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| 1 | When a girl starts flirting with me I instantly turn her off or derail the situation. I think I do this as a reaction to having no self esteem for the past couple years. What do I need to do so that when she's flirting, I at least have a decent comeback. I want to play hard to get, not impossible.I think you're filtering out too many women who say "hi" to you. Two surprises for you: Some women value a man who can better himself - it's not the circumstances, but how you react to them. And some women will reject you without caring about your job or weed problems. Plus, when it's just a greeting, maybe take it more casual. Someone saying hello is being friendly, or might be more interested. You don't know so soon. You might be discarding potential friends, not just dating opportunities. "He… | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Being a RPWYou earlier stated "I hope to come off as beautiful, warm, and caring". How is taking about "mentally weak" people warm or caring? Another example: "He was simply trying to waste my time". It was his time, too, wasn't it? Why would someone have a goal of deliberately wasting your time, when they are spending their own time as well? So this comes off as not warm or caring because there's no understanding of his viewpoint. You are saying both that you're "very low quality" and not someone who is "… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/01/17 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Being a RPWYou mentioned "we are too emotional" yet none of your comments betray emotion. Could some level of depression be lurking under your comments? I'd suggest you get some relationship advice from a therapist - or even visit someone familiar with cognitive behavioral therapy. You could mention your need for relationship help, and discuss your 2 year fixation on the guy in college who wasn't interested. I think there's some additional layers to this that can't be unraveled on a forum, but in person wi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/01/17 03:32 AM |
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