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| 1 | Is there anyone else like me ? Virgin in late twenties?The physical act of sex isn't as meaningful as you believe, so seeing a professional to remove this mental block in your mind, would be worth the few hundred bucks. I strongly recommend you to take this course of action, without much ado. There will be no shame or dishonor, and you will keep it to yourself, forever. If you've read as much as you say you have, then you must already know it is not reasonable to expect too much of yourself, within the time frame you have set. You need to go easy on… | /r/seduction | 22/08/15 03:09 AM |
| -1 | How to approach and escalate super religious girls?This. Unfortunately, I have gone down this route, only to regret it truly and sincerely. Every time. Not only will it be against her values, but you are tearing her soul out if you just fuck her and dump her, which is exactly the way she will feel if it doesn't escalate to marriage. Marriage as an institution goes back millions of years in almost all societies, varying only slightly according to region and culture. | /r/seduction | 29/03/15 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Are men always responsible for setting things up?Yes, always. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 12:58 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who have trouble reading signs of interestGood stuff. This can lead down the slippery slope into inaction. I would think 2 seconds is the max required before taking action, and opening her. If you personally can prolong it to three seconds before going up into your head, then good for you. This is especially so when approaching strangers, where there is less social fallout, or enough time to engage. However, I would definitely not rule out approaching even after a missed invitation, if there is an opportunity. Its not a missed encounter… | /r/seduction | 21/03/15 09:43 PM |
| 3 | A couple of days ago I asked a girl I see working in a restaurant out. This was my first time ever. I sent a confirmation text and she told me her bf won't be happy about it. Next, ofc, but I feel insecure about myself.I remember going to a restaurant in another city, just to get to see the waitress who worked there, and sit there thinking about how I wanted to ask her out. She is no longer working there, but I still go, just in case she returns. This was before I discovered pickup and it went on for three years or so. Now that I have the confidence to approach girls, gained from experience, I could approach her. I now also know that she wanted me to hit on her, though I was completely oblivious to it at the t… | /r/seduction | 22/02/15 02:45 AM |
| 0 | 22yrs old virgin from the village struggling with his life looking for help from SedditYou have to save up to move out to a city. | /r/seduction | 16/02/15 09:32 PM |
| 1 | How to play the long (slow) game of seduction to get a girlfriend?Verbally stating your interest does not come off as being needy. From a woman's point of view, the only way to gauge a man's level of interest, is seeing or hearing it. If you don't ask her out, she may well think you're not interested, or that you're not sure. Anyway, this "take it slow" thing is a shit test. | /r/seduction | 08/11/14 01:30 AM |
| 0 | What if you have more value than the girl?Some women are busier than others, at different stages of their life, especially as they get older. From a male centric point of view, a woman's life can seem pretty boring, and even lacking in purpose. But from the perspective of evolutionary psychology, a woman's role in life only begins as a mother, and then she as busy as any man, and full of purpose. Women do not find the same sense of purpose in what men do, and do not bring their ego to the office, for the better, or worse. Men will filte… | /r/seduction | 21/10/14 05:27 AM |
| 4 | [Observation] Social Value: An Infield ExampleBy social value, I think you mean sexual value. Men are sexually attracted by beauty, while women are attracted by social status. | /r/seduction | 03/09/14 03:52 AM |
| 1 | The horrible, agonising regret.Its called browbeating. You're doing it. Stop. As a beginner, you may think that you are missing opportunities only now. In truth, this will be with you forever, and there is nothing you can do about it. You don't have to approach every girl in every situation. You can and you should, but you don't have to. | /r/seduction | 22/07/14 03:33 AM |
| 2 | Casanova goes against the model of being less invested in a girl than she is of you. Why did this work?Like most biographers from adventurers, there will be exaggerations, especially in regard to conquering enemies and women. Pretty much any story involves an omega male climbing the ladder to alpha, laying waste to his enemies, with the woman standing by his side, and in the end, a shower of praises from friends and family. Its much the same with modern day Casanovas who begin this journey seeking validation from women, and then turn to men, often with grandiose tales. Anyway, to address your que… | /r/seduction | 21/07/14 11:35 PM |
| 1 | There isn't a large community of women wanting to learn how to pick up guys is there?It would seem you still have a few limiting beliefs, and negative emotions, as indicated in some things you say. Calling out a "large group" of men who are "dick-headed" because they own the fact they have dicks, and work out to gain muscle, is pretty harsh. With that kind of attitude, you probably won't be able to keep up your workout regiment, and this "available" girl you talk of may get turned off when you don't grind her with your erect penis. I think most guys here don't even make approach… | /r/seduction | 04/07/14 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis to the point where I feel like throwing upIts not Oneitis if she loves you too. | /r/seduction | 11/06/14 01:34 PM |
| -2 | are there actually women who prefer AFCs and Beta guys?Women want a bad boy who they, and only they, can tame. Taming a beta isn't much of a challenge. Its all about the challenge. | /r/seduction | 02/06/14 11:52 PM |
| 0 | Sorry, I have a boyfriend"Really? I have a gold fish. Anyway, do you like italian food?" | /r/seduction | 31/05/14 01:04 AM |
| 5 | As a man what exactly are we offering to women?A powerful man offers his semen, protection, and love. In that order. | /r/seduction | 23/05/14 07:36 AM |
| 2 | DAE lose interest after getting the girl?Best answer here | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Why are most guys still AFCs?The reason women think they want AFC (supplicant) behaviour is because they are describing desired traits of a guy they would supplicate themselves to. Ask a women for advice about dating, and she'll immediately frame her reactions to a guy as such. Hence the just "be cool", or "be nice". | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 05:23 AM |
| 4 | Should I pay to lose my virginity and gain confidence?The physical act of sex isn't as meaningful as you believe and a few hundred bucks isn't a lot of money, so seeing a professional can remove the mental block in your mind, provided it is only for that. | /r/seduction | 20/04/14 04:31 AM |
| 3 | Holy hell it works!Cut your hair, call her, and fuck her. | /r/seduction | 12/04/14 02:48 AM |
| 1 | What the hell do I talk about?Dude, those soundclouds are awesome and I'm looking forward to hearing more. You handled it very well saying you don't respond to random numbers, making sure she took your number. I also liked how you questioned the existence of her boyfriend, and how she reacted. :) Just one thing, instead of saying she seemed cool, you could have said she was cute. That might have escalated it a little. | /r/seduction | 11/04/14 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Quotes that YOU live by?Everything will be okay in the end. If its not okay, its not the end. - John Lennon | /r/seduction | 10/04/14 06:55 AM |
| 1 | Oh look, science proves everything we've been saying all alongAnd it sounds like you are bought in. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Oh look, science proves everything we've been saying all alongRight, as if anyone out there is so high on morals that they wouldn't steal from a casino. But then again, he's melodramatic, as you said. | /r/seduction | 09/04/14 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Finally broke off my oneitisI'm sorry to say this, but you "just have to fucking do it". You do not wonna go further up in your head with inner game. Its one foot forward with inner game, and then the next forward with outer game (fucking doing it). | /r/seduction | 28/03/14 12:45 AM |
| -7 | Things I wish I knew years agoThere is no such as thing as depression, only not living your dreams. | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 07:21 PM |
| 1 | It's not about them, It's about me.So are you gonna ask her out? | /r/seduction | 25/02/14 11:47 PM |
| 2 | I did my first ever approach todayYou never get used to it. Your mind just creates new and more advanced excuses and rationalisations for not taking action. | /r/seduction | 16/02/14 05:38 AM |
| 2 | I turned approach anxiety into my new thrill ride unexpectedly.Owen is very different from Richard, not in style, but in manner of coaching. RSD focuses more on inner game, while Richard's tips focus more on escalation, both of which are important. Ultimately inner game will account for more success than the routines of physical escalation. | /r/seduction | 14/02/14 09:03 AM |
| 2 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsSimply put, initiating in a clear and direct way, shows a much lesser level of investment. You have the balls to get another girl if she turns you down, so anywhere between 70 to 90% of your responses will be positive or neutral. Just read the book. | /r/seduction | 09/02/14 05:54 AM |
| 0 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsThis is what Mark called "The Paradox" in his book "Models". You can find the answer in it. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 09:03 PM |
| 0 | 5 things that took me from being a needy single guy to the guy with the girl of his dreamsThis is what Mark called "The Paradox" in his book "Models". You can find the answer in it. | /r/seduction | 08/02/14 09:03 PM |
| 1 | Do you ever get the impression this website for the most part is, for lack of a better word "beta?" How do you make your reddit experience more confidence-boosting?Focus more on the field reports. Read them. Upvote them. I posted about my first approach and it got downvoted and only one comment. I have since made many more approaches. I don't see the point in posting about them if all guys wonna do here is rephrase good advice they read somewhere else a long time ago and has since resurfaced in their minds in some mangled form. The main purpose of this subreddit should be camaraderie. | /r/seduction | 21/01/14 02:14 AM |
| 2 | What makes a good wingman?Make sure it isn't your ego blaming his behaviour instead of your own. | /r/seduction | 18/01/14 10:49 PM |
| 1 | The downward spiral of being single for too long (inner game).What about her lifestyle do you find insulting? She said she is waiting for the right man. That man will be right if he inspires her. | /r/seduction | 14/01/14 05:31 AM |
| 1 | I've been such a pussy ever since I heard about this community. Tonight's the first night of the rest of my lifeWomen are usually never alone anywhere. | /r/seduction | 10/01/14 12:39 AM |
| 2 | If this encourages just one of you, then I've succeededUtmost respect. You are going to have the most awesome life. Thanks. Just thanks. | /r/seduction | 29/12/13 10:44 PM |
| 1 | Help approaching HB10 perfect girl gym front desk ladyMaybe one of the other guys hitting on her is now also fucking her? | /r/seduction | 21/12/13 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Good friend fucking my crush - need advice how to get over itBy now you will have read a lot of comments, articles and videos which deal with your problem. Now you may consider keeping her as a friend, for social proof with other girls, so that you can get your first girlfriend. You mentioned that she is with the guy who other girls say is really good looking (which is probably the only reason she went for him in the first place), so were you able to somehow maintain your friendship with her, then this would increase your sexual value in the eyes of other… | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Is it really oneitis?If you are "chasing" this "one" girl, then it is oneitis, in every sense of the word. The chase is on! | /r/seduction | 19/12/13 12:37 AM |
| 8 | How to avoid looking like an AFC solo at a club.You're in your head man. Most people have no idea what an AFC is, both the meaning and the acronym. They don't give a fuck about you, and you needn't give a fuck either. | /r/seduction | 18/12/13 07:59 PM |
| 1 | I just got dumped a few weeks ago. Here are the resources that have been helping me get through the breakup. Good for people with oneitis.This is also great: http://www.blackdragon-blog.com/2012/03/11/nine-steps-to-avoid-neediness-and-oneitis/ | /r/seduction | 14/12/13 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Can't take seduction seriously after this :D (german vid)The show presenter just makes fun of the PUA, especially when he gets rejected, or uses a bad line. Guess who gets fucked more? | /r/seduction | 02/12/13 01:03 AM |
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