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| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 211 | Girls I’m dating are calling me cuteNot too late to delete this bro. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:36 PM |
| 1 | How can I get women to talk to meHow can I get women to talk to me I’m not charismatic or fun. I’m a shy, introverted, quiet, not fun, boring, and not funny or interesting. It's not rocket science, man. | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:35 PM |
| 1 | My dates rarely ask me questionsYou want her doing most of the talking. Just hang back. Why do you feel like you need to talk about yourself? | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Are some people missing a gene for this?Why does it matter? Even if you're missing a gene, how does that materially change your situation? Are you looking for an excuse to give up? Every activity has people that progress more quickly. I used to be a competitive cyclist and knew guys like Remco Evenepoel who went from beginner to best in the world within a year. How does ruminating on that help you? | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:30 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Why does social media matter? Presumably you will be dating these women in private. Most people don't post their dating lives on social media. It's your private life. Do what you want. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I just genuinely don't understand why anyone would want to. It's not rocket science. Because they're physically attractive, which is the top marker for men evaluating women for mating. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 07:44 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Tell me why the head massage emoji has me dyyyying. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 07:41 AM |
| 1 | [33M] My game is tight in all areas: look good, feel good, make good money, well built etc. I just don't have the balls to approach! How to work my way up to an approach?Read She's 6 Steps Away. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 07:39 AM |
| 1 | I've been getting way more attention from girls recently and I don't know what to doDude, you've overcome the biggest hurdle for most guys: getting that initial attraction. Just talk to them, ask them out, try and have sex with them. Do all the normal things... which have been discussed ad nauseam in other threads. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 07:37 AM |
| 2 | How do I escalate/start building tension after initially meeting a girl?It's a mindset. As soon as you see a girl you're attracted to, you need to believe that it's on. Then everything you do towards her will have a sexual vibe vs a purely friends vibe. You're the man so you create your reality. She accepts whatever that reality is. | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 06:53 AM |
| 0 | y’all need to be more confidentWhat's the point of this post? Who asked what your particular preferences are? | /r/seduction | 08/09/22 06:48 AM |
| 1 | Got another one for you “experts” about the woman’s who bailed on first date even though they seem highly interested while setting up dateIf you schedule a date for 4 days from now, don't ignore the woman for 4 days. Send a few texts here and there. Even better, follow each other on instagram and like/comment on stories. Women are emotion based so they need to feel you at least a little bit on a regular basis. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 09:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?Status is everything in this silly game. Congrats. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Do you guys ask for Instagram when you meet a girl on OLD?How did you get verified? | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 02:10 AM |
| 173 | Had sex with an attractive girl now i'm depressed.If you did it once, you can do it again. She's not the only attractive woman in the world that you can sleep with. Keep playing the game. Also, you should try cold approach. Then the women will for sure be bangers. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Three words have never been more profound in this dating age………..let her go(this is my opinion)I don’t think the lesson from your story is that persistence is a bad idea. You should persist at times and you should let go at times. I currently am fwb with a woman I persisted with. It’s a normal part of courting women. | /r/seduction | 17/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 2 | Spam approaches don't work personallyDating is one domain where it's better to be a woman. | /r/seduction | 15/08/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Girl I liked taking interest in my best friendYou should be happy for your friend, bro. Don't make everything about you. | /r/seduction | 14/08/22 10:33 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Problems are self created. All that exists is experience. Everything else is made up by you. This is only a problem because you're making it one. Understand that everything is impermanent. All relationships end. Some after 1 night, others after 1000 nights. You likely have something from your past triggering these feelings. Maybe your Dad left at a young age? Or you're new to dating (being 18) and over time you'll feel less. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:16 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Agree with this, as a man. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | How long has it been since you’ve gotten laid and how old are you? I’m 27 and it’s been 8+ years for meYour life really isn't as bad as you're acting like it is. This is called catastrophizing. It's your life so you can either keep going down this path of being a bitch or man up and take action. The universe doesn't care either way. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:53 PM |
| 1 | Approaching before rating?It's 3 seconds from the moment you decide you're in to the girl, not the moment you notice her. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to approach a topless girl?How you feel about the situation will determine the outcome. Just act normal (cause it is. Society weirdly makes nudity a big deal). If you think it's weird you'll project that on to the situation. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 08:37 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Is it actually "girls" or did a single girl do this to you? | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:29 AM |
| 29 | [deleted by user]Both should be upfront with what they're looking for and what their goals are. This is a fairy tale. You don't know what you want. You know what you think you want. I'm sure you've experienced wanting something, getting it, and then no longer wanting it. I think you can have a guidepost like "I'd like to get married some day" but hard and fast goals I think aren't useful. | /r/seduction | 11/08/22 02:26 AM |
| 2 | Cold approached for the first time the other night, here’s what happened.Bro, you're 19. Great job for starting so young. Keep up the great work. If you get some more practice with cold approach and then go off to college you will have a great time. Even if you don't go to college being this outgoing will make for a great time in your 20s. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.Where here did I say I "require her to reorganise her life around you"? | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 7 | “Don’t text back if she left you on read” is BS.+1000. Also guarantee if that was a girl you'd slept with she wouldn't be forgetting to text you back. She just doesn't care that much yet. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 04:04 AM |
| 3 | yes but noYou will get flaked on by tons of women. That's why people like to say "it's a numbers game". 9 out of 10 interactions with a woman won't lead to anything. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 09:53 PM |
| 5 | What is it that makes the men 'unable to commit' so desirable to women who want them to commit to exclusivity?I think women actually get off on pining after a guy who doesn't want them, while simultaneously rejecting the available and willing guys. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 02:33 AM |
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