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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
37	Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there?	Question For Men	throwawaycat64	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 03:04 PM

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1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 You've got me there, I'm such a misandrist!	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/05/25 11:45 AM
1	How are young men being disenfranchised? Me. I'd go insane and learn every hobby and skill.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 04:42 PM
–	Would you volunteer dirt on your EX for money? What's stopping everyone from making shit up for money?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 11:15 AM
1	How are young men being disenfranchised? If you had a year of all expenses paid-- rent, hobbies, food, trips, etc etc-- would you do nothing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 11:02 AM
4	How are young men being disenfranchised? Partnership, emotional support, division of chores, loyalty, depentability, ambition, parenting contribution, different perspective, physical strenght (in my case getting stuff off the top shelf), support for growth-- emotional, intellectual, personal. Most women I know are with their partners not because of a need they fullfill, but because they want to be with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 11:00 AM
2	A man should never be vulnerable with his partner, since women can't handle men's emotions It depends on what kind of woman he chooses to be his partner. Some women are emotionally immature, emotionally unintelligent, have never been put in a situation where they need to be the emotional support. While trusted male friends or mentors are also important, emotional support is part of a healthy relationship.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 10:53 AM
5	What are some negative habits/ traits that are commonly attributed to men that you actually feel is valid ? And how common is it for men to be single fathers?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/01/25 10:49 AM
–	Has anyone gotten past it? There's a reason people feel strongly about loneliness (familial, romantic, friendships) we are still a social species with biological drives. OP you are not a failure for still holding resentment towards the past and feeling frustrated. It's good that you're aware of it and take steps accordingly, you haven't failed just because you're faced with a difficult situation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/25 01:06 PM
2	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms Do you think it's standard here in Europe to do ""cheap"" dates? I only ever hear people from the US complain about dinner dates, I've never even considered the idea unless in a commited relationship already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:42 AM
0	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms I was referring to coffee dates, not dinner dates. Coffee costs 3-5 € here, it's a good way to get to know someone and neither party will feel hurt for paying.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:06 AM
0	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms I do! :) that's why I like coffee dates, you get to feel out the other person without anyone feeling exploited, and it's good financially for both parties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/24 01:01 AM
2	It’s unhealthy for someone to never having someone else be romantically interested in them. Not an excuse for people engaging in unhealthy habits but I don't think those magic weight loss drugs are available to the average joe.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 09:39 PM
8	Expecting the man to pay is abusing outdated gender norms Why isn't it more widely accepted to video/voice call before meeting, then meet at a coffee place? That's an inexpensive date. I can't imagine dating someone who keeps score of pennies like that also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/12/24 09:31 PM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 I agree that the average man didn't set that system up, it's almost like it's not the women who are at fault.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/12/24 08:46 PM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 Yep, good example of how stereotypes can be harmful!	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/24 09:34 AM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are idk what women you're talking about but my support system is wholly female, I have forwarded my friends job opportunities, offered emotional and financial support, also in cases of harassment/distress in public often random women have reached out to help I'm european tho	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 08:24 PM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 if you put it that way, effeminate men should also be used like that, plus no risk of getting pregnant/miscarriage to boost morale of course	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 06:38 PM
2	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 and who set that system up?	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 06:13 PM
1	If Ukrainian men are locked in the country and forced to fight, Ukrainian women should also be locked in and either forced to fight, be pregnant, or be raising a child under 3 There are far, far more women not "partying it up" worrying about their husbands, brothers, sons and being the main breadwinners for their children in whatever country they emigrated into to protect their families. "Ukrainian women partying up" seems like a stereotype imho.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 06:12 PM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I used dating "roaches" because they actively prey on vulnerable men, they're not there to teach they're there to make a profit off of you. It's a valid problem.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 06:04 PM
1	Influencers like Andrew Tate isn't radicalizing young men, the dating and economic conditions and general misandry are I don't see men creating spaces of support for each other. And I don't mean "talk it out" coddle groups or dating roaches.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/24 12:21 PM
–	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Literally no idea who you just namedropped. If you're only looking for sex with Instagram models then skip the dance, miscommunications and possible disappointment and just pay for an escort. I'm talking about the average woman who's looking for a relationship, not a high maintenance, social media obsessed narc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 11:34 AM
1	Q4W: What would you say about a man who is 8+/10 but is shy? Usually, personally, what makes a man more attractive than what he looks like is his charizma and soft skills so he wouldn't be a 8 if he lacks in that regard. However if he's kind, stable, has similar hobbies, is socially aware, and just has been undersocialized I would probably try to integrate him into my friend group and try to befriend him. Get absorbed into the friend circle idiot.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/24 10:09 AM
10	Its sad that most men allow themselves to be used as human ATMs by women. Coffee first date, everyone pays for their own. Tadaa.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 05:41 PM
2	What screams wife material to you? Subjective.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 05:39 PM
2	What screams wife material to you? Describe obedient without describing a slave or quoting the bible, be specific. Thanks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 05:16 PM
2	How Can We Improve Dating Sites? and the poly people also	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 05:01 PM
1	What screams wife material to you? Great qualities and fully agree with the "I'm a woman I'm always right and don't apologize" shit being whack and more women should be called out on it. Also weaponized psychology. Like tf you mean every ex was a covert narc? Seems the common denominator is you. Sincerely, a not emotionally stable 🐴 (neigh) woman	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/12/24 08:23 AM
11	Why do blue pill advocates react so strongly when their beliefs are questioned? As a strong leftie, agree with the "putting a group of people on a pedestal". Also lot's of people on both sides don't realize a debate about social discourse is not a personal attack or automatically mean racism/sexism/ism, I get that some themes are more sensitive than others but guilt tripping and witch hunting is not a productive way to have a debate. Also you're never going to convince someone who actually has a prejudice against a group of people by shouting them down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 09:16 AM
2	How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough? Despite being raised catholic and having feminine behaviour / appearances basically shoved down my throat I still do not feel the need to conform or pretend. If a man wants a visually hyper feminine woman, he's probably not for me because I wouldn't want to be with someone who doesn't like how I present in my day to day. But I can see how some people feel comfort in embodying male/female archetypes and gender norms-- same as religion, just don't force it upon others as the ultimate "be-all end-a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 09:10 AM
3	How often do you fear that you'll be romantically rejected because you're not feminine enough? Nice LARP.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/24 09:01 AM
1	NEW NUMBERS 4 out of 10 young men in Sweden don't dare to flirt with girls, study shows There's men who will do criminal things when a woman rejects them. There's women who will throw a social media shit fit if they feel insulted by the approach. Both exist and both are a special breed of shitty person.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 08:30 PM
2	NEW NUMBERS 4 out of 10 young men in Sweden don't dare to flirt with girls, study shows and everyone clapped	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 08:26 PM
2	What do women like in men they AREN'T attracted to? There are overall qualities that are well likes regardless of gender but if I have to pick things I appreciate about the men in my life (father, friends) there's: - Self actualization / creativity (projects, etc) - Good conversation (being able to discuss different topics together, coming away having learned or shared something new) - Good sense of community / some level of extroversion (generally caring about the people in their life, open to expanding their friend circle) - Great with kids/eld…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 07:38 PM
9	Why do single-moms volountarily struggle alone??? Studies suggest that children in households with unrelated adult males, such as stepfathers or a single mother’s new partner, may face an increased risk of sexual abuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/12/24 01:03 PM
3	Why does therapy fail men on a large scale and what alternatives are there? ayy yeah my experience, it didn't feel like any solutions were provided	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/24 05:19 PM
3	Q4W: Why do you only swipe right on the minority of men? Literally same vetting process + most of my female friends agree that they vet similarily.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/24 03:02 PM
3	CMV: I don't think women like men just because most women are not visual like men that doesn't mean they never feel attraction I'd say women are more attracted how a certain man makes them feel with his behaviour, not his looks	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:27 PM
6	CMV: I don't think women like men Sorry, how is visual stimulation important in pair bonding?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/24 08:08 PM
1	Why men should open up to women emotionally. Sorry to butt in like this but did your ex ever improve or learn to regulate? Probably not the best place to ask but I struggle with something similar (not currently but it has happened in the past)	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 10:04 PM
–	For average men, getting a female partner mostly comes down to luck, everything else is insignificant. Revenge towards who?	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/24 11:01 AM
–	Question For Women: How often in your entire life would you say you saw a guy that you were attracted to whose number you would’ve liked to have, but he didn’t make a move/direct IOI and you also didn’t with him? nah, he can be as pretty as an angel but that doesn't tell anyone about his behavior, personality, values, etc	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/24 04:02 PM