tleavesdogears Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Reminder to men: I had some time to reflect, and you're right: and I'm sorry for generalizing. I will say that when I have logged onto r/mensrights, r/mgtow or gone to A Voice for Men or Return of Kings, what I do see more often than not is a very anti-feminist dialog whenever feminists are discussed which labels the vast majority of them as rabid, reactionary man-haters. That doesn't at all reflect the feminism that I've encountered as a whole. Are there bad feminists? Of course. And I'm sure you can and will s…	/r/MensRights	17/12/15 07:24 PM
1	Reminder to men: If she doesn't say anything, how could she have removed consent? What they mean is that if she literally says "stop" or "no" partway through, then you should stop. If she passes out, you should stop. If she falls asleep, etc. I agree that consent should be taught equally, and that the current perceptions of sexual desire mean our society assumes men always want it, which makes it harder for them to come forward with their own abuse.	/r/MensRights	17/12/15 02:34 PM
0	Reminder to men: I didn't accuse the sub of generalizing. I accused it if something specific. And when MRA talks about "feminists" they are almost always talking about this very narrow definition.	/r/MensRights	17/12/15 04:00 AM
0	Reminder to men: I do think the ways schools and workplaces have tried to talk about consent has been ultimately harmful and lazy, because in the end it's more about protecting themselves than it is about protecting students. Because by and large, I don't know personally of woman who consider an advance to be harassment unless it's accompanied by unwelcome touching, or if they've said no and their response is met with persistence or hostility.	/r/MensRights	16/12/15 08:56 PM
0	Reminder to men: How is asking for the right to vote and equal pay treating men like others?	/r/MensRights	16/12/15 08:44 PM
1	Reminder to men: Men and minorities are separate groups?	/r/MensRights	16/12/15 04:02 PM
0	Reminder to men: In the sense that the pressures and expectations on men often harm men -- hence workplace death, suicide rates, etc.	/r/MensRights	16/12/15 04:01 PM
-1	Reminder to men: Yep. MRA loves pretending that female chauvinists dominate feminism. It just isn't true.	/r/MensRights	16/12/15 04:00 PM