in certified 10s so it definitely works. Yeah I had a similar problem in college. I was in a popular frat, but could barely go out because I worked two internships, worked out 3 hours day, took 1…	/r/seduction	17/05/18 12:45 AM
2	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday Yeah I used to know guys like that but they were all really good looking, tall naturals. Like a couple of guys in my fraternity in college would have girls in their bed every night while failing out of BS majors and overall not doing shit with their lives. Maybe I'm wrong, but I think naturals are the exception to the rule.	/r/seduction	16/05/18 08:04 PM
1	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday Thank you. I could write a whole post on this. My theory is exactly what you said, like I don't think height matters, I think relative height matters. Like this girl I see back home is pretty tall herself at 5'8, so when I hang out with her I make sure to wear boots to easily be taller than her when she's wearing heels. And the weird thing is that you just need to hit that minimum requirement and then she will backward rationalize. Like she talks about how she's not attracted to short guys, and …	/r/seduction	16/05/18 07:26 PM
1	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday So I agree with the sentiment, like I totally think that when you're in set you have to completely accept yourself and know that you are enough. But that doesn't mean that you can't give yourself a much better chance at success by doing small things beforehand. On the converse yeah a girl doesn't need makeup, a sexy dress and a pushup bra to get attention from guys, but it will definitely help. And considering it doesn't take much effort for a huge reward, why not?	/r/seduction	16/05/18 06:58 PM
3	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday You hit the nail on the head man. Its so important in terms of identity, knowing who you are and being secure in your interactions with the girl. For example, a couple years ago a girl gave me LMR in my bed and I was so pissed I couldn't get over it for weeks because girls were how I based my worth. But then the same thing happened last week and I just thought, okay whatever you can leave, I need to get some work done on some order sheets. That's actually important, you're just for fun. As for m…	/r/seduction	16/05/18 06:51 PM
0	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday Where have you been going out? I'm not close to many clubs, and the bars around me mostly have an older crowd that keep to themselves. Okay so two answers to that: One if you google top clubs in your country you should be able to find the city most of them are located. Move there. And two, having the connections to get into top clubs is important. I used to live in NYC but didn't know anyone so had to go to shitty bars. The sets there were terrible and the competition was really high. If you hir…	/r/seduction	16/05/18 03:07 PM
-1	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday Hey man I'm sorry if I offended you but as /u/plowzedong said below this is from my experience going out. It wasn't meant to be a judgment on a certain group of people. You obviously had different experiences, have you been able to see success with women in-spite of those things? Here is a brief of summary of why I thought looks and money matter: Going out to the best clubs is expensive: $10 uber rides or $6 parking, $50 cover for top clubs, $1500+ apartment close to the clubs for good logistics…	/r/seduction	16/05/18 11:06 AM
1	Pickup Actually Works: 5 Things I've Learned Going Out Everyday I can tell by the way you sum up your results that it is not about having fun it is about proving to yourself you are worth something. But that can only come from inside my brother. You have to sit with yourself and find that before you can bring others in. Totally on point man. Yeah I think this is something everyone realizes a little while into pickup. Its about being complete in yourself and not looking for a girl to validate you. If you're not happy with yourself, even if you get the girl, s…	/r/seduction	16/05/18 10:42 AM
2	A high testosterone life Yeah this is complete bullshit unless your "Test Supplement" was anabolic steroids. Honestly even actual steroid use is known to have a bunch of placebo effects like the ones you listed below. Nothing is proven other than increased lifts at the gym and muscle mass. Disagree? Get a blood test and prove you increased your test to shut me up or stop talking out of your ass.	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/15 02:58 AM
3	My Roommate and His Girlfriend lol similar thing happened to me except one more step. I get sick she bitches and bitches about me being sick. She gets sick? She bitches about me not taking care of her and how terrible of a boyfriend I was to pull an allnighter for my stat exam instead of take care of her. You say he should next her, but the reason I didn't at the time was because I viewed my SMV, (and it probably wasn't) not high enough to get another girl of her attractiveness/personality. Probably same thing for your roomma…	/r/TheRedPill	13/02/15 07:55 AM
2	About to go to a University, what are some books I need to read to improve my social skills? /r/humblebrag	/r/seduction	31/01/15 10:22 PM
5	RSD (Real Social Dynamics) Ozzy Bootcamp Review Honestly I think you went into this bootcamp expecting to fix all your problems and when it didn't, you got really mad. But isn't that kind of obvious? You really thought that 2000$ and a weekend with a trainer would get you laid? Nothing anyone else can do or any amount of money will get you laid, only you can do that. When you ask yourself why I am I not getting laid? You can hide behind excuses like "Ozzy was a bad instructor" or your looks but until you own up to it and take action things ar…	/r/seduction	25/01/15 08:04 AM
3	Is the inability to push yourself your main roadblock? Try budgeting your vices. (A point-based punishment/reward framework.) Really appreciate the post, I've put together something similar for some life goals that I've been trying to start doing since December but I'm going to try this.	/r/TheRedPill	03/01/15 07:33 PM
3	[FR] She doubled down on polyamory and has been summarily nexted. That's fucking awesome man.	/r/TheRedPill	31/12/14 10:44 PM
3	She Doesn't Love You The moment that I realized this was when, after we break up I meet up with my ex and she says "now I have to find a way to get rich by myself". I was blown away, I hadn't even thought about finances or what she was bringing to the table but the entire time she was thinking about how I was going to be making good money some day.	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/14 04:10 PM
2	Checked my girls phone, found exactly what i was expecting.... I was in a similar situation but it was a lot more messy, even after I found out and confronted her, she cried and begged me to stay and I tried to make it work and "fix" the relationship. After going through her shit and finding out it was even worse than I thought I realized I had no feelings for her anymore and just left. Soon after that I found TRP, and I realized me being beta might have bee part of the reason we broke up. But anyway from my experience, learning more about the other guys ha…	/r/TheRedPill	11/02/14 06:06 AM
7	Has TRP changed your goals in life? Very similar situation man. I'm pretty new to TRP but a few months ago I was convinced I had found my wife and had given up on becoming successful or trying too hard in life because I had the love of my life and was comfortable. I had actually directly given up all my hobbies and most of my friends BECAUSE SHE MADE ME. Then shit hit the fan when she left me and started fucking someone else asking for an "open relationship" since she wanted to "experience being single" before running back a month…	/r/TheRedPill	16/01/14 09:49 PM
2	I'm in high school. People say high school relationships are jokes. How much from this subreddit should I actually consider? A decade from now looking back, you'll call all your high school relationships jokes. But that's almost everything you do in highschool and before, its laying the foundation for who you are. The sports, activities, girls and other things you pursue all probably aren't SERIOUS lifelong passions but they are are going to help you define yourself for the rest of your life.	/r/seduction	29/12/13 06:09 PM
9	On Gaming Virgins. I think virgins definitely have an allure, but I next almost all virgins or try to just be friends with them. I feel like trying to game a virgin is almost malicious since I'm not looking for anything serious and I wouldn't want to do that with her under the pretense of committing and not do it.	/r/seduction	29/12/13 06:04 PM
1	Can an emotional relationship spawn from a physical one? I was in this situation and we ended up deciding to date since both of us started to feel it. We were really good friends and thought it could work out. After a pretty long unsteady relationship, it ended pretty badly because both of us wanted to see other people but were almost forced into dating each other. We thought it was feelings but it was actually just a mix of jealousy and physical feelings being confused with emotional feelings, also us being really compatible as friends, that brought …	/r/seduction	29/12/13 05:54 PM
1	Seddit, I'm the worst wingman on earth... Can any experienced wingmen give me some tips? This used to happen to me sometimes, and it really made me feel like the shit but pissed off my friend. Most of the time its because you're doing too much of the work for whoever you're trying to wingman, really you should introduce them, give them something to talk about about him that impresses her and then leave them alone. Take the rest of the friend group away from them and give them some privacy. I think you're trying to do too much.	/r/seduction	29/12/13 05:30 AM
1	Thank You Throwawaypua, My Success Story from advice that he gave me Three Years ago haha okay nevermind then, I was watching that show with my brother and you looked just like one of the guys that won it! Anyway I think I definitely make that mistake with a lot of the girls that I'm interested in where I become way too friendly and obvious. Almost all my romantic relationships have come from friends that are girls that I unintentionally ignored, falling for me and asking ME out. Even after I figured out me acting overly friendly as a problem I still do it, or I overcompensate t…	/r/seduction	28/12/13 04:53 PM
1	Thank You Throwawaypua, My Success Story from advice that he gave me Three Years ago Were you on cutthroat kitchen?	/r/seduction	28/12/13 06:45 AM