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SEEKING ADVICEthrowawayz187y/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:00 AM
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From the FDS Wiki: Don't have sex before commitment has been established (if you're looking for a relationship) or before he has demonstrated value and investment (if you're looking for FWBs). If a man is really into you and sees you as girlfriend material, he will commit to you in two months (or three months max). If you're looking to have a dependable FWB, you must still require investment from him so he provides you the respect and fun times that you want. You should be reading the wiki befor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:47 PM
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And I feel sorry that you feel the need to sexually shame women. What a step back from everything feminists have been and are currently combating in society. Hopefully you can work on your internalized misogyny because other women should not have to be subjected to toxicity and sexism in a female-only subreddit. From the FDS Handbook, which you have clearly not read: Don't have sex before commitment has been established (if you're looking for a relationship) or before he has demonstrated value a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 04:37 PM
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I don't generally cum from sex. Some men are good at what they do, but no matter how good they make me feel, I tend to not cum from sex. I do believe women carry more risks of things (pregnancy, STDs, UTIs, etc) that may make sex less enjoyable or worth it. If it weren't for STDs (I can no longer get pregnant) I would probably have sex more. But sex as a whole is fun for me. If a guy actually puts effort into pleasing me, even if it doesn't result in an orgasm, then I will keep him around. So, I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:26 PM
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Sarcastically telling a woman that she must be ''glad'' to have her body ''used'' by another human being is 100% shaming. Don't gaslight me and tell me that this comment was totally innocuous and NOT intended to put me down. You wouldn't be okay with an incel saying that to another woman so why should you think you get a free pass to make such rude comments to me about my bodily choices just because you're a woman? Also, people can be for or against FWB for themselves but it's wrong to look down…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:15 PM
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Because the sub interests me and I can learn some valuable things for whenever I do feel like getting back into the dating game. Which, tbh, I don't even want to worry about for a looong time. I'm very content with being single and I don't need a male presence in my life. Many women have had shitty experiences with men, so it makes me feel less alone when I read stories of women going through exactly what I went through. Just because I'm not interested in relationships atm it doesn't mean I don'…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 03:02 PM
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These are issues that are not exclusive to FBW relationships. In fact, I had posted that while thinking back to my relationship with my ex, who had given me countless pregnancy scares and didn't gaf, nearly almost me to STDs because he had cheated, and he even gave me a couple of UTIs. I have been with more respectful men since him. Sex does tend to carry far more risks and complications for women, which is why I don't have sex that often, mainly because I am afraid of contracting an STD which m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:59 PM
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No sex before commitment. You don't commit to a fuck buddy. Advising women against sleeping with men that they actually want a relationship with is entirely different. Also, advice does not mean shaming. Which is exactly what you just did to me and countless of other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:53 PM
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Feminists have literally fought for sexual liberation since the beginning. So let's like...stop shaming women who like casual sex and just teach them steps on how to be safe and vocal about their desires and boundaries instead. You don't tell other women how they should feel or what they should do with their own bodies, we have enough of that from men. It's anti-feminist for women to sexually shame other women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:31 PM
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Looking back, there were definitely a lot of signs that my ex was capable of cheating. I just had a bad gut feeling that I now know to take more seriously in the future. But what about those men who are better at hiding those signs? Are we just supposed to trust blindly?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:27 PM
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Sorry, if you want to shame women for having and enjoying casual sex, go visit MGTOW or other incel subs. In 2020 we don't put other women down and make them feel bad about themselves for doing what they want to do with their bodies! It's anti-feminist and men love when women sexually shame other women. I know you are better than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:21 PM
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I wouldn't have sex with someone who has a shitty personality. Nor would I have sex with someone who is actually my ''type'' that I could actually fall for them. Fuck buddies can work for many women. Idk why you say with such certainty that they never work because I have absolutely had successful sexual relationships where I did not fall in love with the person or get used/hurt in the end, so I'm curious what you have to say about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 02:06 PM
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You have to understand that this isn't a problem exclusive to FWB relationships. Violation boundaries happen in romantic relationships all too much. You will find many more posts about people's boyfriends or husbands completely disrespecting their body and not giving a shit about their pleasure. And trust me, it hurts waay more when it's your own boyfriend than some meaningless FWB you can just kick to the curb. So really, we should be preaching about finding men that respect your boundaries reg…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:49 PM
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I agree it's hard to find! But if you do find a guy who is respectful of you and your boundaries, someone you strictly want a sexual relationship with--all the more power to you. We shouldn't shame women for it. Can we REALLY blame women for not wanting to date men and using them to fulfill their sexual needs instead? You can be in a relationship with a guy who doesn't give a fuck about your boundaries or pleasure (looking at you, ex bf)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 01:46 PM
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Because not all women want romance and commitment. Some women don't have the time for it (such as those who are more focused on career or education for example) or have had a series of bad relationships. My dad's ex wife (who is a total LVM) cheated on her a million times and divorced her because she got fat. She is now perfectly content with being single and she has a FWB relationship with a guy who she sees once a week and then kicks him out after she gets her needs fulfilled. She prefers it t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:51 PM
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I don't go on ''dinner dates'' with my friends though. The benefits are for women who are not actually interested in committing to a relationship with a man and want to keep things casual. I know plenty of women who don't want a boyfriend at the moment, either because they don't want to deal with a guy's shit or they just don't have the time for it, and they really like it this way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:41 PM
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I didn't say your personal dislikes are shaming. You can have your own personal boundaries, but there are quite a few posts about people who strongly discourage and even shame women who enjoy hookups and FWB (not every girl who likes casual relationships is trying to be Cool Girl). And the few women in the comments who raise their hand and say ''hey I actually like having a no strings attached relationship'' will get downvoted into oblivion. That's silencing women and shaming them for what they …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:37 PM
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But there’s nothing wrong with women who do want to give it up. Many women love sex, some like to have one or more sexual partners and are happy with just sexual relationships. If I were actually interested in dating someone however, I would never sleep with them so quickly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:30 PM
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Obviously using protection is very important. I agree sex comes with more complications for us, but my boyfriend was just as insensitive when I had my fair share of pregnancy scares. So these shitty risks carry into exclusive relationships as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:29 PM
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I don’t do couple-y things with my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 12:27 PM
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But everyone gets to have their own rules and we shouldn’t shame women who do like having a FWB.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 11:10 AM
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Don’t go on dinner dates if you just want a sexual relationship. Don’t do couple-y things. That’s when you get attached. Keep it brief.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/20 09:29 AM
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Ikr lol not all women get emotionally invested in guys they fuck. Some women strictly want a sexual relationship, nothing more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:48 PM
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Likewise maybe some women think a man is good enough to fuck but not good enough to invest feelings in. Not all women are hopeless romantics who fall for every guy they sleep with. 🤷‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 09:01 AM
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None of these apply to me yet finding a HVM is still like finding kryptonite lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:26 PM
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Men don’t realize that’s a whole ass leg workout. All that for their tiny dick to slip out every 5 seconds. Nah, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:22 PM
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Bruh my ex’s sister was a stripper who also had butt injections and my ex would always make comments about the “booty”. I remember I teased him about it in front of his best friend and even he was weirded about it. And yes my ex watched incest porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 10:17 PM
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And a free meal is not physically invasive like sticking your genitals in someone else’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 04:19 PM
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Lmao this guy was just trying to white knight her. A normal dude with no ulterior motives would’ve just been like “Hey, that guy over there is recording you, just a heads up”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 11:22 AM
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I’m joining the Canadian military this year and I’m honestly afraid of the type of men I may run into.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 12:18 AM
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Yeah, I like coffee dates...I wouldn’t expect a complete stranger to spend like $50+ dollars on a fancy dinner the first time of meeting (and dinner dates give me anxiety, I HATE eating in front of people$.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:54 PM
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Loyalty 😫😫😫😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 11:38 PM
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Yes, but manipulation such as love-bombing is a POWERFUL tool men use to reel women in. So, mentally, women DO feel “locked down”, married or not, and it gets harder for them to simply leave. This is how emotional abuse works...abuse doesn’t only occur in marriage and it can be very subtle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 08:21 PM
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Idk, I don’t think I’d become exclusive with a guy I’ve only known or dated for a month. I would feel a little off if a guy tried to tie me down that early on, it feels so rushed to me. Everyone goes at a difference pace so I’m not saying there’s a right or wrong answer! I just don’t think that locking someone down early should be praised as a “green flag” because many toxic men like sociopaths or narcissists are notorious for love-bombing and rushing you into a relationship when it’s too early …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/20 05:41 PM
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I don’t understand why this is seen as a positive thing. Guys who move quickly can be bad news as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/01/20 01:47 PM
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Maybe let’s not give them any attention at all...they’ll only harass women some more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 02:51 AM
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After my ex and I fucked, he laid there naked, stroking his cock (to get hard for round 2) and described in graphic details about a time when he was fucking his ex so hard that the furniture was shaking...whyyyyy did I stay wtf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:42 AM
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Keanu being a decent man is impressive for ordinary citizens standards too, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 01:39 AM
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Don’t apologize. You are entitled to your own beliefs!! Honestly, at this point we should be getting paid for giving men sex bc at least we’ll benefit from it somehow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/20 12:27 AM
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I would never resort to that. And it still comes with the risk of pregnancy, UTIs, and other infections.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/20 08:54 PM
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They probably would smile. They think they’re the epitome of perfection.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:28 AM
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I think she’s pretty in an objective sense but personally as a bi woman she’s not my type. These guys calling her ugly would not in a million years pass up the chance to fuck her, she’s still way out of 97% of men’s leagues.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/20 05:24 AM
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Nobody will honestly answer those questions. If a guy sleeps around a lot then I want to know. To me that makes me think he’s a sex addict and has way too much testosterone, which is a recipe for cheating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:44 PM
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I mean, I’d certainly feel some type of way if my man had a lengthy sexual history as well and I’m a woman. I would feel jealous and even a bit insecure as well, but honestly, mostly everyone has a sexual past. It’s not about how it makes the person feel but how they actually react. Do they look down on you? Do they shame you? Do they use it against you? That’s what would make him LVM. My partner and I shared funny/embarrassing sex stories, and we’ve discussed what we have/haven’t tried yet. My …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 11:41 PM
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If Kylie appeared naked at the foot of their bed in the middle of the night, they’d fucking jizz their undies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:52 PM
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But it’s a good way to filter the LVM after. At least you know now. Why date someone who would judge you for that stuff?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:44 PM
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I agree. I don’t think I’d date a guy that fucked like 100 women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 08:44 PM
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Depends on your definition of early. A few months in? No. That’s too early to tell if a man is high value or low value. Again, I think women should get to decide what they feel like and don’t feel like sharing with their intimate partner. Nobody should feel shamed into doing, or not doing, either. I personally don’t care what people think, my ideal healthy relationship is one in which I can open up about anything. For me to withhold such information denotes that I’m ashamed and I’m not. Nobody h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:15 PM
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This is not a really good comparison. Yes, it might offend me if my partner spent much more money on a ring on an ex than for me. But material items are NOT on par with a woman’s physical body. You can tell your partner that you’ve done xyz before and wouldn’t do it again. If he asks in the future, and gets angry if you say no or pressures you or guilts you, then he’s NOT a high value male. Usually, you can tell very early on in a relationship whether a man will respect your body or not. Like tb…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 06:11 PM
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I know many women here are against it, but tbh I feel like if you feel like your man will judge you or use your sexual past against you, then he isn’t HVM and you should dump him. Be with a guy who doesn’t gaf if you slept with 2 guys or 50.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 04:53 PM
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Didn’t have my first boyfriend until I was 20. I wouldn’t recommend dating seriously under that age...enjoy your childhood/adolescence while it lasts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:57 AM
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Lol I was confused for a good 3 minutes thinking this “child” was like a 6 year old kid with a bruise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/20 07:29 AM
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I only semi-agree with this. I think it’s important to talk about past relationships in a relationship as it can give you a LOT of insight as to what that person is like in a relationship. The way a couple breaks up is very revealing. But you shouldn’t reveal anything that’s less than relevant. My ex would talk about his ex nonstop and didn’t understand why it bothered me so much. Sometimes he’d talk about her in resentment and call her crazy/sensitive. Other times it would just be like “Oh, bla…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:05 PM
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Men love sexting and phone sex like you don’t even have to be physically there for them to obsess over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 08:54 AM
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HVM defending her at the end 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 05:05 AM
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Women have never needed men and studies show we are happier single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:25 AM
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It didn’t lower my mood. It gave me a good laugh. These men are utterly miserable without us! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/20 01:24 AM
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Yeah, I recently got into an argument with this guy on r/unpopularopinion who called this sub “toxic” and “dangerous”. LVM just don’t like to see women supporting each other and raising their standards. Makes it harder for them to find a girl to abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 07:45 PM
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If he wanted you then he’d reach out to you now. Waiting around hoping he’ll change his mind after the fourth month mark will only crush you. You can only remain friends with an ex if there are no feelings on either end which is pretty rare.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 06:01 PM
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I don’t understand why you need to get in touch at all. He’s your ex. Leave him in the past. He did not envision a future with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 05:50 PM
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It is the norm. More than half of married men admitted to infidelity. But something being common or normal doesn’t make it right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:20 AM
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I see it more as a caution and a harsh risk you have to accept before deciding if you really want to get into a relationship. Its just the reality of men. It’s not excusing their behaviour in any way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 12:19 AM
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If they haven’t then they just weren’t given the right opportunity to yet, imo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 11:43 PM
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I’ve realized in life that the best way to get someone’s attention is to virtually ignore them. People, especially men, want what they can’t have. Let them chase after you. The longer you wait to respond to their texts, the more desperate they become. Don’t make yourself too available. Even if you are free on a particular day they ask you out, tell them you’re busy. A HVM will pursue you. Once he has proven himself a HVM, you can slow down a little. BUT. Never make him think he “has you”. Not ev…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 05:06 PM
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Ikr. No girl is gonna swipe right on that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:58 PM
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Ok Joseph
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:57 PM
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How do you make someone chase after you and try to win you over even after you married them tho?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 08:57 AM
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I agree. Men don’t realize that bi and lesbian women don’t feel the same attraction that they do. For some reason men automatically think I’m going to objectify women and talk about their tits and ass right alongside them just like the guys. I’m not that much of a “visual creature” so going to a strip club isn’t going to get me all hot and bothered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 11:39 PM
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I won’t bother hiding my sexuality from him. If he’s the type of guy to fetishize lesbians then that’s good for me to know so I can just toss his ass in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 08:09 PM
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I’m bisexual, but I’ll never date a guy who’s into strip clubs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 07:30 PM
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What about if I’m still keeping my day job and doing sex work on the side part-time for a little extra cash? I wouldn’t fully commit to it for a living and I’m thinking of only doing it temporarily.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:22 AM
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Even though I’m pro-choice and I’m sterile now so it’s physically impossible for me to have kids, I will tell every guy who ever suggests unprotected sex that I will 100% keep the baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 03:05 AM
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Because men actually believe that they will “age like wine” without putting the work in. Boy bye, your hairline left the chat when you were 20.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 06:41 PM
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''My ex was crazy'' Translation: I emotionally abused her, manipulated her, gaslighted her, and repeatedly invalidated her feelings to the point where her mental health went to shit and she could no longer take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 07:30 AM
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Oh, I have worse stories. When I was 11-13 I used to have older men talking to me sexually online and asking for nudes. At the time I didn’t know how fucked up it was for adult men to talk about wanting to fuck a kid. Last year I did a little experiment and posed as a 13 y/o girl on Whisper. Not one guy I was messaging had any scruples about talking sexually to a young teenage girl when I revealed my fake age to them. Not a single fucking one. So there’s my proof that men would go after much you…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:31 AM
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I mean. In high school I had a crush on a couple of cute male teachers, and so did many other girls in my grade. So it’s pretty common even if you personally did not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 05:23 AM
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“You’re not like the other girls” just means “You have low self-esteem enough to tolerate my bs; I’m still going to pursue other women who I wish would give me the time of day because I thrive on female attention. You aren’t enough for me.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 03:05 AM
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30s and 40s have a closer maturely level. Usually by this time you’ve finished school, started your career, and are financially independent from your parents. Plus, you’ve got a fully developed brain by then.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/20 01:52 AM
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Yup! Ex would praise me as a HVM, told me all women should aspire to be like me because I'm different, I'm intelligent, unlike these other basic bitches he usually meets. For a guy who obviously looked down on women, he sure craved their attention. Even while in a relationship with me, he still required attention and actively pursued other women because female attention was the only way to temporarily boost his flimsy self-esteem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:49 PM
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I immediately disregard all ''wyd'' and ''hi cutie'' texts. This is super low effort in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 11:45 PM
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Whenever the men in my life make jokes about women being terrible drivers, I always remind them the reason why insurance rates are higher for men than women—because men get into far more accidents than women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:51 PM
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Talking about sex very early on. Not necessarily sex with you, but just sex in general. Also, sexist jokes. I have a dark sense of humour so I didn’t mind as much with my ex, I just jibed back with my own jokes. Til I realized that he made these jokes way too often for them to be just jokes. So now I won’t tolerate it by any man, joke or not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 10:43 PM
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Maybe PM her personally.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 09:07 PM
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I wish we could expose their faces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:26 PM
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Is that my ex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 04:00 PM
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Really? I thought women can be tested for it, but not men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 03:44 AM
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I agree with the other commenter, he wants to see if he’ll have to put in effort. You’re a date, not one of the boys he’s going to hang with, so he should be trying to court YOU. Tell him, “If you think of something let me know!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:15 AM
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I’m not sucking anyone’s dick that I’m not in an exclusive relationship with. Oral sex carries a higher risk of STDs than protected sex. I don’t know where his dick been so it’s not going anywhere near my mouth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:12 AM
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It’s shady. I also had a guy who wanted to go on a trip with me for the third date. Obviously dude was expecting sex, but the reason why I declined is that it’s waaaay too soon to be going on trips out of town with someone I’ve only met three times! You don’t know him. He could sexually assault you. Play it smart.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 01:06 AM
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Right?! My ex would say the same thing. “I don’t deserve you” “I’m trash” god I should’ve just taken his word for it and left. He knows himself better than I do, after all. After he cheated on me, he told me he didn’t tell me because he knew I’d leave...then, in the same breath, told me I don’t deserve this. ...then why tf did you keep me around and put me through so much mental anguish if you knew I deserve better than a scumbag like yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:41 PM
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I mean I like being called princess, it’s really sweet. Doesn’t mean I’m not a queen as well but I’d feel a little weird if my S.O. called me queen endearingly, it just doesn’t have the same connotation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 04:25 AM
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Yeah, especially if they go while in a relationship. He’s being surrounding by naked chicks flaunting their tits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 03:47 AM
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I think this applies to both genders. I’ve had some toxic female friends who detested cats. People who don’t like cats tend to be very narcissistic and toxic in my experience. Also, people who put dogs on a pedestal do so because they’re obedient and follow you around everywhere. Cats are independent and it takes a lot of love and patience to actually gain their trust. Men that don’t want to put in the time and energy to form a bond with a cat will sure as shit not take the time to gain your lov…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 02:48 AM
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It’s unprofessional...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:22 AM
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Whatever happened to courtship...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 03:17 AM
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Yes lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 09:05 PM
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As long as he got his dick wet, nothing else mattered to him. I hope he’s scared too, as he should be. It’s been almost a year since our breakup and he probably thought I would never speak up. He’s probably doing this shit to other women now. I can’t wait to burn him to the ground.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 07:01 PM
4

Ugh men are trash
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:46 AM
19

Lmao I thought that was a guy saying that to a girl at first! I’m like wow, what a nice guy. Oh wait...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:27 AM
2

But maybe that was my end goal as well? Women can use men for their sexual needs too. I find it empowering. But after what he did last time I decided to cut off contact, I can find another dick elsewhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/19 03:26 AM
1

I was wondering the same thing bc it’s my first time hearing about it. I thought you just needed lube and foreplay to relax your muscles.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:54 PM
5

How do you prep for it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:49 PM
2

Lmao, he really didn’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:34 PM
4

Agreed. Next time, if I have to tell someone no more than once, I’ll just save my breath and walk out the door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:34 PM
5

Haha, unfortunately my ex would’ve liked it up his ass as well. So that didn’t work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 09:08 PM
2

Why don’t they recommend testing it on the regular STD panel?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:56 PM
13

That’s smart. You know your body. A man won’t respect your boundaries or care about your pleasure, I think most men like anal sex because he gets off on subservient women who are willing to go through something so uncomfortable and painful for his sexual satisfaction. They get off on the power and control, not the actual sex act itself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 08:00 PM
59

Actually he did sexually assault me anyway. I reported him and he got arrested last week. Fuck him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:58 PM
33

Yeah doesnt work...he enjoyed being a bottom as well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:37 PM
10

You misread the post. It says women are happier when they’re not married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 07:09 PM
11

Omg I’m so sorry to hear that. I honestly think it should be a crime to pass down STDs to your partner as a result of cheating. I was a virgin when I met my ex and made sure he got tested before we had sex. I always made him wear condoms (except the couple times he stuck it in without a condom and without my consent, plus oral sex doesn’t protect against STDs). When I found out he cheated, I was livid! Mostly because he exposed me to the risk of contracting any STDs he might have. I got tested A…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:52 PM
3

Most people with chlamydia don’t have symptoms. Doesn’t mean they don’t have it. What a dumbass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:43 PM
1

I never slept with him lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:18 PM
4

It’s so much harder meeting men in person. Like idk where I’d meet them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 06:22 AM
6

Hey you’re right. I’m not gonna see this guy again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:40 AM
2

Whenever I used to post in there asking for advice about my crappy ex, I’d just have other men commenting their take on it (basically validating xyz crappy thing my ex does and calling me sensitive). There should really be a female-only relationship advice subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:38 AM
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