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Depending on where OP lives this is not the move. I’ve known guys who had video proof of DV towards them and the police still tried arresting the guy.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 01:43 AM
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Everyone starts somewhere bro. You have to live with yourself so remember to not tear yourself down all the time. Taking accountability is okay. That being said it sounds like you need to realize you need money to survive in this world. Pick a path that has some interest to you/a vision of the future you could realize - this will keep you going when things get difficult. Then just do the plan, learn something new every day, and you will start to know what you’re actually good at/interested in. H…
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 12:42 PM
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You did nothing wrong. You’re trying to improve yourself and figured a self help book might provide some advice, and you wanted to read on your break time. However, in the future I’d recommend covering up the cover of anything non-work related while at work. Just gotta CYA…cover your ass
/r/MensRights21/11/22 02:53 PM
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Children, not marriage. Having kids outside of being married complicates things
/r/MensRights21/11/22 12:36 AM
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I’m not telling you what you should do nor am I saying marriage is a mistake. All I’m bringing is a perspective of someone a little older than you that has happened to watch divorces destroy people around me. However, my parents never divorced. I would like to have a relationship like that. I really, really do! I want to have kids, legacy, some sort of fucking MEANING for this existence I am putting so much effort towards. It’s just a calculated risk because the stakes are high.
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:10 PM
5

To be entirely honest…if I marry it will be after I have significant assets that I can lock away into a prenup, and only for the simplicity when it comes to children and legally passing down my assets to their estate. The tax benefit would be nice but it’s not big enough to warrant the risk. If the only thing I’d be on the hook for was some sort of child support…then yeah maybe marriage wouldn’t be that big of a financial risk. Losing half of everything I worked for? There’s absolutely no way a …
/r/MensRights20/11/22 09:03 PM
17

You can only make this decision. I wouldn’t get married at 21 years old because you’re barely an adult at that age. People tend to change due to life experiences between 19-25 in my experience. I almost got married a couple years ago because my gf was pressuring me to do it. Made me think a lot about why and what benefit does it have for me. Most men where I work are divorced and miserable. Kind of made me think that just because I found a girl who says she won’t divorce me later on means they d…
/r/MensRights20/11/22 08:50 PM
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OP I think your perspective is skewed and cynical because this post sounds like an “anger phase epiphany better post on TRP”. We’re animals at the basic level. Darwinism says the fittest survive and pass their genes on. This is not 100% true for humanity- we beat nature at its own rules. The only one we haven’t beaten is death. TRP recognizes this and applies it to the modern world where the top percent of men have access to the majority of women. IMO this is basic sidebar content. Yes mens righ…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 02:01 AM
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Could this be more attributed to the inherent advantage divorcee women have with the state? Most guys know how bad of a situation it is to get divorced and from what I’ve seen they’d rather submit and endure long term pain ran ruin themselves financially.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/22 01:28 AM
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You lost me at “she asks what your name is” Other than some obvious points others made…decent thread for the clueless
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 07:36 PM
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You sound young and new to the work place. Many people have commented to not do anything with her, and I want to reiterate that. Be respectful and helpful when you can be, you don’t owe anyone more than that at work. Mind what you say and how you behave around her, learn when to shut up and disengage at work.
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 10:16 PM
1

If it was a date why didn’t you make a move to show romantic interest?
/r/TheRedPill04/11/22 07:08 PM
3

You’re right about patience and opportunity, however if your advice is to save money now then my friend it’s too late for that. Look to the future and plan for that, at least one year in advance.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/22 11:38 PM
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A couple thoughts on your post my friend. If you feel like paying for a meal, or a date, and have the means to then do it. Don’t go on a date with a girl that is expecting you to have to pay…this is the difference. Girls that expect you to pay are 99 chance entitled and 1% chance very old school stay-at-home mom type. If you want a stay at home mother for your children you’re gonna be paying for many things by yourself. Second point is good. On your third point - I’d say this is personal prefere…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/22 07:37 PM
4

Good job on your efforts. One thing I’d like to share is learning how to have a conversation is infinitely better than using pre memorized pickup lines.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/22 06:43 PM
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Back in the IRC days one of the veteran members reccomended “yeah there’s a list of names on a post it note somewhere if you can find it”
/r/TheRedPill05/08/21 12:09 PM
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Unsure how to describe the feeling but simultaneously having high T and extremely high estrogen was difficult. It’s just an example that everyone will have a different reaction and that also needs to be considered. And since this is relatively new treatment (I.e. heavily privatized by clinics as most other drs won’t touch TRT) your results may vary depending on the doctor and their experience prescribing protocols.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 02:06 PM
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I can confirm through my own anecdotal experience having a high T level via therapeutic replacement is not the perfect end-all be-all solution to your problems. Hormones matter but at the end of the day it’s about your personality and framing.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/21 11:13 AM
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Makes sense. I learned being risk averse the hard way buying options. Still learning the selling side, managing risk and having skin in the game. The helium thing seems extremely attractive, although I don’t understand it fully.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/21 10:10 PM
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She sounds like the modern bitter woman. Sorry bro that you’re dealing with this. I’d weigh the options like 319skew said, also hire a lawyer and hash out an exit plan. Best of luck. Please share your experiences going forward for us younger guys to learn.
/r/askTRP17/06/21 08:53 PM
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The only things you have to do are pay taxes and die. Everything else is pretty much optional.
/r/askTRP14/06/21 09:49 PM
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I’d just take a step back and let her approach you at this point. Seems like a lot of hot and cold for no reason.
/r/askTRP13/06/21 03:41 PM
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An opportunist!
/r/askTRP11/06/21 02:12 AM
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You’re stressing too much over a girl. It’s just the hormones dude you’ll be fine
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:20 AM
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You sound young. It’s normal to get attached to the first one. You’ll figure it out though.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:09 AM
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It doesn’t make financial sense to pay for a degree to get a job that will bring you less money. Maybe in a few years you’ll be thinking “damn it I shouldn’t have done that”. Who knows, maybe you could start your own company with the new degree and make some sort of financial sense. Can’t you just do PMC work driving trucks? I don’t know for certain but maybe you can as a civilian.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 09:06 AM
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Insulin needles and test E are the combo, afaik it’s because test e is a short Esther. Also recommending 120mg/wk test C is not good advice without knowing the dudes bloodwork.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:08 PM
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Using insulin needles and test-C? 120mg/wk test C? Bro.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:04 PM
2

OP claimed to have done it, however given his post context I doubt it. There’s no reason a 20 y/o should be hopping on TRT
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:03 PM
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Set the date up in person when you get the number
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:05 AM
2

What’re the numbers?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:50 AM
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Go get bloodwork done.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:48 AM
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You’re doing it for the wrong reasons. Just because you saw some MPMD vids doesn’t mean you’re automatically someone who needs therapeutic replacement of your hormones. You’re not even done growing! You don’t stop until 25 IIRC. You have zero reason to replace your hormones. No doctor would prescribe it to you given your “I want more outta my entrepreneurship”. Just shut up! You sound like someone who hops on a blast after lifting for a month thinking you maxed out natty gains. Btw I’m not a doc…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 07:06 AM
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You’re missing out
/r/askTRP03/06/21 06:15 PM
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You don’t have to be an asshole to deliver tingles. Just have to be manly, and sometimes that means you must be assertive.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/06/21 06:13 PM
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It depends on the field, job location, and employer. For instance a good geotech hired on by a drilling company in the middle of nowhere Midwest USA can prolly pull 200k. But a mech E In your average city will clear 65-70k. On average you will spend over 100k for your education for engineering.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:49 AM
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I disagree the amount of pay you will get (except for fields like chem/petro/geo) isn’t worth the price of admission.
/r/askTRP02/06/21 09:35 AM
2

Muscles and masculine physical features are primarily “sexual organs” when viewed by females. Women view this the same as how men view female features.
/r/askTRP30/05/21 11:30 PM
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If you enjoy shoulder pats then stay
/r/askTRP24/05/21 02:40 AM
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It happens sometimes. She probably got in her feels during the make out and remembered her ex. Or something else...it doesn’t matter good job on not making it a bigger issue than what it was.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:11 AM
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Dude just leave the apartment
/r/MensRights23/05/21 12:53 PM
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Swallow the pride and move out. Deal with the legal matters with the police, landlord, etc. But move out for yourself.
/r/MensRights23/05/21 08:41 AM
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Just be cool
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:53 AM
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IMO the time to set up the date is when you get her number not after. Better luck next time if this strikes out. If she’s a shy girl offer another date and see what happens, if she seems pretty confident don’t offer another date and see what happens.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 07:52 AM
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Facts. Thanks
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:23 AM
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What’s so scary about a woman? I don’t get what I should be afraid of
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:23 AM
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I’m not in college
/r/askTRP17/05/21 03:22 AM
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This might be depression or something else. I had the same feelings and outlook, but more or less I caused my situations. Anyways, I got my hormone levels checked...I’d recommend you do the same through a urologist. I’m not a doctor but I see a lot of the same symptoms based off your post that I had, and somewhat still have. The good thing is you’re taking action and actively trying to solve your problems. So even if your hormones are fine then that’s one definitive answer to what isn’t causing …
/r/askTRP14/05/21 11:04 AM
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That’s good. Just give it time, make some gains, and you’ll have plenty of options to choose from.
/r/askTRP10/05/21 04:23 PM
1

Maybe it isn’t for some but OP doesn’t sound like he’s going through a DR and therefore may be getting sub optimal results or superficial ones
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:56 AM
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Man I don’t think that adds up. Of course HCG is going to feel amazing but that’s not a good indicator that you need TRT. It would probably make a normal T male feel great too. Your hormone panel will show your levels and your symptoms should be taken into account as well before deciding if you need TRT or not. Keep in mind I am not a doctor nor is this professional advice, I’m just a dude trying to help you along the path of getting what you need if you need it. Go see a urologist or endocrinol…
/r/askTRP30/04/21 03:32 AM
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HCG should be used for making you fertile while on TRT, are you doing this UGL or through a doc? If it’s through a doc you should consider other options because that’s a shit protocol
/r/askTRP29/04/21 04:29 PM
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This isn’t dread, this is stupid. She will see right through you. Dread is something that happens passively. The minute you try to do it actively is when it becomes manipulative. Sounds like you have other things you should spend your energy on to get the results you want.
/r/askTRP29/04/21 01:11 PM
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If she wanna talk she can call too, the phone works both ways bud. Good move on setting the date up, that’s when you should be doing the talking and getting to know each other. You’ll kill the vibe by doing that before the date. You don’t need to state that “look I’m not going to pester you constantly for attention”, just be busy doing things you enjoy or have to do.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 08:03 PM
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Women always have mood swings dude. IMO you should have investigated a bit more into the root cause, not everything is an immediate reason to next.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 07:54 PM
1

Sounds like you’re dealing with insecurity. A therapist would suggest finding the root of the insecurity and solving it there.
/r/askTRP26/04/21 04:36 PM
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I had a female roommate once during college. From the get go we communicate about when we are bringing people over etc. Three months in she has a boyfriend. A month later she says he’s staying with her for a while and he’s finding a new place. A month after that it’s apparent he is living with us full time. I ask her “what’s the deal it’s been a month and he’s not contributing to our shared bills”. She says that, and I quote “he’s moving in and we are only paying half the rent”. I laugh my ass o…
/r/askTRP25/04/21 02:57 AM
1

You’re not comfortable enough with yourself to open up.
/r/askTRP24/04/21 08:20 AM
1

Buy an apartment downtown and convert it to a gym and sleep in the closet. Or a townhouse. If you take these I want my cut for this
/r/askTRP20/04/21 01:21 AM
1

Have your feelings get crushed and then realize the issue is coming from inside due to an insecurity.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:13 AM
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For some women it does, the same way some guys prefer big ol titties. People have their preferences, bro. Just accept the reality and be happy with what you have. Given enough women you’re going to find one who believes you’re “the perfect fit” as what you have may fit her preferences.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 12:12 AM
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Don’t overthink it. Also go out and make decisions and come back for analysis...you’ll learn more.
/r/askTRP19/04/21 09:35 AM
1

In general it’s a bad idea to fool around with people at work
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:57 PM
2

She’s not your long term relationship so is it worth the risk of having a kid if the IUD is a lie, or fails?
/r/askTRP17/04/21 06:34 PM
2

Treat them like they’re not a problem
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:04 AM
2

You’ve only just started lifting by doing strong lifts for one month. Keep working out and eating healthy, in three months you’ll notice a slight change. In a year you’ll look completely different. Also, don’t over eat. You will want to think the more you eat the bigger your muscles will grow in response. It doesn’t work this way. It takes a significant amount of time to grow naturally. Aim for 200-300 calories above maintenance and that’s really all you need. Anything in excess will put on too …
/r/askTRP03/04/21 03:29 AM
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No worries because I used to think that eventually 90/10 will happen. Progression toward that seems natural but we all can make a better choice. It all starts with ourselves.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:47 PM
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I disagree. Do you really think if society continues down this path that the quality of available women will improve? Enough is enough. We need higher standards, yesterday. Let the simps be. If they wanted a better outcome they’d compete. The best anyone here in this subreddit can do is improve yourself and improve your surroundings. This relies ZERO on women.
/r/askTRP02/04/21 09:30 PM
1

Get your hormones checked, it could be something that is at suboptimal levels.
/r/askTRP31/03/21 07:32 PM
1

Emotion will fade, habits will stick with you.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 01:46 AM
1

This and not to mention modern movies are more CGI than you’d think
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:58 PM
1

That’s not how dread works. She doesn’t feel dread from you. Dread is the voice in the back of your head saying “don’t do ____ because bindaeduk101 won’t like it”. People around here don’t understand this. They think it’s something that you actively have to try to do, when it’s actually the effect you have based off your personality. By all means go see other women but you need to have this conversation with your LTR or whatever, at least do it for yourself so you can show yourself some self res…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:32 PM
2

OP I think you know the answer and are just hamstering. However, I’ll tell you my two cents. Sack up and tell her you’re not exclusive anymore based off the fact that she is unable to commit to a relationship. She can be your friend but that’s it. By the way she asked for your permission to cuck you. Maybe you have a disease, don’t let it affect your mindset on women!
/r/askTRP28/03/21 05:59 PM
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10% BF is very fucking lean, and very hard to maintain even using drugs. Well the drugs make it easier but still if you get that lean it’s not healthy to stay at for a long time. People have commented this already but 10% BF is not as important as looking lean. Yes, you’ll be fucking diced but the fact is trying to maintain that will drop your test IIRC. Having some body fat, 15% or so, is the normal healthy range for men. As long as you have muscle underneath you’ll still look great. Muscle mas…
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:54 PM
2

If you meet at a party typically it’s easier to hook up since in my experience it’s been that way. If you wait until the next day or after it’s pretty much going to be dead. Strike while the iron is hot. That’s usually when they’re “all over you”....that’s a dead giveaway.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:49 PM
1

Yeah just don’t do anything stupid. Also don’t expect things to change quick it takes time. Seriously stay away from steroids. Take care of your health and you may enjoy the benefits of being a male.
/r/askTRP27/03/21 06:02 PM
1

It’s not dread at that point it would probably be regret or anger
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:15 AM
1

No my friend this is not the way. That is not how dread game even works. If she doesn’t agree to the mutual arrangement then it is over. Who cares about feelings after that?
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:10 AM
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You’re trolling
/r/askTRP27/03/21 01:09 AM
2

The only part I disagree with is the active use of dread. This doesn’t work. In my example I stated that she can either help out or we go separate ways. No dread, just end it. Active dread IMO is manipulative in nature. It’s easier and less time consuming to just drop it and find someone else.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:53 PM
2

Calculations of sex rates? What’s the decay rate on this once you prove how your entire life is calculated
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:47 PM
2

No, you didn’t.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:45 PM
43

Sounds like some pair bonding happening instead of you being her rebound. Just be yourself, you already explained before things happened you’re moving cities
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:57 PM
1

Congratulations, you’re in the same boat that the majority of men are in. However you’re lucky to have learned this at such a young age- you have literal decades of growth ahead of you! So, collect yourself, chill out a bit. You’re going to have a rough time especially before you see any sort of visible, tangible progress. Starting out with self improvement will be the hardest part but will strengthen you mentally. The biggest piece of advice is to take care of your body. You only get one, and y…
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:50 PM
1

Only talk about work with her
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:04 PM
9

“Hey babe it’s been a couple months, we need to talk about rent. Since we are continuing to live together we both need to split the bills. We share the same space, so rent should be split evenly” If she ends up accepting it great, if not then she can move out.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 08:01 PM
1

OP is she of legal age without that license? I really hope so, because now you don’t have a way to actually tell how old they are. Also an hour is a long drive if you have no existing relationship with this person. If you didn’t end up having sex then this seems like a lot of effort to just talk in person
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:05 AM
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This is not the way
/r/askTRP26/03/21 11:03 AM
1

Maybe get your hormone levels checked, you could be suffering from low T.
/r/askTRP25/03/21 11:45 AM
2

You’re fine man just take it one day at a time
/r/askTRP20/03/21 05:34 AM
2

Go on a job board and find something that requires zero skills and get hired. Work smarter, not harder. Gain skills and take advantage of learning opportunities. You probably won’t make a whole lot starting out but as you get skills and confidence branch out to different jobs. Also your parents can’t force you to get married. If they want you to move out then yeah you already stated you could live with roommates. Women will come with time just be in shape and be cool in public. Make friends, etc…
/r/askTRP19/03/21 04:02 AM
1

You’ll never stick to it if you rely on passion. Make it a habit and reach your goals. If you’ve been using the same routine for 6 months then switch something up. Find a routine online that is different than the one you are using right now.
/r/askTRP18/03/21 05:10 AM
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Seems like you are asking “do I LTR her because she needs support?” And only you can answer that question. Seems like you feel empathy towards her situation. If you only want her to be a plate then that’s your choice, if that style of relationship between you two is conducive to both of your lives then why not keep it that way? There is the chance the cancer takes her but that is not your responsibility because you haven’t made it to be. Don’t force the responsibility into yourself if you don’t …
/r/askTRP10/03/21 12:27 PM
1

Everyone struggles with something in life, so in solidarity you have that in common with everyone. You just have to actively try to make your life better.
/r/askTRP07/03/21 10:40 AM
1

I’ve noticed that the more total weight volume lifted the more gains I tend to make in size and 1RM strengtb
/r/TheRedPill25/02/21 04:30 PM
0

I am making my way into it - by doing an unpaid leadership role. I’ve done my part and I want to protect what I’ve been doing thus far. I am in no way saying he has done his job - in fact he has done nothing. You have gotten the same point wrong in two comments.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 03:00 PM
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You’re still repeating it then. Maybe you should find a different place of employment and don’t mess it up so bad the next time and actually DO what the NMMNG book says
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:11 PM
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You’ve got it wrong - the expectation is that we meet with our respective groups and work on projects. I have met with my group and have trained them and gotten our job materials available for them to do their jobs. The other guy has not done his role as lead. We are both leads of our separate groups. I would like to prevent the work my group has done get displayed as his group doing it.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 02:10 PM
1

I agree- I knew they were going to ask me this however the culture where I work is still developing. Hardly any of these individuals have worked in a corporate setting so there’s a huge emphasis on perception. I didn’t want to be seen as someone who is “not a team player” in their eyes.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 01:15 PM
6

Hey read No More Mr Nice Guy. You suffer from nice guy syndrome.
/r/askTRP24/02/21 12:58 PM
6

Your comments resonate with my experiences...I always wondered why the dumb guys got ahead at work. Two weeks ago I just woke up and said “fuck it I’m just gonna ignore the negative side of life”. So far it’s working, trying to use that at work to my advantage
/r/askTRP11/02/21 02:42 PM
1

I did the same... life is definitely more comfortable when you make a lot of money. The rest is up to you though. College is a business transaction, you work hard to get a better job than most. My main piece of advice is yes life is generally better when you don’t have money problems but you will still have problems. Focus on confidence and people skills.
/r/askTRP07/02/21 05:14 PM
1

Leave it to Popps to give the good advice.
/r/askTRP15/01/21 08:44 AM
4

College is a business transaction. You pay to learn skills so a company can hire you. I graduated with like one or two friends that I still talk to a couple years later. 100k starting out? Yeah you’ll be fine. Save up a years income post tax and then splurge some cash on social things. Your outcome independence (I.e. survival) is more important than friends.
/r/askTRP09/01/21 05:23 PM
1

“Hey you’re cute and I want to go on a date with you” Have a couple days in mind and dates.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:11 PM
1

You’re overreacting
/r/askTRP02/01/21 11:02 PM
2

Just get used to being alone, you won’t have to cope if you just accept the situation for what it is and try to live a healthy life.
/r/askTRP02/01/21 12:46 AM
1

Just be cool man. Shouldn’t really affect you that much.
/r/askTRP30/12/20 08:21 AM
3

120k year is good. You mentioned doing online sales. How long will this last for? Imo you should have some savings, and hopefully substantial ones bringing in 120k. If your telling the truth we can relate as far as income and lifestyle go, however I put in lots of hours to get the income so my free time is lower. Expenditures I’d wager were similar- all I do is gym, eat, and play tarkov on my days off with some studying of markets and trading market open/close. Maybe you are lacking a goal? Mine…
/r/askTRP14/12/20 09:34 AM
3

Who cares?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:53 AM
5

Well that sucks. What have you done to improve yourself?
/r/askTRP14/12/20 12:53 AM
1

No they don’t and you’re trying to hamster this. Stop hamstering. Just focus on taking care of your health and improving yourself, that’s more important than any woman ever. You’ve got responsibilities to yourself that come FIRST. You owe that to yourself. Stop hamstering this, I get that you’re hurt. I’ve been there. one of my exes broke up with me. I fucked that relationship up but I thought she was the one. She did this during finals week of my junior year in college. So I tried fucking any w…
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:39 PM
1

Lol she did her nails last minute?
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:32 PM
1

You’ll be fine man. The thing is whatever feelings you had for her, you can have with another woman that is a better fit for you. You said in the beginning she was a full on tinder slut so avoid those in the future for LTR. While I hope that this is obvious now it’s up to you to not do it again. Tinder is not the platform to find a LTR but there is maybe one in a million out there that is a decent girl. I wouldn’t specifically hold out for them though.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 01:30 PM
5

Why’d you even bring up 20:30? You fumbled an easy pass. Would have been better to find out why she’d say she would be late. Some things are acceptable, mostly the ones outside of their control. Anyways if you’re that hung up on a specific time then reschedule it
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:39 AM
5

“Hit up girls from back in the day” that’s your problem. You tried the easy route where you feel comfortable, they probably saw right through you especially if they’re on your social media. Also you’re being very obsessive over both girls and the neediness is coming through just from reading this. Honestly man, take some time for yourself and chill out.
/r/askTRP30/11/20 12:09 AM
-2

Unemployed and trying to go on a holiday during a pandemic...doesn’t sound like a good plan to me man. My recommendation is to not travel and spend some of that money on better food ingredients to cook at home. I’ve been doing that since COVID became a serious issue and my cooking has gotten way better. It’s at the point where I know I can make some things better than restaurant for cheaper. Try doing that. It’s more fulfilling imo
/r/askTRP29/11/20 09:48 PM
6

The lockdown exposed what you’re trying to cover up. There’s no magic sauce, you’ll just eventually get past her and that relationship. Being stuck in your place all day everyday forces you to face that fact. So deal with it, process it.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 06:57 PM
2

I have a similar mindset. Alcohol is like stealing happiness from tomorrow. It’s not that good Of a drug anyways. The good alcohol is also expensive so unless you’re ballin drink it sparingly.
/r/askTRP21/11/20 01:51 PM
-3

What risk category are the people that run the majority of corporations in? Just think about it, and why the virus could affect the place you work at if someone brings it to work.
/r/askTRP20/11/20 12:48 PM
1

Find a different one if you’ve really gotta ask “how do I deal with girl”
/r/askTRP02/11/20 04:53 PM
3

This should be the end of the thread. One thing I want to add is that habits make you or break you.
/r/askTRP02/11/20 01:01 PM
1

Ok then there’s nothing more to it. Get over yourself! You’re doing the exact thing that drove her away from you - being completely dependent on external validation. Make some gains. Yeah you have some “bad feelings” but get over yourself dude.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:32 PM
2

Just focus on what improves your life then and don’t give advice to people who don’t want to help themselves
/r/TheRedPill21/10/20 11:43 AM
5

Just ignore her, the fact that it didn’t work between you two, and lift. You’re in the gym to progress yourself. Stop wasting time. Have some class about it, and move on. I went on a train wreck of a date with the gym counter girl one time. She gave me heavy LMR, and it just didn’t feel right so she left. I saw her almost every day and smiled when I saw her and only said “hello ___, how you doin?”. Not that I cared but it’s better this way.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 11:40 AM
1

This sums it up. The guy who got laid the most where I worked wasn’t the 6’5 guy who was lean jacked from using roids, even though he was cool and confident. It was the 5’6 guy who laughed all the time, was super fun to be around, never worked out other than all the women going home with him. I swear, he had at least 200 women in 2018 alone.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:17 PM
2

In my experience Saturday seemed to have more people going out so yeah if that’s your goal. Just be cool, don’t focus on the girls. Do your job and they’ll shoot their own shot, just be cool about it when they give your their number. They find it hot when you’re focused on being a bouncer, just don’t be super serious 100% of the time. Also, expect to get a lot of flakes if you don’t leave with them. A lot of the time when I got off work at 3 am they were passed out or too drunk for me to want to…
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:52 PM
4

I was a bouncer during college, they’ll more often than not give you their number in any variety of methods. However, the ideal situation is you leave with them after the bar closes. You’ll have to be cool with the bartenders and other staff to do this.
/r/askTRP18/10/20 01:42 AM
2

At least you’re honest about it. However it won’t comfort her. You’re in problem solving mode, not comfort mode. You could just be like “damn I’m sorry that happened to you” and then move on
/r/askTRP15/10/20 12:37 AM
1

Pretty much, OP look for low impulse/ low self control. Looks don’t matter.
/r/askTRP05/09/20 01:14 AM
2

That’s normal it’s withdrawal. The strongest craving will come around 72 hours...if you can replace the smoking with chewing gum it worked for me. Once you’re a week out it’s easy. Not gonna lie but I crave it still from time to time. Nicotine is a weird drug.
/r/askTRP28/08/20 01:26 AM
41

The act of progression in ones life is getting better at a certain metric. Income? Making more this year instead of last year. Financial independence? Having less debt than last year. Fitness? Having an upwards trend in the weights you can lift.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/20 12:21 PM
2

Don’t worry about it. Focus on yourself man, find what makes you happy or fulfilled. Sometimes there different and a guy needs both.
/r/askTRP25/08/20 12:19 PM
1

Went out of state for a niche engineering degree. Kinda liked it at times. Had three internships around the USA, my favorite was at a gold mine. Improved the mine after accidentally shutting the whole goddamn thing down while working on my project. They offered me a fast track 2yr to chief engineer, good salary etc. turned it down to go where my third internship was. All main managers liked me for who I was and my work ethic, they told me I had a job there when I graduated. When I got there they…
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:32 AM
3

When I’m on shift rotation: Wake up, walk the dog, feed myself and the dog, do a 12 hr shift, walk the dog, feed myself and the dog, play some Tarkov for an hour or manage my open trades in the stock market (if I didn’t enter into a trade before going on shift I won’t bother managing it. My work is unpredictable and I don’t need the extra distractions). Take the dog out again and try to get 6hrs sleep. When off shift: coming off nights I hit the gym right when I get off work, then i stay up all …
/r/askTRP23/08/20 08:07 AM
2

Couple things that went wrong- she offered to pay half, let her. Most importantly you never escalated bro
/r/askTRP22/08/20 01:43 PM
1

They might tell you to see a therapist. Don’t get me wrong here...TRP and mental health are not the same thing. Nobody here is a licensed psychotherapist. Go find yourself some mental health support in your area. If you have health insurance they will typically have a list of providers. Find one that uses Telehealth because of the Covid-19 situation.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 07:29 AM
4

Sounds like you may have been handed a different set of tools than I. However, i can share with you what ones I have. Your life is your own. Your parents,family, girlfriend, kids, society...they’re not you nor will they ever be you. Only you can live your life. Look at the journey you’ve taken thus far! You’ve overcome challenges and have faced tests and you’re still breathing. That means you’ve done some things correctly. The choices you’ve made in the past have resulted in the man you are righ…
/r/askTRP21/08/20 03:21 AM
3

Buying a car that’s half of your take home pay while you don’t pay anything in rent is dumb. When you get kicked out and are barely making ends meet between rent, insurance, auto insurance, then you’ll regret getting the flashy car.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 01:16 AM
5

That’s normal to feel like the first was the only, the best, and the last one you’ll ever feel that with. You’ll be happy to hear it’s not like that. Everything felt so strong because it was the first time you’ve experienced that. Give it time and you will feel normal again.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 08:04 AM
2

Had an older TRP guy tell me that if she’s this eager/over the top IMMEDIATELY with you then is she like that with other men? Answer is - probably. Unless you’re her “Brad Pitt”
/r/askTRP04/08/20 11:00 PM
1

No it’s not two different types, it’s one that’s specific for shift work sleep disorder. I work rotating shifts and sometimes have quick turn around...like 50-80hrs day shift then immediately into nights for the same hour range. I think I have ADD but I don’t need meds for that if I stay busy.
/r/askTRP02/08/20 04:03 AM
3

Is it ok to get frustrated? Yes of course. Sometimes you’ll get mad, but that emotion you can control and direct. I’ve learned that life is easier when you accept responsibility for everything that happens in your life. For instance if a girl does X that you don’t like, well it was your fault for bringing her into your life. Then it’s easier to remove your bad decisions because it’s no longer their responsibility to make good decisions for you.
/r/askTRP31/07/20 10:45 AM
6

Genetics certainly help but even if you’re born with bad/unaesthetic genetics you can still become attractive
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:44 PM
25

Outward game comes from inner game. The way you outward carry yourself reflects who you are in the inside. However, physical features for a man that women find attractive are having visible and tangible muscle, low body fat (basically don’t be fat and have muscles. Groom yourself- neat haircut, maintain your facial hair, pluck your damn nose hair, wear deodorant...etc
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:43 PM
2

If you don’t want the relationship then break up ASAP. If you do, but don’t want kids/marriage/etc that’s fine just tell her these things when she inevitably brings them up. If that’s a deal breaker for her then she can leave I guess since both people need to be on the same page for that. Hold your ground when you tell her no to kids/marriage/etc until you are ready. Also don’t buy a house together. Use zero money of hers as well. This should be obvious for your own protection but many guys are …
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:40 PM
6

Yes but ask yourself why do you want this woman specifically?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:36 PM
1

If you’re starting young then that’s good you’ve got more time to make gains. The most sustainable way to make gains and keep them is to do it slowly. Figure out your maintenance calories are. You said you hated counting them...well friend you need to. You’re looking for a quick fix and you won’t get that naturally. Go the long term route and just ride it out. Eat a few hundred calories over the maintenance amount. Otherwise you’ll go through long cycles of being hefty and then leaning out losin…
/r/askTRP05/07/20 10:06 PM
2

Yes but who’s to say she won’t lie? Especially if you’re seeing a stranger. Just because you have a talk with them doesn’t mean anything. The point you’re missing is that if you want to avoid having kids wrap it before you tap it. If you want to have raw sex then find a girl you can trust and make sure she’s on the pill. Even then there’s only like a two week period per month where you can bust inside without getting her pregnant. Or, if she gets an implant you can have up to 5 years of no pregn…
/r/askTRP23/06/20 03:16 PM
1

I’ve taken three v cards and one of them lost interest. I went crazy over her and it killed her interest to the point me moving for an internship broke us up. It happens but don’t get caught up thinking you can only be with a virgin for a stable relationship. Low N count girls are probably better, especially if they have been with low quality men. Those dudes leave a bitter taste in their mind and if you’re high quality you’re THAT much better
/r/askTRP08/06/20 06:55 PM
1

You don’t unless you need to lol otherwise it’s a whiny threat from a weakling
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:09 PM
1

Sounds like you were too excited and overstimulated causing your body to shut down. Want some good news? This happens at least once to most men. In order to not have it happen again you need to relax and not get so hyped up. The way you described this girl it seems that you put a significant amount of pressure on yourself to perform. Instead, don’t take it as a performance. You will quickly lose a lot of the pleasure sex has if you only treat yourself as a performer in a game.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:07 PM
2

You shouldn’t interact with someone from your past. Move on.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:03 PM
1

Donate groceries to a food kitchen
/r/askTRP22/05/20 05:01 PM
2

The only thing that will save you is hard work. Read my comment above OP
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:53 AM
2

I’m in my mid twenties and have been in a three year ltr which I don’t plan on rushing into marriage unlike many of my retarded peers who married fresh out of college. Why? Well, first of all, committing to someone when you’re still learning who YOU are is not a good idea. Especially when you combine incomes and half of your shit is now hers, forever. You have no assets out of college, only debt. So congrats to them? Imho you’ll be MUCH better off if you take the next 5 years investing into your…
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:52 AM
2

Bring her over, ask for her interpretation of what happened and manage her feels. She’s probably worried you’d like the other girl more which is both normal and good for you. Manage the comfort test. Which is all that was, and you bombed it. Expect the next one to be harder. If you do it right you’ll have a three way in no time by her suggestion.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 04:30 AM
1

Do you still want her?
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:48 AM
6

OP will probably get shot by an angry ex-bf if he keeps this up
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:48 AM
6

When a girl backpedals due to hamster overload she’s looking for comfort. Kicking her to the curb during that is harsh.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:46 AM
10

Probably shouldn’t have brought up having sex with the third girl during sex with your girl. Logistics are not sexy. That communication is your fault not hers, you sent her hamster into overdrive during sex. What did you expect? IMO blaming her reaction on her is not a good idea but if everything is over then don’t even respond. It will make you look worse in the long run when she talks about this in her friend group.
/r/askTRP21/05/20 03:40 AM
2

Learn how to do technical analysis if you want to pick and choose. Find your own strategy too, trading is a zero sum game.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 11:00 PM
3

Poor diet has caused him to have low T, poor math skills, bad sleep schedule. Teeth issues now.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 09:38 AM
3

Look man. I’ve got an older sibling that has smoked daily for over a decade. That habit created so many other negative habits that he has significant health problems occurring. It’s usually not the weed that will be a guys downfall it’s the habits associated with getting high all the time. You do you.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 07:59 AM
10

If you’re smoking weed recreationally it doesn’t really add value to your life which is why your dad is telling you to grow up. You’re 21 and calling your parents house a crib? Are you trying to just be cool? Your father wants you to have better for yourself, which requires work. Now if you had chronic pain then yeah weed adds to your life otherwise it’s going to distract you from building healthy habits and growing as a man. So yea listen to your dad. You don’t need me to tell you this. You’re …
/r/askTRP19/05/20 06:49 AM
12

Investing in yourself should start with 6 months income saved at a minimum before even thinking of stocks.
/r/askTRP19/05/20 05:52 AM
1

I never got straight up cash but received gifts and meals lol
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:17 AM
1

It’s both parties thinking they’re taking advantage of the other when really you’re just a whore lol I received gifts that at the time I couldn’t afford. She also took me out to eat which as a poor college guy I appreciated. She even tried convincing me to let her fly me across the country for weekend trips to fuck her when she moved to a different state due to work. I declined and quickly terminated our relationship because she got super clingy.
/r/askTRP15/05/20 04:15 AM
10

Had a sugar momma for a while. Don’t wanna know her body count but she was the most experienced in bed I have ever been with. She was 40 something.
/r/askTRP14/05/20 07:44 PM
3

Close but still no. Reread the sidebar. Your SMV must always be higher or at least the same level in the looks department. We can assume this isn’t the case with OP and his girl felt it was okay to let herself go.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 06:26 AM
11

No. You can not negotiate attraction. I have been in OPs situation before and had the exact same response as he did. It was only after I looked in the mirror and saw a flabby man looking back. She will only care enough to keep you from going to other options. So if OP isn’t Adonis himself don’t expect his woman to want to be on his level.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:08 AM
0

Look in the mirror and ask yourself if she needs to be fit enough to keep you from fucking other women. 8/10 times it’s you not being high enough on the food chain for your woman to care about her appearance.
/r/askTRP05/05/20 02:05 AM
9

What keeps me going is the dream to have enough money to fuck off from society. Nice boat to cruise wherever and pay people to cook on it. Fish all day every day.
/r/askTRP04/05/20 09:03 AM
1

There will be more later, and if you truly can’t find any pick up a wrench somewhere
/r/askTRP04/05/20 07:22 AM
7

Oh well move on
/r/askTRP04/05/20 06:00 AM
8

While I’m not passionate about my job I guess I could be considered by others to be successful money wise. I was passionate about my engineering degree. Had 3 successful internships under my belt and a few job offers, fast track to chief engineer at a gold mine. I decided to not do that because I asked around what production roles pay. Those pay more so I got my managers to like me when I was an intern, busted ass as an intern doing a lot outside my job role when my boss was preoccupied with his…
/r/askTRP04/05/20 03:18 AM
4

You’ll learn less off this one woman versus trying to interact and get laid with others tbh. Go try things, don’t do anything illegal, come back to asktrp with field reports for help with analysis
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:56 AM
1

Ask yourself if you really need to care about this. Look, man, all you need to do going forward if you run into this specific individual is to decline their advances.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:31 AM
3

Maybe he did but ask yourself if you should care. She’s going to do whatever she wants to do simply because she wants to do it. You have no control over that.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:28 AM
4

The alternative is to not give a shit and invite other women who want your time and attention.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 02:12 AM
28

IMO punishment is only for a BDSM environment or if you’re in a serious relationship. In all honesty why should OP, or anyone who spins plates, care? That’s why you spin plates to begin with! There’s no commitment, no emotional investment required. The fuck is the girl going to care about “punishment”? She’ll view OP as butthurt like you said.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:02 AM
3

Don’t give a shit that’s why you spin plates. You don’t own her why try a “punishment”? If she wants to hang, cool. If she doesn’t, cool. Just be cool man you care too much to spin this.
/r/askTRP03/05/20 12:00 AM
12

OP could go with this or just not give a shit
/r/askTRP02/05/20 11:58 PM
1

Exactly. It’s harder to steal a thousand dollar suit custom made than a thousand dollar watch. Seriously. Save some money, in the summer before senior year get a custom suit with a few different shirts and ties, pocket squares, maybe two pairs of shoes. Did this and had multiple women ask me if I was a suit model. Majority of men just get whatever’s on the rack and it looks sloppy.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 02:06 PM
12

Dressing well shows you care about yourself and sets the standard for how you want to present yourself. Just don’t be too flashy. It’s cool to have money but if you’re flaunting it you’ll attract the wrong type of attention. You never want to appear more successful than you really are. It’s a fine balance that comes with time.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:18 AM
2

Combine this with your local socio economic conditions and it can be really clear to women who want to date who they go after. I live in one of the poorest states. The high paying jobs eclipse anything else available and not many are available to most men. Takes either a man with good genes who “gets it” or someone who busted ass to earn the skills. Typically higher status women find their way to these types of guys.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:04 AM
1

Honestly OP just has more important things to worry about. My motto has been focus on how I will feed myself tomorrow, today. This will set you up for success in life.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 11:46 AM
10

Live your life, don’t do anything illegal, learn. More importantly what are your current career plans after highschool? Focus on things like that.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:54 AM
1

I updated my post please give it a look. If it’s all about numbers then bring them up to the woman you’re about to fuck and see how fast they run away. Forget the over planning bs. If you’re around numbers all day why bring them into something that’s supposed to be fun I.e. dating? Yeah having a plan going into a date sets you immediately apart from MOST men. Congrats on getting that much right. The part you’re forgetting is not being a rigid robot and have fun. Having a loose plan for a date is…
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:37 AM
2

That’s weird that you are keeping track. Stop over thinking and over planning. Just go say “ hey I think you’re cute and want to go on a date”. Worked a lot for me but never kept track. Also friends are nice but your priority in life is yourself. You’ll be more comfortable 5 or 10 years from now making 3x the median wage with maybe one friend than a guy who wasted his twenties partying with tons of buddies who makes slightly above minimum wage. Getting a better job is vague. It’s like “I want a …
/r/askTRP19/04/20 03:20 AM
1

TRP has gotten me this far in life. The OG people that is. Their advice has always been “lift, pick something and grind hard.” Figured it could help me push further. There’s a few really good people in this community that you should listen to. These OG’s have money, looks, status, and are willing to help people who want to help themselves. Stick around. Or at least find the IRC channel if it still exists.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 06:24 PM
1

I doubt interest rates will go up very much. Yes the amount of people able to qualify will be much less but that “pool” will be limited.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:14 PM
-1

Certainly, the man has lived through multiple recessions and was raised by my great-grandfather who made it very well through the Great Depression. He’s pretty good when it comes to financial life advice. I’d say about 80% of the time the old man is right.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 03:12 PM
6

I can make another down payment. It seems like I’m wasting potential growth.
/r/askTRP16/04/20 12:57 PM
15

Look man if you’re identifying someone who long term won’t give you the things you’re looking for then don’t force the relationship
/r/askTRP09/04/20 11:46 AM
1

I think he’s trying to do it for the benefit of his son. A 13 y/o won’t understand that “my dad can’t be nice to my friend because he doesn’t want to talk to her mom”
/r/askTRP08/04/20 07:06 PM
5

Rule one means that if you are more well put together than the other person then you won’t have to rely on them. I.e. You make 100k/yr with little debt and only pay 20% of your income to bills. How likely are you to rely on your gf in this scenario? I.e.2 you’re in the 1000lb club. How likely are you to rely on your gf to open a stuck jar of mayonnaise? Any way you slice it you have to be better.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 03:19 PM
3

Go fishing
/r/askTRP03/04/20 09:24 PM
15

What’s working for me is cooking everything. If I need bread tomorrow I’ll bake it today. If I want burgers two days from now I’ll figure out how to make a good recipe tomorrow. I’m eating ramen for lunch with seasoned eggs I made two days ago. I can cook well enough to survive but i want to get better using this blessing in disguise. Not sure how good of a chef you are but doing every step on even just one meal will help break the monotony and keep you sharp.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 12:14 PM
1

Live your life bud. Don’t rely on TRP to live it for you. If this is your first relationship don’t even worry about TRP and how it relates to your relationship. With all due respect you’re too young to get a lot of it. Do what comes naturally and when things go awry ask for analysis.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:40 PM
4

“Just lift bro” helps people who haven’t committed to any sort of goal in their life. It is also valid for men who lack a lot of confidence. Life gets easier the more fit you are, and if you’re overweight then you will work harder and appreciate the gains more.
/r/askTRP19/03/20 08:54 PM
1

Dude what are you on about? This is nothing chill out. How could you rationalize breaking up over a heart react on a puppy pic? Option 1 is blue pill mate guarding at its core
/r/askTRP18/03/20 06:58 AM
1

I had saved money for an event like this
/r/askTRP17/03/20 05:17 AM
1

Read Reminiscenses of a stock operator. I’m on my third read through. Helped me actually profit off this decline.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 09:47 PM
1

My go-to date is pretending to be a tourist with a girl. It’s very open ended. Try this next time, it will help if you have trouble planning a date. I.e. her:”what’s next?” You:”hey let’s check out___ or let’s walk to ___” and hit the common tourist spots. Just get in the mindset that it’s all new to the both of you. Bonus points if y’all make up fake backstories and convince other people that you really are, in fact, tourists.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:21 AM
1

If you can’t get laid then the issue is not what date you chose to go on
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:18 AM
1

All depends on how you frame the date. When I was in college I’d always meet up and window shop. If you’re fun enough it will be fun.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 08:24 PM
1

My job has a lot of reasons why I should like it, but I feel like I’m not contributing as much as I can. I’ve got a lot I can offer and a lot I can give to society but with my current role I cannot. I’m doing it to save money so I can become a full time trader instead of part time. Ideally I’d trade some of the year and pursue my real interests with the rest of the year. I was pursuing research in college but didn’t want my Intellect property to be owned by whoever paid for the research. Said fu…
/r/askTRP07/03/20 02:52 AM
1

Because it’s not face to face, duh
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:18 AM
1

This guy is right
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:16 AM
1

Well you definitely lost your shit at the drop of the hat. That’s not cool. You also spent zero time learning the motives or reason behind such an infraction, yet still dealt punishment with complete conviction. That’s not cool either. Shit. Maybe that’s why she texted him if you can’t keep cool about something simple like this.
/r/askTRP02/03/20 08:13 AM
8

Talking won’t save it at this point. It’s likely more happened than just the kiss. Shit doesn’t just happen like this, it’s a conscious decision to put your lips on someone else’s. It’s not about jealousy, control, insecurity, validation etc... Somewhere OP messed up and is looking for help on where, which is why he posted in askTRP. If your girl truly loved you and wanted you would she be in the club late at night? Or would she rather be with you at home?
/r/askTRP29/02/20 01:59 PM
3

I think this dude is just confused on basic push/pull. The top comment in here is what OP should focus on
/r/askTRP22/02/20 12:19 PM
1

I’m no doctor but it is obvious you want a change to happen in your life, otherwise you wouldn’t be here. You need to move on with your life dude. Go find a job, it doesn’t have to be something you enjoy either. You can use your current rent free situation to build up some cash to buy your own vehicle. Do research and get something reliable long term, I.e. not a mustang. Avoid getting into debt for this vehicle, it should last you a few years to get to work and to get you to dates. Then move out…
/r/askTRP03/02/20 03:52 AM
2

It also destroyed my sex life at the same time. Overstimulation is very real
/r/askTRP31/01/20 01:30 PM
7

That’s not it at all. OP just needs variety.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:20 AM
3

Pro tip- try taking action next time and seeing what the outcome is, then come for analysis instead of “what do I do guys?”. Asktrp is better when an easy situation like this turns into “how can I get better?” Versus “spoon feed me guys pleeeeease”
/r/askTRP28/01/20 12:53 PM
1

Wouldn’t the right move had been to just call the whole thing off at the start instead of accepting a bad deal and regretting it after?
/r/askTRP28/01/20 03:13 AM
2

Slowly and with a lot of effort
/r/askTRP25/01/20 08:52 PM
1

This is nothing more than a simple shit test. DARE not DEER.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 05:02 PM
5

Don’t hamster this. Don’t shit where you eat. All it will take is for you to make one mistake and she’s got your ass. It can’t be that hard to find another secretary. So do the right thing and hire someone else and just see this gal outside of work!
/r/askTRP19/01/20 03:08 PM
18

Are these the types you want to spend your time trying to be with?
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:36 PM
4

OP seems like the type that will keep her around thinking she can be ‘saved’ or some Bullshit
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:26 PM
4

If she’s already employed by you, As her direct superior you should immediately fire her for misconduct. This behavior is unacceptable. She is trying to gain favor with you by selling sex. Even if you keep her employed you’re still fucked because she will think this behavior is acceptable. The only good course of action is to fire her, explain why, and IMMEDIATELY cut her out of all forms of communication as if she never existed. Protect yourself.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:24 PM
1

“Babe I Fukin wrastled a bear for the last blueberry in my fridge, which I used to make a whole pie for my semi-biweekly charity donation to the dog shelter. Shit was dope, hella. You?” Just have fun with it. Even if you didn’t do shit that day it doesn’t matter what you actually did she just wants some interaction. Not everything is a shit test, she’s human and craves interaction with people she finds interesting too.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:21 PM
4

Be a man and call her. Texting to set up a date is for people who like to take all day to get a 5 minute job done. Calling is high testosterone. Oh, mid 20s is my age.
/r/askTRP19/01/20 01:14 PM
1

Once you stop doing cardio the calorie burn is done. Once you stop lifting weights you’re still consuming energy to repair your muscles. Long term benefit of weightlifting is more than cardio for losing weight, if you had to only choose one.
/r/askTRP15/01/20 04:34 AM
1

You’re young enough that hitting the gym more frequently will not seriously affect you long term. Use your youth wisely, you only get it once! FYI doing just 5x5 stronglifts will inhibit how quickly you can lose weight or gain muscle. Start doing additional lifts between your 5x5 days, just not with heavy weight. You have three types of muscle fibers and SL5x5 heavily focuses on the type IIx and type II, iirc
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:32 AM
2

This is completely false. Weight lifting is superior in all aspects to cardio for burning calories. If you’re lifting at proper intensity your heart rate will be elevated enough to count it as cardio. Tearing muscle fibers will need repair, which will consume calories post workout. If you’re eating adequate protein you will grow muscles which will increase your baseline caloric needs, thus making it easier to lose weight.
/r/askTRP14/01/20 04:28 AM
3

It is because if this dude has to ask why he’s not getting the results he wants then he’s not there yet. I get that I want the most desirable girl. However, I must be able to get that naturally. This implies not worrying about her selection- if you’re simply the best who cares? That’s why I said “if you have to ask you can’t afford it”.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:27 PM
7

I get what you’re saying but you’re missing something; this screens out women who don’t want the same thing. Especially if you’re trying to protect yourself from the court of social justice. It’s as easy as “I’m not looking for a serious relationship right now”. Depending on their response you can gauge interest level, batshit crazy level, and if she’s looking for a BB straight away.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 01:25 PM
5

This is normal behavior especially for a virgin. I’ve been with three. You both strike me as young like under 21 so this behavior is definitely from inexperience. Also ask yourself the following 1) do you care about her getting attached because it will happen 2) want her to be an LTR because some virgins think love=sex especially with the first guy 3) think it is wise to be this inexperienced heading into something that this girl thinks may be a serious commitment 4) if you do view this as LTR m…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:57 AM
6

What’s worked best for me is within the first ten minutes of the first date I make my intentions clear. If all I want is a casual thing then I state that. This makes it clear for her, and she either wants that or does not. This way she will not feel used, lied to, or that you were not honest from the start. You should always tell a woman what you’re wanting from her, before she has to ask this sort of question.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:49 AM
4

If you have to ask then you can’t afford it.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:44 AM
3

First of all - relax. You’re stressing out because you’re entering in a scenario you’ve already been in but with new red tinted glasses. This is precisely the EXACT moment to stop reading trp and just confidently do what you think is right. ASD is normal, relax- it means she likes you. Just take a breath and go balls deep into this situation, then reflect and come back to asktrp if you want help discerning any results you’re confused on.
/r/askTRP12/01/20 09:42 AM
2

I enter the date prepared to pay. It’s more of me having a clear conscience that “I’ve got plenty of cash that spending X amount won’t hurt me financially “. I guess women picked up on my confidence about this since most of them paid for the first date. However you should be prepared to pay. Being concerned about a few bucks at Starbucks is lame. If you can’t afford to go on dates find cheaper ones, preferably free dates. When I was in college I went to get ice cream and 100% of the time got one…
/r/askTRP12/01/20 04:10 AM
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