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1	So this anti-pick up rant has been making the rounds on facebook, and I want to know the best to respond to it. Er, no, guys immediately know if they want to fuck a girl or not. PUA's are only playing up to your ego by making you think you have to be cool for them to fuck you. We'd fuck you even if you were dumb as bricks as long as you have the looks. Women have an infinite capacity for self delusion.	/r/seduction	23/08/12 05:43 PM
1	So this anti-pick up rant has been making the rounds on facebook, and I want to know the best to respond to it. The problem with anecdotes :/ I've had gay men hit on me, in what women would call highly inappropriate ways (like grabbing my dick without a prior word or even introduction, and this was from a tall well built black dude, while i looked girlish.). Never felt any fear or anger or resentment. I was more amused, and slightly envious that gay men had it so easy in their game. If men didn't pursue women, and with the right kind of aggressiveness (what seddit exists to teach), our species would die o…	/r/seduction	23/08/12 09:08 AM
2	After a Year In Field, some Revelations about Day Game Can't agree with OP enough. I like what Tyler from RSD does. Night game as bread and butter, and day game as you go about your routine and if you see someone really hot or worthwhile. Anything else is too much effort and can lead to frustration/anger issues. Also agree about not using alcohol in night game. Alcohol really kills your willpower and getting plastered starts to sound better than getting laid. I would say to learn about over-exertions by women and not to stay at home at all if you ca…	/r/seduction	21/08/12 09:50 PM
13	Male PUA tips applied by female, 21. 1st Test. They also can turn violent and stalkerish. There's a reason most women dont do this stuff and like to have the upper/controlling hand initially.	/r/seduction	21/08/12 09:20 PM
2	Why do all my direct daygame interactions fall through as opposed to situational? If you start off with a compliment girls might feel the interaction as fake just because so many other guys they've rejected in the past have also complimented them just to sleep with them. Try going straight for the info you want with a 'are you single?' (courtesy: girlschase.com) or with your intentions 'you and I should hookup sometime' (courtesy: Alan Roger Currie/ Mode One). Warning: this is armchair advice since i havent done daygame but i'm curious if they'll work for you, so please repor…	/r/seduction	13/08/12 07:58 PM
3	how to respond to "I'm not that type of girl" It's called LMR because its only when the girl gets cold feet at the last minute, when you two are already alone at a place where sex can happen. What OP indicated was not LMR but a polite rejection. Persisting after that is what girls call creepy and the bouncers get called in.	/r/seduction	12/08/12 05:39 PM
2	how to respond to "I'm not that type of girl" Either she is actually not that type of girl (unlikely) or she's just not attracted to you. Either case, you move on to the next girl, and keep working on yourself. Persistence when a girl has verbally said no is mostly futile. Edit: Yes girls will kiss guys they have absolutely no intention of sleeping with. For fun/practice/validation/whatever. It costs them nothing.	/r/seduction	12/08/12 12:07 PM
2	Is there a /r/seduction for women? Cosmo just doesn't deliver in reality Picking up and trying to get picked up are two different skills. If you're picking up all the seddit stuff applies. I've watched hot cougars do it. Basic conversation skills, handling logistics, isolation, and indicate desire for sex. If wanting to be picked up, look cute/sexy and be open/available. Move the conversation/seduction process along if the guy you want is stalling. About openers, i had one girl open me with 'Look. This is my new puppy' and start showing pictures on her phone. Another…	/r/seduction	12/08/12 01:28 AM
5	A Question from a Pessimistic Lady Yet another woman trying to intimidate men into apologizing for wanting just sex. Yup, we men are assholes. What else do you like about us? Edit: Also, you are the only person responsible for your choices in men. If you want a guy who doesnt think about sex, there may be some tibetan buddhists around for you.	/r/seduction	09/08/12 10:35 AM
1	The Paradox of Inner Game or: how I learned to stop worrying and love Outer Game It's still around about 200. I got really into fixing my inner game only a couple of weeks ago after discovering the DDS videos on youtube. I'd given up approaching for a couple of months prior just to try and figure out why what I was doing previously was not working. And actually now I get girls approaching me more often than I do them. The attraction indicators from them have gone way up (regularly getting eye fucked) and so has the number of girls I've rejected even though i'm not getting la…	/r/seduction	08/08/12 06:13 PM
2	Curious lady again here: I tend to prefer a direct approach to everything in life. I HATE playing games. Do many of you try a more direct approach with women where you make it perfectly clear you are interested in sex? I usually am not this abrasive, but if you were in an relationship with an abusive ex, I dont think you count amongst the women who do have balls. I've met some of these women and they are unlike you. I have also met women with abusive exes and they inevitably end up repeating their mistakes. They have an outer shell that looks tough at first but they are actually more weak than other normal women. The 'alpha' women are usually quickly revealed to be petty and insecure. I pity them but am stayin…	/r/seduction	07/08/12 09:18 PM
3	Curious lady again here: I tend to prefer a direct approach to everything in life. I HATE playing games. Do many of you try a more direct approach with women where you make it perfectly clear you are interested in sex? My theory is women lack balls.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 09:00 PM
3	Curious lady again here: I tend to prefer a direct approach to everything in life. I HATE playing games. Do many of you try a more direct approach with women where you make it perfectly clear you are interested in sex? Haha. It's funny how many women say they can get sex whenever they want and then go months without all the while complaining about where all the good men went, and then finally end up drunk, hit on the bartender and get fucked in the toilet.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 08:51 PM
2	Curious lady again here: I tend to prefer a direct approach to everything in life. I HATE playing games. Do many of you try a more direct approach with women where you make it perfectly clear you are interested in sex? Actually women use that to intimidate men i.e 'men only think about sex!!'	/r/seduction	07/08/12 08:45 PM
2	Curious lady again here: I tend to prefer a direct approach to everything in life. I HATE playing games. Do many of you try a more direct approach with women where you make it perfectly clear you are interested in sex? Read up on Alan Roger Currie and Mode One. Or watch the Direct Dating summit videos on youtube. On the videos there are a couple of women who give the typical answers on why a direct approach would not work on them or turn them off. They get called out on their bullshit social conditioning pretty harshly by Alan and David X.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 08:04 PM
1	The Paradox of Inner Game or: how I learned to stop worrying and love Outer Game Generalizations suck :). For me the largest improvements happened only after I'd read books like Mode One, Radical Honesty, and watched the Direct Dating Summit videos and pounded the material into my head everyday. All those lines and actions outer game teaches comes to me naturally now without thinking or memorizing. My diet changes, excercise habits, hygiene improvements are actually sticking now, whereas previously I would lose motivation. My ~200 approaches before I got into this material s…	/r/seduction	07/08/12 04:54 PM
2	Cocky vs Confidence. When is the line crossed? It's just a shit test. They want to see if you are congruent. Just agree and amplify. Dont change your behavior for women.	/r/seduction	07/08/12 09:48 AM
14	Curious lady here: How often do men use "passive aggressive" pick-up techniques? (ex: brushing up against a woman but not saying anything) Are there a lot of passive aggressive pick up techniques? Passive-aggressive and touches/brushing etc is basically girl game. If you wouldnt flip out on a girl for doing it, then stop being such a white knight.	/r/seduction	06/08/12 05:02 PM
0	Female approach anxiety? Slut shaming perhaps. Also women have no secondary game beyond looks. So whats the point in approaching. If the guy is attracted and confident he'll make the first move. Men don't really care about confidence in a woman if the looks are not up to par. Some women also claim that's the only way they know for sure the guy is attracted, which is pretty ridiculous (if guys thought the same, civilization would die out soon). Another reason is, guys have the testosterone or balls to overcome fears, so …	/r/seduction	31/07/12 11:31 PM
1	Being direct vs. triggering ASD Reposting this video so more people see it. Go direct	/r/seduction	31/07/12 02:55 PM
1	Being direct vs. triggering ASD Give this a watch sometime. Going direct	/r/seduction	31/07/12 02:40 PM
3	After rejection I am angry. Mode one. Look that shit up. Watch the direct dating summit videos on youtube until you get it. Rejections when i've been mode one never bug me.	/r/seduction	31/07/12 12:02 AM
0	Anyone Have Conversation and/or Confidence-building Techniques They Can Share? I'm 23, F, with Social Anxiety, especially Around Guys I'm Attracted to. :( It's funny how you keep bringing up whores/sluts while no one else is. If you read the sidebar or some of the popular posts you'd see how slut shaming is discouraged and honesty in relationships is encouraged. Seddit is sex positive since we realize the societal chains women (and you it looks like) bind themselves in. I wouldnt be surprised if you've done some slut shaming in real life and hence pretending to be 'pure'. And, er, welcome to the internet, i guess.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 07:43 PM
0	Anyone Have Conversation and/or Confidence-building Techniques They Can Share? I'm 23, F, with Social Anxiety, especially Around Guys I'm Attracted to. :( There's a huge difference between cute/pretty and hot/sexy. Guess who men like to hit on? And how come all those other hot women who do get hit on everyday and fuck every night of the week figure this out? It definitely ain't rocket science.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 01:39 PM
-1	Anyone Have Conversation and/or Confidence-building Techniques They Can Share? I'm 23, F, with Social Anxiety, especially Around Guys I'm Attracted to. :( It's funny. Women have no compunctions rejecting a guy for not being sexy enough or hitting the gym enough or have enough money or a good career. But when we return the favour of rejecting women for not being hot enough or for being fat or bitchy or hard to talk to, or just not likable enough, we get chewed out. I somehow like rejecting women nowadays. Hopefully they get the hint.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 01:28 PM
-1	Anyone Have Conversation and/or Confidence-building Techniques They Can Share? I'm 23, F, with Social Anxiety, especially Around Guys I'm Attracted to. :( Here's a conversation opener, 'hey, i'm really shy, but i think you are hot'. Obviously only use it with guys you want to lay. This is a magical opener since it conveys a lot of good things like courage, the fact that you are awkward, your explicit sexual interest in the guy. Once you say this your brain will automatically open up the floodgates, and the conversation will flow. Also, you don't need conversation skills to fuck, since you are a girl. Just ask about availability of the guy with 'ar…	/r/seduction	25/07/12 12:18 PM
2	It seems like to me a lot of girls sexual personality can be very simply defined as passive-aggressive. Does anyone else agree? Men are logical. In an equal society its hard to understand why so few women approach men that they like. Men understanding women's psychology and motivations is helpful if it gives us a logical rationale to make more approaches and put more effort into seduction than women (seem to) do. Also, if you ever get a job as a bartender, you'd be surprised by the number of drunk/desperate women wanting sex with you in the toilet after the bar closes or just hand over their phone numbers without even be…	/r/seduction	12/07/12 03:24 PM
3	It seems like to me a lot of girls sexual personality can be very simply defined as passive-aggressive. Does anyone else agree? I've been thinking nearly exactly the same thing for a few days now. Kind of eery to see my own thoughts typed up by someone else on here. I talked to a girl friend about this and she basically confirmed that women like to be very indirect to maintain plausible deniability. I think this also impacts on the going direct vs indirect route for guys. Indirect works because women understand it very well, but direct also works because that's manly and women are attracted to a masculine polarity. I've …	/r/seduction	12/07/12 02:59 PM