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| 1 | There's no point in a relationship with someone who values independence so much they offer nothingThere is no such thing as being "too independent" in a relationship. There is only a such thing as having your goals not mesh well with another person's goals. And most times if you make no sacrifices in the goals you want to achieve, you will find yourself alone. That sounds like an issue of you two not being compatible, or you not being good enough for him. Lol. He can't do better than me. He saw my worth when I left, as they all do. We were not compatible because he only thought of himself. H… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 06:35 PM |
| 1 | There's no point in a relationship with someone who values independence so much they offer nothingYou're taking "independence" the wrong way Maybe I am in this context, but it is what I gathered from OP's post and how I interpreted she/he meant by it. What I meant by independence is that both people don't NEED the other, especially to make up for something they themselves lack. Such as one NEEDS another person's income, or NEEDS another person to cook/clean for them, or NEEDS the other to figure things out for them that they should know themselves People shouldn't have to need the other pers… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | There's no point in a relationship with someone who values independence so much they offer nothingI agree but disagree. There has to be compromise in how these two independent people continue their independence but also cater to the needs and dependency of one another in a relationship. A relationship where two people do things lives for their individual benefit only becomes hallow and somewhat selfish. If a person has a certain goal in mind that will interfere with the growing of the relationship and doesn't take into account the other person - then there will be problems. Those types of pe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 03:40 PM |
| 2 | There's no point in a relationship with someone who values independence so much they offer nothingI think all she means are people being unable to sacrifice for the greater good because they see the value in that person enough to take one for their team. But only when they see that value. Anyone who wants to grow as a person first and do what they want to do on their time and only thinking about the benefits of themselves - should not be in a relationship until they reach that point. Emotional labour will be required from their partner during that stage because they will always be put last. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/19 03:30 PM |
| 6 | What are some things the other gender doesn't realize about pregnancy and childbirth?You know that without an egg he can't create life, right. It's not like his sperm is using a woman's uterus Soley for the incubation of his seed. It's different if all he needed was someone to "house" the sperm and it created 100% copies of him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 07:04 PM |
| 6 | r/femaledatingstrategy is disgusting.This sounds just like TRP.... How many times do we try to tell these people that it seems like it works on very specific types of women and majority of those are weak pushovers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/19 06:55 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or soNobody said it was bad for anyone to be "attracted" to one another. It's another thing to engage in a relationship. Besides beauty, what does the man want from her? What type of genuine relationship are they having. They are in complete different live stages - if a friendship cannot be formed then they are serving their basic needs for a relationship. Which is fine for the people who want to do so. But you can see how this is oppressive to young women who will never be considered a "partner" to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 04:30 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Age gap freakouts prove that most people think women are children until around age 25-30 or soI don't think she is saying should never be attracted - but the older guy if he not predatory should not be allowing things to continue on and engage in it because at the end of the day he will look like the bad one no matter how it's sliced. He should of known better. The girls I know who have been highly attracted and physical with men 30+ their age at a young age, have had sexual trauma in the past from older men. I am not 100% on this so don't quote me or come at me for it. But it seems like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/19 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Is being pressured to have sex the price we pay for the freedom to pursue it?Thank you. Yes, much much better :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/19 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society?No they aren't. Go ask these men what their types are. I'm sure they have a list of people they wouldn't fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society?Bs. How many of these guys who complain about not having sex or getting into relationships have crazy standards or ideals about their dream women? You think they will take just anyone? How many people on here agree that minority women esp black women are ugly and manly. How many wouldn't want to be with a fat girl? Are you also telling them to go date a black girl or date someone fat and change his standards? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society?Do you actually think women only choose alpha males? Do you not see average couples around you or do you primarily focus on good looking people. Do you not think below or average guys have the ability to be assholes and picky? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 06:41 PM |
| 9 | Is being pressured to have sex the price we pay for the freedom to pursue it?Lmao, I wish I did that. Some women from a young age are raised to be people pleasers. You can probably see this, in that submissive women are usually indecisive and will go along with what the majority wants. Women who are rough around edges and straight to the point are seen as bitches who dgaf. And it's probably why more men are in positions of power. They were raised to follow their own path and say no and mean it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 03:04 PM |
| 5 | Is being pressured to have sex the price we pay for the freedom to pursue it?This was something I had to work with during the time that Tinder blew up and I never engaged in casual sex with strangers before. Especially coming out of an abuse relationship, I always said yes - even if I didn't want to, add that with low self esteem = sex partners. There were many situations where I knew what was going to happen. I didn't want to, I didn't want to say "no" to avoid any "so why the fuck did you come here" (like I have heard) so I just did it and went home. Which yup I was fu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 02:56 PM |
| 2 | What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society?Msg me if you need to talk girl! I'm 26 too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 02:25 PM |
| -1 | What do you think of women who are isolated and rejected by society?So you think the same about men who are in the same situation? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 02:24 PM |
| 11 | PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives.Tbh, I don't care of you think I'm wrong. Be happy a woman is trying to empathize the situation. You get my point. And additionally because women have such easy access to sex very very few truly understand what decades of a loveless and sexless life can do to an individual. Well of course. Im sure you couldn't understand what is like to have a extremely painful period, one week out of the month, for 30+ years. Where you need to take off work. Majority of people don't understand what they don't h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 11:29 AM |
| 4 | PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives.Honestly guys I really don't care lol. Make it your post for a better analogy. My point was made. How about just accept the fact that a woman is empathizing with the situation as much she can. Men don't want sex, they want intimacy, affection, and to be acknowledged. Women don't even have to try. Why are 90% of the replies saying how hard it is for men to get casual sex. The point of RP is to get as much casual sex as you can. Casual sex is sex and solely sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/19 05:44 AM |
| 87 | PSA: Women’s ability to have casual sex has no significant positive impact on our lives.You know what, im going to try and take this from a different angle, because i get what you are saying 1000% that being able to attain casual sex means nothing - because it doesn't benefit us at the end of the day. But, I suppose the reason we are able to knock it off the list of cares is that it's so attainable the average women does not need to think about it, consciously - Until we are horny and we are calling up our FWB or we get a msg from our FWB. Let's say we are talking about accesses … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Haha oh!! Okay good. I'm glad to hear that :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Haha true! I'm really just trying to figure out the hate for single mothers here and why men wouldn't date one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?That is extremely unfortunate. Sorry you had to go through that.. I hope you're okay now. Would you ever consider dating a single mother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:27 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Ah ok ok. Thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Nice! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Were you raised by a single mom ?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:25 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Interesting. Do you think you would ever date a single mom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Thanks for your honesty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Why as a last resort, if you don't mind me asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Would you date a single mom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?I completely agree. One good parent is much better than two shitty ones. That's something that starts the foundation of what children view "love" as Would you date a single mom? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?Would you date a single mother? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Those of you who grew up with a single mom, do you think your life would of improved if you had a step dad?This was exactly my point of the post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/19 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Would you date someone who has a history with sex work?Don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/19 02:17 PM |
| 7 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?Some women put out when they don't want to for their man to shut up about it, if she is not in the mood but he continues to pressure and ask. If she doesn't want sex her partner should leave it at that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?Are you defending the neck analogy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 11:21 PM |
| 10 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?Women see sex as an awful chore when the relationship is lacking many more things that the man is not paying attention to. Not only that, if she is LL - sexual engagement is very mental. If she is not into no pretending will get her wet. Have you ever had sex with a dry vagina? Is it fun? Can you pretend it's fun | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 10:57 PM |
| 6 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?That men want pity sex? Yah ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 10:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?if you or her don't want sex it should never be something someone is forced to do. If it's not willingly given its not genuine, and I would not want my husband to fuck me if he's not 100% into it. It's selfish. You ask why can't women just take it for the pleasure of her husband, sounds rapey to me that you would engage with sexual contact with someone who is showing you signs of disinterest. Marital rape is a thing, and it's seems like men here have no problem with it - yet, want to complain wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 10:36 PM |
| 4 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?Agreed. No one likes a pity fuck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 10:35 PM |
| 14 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?It's not horrible, obviously it's normal. But, if you or her don't want sex it should never be something someone is forced to do. If it's not willingly given its not genuine, and I would not want my husband to fuck me if he's not 100% into it. It's selfish. How is she a frigid shrew? Men like you are fucked. You ask why can't women just take it for the pleasure of her husband, sounds rapey to me that you would engage with sexual contact with someone who is showing you signs of disinterest. Marit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 10:32 PM |
| 21 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?Like Atlas said, if you're not doing anything to turn her on she is never going to be in the mood. If she doesn't want sex with you there are bigger problems in the relationship and they should be addressed instead of asking why she can't just pretend to want you. Pity sex is horrible. The fact that you want it or are questions it means alot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 06:15 PM |
| 19 | Q4W: Is it really that hard to have sex with your SO and not starfish?Why should anyone have to pretend? Yes. it is that difficult - sex isn't like washing the dishes or cleaning your room because you are being told do and doing it anyway. Sex is for the pleasure of both people. If she is making clear she isn't in the mood for sex, you already don't care about she feels, if you continue to force it, she is having duty sex for you to shut up and leave her alone. Why should she care about pretending for the sake of your feelings? Is it that hard to turn on some porn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 05:50 PM |
| 1 | White dudes have white privilege when it comes to datingMore so meaning, I'm not looking for them. They aren't what I'm attracted to generally. I couldn't see myself seriously dating one because it's not who I envision my future being with, but if one comes my way and we get along then yea sure, I'll date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 02:06 PM |
| 2 | So, how important is penis size really?Where the hell did you hear this. I'm 5'7-5'8and I can't handle big dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Why are light-skinned female and slightly darker-skinned male couples so common?Interesting. I'm black and have only dated guys lighter than me lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 04:11 AM |
| 2 | So, how important is penis size really?Lol wtf... I'm 5'7 and I don't like big dicks. It actually hurts me and pushes on my uterus making it very painful | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 04:01 AM |
| 2 | So, how important is penis size really?What does that have to do with it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 04:00 AM |
| 0 | White dudes have white privilege when it comes to datingRace never mattered to me, though I have only dated one black guy. But I personally cannot see myself seriously dating a white guy and if I did I probably couldn't/wouldn't settle with one. Other minorities tho? Yup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/19 08:56 PM |
| 2 | Black Women are the Horniest. Its Great.If we are speaking about hair - asians don't have the same issues because they already have naturally straight hair. People who are closer to resembling whites are seen as attractive. Light skin, hair, etc. Asian women are small and petite, also their culture within themselves is very "cute and childlike" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Black Women are the Horniest. Its Great.You're delusional if you don't think what people find attractive is majorly socially influenced. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Black Women are the Horniest. Its Great.Maybe to other black people, not typically to white people. I know a bunch of black people that hate their hair and hate other black people's hair. People are indifferent to what is not normal to them. I know many white people who think black hair is beautiful and others who don't like because they have lowkey have racial bias. Which is probably you. Other black people who hate black hair is because of white people who tol them their hair is ugly and they need to change it. This has been ingrain… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 03:15 PM |
| 4 | Black Women are the Horniest. Its Great.Maintenance which causes receding hairline. What are you talking about ... I know 0 black people who have receding hairlines, men or women who are of age to not be balding? It has been shown, and it's not a discrimination that affects only black women. I'm white but I'm not a good looking white, and I'm short, I've had all these issues, it's life and it's really nobody's fault K, but no one is not going to hire you because you are white and short. If your education backs you up - you are fine. I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 02:40 PM |
| 4 | Black Women are the Horniest. Its Great.The fact that you're calling something that grows out the head of an entire population is ugly, is much more than saying something is ugly about a particular person in general. Black hair is not ugly or shitty, it's more maintenance but not at all ugly. Yes. People like you. Something like hair on a black person who runs into someone like you that owns a business can and probably will be discriminated against if they apply for a job. Why do you think hair is such a huge topic for black people? I… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 01:20 PM |
| 6 | Black Women are the Horniest. Its Great.I'm a black woman and I don't look like that .. And shitty hair? This why is black people have so many identity problems growing up. People like you are disgusting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Please comment with your age, ethnicity and general locationMid 20's Carribean/African mixed Canada 65k | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 07:08 PM |
| 0 | Dating “report cards” would only stigmatize black womenDamn. That is comforting. I think it would be interesting for all of us to have a conversation or even SUB where we can talk about these things. Since I feel like our perceptions and experiences are very different from what PPD describes as being normal. You see Poppy trying to talk about these things and she always gets shut down and told she talks about race so much. Yet - look at all these racist ass people on here. But there are things I can't talk about with other black people because I aga… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 07:05 PM |
| 4 | Dating “report cards” would only stigmatize black womenOf course! The white people who do this are the same ones to laugh and talk with you in your face and probably pretend to be woke. The bubble these people live in is so tiny. Hi brother, good to have you here 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Women love to dress like sluts for attention from MenYikes. Says the person who made a whole reply trying to convince strangers of their superiority | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Dating “report cards” would only stigmatize black womenHonestly reading these posts are sickening. People really think dating lives and relationships revolve only around white middle class people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Q4 women if your boyfriend wanted to have anal sex more than vaginal sex would you mind?You know that's where a guys g spot is? Go stick a dick in your ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 05:48 PM |
| 2 | Black Women are the Horniest. Its Great.but the only good thing black women have is sideview WHR, not front view WHR, for everything else, they've got more masculine facial feature, shitty hair, shitty looking boobs, and they're just fatter. Lol what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 05:10 PM |
| 6 | Women love to dress like sluts for attention from MenThat was convincing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Dating “report cards” would only stigmatize black womenWhy would it be terrible for the black female community? If it's on an individual basis, if the black women are clean it shoulnt effect any of their dating prospects The women who have those - would already be in a community that everyone is sharing everyone anyway. Or am I reading into this wrong?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 04:37 PM |
| 0 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Women have the options to get abortions. They don't complain when they have to. It's a choice they make at the end of the day. Guys need to protect themselves if they feel they are getting trapped and have no say in the end result of cumming inside someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Playing dumb to what. Make sense when you reply. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | Don’t date men with high n countsExactly. We all just wanna be happy at the end of the day! Whichever strategy someone chooses is going to be right for them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 03:56 AM |
| 1 | Don’t date men with high n countsIdk man. Looking the amount of people who get divorced, the highschool sweet hearts that break up, the people who cheat because they want to explore and felt they missed out on life, the highly religious who are judgemental af and hypocritical .. my partner's count is the least of my worries. And whatever he wants to watch as long as it doesn't degrade me as the woman he is making love to or be prioritized over me. I am good. But I respect your position. I just personally don't agree :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?I don't believe there is a wage gap. The statistical evidence is always squed in favour of women making less. If they work less hours and take off more time, what do they expect? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?You have been taught well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Hmm cultural thing. Care to expand? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Exactly. Trust me I don't like condoms either but I gotta do it if I wanna have sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:18 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Very hard. would not recommend | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:17 PM |
| 4 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?I honestly don't understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Don’t date men with high n countsWould you ever consider it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Going out with an asian guy tonight AMAHAVE FUNNNN. Tell us how it went. Indian or Chinese ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Don’t date men with high n countsMeh. I don't care about the high N Counts because I don't believe it has anything to do with pair bonding. I watch porn, so.. id just opt for us to watch it together. If I'm not horny I can give him a list of porn stars to jerk off to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Then you should get your emotions checked. Lastly, if you're one of those people who are not going in raw I'm obviously not addressing this to you so you have no reason to get mad LOOOL. Dkm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 07:57 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Yet it's these clueless men who are complaining.... Aka they need a reality check or they need to be proactive. And good. That's how it's suppose to go. If you don't want to be a father, protect yourself. I don't get why you're so mad and you fully agree with me but ok. Do you boo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 07:45 PM |
| 2 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?So what do you wanna have choice in? At this point you're just whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 07:39 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Girls know this. Why do you think women for so long have been shamed for having children outside of marriage, proactive about birth control and taught about sex as soon as they get their periods (8yrs +) the women who are getting STD'S from randoms, do you hear them complaining? The women who are having abortions, do you hear them complaining about single motherhood? No. They go to the doctor and handle their shit. It's men who have no choice who are complaining. So if you wanna have full contro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 07:37 PM |
| 2 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Didn't you just say how easy it was to ghost ? Did you not just say that or are you gonna back peddle now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?This is why men don't have the control over it. You played yourself. it's so easy men have been doing it for centuries - which is why they can't tell a woman shit about keeping the kid or not. He can tell her to keep it, promise to be there and decides to leave. He can just disappear You're just mad that it's not allowing you guys to have control on what you decide to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Condoms don't come in xxs ? That's a bummer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Do it with a gf, not a random because there is a huge chance still. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 06:35 PM |
| 5 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Put your anger towards other men then. Not women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 06:34 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Men are shooting the loaded gun and are stupid enough to not put on the safety. You probably thought you got me with a gotcha, but I do believe women should take certain precautions and be very aware of their surroundings and interactions with men. But, with your comparison since you really believe it's the same. It's not. Not going outside because of an actual fear of getting raped as soon as you walk out the door is delusional. Fucking a girl, with no condom and not knowing her cycle to know w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 06:33 PM |
| 5 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?No. I'm saying realize this isn't something that is going to change soon, since you will never experience birthing or getting pregnant. This is a situation where your feelings do not matter. Understand that and protect yourself until maybe the day comes and you can do something about it. Until then, wrap it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 05:58 PM |
| 3 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?You're mad at women or mad at men who enforced these rules? Understand that you physically and mentally don't have the control over this situation. Suck it up, stop talking about unfair biology is and protect yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 6 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Because she has a uterus and births the kid. Go run to the store and get Plan B if you came inside of her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 05:35 PM |
| 8 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?I should just throw the whole thread away. You won. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 04:59 PM |
| 10 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?Then they are idiots. 25minutes or less if we are being honest of pleasure for a life time human spawn. Ya. No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 04:58 PM |
| 8 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?If she wants to trap you ... Why would she do that ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Is it really that hard to put on a condom?You again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/19 04:53 PM |
| 1 | When women claim anything below 6 foot is "not tall enough", they shouldn't complain when those men start going for 12 year old girls who won't be cunts to them about heightYou're gross. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 02:55 PM |
| 1 | while im on the subject of raceWhere r these posts ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 02:36 PM |
| 3 | White women are extremely threatened by Asian and Latina womenWhite women age the worst.. what r u talking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 02:32 PM |
| 1 | White women are extremely threatened by Asian and Latina womenIt was one comment ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfUgh you're annoying. It's time to shut up, trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfSee, this is what would happen if a stranger would tell you the truth, you would accusse them of racism. It is no wonder they would not tell you the truth, think about it. If we were face to face and even if you looked 30 at your 26 I would do the same as the other stranger and tell you that you look younger to avoid the racism claim. Buddy.. you came to me saying that black women look like the ones in AHS, you don't pay attention to black women because you probably believe they are ugly and no … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfOh sweety. Your racism is showing, not a good look. I'm not the "stereotypical" black women you speak of in American that are protrayed on the TV. I'm not even American LOL Now it makes even more sense. No one wants to upset a black woman in today's politically correct world. Meaning what? In what type of context do you assume race dictates the conversation of age. People in skin care don't care about your feelings, they will tell you you look old so you buy more products. Why would someone tell… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfBuddy... Nobody is "complimenting me" they are genuinely curious and very surprised. They have no reason to walk up to me randomly and say "wow u look so young" my family has amazing genes. My parents are 60 and look 40's. But I get it. In your rp mind you think all women 25+ re shriveled up old women. Sorry u don't get compliments dude, black don't crack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfStrangers who have no relevance to my life and need nothing from me have no reason to just be nice. Esp since majority of these interactions are them being inquisitive on my age and proclaiming I am younger. So try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | How Based or Pilled are Partners and Friends? Ever dated a Piller?Honestly.... It just emits through their interactions with women and their expectations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How Based or Pilled are Partners and Friends? Ever dated a Piller?Dated one. Dumped him. He had too many concepts of ALWAT and tried to be alpha etc. It was deeply rooted in him and he was emotionally exhausting. Never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 10:27 PM |
| 2 | The fact that the most offensive thing you could ask a woman about is her age inevitably proves that women are aware of the wall itselfLol how is that offensive? I love that question - but probably because at 26 I still get that I look 18-19 so... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/19 10:24 PM |
| 3 | CMV: There Is Possibly No Greater Red Flag For A Woman In This Age Than A Man Obsessed With N-Count, Or Her Being A VirginI've been saying this, huge red flag. Any guy to ask me if honestly reconsider dating him seriously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes?I call bullshit. How many men complain they are in dead bedrooms, their wives gives starfish non enthusiastic sex ? Or that they gained weight and let themselves go? Do you not expect your partner to stay sexually attractive for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes?Hell yah they expect it. Do you not expect your partner to stay sexually attractive to you and not let herself go? Do you not expect sex in a marriage? Do you not expect food at home if u come back from a long day at work ? Who the fuck is saying "no you" or changing the topic. I'm addressing something the guy said during a relationship Yah many women may have high standards when they are single choosing mate but you don't see what people tolerate when they are actually together. Go find some ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes?Ya ok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 07:49 AM |
| 1 | Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes?Idc about your life tbh - you're a small fraction of what is realistic. Your life is what most guys want. Is that wrong? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/19 07:48 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Like cars, women depreciate with age, but unlike cars, they don't think that they depreciateSo do men. You think you're above it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 07:21 PM |
| 5 | Have you ever dated a passive man, or one who turned out to be way too weak/soft/needy for your tastes?You guys expect porn star, enthusiastic, home cooked meals and clean houses and your wife looking 100% all the time even after years of being together and having kids? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/10/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Just very interesting to me. No matter how comfortable I feel, i would never. If im talking to a friend, sure - thats even rare friend and it has to be long term friend I trust. I dont see why people talk about sex stories openly to a new person they are trying to sleep with or get into a relationship with. Why would a potential whatever, want to hear about who you fucked? I wouldnt want to hear it. So i dont get how these conversations even start. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/09/19 05:30 AM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Re read ur reply lol. It reeks with aggressive over compensation. You do not need to impress anyone here bro. Relax | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Yep just wanted to remind you. The way you express yourself is appalling and its no surprise you had and probably still have issues. Seems like TRP did nothing more but highten a type of hate you have. You sound bitter and overly aggressive for no reason. Lacking something internally bro? You should fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/19 06:53 AM |
| -1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Youre one to talk about judgment. Look at yourself first bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/19 12:28 AM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Lol. Being someone who is pro-sex, I still would not talk about my past experiences like that. I dont care if the guy doesnt care, what grown woman is going to talk about these things? That sounds like college, bimbo headed girls going on rants about their sex lives like it defines them. How old r u? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 11:18 PM |
| 0 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Who lost an arguement? There was no argument to lose. So ill stick to what im doing. Thanks. Good for you - i dont care if youre a fitness model. The fact you guys think value increases or decreases with a number is laughable. Bad people will do bad things, periodt. If you think that defines them then whatever youre a lost cause. I hope your partner will only value you for the material things you provide to her. Ah, as long as you dont expect her to put out "only for you on the first date bc it … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.No. I dont care how many people he slept with. Why do i care about the vaginas he was allowed to fuck while he was single.. What is a number really going to tell me about him? If he is going to be an asshole and treat me badly then he is going to do it if he slept with 2 or 30. I have never asked the question. My questions are, Is he STD free? How many real relationships has he had? How / why did they break up? Etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 10:02 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.So these RP are not most men and the ones who are arguing here about it are obviously the ones that would ask. No wonder they went to TRP because their horrible with women and social interactions in the first place. So why try to argue over a number you will never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 08:03 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.And this is probably why you went into TRP in the first place. By how you sound i have no doubts you werent desirable and fucking women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 08:01 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.LOOOOLL is this fucking real? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 07:58 PM |
| 2 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.By asking what the girls sexual history is a teller. The only men who have asked me and i got into a LTR with them ended up being mentally immature and i broke it off and it literally started from that mindset of "wanting to know where he is on the scale and how much of an ego boost he can have". Asking that question as something to "check off" is a no go for me. I would end the conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 07:51 PM |
| 2 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.He said relationships... not casual sex partners. There is a difference. Id much prefere a man who tells me he has had 30 sexual partners than a man who tells me he has had 30 girlfriends aka people he considered to be in a relationship with. Relationships take work and effort and much more than a drunken hook up for one night. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Why should she be "changing for him" She did single things while she was single. And will do relationship things when she is in a relationship. If she was a serial cheater in her LTR, every single one then its something to be wary of. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 07:41 PM |
| 3 | N-Count is such a stupid thing to worry over. Just because she had casual sex, doesn't mean she doesn't value you in a relationship.Go on ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/19 07:39 PM |
| 3 | What do you think of Jordan Peterson's response to the question "why do I find small talk boring?" posted on Quora?This is spot on. I am a very introverted person, I dislike social settings so I got over this by mastering small talk. In turn, many people who don't know me think I am outgoing and personable and won't believe the anxiety I feel before I get there. It has become a tool I mastered once I understood the importance of it; dating wise, relationship wise, job wise, everything. Let me tell you. This was again, one of the biggest problems I had with my ex. He did not want to meet my friends or come … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/19 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities?That's true. But then that means that you would never marry a non Asian girl then?? Nope! What is that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities?Haha yah so I have heard. But it also is very interesting because even as a black girl, before things get serious I usually need to ask if their parents are ok with them dating a blck girl, bc most are not. It's my way of knowing whether they are serious or just fucking around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities?I'll be honest, I dont really follow celebrities lol. I just googled him now and he is pretty good looking. My celebrity tastes are pretty wide tho. Black, Asian, white, Spanish. But my personal preference in dating in who I see IRL gravitates towards Asian men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities?Hmm, not really. My school was very multicultural. From like grade 2 my first crush was a Filipino guy. I just find them to be alot more appealing face wise and body wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what physical features do you find attractive on men and in your opinion who are the hottest male celebrities?I'm a black girl and I have a thing for Asian guys. Idk why. All my ex's have been Asian. I find them very attractive and sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 04:32 AM |
| 1 | Is there such a thing as being Stacy-widowed?Yes. I have stacy widowed all of my ex's. I wouldn't call myself a stacy tho - I am very pretty and have a good head on my shoulders. I guess they realize they cant find that in every woman and end up appreciating me only when they lose me. They always come back. I'm talking coming from 5+ years after the end of our relationship to rekindle and apologize. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/19 04:29 AM |
| 5 | Q4Women: would you rather have children with an average man or have children as a single mother after selecting a high quality sperm donor?This is completely male projection. Honestly showing some signs of being on the spectrum and really not understanding real life / relationships. Ya'll really think a woman would choose to be a single mother and raise her "Golden Child" bc that is, an awesome life ? Obviously the average one for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/19 12:59 AM |
| 4 | Men should lose their hang ups about hookers. Their lives will be a lot better.No, they are not. You yourself admitted that men want the emotional connection and the validation that comes with sex. We can't get this from a hooker. Is it not RP men who advocate for fucking as many people as he can. With 0 strings attached and tell women who have a higher N that she is more prone to "pair bonding issues" because women hve a more emotional connection to sex? Its men, who make the "emotional sex is not needed" okay. "Just cheat on your wife bro." Like men, never have never com… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/19 10:56 PM |
| -1 | Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup culture100% THIS !! If a guy asks me how many people I slept with, not my experiences of "what have you done" we aren't compatible. Esp if I know he isnt religious - it's a whole mess of a man with with u travel itself later on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Maybe some men just weren't meant for hookup cultureWhat does this even mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/19 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?Lol I didnt make absolutes about your OP topic, which you repeatedly told me to stick to. I told you many times to make it clear and seperate casual sex but you told me its about addictions. So back to square 1, since you were in fact talking about casual sex too like I was responding to. And I'll say again, I agree with porn. But I really dont agree that casual sex makes people less satisfied in their relationships and I told you why. And until you answer my question, I am denying your experien… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 10:32 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?Lmao but I thought you said your post wasnt about casual sex and it was about addictions when I told you to make it more clear. Now you're going back to seeing if I agree with it for normal casual sex? I already said I didnt and repeating it many times. Stick to your OP topics or like I said, make a post about casual sex solely and dont compare it to sex addictions. So if you're asking if I agree with your OP, sure, in cases of addictions and I outlined why. Why did you feel unsatisfied? And do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?Possible for addictions. Not possible for casual sex. This remains untrue in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?Can you read? Quote me where I said that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?You told me I said it was absolute. I never said it was. A small possibility, but not enough to support your claim. If you're ok with 5%, then sure. But it's not the norm. That is all. And I strongly disagree that anyone will be completely turned off from monogamy due to casual sex, porn, etc unless it's an addiction to it and or they didn't want monogamy to begin with. And why r u so reluctant to answering my questions ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?I have known men who have engaged in casual sex who confided they became less capable and willing to have a relationship. Obviously. When they realise how easily they can get sex, for a little while. Dont pretend like sooner or later they are going to want to have someone to share their days and passions with aside from quickies. And when they want that, they wont hve a problem being in monogamous relationship. It’s NOT out of the realm of possibility. I don’t know why you are acting like it is.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Do you wish you could be 100% provided for by your partner?No. No. No. I value my freedom too much. I thought about and seeing how it can be used against you at any moment, I'd rather die then feel indebted to someone for my livelihood. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 08:02 PM |
| 4 | Do you wish you could be 100% provided for by your partner?Hm. Now do you understand why women dont want to go back to traditional. People are literally saying they would peel their skin off before being 100% controlled by someone. I forgot which thread we spoke about this on but yah. See. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?How many ppl do you know or have studies on that casual sex has in fact diminished someone's ability to form a relationship who was perfectly capable of having a relationship before? I think bad relationship experiences or like I said trauma can have that affect. Many people are going into casual sex situations now a days to find a relationship or fill a void. Once they have a relationship or the void is filled it is no longer something they want. Like I said, it can be a symptom of an already d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?Addictions only, yes because someone is obsessed and craves it. Make that clearer in your argument. But dont try to frame it as gotcha and if someone agrees that a porn addiction an ruin a relationship that casual sex has the same effect. Anything in excess can ruins on ability to have healthy meaningful relationships. Being a spoiled brat can lead to some toxic relationship behaviours. Being abused, being ignored, being too clingy, being too dependent etc. But I deny that normal CASUAL sex can … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?It appears to me that people object to the idea that casual sex destroys the ability to form happy relationships on ideological grounds or seemingly out of an obligation to defend women. Nonetheless, I do think there is validity to the idea. You're comparing casual sex to sex addictions and having sex with women every day and not being able to maintain a relationship. Are you not or am I misreading this. Do you reject the idea that casual sex does not in fact fuck up paidbonding? If you are then… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?I said that sex in excess, like addiction, can absolutely diminish the satisfaction of one’s propensity to be content in a relationship of the future. The idea of bringing casual sex into this is illogical. Casual sex in majority of cases does not diminish someone's satisfaction in their relationship. Someone having sexual sex prior does not mean they are not going to enjoy a relationship. You're reaching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?Sex addiction can ruin relationships as the person they are in a relationship with merely becomes a sex object and nothing else. Porn can ruin relationships because someone is choosing to still be active in consuming porn in unhealthy amounts that will in turn change their behaviour to their partner. Casual sex doesn't equal sex addicts. Causal sex is what it is. Casual. Finding someone to bust your nut with or ride on for some minutes and you're done. Casual sex doesn't mean being addicted to h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Can simulated sex influence the ability to pair bond?Casual doesn't ruin someone's chances to pair bond. It's not cause and effect. The lack of wanting a monogamous relationship at that moment in your life means exactly that. If someone hates the idea of being on a committed relationship they wont be. If someone loves the idea of being in a relationship but isnt at the point in their life that they want one. They still can have both in their lifetime. Casual sex to ruined pairbonding is BS. As most people now a days get into monogamous relationshi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/09/19 06:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionI said men, not blacks. You have failed to answer the question. You're waste. Goodbye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionAre they stopping men on the street, collecting them and killing them because they are men? Black people have gone through both. They are still going through both, living and dealing with racism every day in work places, dating, police stops etc is exhausting. Why do you think so many people are on the movements and showing the injustice? Do you know how many black people kill themselves and feel the need to change themselves because they are black and do not fit into a society? Again. Why aren'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:58 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionAre men being jailed and killed solely because they are a man? And why aren't people killing themselves if they are being drafted. You have yet to answer the question which at this point you obviously have no answer to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionYou are the one saying it's worse. I dont believe it is worse. You basically are the one stating that one is better, because when someone dies during childbirth they are bringing a life into the world. It’s objectively worse than merely shaming and your feelings being hurt. Then you really dont understand, ostracizing, social shaming, isolation, and what that can to do a human psyche. In jail, there is still some sort of society which is why many people, even today go back to jail and why it's s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionDid I say that you said that, or am I simply asking a question? Why you getting so defense, and when did I say that something being worse makes the other good? You should stop trying to put words in my mouth and have a logical conversation. I see your points are trailing off. Yes, because if one thing is legislated with the risk of jail and death as a penalty, then it is worse than merely people shaming you I am going to assume now that you have no basic understanding of humans and the need to b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionOne is a legal expectation, and the other is societal. Unless there was some law with the threat of jail and death for not giving birth? Oh so you're one of the these people. Who thinks just because something is written it is completely absolute and the worst thing ever. Do you think there is no racism either because there was a law saying black ppl are now free. What do you think is worse. Being sent to jail or being socially shunned by peers and everyone around you? There was not a written law… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 08:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionI told you I would rather die in battle than be controlled with no agency and no individuality. As I am sure many other people would. And that is known as some people kill themselves when in a society like that. You ask me if it's so bad why dont more people kill themselves. If war is so bad, why dont they kill themselves before they go? How many men die before going to war by their own choice because the act of fighting in war, is so horrid? What keeps them from offing themselves? But youre a R… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionJust because you think it's worse, doesn't make it a fact. That's a weak defense. Your opinion is not absolute If you didn't get that by now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionWe will just have to agree to disagree on the why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 07:12 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionBefore you try and hang on to one portion I said and try to flip this. Do you think dying in battle is worse than dying in childbirth? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionSure, society "honors" childbirth when things are done right bc population is growin. What I mean by that it's on a individual level is that A woman has a kid woo hoo good for her. But it's not celebration it's an expectation. Does she get an award or a ceremony? No. Nothing that compares to the type of honor a man will receive if he goes to war and doesn't get killed,or goes to war and gets killed. When people all come together to grieve their lost ones or welcome them home. There is more honor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionSociety honors childbirth when everything is done right. Not when she dies. It honors childbirth, when in patriarchal societies women birthed boys. It honors childbirth when the woman stays alive and can take care of the kids, and when a pregnancy is full term. Do you know how many women before and even know are seen as lesser because she has had miscarriages or cannot have kids? All these things women are honoured for are outside of her control. So back to the main point of which is worse. I wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionLol that's all you have to say ? What a joke. There were many societal homages paid to fertile women Ok but what about the ones that died? And you haven't addressed anything else. You're telling I don't think there is honor is childbirth. I do. Society doesn't, if a woman died during it, then that sucks. He will get another one and still have his kids. There is more honor in dying on battle then there is dying in childbirth. I dont care if you dont agree. Because your opinion isnt a fact. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionMaybe on an individual level but not a social level. Women who died during children, most of the children died too. So one of a women's purposes of having her husbands kids are gone. She failed him. Back then, more so ancient times. If a woman did not birth a boy, esp if they were royalty (completely out of her control) she was shamed as the mans line would end there If she died during childbirth, all he has to do is get another woman. It was very uncommon for women to remarry when their husband… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionSuicide is an extremely touch subject as there are many things that hold people back into doing it. I'm sure if you gave those people the option to leave or stay, there would be many who decide they'd rather live in control and suffering and there would be some who would die. Ask a warman, if he would give up his option to go fight and be worthy of something to scrub floors and be someone's bitch for the rest of his life. I believe many would die for their country | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionAnd at least these men are honored. Where is the honor in giving up your identity to fold clothes, bare children, spread your legs and be seen as inferior to your husband and everyone else. No thanks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionWho says? There are women who kill themselves because of the patriarchy rule over them (middle east) there are women who are killed because they stray from their family traditions. Women are abused, controlled and have no life and no say of their own. I would rather die in battle then live in a controlled environment for the rest of my life where my identity is only given to me and I must obey. And I'm pretty sure many people who think the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:10 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionWho said there wasnt? You're trying to refute dying for men was worse. They are both dying. If men did not receive respect or honor after their sacrifice then it might be worse, but death is seen as the ultimate sacrifice and people literally SIGN UP TO DIE. Showing how much it means to them. And its men who created these norms ... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Traditional gender roles favor men more than women and leave women in an extremely vulnerable positionI'm not the OP. But there is honor in dying in battle. So to the people who are dying for their country, they are obviously not seeing it as us outsiders looking in and saying it's worse. There are people in the states that voluntarily sign up for war to maybe die. Clearly fighting for your country has some weight to it that outweighs living. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?Just commented on why it’s not essential. I agree it’s not. But some people enjoy talking (in detail). Shit empathy is really hard for some folks round here. Well I was answering, when he said women love talking about themselves and I asked what common sense women would talk about old stories for a man to assume her count. I ended by saying maybe that's where I am outlier because I wouldn't. You assumed it was because I was scared of something. Im telling you I am not scared its just not necessa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 03:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you know your partner's N count?You can say this about literally 90% of ALL human communication. We like talking because we like talking. It doesn't need to be necessary ok but we are talking about this and its a very specific thing. So using the whole broad spectrum doesn't work. Some people choose to disclose info, others don't. And that is what it is. I don't usually like talking unless there is a purpose behind it, but will do so in other social interactions but I don't go talking on and on about myself. Talk about sex? Wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Female was about to get married. Her fiancé wants his father to check her hymen to make sure she’s actually a virgin. The female calls off the wedding to avoid being exposed as a slut.Nobody should have to go through any insane ritual where their body parts are being exposed. Also a womans hymen can break at anytime not only sex. So it doesn't really prove anything. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/08/19 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?I just dont see why descriptions are neccessary to that much detail.. like "yah Steven's dick was so big, when he fucked me from behind that night we had sex when we were drunk" like what? Why would you ever want to talk about that with your partner. (unless what I think you're talking about is something different) This is strange to me. I'm not gonna have a gf that's less exciting than the last one. That sounds insane. Is being alone really that scary? What r u talking about? If you're talking … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/19 07:20 AM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?I like talking about the sex me and bf had, telling him I want him inside me while he's at work, asking about what each other likes, and teaching each other it. Watching porn together and getting each other off. Etc There are ways to go about conversations without disclosing every single hook up you had. At the end of the day all of my most exciting experiences were with ex LTR so that's the most I'll go into it, but I also wont get into too much detail where he thinks he is competing with a gho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?There is no fear, I just dont see the purpose in talking about yourself like that? Why do I want to talk to my boyfriend about the different positions another guy has put me in. I dont care to hear about him and his hook ups and I dont want to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Q4W: What Has Been Your Experience With Chads?Well, I mean more so the guys that people here describe as a Chad - I know those guys, and I personally wouldn't and haven't touched any of them with a 4ft pole. That whole athletic esthetic, jock, super good looking, cocky guy who has girls following him, type. I definitely think there are "Chads" in every group that we see. But the whole ladies man never appealed to me. Always felt like I would be feeding into their ego, didn't wanna be apart of it. But, if there was a guy like you who was ner… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 04:21 AM |
| 2 | Who is the sluttiest woman you know or knew?Yah forsure. Hopefully she does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/19 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Q4W: What Has Been Your Experience With Chads?Teenks !! My first one lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Who is the sluttiest woman you know or knew?Yeah, to be with you then being with four of your friends and probably more that's a sad. I feel for her. For me, I was promiscuous for a short amount of time like 2.5yrs.. from 21-23 ended up sleeping with ugh, a bunch of people but all people who did not know each other and who I know I will never see again and haven't. I was definitely fighting some inner battles (got out of an abusive relationship) and growing up thought sex was the way to lock a man down, so I'd give it up only to be played… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 11:13 PM |
| 3 | Who is the sluttiest woman you know or knew?Oh shit. That's just sad... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 10:14 PM |
| 4 | Who is the sluttiest woman you know or knew?This is extremely interesting My definition of slut is different I'm sure, its not how many you fuck but how you go about it. I think this nails it. Alot of men here talk about the stereotypical "sluts and slut behaviour" while that is present in some women, others are perfectly fine, smart, good job, that many people wouldnt even think about. And I guarantee most men here, would still wife up and date a girl who alot of men, as long as she doesn't appear slutty and fucked anyone he knew, and ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 10:13 PM |
| 8 | Q4W: What Has Been Your Experience With Chads?Never dated one. They all had douche bag vibes, wasnt into it. I preferred the quiet, nerdy yet hot to me ones. They are the best. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/19 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?Maybe that's where I am outlier because I personally would never. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Do you know your partner's N count?Yup. I get that. I'm just stating my experience as a woman vs. Yours as a man meeting the type of girls you have encountered. Because I haven't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you know your partner's N count?No. I know many people who are sexually open but are so conservative in public and how they speak/dress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 08:18 PM |
| 3 | Do you know your partner's N count?Strange. I personally wouldn't never speak that openly about a "sexual position" and attach it to a story. That's just weird. I think you may be talking about women who are very outspoken and proud of it, like it defines them. Are women really like this? It's a honest to God question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:43 PM |
| 2 | Do you know your partner's N count?You seem experienced. How so? Like what have you heard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 07:16 PM |
| 3 | Do you know your partner's N count?Old stories like what.. What common sense woman would willingly share stories for anyone to even gauge her count ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 06:59 PM |
| 6 | Do you know your partner's N count?What statements ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/19 06:02 PM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is a non-practical comparison and only representative of the perspective you personally hold on sex, men, and women.Like men do notice that they are creating these high N women? Not all, but the ones who fall their shit. If enough men are trying to attain a goal of fucking so many women, there has to be so many women that are going to fall for it = he has game and can assure himself he does. For every man that is securing his fuckable status, there are that many amount who allowed him. And she fell for his games, and will get played again. So while you are getting your ego stroked, what makes you think that y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 04:05 PM |
| 1 | The lock and key analogy is a non-practical comparison and only representative of the perspective you personally hold on sex, men, and women.It shouldn't matter at all - then these men shouldn't bitch and complain about women who sleep with men then settle with a provider since she wants a future with him too. The logic makes no sense. It's all about guys complaining about women's game, yet are turning around and doing the same shit. You guys need to make up mind bc you all just sound like idiots. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:38 PM |
| 1 | Why can't some women just be honest with their sexual pasts?No. Its comfortable and called being taken for granted. Its not news that men stop putting effort in once they have the women. There are very few who keep the "romance alive" which is why so many people have to go to couple counseling, wtf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 03:36 PM |
| 2 | The lock and key analogy is a non-practical comparison and only representative of the perspective you personally hold on sex, men, and women.You have yet to really answer anything, tbh. So, okay. The men who's end game is to have sex with a bunch of people, should not have any type of sexual distaste of a women who bas slept with many men. The only thing the guy should worry about is whether or not he is getting sex with her. N count should not even be in the minds of RP men then. If anything, they should be the most sexually liberated and have low standards for the women they decide to marry. But it's the opposite. They have charts … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/19 12:27 AM |
| 4 | The lock and key analogy is a non-practical comparison and only representative of the perspective you personally hold on sex, men, and women.No it's not simple bc men who see it that way end up despising the very women that allowed them to sleep with them... If you're a "master key", opening up that many "locks" what do you think is going on in the "locks mind" while she is letting you fuck her? What are you providing for her that someone else couldn't? And she is giving up her "sacredness" to you, you better believe she is looking for a provider if she is putting that much importance on sex. Why would she want someone who is gonna f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 11:41 PM |
| 3 | The lock and key analogy is a non-practical comparison and only representative of the perspective you personally hold on sex, men, and women.Yet many do not while they are caught up in the moment. Many only think about that fact after, not before or during. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 10:56 PM |
| 4 | The lock and key analogy is a non-practical comparison and only representative of the perspective you personally hold on sex, men, and women.TLDR Men should be a good key so they can fuck a lot of women. I still dont get this. Who do you think these men are fucking? If they are fucking a bunch of women why do you think you are so special that she is only opening her legs for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 10:53 PM |
| 6 | The lock and key analogy is a non-practical comparison and only representative of the perspective you personally hold on sex, men, and women.It doesn't matter how many women the man fucks, the child he makes with you is still yours. The risk may be high (of not receiving commitment), but its consequences are nowhere near the ultimate consequence of cuckoldry that men face, so we expect this negative response to be smaller, when present. Ding ding ding. This goes hand in hand with the other post stating that men are shit with birth control and many do not use condoms. Ultimately, if the woman falls pregnant, its not really his problem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessMeaning ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/08/19 04:06 AM |
| 2 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessWhy are you basing your compatibility with something so intangible? For me, that says alot more about you as a person. You seem closed off, insecure and not open minded and that will transpire throughout other parts of your personality and relationship as well. What does it show about your views of sex? Curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 09:10 PM |
| 7 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessNo, I'm not acting like that. I used that specific example because I'm showing how basing an entire relationship off of something so stupid can have its downfalls. All because your lady met your perfect sex standard, nothing else matters until it's time to matter and deal with shit. High n people can be normal, low n people can be normal. High n people can be fucked, low n people can be fucked. At the end of the day, the person and if they are gonna be fucked up or fuck you over, it has nothing … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 07:18 PM |
| 5 | N-Count Cannot Be MeaninglessI literally dont care about N count because I dont think the amount of sex someone has while they are single tells me anything I need to know about them. If they have cheated on a spouse is something I'd question, but I really dont give a fuck. Why should I or anyone ? There is much more to the person than judging them on how many people the decided to lay with. You can meet a low N woman from a crazy fucked up abusive background but you dont find out until later. You can meet a high N who is no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Why can't some women just be honest with their sexual pasts?That's idiotic if you think that is the decline. I have also been in relationships and men dont "stop" doing those things because they found out one particular information. It's because he gets comfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Why can't some women just be honest with their sexual pasts?It's still a false pretense he is setting to "wooo" her. Things happen later on in the relationship that's obvious. I am stating the simple fact that people want to give their best first impressions first. Everyone is on their best behaviour. Asking someone that question before you get to know them robs them of that because you'll already next her. She is looking out herself so she lies to a stranger who doesn't know her yet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 02:32 PM |
| 2 | Why can't some women just be honest with their sexual pasts?No. Its not? First they are setting up a false reality for how its going to be for a girl - which most marriages that end you will find that many of these women feel their man is no longer emotionally investing in them. Secondly, that doesn't happen. Because they break up with the person if thats the case. There isnt a decline. A decline is when people get comfortable in relationships. Have you not been in a relationship? I can tell. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Why can't some women just be honest with their sexual pasts?Why do men act like they have not lied about anything, whether to their boss, parents, girlfriend, or friends to get what they want? Dont act like you are some above human and don't know why people lie about things that are going to be seemed as negative (even tho they dont think it is) but will be scrutinized socially ? For many women that do end up lying, I feel like it's because they know people aren't going to ask and ask the why. They hear a number - put her in slut and that's it. The quest… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/19 01:26 PM |
| 3 | For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men.I agree. There are rare instances that women are going out actively looking for sex when they have a night out. And it boils down to the type of girl. In my time spent going to bars/lounges, a few weeks ago I went out the my gf who invited a coworker out. That coworker invited two friends and from there I knew it was going to be a shit show. The girls were different. Already sharing their sex stories openly while the uber driver drove us, some things that just had happened the night before. Open… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 05:22 PM |
| 3 | For most women the goal/highlight of a “fun night out” is not sex, at least not as much as that seems to be the goal for men.But who do you think are giving these woman validation and attention when they go out? Its men. So clearly men enjoy it enough for women to enjoy it and expect the interaction. So many times I go out and they are refusing some guys in because the male:female ratio is not enough. Aka, too many guys filling up the club first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 05:07 PM |
| 3 | men are in denialWell I guess we can come to an agreement that both are highly emotional when getting rejected. But for women its pretty much expected just because of how women were raised to be. So its take a hit on their ego so they lash out bc she felt like she put herself out there - when she is told many times that she shouldn't For men, though its not right that they should be used to putting themselves out there they are forever saying that they are not emotional, yet become emotional and deny the fact th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | men are in denialI told you to stop. I'm not going to debate with someone who's default is to try to tell me my feelings are hurt. You're wasting my time. Do yourself a favour and accept the loss and move on. See you in the next thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:45 PM |
| 3 | men are in denialHoney, if you think my feelings are hurt you have deep rooted issues. You can stop trying to project whatever feelings you have on to me, because I couldn't really give two fucks about what strangers think me - hence, why there is no need to respect them if they don't respect me. You arguement or whatever point you're trying to prove is lost, if you're now just trying to tell me how I feel lol. Its okay buddy - take the long road, just stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:37 PM |
| 2 | men are in denialYou are free to object to them on ethical grounds just as they are free to object to you on ethical grounds. Yet they don't realize that they are doing the same thing. Also, it seems you are justifying apathy about men in general because some limited amount of men here have hurt your feelings. That’s ridiculous lmao No one here has hurt my feelings. Im not that sensitive, though you probably wish I was but its clear this post is hurting the feelings of men here. If you have sympathy for the aver… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:16 PM |
| 8 | men are in denialI will have to disagree. No one is more emotional than a man who gets rejected, from what I have seen. It can go to "Hey, can I get your number?" to "Fuck you bitch, you're ugly anyways" in a manner of seconds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 01:04 PM |
| 2 | men are in denialAs a human being, it hurts no matter who is lumping you into a category. As it is taking away your individuality. Jordan Peterson talks about this and its a big reason why I don't believe in group motivated identities, unless those people are truly being treated unfairly. Until then, its everyone else trying to get their group ontop. But that is what feminists like to do to men. Extrapolating from the minority of men to all men Welcome to TRP and is it not what they do to women. Why do these peo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:56 PM |
| 4 | men are in denialYet men can't seem to understand that connection within women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:53 PM |
| 5 | men are in denialIf we were talking about the average man, of course I feel for them - so I treat everyone with respect. My entire life is basing people off of individual experiences and treating them fairly. To the men here who's entire narrative are AWALT, women are children, N-Count and all that other bullshit. Why should I feel for them if they are the same ones to lump me into a caterogy and think they can predict my behaviours off of one thing about me? I won't give sympathetic to you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 12:51 PM |
| 5 | men are in denialNo not everyone understands it, if you're going to speak for yourself speak for yourself solely. If that was the case you wouldnt have butt hurt guys trying to pretend shit doesn't happen to women in the work place, home, relationships. Or calling women bitches because she does not take to advances. Thought you said it was a separate issue, why are you asking me? It's not ethical, but people do it all the damn time. The society is based on preconceived notions of strangers and act accordingly. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 04:31 AM |
| 2 | men are in denialHope you aren't RP then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 04:18 AM |
| 5 | men are in denialJust off the title alone. "Repeat rapists" Where is the data for the men who have raped and not been caught? Because the women I know, there are far way too many with the same story with men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 04:18 AM |
| 13 | men are in denialYet there are so many men here that still do not understand why women take certain precautions with men and or why they think there is a good chance for them be raped, abused, kidnapped, etc. I made a post about this a while ago, stating that even men understand the nature of men and it's mostly men creating the narratives for every single women to take strange men as a threat. Ex. Fathers being overly protective, the "shot gun dad", "he only wants one thing" Its men who are engraining these ide… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/19 04:09 AM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.No he didn't. It was basically saying the same thing. Take it as you want. And no, I dont need to be careful if you are repeating the same exact thing I just discussed. If you come to me with a different view, then we can speak. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 03:16 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.You continue the same argument the other guy did, and I'm not addressing it again. Read the entire thing bc I'm not repeating myself. Good bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.I had z whole conversation about this. Continue to the thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/08/19 10:54 AM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.You are in fact agreeing with me. Nothing about my standpoint has changed. So thank you kind sir | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.You're the one exaggerating the replies lol of the woman not me. She can dam well think that in her head or be like "meh pass" then talk to her gf about the ugly guy who just tried to talk her. At the end of the day. She is not attracted and he is not her type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 10:45 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.They might be gross and or ugly to her - since she initially is not even giving him a chance based on his looks and the fact that she will not accept his advances. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 10:24 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Did I say that? Nowhere did I bring up chads/incels/jumping on dicks. I'm talking about the initial interaction of men trying to get her attention or talk to her. She will be receptive if the situation allows for it. Which goes back to my question of if I'm single and I think a guy is cute and he approaches me, why would I get his number or take on his advances? Does it mean I'm going to jump into bed with him? No. But I would be open to giving him my number and seeing where it goes from there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Aka she is not attracted to him so yah she probably thinks he is gross/ugly/unattractive. But is he gross to every single woman? Obviously not. Where did I say that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 09:21 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.When did I say all men were all gross to every single woman? I repeatedly stated that if she is not attracted to him, she will not be attracted to him.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 09:04 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.No. This is not black and white thinking. Did I say that guy was generally gross to all women? No. I said if she was not attracted to him. She will NOT be responsive to him. He could be ugly to her but could be sexy af to another girl. He is still ugly to her. You're the one exaggerating the response of women to unattractive men to her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 08:43 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Yeah I am a woman - so I know. If you're trying to come on to me in any sexual way and I'm not attracted to you, you're ugly to me. If I thought you were kinda cute and I was single, why wouldn't I want to engage ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.If she is not attracted to you - she is not attracted to you. He is not her type and that is it. She may think he is gross, ugly, over confident. But at the end of the day she does not want him and anyone who is hitting on her that she doesn't like it annoying and will continue to get uglier and uglier once they do not get the hint. Making him gross in her eyes. If a woman rejects you - she is not interested in anything with you. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.I have been outside more than you probably. Firstly I am women, so guys women think are attractive are attractive to her. Guys who are not attractive to her are.... not attractive to her so yes she thinks he is ugly? Wtf. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Did I ever say men and women cant ever be friends ? Fix your reading comprehension | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 06:19 PM |
| 2 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in."I have no idea what you're talking about" then read the title. If the answer to the question is no, then it's no. But dont act like what I am saying has no factual points. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.How do you know this? If a woman is not attracted to you she probably thinks your gross. She is not flattered by men she seems unattractive hitting on her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 05:30 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Thank you. You get it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 05:29 PM |
| 3 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Did you read past the some men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 05:25 PM |
| 6 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Then you are not apart of the "some men" .. I didnt say ALL. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 05:18 PM |
| 3 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.First - I am a women. So I do not think I am all that. Second - This is stemming from an ASKMEN thread where alot of men stated that they feel just a "bit uncomfortable" having gay male friends because im the implication of being seen as a sexual being from someone they are not sexually attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.LOL didn't work ey? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:39 PM |
| 1 | The same way some straight men feel about having friendships or getting close to gay men, is the same way women feel about unwanted male attention in general. Nobody wants sexual attention from someone they are not sexually interested in.Majority with the opposite sex, people assume having friendships, getting close = sexual attention. Reasons why many people complain about getting friendzoned. Also, sexual attention is assumed when the opposite sex is trying to get close just like how sexual attention is sometimes assumed by straight men from gay men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | "Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction DemographicNot true. I am highly attracted to Asian guys. So I would definitely swipe right on him. He is good looking. I thought he was the first time I saw him before we were friends. I wanted go get yo know him from the get go. Majority of my exs were Asian. Excluding the 6"2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 01:44 AM |
| 3 | Men are shit at birth controlWhy would you want to ban abortion? Or are you heavily religious? Do you think a large percent of the people getting an abortion are from ONS? Or do not think majority of them made a decision with their partner or the person that knocked them up... I can only see why you would want to ban abortion is if women are aborting children men want and that is a VERY small number. Abortion is mutually beneficial for both parties. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:19 AM |
| 2 | Men are shit at birth controlOops I thought I did. Sorry | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth controlThat fine. They can scoot all their way to the bank. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:07 AM |
| 3 | Men are shit at birth controlAt the end of the day. BOTH parties are responsible for having unprotected sex, women have an out if needed. Men do not, if men are going to complain about becoming unplanned daddies and mad because now he is paying child support, he should of damn well protected himself. At the day and age where men are having less control over the females in their life, he better not be a fucking idiot and go in raw. How old were you when you learned about condoms and when adults started to talk to you about s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/08/19 12:05 AM |
| 5 | Men are shit at birth controlI will never understand men who just say "ok!!" And go ahead and ejaculate balls deep. It makes no sense to me. I really dont want to go outside if its raining. I ask my sister if its raining and she says no man, its sunny as hell out. I dress accordingly to her word I dont look outside to check myself, I walk out the front door and its pouring. Can I get mad at her for lying? Sure. But am I am idiot for not checking it myself? 100% and now I'm side eyeing her because she is ready, with an umbre… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:50 PM |
| 3 | Men are shit at birth controlWhy don't the 600,000 women who get abortions every year not have the sense to require protection before being penetrated? Because 600,000 men didn't think about wrapping it up first? Hard truth - 600,000 women had the option to get one. Why is it only men that are blamed when they're irresponsible? Why does this sick , disgusting, hypocritical society only care about women getting blameless irresponsible pleasure? Men are beings too. Men deserve to indulge in irresponsible pleasure just as blam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:43 PM |
| 7 | Men are shit at birth controlSo he has 0 rights in talking about not wanting to be a father and complaining that women are trapping him. Alot of men heavily rely on the women to assure safe, pregnancy free sex bc women are taught to be way more proactive. That's stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Men are shit at birth control100 % All the men here who say "wELl WhY CaNT WoMEN Ask" She knows she is on BC and protects herself if she is She dont give a fuck and will probably go get an abortion if she gets pregnant She is trying to trap you but you're thinking with your small head and not your big one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:29 PM |
| 14 | Men are shit at birth controlBut why is it not in their nature to protect themselves? If she wanted a kid she could not ask him to put one on and he wont. Yet he's gonna be tripping balls when he finds out she is pregnant. Why did he not have enough common sense to do it himself first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:27 PM |
| 12 | Men are shit at birth controlTRP is literally a bunch of men trying to get ONS for the rest of their life and not commit.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:24 PM |
| 6 | Men are shit at birth controlIsn't that what TRP is all about ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 11:13 PM |
| 1 | "Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction DemographicA relationship is built more on than just height. Some men feel emasculated dating taller girls, mine didn't - not like it was a huge head turning difference tho. Just because I dated them doesn't mean I didn't have a choice. I chose them as they were best suited for me out of anyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | "Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction DemographicCrazy how women can come here and debunk your nonsense yet you go to the fact that I must be ugly. I am a very pretty girl. I get stopped by strangers, told by women and men I am stunning and have denied many, many, prospects. Sorry I dont let it get to my head | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 02:55 PM |
| 0 | "Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction DemographicShe spoke about the height of her star crush. You said if she ever met him she would be disappointed, why is that? I'm giving you realistic heights of people I actually liked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 02:52 PM |
| 0 | "Chad" isn't Real and Knowing your Attraction DemographicI am 5'8. My heights of my exs have ranged from 5'6, 5'7, 5'11, and 6'2. The biggest crush I have right now on someone at work is a 5'6 Asian guy. Personality and sexual attraction definitely plays a huge role. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/08/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: Has online dating and social media DEFLATED the value of the average girl?Omg. Yikes LOLLL Do you really think this is how vaginas work. Jesus lord. A penis size doesn't not fluctuate in terms of its maximum size. If youre a 6 hard - you are a six. Period. Doesn't matter what you are soft because you can't do anything with it. When you are aroused = hard dick When you are soft = soft dick, so maybe 2-3inches When a woman is aroused = wet. When a woman isn't = dry and depends on much more factors than seeing a dick and getting wet. It's extremely mental. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 02:22 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Being Good Looking Gives You More Practice In SeductionYou must be new. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.Tbh I never understood the beta orbiters concept. I will never keep a guy around knowing he likes me and I don't. If we cannot connect on a friendship level before you tried to "get me" I have 0 reason to keep you around. I went to an girls Catholic school and am very, maybe a little too much paranoid on giving guys, I do not like the wrong message. I always told my girlfriends. If you can't hang out with your male friends with your partner present, it's a problem. Secondly if your partner is no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/19 12:07 AM |
| 2 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.No. I don't let men chase me. If I'm interested I'll show interest. I am blunt, if they choose to chase me while I show I don't want it they did it themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.In nature that is the basis of how males are able to procreate and how females are viewed. The foundation idea of that does not change. We obviously have more common sense and forward thinking than animals and most people are actively looking for relationships - animals are just trying to fuck - there are not many monogamous animals trying to find a partner. The act of reciprocation is vital, if the female does not like the advances of the male he doesn't get her, if she does, he does. That is m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 04:22 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.Ftfy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.Oh come on - There is a whole movement of men going there own way because they are tired of the social constructs men have to go through to date women. I said men on here not only Red Pill men. And there are so many men, who resent women sexual strategy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 04:13 PM |
| 1 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.Men here - don't like the idea of men being the pursuers. Constantly ask women if they have made the first move, telling women they enjoy being prey, etc. It's not some unfair social construct that women created to spite men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 03:54 PM |
| 0 | Why do men here act like women created the stigma of being chased / prey? Men love the dance between an obvious interested women just as much as women do.I get it and it creates these bitter men and even women. But I reject the fact that "women made it this way" there some women who have a hard time getting dates too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/19 03:53 PM |
| 5 | It's ok to sexualize teen girls since they sexualize themselves now, and it's played on the radioSex sells. Clearly its selling to you and it's working. Shes a good business woman. When it comes to people making money - it is about the money and the target audience. Why do companies still make cigarettes knowing it's killing people ? $. Keep your thoughts to yourself. And masturbate to her in private. Don't go gocking at 14yr old girls in their Catholic uniforms and then ask why they are teasing you with their short kilts. Girls understand male attention. Girls gain male attention as soon a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 11:23 PM |
| 1 | I think women should offer a paternity test to the father of their child without being asked.Would you be offended if your wife asked you to take STD tests every few months? Or weeks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?No honey I am not. Sorry if the truth hurts you. Projection at its finest | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?"only a woman would be capable of such irrational and emotional babbling" No wonder you're on RP and guaranteed have problems with women. Goodluck buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/19 02:11 AM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?You're annoying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 02:50 AM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?Wtf are you blabbering about. Don't be mad because your parents created an ugly child therefore men don't deem you worthy nor women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/19 01:19 AM |
| 3 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?Someone is in their feelings LMAO. Toxic masculinity is what you got guys on here to begin with. You guys want it but hate it at the same time because masculinity and all of its definitions is something you canna achieve therefore women shit on you but men shit on you too. Suck it up buttercup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 11:47 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?if you compare what men have done in the past 30 years with what women have, You'll have your answer. Obviously if that is a goal intended for you to do and you are pushed and guided to becoming that. Not when you were suppose to stay at home, listen to you man because he is the head of the house hold, have kids and raise them and have a job such as a secretary, etc. There were different society pressures that unfortunately still reside today whether you want to be believe it or not esp the fact… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 10:37 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?Are you oblivious to things some women have done? A quick Google search can help you out there bud. https://www.bbc.com/news/world-40923649 + many more. Yup and I'm pretty sure people had to resources and rights and creative freedom and many years behind the scenes to develop those ideas then bring them to life. Or do you think Rome was built in a day? Don't think for a second that you aren't inventing things because you are being restrained, you aren't because you either can't or won't. Did I s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?Point still stands, You've had at least 30 years of equal opportunity (at least in the USA) And yet i haven't heard of a revolutionary products fully made by a woman. Blaming this on men is ridiculous and unfounded. Bruh. 30 years is nothing. You must not understand social conditioning/society norms if you think women all of a sudden can up and change and invent shit within such a pathetic time span. Especially when it transcends double of that time. You can't ask someone why they are still a in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 09:36 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?So because you were born with a dick, you want to parade around the fact that it's unfair that YOU are being treated poorly due to things your gender has done and you WANT respect instead of earning it? World doesn't work like that bud. Don't try and use others achievements to have something 'respectable" like you deserve it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?is 99% made by a man That was founded on the sexist premise that women were not capable therefore women were not even allowed to take part in the first place. So when you have half the population thinking the other half is only good for fucking and having kids - then that's going to happen. You want to be respected for the things individual men did because you have a dick and right now are not doing anything extraordinary to divide yourself ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 08:05 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?What did YOU do to build society besides being born with a dick? What are YOU doing in your life right now that women are not doing ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 01:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do Red Pillers fetishize traditional masculinity?So why do these men act so surprised when women come on here defending the bs RP spews about them.. then they call us emotional, irrational, gold digging, superficial whores. Shocker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/19 01:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4men: how do you know her sexual history?So what is the point you're trying to make? "girls ask if they can try different sex things with you" Okay. Would you rather her force you to do it or... ? That's basic human communication. Ask and you receive or you don't | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/19 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Q4men: how do you know her sexual history?They are not internalizing that you did it with someone else and is therefore not giving it to them. They are seeing it as a "you" problem and asking why you're not comfortable . If you're not and you don't do it she isn't going to huff and puff and ask if you ever did it with it an ex. That's a male thing. Now, maybe women might feel the same in terms of RELATIONSHIP speed, what you did romantically with an ex. But sex, is sex and her mind will not wander down the rabbit hole like most men on h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/19 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Q4men: how do you know her sexual history?Like what.... Eating pussy and positions? What girl is out there begging her man to have anal sex with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Women's standards for men actually go up with age, not downWhy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/19 01:37 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Yeah not everyone can. Luckily I got mine too. Not sure how high value you are when you're out here calling women disgusting sluts. But to each their own. Goodluck with yourself bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 12:26 PM |
| 1 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Whatever helps your delusions or comforts your dry dick. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/19 03:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.All tall, in shape, attractive, and successful guys right? I'm 5'8 so around my height or taller, yes. Looks are in the eyes of the beholder, so attractive to me? Yes. Being successful myself at my age, yes the guys are usually up to par and financially smart. Just because they checked off those boxes doesn't mean they were relationship quality. Damn women for having personality standards other than someone being those 4 things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/19 03:55 AM |
| 1 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Probably higher than average, nor do I "look" it. Have no problems getting relationships, only been in long term ones and the amount of people I slept with casually, never deterred men from wanting to have relationships with me. So sorry my reality doesn't match yours. Sucks to not be wanted in anyway, eh? Boo hoo for the women who can enjoy sex yet still have stability in their lives. Burn them all! Burn them all! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 09:38 PM |
| 3 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.It usually is the only thing they take into account. The men here act as if as soon as they found out what it is, they will next her or if demote her to a "plate" it doesn't matter that they had chemistry, doesn't matter if she is good looking or a good person. 10+ dicks and you're out. That is what these men "say" they will do. Which I don't believe. People say n count matters to an extent. I'm sure as hell if they got to know the girl first as a human being then found out later, majority would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 05:43 PM |
| 2 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Sad mentality and so insecure. These guys don't trust their own dick game. Constantly thinking about Chad while they are in pussy, wondering which guy fucked her better. Yikes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 07:10 AM |
| 3 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Then if that happens to her, she did it to herself. Most women who are directly looking for men with a much higher earner is soley looking for one thing, which is money. Gold diggers don't give a fuck if he's cheating. She's not with him for love, she wants him to cheat so she can divorce rape the hell out of him and get a great reward. Women who will turn down a guy bc he is not in a bracket she wants (within reason) are not too successful dating bc no one was ever good enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 07:01 AM |
| 7 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Don't complain that your woman ends up dead bedrooming you like majority of men on Reddit, because you picked the "perfect one" and thought she would be your one and only whore. Being a woman and finding a man who is stronger than her is basically majority of half the population. Why you mad bc women enjoy a preference that is literally all she has? Before you try and say anything , many lanky af men have gf's. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 02:13 AM |
| 1 | For guys who are not religious or tradcon, does a woman’s “n” count matter to you at all?I am envisioning the most stertypical movie "small town girl" that sucked Jim, Dan, Nick and Henry knowing they we were all best friends and constantly fucked people in the same social circle over and over again. That's when people talk. If you're discussing your random one night stand with a guy you met at the bus stop, then you need better things to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 02:05 AM |
| 3 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Go ahead and try to explain that one. Since dead bedrooms happens with either high or low, male or female. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | For guys who are not religious or tradcon, does a woman’s “n” count matter to you at all?This happens a few times every month. I have been guilty. Now I can sit back and ask someone to kill me too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 01:59 AM |
| 4 | For guys who are not religious or tradcon, does a woman’s “n” count matter to you at all?Do you guys live in small towns or big cities? Would you care if you met a chick who moved from a city for a job and literally slept with no one that you know or would ever come across? You guys make it seem like people live in one small town for their whole life and are hoping to find a best man then settle down. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 01:53 AM |
| 20 | CMV: A man wanting a wife with a lower n-count is no more, and no less, hypocritical than a woman wanting a husband who makes more money, or a stronger husband, or a taller husband.Don't date someone with a high n count then Don't complain that your woman ends up dead bedrooming you Don't tell people who literally don't care about a partners count that they secretly do bc of primal "ick" factors Don't have sex with a bunch of people then expect your wife to be some wholesome angel. Period. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/19 01:51 AM |
| 2 | CMV: Men have it better than women when it comes to sexIf the guy can even make her cum | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/19 06:59 PM |
| 5 | How common was/is marital rape?So you dont think white men raped black women when they were slaves ? Jesus Christ. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/19 10:06 PM |
| 17 | Is the Sexual Marketplace Crashing?It's truly what I don't understand about these men. They want traditional relationships yet shit on beta men because they are providers. Then talk stats about divorce rape not realizing the underlying factor to why that guy pays out is probably because the woman doesn't have a job/career (most cases), since she was SAHM, etc. They all want women to go back to the old days but for men to reap the benefits of Feminism and not provide entirely. They are just truly confused with what they want and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Women Created The Red Pill and Don't Know ItYeah but its like trying to perfect your mothers special recipe. You can follow the instructions to a T, it might come out great - but there is just something missing and the people who have tasted it, can just tell. Even if its by a little bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/19 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Women Created The Red Pill and Don't Know ItThere is just something different about men who actually use TRP and guys who learned from experience. Their attitude to women is not hating them mixed in with wanting to fuck them, talking about n counts and all that shit. I can't put my finger on it, but dealing with two guys who were pretty active in learning from it and watching YouTube videos and reading the sub are VERY different than the guys I know who don't even know what it is - yet are successful with women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: when was the last time you felt uncomfortable or in danger?Few nights ago. Its summer here - so I was driving with my windows down, music playing. A jeep of guys pulled up beside me and started to try to talk to me. I wasn't interested so I tried to keep my head down and just ignore. I switch over to a right turning lane, they continued even from two lanes away so what felt like longest 10 seconds, i smiled and made my turn. I guess they thought the one smile throughout that whole encounter was me giving them a pass. They switched over to my turning lan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/19 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.Honestly girl - I don't even know. It's been my observation so much, that guys like a little bit of a tease/sass. Every bitchy girl I know that are... not even that attractive, have guys spoiling tf outta them. Or are able to get in back to back relationships in a snap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.Didn't want to tell me what? You think I'm sensitive to things like this lol. Most reasons why people break up are not on good terms. Most ex's are ex's for a reason. You would barley be able to date if you're are constantly looking for someone who hasn't been hurt or fucked over by someone in their past. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.If I gave X treatment to my exes and now since I got hurt by life I am treating my current partner worse, trusting her less, being less patient with her Not everybody does this. Many people have took bad experiences and improved on overall life. Who is to say that JUST because you were treated badly once you're going to do it to every single person you encounter in your daily life again? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.. It's definitely not that we want to deal with a loud woman lol. Was that seriously your point. 😂 Who said anything about being loud? That's your own take on what I said bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 10:29 PM |
| 3 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.Did I say that's what you said? I'm asking you a question. Clearly desirable women will never have to instigate according to you which means they will always have men chasing after them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.It's not. I came from a much worse relationship when I was younger - abusive in all aspects, so I get it. I started to take someone as individual and not a mix of experiences/sterotypes based on their gender or "what they should be like because they x y z" everyone has a story, and a reason. I also told myself that I'm not going to punish this person for a past persons mistakes. That's where the biggest fall out was - I was at that step mentally. Never held back in my affection, love, sex (he wa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.So do you think every single woman has a flock of men attached to her - And if she doesn't she is undesirable? Do you live with a HS mentality where women are getting chased and bombarded with roses every where they go? I didn't HAVE to make the choice. I chose to make the choice. There's a difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.Reverse the genders and it sounds like someone who has been in a abusive relationship or realized they were being taken advantage of. This literally happened with my ex. Broke up with his first gf, he turned to RP, then met me - then started to try to use all the RP rationalization and having his guard up and shit because he didn't trust women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.So what is a "masculine" to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.You do realize I'm talking about women who chose to initiate. Not that they HAVE to. I stated I have chosen to initiate a few times - literally just to see. The more cold, aloof, unattainable I am, the more positive results I get. The more friendly, outgoing I am - the guys kinda just lay back and aren't as over eager. I turn it off and within a few hours who is ringing up my phone? They are. I'm attractive enough to have these trails. My bad if that sounds egotistical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.So it should be reinforced. You state desirable women don't have to insitgate meaning that they will always be chased. Well you're clearly not the guys I'm talking then. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 06:54 PM |
| 4 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.Chad could also be a beta, if he dated a girl who got fucked over before - in that regard then. You have a sad complex that you want to be able to to treat a woman like shit if you ever decide to and get another chance at it. Probably exactly why RP men want to date young, naive women with no life experience so she has nothing to relate it to. "I want to hire an employee that has no experience or idea what minimum wage or labour laws are, that way they don't know if I screw them over when tax se… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 06:50 PM |
| 8 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.She is only with you because she learned from being treated like shit, and won’t let you treat her like that Do you think life is this perfect? Do you want to treat your woman like shit or do you want a woman who is dumb enough to not realize you are treating her badly ? So I hope you also advice women not to date men who were fucked over by their ex gf's and learned life through trail and error like a regular human. God this is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 06:37 PM |
| 3 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.So if it's a human thing - why label men who had a gf, who in the past was with a muscular guy or even asshole, that is now dating him a "beta" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 06:19 PM |
| 8 | Men respond to women who are bitchy and unattainable to an extent just like how RP theorizes women who chase / want assholes. Humans will try harder and feel more accomplished after they get things that they had to work for, even if that means ignoring red flags on the way.No actually. Some women will internalize what they think "men want" and instigate. And you're basically saying that women should act like the prize to be won. So why are so many men mad at the fact women act this way when it comes to dating. Men like the chase. They shouldn't deny it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 06:11 PM |
| 3 | Don't you think it's harmful for young men to tell them they will get more attractive when they age?Interesting. Also those photos are of white men are of long distance runners, they have to be more slender. Sprinters are usually thicker / more muscle and im sure those guys are not only on the track team. But I still see you point. I have heard that black people (men and women) experience puberty faster than other races, so in terms of that I sort of agree with you. But do you deny that then, that even though blacks may reach puberty faster they are still able to retain than white people? aka.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?How old is your kid? breakfast (me) - You are probably getting breakfast for yourself and possibly wife so okay, thats nice. dressing (her) - okay putting in daycare (me) - Are you going out of your way or is it more logical as its on the way to your office? taking him back from daycare (me) - Same question as above, also are you leaving work early to do this? And if you say you can work 24hr in the day why can't you work from home when you get home? snack (me) - I would assume because by this t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 03:54 PM |
| 2 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?It does affect things here. Relationships aren't always rainbows and butterflies, there is sacrifices that need to be made on each side to help each other grow - not just be convenient in the place and time in your life right now which I am sure you know. Your wife is doing this for herself unfortunately its after certain establishments of life and you are clearly supporting her by allowing her to do it. I am sure she is/would be grateful once things are more settled. if she started her career s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 03:09 PM |
| 6 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?So is this something that is temporary between your wife and you? Clearly this happened after you guys had kids/married which is why I am assuming OP is getting to that fact that women should have already started their career or at least be in the professional place they want to be in before they have kids. If not you will have women mid way through marriage having a life crisis because they want more for themselves as an individual not just a mom or wife. And adds extra elements of comfort that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 03:00 PM |
| 7 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?Do you realize that he said It forced me to do most of the baby care and more of the housework. My level of life simply worsened. Does it look like he is advocating for it or thinks it something positive? Did he also state that he solely a stay at home parent or did his wife going to work simply add a burden to him to his own household? I commend men who do it, a man who does it is rare and I respect them. He is stating this in the fact that women should NOT do careers because it simply adds mor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:50 PM |
| 2 | Don't you think it's harmful for young men to tell them they will get more attractive when they age?So you're showing me young black, clearly athletic men and comparing it to ..young white skinny men? Why don't you compare it young white athletic men? I am guaranteed they look the same - if not older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:44 PM |
| 7 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?I do not have kids - but my best friend is a stay at home mom. Its damn hard work for sure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:39 PM |
| 5 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?Is she not doing the same thing if she has a job........ Why don't you guys be normal adults and split work for the kids you BOTH have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Online dating is damaging to relationships due to grass is greener effect on majority of women and a small portion of men.Depends on how you use the apps. If she is getting tons of matches its also because she is swiping right herself on alot of men and probably men that she won't even talk to. That is using it for a confidence boost. Is that honestly how some women use the app? I have Bumble - but im not on it to fuck around. I have an average amount of matches because im not swiping on everything that has dick. I am pretty picky on who I swipe with and so far I have matching with them as well. The prospects o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:34 PM |
| 14 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?> It forced me to do most of the baby care and more of the house work. My level of life simply worsened So basically what OP said, men are lazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:23 PM |
| 6 | Why red pill men don't want women to pursue higher education and related careers?> ost women with higher educations are incapable of recognizing the importance of the career as a wife and mother over that of a “lawyer/doctor/journalist/etc” Probably because in reality men have no respect for women who claim their profession is a stay at home mom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Don't you think it's harmful for young men to tell them they will get more attractive when they age?For some reason you all think I'm saying "youthful" "Neoteny in humans is the retention of juvenile features well into adulthood" Is this not parallel to retaining youthful looks? And since we are on the point of that im asking then, do you think white men "retain their neoteny" longer and then lose it faster than other races. In terms of your second point of fragility and child likeness, can you explain because I don't get it.. how does that differ from black and or other races? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Don't you think it's harmful for young men to tell them they will get more attractive when they age?white and Asian men mature slower and retain neoteny longer. this means that a lot of times a white or Asian man doesn't look masculine or mature til 27-32. Can I see some links to this? I see this for Asian men, yes and they also retain their youthful looks. Blacks also age very nicely. So do white people mature slower but then age very quickly? Because there are alot of white men who looks horrible for their age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldObviously not you, like you were hoping to. Tough. Go find some pussy to drown in and don't respond back to me you slut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/19 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldah.... So if your definition of a slut is "I know you folk like to think that every woman has fucked half a football team and participated in multiple gangbangs by the age of 25, but that's not how the real world works. You're mentally ill and have low appreciation for stability, values, order, etc. and consequently attract other mentally ill people with the same disregard for dignity. There are plenty of women who can actually remember all the faces and names of all the people they've slept wit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldSo not ONLY are you a slut, but you're an uneducated one. Try again Data and sound studies always trumps anecdotes. Anyone who has a plurality of brain cells knows this. You're also apparently illiterate because I talked about my own personal experiences and observations up here: All you have is data to base your life on. Live bro - I actually feel bad for you, you're pathetic. You named your "observations" were you ever in these relationships? or were you an outsider looking in and basing it of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldPersonally for me, I don't give a fuck about someone's past of how many people they slept it. Its irrelevant to me, as they did what they did when they were single. If he fucks up and cheats on me - he would of cheated on me anyway whether or not he had sex with 3ppl or 30. Whoever can do the job the best then I would get into who will fit into in the office culture personalty wise. If the ex-con fits better then im hiring the ex con. If the other one isn't a felon but is a stuck up ass and my o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 06:55 PM |
| 0 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldWhat...what does that even fucking mean? That literally makes no fucking sense. So you have clearly shown your level of comprehension is only "studies" and things you have read, instead of your own personal experiences. Its okay we don't need to carry on this conversation - you're incapable of having your own thoughts. Only a slut would go this far to argue otherwise. Sure, call me slut if you think you're actually hurting me? Oh sweetie, get a hobby. Im not the one using others experiences and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldOf course it does.. How many kids are internally fucked up to live up their parents pushed expectations on them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 06:29 PM |
| -1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldWhat does social media and online dating have to do with sluts being bad housewives? If anything you've PROVED my point. Social media and dating apps makes it even EASIER for sluts to cheat on their significant others, because now they literally have thousands of penises at their fingertips on speed dial. No. The fact that people have had their experiences so when they find a partner that equally enjoys each other time, you will be more concentrated on how the person makes you feel / treats you … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldYeah that's why people always say that the higher her count is the more it diminished her "Pair bonding"with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman could...OVER HALF A FUCKING CENTURY AGO! We already have plenty of data. Human biology does not fundamentally change over a couple of decades. Social media and online dating is dramatically changing that and will just continue to change. Are that this dense? Yeap thats why many are LOL and you guys are mad because majority of men can never stop being a loser. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 05:07 PM |
| 2 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldErr, no. The data showed that the only demographic that had lower divorce rates were women with...DRUMROLL...ONE partner. I am pretty sure religion has alot to do with that. But it doesn't...? The data shows that more partners = more divorces. You're probably a woman with a high N count lmao. I'm sorry but facts are facts -- they're just there, regardless of whether you refuse to acknowledge reality or not. Can you not read - Didn't I say I wonder? meaning FUTURE stats. Right now all we are comp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 04:38 PM |
| 0 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldI would dump her or at least get her to dump me - but my heart races when she says she is going to meet up a guy friend or guy hang out with a co worker, especially so if he was a former fwb. Then my heart literally starts pounding. Yeah I know she hasn't cheated, or done me wrong. This is alot. If it gives you this much anxiety then I understand why you stay clear. But, ill be honest 1. Keeping FWB is a no go. 2. Just because a woman hasn't slept with people doesn't mean that won't have a desir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldWow. I actually thought I had this on as a discussion.. my bad -.- | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldI am the same person and I express that differently due to social norms and context okay but that same person is needed in different ways therefore you are coming off "different" to each person you need to adapt to. Go look up Dramaturgical theory by Erving Goffman if you need more help grasping the concept. Are you two faced? Are you 12 years old? No I am not two faced wtf lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldUmm, definitely not true. Okay so go on? Study after study have shown that the more partners a woman have, the more likelier the marriage ends in divorce - because of dating apps/social media is only a VERY recent phenomena in modern America, Is that the same that states a woman with 2 partners prior to marriage has the highest divorce rate? lol Also to a point that you added about online dating/social media and getting evidence on the matter in terms of marriages. Most of this data is comparing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldYou cant compartmentalize who you are. Of course you can. Are you the same person with your spouse than you are with your boss, or with your kids or with your parents? Obviously not they all have different expectations of you and you alter yourself to what is needed. Everyone does it. The people who do not are the ones who are slighty on the spectrum and don't understand social ques. Just like how there is shit you could do when you were single that you compromise and don't do when you're in a r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 03:32 PM |
| 0 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldI can imagine the frustration especially those within America in those small towns where you can never bridge out of that bubble of being who they remember you as. Moving away somewhere new is definitely a good thing if things in your life, jobs, relationships, families are not growing and or allowing you to grow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 03:02 PM |
| 0 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldIn the same way having a lot of jobs and not being able to keep them means you won't be good at being a consistent manager for a business. No. You're comparing behaviour when single, to behaviour when in a relationship. They are not comparable. If a woman has had multiple boyfriends that she has introduced to her parents and has had mutliple 3month relationships and cheated on majority of them then I can see why someone is skeptical getting into a relationship with them. As their track record sh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 02:57 PM |
| 2 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldYou probably were not that bad to begin with then. What did you changes consist of? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 02:45 PM |
| 0 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldYou are believing that women expressing their emotions means they have changed. I don't think that means they changed. And change is fundamentally extremely difficult. I've read stacks of books, learned to public speaking, learned extended fasting, lifting, and a host of other things required of me to actually change. They required action. I don't believe that women just simply saying "Hey I have changed" means anything. Obviously there needs to be signs of maturity and growth that has to come a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Main trigger for RP pill, is that they cannot reinvent themselves and be accepted as easily as a woman couldVery, very true. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 02:25 PM |
| 2 | Where did this assumption that only good looking men screw women over come from?Sure, if that is what he wants ? He wanted a family and marriag with me so he can continue to drown in pussy. I really don't give a shit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/19 12:53 PM |
| 1 | Asking your partner about their past. Okay? Not okay? And why?Like I said, there are other things that for me depict trust. I don't care about how many people someone with. The thought of that question seems extremely immature to me. If someone asked me - I would obviously answer it, truthfully but I would never be the one to ask nor care enough about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Asking your partner about their past. Okay? Not okay? And why?You state it as a fact, which to me it is not. I think has nothing to do with trust and more so to do with in insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Asking your partner about their past. Okay? Not okay? And why?lol, okay? Why do you think its important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 03:21 PM |
| 3 | Asking your partner about their past. Okay? Not okay? And why?Their family life / way they grew up, education that they have, I do find it interesting to find out the kinds of jobs they had, and how many *serious* relationships they have been in, and what constituted to their break ups (cheating, etc). Basically what shaped them into the person I am meeting right now. I couldn't care less about how many people they slept with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Asking your partner about their past. Okay? Not okay? And why?What about their past? Relationships? How many people they slept with? their old jobs? their family? There is a lot to unpack when getting to know someone. There are things I find necessary to ask, and other things I don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Where did this assumption that only good looking men screw women over come from?The point is, is that whether to guy is a "Chad" or not - if a person is a shitty person they are going to be shitty person. Do you really think if a Chad treated me the I was treated before I would somehow stay or be more passive? I wouldn't be. My ex wasn't that great looking, to me - but to others he was a knock out, he was 6ft and made 6 figures by 28. But if I'm not fulfilled in the relationship that shit doesn't impress me. He was kind of into RP stuff, so he must of that that as soon as h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 12:55 PM |
| 7 | Where did this assumption that only good looking men screw women over come from?Ya'll are weird as hell. A woman can come on here confident about a break up and actually say the ins and outs of it and it boils down to 'obeession or not over it" when it's a lived experience. If he wasn't still ringing down my phone and writing me letters of apologies maybe I wouldn't have so much to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 10:43 AM |
| 7 | Where did this assumption that only good looking men screw women over come from?It's funny - you see those memes posted: "When you give an ugly guy a chance, then he starts acting like you're the ugly one" And it's something that women relate to very often. They will go for the less conventional looking fella, only to realize that "men will be men" people here think that only Chads gets women and the rest of ugly guys are going to treasure you because they have no options. Wrong. My ex wasn't that great looking. Who didn't value me? Him. Who is trying to come back realizing… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/19 05:24 AM |
| 1 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.Ah not necessarily true. I eat. I love food. If there is someone who is known for eating alot out of my friends and family - it is me. I know I eat, a good amount per day at times. I have stayed relatively the same size for the last 6-5 years and that's not including going to the gym (because I don't) people are usually baffled at how much I eat, but barley gain weight - atleast not enough for me to change my wardrobe. I'm kind of tall? 5'7 and well proportioned. If I do gain weight, it goes on … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 02:41 PM |
| 3 | CMV: It's ridiculous to claim that men are more honest about what they find attractive than women areAnd do you think Purple Pill or Red Pill does.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 02:39 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most women severely underestimate the work men do in the gym and overestimate the gains.I agree to a certain extent but this kind of sounds like a woman's complaint about how much men don't realize the amount of effort it takes to look good on a regular daily basis, for women. Men want naturally pretty women. Someone who doesn't wear make up and someone who is low maintenance, yet still looks good and fuckable all the damn time. They don't even know what low maintenance is. When you ask a guy what "natural" is they will point out celebrities wearing shit loads of make up - just loo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/19 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Q4W: Would you consider a LTR material a low-medium earner man with a irregular, long work schedule? Why/why not?I'll be honest. Me and my ex broke up for many reasons but it all became apparent because of his work schedule. He made 6 figures but his schedule was 4 days working, 4 days off. 7pm to 7am. If his 4 days off were in the week when I worked, he would do OT for those days. If it landed on the weekends we would hang out. Now, I love a man that works. I work hard myself. Having a FT job during the day then a part evening job, twice or three times in the week. Weekends I worked aswell. So 12hr days d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/19 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Anyone else find "alpha male behavior" to be exhausting sometimes?Yet the guy I'm crushing over is shorter than me... Not muscular and Asian. Okay bud. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women still believe that modern women don’t treat men differently according to looks?This is a human thing. I know that I am attractive (more than I think I am) because I get different treatment from men. Favours, gifts, over all niceness - compared to some other women here at my office. I am new compared to other people here, yet I recieved a brand new laptop, help when needed, lunches bought for me, invitations to lunch, and favours done right away. It may also help that I am very polite to everyone. We have contact cards on our work messaging tool, for a few months I did not … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women still believe that modern women don’t treat men differently according to looks?Nooo. We gotta get out, detour to self confidence please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 03:51 PM |
| 0 | Why do so many women still believe that modern women don’t treat men differently according to looks?Sigh. 3 of my exes were not as attractive as me. Everyone told me I could better, even men. Maybe I don't think I'm as attractive as I am. And I mean that genuinely lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else find "alpha male behavior" to be exhausting sometimes?He unfortunately has a gf so he's not getting laid by me but if he was single he would be. Scarcley saw a hickey on his collarbone/ neck a few days ago. Other guy, complained about not getting sex from his live in GF for a month or so. Women talk about how terrible a dude is, but said dude is getting laid. Often with the very woman talking about how terrible he is. There's no burning desire inside of me to sleep him even if he was younger. No doubt he's an alright looking man but his personality… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/19 02:02 AM |
| 6 | A man and women CONSENSUALLY having sex unprotected is the responsibility of both parties regardless of gender.That's all we have and it sucks. They can take this fucking little pill once a day. The level of retarded a woman has to be to not be responsible enough to do this is absolutely reprehensible Just pop a pill? Do you know how many hormonal side effects a BC pill has and how many trail and errors it can take to find one that actually works for you - and what the body is going through that period? Other sorts of birth control have other effects too. Id rather put a condom on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/19 09:45 PM |
| 1 | A man and women CONSENSUALLY having sex unprotected is the responsibility of both parties regardless of gender.Get 'em | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/19 09:42 PM |
| 4 | Anyone else find "alpha male behavior" to be exhausting sometimes?Whether it's guys who are faking it or guys who are not - it's a turn off. Majority of men who do try to do it when it's not their normal behaviour, I atleast can tell that they are putting on a show. Guys, who do it without caring and needing to fake it I guess would be Chads? And they are arrogant af and I don't like them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/19 08:50 PM |
| 3 | Anyone else find "alpha male behavior" to be exhausting sometimes?They are a turn off. Someone who needs to insert themselves in every conversation and show their dominance is not someone I find attractive. I find them to a be annoying and trying way too hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/19 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else find "alpha male behavior" to be exhausting sometimes?It is definitely possible. It could just be my taste. I don't like attention so to be with someone who wants to command attention all the time, wants to be the life of the party, knows everyone is not really my kind of guy. I prefer low-key guys as I am low key myself. Surprisingly, most of the guys I have ever had one night stands with were good looking quiety, "nerdy" successful guys. "Hot" attention seeking guys are nice to look at but I would never sleep with one. Haven't slept with anyone o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/19 06:53 PM |
| 11 | Anyone else find "alpha male behavior" to be exhausting sometimes?As a woman, I can tell when men are naturally leaders and men who have insert alpha character traits in every single social interaction and they are a complete turn off to me. The asshole who acts aloof and has a comment to say about everything and everything that he says is talking about his manliness? Goodbye. I don't want to be bothered with you nor do I even want to sleep with you. The quiet, who are surprisingly assertive men are very hot to me. The ones who sit back, listen, observe, yet a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/19 02:29 PM |
| 7 | Women adjust their standards for attractiveness based on available and past choices, men do notSo what, you guys are mad that women have preferences instead of just taking any guy that come her way, like some men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/19 08:56 PM |
| 7 | Women adjust their standards for attractiveness based on available and past choices, men do notBasically that guys can and would fuck anything that has a vagina. Thats not new. That's why you'll see men have a 8/10 but yet he is cheating on the side with a chick that is 4/10,5/10. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/19 08:49 PM |
| 13 | Women adjust their standards for attractiveness based on available and past choices, men do notHow do you know she wasn't also seeing the other guy too? Bluntly, she was more interested in the other guy then you. She started to ghost you and fade and put more of her attention on the other guy. I'm pretty sure men will do this too. If they are going on multiple dates and one girl is morr interesting, they connect more, share more things then he will next the other girl. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/06/19 08:07 PM |
| 7 | Can men or women be happy going a majority of their younger years(18-40) with no sex at all? Why or why not?I feel bad for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/19 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Can men or women be happy going a majority of their younger years(18-40) with no sex at all? Why or why not?Women don't get horny in the same way men do Men and women are not the same. So because she doesn't feel it the same way, means that she does not still frustrated?. Women don't feel sexual lust towards men nor do they need sex like men do. Wrong. They can sometimes find sex fun, but even then all they really want is "intimacy" and "affection", You do know that women get horny.. right ? and sex is usually just their way to get or maintain a relationship with a man. I actually feel bad that you be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/19 11:41 AM |
| 9 | Can men or women be happy going a majority of their younger years(18-40) with no sex at all? Why or why not?Yes they do. In western society and the majority there is no pride for men or women in being a virgin | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/19 11:37 AM |
| 14 | Discussion: might mechanical vibrators/sex toys have had a similar impact on female sexuality as 21st century porn has had on male sexuality (I.e., artifically elevated sexual expectations)?Nah, I want dick. Toys don't do much for me. I bought one and used it once and was dissatisfied - never used it again. My fingers are suffice for a rub out, but never compares to the feeling of reaching orgasm from a man (fingers, Tongue, penetration) I can make myself cum in less than 2mins. The build up with another body is phenomenal. Can't be replaced. Dick is where it's at. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: might mechanical vibrators/sex toys have had a similar impact on female sexuality as 21st century porn has had on male sexuality (I.e., artifically elevated sexual expectations)?Wthell does this even mean | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | “Marriage is just a piece of paper. I’m totally committed to you without it” is just a line said by men who want to get their girlfriends to shut up and accept being a forever girlfriend.Can you explain a bit more, if you don't mind ? I'm getting all the tips I can atm lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | “Marriage is just a piece of paper. I’m totally committed to you without it” is just a line said by men who want to get their girlfriends to shut up and accept being a forever girlfriend.Let me tell you - from now on idk how to cook, clean or take care of anything. We gonna learn everything together and come to a compromise lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | “Marriage is just a piece of paper. I’m totally committed to you without it” is just a line said by men who want to get their girlfriends to shut up and accept being a forever girlfriend.Just curious to your answer. What's the problem in being a "beta - provider?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 05:15 PM |
| 6 | “Marriage is just a piece of paper. I’m totally committed to you without it” is just a line said by men who want to get their girlfriends to shut up and accept being a forever girlfriend.I'm going to need to take some advice from you, honestly. Lol. My perception has been blurred of what a gf should be doing and what a wife should be doing. I have been doing the wife thing when I was only the GF and also not living together. I genuinely enjoy doing it - but people / men of course, do not appreciate it when they have it. I have left all of my ex's Alpha Widowed - where they have expressed they need and want to have to me back and apologetic letters of not appreciating me and fear… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/19 05:14 PM |
| 5 | The types of guys women go for at 20 are the guys women are truly attracted toYou should collect your cum in a jar and rub it on your own face. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 05:56 PM |
| 2 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Thank you :) lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.It's highschool. Everyone who is having sex is going to think sex is so cool and that they are awesome for doing it. I also knew many girls in highschool and college who would exaggerate their count or lie about being a virgin so the boys wouldn't think they were weird. It's both genders. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.No, it functions completely the opposite for women. Men like innocence, women like experience. And that's your problem. Keep putting everyone into a bubble of "rules" and I'm sure you'll do great in life and dating. If a man finds a 30 year old virgin who he's attracted to he's going to think he's hit the jackpot. I do not deny, but questions will be raised esp if that guy is experienced. Maybe if that guy also has little dating experience and is also a virgin then he thinks he may have won the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/19 11:03 AM |
| 4 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Nice way to cherry pick around my comment. Try to make a point instead of "alot of women will do exactly that" proving to me that you have nothing else to say and are walking around my comment with nothing sensible to back up just "You're wrong" lol You seem like a troll and I'm done talking with you until you can come back with something logical to say. Get to your point instead of these useless comments you have in my notifications that hold no substance other than attempts the throw intellect… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.When did you lose your virginity? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 09:11 PM |
| 4 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.What is the point of your argument honestly? You're rambling for no reason and I'll be honest you're not making sense. Like my comment stated, Most women will not next a man because he is a virgin like men will apparently next a girl because she was promiscuous. If a guy got her to date him and they like eachother and it comes up she will not be grossed out and think he is less of a man. Men who arent sleeping with women are obviously virgins. But they aren't getting rejected because they are a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 09:10 PM |
| 2 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.If I am attracted to him, no. Once we get the opportunity to talk, I would ask why. Depending on the answer I would see where it goes. I dated a virgin already - it was great. He didn't have an upright attitude about sex, he didn't ask me how many people I've been with, we talked about whether I was one or not, I wasn't. We clicked on a foundational level and we dated for two years. I personally don't care about someone's sexual history. I care about LTR relationship history, whether they cheate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 09:03 PM |
| 3 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Because the age could be different for you, for me, for others. Don't try and be a smart ass with me. Argue valid points. I countered your argument that it's not only for men the same applies to women, so it's a human social issue. You claimed above that women don't avoid virgin men, and that's false. Women don't avoid virgin men. If virgin men aren't approaching women .. that's a woman's fault? If she is not interested in a guy it's not because he's a virgin - there were many off putting factor… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.I doubt it is "tons" - there are outliers for every situation. So you found out info from some shallow women - never denied it was possible but it's def not the norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 08:35 PM |
| 7 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Exactly! The men aren't getting women because they don't attract women, first and foremost. If he was attracting women and was a virgin but was waiting for the right one or whatever, women will not think he is gross because of it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.If the guy has done well enough to get her to date him - going on more than one date and has entered the "talking stage" of dating and she already likes him she will NOT dump him because he is a virgin. If a virgin is not getting girls to date him it's not because he is a virgin - there are other factors at play. But it is clearly the former for men on here apparently. Date a girl, spend time, like her, ask, find out sexual history, dump. (Which I also find very unlikely even though they said th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Just like people end up saying shit to hurt others when they are throwing out insults. It's a sensitive topic = hurt feelings. If that's what they are trying to do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 08:21 PM |
| 6 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Just like if a man met a 30yr old women who was a virgin and had no relationship experience. Being a 30yr old virgin of either sex raises questions but like I said, if she already built a connection with you and is dating you and the first time before you guys have sex you tell her she's not gonna be like "ew wtf. Not in the mood anymore - get out" I'm pretty sure she will be honoured, tbh. Because I'm sure as hell a virgin isn't going to be saying this on their first date. If they do, they need… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 08:19 PM |
| 9 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.I call bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.Being a virgin woman beyond "virginity - losing age" is also a red flag to many men. Just like if a woman has had no LTR before the age of 30 men will question why. If you disagree you don't know many men. That seems to be a social factor not a woman one. This is a well-known thing among those of us who go outside, interact with people, and participate in society. Lmao I probably interact with more people than you on a daily basis my man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 07:56 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?"I used to do party drugs and do orgies and now I think those were mistakes" Do you really think that's the norm for women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 05:19 PM |
| 10 | Could we say that men’s obsession with “n count” is not based on “studies about promiscuous women” but their own egos.In that virgin women are put on a pedestal by men, but virgin men are "losers" according to most women. I don't see any sane women being so disgusted at the fact that he never in his life entered a pussy and will never touch her golden kitten without fucking another one first. If they have a good chemistry and like eachother a woman will not next him because of it. Men here apparently will, no matter how much of a connection they made with the person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 04:48 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?Ou thanks. I never heard that one ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 04:42 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?Timing and reasoning behind it. Its easy to pick up If this question is asked while we are sitting down face to face over dinner, you're vetting me. If this question was brought up "out of curiosity" and you barley know me yet - you're vetting me. If it's only the 3-5date and the question comes up - you're vetting me. If we are hanging out and already on the topic of sex, and it slips in casually - sure maybe you are just curious but until we are in a comfortable spot in the relationship where w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 04:40 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?This is exactly what I mean though, it's okay to judge someone because of a lack of sexual partners, but not okay to judge someone with a surplus of them, and it makes no sense to me. What is your "surplus" we have identified what a virgin is what is your logic behind who and who is not a slut? Then this conversation can continue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?Being a "slut" is something not even men can agree with what the definition is. That's probably why people get downvoted using that word because it's all personal. Being a virgin is simple = had no sex. What is being a slut? 2,3,4,5 men? People throw around the term with their own personal bias loaded into it. Having standards in dating is universal. Yes. But there are things that make an adult relationship different than a teenage/child one. If you're asking how many people she slept with and y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 11:17 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?To me it just seems like an odd question, honestly. Only because I know that I wouldn't ask the question. I would be more inclined to know about serious LTR's, whether or not he cheated, etc. Behaviour while in a relationship. I have noticed that, and I don't mean you - but the more insecure / non experienced guys ask this question. For me as soon as this question is asked I know I'm dealing with someone that doesnt have experience and that's just one red flag. Maybe im jaded lmao. My LTR that h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 04:57 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?Why is the question even being asked in the first place. If you're an adult and you understand people do adult things just like you've been doing adult things. If a man passed the age of 25 is asking me that question not to "learn more about me" but to "vet me" whether or not my number lines up with his "expectations" I would be skeptical on dating him and probably won't knowing the thought process behind the question. I wouldn't lie, I just wouldn't date him. You guys really think asking the qu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 04:45 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?if you're past a certain age and you're still asking about how many people she slept with, that's a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 02:16 AM |
| 0 | [Q4W] what goes on a women mind when she lies about her sexual partners and does it change later on?Why would I want to deal with someone with skeletons in their closets or with someone who felt the need to reinvent themselves. We are currently always reinventing ourselves. If you're the same person you were when you were 19, that's a problem. If you made no mistakes in your life and grew up with everything being perfect. That's a problem. In my life I don't want perfect. I want someone who knows the ups and downs of life and actually learn and evolve as individuals. Someone who has made no mi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyno its not critical, its the truth lol is that a problem? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 04:59 PM |
| 1 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyNo. That wasn't all he wanted - if it was he wouldn't still be calling me daily for more chances for a relationship. Like I said before if you wanna try to do RP things it will work on insecure women but if you want a real relationship with a woman it won't. So it's best to unlearn things if you end up ever in your life wanting a LTR | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 01:24 PM |
| 1 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyLOL wthell kind of projection is this. I'm explaining exactly why I broke up with him and why I know he never get over me. I have been over him for a while. I'm sharing my experiences. Just because I can talk about myself in a positive light doesn't mean that I'm not over him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 01:20 PM |
| 1 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyI never said he can't ever get sex. He will get sex. When he is looking for another relationship like we had, and to plan a future with them he won't find someone like me. He can and will only find insecure women. That's sad, on the level of his game and what he is going to deal with later on. But to each their own. He can probably drown in pussy if he wants to but will never attain an adult relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyOh yes he will, I never once doubted that. If we wants to fuck around he will probably find some chicks. They way out relationship was going it was serious and he wanted something long term - talks of engagement, parents meeting, buying a house, kids all discussed on a mutual basis. When he is looking for someone to do that with again - he is going to have major issues. Hence we will never find someone like me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 10:05 AM |
| 2 | People that cry AWALT are going for trash but instead of admitting it- they blame the womenSo do they think all men are the same.... All women are going to leave you, cheat on you, or treat you badly if they think you're a loser. This is not an objectionable statement. It's not even arguable or deniable. If you suck and a woman isn't getting anything out of being with you, she's going to cheat, leave, or be a bitch. If you're a bad partner, why do you think anyone would want to stay with you? Male or female... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/05/19 01:40 AM |
| 2 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyHe pulled me, but like I said - when we met Ill be honest I had low self esteem and I basically settled for him for that one year and a bit until I got fed up. It was probably one of my worse relationships yet He can try again, but I know for a fact they will never measure up to me. He was lucky to get someone like me and that was when I was at my lowest. Any self assured woman will turn him away. He will probably pull some girls. He's tall, alright looking and makes 6 figures. He will find girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 08:42 PM |
| 2 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyThat's fine. But it's not like he will get a quality woman again - like he wanted to be long term with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 08:37 PM |
| 2 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyLmao thank you! It is 100% true and I stand by it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 05:22 PM |
| 2 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyOh trust me we were already a few months deep when I saw the other people he was with and it struck a chord. I knew he was lucky af. He knows it too. Nah, he can't. Ill admit that I had low confidence when we started dating and that's a reason he got me. Like I said before, he can't pull another woman like me, for a relationship. That's why he is still on my line calling me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyHe can fuck whoever he wants to, but he can never pull another quality woman like me. He was confused. RP but wanted a relationship | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:25 PM |
| 2 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlySomething he will never do again lol he's lucky I put up with him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 04:15 PM |
| 3 | abundance mentality and acting alpha work for higher value males onlyI do find this to be true. My ex - who read RP and I can tell it was in his mindset thought being an asshole meant being straight to the point "manly alpha male, no body can tell me nothing" attitude and it was disgusting. I was instantly turned off. I know he turned to TRP being a tall skinny guy. Virgin until 21, only had one gf that was essentially long distance for 3 years, and decided to spin plates then he met me. When I used to go on his phone I saw some of the people he fucked and wow. T… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/19 02:59 PM |
| 2 | How did your pair-bonding ability change as your n-count got higher?It didn't. If I met someone we wanted to be in relationship together. That was it. If I loved him, I loved him. My need/want for "love" never changed and it never changed how I expressed myself to my boyfriend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:45 PM |
| 5 | Do you experience post nut clarity? How does your mood change after sex?Because the act of cumming doesn't always happen for a women.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/05/19 12:40 PM |
| 3 | Relationship history more important than n-count?Keep in mind alot of women who have high n counts are emotionally unstable and they use sex to deal with pain instead of therapy. Alot of women who have bad relationship history have problems with being alone and becoming their own person instead of therapy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/19 02:28 PM |
| 0 | The amount of women who will next a good guy for a Chad, is pretty portionate to the amount of men, who next an average nice girl, for a hot bitchy Stacy.Well if I were to take out the "hot" men do end up falling more for "bitchy" type of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/19 12:48 AM |
| -3 | The amount of women who will next a good guy for a Chad, is pretty portionate to the amount of men, who next an average nice girl, for a hot bitchy Stacy.I feel because they are not even giving the other girl the time of day. They are easily falling into being "oribitors" or chasing after a girl that they know friendzoned them but are trying to still her man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 10:52 PM |
| 2 | The amount of women who will next a good guy for a Chad, is pretty portionate to the amount of men, who next an average nice girl, for a hot bitchy Stacy.Most average guys will do fine with average women Exactly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/19 10:50 PM |
| 1 | [CMV] The majority of men don't have varying tastes in womenThese are the beautiful features that you attribute to what men find attractive: Hundreds of researches have proved that men are attracted to youth, fertility signals such as ample breasts and an hourglass figure (low waist-to-hip ratio), and symmetrical faces that are considered to be conventionally attractive. These are things men have been biologically programmed to be attracted to for hundreds of years Black women have that. If you're looking at stereotypical features Asian women are less li… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 05:06 PM |
| 4 | [CMV] The majority of men don't have varying tastes in womenLet's not leave out the racial/ethnic factor. If men really had an equal amount of variant tastes in women then that doesn't explain the study in which they discovered men (of all different races) are least attracted to black women. (Note: I've also read that this study showed that these same men were attracted to asian, white, and latina women which is one point that contradicts my post since there is a variety in racial preferences, but these same women of these ethnicities must have the menti… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/19 12:50 PM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Not at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/19 10:36 AM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about."hey I'm nice to you, fuck me" "you don't want to fuck me? Fuck you and female brain bitch" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/19 05:57 AM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.No you can't. You still appreciation from them in some way. Incels hate women as a whole. Not a few. They have a hive mindset on it and that will come off in every interaction they have with one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/19 05:56 AM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.What do you not understand. The social constructs of the male - female relationship. Expectations and wants. Men created those. Nature - the fact that women are women and look for certain things in men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 09:38 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?I get there's a mental aspect and reluctance to report rape but "showing up three weeks or months later to the police station will not get it done. Due process allows benefit of the doubt to the alleged rapist." Immediate action is required or else the rapist goes free possibly to attack another victim. Yah people understand that, does not mean its easy to do. And also tell that to the women who reported things as soon as it happened and watched their accusers go free or have a slap on the wrist… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 09:34 PM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Lol were you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 08:15 PM |
| 0 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Lol because you can't and you're upset that you can't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 08:08 PM |
| 0 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.That's why there is this sub to interact with these people or are you forgetting where you are? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about......... Bruh I'm sure the tall strong men wouldn't even allow the skinny unfit or fat men to fuck. They had first pickings of women. You have shit backwards. Stop trying to blame women when it men you are really mad about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:48 PM |
| -4 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Yah, how many men? Let's be realistic dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:44 PM |
| -4 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Don't act as if women were equal contributors to society as a whole. While there may have been some, don't pretend the exceptions were the rule. Again, don't act like exceptions are the rules. Taking the direct quote from your source: "Unlike men, single women risked ruining their family's reputation if they wanted to engage in sexual activity outside the contexts of marriage. By the mid-late Middle Ages, the prospect of an independent woman came under increased scrutiny. The prevailing belief w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.They seem to not like people pointing it out to them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:22 PM |
| 0 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Just because you know doesnt mean that is it universal knowledge. So get off your high horse. I'm sure there are going to be people commenting that what I'm saying is bull shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:18 PM |
| 2 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.They are upset that women don't want them. Whether for casual sex, friendships, or relationships. They are upset with Chad for his blessed genes then shit on women for choosing them. Women they hate, sure. However that will work. But I'm sure they don't hate the gender as a whole. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:10 PM |
| 3 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Ok so you're one of the people that do agree with that then. Good to know. Tbh, idk... The replies of these men on here, you never know. I could change it to discussion but meh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 1 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.You don't what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:04 PM |
| 4 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.Well, they are Incels for a reasons. You can't try to game girls while hating them. If they aren't going to change their viewpoint their whining is pointless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 07:00 PM |
| 4 | The men who hate women, hate them because women can get away with a life style some men cannot. If they could have the same "advantanges" as women they would be doing the exact things they complain about.100% So you can say that TRP is a direct comparison to hysterical Feminism. Same ideology base. Same hate for the other gender. Same separating from relationships and wanting to be alone with a bunch of pets then deal with male/female shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 06:55 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?So are men who meet with crazy, gold digging, cheating, using women unable to screen properly? is or is the woman's fault for being that way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?but you also alluded to preventive measures that both men and women could implement to avoid rape...and that's just being smart and aware in every aspect of your activities and life. Self-protection is a thing. It's always a consideration. Life is not like this. Of course, self protection is a thing does not always mean that you will be protected. Look at the amount of women in the more conservative dressing countries and molestation, rape and abuse are still a thing, due to power. Just because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 01:05 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?It's not difficult with women - it's difficult with any person and even the court system knows this. How about technology figure out ways to outline this and prove this, as rape allegations have always been a she said against he said and this isn't new. It's just that now unfortunately some women are using this and with the heightened amount allegations that have proven to be true makes their lies easier. That does not and should not ever push aside the fact of the many women who did come forwar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 10:09 AM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?If you think that then you have some unrealistic views of life. Obviously live comes with hardships, that is life. But you seem to attribute that to how many people I slept with, and that's not the case. I'm sure you're life is amazing and great and so fulfilling with the all the casual sex you have and hours now spent at the gym. Awesome for u | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 09:29 AM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?I'm coming back to this - but do you realize that not all rape is in the violent manner that you state right? Also By you saying your wife will never get raped because she won't have sex with other men is enough to show your ignorance. Do you think being raped is a choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 01:29 AM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?You seem to think you know me based one category you have placed me in lmao. I am not anything that you named.. slutty high n-count girl is depressed/anxious/neurotic/stressed to the point of needing regular therapy and prescription meds and/or heavily self-medicating with drugs and alcohol. Does not relate to me. superficially they make a huge effort to maintain appearances to try to convince everyone else that they're living their perfect best life. they're all like you, insisting that everyth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/19 01:22 AM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Many women find themselves in this dilemma whether it is because they put their career / education first - or because some actually chose to not have serious relationships until their 30's. I understand the distaste of the second one, for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 10:09 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?So is 80 your realistic cut off point? Because if it is, I'm sure you'll find many women who haven't sex with 80 men by their mid 30's. Tbh, at least in my generation when these online things came out, to the women/men who already had experience dating this just opened up a Pandora's box that no one really knew what to expect and how to handle the fast paced dating life. So n counts were racked up. Women finding out that men only want sex even if they wine and dine you, and will never call back,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 09:32 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Lmao, yah I see party girls, living on a college campus ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 08:36 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?I don't know why you're directing this to me. As if I'm having trouble; I'm not. I'm telling men, who probably don't get casual sex what the basic norms of dating is now, especially with apps that enhance selection by 100x more than it did before. Also, this relates to men as well. Clearly men are upset that this is the norm but yet they are not getting casual sex. Tell them to take the hard way in life and that it's benefiting them not having women spread their legs for them . Lol, what are the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 08:34 PM |
| 2 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Yah, goodluck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 07:49 PM |
| 2 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Why would I blame anyone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 06:40 PM |
| 2 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Exactly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 06:39 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Aw congrats !!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 06:38 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Thanks for being honest. That is what I assumed for majority of men who have issues with it. If he engaged on casual sex then it's not a big deal to him, if he did not then its a reminder of what he couldn't achieve that "20 guys who banged her, could" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 05:29 PM |
| 0 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?You didn't answer my question. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 05:27 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Ah okay, so the very typical looking ones then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 05:26 PM |
| 0 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?in the context of a young 20s woman, the median partner counts vary in studies between 2 and 5 with standard deviations of 5-7. Do you have any personal experience with women, aside from your studies and states that are pulling this information? In many studies, they didn't even have any women report more than 20 partners. So any woman telling you she's been with 20 guys etc is extremely promiscuous. Maybe they lie? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?describe? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 05:17 PM |
| 2 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?The type TRP described. Her mate value is not very high, usually overestimate herself while has high paternity uncertainty(likely to cheat). I dont think that is true. There are people who are dating around and sleeping with someone comes into that - they accumulate because they have't found someone with intentions of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 05:17 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 04:44 PM |
| 1 | What kind of woman do you picture when you talk about High Ns? I think context matters. Do you?If the date didn't seem likely to work out or the dude only wanted you for sex you should have vetted better. I don't think that's always the case. Men who have game, have game. There would be no way of knowing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men: How much effort to do you put into personal care?basic maintenance and knowing how to dress, should be on everyone's list, | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 02:31 PM |
| 2 | Men: How much effort to do you put into personal care?keep my beard trimmed in a goatee (I'm Native, so it grows slowly, only neding a trim once a week). I do;t have a formal office typo job, so can dress for comfort, but insist even casual clothes are clean and wll kept, fitting properly. I also would not appear in public in sweat pants or pajamas or anything like that. I feel that being out and about I should always be presentable. Coconut oil is life! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Men: How much effort to do you put into personal care?hmm, nice! and how are you with women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Men: How much effort to do you put into personal care?How are you with women? if you dont mind me asking | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 02:24 PM |
| 2 | Men: How much effort to do you put into personal care?e you hunter eyes or make you a foot taller. You can dress up a turd, but in the end it will still be a turd. It definitely helps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/19 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: How would you feel if your LTR lied about his sexual past by inflating it?I don't really care tbh. Am i getting good sex? Is he open to do things with me? If the answer is yes then whatever. The only red flag about all of this, is that he would be telling me all those details lol since its not a conversation I would have anyway. I really don't care what someone did before me, casual sex wise. I would already smell something fishy that he is gloating about that stuff. Men with experience don't need to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 02:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereIm going in with the logical standpoint that both men and women work now. If a woman tries to find a man that makes more money than her, so she can give up working and stay home then he is in a provider role. If she makes less but is still contributing and they make an arrangement to split based on incomes then that is conclusion they came to being partners Again, the amount of men and women where the dynamic is the man being the sole provider is not common. Idk why you are trying to argue this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 02:01 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphere...... Idk what kind of women you know who is only making $1. And shame on the guy who decides to be with a girl who can't atleast provide for herself without him then feel he is stuck "in the provider" role lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 01:15 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereNot if she is also capable. Just because it's a "higher quality" doesn't mean he is providing. They are both providing for eachother. It's a partnership. Poor parents still provide for their kids. Just because it's not as much as the rich family; you still think they don't provide? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/19 12:42 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Men disrespect women and degrade the value of family and monogamy. The decrease in men getting sex is just due and caused by the manosphereMen are decrying marriage because women are making it a bad deal in part through actions like racking up high n counts and then wanting to settle down with providers after they've already burned through their youth, The amount of men who are actual sole providers while she does nothing and stay home, is slim to none now a days. So do you mean they look for a partner who is responsible with their money and willing to have a partnership with them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Men who aren't successful with women, how do you talk to them?Is this not a weird exchange? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/05/19 02:15 PM |
| 1 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?It actually was :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?Trust me Apple Blossom, never again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 09:02 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?I am not a leftist so you can try to have a conversation without putting that on me. If u can't, this convo is done. Why do you think the narrative began in the first place? Because some men were actually doing it enough for it to be something. It's those men that normalized the fear in women for women to then propagate it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 08:51 PM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?You're not making sense. Answer my simple question before asking me questions. Don't answer me with a question if you want to have a discussion. From my experience, mothers teach their daughters this, not fathers. Because that's why there are over protective father's to their daughters because they know what men do and want? No. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?So I'll agree that my last question posed as a demand but the title of my OP is still a fair worded question to ask. Some men having an angry and quick to assume that a woman is lying approach to rape/sexual harrassment accusations and basically saying women are paranoid - so it's a question that deems reasonable when speaking to men to think a woman is lying or it was her fault as soon she opens her mouth to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?To a sub who lumps together all women because of their own individual experiences, I hope you're using that same energy for those generalizations as well. And I'm not saying ALL MEN do this. I am asking the men their idea of other men who do it. Simple as that. Just like how men can ask women a question that is targetting women, am I going to answer and say THIS SHOULD BE A PEOPLE QUESTION. No. Answer the question and move along. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?Ha. Good one Sherlock | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?You guys seriously have reading comprehension problems. Where did I say men are responsible for everything else a man does? Or am I simply asking the question of whether or not you feel just as much anger towards women who report false rape, to the men who built up the idea that all men can be rapists and believed since it didn't come from no where. It's a very simple answer. I can answer yes to people asking me am I upset at the women who do false rape claims, or if I'm upset at the black peopl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?If you tried to use it to point out to me that it's makes it "difficult to read" that was a fail. Where is the lie in "men created the culture" ? If the species of men weren't doing these things .. there would be nothing for women to fear. Do you think women just made this up? I ask this and use this language to the blatant fact that the men who do not do such things seem to have no idea where it comes from. They think it comes from women's "paranoia, false rape accusations and feminism" trying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?Where is the lie in "men created the culture" ? If the gender of men weren't doing these things .. there would be nothing for women to fear. Do you think women just made this up? I ask this and use this language to the blatant fact that the men who do not do such things seem to have no idea where it comes from. They think it comes from women's "paranoia, false rape accusations and feminism" trying to undermine all men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?How can you get crime stats on a crime that has over majority of time rarley been turned in to police. Makes sense. Common sense? Lol yah okay. Not every single who has some issues with them or been touched in appropriately has a sign dangling on them that says so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 07:14 PM |
| 1 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?I'll say this again. Hope you don't believe AWALT. And who is blaming an ENTIRE gender. ME being a minority CAN be upset at my minority that acts in stereotypical ways, that embraces OTHERS to TREAT EVERYONE of my race that way. Am I blaming all black people? Or do I now then understand why certain people have certain in grained judgements about us. It's not my job to prove to other people that I am not, but if I want to live in society with a free mind it's going to happen anyway. There's a dif… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?And u know this? How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?Oh so do you think women have little social get togethers called "raped and molested meet ups" No. This is usually uncovered when trust / friendships builds. So it's nothing about paranoid people sharing paranoid stories. "The men" don't even have to know at all. If you have a crime to report, report it to the police. Unless, of course, you know you have nothing of substance to report. Yah because that worked for SO LONG with women reporting rapes. Because it's so easy to admit and to be believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 06:57 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?Hope you don't believe AWALT. And who is blaming an ENTIRE gender. ME being a minority CAN be upset at my minority that acts in stereotypical ways, that embraces OTHERS to TREAT EVERYONE of my race that way. Am I blaming all black people? Or do I now then understand why certain people have certain in grained judgements about us. It's not my job to prove to other people that I am not, but if I want to live in society with a free mind it's going to happen anyway. There's a difference. If men here … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 06:52 PM |
| 5 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?You're disgusting. Paranoid when yet it's common enough in female circles to speak openly about this. Why do you think you men don't know? Because of men like you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 06:48 PM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?If the issue of women being either harrased, raped/molested at a young age, touch in appropriately, put in uncomfortable sexual tensed situations - is COMMON AMOUNGST WOMEN What does that mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?That you know of, because how many rapists actually get caught? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?The majority don't seem to understand that it's men themselves that created this shit show. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 05:41 PM |
| 10 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?I'm not blaming men as a whole - I am saying it's alot more COMMON than you think. If it's common enough for people to believe it without evidence, what does that mean to you? Somewhere in this post you guys are thinking that I am saying ALL men do this. I find it so funny that even a slither of generalization gets you guys in a tizzy but RP is based on AWALT. Irony. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 05:39 PM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?You would be shocked to find out the amount of men who not get dealt with accordingly. You men, are hilarious. Think because someone does something bad they will be punished. Oh, what a wonderland. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 05:36 PM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?I'm asking a question because it's obviously not obvious especially in the subreddit. So goodbye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?A few criminals? When almost every woman across the globe has experienced one, two if not all of the same things? Also, you're again not understanding my post. Answer my actual question in it then we can have a proper discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 05:20 PM |
| -2 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?Did I not say that women who make false rape claims should be jailed? Read my post again then come for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 05:05 PM |
| 8 | Are you as upset with the culture men created that gives reason for women to be easily believed in assault/rape claims?Or maybe it's more women coming forward... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 04:55 PM |
| 4 | “Emotional labor” exists because there is a fundamental misalignment — is it nature or nurture? Could level-setting expectations even fix the gap?Tbh, I think we can agree to disagree. There are points even within the men "putting wife and children first" but it's way too deep to get into at the moment. So do you think women are better at multitasking because they have to be better at something, otherwise it wouldn't be fair? No. Don't try to put that "omg it's not fair" judgement on me. I just find it funny that when women come on this sub to talk about strengths of the gender it's met with backlash and disapproval, as if women can't be … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 02:20 PM |
| 4 | “Emotional labor” exists because there is a fundamental misalignment — is it nature or nurture? Could level-setting expectations even fix the gap?Which is why I said: Men do multitask but do not hyper focus on the small things to attain the bigger picture. Reasons why many excel in logical/math/science. They will focus on small details that have to make sense, that do not have many variables to get to the same point. it's a straight forward thinking process and it's done. This transpires into families aswell. Most men were raised focusing on what he has to do and what he can do to get it done. Most women were raised on the premise to thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 01:44 PM |
| 3 | “Emotional labor” exists because there is a fundamental misalignment — is it nature or nurture? Could level-setting expectations even fix the gap?yes (particularly when they're employed as secretaries, or when they have children). They definitely do not have their children by themselves. So they are better at doing it than their husbands. Do you disagree? It's also like you're saying "a doctor is a doctor, because he's a doctor" while the premise is true - he is obviously a doctor. There were skills and studying that had to take place for him to become one. Also, untrue. This is within female social groups, growing up, work and choices th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 01:22 PM |
| 3 | “Emotional labor” exists because there is a fundamental misalignment — is it nature or nurture? Could level-setting expectations even fix the gap?What it think OP is getting at is the being able to process many things at the same time, all for other people and taking their needs into consideration. Probably why most women are employed as administration/secretary work. It's basically taking care of the all the small things, all the minor details, making sure things run smoothly. All the mundane tasks that the "bosses" can't be bothered with in order for thing to runs smoothly. Once those things fall apart, guess what falls apart? The compa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/05/19 12:37 PM |
| 4 | CMV: Being wanted for youth is like being wanted for moneyOf course, and as long as she is his symbol of a monogamous, happy man who "has it all" - they are both winning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 05:16 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Being wanted for youth is like being wanted for moneyIt would mean that a woman who dates for money should not feel bad when Mr Rich replaces her with a younger woman. Her youth and looks get her in the door, but if she wants to stay, she needs to offer more. I think that's exactly what OP means. Tbh, most women already know this. If you're with a guy for certain things as he is with you, it's a trade of of status' and egos. I'm sure it's why most gold Digging women know their men are no longer faithful to them but they are ok, as long as he is st… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/19 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"Honestly you can believe whatever you want with the amount of studies to back up your points; as I'm sure I can find many other to back up my own and fully lived experienced for years. I have never changed what I thought was attractive depending on being in BC or not. It has stayed relatively the same as I'm sure many other girls will protest to it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"The Pill. This form of birth control messes with what women find attractive. When they go off it, they end up wondering what the hell she married. Women on the Pill are more attracted to men that have less ambition, assertiveness and leadership skills in their life. They have a tendency to be more attracted to “boys” then “men.” Many studies have shown this to be true. No it does not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/19 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?I do agree with you. I would never want to put in a position where I'm asking someone to choose me. It's either they want to or they don't. Their actions infront of me and when I'm not there, will show it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/19 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"Oh wow! I'm sorry to hear that :/ He left? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/19 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"Mmmmm good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/19 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"So you don't think people need to work... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 10:31 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"Can you answer my other half. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"No, it's not that. Obviously people have to work.. everyone has to work.. the amount of stay at home moms now are pretty slim (correct me if I'm wrong) because both people now have to work. When you find someone to stay at home, there's obviously a power imbalance. You now create the rules, manage the money, and are able to say that. Need to stay out late for work? Even though its half work/half socializing with your buddies you can do that because you're the one working. Does she have a say in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"I'm pretty sure I'm much more complex than that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 08:16 PM |
| 7 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"So why don't men find women who are going to pull their weight / the same weight then. If men can't actually be there for their wife/family they create, is it even fair for them to want it and pursue it ? then think everything will be good and dandy after years of being emotionally absent ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 08:11 PM |
| 8 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"What I find in alot of what you stated is what the men have sacrificed. Don't kill me here; but most seeming to almost be self fulfilling with the mindset of doing it for the family but being absent from the family. "He's worked overtime, taken on side projects, worked a second job to keep the rent/mortgage paid and the lights on" "The guys work hard and give up a lot (i.e. nights, weekends, sometime months or even years long deployments)" Where is the relationship being sustained, is there even… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"I am literally answering the questions you have asked in return asking you the same thing. You're trying to disqualify what I have witnessed to what you have. You may be exaggerating the amount of happy marriages. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 07:22 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"How do you know it's not problem outside of your own social circle? I'm University graduate with a corporate job. But I do not belong to one social group. Some of these men work within corporate positions, some are blue collar/hands on men. Some are my age or a little older. Most are asian/white educated young professionals. Yet they all know or have experienced people within their own circles marrying and divorcing quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 07:17 PM |
| 4 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"It was literally one sentence that doesn't take away from the rest of words after it. I can fill the same 10 words with examples of people I know and it won't change anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"If this is stemming from both of our experiences then we can stop trying to do the back and forth. People I know personally have been divorced, most men I work with now have been divorced more than twice. Some of their marriage lasting maybe only 1 or 2 years. A couple of people I know from HS who got married are now divorced and social groups that I don't know - but we share friends have also seen this within our age group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"No. I'm not comparing celebrities to be taken as the norm. They have a completely different lifestyle but it doesn't change the fact that marriage / divorce happens between normal people. Normal people are out here getting married one, twice, three times isn't something taboo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Why are people divorcing so quickly? Are there not red flags in the relationships before you said "I do"Are you trying to say celebrities aren't people .. Or trying to mock the fact that this was brought up because I saw this morning like many others that celebrities were divorcing? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Lack of respect creates lack of love and lack of love creates lack of respectMine read into TRP way before me too. Once I started to read into it, I saw it in how he was with me even if he denied it. It's one of those things where after you read it for some time it's hard to unlearn. We had many arguments that stemmed from his unwillingness to open up yet, he wanted a family and marriage. He was a confused person and dragged me down into his darkness. Like you I was lost, confused, broken, more than I have ever been for a long time. I hated myself. I think the difference… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Lack of respect creates lack of love and lack of love creates lack of respectI relate alot to your post. It's one of the many reasons why my recent past relationship didn't work. I was am extremely empathetic person. To a point that I annoy myself. I interalize way too many emotions from other people, in turn act accordingly towards them. My last relationship was toxic. But I wonder if it's because I made it so. He had issues trusting. Trouble with an ex. Problems communicating. Problems showing his love, being open, being vulnerable. Basically everything needed to be do… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/19 03:16 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Yah I truly feel bad for you guys. And I somewhat get it as there are many girls who I don't even want to be friends with. I honestly have only three best friends because majority of others I really cannot stand. So can't imagine what it like to try and plan a future with these girls. But also don't forget not everyone is like that. I guess sometimes I need to remember that me and the people I may surround with are the exception not the rule. And you guys deal with the rules 99% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Yah I get it. Maybe since I'm not a guy I'm not exposed to the other side of women in that way. I personally have a somewhat hight count but also I enjoy pleasuring my partner's so I would never not do it. Funny enough and sorry if it too TMI but I love giving BJ's to my boyfriend's (only boyfriend's) and my most recent ex could NOT get off during it, it just wasn't his thing ever. I actually took an ego hit and felt down and made my mission for him too. 😂 We broke up for other reasons but I was… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/19 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Why do you think deep down she settled for you? Only because she had more sex than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 10:22 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?I don't understand why... Isn't their whole objective to not be the guy that provides for her? So what kind of woman do they want ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?So what kind of conversation would that be - do you think, to let you know that you are "being settled for" I'm not sure, women or men would ever admit that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?So do you feel like secure guys take that option away from themselves by choosing to be secure from a younger age? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Think whatever you want. You're making a decision to be this unleveled in your thinking. Which means you don't know how to hold a proper conversation and you like to puts words into other people's mouths. You should work on that. I am done talking to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 11:29 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Many guys do this. The amount of men who are as disgusted against women who slept around by stating that their views on sex clearly aren't the same - and they want someone who shares it. Is alot. Unless it's just an excuse to say 'i couldn't get pussy even when I tried so now i just appreciate the one I was able to get. So that is my view on sex" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Don't speak for everyone. There are some people who don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 11:21 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Makes sense. As long as in your eyes it's both, which would be the best outcome for both of you guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 11:21 AM |
| 0 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Lol. You are so angry it is actually clouding your comprehension skills. I used what I heard because at that point I truly sympathized with the guy/guys that go through something like this. It's fucked up.. again THE CHEATING ASIDE, because being the secure guy does not always equate to being cheating on, being the secure guy is something in general that sounds distasteful. I questioned into her words of settling for a secure guy oppose to the hot, fun one - and posed it aa everyone in some poin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Yea but reading comprehension is important. I brought up a situation that made me understand more on to why guys from here feel the way they do esp if he has ever been the guy that this woman is cheating on because the other one is "hot and fun" and he is just safe and better for future" . The cheating aside, I questioned into her words of settling for a secure guy oppose to the hot, fun one - that everyone seems to do or picking the "safe option" overall in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Is that my question? Reading comprehension is important here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 11:03 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Seems reasonable and sound. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?This is also true! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 01:37 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Everyone knows a man isn't going to settle for some ugly chick only because she has an education and is financially secure. It's a given the guy is going for someone who he is attracted to. That's male 101 for women and men. Or did you need that to be spelled out to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?First of all, no one is projecting so you try that with someone else. Where did I state any of those things that you just listed ? Whatever secure is to the man, is what he wants. Who also said that girl couldn't be hot or attractive? You seem to be projecting a thought process on me that you think I am thinking. "Don't be the girl" I'm not. So your tangent is invalid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/19 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?I don't detest - but explain ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 11:36 PM |
| 3 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?That's not my question. But okay. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Interesting again. Mind if I continue on with this. And correct me if I'm wrong; but did you choose your wife out of pity? In the sense that she can't be with anyone more attractive than you (meaning she isn't that much a catch) - or you chose her because she won't be a risk and she understands you're the best she can do and won't stray (meaning that you are catch) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Thanks, good points. I get that entirely. So if she spent her 20's fucking lesser guys but still fucks her guy the same; he would be happy? Even if he didn't get to do it himself. I guess for men, there are some women who actually decide not to do that. That does suck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Interesting - Why would you want to know she is settling for you? What would it do for you? I'm not trying to be sassy. Would you tell your woman you are settling for her ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 11:12 PM |
| 5 | Hot guy vs Secure guy : Men, i understand why being the secure guy is an insult. But do you understand why some women chose it?Because some guys actually don't understand and try to justify this an a "women action" as oppose to a human one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/04/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Shaming men for preferring sexually discriminate women as being 'sex negative' is like shaming women for preferring self-assured men as being 'insecurity negative'.That's also why I said preferences. There are other guys that wouldn't mind it. There are obviously some guys who do and that is their deal breaker to boil it down to say all men wouldn't / all men would - doesnt fly with me. Also, in regards to this example I do feel like the number, whatever it was wasn't the biggest problem. It was more so because of the people he affiliated with knowing her and he is actually interacting with people that slept with his soon to be wife. I personally think tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | Shaming men for preferring sexually discriminate women as being 'sex negative' is like shaming women for preferring self-assured men as being 'insecurity negative'.Thank u! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 05:09 AM |
| 3 | Shaming men for preferring sexually discriminate women as being 'sex negative' is like shaming women for preferring self-assured men as being 'insecurity negative'.Lmao how you gonna say three strikes I'm out, if I got the correct answer by number two. I said EITHER, not ALL. False. There are peer reviewed studies that have correlated the number of casual sex partners and divorce for women at greater than 80%. The threshold of no return is somewhere around 20 fyi. Is that the same one that says a women with two partners are just as likely to divorce as a woman with 10+ or something along those lines. It's called blue pilled conditioning. That is what you a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Shaming men for preferring sexually discriminate women as being 'sex negative' is like shaming women for preferring self-assured men as being 'insecurity negative'.So go ahead and have your preference. Why do you feel the need to "scientifically" prove it? You don't like women who have a high N count. Okay, so don't date them. You either don't like them because 1. You haven't had as much sex 2. You have a high regard to sex and conduct yourself in the same manner 3. You think they are going to cheat 4. The thought of her having dick that wasn't yours makes you sick. 5. You have a preconceived view of what women with a high count look and act like. If it's … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/04/19 03:26 AM |
| 6 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?For someone who has to post their dick online, I mean.. you said enough. Congratulations for your posts. You sound a bit too butt hurt and trying to prove that you have a big dick. We are literally talking about comparing average sized to large. Your example is speaking of extremes. Woman OBVIOUSLY wants someone capable of pleasuring her with a dick. You're acting like an average dick can't pleasure a woman - that is not the case, at all. An average dick can do exactly what you mentioned. When a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Women like dicks that can satisfy them. Women like men who can give them good sex and make them feel good. Women like men who can make them feel attached mentally. If a guy who has a huge dick can only stick it in and out like he's fucking a pillow, it's no good. If a guy who has an average sized dick, can do that, pay attention to her body, be intimate she would chose him over the big dick. Any day. A BIG dick does NOT feel GOOD to most women. For reasons I stated above. Sex isn't not suppose t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 09:01 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Exactly. You're being so extra about "killing people with it" painful sex, is painful sex. My ex was probably 5" but had a fucking girthy dick. That shit was painful. Women are okay with average sized. You can't try to debate me on that. Women's minds don't compute to us thinking of the 7" that they had sex with years ago because their boyfriend now has 5" and she is unsatisfacted because of two inches. Men are projecting their own size of what should "feel good to women" to other men's dicks. W… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 08:40 PM |
| 7 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Are you a female? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 08:35 PM |
| 10 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?It's also your opinion that LOTS of women are into big dicks. Women think their into big dicks. Until they get big dicks. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?What about my comment in particular was funny, I suppose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 07:31 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Please expand lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?my comment? Or the fact that people think black guys have big dicks because of black women LOL | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 06:43 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?I think these is an exaggeration. If you guys are going to talk about "big fat, black women from Africa with large asses, and reasons why black men need to have big dicks" don't forget beauty standards are different - bigger you are in third world countries like that, the more you show you have wealth and that is wanted. Especially there. Also fat is stored in different places. Bodies are different. Etc.etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 06:24 PM |
| 16 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Of course. A large dick is nothing to be super happy about. That's more so on the males ego and porn. Large dicks HURT and are uncomfortable in certain positions. A woman's vagina in only a few inches deep guys. Also having a large dick regarding length and no girth is a waste. Having too much girth can result and painful tears. Average is perfect. Also, many girls aren't out here comparing dick sizes, when they think back on sex they think back how the guy made them feel during it. Intimacy and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?And every other "insta" chick getting ass shots. Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?Or people who like, ass? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 05:05 PM |
| 3 | Q4Women: Do you ever fret that you are not the best sex your SO ever had?I'm. Dying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?Healthy skinny, doesn't not need have muscles. I personally enjoy a bit of healthy weight, something soft to cuddle up with. Just feels more comfortable. Soft facial features, nice smiles, someone who would be seen as a normal looking guy. Doesn't draw too much attention to himself. Clean, nicely dressed, hair done. This has been my preference for years since I started having crushes on guys as a younger girl. I also like Asian men, yet they are seen as "feminine" so. And that doesn't not change… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP facts prodominately speaking to and idenifying to a white audience? White attractiveness / white standards / white data ?Okay! Thanks :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 10:33 PM |
| 1 | Is TRP facts prodominately speaking to and idenifying to a white audience? White attractiveness / white standards / white data ?So will this not be a post? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Do women actually want sex as much as men?Lol.... This is so crazy. Who I was ever attracted to has not changed during the time of my cycle. Just makes me more horny for the men I am already attracted to | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/19 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Good! I am glad :) I've heard so many stories from tall girls that once they are in a relationship with same height/shorter guys - they ask them to not wear heels and all that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 12:37 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.I know right. I'm 5'7-5'8, and never realized how "tall" I actually am to the average girl. How tall r u? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/03/19 12:36 PM |
| 3 | How to handle Dating emotionally unavailable women or should I just avoid dating them?Ah avoid. I recently came out of a relationship of almost 2 years where the guy was emotionally unavailable. It's so tiring. Mentally and emotionally exhausting trying to "read" them and add meaning to small things that should cross out the bad things they have shown you. It's sad too, because they don't even realize how mentally entangled you become and let me tell you; it's not good. Most arguments will turn into you explaining yourself then hearing rebuttals of "well, I never asked you to do … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Ok! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 09:36 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.How about you read the rest of the post. The question will be there along with context. Obviously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Your primary grievance is not that men have issues with height. It's that men prefer feminine features and dislike masculine features. You can dance around it and say they "go hand in hand" Um, because sometimes to some men it does. But realistically you won't find a 5'8-6ft woman with size 5-6 feet and short arms. She will be bigger or around the same size as a 5'5 -5'7 guys. You can dance around that all you want. What about "leggy" women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Lmao. Noted ! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.True! I changed it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.The same reason why women dislike short men is why men can dislike tall women. They can look masculine you're basically saying that it was biologically designed for women to like taller men and men to like shorter women. So what about my point are you arguing? I am basically state that men do inherently have height preference when it comes to the women they choose to approach. Sure, you can state that "women have stronger preferences so it makes the guy feel like he will be rejected" but it does… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Only because the range you provided from 5'0 to 6'0 is the majority of women. So I just thought it was a funny way of saying you have a preference for most women lol. Yah 5'8 is a fine range. I'm 5'7 and of someone who was my height or around it approached me I would not turn them down because I'm hoping for my "6ft" prince charming. I've dated guys who were my height or slightly below. So I agree with you, it's based on personality and good health and attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Which is why I said (sometimes stronger). I didn't state it as a definite fact that all tall women are stronger than shorter guys. I don’t know I feel these are just assumptions you base off the idea you have of short men. Not necessarily. I actually have witnessed, heard stories and over heard conversations with men, speaking about not feeling "manly" with someone who is taller, has bigger hands, bigger feet, etc. And this is all isolated events. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.I'm dying at the range you provided. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:22 PM |
| 3 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.So you're telling me, you believe that men don't feel emasculated when their woman is smaller and more petite than he is? That he doesn't mind looking up to her, or that her hands, feets, etc is all bigger than his? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.I do feel, some men feel emasculated by women taller than them. It means they are bigger (in all aspects) sometimes stronger than their partner. I don't know of many men who appreciate or find that looking "up" to their woman is, sexy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.None. It's biological preference. And if you can't admit that, Do you choose to be this dense? When have I ever denied it? I stated in the OP : Some men feel emasculated when a woman is bigger than them. Women feel smaller and feminine when he is. It's a win / win for the average couples. I think women wanting a man taller goes hand in hand with men wanting a woman smaller. It's not fundamentally dictated by women. MEANING: BOTH parties have a set of characteristics of physical attractiveness fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 08:08 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Lmao I'll ask ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:51 PM |
| 4 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.I still call bullshit. My family is tall. Most women in my family are taller than the guys. They are attractive women. No doubt about that. My friends are tall. I am tall, 5'7 - 5'8 so above average. I have dated shorter and my height. Same thing with my family. Same thing with my friends. Maybe a girl "would LIKE" someone taller than her - as I said it makes her feel smaller and feminine, but it doesn't mean that is the threshold 1. For ALL women 2. Women of ALL heights - one thing I have found… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:48 PM |
| 2 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.The height thing primarily is a woman's thing. Most often tall girls find themselves single because they are holding out for guys as tall or taller guys than themselves. I don't agree. Tall women know there are not an abundance of taller guys out there for her to "wait for" and I'm using tall as more than average, so 5'7 and up for women. They aren't going to pass up someone their height or a guy who is not 6ft. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.I'll send my cousin over to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.I am speaking for myself. Which is why I asked a question.. Do you think most guys and most importantly average height guys, have no problems dating a woman that's taller than them? Because tbh, most of the guys commenting so far are the guys who don't mind but yet are also the guys who are still, fairly tall compared to the people who are complaining that most women only want to date guys 6ft and up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:30 PM |
| 4 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Unless women are very tall, they typically don't date men shorter than them. The average woman who is 5'2-5'4 will also NOT pass up on a 5'7-5'10 guy because he is NOT 6ft. Men are constantly bringing up height and being rejected because they aren't it. So you're telling me that ALL MEN don't have ANY problems in regard to HEIGHT of a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:26 PM |
| 4 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Didn't say ALL men would, but to sit here and say men don't have height preferences AT ALL in terms of relationships is bullshit. There will definitely be men who would want to, obviously? I am saying the amount of guys who will 1. Have the confidence 2. Not mind her being bigger than him in all aspects, won't be alot. And answer my question. Would you date a girl taller than you? I'm not talking about a model or basketball player. If you saw someone taller than you in real life and you were att… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.So if you found a 6'3 women - you wouldn't mind dating her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.How many times have you been rejected because of your height? Do you like taller women and or wouldn't mind dating someone 5inches taller than you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Maybe that's just a sign of a man that is comfortable with himself though, idk. I think you're right and that is always how I perceived it too. The man and woman are going against "norms or physical attributes in a relationships" do get way more attention. Some men, that I know find tall women to be a turn on, but I don't know of many guys who enjoy this preference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:04 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.You're fully circling around my point. Then that point can stand for the women who reject the 5'5 guy and also reject the 6'ft guy. Maybe she's not accepting advances because she doesn't like you - and doesn't have anything to do with the height. But anyway - so how many men are willing to go after a woman that is taller than them because they are attracted. How many men are confident enough to do it? If they don't do it, they can't just assume the girl won't talk to her because of his height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Short men even some men in general mentally filter out tall women. Not even letting her be an option to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.K my point still stands. Will that average 5'4 guy go for a woman who is 5'7? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.First off I’m not short I’m 5’10 Lol why are you offended? Did I say you were short or did I simply point out that you were shorter than the girls, you approached - that you stated. Not really difficult to add thatup Well you have dated and been with women taller than you. That should show you that some women don't mind it. And KK cool | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Out the amount of women in the West the only women I can personally draw my conclusions from, that say things like that are 5'0 and want men who are drastically taller than her are Asian women who specifically date white guys. Or white girls. Not only that, but very superficial personalities to begin with. - sorry to call anyone out. That has just been my experience. 5'4 women and 5'5 men date all the time from what I have seen. I've seen many Filipino/Chinese/Indian/Spanish couples who are both… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Like I said, some women are more vocal about it because they think they have the platform and support to be that blunt. So there will be some to do it. The average 5'4 guy then should be willing to approach/talk with the 5'7 ugly, maybe even a bit over weight girl. But he doesn't. Does he? Is it because he has his own standards or holding out his standards for someone that fits his certain "dating criteria" ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.Well based off your history you told me, you have no issue approaching taller woman and find them attractive enough to date. So nothing inheritantly stops you or intimidates you which is great. I feel like, most men are not like you - where they would even want someone taller than them. But thats just based off of what I have seen. But it's unfortunate tho that you've gotten rejected by them. Did they directly indicate it's because you were short... How do you know they just weren't into you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 06:33 PM |
| 0 | Men mentally reject women for height just as much, if not more than woman.So why are all these guys complaining about women only wanting guys taller than them. Are they truly specifically speaking of men who are 6ft and up? I high doubt a girl that is 5'2 will drop a 5'8 guy because someone else came along and was 3 inches taller. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/03/19 06:26 PM |
| 1 | Taking TRP does not help you succeed in a LTR ever. It ruins your mind set and you will never truly be open enough to love.Sent! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:56 AM |
| 2 | TRP ruined my relationship. If you are unwilling to fix your inner issues, no amount of lifting or sex will help. Dont pursue women for LTR ever because you wont know what to do when a good one comes your way.Oh of course. I'm not going to not date or hook up because I need to "save" myself. Tbh if you care lol I racked up that count in a short amount of time, I was not okay after being sexually abused and emotionally abused from my ex for 4 years. I felt like I needed to "take back what was mine, that he took from me" little did I realize I was only hurting myself. Didn't hook up again for a long time until I met my recent ex. This relationship really changed my mindset on things and just being comf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:41 AM |
| 1 | TRP ruined my relationship. If you are unwilling to fix your inner issues, no amount of lifting or sex will help. Dont pursue women for LTR ever because you wont know what to do when a good one comes your way.Ah, no worries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | TRP ruined my relationship. If you are unwilling to fix your inner issues, no amount of lifting or sex will help. Dont pursue women for LTR ever because you wont know what to do when a good one comes your way.No actually lool. That's one thing I don't really get about you guys (sorry to generalize) but what hints could there be? I don't "act" like someone who has slept around. I don't party, don't club, rarley drink I also have barley any social media lool. Only Reddit and FB! But thanks for your kindness. This has been a huge lesson. No dating and definitely not having any hook ups. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:19 AM |
| 1 | TRP ruined my relationship. If you are unwilling to fix your inner issues, no amount of lifting or sex will help. Dont pursue women for LTR ever because you wont know what to do when a good one comes your way.And no experience? Well he had an ex... Then he fucked atleast 15-18 girls? I don't remember his number. Like I said, after she cheated he went on his hunt and got those girls. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:15 AM |
| 3 | TRP ruined my relationship. If you are unwilling to fix your inner issues, no amount of lifting or sex will help. Dont pursue women for LTR ever because you wont know what to do when a good one comes your way.Hmmm see I knew people would say that. N count wasn't an issue. He had emotional unavailable issues before that conversation came up tbh. It wasn't a vetting relationship question. As we got to know eachother more it came out months later You're a g for writing on both lol. didn't realize. Put the answer here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:13 AM |
| 1 | TRP ruined my relationship. If you are unwilling to fix your inner issues, no amount of lifting or sex will help. Dont pursue women for LTR ever because you wont know what to do when a good one comes your way.Go on... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:12 AM |
| 1 | Taking TRP does not help you succeed in a LTR ever. It ruins your mind set and you will never truly be open enough to love.Ok deleted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Taking TRP does not help you succeed in a LTR ever. It ruins your mind set and you will never truly be open enough to love.Hmmm see I knew people would say that. N count wasn't an issue. He had emotional unavailable issues before that conversation came up tbh. It wasn't a vetting relationship question. As we got to know eachother more it came out months later | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Taking TRP does not help you succeed in a LTR ever. It ruins your mind set and you will never truly be open enough to love.Do you mind explaining a bit more?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:08 AM |
| 1 | Taking TRP does not help you succeed in a LTR ever. It ruins your mind set and you will never truly be open enough to love.I removed my post but YES. That was it. I was extremely broken.. this relationship actually helped me realized that. I think everything happens for a reason and I needed what looked like a "serious" start of a relationship to get a reality check. I won't be dating for a long time just so I can recover for myself first. No hooks up, no male attention, just my hobbies and joining new groups for a while. But thank you for the advice and insight. I will look into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/19 12:06 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenLol how do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Why do you slut shame women? Don’t you know that you need women to be willing to have casual sex in order to have casual sex?Lol bs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/19 04:31 PM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenSo I'm going to believe a Google warrior over decades of research and common sense of the female body. You have lost. Make this a post and see how many people agree with you. This is pathetic. This convo is over | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 08:16 PM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenWomen's sexual health is spoken about amoungst women and their doctors. There are yearly exams, gynecologist, check ups specifically for women's sexual health. Also since women are more prone to UTI'S, Yeast infections, PH inbalances, hormone imbalances such as ovulation ( from age of 13+ that is apparent in how often she gets her period) ovarian cysts, birth control to regulate down there, THIS WOULD COME UP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Women objectify men as much as men objectify women, and women care about men's looks just as much as men care about women's. But people only care if it's men who do the bad thing.I'll be honest with you. I watch that out of pure curiosity because I don't see how anyone could feel pleasure out of it. But I do not watch it to get off to. If you are speaking more so on normal but just rougher sex then I would assume because some women like to be submissive in bed and with partners in general at times. So its visually appealing to have someone take control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Getting married young doesn't work anymore because women want to be "young, wild and free"This post is so dramatic, it almost sounds like a joke. We do not live in the time where getting married at 18 is the norm. You are also forgetting one main aspect as to why people got married young and that was because **men pursued their careers and women pursued being SAHM** That was the dynamic. So yes, men were getting young women, getting married, having kids and mostly doing that all with one income. That is not financially feasible today. Secondly, How could this be? Simple. Women want t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 03:42 PM |
| 5 | Why do you slut shame women? Don’t you know that you need women to be willing to have casual sex in order to have casual sex?So a truthful girl about her past and gives that to you as well will get good girl treatment... Is that what u are saying ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 03:13 PM |
| 7 | Why do you slut shame women? Don’t you know that you need women to be willing to have casual sex in order to have casual sex?Lol wtf is good girl treatment ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:57 PM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenThe reason is because it's false. Don't you think this would be broad Doctor knowledge when speaking to women? Don't you think women would know this, as it's their body. You don't think this would be brought UP to women when they are trying to conceive. You need help. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenAside from low sperm count in the males side, or ectopic pregnancies. A woman will get pregnant if she is fertile and her man is. Cumming has nothing to do with it and has everything to do with an egg. You believe whatever you want. This conversation is pathetic. You have no idea about the woman's body and you think you do. I truly feel bad for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 11:52 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenYou're trying to prove a point that already has the hard facts correlated into it and making you're point seem like it's relevant. It's not. A woman if fertile WILL get pregnant whether or not she cums. Fertility is the main concept. Without it she can't. And she can conceive successfully 100% of the time without cumming. So it does not make it more likely Like you do know a woman's cervix is closed unless she is ovulating and the position of her cervix moves along with her cycle - and you do kn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 05:51 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenA woman will get pregnant if she is fertile - whether or not she cums. If he cums inside of her and there is an egg ready to be fertilized she will get pregnant That's the facts. You're pulling extremely thin hairs. Do you really think men in the past really cared whether or not a woman came? Has that stunted our population? Has that changed women getting pregnant? What about women who got pregnant from rape? Do you really think they came and that increased her likelihood of getting pregnant? Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 04:58 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenThe time that an egg is going to be released is when the chances increase. You do know there are natural ways for women to track their cycle where birth control and condoms are not needed at all and a guy can cum inside of a woman with no chance of her getting pregnant. You do know that right? If there is no egg to fertilize she won't get pregnant. And that has nothing to do with whether or not she cums during sex. It's a window of time that she is not ovulating. Which is why women who do not ge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 04:30 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenI'm sorry I'm not reading that because that sounds like a study someone triedb to pull out if their ass. A woman's ability to get pregnant is solely dependant on her cycle of ovulation. An egg being released has nothing to do with her clit and nervous system down there to feel it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 03:43 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenThat correction aside .... Are you saying that a women reaching orgasm will enhance the chances of pregnancy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 03:33 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenObviously a girl has to be attracted to you to even consider having sex with you - you're acting as if most women will willingly fuck ugly guys just to get her off. Again : attraction is fundamental to get her to lay with you. If you try to navigate from that point; a woman is not like a man where an orgasm is required to end sex. So now I'm going to you're point "technical skill matters very little: girls will be into it if they think you are hot" that is BS. If a man is hot but doesn't know wh… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenWell then maybe you're ugly af is girls are "meh" about you. You're telling me you made a girl cum and she rolls over then goes on her phone? Maybe she faked it so you can end it lol. Yet you're skilled. Maybe you're just lacking in other areas if girls are not taken by you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 03:11 AM |
| 2 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenUm I am a girl lol. Then maybe you're just not good at either then. A women rarley cums via penetration. Use your mouth. If you have never made a girl cum then you're either not listening to her body, or her. Or your nervous af and don't perform. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 03:05 AM |
| 2 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenWhat do people even do besides pump it’s not like there’s some secret moves it’s just pumping and pacing lol Maybe this shows why women thought you weren't great at sex. If all you think is sticking a dick in and out. There is oral, foreplay and not just pace but rhythm, motion, grinding, knowing when to be rough or when to be gentle. You're not a bunny, don't jack hammer and be boring. Be into it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Why do you slut shame women? Don’t you know that you need women to be willing to have casual sex in order to have casual sex?So as long as a woman puts out the same way as she did before you won't slut shame her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:46 AM |
| 1 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenSince female orgasm is typically more difficult to achieve, yet also contributes to pregnancy by causing the cervix to contract, What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:42 AM |
| 0 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenIdk who you're sleeping with but that's not true. If a guy looks good, and all he is doing is pounding her vagina she won't enjoy it. Do you know how many girls are disappointed because the guy looked good but fucked her like vagina pump Get over yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:41 AM |
| 3 | (CMV) Sex is harder for men than for womenFemale orgasm is highly correlated with how she perceives you in the looks department. LOL NO. You think a woman can cum because of how the guy looks? Have you ever had sex? A woman is not like men who prematurely ejaculate because a girl sat on his lap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/19 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersSigh. A UTI is not a STD. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersWho told you to get a Porsche? Why are you getting a three bedroom house? None of those things attract a women - unless she is solely after your money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersThe upkeep for a woman especially when single to attract then also keep a guy is much more than it is for guys. Even if we are talking about the average person. Women don't really give a shit about cars; unless she is a gold digger/shallow or knows about name brand cars. But men do care about how their women look - isn't that the whole red pill philosophy "dating women in their prime, appreciating their youth, their soft tight skin, and femininity" well how do you think they maintain themselves … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 03:06 PM |
| 0 | Dating can be expensive for both gendersSo do you want gender roles abolished or not? Do you care if ur gf has a unkept bush, dirty chipping nails, not on birth control, looking unkept? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.Just sent another one. If your on web - go to messages as oppose to "all". On your phone, it should be a notification. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/19 01:55 PM |
| 2 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.Personally I think you are exaggerating how many people women are out here having sex with. If you think the norm is of people "fucking hundreds" and they not in some sort of sex work - then I have no idea what you are reading or what kind of outlier behaviour has mad you come to the conclusion because that's not reality of the average girl. Whatever a high N Count is to you - I have no idea. You seem to go into the triple digits which again is not the norm. Who says I'm a slut? I'm in a committ… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 11:35 AM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.How is this concept so difficult for you? A husband at least has the expectation for great sex along with everything else a wife is supposed to do in marriage. I truly think you have reading comprehension issues or are blinded by anger that You. Do. Not. Read. Did I not just sum this up, TWICE? So you're basically saying that you don't care whether or not a girl had many dicks before, as long as she is treating you the same way... So again, as long as she is good wife / mother then it seems like… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/02/19 03:57 AM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.So you're basically saying that you don't care whether or not a girl had many dicks before, as long as she is treating you the same way... As I'm sure it's what happening the happily married ones. If not, whether or not she was promiscuous before mutual sex should be... Mutual and enjoying and creative and an experience for both people. BUT if men are going to hold her to this fucked up standard where one night she doesn't want to have sex and then he brings up her past then that is fucked up, a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.ah, so you are one of those guys who actually believe a woman only stops sleeping around because no one else wants her.. There aren't a lot of guys who pass up non committal sex because she is "old" , as she gets older she will just have sex with (ding ding ding) older guys if she wanted to. Because lets be honest 35-40yr old men are not pulling 18-23 prime women unless they are prime themselves and there aren't that many of them out there an if they are trying to pull girls 10-15yrs plus younge… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 10:58 PM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.I feel like you are not being consistence in answering my questions based off what you said. You stated Here's the deal - smart men don't have to ask a woman's N-Count. Women's overall behavior tells all - you can't outrun slut behavior. To sum up my point, I replied There are normal, everyday girls with jobs, go to school, go to the library, read, have hobbies, who could have have you fooled with how many she slept with. If you didnt ask, you would never know So again, my question to your state… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 08:57 PM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.You're still not getting my point. If she does not disclose that you, you will never know - so what slut behaviour will she be doing in your interactions to find out that she did those things ? You can't seem to think of any other behaviours unless these women tell you what they do, which debunks your whole statement of "men don't need to ask for a count bc you can't hide from slut behaviour" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 07:57 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.Well the first comment I replied to someone stating that black women have to work harder for sex - to which I disagreed. Then used my own personal experience being that as a black woman I have never had to work for sex nor was it a reason for someone not pursuing me for a LTR either. And why do you think that? What is your beauty standards - based on European features or what? And average height has nothing to do with you face or attitude. The amount of "average" men I have seen in relationships… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 07:29 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.Before you comment, you should fully read what I said. I am aware of that. I specifically said it bc I knew someone would try to nit pick it. So here: Well I'm desirable af from what my life has been looking like so far and from all kinds of races, and not for a ONS. So, you're point is not valid as it has nothing to do with my post. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.So what is the whole point of you trying to diss me staying that its not an accomplished.. I'm telling you my reality. You seem to be losing your mind with your entire post. I'm simply repeating what you said but with a diss back to you. Can't take it back, don't start it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 05:39 PM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.You're still not telling me what "slut behaviour is" You're taking the easy way out by telling me what "sluts do" while they are "sluts" and what they have admitted, not by what actions dictate your conclusion. You are posting that comment as if women will have specific characteristics that will show men, with no question, that she is a slut during their interactions with each other. Now if this girl was a "slut" before and no longer engages in the obvious things you stated, how would you know? … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 05:33 PM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.The simple reality is that the vast majority of sluts have emotional issues which makes them unsuitable for relationships. Same can be said for men of red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Another slave a slut... You know most of the "sluts" you seem to be talking about have no issues getting guys. It's not like people are complaining because their count is holding them back from achieving anything. So nobody is trying to get saved LOL. How many posters on here, not "where are the good guys" on here has admit that their past has fucked up them over from achieving marriage / or having kids? How many of them tell you like it is and are in relationships? Let me know, bc whether you l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 05:07 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.LMAO you're killing me. This is probably the most positive comment I have never seen on PPD. And it is TRUE. I mean, I personally never had a problem with someone not being interested in me because I was black so these stats mean nothing to me. You better go out and enjoy your day !! ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 03:55 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.I have a few more questions for you. So check ur PM, as I'm not about to have trolls bombard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 03:50 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.So if guys will fuck anything why is there stats to try to prove what they will or will not fuck. Go try fucking. I'm sure you're having no problem doing so. Get out of here. This conversation is over, dummy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 03:43 PM |
| 1 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.So not being fully white is enhancing your smv? What is your other half / quarter - Black, Asian, indian ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 02:53 PM |
| 3 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating.Well I'm desirable af from what my life has been looking like so far and from all kinds of races, and not for a ONS. You should step outside of stats and join the real world for once. How's your dating life and what race are you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 01:52 PM |
| 4 | New Study (2019) says Online dating is now the most popular way of meeting partners surpassing meeting through friends. So Online Dating = Real Life Dating."unless you're black?" Can you go into details about that because as a black women I never had to "work" to get sex? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/19 01:29 PM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.You are walking around my question. You have posted in comments that you cannot hide from "slut behaviour" so you must know what it is. So go ahead and tell me what it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.No. They don't need to hide their behaviour because it's not one the governs them as a human and functional being in society.. so you really think girls who have interests outside of being an Instagram model that had a few partners are deliberately acting like good girls? Lol give me a break. You can say that all you want. Please enlighten me on what 'slut behaviour' is ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.That's pretty dumb. Having repeated relationships won't ruin you for future ones, any more than having had previous jobs will ruin you for future ones. Hmm I beg to differ. It would make more raise to raise an alarm if someone was a serial LTR dater to someone who did shit while they were single. Only because investing yourself into someone long-term takes work and dedication and commitment. Its emotions in all forms that you are constantly giving to someone hoping in a "forever" or life with th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 07:48 PM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Lmao If you can't read that, that's unfortunate. Don't comment back to me and waste my time if you have nothing valuable to say. Bye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How many men here know that breast feeding is linked to the same feeling of sexual arousal/pleasure that women have when they are turned on ?I seriously want to know how much men know about bodily factors of women. This was triggered in a post bc someone stated that women who have more partners basically run down their oxytocin which is why they can't have long term relationships or pair bond. So it's just interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 04:18 PM |
| 1 | How many men here know that breast feeding is linked to the same feeling of sexual arousal/pleasure that women have when they are turned on ?Well of course.. I'm saying that the "feeling" of breast feeding has been linked to the same feeling of arousal, down there, for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 04:16 PM |
| 1 | How many men here know that breast feeding is linked to the same feeling of sexual arousal/pleasure that women have when they are turned on ?Would you like me to delete? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 04:11 PM |
| 1 | How many men here know that breast feeding is linked to the same feeling of sexual arousal/pleasure that women have when they are turned on ?But it's not actually linked to those feelings. It's not like you pop a boner because you had good steak. And if do, cool. That's you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 04:10 PM |
| 2 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.I'll say this again : Just the like the whole "gender gap" bs, people look at these studies but they also see the broad scheme of things thinking that High N count is the sole reason for the divorces just as Feminist think being a woman is the sole reason as to why they getting paid less. Did they go into why they divorced and causes for most of those divorces amoungst them? Did he cheat? Did she cheat? Was it based off of falling out of love aka inability to pair bond? How many partners did the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 04:04 PM |
| 4 | How many men you've had sex with is largely irrelevant. Men mostly only care if you are good looking.Do you think women hang signs that say "I was a slut before" I do wonder what kind of women men picture when they hear the word slut. The instagram model? The girl with her ass/titties out every weekend? The girl who brags how much dick they had last night? There are normal, everyday girls with jobs, go to school, go to the library, read, have hobbies, who could have have you fooled with how many she slept with. If you didnt ask, you would never know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 02:28 PM |
| 2 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Paging badwomensanatomy... also, iamverysmart | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 02:17 PM |
| 5 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.A woman’s body is hardwired to produce and release oxytocin So why do you have the idea that we can somehow use it up if we are hard wired to produce it ? You still have not refuted any connections me or others have made about oxytocin and breast feeding and problems pair bonding. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 02:16 PM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.You summed it up quite well - "The idea if she is a virgin she'll respond to her beta husband as if he were a Chad" These men do want to compete. They want someone with no experience therefore they have nothing to compare it to. Why give your 100% to someone who doesn't even know what that feels like? You can give 50% and she will praising the mediocre dick down. I will read that! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Hoe? Try Again. Once again bringing nothing of substance to this conversation and walking around my points. Your attempts are truly sad. I already dismissed your claims and you can't recover from it. You do know what this sub is about right? You do realize you're here to see views of people different than you, you do know that right? You must be too deluded to understand it. Go back to the RP if you can't seem to grasp this. Don't answer me back. You're a waste of time and a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 01:43 PM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.I've been in a great, long term relationship for years. So please try again. Obviously you have been getting emotionally fucked over by women all your life. Good luck with your pair bonding with the greatest unicorn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 07:25 AM |
| 2 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Of course - incapable of a proper discussion when I now bring up points that specifically counter what you stated. And yes, I say "lol" because nothing you are trying to counter makes sense. If so, refute my points. argument. Who lives in a blue pilled world? I do not. I think it's hilarious that you make that accusation then try to compare me to a child. While trying to come off sounding superior. You have not yet said anything reletively useful to my post. I am extremely realistic to the world… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 07:21 AM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Nah long-term so clearly you have no idea what u are talking about | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 07:13 AM |
| 2 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.But who is getting daily sex and fulfilling relationships.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 07:02 AM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.I use the term pair bonding because it's used here. If I'm going to argue something I'm going to use the terminology. If not, I'll continue to get a irrelevant posts that try to explain to me what "pair bonding is" But in real life conversations outside of these debates "pair bonding" is a myth. Its simply you like someone or you don't. Someone has baggage that they let cloud their mind or they do and it ends. Etc etc. Like you said that's why I agree with you on that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:44 AM |
| 2 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Nice edit to try to look good. ;) Keep it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:34 AM |
| 1 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.So get a DNA test when ur kid is born | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:31 AM |
| 5 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Your use of the word stinky hoe bag, shows me your maturity level lol. This conversation is done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:31 AM |
| 0 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Agreed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:27 AM |
| 2 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Men only get dopamine (pleasure reward) when they orgasm whereas women get dopamine and oxytocin (bonding). So women get messed up when they fuck a lot of guys. Colloquially it is called the thousand cock stare Lol. If we are being real here the amount of men who can actually make a women orgasm is not that many, as many are not even educated on women's sexuality or their lady bits. So taking that joke aside, because someone make a women a cum does not mean she is going to infactuated with the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:25 AM |
| 3 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Lmao, that's all that needed to be said. Thanks 😅 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:17 AM |
| 4 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Well you're not the only here... So it is up for debate. If you no longer want to participate then why are you talking? And I'll say it again; Just the like the whole "gender gap" bs, people look at these studies but they also see the broad scheme of things thinking that High N count is the sole reason for the divorces just as Feminist think being a woman is the sole reason as to why they getting paid less. Did they go into why they divorced and causes for most of those divorces amoungst them? D… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:10 AM |
| 0 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Clearly it is up for debate, which is why I wrote it. If you don't anything to offer other than that- you can leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:04 AM |
| 6 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.Well it's states by 2010's 5% of women were to be seen as being virgins. So you trying to get into that 5%? As a man - what do you offer? Just the like the whole "gender gap" bs, people look at these studies but they also see the broad scheme of things thinking that High N count is the sole reason for the divorces just as Feminist think being a woman is the sole reason as to why they getting paid less. Did they go into why they divorced and causes for most of those divorces amoungst them? Did he… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 06:01 AM |
| 0 | What issues with pair bonding can RP men truly attribute to women who have "high N Counts" Seriously.It's more like my ability to pair bond with a girl is ruined if she has a high n count lol. Two questions: So you meet a girl and on the first date, one of the first questions you ask if how many people she has slept with? What if you met her, had a good time, genuinely developed feelings for her over time, then that conversation comes up - you would actually drop her despite what you guys created and what you felt? but odds are the more sexual past there is, the less likely it is that the ultim… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/19 05:47 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Reddit does not at all mimic the wider community LOL Which is why I ask specifically "TRP" not "men in general" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 07:45 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Bashing men for having standards? I am asking a question. And TRP are not all men, so I'm getting their 'theory" straightened out and asking an opinion. If you think that's bashing - go somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Which is why I said "normal" is subjective.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:47 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Paying for "sex" in the sense of going on dates, spending time, before she has sex with him bc she didn't make one of her ONS do all that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?That is if she making you wait for sex. What if she doesn't ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 07:01 AM |
| -1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?He edited his response. You didn't see what I replied to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 07:00 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Why was that ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 03:46 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?You asked me what I defined "normal" being in the context of the question I asked - I told you a range. When did I ever say I wouldn't date outside of that range whether it was my normal or not? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 03:37 AM |
| 5 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Read it. Not disregarding becaue it is very interesting so I'll probably do some more on spare time. That article was based off of 2009 research and we are in 2019 gives almost a 10year space to see if it is actually still increasing The HPV vaccine was introduced in 2006 for girls and to men in 2010. Has there been an updated study since 2009? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 03:28 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Im not disgusted with hookers. But exactly no need to cite data. Tell ur preference and move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 03:10 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I would say my lived experiences are less biased because it's actually samples of all sorts of relationship and accumulations of varies stories shared amouyngst people who don't all think the same. Which the way to attain an open mind. You can even look at posts such ask women, relationship advice, ask men, etc. I have no problem believing there are bitchy gold digging women - seen it. I have no problem seeing high N women be faithful and married and have kids with a man who Is not a beta. I hav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 03:07 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Yes. Re invention is a thing for sure. You base people off how they treat you. If people are really trying to go that far into behaviour I was simply saying it's a more sound argument to try to talk about the risk of someone cheating if they cheated on all their partners (again if this info was shared) instead of trying to argue that a women that has slept with alot of men means she will be a cheater. It doesn't make sense. Personally for me, a past is a past and I truly dgaf about what you did.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:53 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?It's all based on personal preference is what it boils down to. The most honest are the people who say "they just don't a person with a xx number because it doesn't represent what they prefer or that it shows they don't value sex as much as I do" The whole reasons with their data, studies, "evidence" and risks or paying for what others for for free is bs. Thats what I'm really trying to get at. Since half answers are "no I don't like bc i think it's gross" and "she will be more likely to cheat a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:49 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Which is why I said if she lies it's on her meaning whether or not you ask her it doesn't mean much bc you won't always get the full truth. I then followed by giving you examples of how she treats you specifically as a person now - so tell me how I said a person is explicitly defined by their past? The only time to find context if you want to go that far is asking those questions. If you don't - you take it as the person is now and see if you vibe with it. What are you trying to disagree with me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:24 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I just told you. Whether it's 100 or 30 or 150. I don't believe there are many average girls walking around with 100 counts and if that's normal in your area; more power to them and or to you. People can have as many partners as they wish. I don't believe it causes pair bonding issues or a increase chance of cheating if you are asking me to see why I didn't choose a higher number. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:20 AM |
| 2 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?You ask her about her past relationships. If she wants to lie, then that's on her. If you end up getting more serious with her, you will see true colours, see how she treats you, her character, etc. See if she is someone whos personality you actually like, if she is shady and hides her phone or lie to you about where she is, etc. Those are valued morals of whether someone is relationship material or not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:14 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I use "normal" in "" because it's subjective. Which is why I specifically said "not porn store or sex work" as I am sure that can close to the 100's or more and porn star/sex work is not necessarily accounted for the norm route. I think normal for men/women by the age of 30 is about 20-30 partners honestly. If you take in how dating is now, the "unspoken" rules of dating, the liberty women now have to explore casual sex. Maybe it's higher than what others think but it's my opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:08 AM |
| 0 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?How did I specifically find out, what ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 02:00 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I am only focusing on N count so much - because it seem to be the deciding factor for men on here when deciding a future. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 01:55 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I will write this again. No, because who is it to say that is not bias against the audience that wants to read it? You'll find studies based on everything and also it's opposing views - so for topics like this, I chose to go with my lived experiences but open to hearing the stories of others who actually have experience dealing with these problems as oppose to someone to spouts biased studies. Are your experiences that of what you ask me to read? Past behaviour is the best predictor of future be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 01:51 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I completely get that. I though still do not see the connection of a woman who slept around means she is more likely to cheat or monkey branch. To me, it just doesn't make sense. And If you don't mind - I'm curious, how do physically see these "whores" what comes to mind when you picture one? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 01:47 AM |
| 3 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Women who are routinely getting their checks - have a pap smear and though it is not an out right test specifically for HPV if their pap smears are abnormal it's a higher chance that they have HPV. There is no treatment for non cancereous ones as the body of both males and females fight it off like a cold. If a woman has cancerous cells she is at a high risk for cervical cancer therefore will require a leep to remove them and continue seeing her gynecologist. Where is the studies of men getting … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 01:44 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?No, because who is it to say that is not bias against the audience that wants to read it? You'll find studies based on everything and also it's opposing views - so for topics like this, I chose to go with my lived experiences but open to hearing the stories of others who actually have experience dealing with these problems as oppose to someone to spouts biased studies. Are your experiences that of what you ask me to read? Past behaviour is the best predictor of future behaviour within the same c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 01:14 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Interesting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?What do you think in a slut though? Someone open to talking about how much dick they have sucked and parade themselves on social media doing so Or a girl who had a fucked up past, took some years to her self to deal with it. Is open about it, last time before she had sex with you was... A year ago, but she is still ready and willing to give you the same sex and fun but have a relationship? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:45 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Men think : high N = more inclined to cheat, somehow get bored from sex? Which what you are saying Why can't high N = high sex drive, less incline to have boring sex why can't men think : low count or no count woman = no sex drive, complacent, gets bored of does, doesn't want sex, more inclined to have other experiences with more men? If you speak to men outside of the pills, I have never met one that says he wants a virgin or someone he will have to "teach" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:35 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Also women in general mostly gravitate towards men that will take care of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:18 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Well yes of course. Do you think a low count woman is going to enthusiastically give you sex all the same to? With that sort of thinking I would think men thought women who have lowers partners show a lower sex drive, therefore she will get more bored with sex over time oppose to someone who shows they like sex and it can be a factor that she is going to want sex from you often. That to me, sounds more like an overall relationship problem in general despite N counts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:09 AM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?If you're actually asking for my advice. I would say that you've done well by realizing it's your own insecurities and intrusive thoughts. So far in the relationship I assume she hasn't done anything to break your trust? If you can honestly get over the fact that she may be High N and accept her for how she is treating you now then I think you'd have a good head start to a good fulfilling relationship. And with you not wanting to get close to her and probably subtly showing that to her - you may… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/19 12:04 AM |
| 3 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?So why be judgmental of a girl who had the chance and took it, if you would of done the same? Are u more so upset that women can attain those numbers with less work than you have to, therefore you call her a whore and slut for simply having a vagina ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:50 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?That's fine. I was saying it to to say it - not to revoke a response. And I see If u had the chance to fuck 20 girls, would you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:44 PM |
| 3 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Hmm well that depends If it a restaurant she has never been to before she will probably enjoy the new place you've taken her to. Wouldnt you find it odd that she's asking how how many girls you've taken to the place instead of telling you how much she enjoyed the food? People limit their own happiness by the questions they ask. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:42 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I feel sad for you. But thanks for ur input. What's ur count ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:35 PM |
| 4 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?If you don't want STD's I would assume you practice safe sex and get yourself tested before having unprotected sex with a new partner? Higher cheating risk - still don't believe. People will cheat if they want to cheat. So don't date someone that has had sex in ur inner circle? I'm sure there are many, many other women in the world. Are you from a small town or something ? Genuinely asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:33 PM |
| 2 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Ah I see. Then yes I agree - same for men. And if I can counter; do you agree with what some women are being taught now? To stray from traditional SAHM and working husband dynamic - because no matter how much of a great women you can be, no matter how great you can cook, if a man wants to leave you he will; so be self sufficient and make your own money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:30 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Lol you don't even have one then bc you probably wouldn't know what to do once someone gives you what you actually want. Concluding that your prescene here is completely irrelevant. Be gone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:26 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Do you think that is what I'm saying or are you commenting to the post i replied to? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:24 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?So.. If you found a girl who slept with 20 dudes but was down to have sex with you on the first date, do all the nasty things she did before and be loyal/faithful to you... You wouldn't have a relationship with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:22 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?How about you answer this one If you found a girl who slept with 20 dudes but was down to have sex with you on the first date, do all the nasty things she did before and be loyal/faithful to you... You wouldn't have a relationship with her? Try to insult me again. Make it hurt this time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:21 PM |
| 0 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?So are you going to answer my question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?It's interesting because I highly doubt you'll get a woman to out right delve into your past like that esp just meeting her, and you feeling like she is using those questions to evaluate how good of a person you are.. when actually it shows who you were with someone. I think men who would meet woman that ask those questions early on would kinda be seen as psycho? Ex obsessed and almost stalker ish as she is constantly comparing herself to your ex. I'm sure you would get really tired and kinda we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:15 PM |
| 3 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Good for you! I'm glad. There are many guys who wouldn't even consider someone like her because of a number. Yet, they would be missing out on a pretty good girl in all other accords. Wish you guys luck ;) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:07 PM |
| 2 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I still don't buy the high N women are less likely to be faithful.. honestly, I don't. The people I have met, shared stories with, basically real life that I have no reason to get bias from - it doesn't even matter if the person had a high N or not, if the person is going to cheat they will. Most men I know are worried about women who have low N's by the time they are ready to settle because they feel like she will want to go and "explore" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:05 PM |
| 0 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Hm interesting. One more to pick your brain. You say that you would have no problem delving into someones past if it's beyond a one night stand. Would you then be taken aback if a girl asks you to tell her everything you've ever done with your ex? A. Like the first time you told you ex you loved her - and she compares it to how long it took you to tell her; if it was later she starts to deny your entire love for her? B. What trips you went on, presents you got your ex restaurants you took her to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 11:00 PM |
| 0 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I completely understand and I'm actually glad that you've come to a realization such as this one instead of trying to shit out statistics and pair bonding bs. I think it's exactly that. Bitterness and jealously. I don't know of any guy who after he got laid, and a girl had a "normal" amount of partners (nothing like a porn star or sex worker) that would actually leave her after he caught feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 10:53 PM |
| 1 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?So that is what I'm talking about. Most high N women accumulated counts by one night stands, first dates / dating for short term. So again, I assume your goal is to find a woman with no past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 10:48 PM |
| 3 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Thanks. That's what I thought lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 10:47 PM |
| 2 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Thanks for reply but another question here... How will you ever know if she's "easy, but only for you" ? What do you think a high N count actually is? And how will you know that you had to work harder for sex for others? Will you actually try and delve that deep into someones past to ensure you feel good about yourself after? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 10:46 PM |
| 3 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?Yet you'll be offended if she makes you do exactly that in your dynamic. If she puts out shes a hoe. If she doesn't put out she is a tease that is treating you less than others. So I assume your goal is to find someone with no past? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 10:41 PM |
| 2 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?I get it but then it's just a matter of personal preference - Not because of some data collecting surveys or "science" that people claim it to be or the fact they have to pay and wait for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 10:35 PM |
| 2 | "Paying for something others got for free" but what if she gave it free to you too?So that's why I ask - If she didn't make you wait weeks and months, would you have a relationship with her? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/19 10:32 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Just like someone shouldn't sit around and wait for their partner to have a romantic relationship with them. If her man's not giving it to her, based on your logic - she should go get it somewhere else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/18 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Do you think I'm going to say that men don't feel sexually unfilled is their fault? No. A woman should be keeping up her side as well. I'm saying that she won't if she feels she has to nag her husband to do something, or to pay attention to her or to make her feel special. A woman doesn't want to fuck her man-child partner. A women doesn't want to fuck her man that makes her feel like she is his mother. I'm not talking about reward sex or reward emotional fulfillment. I'm also not talking about … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Emotional fulfillment is apart of marriage. Hence why there is physical cheating and emotional cheating. If you don't want to bother with it, don't get mad when she starts getting close to a co worker or male friend that shows her more attention. They text and talk all the time, hang out together, and have playful banter back and forth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.In terms of the fundamental feeling - I'm sure you would feel under appreciated and feel as though you either deserve a raise or you leave and find another job that will give you what you want. A women feels the same. Why should she invest herself to someone who isn't acknowledging her efforts yet wants her to take on a permanent acting role while she reeps none of the benefits the actual role comes with? Branch swinging to me isn't soley a characteristic of women. It's human, just as you pointe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.And emotional fulfillment is also a big part of making any relationship work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.women's duty in marriage is to love, while the man's duty is to provide. I think that's a bad way of looking at it and what causes alot of problems. A man thinks his sole job is to provide he will be neglecting core needs of a relationship to grow. That's where these men will get in situations and feel so hurt and betrayed because their women up and left or cheated while he was out of the home providing. I'm not in no way saying what these women did were right because cheating is wrong in anyway… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Women enjoy sex without emotional closeness to men who she doesn't care about emotionally nor are interested in that. If you're in a relationship - emotional closeness, along with other things is what defines that. Otherwise you're just strangers having sex. Emotional fulfillment is a big part of it. But that's why it's a powerplay on both sides. Obviously a man can't be a door mat and be with someone who doesn't respect him - and people who show disrespect are very clear. It's people who don't … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:09 PM |
| 0 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.I think it's unfortunate that you think that - because women who end up feeling emotionally unfulfilled are the ones also leaving. Maybe some women respond to negative reinforcement but not all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Do you have reading comprehension problems? So now you're entirely blaming men even when the woman doesn't do her part. I said : That happens. And that will be a post targetting women who do that. My post is not about those women, though they do exist. Never denied it. As women should be guilted if a man is doing so and she is still witholding sex for no reason. Wow, you are manipulatively coercive. When did I write that, never. What r u even taking about? I am saying that men should blame thems… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 05:20 AM |
| 4 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Do you think a part time worker and a full time worker are the same? Do they have the same benefits? Are their paychecks equal? Is their segnority the same? No. You can also equate it to working as a contractor for company and seeing the clear difference between security, work performed and perks full timers get though the job is the same. I'm not going to argue with you about why marriage is important to a women or why it's deemed as beneficial. Im not here to change your mind. It's unfortunate… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.I'm not going to write a book on a post explaining each end of every single argument. I didn't talk about every single man. I again said "to men who believe the statement is true" if you don't - then you are not the audience that agrees with the statement therefore this is obvious to you. Others... Not so much. Okay, what if those men do maintain their wives emotions, or are always bending backwards to please their wife; yet, the wife still doesn't want sex. That happens. And that will be a post… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 04:52 AM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Why I wrote "Some men complain that with time their wives/women don't want to have sex. That sex fades over time and if a women got married "she should fulfil her duties as a wife, and sex is apart of that deal" To the men who believe the statement above is true. Right now I am talking about MEN who complain about their wives not having SEX and looking inward to see if THEY THEMSELVES are keeping up with their relationship upkeep instead of Soley looking at a decline of their women having sex wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 04:26 AM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Every part of our society instills fears. That's what happens when governments take over. Are you not going to work in your life because of the fear working installs: being broke/homeless if you don't take part in society? Only a few people can be financially stable while not relying on a employer to pay them so they can live. A successful life long marriage is incredibly rare. We were sold that everyone deserves a happy relationship/life no matter what income level , career you come from simply… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 04:20 AM |
| 6 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.It is a much larger committment therefore I would hope more conscious decision making comes into play. Marriage isn't just an " i love you, you love me, let's get married" that's a recipe for short disaster. It should be a serious consideration knowing it won't always be a walk in the park and binding people to their words. Therefore if I'm going to "nexted" I know it's something deeply rooted in unhappiness not because he is simply saw some good ass. This can go for men too, not only women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 03:20 AM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.I've read plenty but I'm not going to go and dig them all up. But in real life you also hear this from women where they withhold sex or are not longer attracted to their partner because the husband starts to feel more like a man child then a partner. Emotions are ignored. Arguments are shut down, etc. Men having dead bedrooms etc etc. So another reason why my post stated "if you believe the above statement is true" I don't assume everyone here thinks it is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:58 AM |
| 7 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Don't women also view it as retiring from the dating game? To me? In a way but where they can finally center their attention on one man and feel free to do so without the fear of being nexted after a few months. It seems to me that they also want to slack off from being a girlfriend. Interesting enough, the women who are in my circle took on more responsibility as being a wife. She was now a reflection of her partner and vise versa what they did represented them as a unit. What has been taught t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.This was for people who don't think emotional upkeep in a relationship is important yet still expect a wife to cater to him fulfilling her duties because she is a wife. Happy wife happy life, happy husband happy life. All the same thing. If I was speaking to women I would use the second. If you are going to be someone for the long run would their happiness not bring you a source of your own? If they are miserable I'm sure as hell you wouldn't be care free and happy while maintaining that relatio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Well making her happy should be apart of that live, and her making you happy should be apart of her life as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:40 AM |
| 14 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Yes. Once someone feels they are being taken for granted and makes this known and nothing changes ... The relationship is fundamentally over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Exactly. Both people should be looking at it like this - though hopefully the realize and needs / wants can be met with communication | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:38 AM |
| 5 | Sex in a marriage is a mandatory part of the deal. So you want duty sex, huh? What about the rest.Good to know! U seem fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/18 02:37 AM |
| 1 | Falling madly in love first or falling in love over time/learning to love?How so. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/18 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Falling madly in love first or falling in love over time/learning to love?Yes. I think somewhere in the middle is the best option. I guess ive seen too many people drop a relationship because they felt they could do better, or they just "weren't" in love anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/18 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Falling madly in love first or falling in love over time/learning to love?Do u not think it is it.... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/18 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Falling madly in love first or falling in love over time/learning to love?From the social implication of arranged marriage I would assume probably not without a large social consquence for the two people and their families. Thats where the paradox of choice, comes in. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/18 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Falling madly in love first or falling in love over time/learning to love?I agree. Sadly its what has been showed to us so we think if we dont feel that "wrenching" it isnt there therefore we must move on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/18 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Yah of course.... but that is a decision between the couples. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/11/18 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Working wife or SAHM?Ah okay :) Yes agreed and np! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/18 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Hold on. I agreed with literally everything you said, up until the last sentence. How am I shaming SAHM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/18 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Working wife or SAHM?.... i do not think stay at home moms are lazy. I SALUTE stay at home mothers. I specifally said SOME MEN believe that, that is what it was. The full description of what a stay at home mother does was not the reason for this post. I am simply asking men their take on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/18 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?I dont need validation for what I chose to do with my life from strangers on the internet. I saw a post and within the comments the person asked a question similar so i decided to make a post asking what men view on it as the man left the person unanswered. I believe its crucial to know when in a LTR. Great thanks for the advice but again this wasnt for me. I finished school and i hve a career and don't chose to not ever go back to work once I have kids or not keep my skills up to date within it… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/18 12:34 AM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Well i would assume people here wouldnt think im speaking off ALL men in paricular as im speaking of the men who do view it that way and that is their rebuttable to working women. Which mostly relates to the men who view this. So if u actually need to me to specifically state ALL MEN DO NOT THINK THIS WAY. Then ok as i did not deem it neccessary as i started off saying "many men, and again by saying alot of men". I never once said ALL. But like I said noted. I graduated uni and hve a career. Obv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/18 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Working wife or SAHM?I jst feel like u are answering me in a state of aggression as if I said I believe women are innocent. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?So tell me ur ideal relationship/family set up. If u dont mind - im actually curious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:57 PM |
| 2 | Working wife or SAHM?Ok.... ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Come at me correctly. Did i say women are sweet and innocent or did i say they were percieved to be traditionally. Cool and cool. Thanks for the response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Of course. Thats why im asking it here and not asking it in the real world bc im curious for these guys opinions.. I have my own views. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:48 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?It is important. I personally don't see a point in paying thousands of dollars for someone to watch my child when I am in the position of being capable along with my husband. Having successful parents are important, along side a healthy relationship with ur children and spending time with them. But are u basically saying a SAHM can't be successful? Even if she got her degree and worked FT for yrs before she had kids and plans to do after? I guess it all depends on what ur definition of success i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?If u would rather have day cares watch ur children that is of course your choice. But if she is willing to sacrifice those own personal goals, for a few years to watch ur kids then i dont think there is anything wrong with that. As long as she has her education, and work experience prior and keeps up to the times whether it be studying and or having a PT job then I dont think it is as hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Bruh. Home maker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Working wife or SAHM?Why can't your women be hard working and educated, but SAH when you have kids... until they are at a age that they are in full time school? Can she not have that choice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 09:03 PM |
| 5 | Working wife or SAHM?I think social interaction from age 2 and onward is great for kids. And i would hope you dont think staying home literally means staying home and the mom or kid dont see daylight or have activities with other mothers/children. So its not good for mothers or children how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Working wife or SAHM?Shoud of added this. But For me personally, i just want to know the opinions since some men seem to have conflicting views of women, roles, etc from what I hve been reading. I assume that people have a good idea for what they seek or want in the future, pertaining to parenting and family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 06:55 PM |
| 4 | Working wife or SAHM?Well when u say, When did the manosphere start getting so invested in the mommy wars? I could only assume that u believe im a man asking the question and its not relevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 06:52 PM |
| 4 | Working wife or SAHM?I am a woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 06:47 PM |
| 2 | Working wife or SAHM?Making more money than a man doesn't mean he's a beta and that you don't respect him either. Sigh. I didnt say i believe that it did. I said some men believe it to be true and where is the lie in that? Reading these comments it shows that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 06:43 PM |
| 3 | Working wife or SAHM?Stay at home, mother. Not partner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 06:25 PM |
| 0 | Working wife or SAHM?I'm not trying to have a kid for another 8-10 years. So to talk SAHM this early on would concern me. But this question if for when you want kids. Don't u think u guys shoud discuss expectations ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Fairly stated since u don't want kids. But my question is a SAHM not SAHP (stay at home partner) so hypothecially even if u wanted kids - u wouldn't want her to stay home? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Working wife or SAHM?What career outside of doing labour work makes 80k isn't office drone territory though ? And even making 80k probably means she spent atleast 3-5yrs in university to be at that salary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Working wife or SAHM?I didnt say they actually were.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Working wife or SAHM?Not a good way to start a conversation. You are telling people why they think what they think. It is annoying and disrespectful. Sorry u feel that way. Its personally what I believe and stand by it. So I don't want to date a woman that makes enough money to make demmands or have options. What do u mean by options? Women were hurt by that change too. Now they have to work. That is bad enough. Biology didn't change so they have to choose what to do with their youth, use the time to get a the best … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 05:11 PM |
| 3 | Working wife or SAHM?Im presumptious how? Im asking a question. And i have seen many men who don't want their woman making more than them because then the woman feels she is the "head" of the house hold therefore can dicate most of the big decisions. These are MENS words im using. So again. Im asking for different opinions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/18 04:46 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Women lie about the reason they don't like "nice guys".I just want to know before I go I respond further.. What do you think being a "nice guy" is? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/18 04:38 PM |
| 2 | Women don't choose from all men, they choose from the men they knowRight online dating has potentially widened a woman's social circle to thousands in big cities. Agreed, but that helped both genders not only women. And the amount of people who do what OP describes are on Tinder aswell. All it does is open more options but only the options like OP describes; expresses interest. Swiping is lazy. Anyone can swipe. Getting the conversation conversation going, interacting before meeting, setting up meetings, are what makes guys on tinder stand out from the other am… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/18 10:59 AM |
| 1 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?I absolutley do believe they are recieving it in mass, which is why ppl are opossing Feminism and men are questioning why their male traits are still expected though expectation of feminine traits are then "sexist" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?They are negative when it no longer aligns to the world we live in today - but it is still expected of a man, because he is a man. And vice versa. Do you think its still okay for a man to be expected to almost all of the bills, even though he is dating someone fully financially capable of doing so? But doesnt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?I still do think men recieve this message. That's why some are angry when they feel they provided everything that was expected of him as a man, then the woman goes off and cheats. Undermining everything that they thought would be enough. I do though, which is why people have a problem with Feminism. Its telling women to move from the steretypical "feminine/womenly" attributes and gain respect. Yet, telling men to keep their masculine traits (paying the bill, make most of the money, court her, ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 09:37 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Men expect men to be providers. They expected men to be within a certain stereotype of what consitutes in being a "man" Men are/were expected to have a well set career, be the head of the house, marry a girl, provide for her and the family. Doing so would ensure that life and secure it. As men before had that assurance that it will attract a good woman. Just like how men are socially conditioned to "be strong, stand up women" if a woman was getting yelled at you are expected to swoop in and save… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Being "good man" is NOT A MASCULINE thing, at all. In fact, it is quite feminine to be a nice guy whiteknight. Again, your premise is wrong. Men are disadvantaged by the LACK of a masculine message. And having a job is just life advice lol Yes it is. Speaking of how to be honourable in the social gender roles. That is what is expected of a man. Fathers ensure their daughters have a "good man" therefore he asking if is "man enough, capable of providing for a family, can be the head of a household… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?I think maybe i should direct this msg to TRP But it seems as though most of them did it - but they didnt find a good woman. So now they are wondering why "Im a good man, i did all im suppose to do and expected of me - but it still wasnt good enough" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Yah exactly - Do you think that is what makes most men angry who are in TRP or have decided GTOW. Because they did what was expected of them as a man, but it was not enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:20 PM |
| 4 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?most MEN are given the msg of being a good man.. being a good provider... having a good job.. will be enough to attract a woman and keep a woman. Only for some to find out that even though he does all the things expected of him "the women will leave him for super hot chad" or "she will cheat on him" therefore; even if you are what is expected in terms of personality, goals, status - you still may get burned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:17 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Yah, I guess to sum it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Im black, the fuck? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:12 PM |
| 0 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Assuming men even get this message (most men today don't IMO). Furthermore, how is this harmful? Is the reverse a positive message? Harmful msg bc that is all that is being taught. That if u do those things u will attrack a good fitting woman. Most men who are in TRP or whatever else do those; not expecting their life to be turned upside by a woman. They provided the entire recipe for a good life, why did it still taste like shit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:11 PM |
| 2 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?It's like, how likely is it that your feminist liberal mother will give her sons a message that "women tend to desire dominant, masculine men who can provide for them." She is far more likely to say "there's a lid for every pot," "just be yourself," "gender roles are bad." So many mothers today act like their sons/daughters are some sociology experiment. My mother is not a Feminist, nor a liberal at all. She comes from a country where men cheated, lied, had multiple families, has specific gender… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:06 PM |
| 3 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Maybe more of a expectation of masculinity. Taught to be a man, man up, provide, have a good job, marry and have a family. If all of those thing are done - you should be able to get a good women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you think the secretly harmful message of masculinity given to men from elders, peers and society at large (fitting into their role as being a provider, etc) has made men in general more depressed or unaware of their true social status?Hm, I disagree to an extent because though you guys were not taught about "certain truths" of women, you then were taught to be a man, man up, provide, have a good job, marry and have a family. Therefore teaching you about men and the social expectations of men. Expecting that if you do all those things - that you will land a family a good women to share a life with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/18 07:59 PM |
| 7 | Q4All: Are women made inferior by internalizing harmful societal narratives?I think a lot of it has to with the age and conditions of social conditioning and how the woman was raised. Many of us from a *young age* were conditioned (just as boys) to like certain things, play with certain things, what is deems as girly, what is boyish etc. I emphasis young age because yes, while we are in 2018 things have changed more recently - So I do believe it is hard to unwire the mindset. Remember that most of us were raised by parents who went through some shit. Who saw the segrega… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/18 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Damn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Why do u consider urself a low value man? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy."Men, believe women!" - "But women lie to get their way" - "LYULZ YOUR MADZ FUQBOI" - "Your spelling is bad" - "LAWLZ YARR MAD" Im not even a Feminist which is the funniest thing. And is that English? Its sad that you dare to type like that to even compare it to me when none of my posts relate to that. Thats how much you have to pull out of ur ass to stay relevent in this conversation and to dismiss it. Your spelling is bad You're the one who corrected me LMFAOOO. You are a lost cause. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 04:21 PM |
| 4 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Yes; you simply said Tell me where I said those exact words. Not your interpretation of my words, those exact ones. Ill be waiting for you to quote me. And if u can't find it, ill help you interpret my post so u can actually ask proper questions and come to a logical conclusion - if not, then good day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Actually, she's probably gotten "dicked down" a lot less than you have. That's the way it works for women, after all - the more "high status" they are, the less dick they'll have to take Hmm... probably not and if so, i couldn't really care less. High status is objective. Im not on the market so they arent comparible to me at all. In terms of relationship status, life status, financial status; any status a women wants to be at, im a pretty high status mother fucker. But clearly u care and thats … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 04:11 PM |
| 2 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.What am I not addressing? You are killing me lmfao. then accuse others of having a temper. Your self-awareness couldn't be lower. Coming from the person who accused me of having a temper tantrum after a reply. You really are inconsistant. Go over your comments before u try to come for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Damn, did I get u even more angry? Hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Either you are unintelligent or deliberately acting obtuse, to call something into question stands synonymous for expressing your doubt. If u came to me with an open mind to have an actual discussion, i wouldnt have any issues with u questioning my motives. A question gets answered, and asking a question leaves room for a two way conversation. A statement telling me i am completley wrong and its not true at all gets answered back defending my post. Obviously. Lmfao looks who is throwing a temper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 02:25 PM |
| 4 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Your angry. Speak to me when you can hold a decent conversation. I am not one of the women who say "cat calling is worse than death" So try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 02:21 PM |
| 3 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.To look at the world objectively and that not everyone fits ur experiences or view of the world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Yet you take issue when motives are questioned. When did you question my motive? You stated what you thought my post was about. You didnt question me, anything. Understanding one's motivations through empathy does not mean you respect them. I understand the motives of some men who cheat, have multiple baby mothers, etc. Does it make me respect them? No. But at least its something that when I hear about it i won't throw a fit saying AMALT and dismiss the men that arent like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 11:16 AM |
| 2 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.You sound very jaded. No actually, I havent heard it, so im asking a question... Are u not going to answer it to engage further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 11:12 AM |
| 1 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.MMORPG? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 11:05 AM |
| 6 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.What are u getting so worked up over? You sound like ur throwing a tantrum, actually. Not me. Its a mixture of both actually. But im speaking on the empathy part. "sympathy is feeling compassion, sorrow, or pity for the hardships that another person encounters. empathy is putting yourself in the shoes of another" I can firstly sympathize with the divorce raped, cheated, used, etc. But then ill empathize with him and understand where he is coming from and feelings he feels towards women by thinki… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 11:05 AM |
| 2 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Nope its not the world we live in but Reddit isn't the world we live in. People in real life don't have a platform to express the things said on here espcially not anonomsly to others. Its almost like a public diary of thoughts. If it wasn't, people would be making these posts on their FB for their friends and families to see. I guess I miscalculated that majority of people on here are to jst disprove everything and not learn. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 10:57 AM |
| 1 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Did i ever say you should always forget facts and your own lived experience? And I literally said for both sides.. Ur taking your own twist to my words. Clearly the exact point I made. No it is empathy. If no one I have ever met a man who has been divorced raped (which i literally have not) but a shitload of guys on here share their stories it will change my perception and understand more where that anger is coming from and take myself out of that box I have only lived in and open the truth that… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 10:46 AM |
| 0 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.A more open minded, NAWALT red? Lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 10:39 AM |
| 2 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.When did i ever say you should always forget facts? And I literally said for both sides.. Ur taking your own twist to my words. Clearly the exact point I made. We are a group of people here. If u are so grounded in your facts, why are u here other than to hear others opinions and stories. If u are here jst to argue and prove ur right, then ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 10:38 AM |
| 3 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.But what about our lived experiences, are they just invalid because you or other women say "Well i'm not like the women you describe"? Firstly im speaking from both sides. Did i not say: Some of u went through some shit with women and it sucks it really does - and im sure many women here agree that some women can be shitty. And Though I am able to think rationally with some empathy to those who have been burned by women. And I understand that. but when they try and extrapolate on that to mean th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:14 AM |
| 6 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Maybe here but its worth a shot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:04 AM |
| 6 | Late night thought.. the biggest issue on here is lack of empathy.Care to explain further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/18 03:03 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Did I say every single guy who has ever hit on me was a Chad? That would be idiotic. Resemble the behaviour? So you're comparing your observations to my lived and real life experience of dealing with them? And seeing how u guys speak of Chads? Lol. Ok. As my title states a chad doesnt have to have those physical characteristics. Of course there are guys who have a born advantage.. obviously but whether u believe it or not its not only them in the dating/casual sex/ alpha widowing game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 04:28 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Im a girl, so i know what a true chad is. Probably seen more, interacted and been hit on by more than you. Instead of your "wise" observations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/18 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Should raping a promiscuous woman carry a lower jail sentence than raping a virgin?You need to read up on womans anatomy. U must be a troll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 06:01 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.How. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Where I feel like you got this fucked up is where you ascribe predatory aspects to "chad" or whatever The reason I described the "predatory" Chad, is because that is the Chad most these RP men describe - A guy who slays pussy left and right, but only does that because he's hot so women drop their panties at the sight of his face. Therefore they must get their bodies to look like that and if they don't have a great face; welp they will just complain about the unfairness. Chads are all "the guys t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 02:01 PM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.0. But I do have my sexy ass man of a few years that fucks me good and i fuck him great, everyday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 01:26 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Average can be my thought if them. Beauty is in the eye if the beholder, ibviously but the men im talking about is no where close to who u guys describe physically as Chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/18 04:36 AM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.True natural alphas don't need TRP. Which is why they are not on it. True natural alphas dont have a list of do's and don'ts when it comes to women. True natural alphas dont level a girl down to her N count, they dont care whether or not he was the guy with the biggest dick or best face. true natural alpha's dont even know they are playing mind games with women bc it comes naturally. All im saying is that you dont need to have the best looking face. You guys are obsessed with looks more than wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 10:13 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.aw we friends now? Good to know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:55 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Cool story bro. Goodbye | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:40 PM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Its the mind games and they aren't that hard. Pretend you care about her day, ask her how she is, talk with her for a bit, then pull back, ignore her a bit, ask to see her, you guys chill, make it enjoyable, you ignore her a bit after, then one day you talk to her all day, take a few days to ask her out again (even if its just to fuck), and repeat the cycle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:39 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Thats the problem and im sure "The top 20%" have more than just looks going for them. You men are so hung up on this 20% that you think an average looking guy can't get pussy. Its actually sad - they feel they lost the game before they even tried. Because all the girls who are 5'0-5'5 completely disregard men who aren't 6ft. Bull shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:36 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Because i actually cant believe u are this incompetant while trying to sound smart. A see saw requires equal weight disturbution to balance on each end. A relationship requires two people who have complimentary personalities to balance. Or do u still not understand that? No not forgetting. U cant keep up with the amount of questions u pulled out to try and make a point that honestly wasnt even a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:31 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Because it is. You men project the idea of what a women thinks Chad is therefore compare urself to a bunch of exceptionally good looking men. Yet when a women downright denies it she is wrong. Its quite hilarious. Cool story. Sea horses are outliers. Most female animals take care of their off spring. Are u going to deny that? Monogamy is not the norm with animals nor are males lactating. Males pursue, mate, then dip. Your giving me examples of 3 to 5% of the animal kingdom. There are similarites… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:26 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Ill give u that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:19 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Stay on topic. U questioned that and I answered. U have then went on to ask me more questions about relationships which i then answered. U then stated People don't need to be the opposite of their desire's object in order to attract them is what I'm saying. Whether we're talking homosexuality or heterosexuality, many relationships are between people aren't opposites" When did i ever say opposites have to attract eachother? U went on a blind chase for an idea no one stated. Keep ur ideas and thou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:18 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Pretty sure dad bod, 5'9 men are getting laid too. But a woman who ends up in a relationship with a guy that doesn't lift and isn't 6ft tall, is somehow settling right? Yah. ok. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:02 PM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.That proves my point of Natural Chads know he doesn't have to be the best looking or most attractive guy she has been with and probably isn't. They can still get her to invest in him because he's going to offer something that no one else will or can or at least let her think that then leave. And alot can happen in a week and a half compared to ONS. There is communication, sleeping together more than once, calling each other to link up, etc. All of that builds up and the emotional side of the wom… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:57 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Everything u stated thus far holds no grounds to what i was originally speaking about. What have u been trying to prove? U made a blanket statement informing me that opposites dont always attract. Cool story bro, no one said it did. Im done speaking to you if u arent going to hold a worth while conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:47 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Its not a revelation. Its the truth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:44 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Well isnt chad the prime example of a douche bag? Isnt that what these men are trying to become | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:38 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Well ur comprehsion of things made me doubt that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:35 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Im a girl, firstly so ive fucked average guys. Have seen the guys who my friends, their friends, and on have fucked and have fucked them over Most arent these "Chad" men you guys have projected. They are average guys, with average bodies, and a good personailty | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:34 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Pretty successful. Pertaining to height girls who are 5'0 -5'5 arent always looking for a guy to tower over her. The amount of short couples/ average ones I see is alot more than seeing a tall ass guy with his gf up to his waist. And u listed everything that wouldnt be a problem - are u that guy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:29 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Stop acting like you cant get sex and its a womans fault bc you aren't 6'2, have mucles and a face that god hand crafted himself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:19 PM |
| 5 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.I am a girl. Who has fucked average guys and seen the guys my friends have fucked and got dumped by. They are not "Chads" by any regard what so ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:43 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.So men who don't like ass and breasts are settling for flat chested no ass women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:42 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.People get together and stay together because their personalities balance each other out, along with that comes the comprising of each others need. Just like I said, if someone likes to party on their free time, they most likely will not be with someone who enjoys reading and staying in during their free time because they will not attract each other. Like I said before, people come together based on similarities other than differences. People make friends on a shared interest. Your interests/hob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:40 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.What do you not understand? What exactly are u trying to argue over? That opposite personality do or not attract, what is it? Because you are becoming redundant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:18 PM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Figuratively speaking (before I get Economic lessons rants) My answer is already stated. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 10:45 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Well then u are purposely trying to not understand my point. Everything in life needs proper balance. Relationships need balance. A relationship will not work if they are complete opposites in everything Most LTR compromise and most times their personalities compliment one another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 10:39 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.I understand the terminology. But your last question was this asking about gender roles and production. Seeming specfic sexual stragety of males and females to each other. Were u not only speaking of straight relationships? Gender production refers to the process of making one's self either man or woman. Men pursue higher paying work, exercise more, and take on more physical hobbies, in contrast to women's pursuit of lower paying jobs, sedentary lifestyles, and less dangerous hobbies. What's the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:26 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Ok.. and I said they need to balance each other out. Balancing each other out does not mean being the opposite of one another. It means being able to pick up where one left off, have strengths / weaknesses that blend together, or are the same- etc etc. And were u speaking of homosexuality? When? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:10 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Men and women need to balance each other out in order to attract the opposite sex. I have never denied that. I said attract the opposite sex not opposite character traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Dick picsIt must be an ego boost for them (women) Guys in my experience who end up doing it are fairly attractive so if they do it enough times they are bound to find a girl who likes it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:59 AM |
| 3 | Dick picsYou have sucess stories?! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:30 AM |
| 7 | Dick picsSo weird. It was a FWB thing (well was suppose to be. Slept with him once) and I cut him off bc of the random dick pics. I told him numerous times to NOT send me them, i dont like them and im not trying to open a msg at work/ with friends/ etc and be afraid its his dick. He didnt stop. Sent one the next morning. Told him off, deleted and blocked his #. Thought his real life dick game was that special. No and nope. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:26 AM |
| 13 | Dick picsTinder days dick pics were very common. Hey good morning beautiful :) 2 mins later, dick pic Thinking about you.... Captioning him sparwled out in bed dick in hand Its not attractive. Dicks don't look appleasing like that. Your basically telling me u jerked off and thought it would be a good idea to send the pic and think id jump on through the phone. Its not cute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:13 AM |
| 0 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.I may have read ur comment out of context. Let me ask, so you have noticed that you have gotten more attention lifting as oppose to not doing it before? Has this drastically improved ur dating life? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 03:09 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.You asked me to explain "the drift of women only standing there looking pretty" I explained it based on the cummulative views I have seen that men over and over again have stated. That women dont really need to do much. I used the hence "women are born, men are made" to show you many people refer to this as being true as it seems like you aren't believing me that people view it that way. Along with my other examples i have given you. At the end of the day, males and females do have different sex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:50 AM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Look at what they RESPOND TO. Men respond to big asses, wide hips and breasts. Women who do not fit that category still have bf's, are riding the CC, getting their hearts broken or breaking hearts. Just because ppl dont fit the ideal response doesnt mean they are doomed. Then women who go out and get surgery to look like the ideal that men respond to end up butchering their bodies and then some men don't like it. Its a tug and war. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:37 AM |
| 3 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Truly. I feel for u guys at times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:21 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Did I say I believe this or that most men believe it? Most men from alot of what I have gathered are upset of the inaction they feel women have to do in order to get laid or get saught out by attention. Hence why the need to go the gym, pick up hobbies to attract women and decent women.And why fat women can still somehow get a guy somewhat out of her league. Or even why a sleeping with 30 guys is turn off for men bc shes easy and sleeping with 30 girls depicts true game * and a *chad as it doesn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:20 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.So then ask; if u didn't get the drift. Simple flow of communication. Men believe many women don't have to do much to get sex or life in general. They don't have to work as hard, nor bring as much to the plate bc there will be someone there to help them along the way and or pick up their slack. If they have a vagina; life is so much easier. If u have a dick and try the same ur a bum. Hence women are born, men are made | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 02:05 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Great for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:58 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.I said what i said. U didnt get my drift. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:56 AM |
| 0 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.If men can't be in the game, get out of it. If u improve and still dont get women, do something else. There unfortuntely isnt a person for everyone. Thats just life. Its not fair. You dont need to soley work on your appearance bc its not the end all. Average looking guys with average bodies can still slay pussy or have a girl strung up on them without looking like a model Men project their idea of what a Chad is because its how they view other men that are better than them. Not neccessarily what… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:55 AM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.females stand there and look pretty (not only that, but you get my drift). I guess u didnt get my drift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:47 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Most, not all. So if u agree you dont need to change my view on anything? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:46 AM |
| 5 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Thats true for some women. Every one hopes for the best and attaches a "my partner can do no wrong" at times and finds excuses for their faults. But im very certain the girls aren't crying over the guy they fucked one night that looked like a super model. They dont cry bc he had the hottest face, they may want them when they see them and think, fuck he was hot - but they arent sad. If he didnt build a emotional connection with her, a good looking face isn't enough to be strung up on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:45 AM |
| 1 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.I can change the flair to dicussion but Chads get that" It wasn't about his muscles or rock solid abs, it wasn't about his height or his sharp jaw line...sure it may have helped but he was able to get her emotionally fucked. She doesn't cry to her friends because his dick was so big and she will never find another one. No, she cries because he understood her and made her feel a way no ever will again and they were just so perfect for each other - how will anyone else ever live up to him? Natural… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 01:39 AM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Great point. It wouldn't take much for her to lie that shes on BC and get pregnant or other things if she simply wanted his children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 12:35 AM |
| 3 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Figuratively speaking (before I get Economic lessons rants) if the luxury store now realizes that wealthier people are no longer buying, they may lower their prices to accommodate the people who couldn't afford before to stay in business. Are people going to put a protest that they are no longer going to shop there? Yah maybe some... but not enough to run the store out of business. What they selling would have to be trash for no one to ever go there again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Modern Relationships are exhausting because today everything is a negotiation.I think one of the biggest problems nowadays with relationships is that no one wants to pick their own slack. There wouldnt have to be sit down negotiations if people saw something that looked wrong and just fixed it not letting in linger bc its "not their role" I also think a big issue is empathy lost. With this new society its every man / woman for themselves. "Oh ur a woman? You should be cleaning, taking care of the kids!" "Oh ur a woman? Im not paying for you - we all have equal rights now!… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/18 12:30 AM |
| 5 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Men decide amongst themselves who the high status men are, and one of the ways that is done involves strength/physique. Yeah which joins to my point about projection. You think women are looking at men the same way men look at men? You think men look at women the same way women look at women? The answer is no. Would I ever take advice from a female only blog about what men like and don't like hell no. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:59 PM |
| 7 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.You must be only paying attention to those guys or just assume it because you see them and think that they are. Like I said it helps but is not the only factor and bagging or emotionally fucking with them? Because to bang them cool but it doesn't have much as a profound effect on some women as some guys think it does. Average guys are still out there slaying pussy, average guys are still out there having girls cry over them. The amount of above average men are not that many compared to the entir… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:55 PM |
| 7 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.No its the reality of it. Women are not like men. Men keep projecting their idea of how much women hang on to physical being the top 1 and only 1, because that is what runs you guys, as oppose to the emotional side of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:50 PM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.I don't even think LTRs are a positive since they encompasses a lot of compromises, sacrifice, withdrawal of personal freedom for a vague idea of love If you don't think a LTR is worth it that's fine. At the end of the day what does separate us from many other animals that mate just for reproduction and some pleasure is a lot of what you listed above. But if the juice is worth the squeeze that is up to you. If you chose to opt out of the game that's your own personal win. Not a win for man kind … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:48 PM |
| 4 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Thats ur projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:43 PM |
| 2 | MEN: Your new found revelations won't stop the game and Chads "looks" are a projection - You don't need to be 6ft, have huge muscles and a chiseled jaw. Being average and playing mind games is one of the most "Chad" things you can do.Well like I said, if he improves himself and he gets pussy.. great if he doesn't at least he tried and he can take that 0.00003% and invest in something that will give him a better return value for his efforts. Maybe getting a women for him is as hard as it is a poor person to become rich. It sucks, but its life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”Thanks And so essentially with your explaination, these guys are upset because women have chosen to over look them during their prime and basically only settle when they realize they want kids; fair enough for some women. And exactly like you said, there are women they can get... but they are trying to either score outside of their SMV or they are mistaking the quality of women. I dont think that for some guys who are decent looking, have a personality, have a good job are really this horrible a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/18 12:28 PM |
| 2 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”I see your point but I also don't though I may not know the true intimate details of some of these relationships - I have seen a lot of women be good women. The women will get pregnant, maybe gain some weight, while shes taking care of their child - the man cheats. He comes home to dinner, a clean house, children taken care of - and yet he cheats. Like I said, I am an outsider looking in but I don't believe that all those women made the steps for their men to look for it somewhere else. Because … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/18 12:26 AM |
| 0 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”Yet majority of the men in my life this is friends bf's, family members, my own brothers, uncles, etc have cheated, had kids with other women, have baby mothers and these aren't "alpha men" In the most "successful" marriages I know, I still know that the woman was cheated on but stayed. women will deal with cheating much more than a man would therefore the reasoning and skeletons get silenced and go with 30% of good marriages. So it doesn't seem as though male sex drive is that simple. Its an ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”More or less, hypergamy is incompatible with male desires for stability raising a family, and when you look at the problem in depth you realize women are entitled and the deal they offer is poor. ? Most women want stability for raising a family more than anything. They need it which is why the desires of women looking for a partner are different. Funny you say that because just as hyper gamy is apparently is incompatible so is pologamy - it is the complete opposite if we are going with "biologic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 11:27 PM |
| 0 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”Almost everyday? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 09:45 PM |
| 2 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”I myself am not a Feminist but I see how and why it started based off of history. Of course, Feminism has stripped away the traditional idea of sex which for men, I am sure are thankful for like you. Yes but Female nature/AWALT theories only for some women. To which many people believe as facts to all. There is no problem learning the new waves of the uncharted waters but you can't treat every uncharted water the same. You can have a rule which is "it is dangerous" but no two would be alike, the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”cads Before I reply, what is a cad? So I can reply in context. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 09:26 PM |
| 3 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”Ok. So serious question, why are u on ppd? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”Lmao will do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:26 PM |
| 2 | Weak males needed Feminism. They can now blame their dating and life failures on something other than “toxic masculinity”Lol I was on desktop and got carried away. I wanted to ensure i didnt have to go on rants explaining what I meant bc someone took it out of context. And agreed. Yah people are probably downvoting bc of the title lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/18 08:23 PM |
| 1 | RP men are attracted to the wrong womenThis post sums up all the other posts on the sub. Thank you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/18 04:11 PM |
| 1 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.Is it against the rules to inqure why someone turned to trp if they can make blanket statements about women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 09:55 PM |
| 0 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.I really don't think women before age 30 want men who are good fathers. Or, if they do want father material, that is way, way secondary to sexual attractiveness. For women it is a package deal. Maybe they the initial attraction is "ouu so who is going to be my baby daddy" But if all he is hot - she won't want him. As the relationship progresses and there are characteristics that change her judgement in progressing with him (whether he is beta, alpha, etc) she won't want it. You are speaking of w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 05:47 PM |
| 1 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.Firstly, I am not a blue lol. And I didn't believe he was making fun of me but the basis of whenever an issue is brought up the first thing someone states is the bad experiences they had with women, as if women don't have bad experiences with men. Its a general assumption of a gender because of the bad seeds. "I asked who hurt you"because every guy that comes to TRP has a story, no? Almost every guy has fallen short in the women department that either got hurt, played, used etc. So its is a legi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 03:11 PM |
| 1 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game........ Again. Why are you bringing up age? Do you think women ONLY care about children during her "post wall" years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 03:03 PM |
| 1 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.EXACTLY. Every single man in this post believes im speaking about a woman who "randomly" decides to have kids. As if there aren't people in LTR who want that from the get go and have certain goals to reach and attain together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 03:02 PM |
| 0 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.I never added age to this. Again I ask the question.. do you really believe ONLY women at age of 30 want a man who will be a good father? You're speaking of "post wall" women. I am speaking of women in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 03:00 PM |
| 1 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.No my point is that men believe every single women marries a BETA. and that is far from the truth. There is much more than "Alpha chads" and "beta marriage" Unless you think that low of men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 02:59 PM |
| 1 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.Im not even close to "post wall" LMAO. You maybe are though.... And it wasnt an insult it is a legit question. Isnt it men who have been jaded/hurt/used by women who flock TRP? Its not successful men that do. So? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 02:57 PM |
| 2 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.Ill read the links you sent me later, BUT that quote you had - was projecting victim hood as well as what you stated is not a reality for all men, nor a reality for all woman. It was a negative association to women, as "abusive, cheaters" are negative associations with men. Not every single person is like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 12:28 AM |
| 4 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.I never brought up age. I fail to see how your comment is relevant Do you only think women who are close to "biological" ticking think about kids ? Or that sort of future? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/18 12:06 AM |
| -2 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.What is the emotion of women who were in abusive relationships... are u denying thats facts? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:57 PM |
| 4 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.To be honest - I get your points and if that how you conduct your life and therefore want the same things in return then that is fair to you. You are allowed to have you standards. Many points you have, sum up my entire questions. What age are you now looking for this women? If you feel as though her age and youth has been wasted on other guys. Do you feel you can only find a worthy partner once you got on your feet? Why don't you find someone in your youth ( early to mid 20's) and grow with her… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:49 PM |
| 2 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.Its a legit question. If woman posted all men were cheaters and abusers, im sure men would be asking the same thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:38 PM |
| 6 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.I think this is hilarious - because I have never nor wanted to watch that movie. Looked like a load of BS to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:33 PM |
| 4 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.mmmm. No I don't see it like that. What is the horrible deal I outlined? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:32 PM |
| 1 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.Yeah, so I'm a big girl now and I need a real man. I've made some mistakes, but I am the woman I am now because of the girl I was. >Yeah, so I'm a big girl now and I need a real man. I've made some mistakes, but I am the woman I am now because of the girl I was. Honestly, who hurt you? > Yeah if you ignore most of the sexually successful Chad types cross culturally who basically view women as "nothin' but tricks and hoes." Cross culturally is important, because it's not a culture issue. Usin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:29 PM |
| 4 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.This is probably where male and female minds just don't understand understand each other... yet men who cheat or have a history of cheating know this when defending themselves "It was just a ONS - she meant nothing, you're the one I'm coming home to at night" For some women its easier to take back a man who cheated or be okay with a guy with has a high count because she knows it was just a ONS, no emotions were there For a girl who was a ONS or FWB but wanted more doesn't feel worthy he didn't c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:17 PM |
| 0 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.What to you is a man, acting like a woman? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:12 PM |
| 7 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.hmm. I agree with you here for this point but I still don't believe my point is wrong - because its these women who will go back to cheaters to "prove their status" and get mad at the "other woman" who their man cheated on them with even though the other women had 0 idea he has in a relationship (think of Maury) These are low, insecure, women - who don't know their worth and will put up with a lot. But I don't believe every man is grouped into being either a Chad or being a Beta. Its a false nar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 11:08 PM |
| 3 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.I put up this post because as I was reading some posts on TRP, a lot of it seems to be about how to manage yourself in a relationship and some people using these aspects into getting a relationship. So I've found a lot of inconsistencies in their basis of "solely spinning plates" I guess every guy has their own take on how to use it. a lot of RP guys have been struggling to hook up during their youth. They assume women don't struggle. Sorry can you expand on this? marriage is a dodgy deal these … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 10:53 PM |
| 8 | RP MEN: Don't hate the player, hate the game.Fair points! Women want the Chadish guys to date and have fun with. And they want their Chad to chose them to be that girl who finally "tamed him." Yes I agree. I posted this somewhere - but I also believe those women are attracted to guys like that and pursue them because of feminine nature to nurture and "be the one to fix him" but if she actually realizes her value she won't put up with it. Many of those women who end up staying and probably deeply insecure and find themselves in abusive rela… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 10:46 PM |
| 1 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?I actually am interested in the answers which is why I asked the questions... Isn't this what this subreddit is about? I don't have enough energy to save your answers and use it for threads later on. Im genuinenly interested in finding out what happened to you and or why you turned to TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?Accusation of bad faith... I said "lol kk" ?????? If you dont want to answer the questions I asked - im not going to beg or fight you. Is that what you wanted? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?Lol kk | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Both men and women end up Beta Bux at some point in their lives> Or....her husband chooses to sacrifice HIS time to raise the child. A man sacrifices his career for the sake of a freshly new born child doesn't make sense. The child needs mom - the mom needs the child. She needs to heal from child birth, whichever one she chose to have which is already about 2 months. So her career takes a hit based on that. > And breastfeeding is a bit of a cop-out excuse. You don't HAVE to, and many women shouldn't. Nobody has to do anything but its for the best benefit fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?This wasn't dating advice. It is a set of observations about men and women and how vulnerable men and women are viewed by the opposite sex. Which can then be interpreted as dating advice / being attractive to the opposite sex / how to act in a relationship. --assertive at all times; aggressive when necessary That isn't an asshole. That is being a non passive human being. sets down firm boundaries for all people in his life and enforces them hard; removes people from his life who cannot or will n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 07:23 PM |
| 4 | Q4Women: What are some examples of bad dating advice given to women?We get turned off by TOO MUCH vulnerability/neediness/availability. There is a balance. Too much and you're smothering us and I feel like I'm caring for a kindergartner, not a woman. Too little and you don't need us/you're turning into bitches. And women don't like vulnerable men. Women like alpha assholes who show flashes and short episodes of vulnerability. This here is bad dating advice. Women don't love "assholes". Women who loves assholes have a warped sense of love who believe that she can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/18 06:10 PM |
| 5 | The majority of straight women are sexually submissive (to varying extent by individual), but TRP articulates this poorly and creates unnecessary division/confusion.Being submissive is to me is about my man taking what is "his" and enjoying me. letting him do that to me means im being submissive. And when that happens its usually a push and pull and sex. Subtle controls gestures. Ex. Deciding you want to ride him instead so you decide to put him on his back. He decides he wants doggy, so he positions you from missionary to your knees. You change from doggy to oral bc you want to. They are allowing it Gentle, yet dominant acts. And men like women who show th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 11:10 PM |
| 3 | CMV: Rad Feminism Has Succeeded In Doing Serious Damage To The Minds Of Women And Gender RelationsLol. If you have no intentions its probably best to keep your pace at your normal distance. She will end up self soothing - whether its to call a friend, cross the street, or walk faster/slower. The faster she reacts for herself, the faster she will feel relieved that you are continuing to do your own thing. Can't tell you the amount of times ive walked home and a guy is walking behind. Ill be sketchy af if i keep peering over my shoulder - so ill do combination of what I listed until I feel saf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 10:46 AM |
| 3 | CMV: Rad Feminism Has Succeeded In Doing Serious Damage To The Minds Of Women And Gender RelationsSo do you disagree and took a look at on the post I linked? No. I can't either which is why I don't label myself a feminist and within certain topics im sure I will be ripped apart by women saying that I have been brainwashed by the Patriarchy. Its very strange agendas they try to push. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 02:45 AM |
| 5 | CMV: Rad Feminism Has Succeeded In Doing Serious Damage To The Minds Of Women And Gender RelationsWomen have become irrational in their fear of men, and I think there is a design in that. "Rad fems" want women to be afraid of men. I personally don't think women have become irrational in their fear of men, as there always was some sort of justifiable fear in terms of safety with men regardless of time as situations have made this clear and I stand firmly behind this point. Most fear is absolved by self regulating behavior. If there was irrational fear; dating sites such as Tinder, Bumble, etc… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/09/18 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Nothing of what you said had a rebuttle to my points. Figures though - everything you've said thus far is BS skepticism You will be doing me and many other woman a favour. Thank god, Please block me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.It's the most blatant and pathetic instance of self-reassurance through projection I've seen on Reddit in a long, long time. This is quite hilarious that you believe I am projecting my personal misandrist beliefs onto men yet there are numerous other people who agree with me. So right there everything you said is null. I disagree with your construal that fathers are protective of their daughters, because they have some deep-seated knowledge of what voracious sexual monsters men really are inside… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 02:46 PM |
| 3 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.I disagree. Very much so. And your willingness to make blanket statements like that is part of the problem underpinning your sexist attitudes. You don’t have to be a feminist or even a woman to have sexist beliefs about men. So you disagree with men being protective of their daughters because of other men ? with women being taught to protect themselves and its early ingrained that men want us for sexual pleasure? You disagree with men knowing that about other men? I noticed you didn’t ask for an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 01:13 PM |
| 1 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.I didnt ask the question stating if "all" of Feminism was pushed by some truth that men state or if it is "all" hate speech. Some; being the base of the Feminism - all; being the total sum of that "Feminism" that people believe drive women to hate men is what I am speaking about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 10:37 AM |
| 5 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Your sexism is your problem and it will cause you pain in life. I just hope you don’t raise any children or that they’re wise enough to reject such views. My sexism... yet mostly every single woman hears about the dangers of men, from other men. It is preached. Im not a Feminist so you can throw your "trying to be sexist and hate men" speech. The fact that you disagree wholeheartedly is quite disturbing and I hope you don't choose to father any kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 09:52 AM |
| 1 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.My generelizations of is coming from his and many other men who believe feminism encouages women to belittle men. This is precisely the problem with feminism—it encourages otherwise sound, intelligent people to believe men are all budding rapists and wifebeaters, Do you think that some of the Feminist agenda b Keyword SOME. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Oh i am not speaking of the 22yr old anymore. "Serious question" is for another girl I know. Who is 26 - | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 03:35 AM |
| 3 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Im using Feminism the way the guy has described it as the effect its having on people now. The kind of "Feminism" that is being pushed. If ur not going to read. Dont comment. Its very simple. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 03:28 AM |
| 1 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Sorry meant to say "because I know a girl who hasnt had anything" mid falling asleep on mobile lol. She has desired both, to a certain degree. But never attained either. She is an attractive girl, goes on dates with guys but can never get comfortable enough to engage in anything more. Physically or emotionally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 03:21 AM |
| 2 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Trust me. A girl i know from HS still has a curfew - but she makes due with what she can / who she can while she is out. she doesn't want romantic relationships a hell of a lot. Is she in college now? Seems like she'll graduate soon! Yup 1 more yr! I hope she breaks free and experiences life. Those sheltered kids either become rebellious and hate their parents for doing it or as you described lol. Serious question; do u know if u can become asexual overtime.... bc i know anything girl and yah. N… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Probably not tbh. She carries that sheltered, inexperienced, young teen attitude but hey, maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 03:00 AM |
| 6 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.True. Probably bc her rage doesn't equal her ability to throw a punch | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 02:58 AM |
| 1 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.I know a 22yr old who still gets picked up/lunch made/mom scheduling appts as if she was 16. And boys? Forget it. They dont exsist to her mother | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 02:57 AM |
| 6 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Fair enough and of course not. That is danger territory and i will never feel comfortable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 02:33 AM |
| 9 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Its crazy. Even something as simple as going to a mechanic. My bf doesn't understand why I would rather him come with me at times bc from my experience they know most / some of us have 0 idea what is going on. Girl + car problem = $$$$ and that is jst one example of a small basic difference of our worlds. You should if you havent already watched; "Real Stories" - Girls alone and Boys Alone social experiment. Pretty insightful about how different the male and female operate under the same but sep… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 02:26 AM |
| 9 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Bottom line, we have to always protect ourselves rather than ever rely on the better nature of others. Yes 100%. I have learned to speed walk so fast due to coming home late, travelling alone its become my normal speed- my friends are always telling me to chill. Like im running away from a ghost lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 02:10 AM |
| 3 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Are some of the different fears, still other men? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Np. I updated my OP with the comments I was basing it off of now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 01:57 AM |
| 7 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.What I think you’re saying is that men perpetuate the idea that other/non-them men are unsafe more than feminism?. The thread before was speaking of women being touched, gropped, inappropiately and using that as false rape claims. His rebuttle was to say I’ve been touched/groped by women who I didn’t want touching me, as have most men I’ve known. And the same is true for women—virtually all of them have some experience being subjected to overly amorous advances that weren’t welcomed. But you kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Men warn women about male perpetrators just as much if not more, than women. Unlike Feminism, it is just normalized.Exactly. Some men wonder why women are threatened, sometimes scared or "over react" when all we were taught were boys are dangerous. (Which I also think connects to TRP and their only 20% of males being alpha false) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/18 01:36 AM |
| 4 | Is hypergamy a real thing? Or is it made up by redpillers who don’t know how to maintain a long term relationship?Im very confused by this. Men aren't 100% loyal. If a man feels he is being used eg. Money, or his wife/gf put on too much weight and doesn't want to lose it bc she feels "you should love me no matter what size". If he feels he is no longer getting anything out the relationship, wont he "branch" swing too ? Or at the very least, just cheat? And is cheating a form of brand swinging to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/09/18 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.And again. If ur speaking of FWB relationships or "dating"; those aren't LTR and shouldnt be included. Those people wouldn't ur be "ex's" they would be a girls you hung out with and got to know for a little bit. Goodbye. Im done repeating myself now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 03:09 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Well you're an idiot if you cant find the difference between your ex gf and a ONS. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Nah because everything your responding to me is just saying that you have little no experience in the dating world. So you're saying what me and bf, and bf's and friends and their man has talked about is false? Gtfo. My friend is married and what she knows about her husband is that he was married before, dating around and probably had a few ONS. Does she give a fuck about anything else but the marriage? No. My bf has probably fucked many girls, do I care? No. Did i ask how many? No. We talked ab… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.No they are two different things. Which is why you'll find women asking you details about your ex. So she could probably try and see what she looked like, compare herself to her, feel insecure if ur gf was hotter, etc. How she was with ur family and what not. Not how hot/nice/ your hook up was. And that would probably say alot about you, in terms of relationships If ur speaking of FWB relationships or "dating"; those aren't LTR and shouldnt be included. Those people wouldn't ur be "ex's" they wo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.The funniest part apart that statement is after speaking to grown men irl as relationships gradually unfold, i asked them about this, brothers, uncles, co workers and they laughed. Some said"Boys ask about that, who gives a fuck? Shes treating me good, not cheating on me? Who care" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:20 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Yes it does. But if you chose not to read and speak about the specifics I talked about, you can stop replying. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:15 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.No past LOVERS. There is a difference. I dont give a fuck about who my bf fucked as ONS or how many he fucked. People asking about N count are asking a specific question to get an answer. Asking about past relationships as in LOVERS are different; i want to know how many LTR he has had; because 10 ONS are VERY different than 10 LTR as he has invested himself emotionally in 10 people. Told 10 people he loved them and so on. Nott to figure out how many women he slept with. I want to know how he ac… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:11 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.You're comparing two different things. Guys and girls can be and usually are insecure about past lovers. Of course they would be asking... you're in the same criteria hence holding the same place in their life. ONS are not comparable to relationships. Again, if both will be thinking she will be comparing him to a drunken hook up they had years ago. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:30 AM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Scenerio doesnt happen? Lmao, youre not experienced enough to continue this conversation with me. Because to mens own admission they ask when "starting to get more committed" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Are you actually stupid? I said "it was wrong to say that only males ask NOT females" as you tried to point out that not only males ask the question but females do too. Dont try this bull shit on me. It won't work. Im speaking on the female side of things of men asking a woman and the interpetation of the conversation. Its common sense that both ppl ask this question, more so males though which is why its more of a male targeted question. Literally have to spell everything out. We are done here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Your OP says nothing about the man engaging in casual sex and then asking the women if she herself does or has. It merely says n count. Most of the N count questions come after they already slept together and been on dates. Leaving the woman to feel like she just jumped in bed with a guy who has certain values of sex, notched up her own count to now possibly get dumped. How do you think she let you in her bed in the first place? By being a prude to every single man but you? No label. Casual sex.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 01:02 AM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Homie... you didnt dismantle anything. You repeated your point again and again bitching about it. Men who feel the need to ask about n count in the first place either 1. Hold core views about sex but also apply to themselves. 2. Men who are upset that women have reached numbers want to but can't so they shame it. It comes from an insecurity. If he is going to have casual sex but shame women from the same, your weak and are constanly comparing youself to her past lays. The only men who have ever … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 12:46 AM |
| 0 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Why would I be insecure LMAO. 8. And I have never lied or withheld that and my dating life has been just fine. So yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Nah but you dont seem to be pointing out any premises of my OP other than bitching about me to stop complaining. And its useless bringing it up to you if that will always be ur come back. So again, specify my op or shut up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/18 12:21 AM |
| 1 | Q4All - Should women have a lower n count than men. If so, why?Right!! Most men in my real life whether it be fathers, brothers, uncles, cousins, friends... are playing girls, taking virginities, having sex. Completely owning the sex game. I wonder what these people on RP look like bc i know im not surrounded by the "20%" of men my entire life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.If those 5 he accumlated were relationships, fine. If the 5 were ONS, maybe he just couldnt get 45 more girls to sleep with him. If he could, Im sure he would. As soon as you engage in ONS more than once your views are still liberal on it, it boils down how often you can get it. Which we all know for some is a problem and they are in rage fit because of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 11:05 PM |
| 0 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Go figure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 11:01 PM |
| 0 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Whats yours? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 10:59 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.You don't engage in casual sex, so its not like you are asking this question after you already slept with her. Did you read my OP ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.he title already let's you know it was written by an upset woman. N count probably higher than most basketball games. Shaming will not work, and none of us give a fuck. No argument so shame shame shame, like a child. Can I not speak objectively in things that don't neccesarily relate to me ? I dont have a "High N count" , child. So not im not upset or bitter. This is engrained in men since birth, I felt this way long before RP, and so did every guy I ever met. Slut: Yah trying to smash outward p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 07:32 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.A man asking a woman her count - while she shows no visual display of being a hoe and disregarding her bc he found out something that shakes his "secure manhood' and not calling it insecure is also pathetic. So i hope ur arguing for both sides not just the one. But probably not. Are u done? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 07:02 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Lets me rephrase; if men want to bash women about casual sex, who di it and ADVOCATE it themselves do it. Don't be surprised when majority of you end up alone bootycalling at 45. If thats what you want, then there u go. Funny though t all ya'll pushing the narrative of women being LTR or Plate material based on her count - if she does that there are consequences to her so she if she doesnt want the consequences don't to "x y z" and reach your goals of becoming a wife. Thats not telling women wha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 06:50 PM |
| 0 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.You sound hella scarborough LOL its funny - if ur not dont get offended. Actually ur name is OVO so i might be right. Do you actually ask a girl how many people she been with? And if u do is it out of curiosity or legit black/white, LTR scale or nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.I didnt say: MEN, YOU CAN DO THIS MEN; YOU CANT DO THIS Im explaining the underlying reaction and thought process for some women when they do it. The X, Y, Z after the A B C. That they probably don't think about and from my own experience grown, attractive men do not even need to ask the question. I think ur misinterpeting and maybe invisionary and sorry the the generals here but a crack head, skinny, dirty looking woman, who still smokes and drinks and everyone knows she is town bike - and expe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 06:29 PM |
| 0 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.The women who I like to date want to know that the man who they are dating is low N too because it's an indication that he takes long-term relationships seriously. Long term relationship seriousness dont correlate to how people are in relationships. If she cheated with a bunch of ONS during her relationship then of course but I will never get this premise. If the past comes up about ONS okay, again its uncomfortable to be asking that after you already had sex with her as casual sex. And if a pas… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Oh god. So many. And yeah its true. Men who are bitter about the past, men who are upset that a woman will be wanted no matter what her past is by someone, men who are mad that women have that sexual power they want and mad at men, who were born actual men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 06:08 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.These women are cunt sluts who don’t want to accept responsibility for their actions. You're angry. How were your 20's in dating? Serious question you sound hurt. Almost like a feminist. They know high value men don’t want to commit to them. They know their only value is as wet holes for high value men to dump fucks into. People are angry because most did or do end up commiting to them but got burned by some. At the end of the day, no matter an N count a woman she will be able to get someone to … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Assuming that in aiming this post at myself. Im a relationship for the past few years now, sex on demand, i dont need to worry about dating. Are you? No. A grown ass man will absolutely ask those questions. Not only are grown ass men capable of being insecure, but men who refuse to date whores are not necessarily insecure. Few will, who probably weren't succussful in dating to begin with, but most won't bc they realize there are bigger issues at hand. Everybody lives life. Grown ass men understa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Thanks and Trust me LOL I dont even think they read the entire post. Attack mode as soon as they N count and insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Past relationship behaviours are good indicators of present/future ones. Past single behaviours have nothing to do with a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.You seem be hella defensive LOL Do you not read? Men can bash women for their count, as long as they arent trying to use casual sex to get her then be dismissive her bc she has too much casual sex. Like I said A grown as man will not be asking those questions; if they do they will be broadcasting their inexperience onto the woman. He doesnt need a checklist. The older you get the truer this statement reveals truth. He can get the women he wants that wants him even more or equally, so no matter h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:36 PM |
| 0 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.No we do get to judge eachother hence - CMV flair. These men, to me are insecure guys who were unable to get sex and are envious when they find out a woman was able to without having to work as hard. A grown as men will not be asking those questions. And like I said; if they do they will be broadcasting their inexperience onto the woman. The older you get the truer this statement reveals truth. He can get the women he wants that wants him even more or equally, so no matter her past if she wants … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:30 PM |
| 2 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.You could be a reasonably content as a single person, but you won’t be happier than a loving couple in a stable and happy marriage. Humans have always been together in a community and family as we are social creatures. Changing that narrative is unhealthy and dangerous 1000%. Which is why i stated This simple question, in context is enough to let a woman know who is low quality though men believe the opposite is true. The older you get the truer this statement reveals truth. I think alot of youn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:18 PM |
| -4 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.Men can judge women on any criteria they want. It doesn’t matter what women think or feel about it. Thats great for you males. But there is a difference between a man and a boy and women see that. The question first off is coming from insecurity if you dont believe that, there is nothing left to talk about bc its facts. UNLESS he grew up in a religious household and holds the same regards to women that he has for himself. If you're running around advocating men to "try before you buy" as that is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Reality of N count; Most women lie. Men don't ask, boys do.You can find a smart, goodlooking successful woman with a count higher than you'd like with a stable life, still wanting to fuck you like you were her first and only. Rebuttable to the mens, whos rebuttable do not like a womans N count being high bc he feels as though she is giving him star fish sex, while others got pornstar. However, if you believe that I shoudn't be nexting a girl because she's had too much sex, we are still at odds. I believe that if youre going to have casual sex in order t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/18 05:01 PM |
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