| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 88 | I am getting worse, not better | throwawaystyle0 | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 04:09 PM | |
| 21 | I cannot move on | throwawaystyle0 | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 05:58 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Ex showed up with her new boyfriend to drop off our sonEven if he was a dirtbag. What would change? He literally can’t do anything about it. It’s a lose/lose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/03/25 11:28 PM |
| 2 | I am getting worse, not betterMuch respect to you | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 12:44 PM |
| 1 | I am getting worse, not betterI will check this out thanks | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/03/25 12:38 PM |
| 10 | I am getting worse, not betterI don’t think I will ever forgive her. That’s just not on the table. Doesn’t deserve it. “Hey I forgive you for ruining our family and altering our daughter’s lives.” I can’t. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 11:23 PM |
| 2 | I am getting worse, not betterStarted mma in 2004, then switched to strictly BJJ. Been off the mats about a year due to divorce and having kids 50/50. I’d love to get back on the mats, but it’s hard to justify the cost when I can go only 50% of the time. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 11:15 PM |
| 8 | I am getting worse, not betterUnfortunately I feel like she’s getting away with it. She’s very likable and puts on a great front. She also dragged my name through the mud to anyone and everyone while I kept quiet. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 08:41 PM |
| 4 | I am getting worse, not betterThank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 05:28 PM |
| 2 | I am getting worse, not betterI’ve thought about it. Used to take lexapro. But turned me into an emotionless zombie | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 05:13 PM |
| 6 | I am getting worse, not better9 and 14, girls. 9 year old seems normal. 14 year old has been struggling, I know this because she told me a while back that this has “permanently changed her”. I also understand she is a 14 year old girl which comes with its own hurdles and wanting independence. She is very to herself now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 04/03/25 05:03 PM |
| 1 | Life does get better (I did not believe it)lol wait until 18 months hit and you still feel the same | /r/Divorce_Men | 28/01/25 11:59 PM |
| 2 | I cannot move onThis is gold 🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 22/12/24 02:04 AM |
| 2 | I cannot move onWow rape allegations is insane. Sorry you had to go through that. I take my comment back. Sound like you handled it alot better than I am currently. Praying i get to that light at the end of the tunnel | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 06:48 PM |
| 1 | I cannot move onDifferent situations and circumstances | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I cannot move on🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/12/24 02:48 AM |
| 3 | I cannot move onSolid 🫡. Started jits in 2005 but I’ve been off the mats the past year due to injuries. I like not being in pain constantly 😂 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 03:49 PM |
| 2 | I cannot move on9 and 14. You’re right 🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | I cannot move onSolid 🫡 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | I cannot move onI hear ya. I have nothing against the new guy. At all. Yea he is the affair partner but whatever. I know she fed him lies etc and he most likely didn’t know what was going on. It’s more so the fucking insane disrespect that was done to me and that’s my way of getting to her. Hopefully he would bounce after realizing this shit is not going to stop. No one gets off. We sound similar | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/12/24 01:23 AM |
| 2 | I cannot move onThank you | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | I cannot move onI appreciate this more than you know | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I cannot move onThank you, I will check that out | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 09:22 PM |
| 2 | I cannot move onI agree. I’ll be fine for a few weeks, then I’ll spiral again. Something will set it off. I feel like I wasted 13 fucking years. Honestly just want her to feel what I’m feeling, have felt these past couple years. Karma is a mfer and I want to be the one to serve it. Her new guy most likely doesn’t know what went down as she is a liar. I can’t touch her and I’d never, but he’s in her team so that’s the next best thing | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 08:12 PM |
| 3 | I cannot move onThat’s my problem, I feel like it has consumed me. Just the mere action of me getting a text from her will send me into a spiral for days and I become VERY hateful, full of rage and various other things | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 12:54 PM |
| 2 | I cannot move onI do, but honestly the support I got during all of this, in my opinion was lacking. And I’m not trying to play victim. It is what it is. I didn’t get many phone calls checking in on me at all, if any. I have my kids 50/50 so the weeks I have them I’m obviously just busy being a dad. I’m dating someone, and it’s starting to bleed over our relationship. I know it’s only a matter of time before she gets fed up with it and leaves. I do agree about becoming part of a herd. I just don’t have that anym… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/12/24 12:39 PM |
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