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Can you share more about your 'meeting of the self' and how you got there ? I'm curious about the process of killing the ego
/r/TheRedPill13/03/18 03:21 AM
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You said this isn't her first time cheating so there is a good chance she is very in tune with what your ego needs and giving you just that. Keep in mind she is doing it for herself and just using you as a means to an end. For all you know she's looking into divorce and you're next on her list. The moment you want to stop shit will hit the fan and you'll be front and center. Don't know if you have an easy out right now but if you see one, like her suggesting you two stop, take it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/18 12:12 AM
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Not necessarily. They probably don't have anything going on in their own lives and leech on their SO. This or they get a high from slowly infiltrating and destroying a man from the inside. It's really 50/50 to be honest
/r/askTRP29/10/16 09:39 AM
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I have the same problem but realized that it's mostly an oral fixation (at least for me). After the beers just try to switch for a water glass.. I tried it and drank more than 2liters of water after that; just needed the gesture of drinking.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:17 AM
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Just curious, does this type marriage include the usual shared insurance (if offered by employer), tax benefits, custody (if child) etc. or is it just a more glorified co-habitation ?
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 08:32 AM
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Check again on the legal stuff. Even if she's over the age of consent the fact that you are an adult can fit for 'seduction of a minor'.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 09:44 PM
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maybe she isn't the one for the family but just the one for the moment
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:24 PM
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We'll see = maybe = no from an non-interested girl. Don't spend your energy on this one. Best case you go out friday and have a blast with your friends and she will contact you afterwards.. worst case, you had a good time with your friends.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:19 PM
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How long have you been working there ? How did you get the job ? Are your qualifications in line with the job requirements ?
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:15 PM
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Yes, having a good physique will get you this. Research the "halo effect". You look like a good presence to be around and you attract people, good and bad, so decide who you align yourself with from now on
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:10 PM
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Are you in a position to be superior ? Being the new guy who is going to change the world isn't going to get you far.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:08 PM
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If her response is no without a re-schedule she's not interested. Just drop and move on.
/r/askTRP18/05/16 11:06 PM
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Adding to the gambler addiction: they are not addicted only to the rush of winning but also to the rush of uncertainty; you see, for them 2 bananas out of 3 is an almost win even if statistically it's a big fat zero.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/16 08:21 PM
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Direct no, no reschedule. Try again in a week but don't hold your breath
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:23 PM
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I did break the news directly.. Big mistake. Now I'm facing possible rumors and general social circle breakdown. Fade out
/r/askTRP02/04/16 09:15 PM
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I believe you are looking for this : https://archive.is/7Qi7n
/r/askTRP09/03/16 05:14 PM
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I like that. Thank you.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 09:11 PM
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I am quite new and bringing this up out of the blue would be a little weird at least but i'll use this with my first occasion. Thank you
/r/askTRP06/03/16 05:29 PM
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That i'm a manipulative liar that doesn't care about other people and just uses them for his gain not giving anything back. Some of these she has said to me and has asked me to not come to the organization anymore since she is there to stay, hence the reason of my concern.
/r/askTRP06/03/16 02:24 PM
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Now is the time to enstill or reinforce habits in your relationship that you want to see for the rest of the LTR. could you expand on this ? What actions should you use to reinforce good behavior, the mentality behind them, how often should they be used (every time or sparsely?) and what kind of punishment should be used for bad behavior (esp. since OP is away a lot).
/r/askTRP17/01/16 04:21 PM
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be social talk and get to know everyone be social make acquaintances and then filter out for friends be social create study groups, it will make learning easier, more social and sometimes fun (and if it's a 2nd/3th world country it's a decent guess that someone will get the subjects before the exam) be social you're close to your goal so don't chase women for relationships because you'll leave soon. FUN is okay but stay safe AWALT still applies, the girls will chase the older and more influentia…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 05:45 PM
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Not sure of your gender so here's both https://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-women/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-men/
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/16 05:57 PM
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Can you objectively have ZERO sex drive? Isn't it a combination of how she looks and makes you feel considering you have your own shit together?
/r/MarriedRedPill14/12/15 02:48 PM
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"Things are not working out." and limit contact to a minimum. There was a post on the main sub from which you may learn something. Archive is not working for me so go to the main sub and search for "dirty sheets".
/r/askTRP17/11/15 08:05 AM
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Yes, men don't say/ask stupid things. Walk away
/r/askTRP11/11/15 09:31 PM
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Is there a mirror or alternate for this? For some reason the archive link is forbidden in my country
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:03 PM
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fap with your left hand
/r/askTRP21/10/15 03:38 PM
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I would get a degree in something that allows easy and fast money (like sw developer) compared to a medic where you have to wait about 8 year until the real money starts coming in. That way you always have to fall back to while pursuing your passions. Edit: your degree is worth more as a "he can keep and job and won't get in trouble" than as a reflection of your knowledge and capabilities. I studied electronics and worked as a SW developer (now back in school). Also , university is good for netw…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 09:30 AM
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I don't need any potential girls in any position in the future snooping and thinking anything that girls might think but still I still talk to her is to set up booty calls, and offer each other occasional support in general You need to get straight with yourself and decide what you want. If you want to keep her as a plate (not recommended) you still need to delete every and any trace of your relationship.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 03:56 PM
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Carefull to remove any evidence that only you could gather as to not incriminate yourself. 10minute mail and send the stuff to both of them. Prepare in advance whose (if any) side you take.
/r/askTRP07/10/15 04:57 PM
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Google tyler boyfriend destroyer
/r/askTRP07/10/15 07:48 AM
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They get that vibe and know my past and that i have reasons for my attitude and experience to back it up. Some of the most accomplished/famous people I have met are also the most humble, empathetic and down-to-earth. How do i get to this place when i feel (feel, not know) like almost everyone i meet is inferior ? Bonus : almost everyone has already formed their circle(s) and i see them as superficial friendships but nonetheless want in.
/r/askTRP18/09/15 11:09 AM
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story time. i'm more interested in your analysis on what determined her to cheat, if you felt it coming and the actions after that.
/r/askTRP19/08/15 09:53 AM
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Relevant : https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PTUW77ie8sE
/r/askTRP11/08/15 11:22 AM
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Well, that adds a new perspective on things. I would suggest you blur the faces though.."harrasing" and shit. Also, this brings new light to my past experience so, thanks
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 04:50 PM
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Got a question : having a former fwb move to a different country, I still text/snap pretty frequently. We will see each other again when she/i will visit and I'm wondering if my attention to her is good for reinitiating sex while visiting or is slowly lowering my value in her eyes. Texting her is not getting in the way of my goals or other plates(texting in the morning while getting ready b/c timezones) Opinions?
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 06:40 PM
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I found myself guilty of this not too long ago. It started manifesting when I was feeling low confidence if I wasn't validated by girls for some time and ducking the same plate didn't solve it. As a consequence I started seeking validation from old/known sources (ex/oneitis)even if I knew it was bad. From there it's all downhill so I started re-reading the sidebar... It's harder than it looks but it's so worth it
/r/TheRedPill05/08/15 09:02 AM
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SW developer for a major telecom company. My degree is in electronics but did programming in HS. Would like to change to something that analyzes patterns in human behaviour to predict future actions (kind of like the results in the "people also bought:" on amazon)
/r/askTRP01/08/15 10:08 AM
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Yes, i find that over reacting to them spoils it. Should I take the lack of pictures as a sign of her little infatuation towards me?
/r/askTRP28/07/15 08:33 AM
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Or imagine you are wearing a cape
/r/askTRP25/07/15 09:37 PM
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Take it one step further and try to see your reflection in her eyes. You are literally looking in her eyes not at them..use with caution because it can give a strange/intense vibe
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 12:19 PM
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Not tied down, but comfortable; between work, gym, music and other friends i have little time left for what many call a GF and since we only see each other for sex i guess its fwb (correct me if i'm wrong or my hamster is going wild). What i want is just to secure my next casual partner (jesus, i'm fucking branch swinging) since she will be gone shortly.
/r/askTRP21/05/15 07:05 PM
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You > anyone else. Don't try to sugarcoat it. You will leave and a ldr is not an option. Either she will make the best of the time left or you will.. with other prospects.
/r/askTRP25/04/15 09:50 PM
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Do the break. Give no closure. Endure crying. Enjoy post breakup sex with no strings.
/r/seduction25/04/15 07:52 PM
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I've heard that "What everybody is saying" is a good one. Didn't read it so I can't comment on it personally.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 08:03 AM
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If you need internet approval you shouldn't get one.
/r/askTRP08/03/15 08:00 AM
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Every woman is a slut, except my mother. But don't ask my father about her.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 04:41 PM
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Forsaking the clubs for day game sounds like the next step but i'm still somewhat new to this and gaming while a little under the influence comes easier and is my stepping stone to eliminate approach anxiety. Regarding "working the numbers", would it be more productive/efficient to get 10 numbers after 20-30min interactions or get 1-2 after longer sets ?
/r/askTRP17/02/15 08:27 PM
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Surfer dude. Good physique, idgaf attitude, outgoing and exotic
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 08:35 AM
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I`m with you on explaining my past. Thank you again for the insight
/r/askTRP04/02/15 08:45 AM
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Thank you for the detailed post. In my case the reason given was that she has problems trusting people (read: I don't want to be used) but then asked about why me and me ex had broken up. For a bit of context we were together for over 5 years and our social circle overlap a bit. The question really threw me off and then I sent her home. My plan is no contact for a week (or at least until she initiates) and resume where we left off, build a bit of comfort and give it another go. Advice is much ap…
/r/askTRP04/02/15 07:35 AM
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Treat this as gym time for your social skills. You sir have changed my whole perception on social interactions with this one simple sentence. Start small with good form and remember that it's a marathon not a sprint.
/r/askTRP31/01/15 11:20 AM
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Honestly, i don't care much what she gets out of it after I get drained. The thing I am somewhat mad about is that I chose the easy way of the ex instead of starting fresh...and I realize it just isn't worth it
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 09:16 AM
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If this is the case, can we assume she is somewhat logical and try to use reason instead of feels to talk to her?
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:31 AM
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Graduated last year, the girls are seniors but my ex`s friend and her friend are at a different school. The default around here are ons or ltr
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 06:28 AM
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Push her against a wall with your body For more effect, push her against a door. It's not as painful as a solid wall and it makes more noise so it has more impact.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 09:57 PM
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Adding to what has been said, you can use the age/2+7 rule of thumb to determine if it's weird or not.
/r/askTRP19/01/15 01:25 PM
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I'd hate to have to watch all my progress slowly sink into mud like the Barbasol can from Jurassic Park. Seems to me you already know the answer but want internet validation.. i'll help : no contact, approach.
/r/seduction17/01/15 10:07 PM
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In your situation I would have ordered, turned to her and asked "what are you getting?", not "what do you want?" because that implies its your treat. In any other situation ask for separate checks and if that slips your mind or is not possible take the hit and pay saying she owns the next one or if she offers to split take it. Expecting to not pay is just like "why don't you buy my a drink" but implied. Read the thought proces here http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2sgf6g/the_story_of_…
/r/askTRP16/01/15 09:31 AM
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Nice going there. 140kg dead lift is no small thing. Can you elaborate on your routine?
/r/askTRP16/01/15 12:09 AM
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Basically r9k is the board reserved for OC only and some view it as the new b. Or so I've heard. Edit, grammar
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 03:49 PM
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Very true. I spent over 5 years in a LTR (from 17 until 23) that ended because, you guessed it, cheating. Looking back I think know my time could have been better spent but what's done is done. I console myself that now i know what i want in a LTR but i'm now playing catch-up game wise; made progress but nowhere near where i want to be. Also a big thank you to the community here, made my breakup a walk in the park.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 04:42 PM
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Solid advice right here. One question though : what about work (IT/engineering) clothes ?
/r/askTRP12/01/15 08:29 PM
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Friendship implies you both get what you want. Sacrifices are to be made yes, but a strong friendship is required for that and you are not describing one. You can help her as a friend, but not if your desire (no matter how hidden) is intimacy with her. You will feel that you deserve it after sometime and she won't feel the same. The thing is that you have to WANT to help and NOTHING else. You always have to put yourself first (no one else ever will).
/r/askTRP07/01/15 09:39 AM
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I really think for someone that cares about you/your opinion being indifferent is worse than being aggressive/hateful. Better yet, by just ignoring her you show that she has absolutely no power over you and if you engage her in a non-aggressive indifferent way you get to be the better person (or whatever). Don't harvest negative emotions since they can't be of any good and may later come to bite you in the ass in the form of lost opportunities just because you wanted to show off.. TL;DR : not wo…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 07:04 PM
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there is a IRC channel in the sidebar of the main sub.
/r/askTRP17/12/14 09:39 PM
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Soooo.. I'll go and wing it. Every kick in the ass is a step forward
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:41 PM
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She doesn't like that we see each other only once a week, wants something closer to a relationship kind of talk
/r/askTRP17/12/14 08:27 PM
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It's all in the context. Usually "just be yourself" is used to try to throw you back into a old, predictable, comfortable, stale behavior. You will get this after changes (no matter how positive) in your lifestyle and general approach to life. This is the ""be yourself" you see bashed around here and for good reason..it's used to try to keep you from improving. Speaking your mind and going after your wants and needs is living for yourself and it's the ultimate goal and only way to true happiness…
/r/askTRP04/12/14 09:20 PM
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Maybe it has something to do with this http://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/R/K_selection_theory
/r/askTRP30/11/14 06:35 PM
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Ars isn't really so deep into it. They have some articles but they overspill with bp so it's easy to see trough it. Otherwise great source for tech news
/r/TheRedPill29/11/14 10:07 AM
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could you give a bit of context ? What is "before" and what is "now" in terms of age, experience with women, physical appearance, career etc.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/14 06:34 PM
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Adding to this, the human brain is great at rationalizing so the more time she spends asking you questions, thinking about what you mean, are you actually serious the more she will think she likes you because "i invested all that time and effort into him, he must really be something special". And going off a tangent, this is the same reason that asking for small favors from people builds their attraction towards you.
/r/askTRP24/11/14 09:13 PM
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If, when we are listening to music together (say, going somewher in a car), I put on my music from a style she likely detests (like a pop song as pop as it gets), she will most likely either ask me to switch it out, or listen to it out of politeness but won't enjoy it. Good, it's your life, your car and your taste in music. You can turn it down to be able to have a conversation but don't change it FOR her. If I invite her to a concert of a style she clearly told me she does not like, again she w…
/r/askTRP24/11/14 08:59 PM
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Congrats and all the best in your monk state. I am curious though, how did your family/friends react to your change ? Were they the barrel crabs we see described around here or were they supportive ?
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 07:21 PM
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is there any way to find out her perceived SMV ? Let's say i spot a 6 at a bar/club (be aware that she is fancied up so her real looks maybe a 4-5 at best) and make my approach. From what cues can i get a real feel of her self perceived SMV so i can alter my game accordingly ?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 11:24 PM
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Why do you even care ? If you care so much as to ask her what happened she isn't a plate and you are on the straight course to oneitis..
/r/askTRP11/11/14 07:52 PM
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Even though this should be the normal course of action for any new member of TRP no matter how "alpha" he is, most people just skim the sidebar and dive straight into advanced game and approaches thinking they are the shit after not even grasping the basics.
/r/askTRP11/11/14 07:50 PM
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Small group of guys.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 07:26 PM
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Space your responses similar to hers. Keep chatting to a minimum, text is for logistics
/r/askTRP07/11/14 01:00 PM
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i find that after a few drinks it helps me get in a very social but non-aggressive state : outcome independence is over the top, talking is calm and well paced and selfconsciousnes is gone. However, the training wheels gotta come off..
/r/TheRedPill05/11/14 08:34 PM
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And not RAPE : religion, abortion, politics, economics
/r/askTRP05/11/14 01:47 PM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/dating-market-value-test-for-men/
/r/askTRP29/10/14 09:54 PM
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Don't text on weekends if you didn't already establish her as a plate. Id say offer her Tuesday. If she refuses but doesn't offer a actual alternate date delete the number and move on.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 02:22 PM
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2-3 days excluding Friday and Saturday. So if you get the number Thursday, text Monday
/r/trpGAME25/10/14 01:50 PM
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This is why lifting is the #1 suggestion around here. It will boost your confidence and you'll just find yourself acting more masculine. Just be careful that once started it can easily be overdone and people will call you out.
/r/askTRP21/10/14 09:10 PM
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Interested in this as well. Rp teaches us to be clear about our intentions, in this case being that we are not committed and neither is she. How to express this in a social way without making her feel you are using her I don't know...
/r/askTRP20/10/14 03:16 PM
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And brag about how he is saving the planet, one trash bin at a time..
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 02:58 PM
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You forgot /u/redpillschool
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 07:42 AM
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We work with emotion, emotion expires faster than fish, you can't leave it in the sun(a stimulating enviroment like a night out) and come bck after an hour and feast on it like nothing happened, she is a completely different person This is what i needed. I would recommend you to just have fun with your friends and when you see something you like with or without IOIs go aproach, convey obvious iterest give her an socially acceptable out and also a socially accptable reason to join you. Can you ex…
/r/trpGAME19/10/14 08:45 PM
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Be aware that a girl in a group or with a friend is extra aware of what others think of her so even if she's interested she won't give you the number so that her friend(s) don't judge her. You are actively approaching so you are already in the top half, learn from your mistakes and don't let them phase you.
/r/trpGAME18/10/14 07:31 PM
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Because you don't get to do that. She craves the alpha which you are not. You have to "just get it". Considering your question i'd say read the sidebar, esp. The Rational Male, starting with year1.
/r/askTRP18/10/14 07:26 PM
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The moment you made your move you betrayed her expectations. A girls usually puts you in fuck/friend category pretty quick and if you don't make your intentions clear from the start you end up a orbiter. Once here you stay that way (if you want out : no contact, improve, approach other women and contact again after 1year this time with clear intentions). Going on a tangent, maybe this will help you get a better picture https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM
/r/askTRP18/10/14 07:15 PM
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The synergy of your best dreams and worse nightmares.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 01:18 PM
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Any way to donate anonymously ? We have throwaways for a reason
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 10:21 AM
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Try bang/day bang by roosh. Should get you started
/r/trpGAME16/10/14 02:17 PM
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No commitment = both of you can do whatever you want. She is fishing for a reaction and you did well by not giving in.
/r/askTRP16/10/14 12:50 PM
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First off, it being a "date" just creates this unnecessary pressure on the both of you, and is heavily beta. How do you see someone without being considered a date, esp. when they're new ? Asking to meet for non-sexual/romantic reasons seems to conceal my intentions which i don't want. Thirdly, a bar is a great place for a first time meet up, but after that, "there's no reason to bring sand to a beach". Just to make it clear, bars/pubs/clubs just to initiate/pick-up and further interaction shoul…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 11:30 AM
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How long into the interaction should this be used?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 05:21 AM
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She gets one more chance.. been extra reading trp and fuck it, her loss
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 04:51 AM
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Looking back, that would have set a better precedent and sent a clearer message. Appreciated
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 11:38 AM
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Any pointers on how to begin the date if you got the number after a kiss close in the club but not much else?
/r/trpGAME13/10/14 10:22 AM
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