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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 5 | This is hands down one of the most utterly depressing things I’ve ever seen. No matter how bleak things get, thanks to FDS we’ll never be this woman, passively rejected for a proposal by her child’s father after 11 YEARS of dating.Nailed it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 09:45 PM |
| 37 | If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no!Yes! You’re right, sometimes it’s done intentionally and maliciously. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 07:16 AM |
| 109 | If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no!Agreed agreed agreed. There are so many ways people can phrase “no”, whether they think they’re being polite or just bad at communicating. Mixed messages are always a no! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 05:56 AM |
| 319 | FDS theories confirmedI’m not a university student but I do see this amongst my peers (late 20s to mid 30s) unfortunately. Men really do tend to have an over inflated sense of their own value as a partner or lover and they treat women as disposable or interchangeable. It’s really sad to see. I hate it the most when I hear about accomplished, attractive, independent women being treated poorly by men who are frankly unworthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/21 09:12 AM |
| 74 | Spotted in another thread. She needs FDS!Me too. This has made me really sad. I’m 30. One day I would really like to love and be truly loved but I’m just not sure if that’s realistic. Maybe I should start mourning that fantasy now. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/21 06:17 AM |
| 55 | Upholding boundaries around porn/sex work/strip clubs is not insecure. Actually, it’s the opposite of insecure.This comment is so beautiful I want to print and frame it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/10/21 02:27 AM |
| 36 | Truth in humor?😬In case anyone’s interested, I got a message in my inbox from a male lurker explaining how hardddd it is for men to retain their hair. Wow, if only it was as easy for them as it is for women! Ladies, we’re so lucky that all our procedures are incredibly cheap, accessible, safe, and don’t require fastidious maintenance 🙄 https://m.imgur.com/a/7hqwjlZ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How do you guys go about walking out on a date safely?Hilarious, though I’m sure it was awful for you at the time. I’m glad the bloody scrote had repercussions for his bad behaviour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:43 AM |
| 3 | How to slam down a guy expecting wife benefits at girlfriend levelMy exact thoughts 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:06 AM |
| 203 | Truth in humor?😬I genuinely wish there was more societal pressure on men to spend time, money, research, effort and emotional labour on keeping their hair (you know, like women and our ENTIRE BODIES). A full head of hair on a man is the one part I’m most attracted to but by my age (30) most have started significantly thinning. They care a BIT but not enough to actually make a difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 07:00 AM |
| 15 | A friend I shared FDS with sent this to me today! Great reason why men should pay for dates!Seems fair 😎 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 06:57 AM |
| 23 | Spotted in another sub. Subtle red flag that I (as a short-legged woman) have experienced too!I am not exaggerating when I say I’d dump a man for this. If he’s walking ahead of me, it better be to hail a taxi we want to hop into. I can’t think of many other reasons. Helping someone who needs medical attention? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/21 06:54 AM |
| 51 | The Real Reason Men Always Pursue the Women Who Want Relationships as “Hookups” - Summarized Perfectly in this TikTok *chef’s kiss*This is so perfect | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 07:51 AM |
| 43 | The insults men make about women's bodies - and what THEY look likeFor some reason “firm those legs up” has fucking triggered me. Like women can just ✨decide✨to stop having cellulite but Shakira is just being lazy or something?? Weird little weedy scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/10/21 01:25 PM |
| 119 | FDS is BACK!Yay! I’ve missed you! Welcome back :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/21 08:51 AM |
| 8 | The breakup level up cliche is totally true!Love to read this. I also had a nasty breakup with a LV clown about six weeks ago, and I’m doing my very best to take the opportunity to thrive. It’s not easy every day but I’m so much better than I was with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/21 02:44 AM |
| 79 | Why they neg, straight from the horse’s mouth.This person needs deep psychological intervention. The fixation on this feature and wanting to punish all women for it is just… bizarre. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/10/21 12:14 AM |
| 195 | Scrote chases woman down an alley hollering and saying “come here” aggressively. Proceeds to call the woman racist for being scared, along with “dumb bitch” a few times.Absolute piece of SHIT. And also dumb, can this video be used as evidence for harassment or intimidation? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 11:51 PM |
| 82 | Man baby and forever gfThis guy is a fucking CLOWN. His poor girlfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/21 11:46 AM |
| 4 | I set the boundary…Please stay vigilant. I did the exact same thing as you and set a clear boundary a month into the relationship. He seemingly accepted it happily. I thought that was amazing. Turns out he had lied to my face and I found out years later. It broke my heart. My advice would be to look out for other red flags within the relationship. For me, I was prompted to snoop because he started not wanting to have sex, and when we did, couldn’t get hard 🤮 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 09:52 PM |
| 99 | The sign reads “Convince my boyfriend to propose to me.” Harry: How long have you guys been together? Her: 7 Years. Harry: I can’t help you.Love this advice. You need to be the moving train, if he doesn’t jump on, he loses you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/09/21 02:31 AM |
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