| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 77 | Why reading Seddit all day won't change anything and how to learn to love yourself | throwiepowie | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 06:34 PM | |
| 17 | A huge "Thank you, brothers" - and a little piece of advise for all that are stuck | throwiepowie | /r/seduction | 21/11/14 05:41 PM | |
| 15 | [FR] First approach on a stranger since an eternety... #-Close | Field Report | throwiepowie | /r/seduction | 18/05/14 02:34 PM |
| 1 | I seem to have a reverse "nice guy problem". How do I know enough is enough? | throwiepowie | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 03:00 PM |
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| – | How to make a girl get out of a car?they will be trying to prove to you that they're cool which is a good thing. i highly doubt adult women minding their business will try to prove they're cool to a random stranger, but maybe that's just me, wrongly assuming that adult people don't act like teenagers | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 08:54 PM |
| – | I'm getting mixed signals from this one girlmaybe she's seeing someone else and doesn't want to risk that relationship? | /r/seduction | 22/01/19 08:51 PM |
| 1 | I am a failure. I give upDude. Everyone's getting laid. Everyone has phases where he doesn't. Same for you. Some of my friends are really hot guys, even models, I'm not kidding, and sometimes they have a bad time and don't get laid for more than six months. Focus your time on things you always wanted to do. Learn a language, get fit, read War & Peace by Tolstoi, whatever. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 10:31 PM |
| 1 | How to approach a girl and hold a conversation with her-> Sidebar. | /r/seduction | 16/05/16 10:25 PM |
| 3 | This is literally the best example of the cool/funny kind of confidence I've ever seen.to me, that video left me with the impression he still had a lot of fun? when you die, will you think about the x girls you banged or the x people you had fun with? | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:27 PM |
| 1 | How bad of an idea is it to tell women that I'm a virgin?Yes, always be honest about yourself and especially your vulnerable points. There is no need to shout them in the world, that would be awkward, but when the topic comes up, don't lie. If you don't talk about it, then tell her when you're about to get at it, read: making out, undressing, ... Just be honest and tell her: "I can tell you're a pro, but baby be gentle, cause I ain't never did this before, no". (not literally these words ;) | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:18 PM |
| 2 | How to penetrate a woman within 30 seconds of meeting…plainly creepy. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Where are the guys with everything stacked against them?dude. if you just want to fuck then go to a hooker. otherwise, follow this plan, you will work out everything else as you go: I could get in better shape (increase muscle mass at gym, since I'm skinny), I could dress better, I could maybe force myself to talk to strangers a bit more (assuming I feel really good from working out, otherwise it's not happening), I could try to get a little busier in general. | /r/seduction | 14/03/16 11:22 PM |
| 1 | A simple trick to get people to like you (x-post from /r/socialskillsaaaaaand the point is to not only compliment girls that you want to get on with :) | /r/seduction | 07/02/16 01:01 AM |
| 1 | '[FR]' The sassy Hooters HB9 #close and battle of willsThis is not a place for pros.. it's for guys who are shy, maybe a bit autistic, very rusty in their social skills. wrong, brother. this place is for people who practice seduction and want to learn about it. nothing to learn without the pros. the place for noobs you mean is called /r/AskSeddit | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 02:10 PM |
| 1 | [FR] -Mall game with #-closeAssumed attraction, and went for it that's the name of the game, buddy :) | /r/seduction | 23/01/16 01:44 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with testsin this case i would so join in and go funnily-sexual with her and your friends. if she's pissed off by this, she needs to get that stick out of her butt... | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 07:47 PM |
| 1 | A huge "Thank you, brothers" - and a little piece of advise for all that are stuckI once wrote a post about "being happy with your life". Basically, everything I've learned is in there. Basically, it's all a question of mindset. Life gives you a brown banana. You can ditch it, since it's brown - or you make awesome banana-milkshake with it. Get the idea? :) | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 01:56 PM |
| 1 | A huge "Thank you, brothers" - and a little piece of advise for all that are stuckI don't even think about them. I live the moment. At this moment, I have two beautiful women and I'm having a hard time even finding time for both of them (university and such...). In another moment, I might have none. Who cares? | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 01:53 PM |
| 1 | A huge "Thank you, brothers" - and a little piece of advise for all that are stucksometimes you need to read between the lines :) Stop counting girls and stop defining yourself through this number. You're more than that (besides, getting rid of counting also means not being needy. Take life as it is. Rather one super-hot girl in one month than four mediocres in a week.) Don't follow creepy self-proclaimed "PUAs", but be your own person with your own personality | /r/seduction | 23/11/14 01:40 PM |
| 1 | "We're not going to have sex tonight" twice in a week from two different girlsactually, i just pulled this lately on a girl i've really wanted. result: she wanted me even more. listen to this guy, brothers! | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Anyone here who *didn't* grow up being social and mingling with girls (i.e. hard-mode seduction)?i've been on a nearly male-exclusive IT high school from age 16 to 19. now i'm on college. my social circle there is 80% girls now. | /r/seduction | 13/11/14 11:19 PM |
| 1 | I seem to have a reverse "nice guy problem". How do I know enough is enough?don't get me wrong. self improvement is a lot about realising things you're doing wrong and doing them better. well, i realised what was wrong about the question and my behaviour that led to it. i changed it. feel better now. thank you again for being so open and direct in your answer | /r/seduction | 04/11/14 10:40 PM |
| 1 | I seem to have a reverse "nice guy problem". How do I know enough is enough?You're an adult at university thank you for reminding me. i was pathetic | /r/seduction | 03/11/14 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Sedditor Locator 2014. Find awesome buddies for sarging!Austria | /r/seduction | 01/11/14 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How to get "In-State" w/o alcoholyou wouldn't believe how many hot girls are into that kind of stuff. | /r/seduction | 22/10/14 10:03 PM |
| 2 | Using game to date to find someone to have a relationship with?Don't regret, see it as a strength. I cannot cold approach daygame, simply because I don't need to. I have a wide social circle and can get to know new people easily. But if they have no context to my life or whatsoever, I find it rather difficult to build up a conversation | /r/seduction | 08/10/14 01:51 AM |
| 1 | Using game to date to find someone to have a relationship with?Don't get me wrong. When I get to know girls, it's mostly during some kind of social situation where time is no matter (eG. parties), so I can get to know her and get "deep" quite soon. If daygame cold approaches are your thing, it is rather hard to bring up interesting topics, but you can do so at your date. | /r/seduction | 07/10/14 02:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I sexy up the title "computer programmer"Be as geeky as you are and embrace the geekiness. Confidence is what makes you sexy, not your job. | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 09:49 PM |
| 4 | Protip: Get naked togetherI thought this was going to be about getting naked in the seduction process. eG a midnight bath in the ice cold lake | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 09:35 PM |
| 2 | Using game to date to find someone to have a relationship with?Bring up topics that really interest you in a genuine way, ask for her opinion, share your yours. Use that to establish a selection process beyond superficial attraction. Usually, I figure out within 5-10 minutes if a girl is interesting beyond her looks or not. If she's not, I mostly drop it. You cannot force a person to connect with you, but you can use game techniques to get to know (and seduce) people you can connect with. edit: oh, don't forget the usual things: loving yourself, living an i… | /r/seduction | 06/10/14 09:29 PM |
| 2 | Using game to date to find someone to have a relationship with?It totally depends on your kind of game, man. Everyone's different. For example, most of my game is based on establishing an emotional and intellectual connection rather than just superficial attraction. | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 09:59 PM |
| 1 | So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'?You're right. But if she's interested she will play along. It's similar to the "let's watch a movie at my place"-situation. It's obvious you don't want to watch a bloody movie. By introducing yourself with a handshake to a total stranger, girl or not... In most daily situations it's just socially weird, but maybe it's my european view of things. | /r/seduction | 05/10/14 09:34 PM |
| 1 | I turned 21 and still haven't been laid, getting frustrated with my lack of game. I need a bit of help.Brr, start with yourself. Focus on your strenghts. If you don't know them, find them out. Live an interesting life. Travel. Alone. (Why? You WILL get to know people, thus you will get used to opening up and maintaining a conversation.) Approach people without the intent to bang them (Again, you will get used to conversation without the pressure of making them want to fuck you.) Success in game is about how interesting you are as a person, techniques just make it easier/faster to score. Once you'… | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 09:47 PM |
| 3 | Her Appearance is not RealityFor some reason your posts aren't performing as great here as they should. Maybe it's your slightly arrogant and sexually explicit style of writing which may cause some people to classify you as poser. Anyway, I do really appreciate your input here, there's truth to the message you try to communicate. Keep it up | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 09:45 PM |
| 1 | So how do i know if a girl find me attractive or is 'checking me out'?uuuuh, rather something in the likes of "i like that bracelet, how did you get it?". come on. a handshake. | /r/seduction | 01/10/14 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Are women 'naturals' at seduction / social interaction?Yeah, I realised afterwards that I could also be related to sexual hormones being released in puberty. | /r/seduction | 27/09/14 02:34 PM |
| 2 | Did... Did I just get hit and quit?i'm just warning everyone who reads this. i would not want any of the people in this community end up in a rape case :) | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Are women 'naturals' at seduction / social interaction?you forgot to paste the last sentence The detected differences in neural connectivity were negligible up to the age of 13, but became much more prominent in the 14-17 year-olds neuronal connections develop afaik, so it's not a question of sex but of your upbringing/education (which is mostly related to sex). | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 08:13 PM |
| 2 | Did... Did I just get hit and quit?be careful! you're basically right, but sometimes "no" really means "no". | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Did... Did I just get hit and quit?don't listen to this dude. if people's judgement mattered to her, she would be very careful about whom she goes to bed with (usually) and would surely not answer with a right-out "yeah, but i prefer you". | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 07:58 PM |
| 2 | I think this subreddit needs more Inner Game posts.It should be the other way round. Seriously. You don't build the house into the veneer, you put the veneer on the house. | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 11:49 AM |
| 2 | I think this subreddit needs more Inner Game posts.Yes, I did realise that. But there are ways to gather confidence and self-security without faking anything and they are far more effective. It took me basically 3 months to establish a deep and stable confidence. Before that, I faked over a long time and it didn't help for shit. Actually, as dumb as it sounds, you need to be yourself. You won't gain happiness or female attraction by pretending not to care, you need to get the idea of not caring deeply into your head. | /r/seduction | 24/09/14 11:46 AM |
| 2 | how can you make a girl like you while walking to the bus?You gave the answer yourself. Every morning you have full 10 minutes you can use for whatever. Smalltalk, teasing, kino, setting up a date (both got a maths-test? You could meet to "learn together") or silently and akwardly walking besides each other. It's in your hands. It is most important that you set the right frame from the beginning on, eG. by teasing her. You have to be interesting for her, so be vague when you talk about yourself, leave space for questions, but be careful not to try too … | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 09:32 PM |
| 4 | I think this subreddit needs more Inner Game posts.we're told to just 'fake it til we make it', but wouldn't it be better if it WASN'T fake? This is so true. I made the experience that many girls are very sensitive for social clues and can easily tell the difference between faked and real confidence. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 09:24 PM |
| 5 | Where do y'all meet the intelligent and intellectually curious women?Everywhere. Near universities, while travelling, at parks, bookstores, bars and soon in your bed. You just need to hit intellectual topics (but please not in a cheesy way) and you'll know within minutes if they're yay or nay. | /r/seduction | 23/09/14 12:43 PM |
| 1 | Seddit, I really, really, really need some help on thisAlright, to be honest, working out or changing style or whatever won't help you for shit. What you need is to get to the point of not caring if you get down with a girl or not. Of course, there are moments when I would have a chance to talk to a hottie and don't do it and afterwards I regret it. But then I say "meh, whatever, I run into hot girls everyday". However, I don't think you're at the point where you are even able to say that, I think you need to learn to love yourself. I recently wrote… | /r/seduction | 22/09/14 01:11 AM |
| 3 | Why reading Seddit all day won't change anything and how to learn to love yourselfWhat is this? Are you envious? Or why do you waste precious time of your life by insulting strangers on the internet? Do you feel good now? | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Why reading Seddit all day won't change anything and how to learn to love yourselfI went from multiple joints a day to zero within a day. I felt, that's the only way to quit. | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Why reading Seddit all day won't change anything and how to learn to love yourselfYea, give it a try and see how it works for you! Reading is also a great point and gives you wonderful opportunities to talk, but I saw that mentioned in so many threads here already, I figured I can leave that part out. | /r/seduction | 19/09/14 11:18 AM |
| 4 | Why reading Seddit all day won't change anything and how to learn to love yourselfYES. This is exactly what I am talking about. It is all about loving yourself and living the moment. I'm glad someone of your age strengthens me in this thought, now I know I'm on the right path, even though being around 10 years younger | /r/seduction | 18/09/14 08:58 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach on a stranger since an eternety... #-CloseThanks, but I just did what everyone here tells you to - just go up to her as if you would know she wants you. | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 10:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR] First approach on a stranger since an eternety... #-CloseYea, that's what I thought too afterwards, but at that very moment I was more in the mood for just going to sleep rather than flirting. Anyway, we had some conversation about the novel I'm named after before I left, so I hope those few minutes of talk will be enough. I'll text her this evening, just have to think of something good... | /r/seduction | 19/05/14 10:18 AM |
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