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My tin-foil hat theory is Trump's GOP run is a way to boost Hillary in the polls (or just whoever ends up being the front runner for the Dems so maybe Sanders). It's beautiful.
/r/TheRedPill13/08/15 06:09 PM
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I genuinely believe that whoever was posting is not a man. This has to be a troll post. Men don't talk that like or type like that. That is a woman.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:10 PM
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I miss FPH everyday. It was a beautiful community. :(
/r/TheRedPill31/07/15 02:08 PM
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I am subscribed though I am unsure of the distinction between being subscribed as a default. That's a good theory!
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 08:49 PM
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That's why I have my main reddit account and this one.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:02 AM
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Yeah, same here. I was a little surprised to be on the list. I post here off an on but mostly lurk.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 10:01 AM
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You have to jump through hoops to get your tubes tied too so in that regard, the field is equal. You can't compare abortions to vasectomies - you can compare tubal ligations.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/15 09:19 PM
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I like to call this the Business/Management Major Body. Walk onto any college campus and check out their Business school and you'll see what I mean.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/15 03:19 PM
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There are an annoying number of posts that seem to play to the tune of "help me get a man". I get frustrated with those too. However, I'm only here for me and my relationship. I can't give a damn about what some guy on youtube thinks about that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/15 12:23 PM
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I dress nice on a daily basis when I leave home so I'm not too worried about that; but I don't have anything nice to wear at home. I wear t-shirts from high school and sweatpants, they are childish and unattractive, I need to get rid of them I think I've considered making a post about this. It's really easy to improve your girl game with home wear and still be comfortable. I mention comfort because that seems to be a main concern. My first tip is ditch your old t-shirts and whatever else you sle…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/15 12:35 PM
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This is a stupid fucking comment. No one here is going to deny that muscle mass and strength are vastly different for men and women but the reason isn't because "they didn't evolve". It's precisely because of evolution that men and women have different physiques.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 11:15 PM
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Not only that, but eventually your children grow up and go out on their own, that is the hope, the goal, and the fucking point. Putting your kids 1st for the duration of their upbringing not only makes kids spoiled and entitled but effectively ruins your marriage. What do you do when your kids are gone? Not your husband, I can tell you that. That ship sailed years ago.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 03:29 AM
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Wrong. Wrong. Wrong. This is a product of the children first parenting schema that has created a generation of entitled, special snowflakes. The formula should always be spouse > children. You can still love your children and have your spouse as #1. When you put your children before your spouse you eventually have a dissolution of the relationship. What are you going to do after 18 years of ignoring your husband? Your kids are gone and off to college and neither of you give a shit about one anot…
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 03:06 AM
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Since the French are considered to be some of the slimmest people in Europe on average, I really don't think this law was a result of SJW or fatties wanting their way and is really focused on the dangerous health consequences of being severely underweight. Simply put, if you cannot hire people who are too thin, there is no incentive for girls to try to continuously lose weight, reducing the likeliness of people developing disordered eating. Anorexia is an issue in the modeling industry and the h…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 04:09 AM
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I don't know the episode or what happened so I can't comment on that in particular but you also hear about white couples giving birth to darker babies because they had no idea there were black people in the family tree. I've got a friend who has a white mom, black dad and half her siblings are black as night and the other half are very fair, but they have the exact same facial features. Genetics are weird man. Suffice to say, going by skin color isn't always the safest bet.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 04:04 PM
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If you're black don't rely on what the baby looks like too too much. A lot of black babies come out looking much lighter than you would think.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 10:54 AM
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That's a really credible source you've linked to buddy. You're just spewing what it commonly referred to as fatlogic. Best of luck with that.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/15 12:42 AM
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You can totally be an engineer and still avoid BB status. Just keep up your appearance. Doubly productive for you because you're more likely to be successful in the office. You'll get noticed because you command people's attention especially among a see of poorly dressed, skinny shy dudes.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:32 PM
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Thyroid disorders do not account for the enormous amount of weight that the people who claim to have them put on. At the end of the day if your calories in > calories out, you're going to be fat.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/15 05:22 PM
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In relation to this post - those of you out there who have your shit together and care about future generations. Consider becoming a Big Brother with the Big Brother Big Sister organization. Most of those boys come from a low SES and are predominantly single parent households. You just might be the only strong male that they regularly interact with. And even if you don't keep in contact with them forever, your time with them will be invaluable. Do it for the children!
/r/TheRedPill31/03/15 10:24 AM
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Other users have hit some great points but I just wanted to add - learn to accept compliments graciously. Someone tells you that you look nice, you're beautiful, they like your dress? Smile and say thank you. Don't deflect the compliment or make people regret giving it. I know you didn't mention that specifically but it's a problem a lot of people seem to have with social interactions.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/15 10:18 AM
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Except that you could (and probably do) have asymptomatic herpes.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/15 04:53 PM
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Wow this is fascinating. When I input my statement of purpose for grad school applications and research papers for grad school it identified me as male. However, when I input basic emails and gchats with my SO it identifies me as female. I always knew I upped the ante and tried to be more direct in professional writing, very cool to learn that and confirm that the style is Male. My research shows that effective communication is masculine! (I got into grad school and made a 100 on that paper).
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 07:50 PM
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Sure, you can say something up front (depending on how up front you mean). But it's how you phrase it that can really matter. What exactly do you mean by up front and where are you meeting men? I don't think it's necessarily leading people on to refrain from saying it until things start to get a little intimate. If you're out and about in a public setting, you don't really need to bring up the fact that you don't want to have sex - it's a little awkward to do so. If he invites you over to his pl…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 07:11 PM
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Your phrasing is all off. Whether you intend to or not, you are giving them an ultimatum. Instead, you should try approaching it with "I am not ready to have sex with someone until I am sure of the relationship". Which is true without putting marriage on the table in the very beginning of the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 06:43 PM
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When my SO and I first started dating he didn't have a lot of money and I had more spending money (my parents paid for school and his didn't). We would go on dates that didn't really cost much like to the museum. Now that he's graduated he has a really great job and absolutely insists on paying every single time and has actually gotten mad at me for trying to take the bill. So I try to "pay him back" in other ways. If we had first started dating as we are today (i.e. had he had a lot of money wh…
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 11:51 AM
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All he showed was a graph with no information on the study, the population, etc. A stand alone graph means absolutely nothing. It doesn't even have the X and Y axis labeled.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 04:51 PM
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This is not "evidence" that blacks perform lower on IQ tests because they are black. This just shows average IQ scores and outliers.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/15 10:56 AM
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There are also studies that say that essentially, by the time you are ~5 your body hits it's natural queue of "this is how much I need to eat to feel full" and "this how big I need to be" so you fuck up your kid for the long haul by them being overweight at an early age.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 08:56 PM
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I love watching supersize vs superskinny and You Are What You Eat (not on anymore) and the occasional episodes where there are kids involved are just so fucking sad. And the excuse after excuse for why they eat they way they do "we're so busy, I don't have time to cook real food, blah blah blah". Gillian on You Are What You Eat got real frank one day and was like "No, I'll tell you why, you can't be blinking bothered." So much truth.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/15 08:55 PM
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This is a good standard. As they say, all jokes have some truth to them.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 11:57 AM
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I think he was probably offended because it wasn't a discussion or an agreement that they came to - it was her telling him that's what she was going to do. Additionally, all she said (according to the thread) is that she will stop working when he makes enough money. Not that she will stop working to take care of the kids and x, y, and z. I can see why it would be an offensive thing to say. It's very presumptuous.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/15 01:46 AM
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Just don't tell single childless people that we're making a mistake by not doing it. I don't get people who don't get people not wanting to have children. I have wanted children of my own since I was old/mature enough to recognize my ability to have children. As trite as it is to say, I feel it in my bones. I look at kids and my heart hurts thinking about my future children. So what I'm getting at, is if I can feel and recognize this innate desire to have children, why is it so hard for people t…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 04:56 PM
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I submit that a mother's love is, to some degree, solipsistic as well. Consider for a moment that a mother loves her child and takes good care of her child because her self-image (and even more importantly, her public image) is dependent upon it. This can be further backed up by some of the threads I've read on /r/twox, etc. about women who have just never come to love their children (and I'm not talking about post-partum depression). However, I won't agree with you entirely. I think there are w…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 08:16 PM
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Are you on birth control? I changed my method about 2 1/2 years ago and my libido plummeted. It was awful. I would almost have to force myself to engage in sex because my body just did not care. I stopped about 3 months ago and WAHOO has it been a change. If you are on birth control I would strongly suggest either trying a different form or going off it entirely. It's a hard decision but if it's a matter of saving your relationship...
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 07:49 PM
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Do not overeat. Leave food on your plate. I'm not kidding. People treat a woman different that eats all the food. I don't know why. Bring granola bars in your purse for the car ride home. Again-not joking. Eat enough to be polite but not to look like you are hungry. Such good advice but always makes me so sad because the food is normally delicious. Edit: format
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/15 07:46 PM
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I feel that there are instances where a person can post without authority but the content of their post almost requires their gender be revealed. For example, there was a post where I talked about the differences between my and my SO's ability to interact with children in a public setting. How do we deal with that?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:40 PM
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I do actively use /r/redpillwomen but it's got to be noted that /r/theredpill has nearly 13x the amount of subscribers therefore has more frequent posts, better content, etc. I don't know how to change that about /r/redpillwomen. Additionally, frequently the posts tend to focus on "how to get a man". I care about Red Pill Theory in general. Edit: typo
/r/TheRedPill11/03/15 07:38 PM
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I liked boyish things and still to this day feel uncomfortable and skirts and dresses. Just want to say that you can totally pull off a feminine style and wear predominantly pants. I like to wear skirts and dresses but it can be hard for me to pull off on the day to day because my legs are so long and frankly I love pants and how I look in them. My SO also happens to love me in pants because he loves my legs. Suffice to say. Dresses and skirts does not always equal feminine. It's more about the …
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 01:00 PM
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All of my acquaintances who have the strongest feminist opinions also happen to have the least successful relationships and hop from guy to guy and moan about how they can't find a good one. I wonder why? /s
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 12:56 PM
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My dad is like yours, showed his love through actions. However, there was the added complication of him serving overseas for most of my childhood so me coming to the realization of "this is how I know he loves me" came much much later in life. I wish my mom had told me like your mom did when I was much younger. I didn't really get the lesson until I was just starting college and having some communication issues with my dad. So to echo your point, pointing out these differences is so important.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/15 04:22 PM
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Sorry if this is a bit of a humblebrag but Smiling is my default and people are so damn nice to me! And it's not even people hitting on me. I get genuine compliments. Sometimes I am really taken aback by things that happen and then I remember I have this smile plastered on my face. I live in a big city so I am about a lot and at least once a day someone comments on how nice my smile is! It's always a really great compliment to receive no matter who is giving it. Smile more! Be happier! Make othe…
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/15 12:42 PM
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This has little to do with your actual post but I have always been really curious about your profession. Are you able to work standard hours? How often do you drive overnight? Is pay commission, hourly, flat salary?
/r/TheRedPill25/02/15 08:50 PM
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We're not married or engaged yet, but we've been dating for so long that I feel silly using the term boyfriend. I sometimes use partner but people tend to associate that with gay partner. People probably wouldn't have drawn that conclusion here but it's just become habit to say SO because of the association involved with the word "partner". But yeah, I get your point.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 05:16 AM
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And frozen sperm only lasts so long...
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:25 AM
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Know what kind of looks I get when I do that? I can't properly express how much this bothers me. I love saying hello to children and babies and as a female everyone thinks it's totally cute and okay. My SO loves children as much as I do, more so maybe and when he's not with me he can't do all of those things and same as you, he's clean cut, looks like he walked out of a J Crew catalog. You're right, no point in letting it bother you, but it should be brought up and mentioned and discussed as muc…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 04:00 AM
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Do not go to bars in the hopes of meeting someone who is interested in a relationship. Sure you've got your stories of people who met their spouse at a bar but those are the exception, not the rule. Bars are part of the hook up scene and you are not looking for a hook-up. Bars can be a lot of fun but don't go there expecting to meet Mr. Right. Most guys in a bar are not there with finding Mrs. Right in mind. Are you participating in any activities outside of work and school? In my city a lot of …
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/15 02:20 AM
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He means settle for something less.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/15 02:25 PM
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I think sororities can also be really different environments depending on your geographical region (and school of course). Down South sororities seem to be really money focused and cliquey and my friends from way up North say that sororities are really academically focused.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/15 01:15 PM
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Yeah 1000 calories a day is a crock of shit. Her body aside, there's no way 1000 calories would have supported that level of exercise. Whatever people have to tell themselves, more gym space for me.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 12:22 PM
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Further, if you are constantly venting to your friends they rarely get to see the positives of your life and start to assume you are just this big ball of negative energy and nobody likes to be around that. Make it a point to discuss the positives in your life with your friends. A conscious change in how you talk will start to reflect back onto how you think and will ultimately end the cycle of the never ending bitching.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/15 12:59 AM
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I also wonder how much the numbers are influenced by suicides by armed forces members (i.e. more men than women in the military). And then just the awful stigma mental illness has when it comes to men vs. women.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/15 12:48 AM
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Ummm that is redpill in a LTR exactly. Men filling their natural dominant role and women being submissive. Relationships tend to fall apart with a reversal of the roles.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 01:27 AM
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All of your posts keep coming back to the same theme - you don't understand the base of RedPill. Men and women are different and have different goals. There is an alignment because RedPill is about sexual strategy. Also as posted above, RPW recognize that quality long term partners do not align completely with solely "alpha" traits.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 04:28 PM
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Again, RPW is focused on the female aspect of sexual strategy. What goes on in TRP doesn't actually concern us. If you had poked around before posting you would see that RPW time and time again recognize the fact that a "high value" man who makes for a good lifetime partner does not align solely with the characteristics and goals of the typical "redpill Alpha".
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 04:25 PM
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Correcting someone who is clueless does not equate to caring about what someone thinks of your personal lifestyle.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 04:22 PM
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I think the big thing about male friendships for me is perception and respect. I have male friends but we don't hang out solo, I don't go to lunch alone with male coworkers, male friends are not hanging out in my house without my SO home as well. I don't necessarily care about what people think of me, but I do care about what my relationship looks like to those on the outside because that treads into the realm of being respectful to my SO.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 04:18 PM
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Well obviously you are missing something, you don't understand TheRedPill at it's base. RedPill first and foremost is an acceptance of the innate differences of male and female and how that plays into sexual dynamics - i.e. sexual strategy. RPW is focused on the female aspect of that. And no one here cares about how other people perceive us. We care about improving ourselves and our relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 04:13 PM
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/r/femalefashionadvice /r/skincareaddiciton /r/personalfinance /r/vegetarianism /r/food /r/xxfitness I subscribe to a few subreddits related to my favorite book series, I really like science fiction, and to some related to show series I am finishing up. I also subscribe to the subreddits for my city and my graduate institution as well as ones related to my industry but won't post those for the sake of anonymity.
/r/RedPillWomen10/10/14 12:25 PM
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Better lifts for glutes: glute bridges, hip thrusts, all variations of DL's, GHR, good mornings Tell me more! I love when you post. I assume DLs are dead lifts, but what are GHRs and good mornings?
/r/RedPillWomen09/10/14 04:32 PM
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I buy my SO beef jerky randomly. He LOVES it. He gets so excited when I come home and say "Close your eyes! I have a surprise!" And then I place the beef jerky pack in his hands and it's like he's just won the lottery. Is there anything like that your SO would like? You say he doesn't care for gifts but there's got to be something out there that he would really appreciate getting on a random occasion. My SO also really likes nice socks. He doesn't always buy them for himself because he kind of h…
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 09:02 PM
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I transformed my body in the past year with lifting heavy weights. Lost 60 pounds, I've looked the BEST in my ENTIRE life at age 30. Congratulations!!
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/14 08:47 PM
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That's fair. We have discussed though that should we break up I would pay him back for the money he gave me. I know that probably isn't enough for you since you don't know me or him but I would definitely give him his money back even if I had to do it in small increments. I definitely understand what you're saying. There are so many horror stories. But I certainly don't think we will be one. If I am reading his hints correctly we may be engaged by the end of my first semester! I have nothing els…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 08:47 PM
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I don't see how it's messy. We each have our separate accounts that we deposit are paychecks into and our joint account we put money into every month to pay for living expenses and stuff that we do together. Most couples I know who live together do this because it's easier than saying "hey you owe me $xx.xx for this" every time you make a purchase. How is providing me an allowance bad financial sense? It's not like it's going to be thousands of dollars, it's just going to help me cover a portion…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 08:25 PM
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That's a great idea! I know there are websites to hook up with people looking for rides. I'll definitely do this.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 08:13 PM
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Can you elaborate? We already live together and and have a joint bank account. I will be taking out student loans but we're trying to make it so I only have to take out Federal because of the better interest rates. Marriage is a topic of conversation but has not been on the forefront until more recently since he is graduating this semester. Honestly though, this money thing is his decision.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 08:12 PM
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Good idea! I have a feeling I'm going to be logging a lot of hours on my crockpot.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 06:32 PM
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Definitely! We won't find out if he's staying put or going to the other branch until May so at least he'll be within driving distance for sure for the first semester of my program. Communication and trust are paramount. Don't allow squabbles to turn into fights. Such excellent advice. My favorite phrase these days is "don't sweat the small stuff." In the end all of the little things that I let annoy me don't really matter. Skype night is great. Good alternative to random everyday phone conversat…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 06:31 PM
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Thank you! Also there have been hints about an engagement so maybe it will go by super fast if I'm also planning a wedding. :) Trying not to get my hopes up though. I know ring talk can really get to a person's head haha
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 04:17 PM
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Thank you for this. I've definitely hashed all of this out by myself and with my SO. We've both agreed that I should do the program. I'm not happy where I work now and I can't really get to where I want to be without a little more schooling. Didn't mention this before but there is a practicum portion for my degree that I have to complete over the summer. My plan is to complete it where he lives. Once I graduate I plan to move to where he is. The job market (in either of the cities he'll be place…
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 04:11 PM
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Online programs for my Masters are not respected and the school has to be accredited for the Masters to be of any worth. I am not concerned about finding a job when I graduate. My plan is to move to wherever he is when I am done with my program. Either of the locations he will be at for his job are great areas for my field. I can do a lot with my Masters in private or public sector. My masters is considered a "professional degree". I'm not getting a MS. I don't want to be specific just in case. …
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 03:59 PM
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Woo! That app! Haha, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 02:24 PM
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when you skype treat it like a date night That's excellent advice. It's so easy to just skype in PJs, I know he'll appreciate me dressing up. prepared to not hear from him all the time You're right. I used to be really bad about this when we first started dating but I've learned quality over quantity (if you will). Thank you for everything!
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 02:23 PM
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A care package is a great idea. He gets so happy just over little presents like a bag of beef jerky! We don't take nearly enough photos, that's a good idea. I definitely plan on surprise visits if he stays where we live now. Hopefully I'll be able to afford a surprise trip or two if he moves to the other branch.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 02:21 PM
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Thank you! And double thanks for that website. It is wonderful. Cookies are a great idea too. Will definitely be freezing some dough.
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 02:19 PM
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That's a great idea! Thank you! What are some of your favorite meals/recipes that freeze well for long periods?
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/14 01:35 PM
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Don't relax when it comes to modesty. I never change in front of my husband. This is really something I need to improve on. It gets really tricky because our apartment is so teeny, we don't really have our own dressing space. I have a robe so that helps. Sometimes though we get crunched for time in the morning and we both have to leave at the same time for work so I end up getting dressed for work in the bedroom while he is too. But this is really great advice. My SO has even mentioned that he'd…
/r/RedPillWomen22/09/14 03:29 PM
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Yeah I love mine. It's also the perfect solution when I have a headache.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/14 12:48 PM
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Has to be a troll at this point, she hasn't responded to anything.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 01:23 AM
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Get one of these bad boys stick it in the fridge and wear it when you feel like you're going to die. You can hide it from your bf if you're worried about looking silly but my bf thinks it's cute and calls me a super hero. Stick with salads. Salads can be really interesting and delicious. Make your own dressings. And fruit smoothies in the morning. Along with the mask put a cool towel on the back of your neck. You probably do, but if not, buy some fans.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/14 12:45 AM
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Oh yes in full agreement. I was just pointing on the unintentional positives her little book might have.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:18 PM
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I'm turning 25 in 6 months and people gasp in disbelief when I tell them I am about to start my masters and state how they thought I was "like 16 or something" so sorry. It's nothing new and you're not unique - get over being treated young. Once you hit 30+ you're going to kill for that treatment again. You are in environmental science, you're working in an elementary school and you expect to be paid a lot? I'm assuming you only have your bachelors. You're barking up the wrong tree if you think …
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:14 PM
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Just like every anti red pill post on reddit draws up more subscribers to /r/TheRedPill - this book if published will draw more people to our sub. People come out of hate, curiosity, etc. and stay after reading more and understanding the babble on the internet doesn't accurately portray what this is about.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/14 05:07 PM
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Not exactly answering your question but dominance can be up played and down played depending on the situation. In college I was dominant in group projects. I wanted to get the work done and I wanted to get a good grade and I did not have time to screw around with my partners. I am dominant in my role at work. I do a great job, I am praised by management, I am given raises. I do not let coworkers step on me. I am submissive in my relationship. What S says goes, he leads, I follow. We talk about t…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/14 01:41 PM
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The reason I know modern feminism is a joke is my facebook feed for the last two days has been outcries against the celebrity nude photo leaks (boohoo woe is me, I was stupid and uploaded naked pictures of myself to an unsecure network) and literally no one has posted anything about the incidents in Rotherham. Sometimes I'd like to kick some of these ladies out and have them live in a place like Iraq, Syria, India for 6 months and see how much they decide to whine about "issues" in the US when t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 05:22 PM
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Thank you! Really disturbed with the amount of people lately who want to come in and change their man.
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/14 01:27 AM
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I'll wear it in the Fall, higher denier tights in the Winter. Other than that, no thanks. You can dress conservatively without it. Besides, if you're not doing it correctly, pantyhose can really age a look.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 07:41 PM
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The original story was published in 1837. The Disney movie suggests it is set in late 1700s, early 1800s.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/14 01:23 AM
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Not married yet but it's on the horizon as he finishes school this year. We have been dating for 3 years and met when I was 22 and he was 23. I'd share the story but too afraid of people lurking this sub and figuring out who I am... We met at the house of a mutual friend though.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 01:38 PM
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While I agree in general, I think that watching television can be a hobby, if you are an active and engaged watcher and choose what you watch with a purpose. For instance, I certainly don't sit in front of the TV and veg out but I do have a handful of shows that I am a big fan of and watch. I watch them with my SO. We discuss the episodes, what we think is going to happen next, our favorite characters, why we like them. I can think of several good television shows that have just really made me t…
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/14 03:28 PM
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Thank you so much! This was very helpful. If I can find a good casein protein at the store this weekend I will experiment! Also great tip in your previous comment about altering the flavors. I'm going to try coconut flakes this time too! Thanks for all of your help!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 06:04 PM
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Thank you for the tip!! Could you go more into detail about protein powders. What are your favorites? What is "healthiest". We have been using whey because we do a lot of our grocery shopping at Trader Joe's and that's mostly what they sell. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen08/08/14 05:17 PM
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You're right. That did come off has not empathetic. I guess I read it as the office is having a plank challenge but his wife and Johnny are the only two who are actually doing it - so it seemed less of a planned "let's do this together" activity. However, if it is something that they did come up with together that would make me extremely uncomfortable.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 01:04 AM
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Ah okay. Then start reading the same books and watching the same series of shows so that you can talk about them over the phone!
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 01:02 AM
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Do you read? Read more. Read everything (but not crap magazine everything). Do you watch TV/movies? That's okay but be an active watcher. I only watch series of shows that I'm really interested in, films from my favorite genres, documentaries. Do you have any hobbies? I really like to bake and cook. I like looking up new recipes to try out. I also like gardening and insects. I like to collect and pin insects. Anyway, my point is you've got to cultivate your interests. You can't just become "more…
/r/RedPillWomen01/08/14 12:42 AM
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Who cares who is involved in the plank challenge if it's just a plank challenge and they're seeing if they can do it? Also doubtful plank challenge is being completed in office. More likely plank challenge is done at home and results shared in office.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 08:53 PM
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I mean things like expressing a want go go out for drinks with "coworkers" after hours or mentioning she grabbed lunch with Johnny because no one else was available. Obviously a full blown relationship outside of work is too late. Mentioning random things about a coworker to your SO is normal - you spend all day with these people. Wanting to spend extra time with them outside of work? - NO NO NO
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:11 PM
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That's not what I'm saying. I'm saying there can be reasons for mentioning this coworker besides an attraction. OP says this guy is new. It makes plenty of sense that she is talking about him a lot now because he is new. And I said, he should start to worry when she tries to maintain a relationship with this coworker outside of the office.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 02:03 PM
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I am in a serious, live together, LTR and there are two guys at work that I talk to my SO about regularly because we get along well, I think they are good workers, and I hate most of the other people I work with. Example of me bringing one guy up - let's call him James. Me to SO: James is reading this series of books and has talked about them a lot. They seem really cool, we should read them after we finish this series. Example of the other guy who started last month - we'll call him Matt. Me to…
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 01:45 PM
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I don't think shirts will come off as supporting him especially if you get him nice shirts and phrase it as "baby I saw these and thought about how good you would look it them and had to buy them for you." I've gotten my SO shirts for his birthday before (back when he was struggling too) and he loved them because I got them from a store he really likes in a favorite pattern.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 06:06 PM
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You're getting hung up on me mentioning the subreddit's use of Nazi. I will stand by my statement that using "race-realist before the Nazis" is a negative because the Nazi version of race-realism led to genocide. I will concede that I did overlook the actual point of the article. I will also stand by the fact that the subreddit does not paint a clear picture of what it is for. So in the interest of not being confrontational and setting aside judgement, please explain what human biodiversity mean…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 05:13 PM
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I didn't make the Nazi reference. The front page of that subreddit did. And if that's the most recent and upvoted content for that sub then it says enough. No discussion and only linking to same handful of websites aren't valid points? Now you're in denial too.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:33 PM
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I'm prejudice because I judge a subreddit by it's front page? Do you know how reddit works? The most recent and most upvoted (and most discussed, but that is not applicable in this case as there is none) is on the front page. You're deflecting. You're full of bullshit too I see.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:29 PM
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If the front page of a subreddit is not an adequate representation of the subreddit then what is? Don't worry, I checked out some of the bullshit links too.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:23 PM
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I'm sorry for that. In that case pick whatever race of the parent who raised you as they're the only one who matters.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:17 PM
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The subreddit is bullshit because: There is low activity. Very few comments, no discussion. People are only posting circlejerk posts from the same websites. Hardly any reputable or reliable sources used to disseminate whatever agenda this sub has. One of the front page posts lists Nazis ideals as something to be taken into account.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:15 PM
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You cannot fairly equate the differences between male and female to the differences between black and white or asian and white. Also don't know what you're trying to prove with that bullshit subreddit.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:08 PM
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Two girls is not an adequate sample size to make any meaningful considerations. I am mixed, I have a lot of mixed friends - none of us are doing porn. I grew up near a military base so there were a lot of mixed children. The knee-jerk reaction againt considering race as a significant factor in sexual behaviors is the same liberal bullshit which says sex doesn't determine behavior. It's not a knee jerk reaction and it's not bullshit. There are strong biological differences between male and female…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 04:00 PM
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Mostly everything I buy I consider an investment and save up for. Sure, I can buy six trendy, cheap tops that will fall apart after one wash. Such good advice. A lot of the cute, cheap stuff looks like crap after a wash or two.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:53 PM
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Well what is your personal style first of all? For my I would say mine is "simple elegance". I shop a lot of thrift stores and consignment stores. I've found great skirts, dresses, and shirts. It's easy for women to buy clothes second hand. I also really like Marshall's and TJ Maxx. When I do buy from big stores it's normally online to get a better deal. J Crew Factory for work basics (separate website from the normal J Crew one), Nordstrom for shoes, American Apparel for everyday basics (tanks …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:39 PM
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Stop following fashion trends and dress according to your body type and your personal style. Men don't care about fashion (usually), they care about if you look good.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 03:16 PM
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I would not go to this guy for advice because his problems obviously stem from self-hatred, lack of confidence, and a serious mental imbalance that stems from (but is not caused by) being mixed race. I'm getting the feeling that most of his problems come from having some serious mommy issues. Look at his post history and you'll see this guy is a little off his rocker.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 02:44 PM
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Adding to this: Don't bring a problem to him if you only want to be validated or hear what you want to hear. i.e. If you're not willing to implement his solution keep the problem to yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/14 01:48 PM
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What does this have to do with being mixed race? I know white kids who set a bag of kittens on fire and threw it in the woods. I also know a white kid who was sexually abused by his own white brother. I know a black kid who has a porn addiction. None of those things have to do with race.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:11 PM
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Why focus on two women who happen to be mixed race instead of considering the thousands of women who do porn? I'm sure there are plenty of women who are academically successful who are doing porn who are white, black, asian, as well as mixed. Let's not make it an issue of being mixed race. And I think the issue of being mixed race and whether someone is comfortable in their skin has a lot to do with how the parents are and their overall upbringing. Besides, I know Asian girls (100% Asian) who gr…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 01:05 PM
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Great break down! Might be a good idea to touch on some of the laws regarding people living in your residence. For example, you have been cohabiting and you decide you've had enough - in a lot of states you've got to give the person 30 (sometimes more) days to find another place to live. Maybe not directly related to your post but a problem that can arise.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:52 PM
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The problem with just picking a race is denying the existence of one of your parents. It becomes even more problematic if one of your parents is also mixed.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:47 PM
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Sure, I don't deny that. It's hard being mixed sometimes, there can be some identity issues. But his post didn't make that the potential reason for "mental issues". I thought that there certainly must have been a correlation between ethnicity and these supposed mental health concerns. To me this seems to blame the fact that the person has mixed genetics rather than the person grew up in a place that being mixed race is still a rarity.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:38 PM
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I was intrigued by the claims that young, mixed race men and women suffer from unique mental issues. Seeing that myself, as a young man growing up, have been far from a normally, well adjusted young man, and having struggled from severe depression (which I am generally able to hide), I thought that there certainly must have been a correlation between ethnicity and these supposed mental health concerns. This is horse shit. Stop extrapolating from anecdotal experiences. This is the kind of logic t…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/14 12:21 PM
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S's birthday is soon and I bought him the briefcase/messenger bag he has been eyeing for awhile. I tricked him and told him that I wouldn't be able to get it for him because it was too expensive so he should be very surprised when he opens his present!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 04:57 PM
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They've added a LTR tag now though so that should provide some good reading material for us!
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 04:53 PM
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What do you mean he is ignoring you? Has he stopped paying attention to inane rambling? That's not bad. My SO does that too. When I come home and bitch about work for longer than 5 minutes he tunes me out. Good for him. Is he ignoring your nagging? Again, good. He doesn't ask how you are? Do you ask how he is?
/r/RedPillWomen29/07/14 03:41 PM
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Second /u/Lady_Motido - and to help with the financial side of starting up a new business do what you can to be as frugal as possible. Put all "treat yourself" expenses on hold, clip coupons like it's your job. Do what you can behind the scenes to ease the burden of household expenses.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 01:57 PM
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but I do understand that if I want things done to my standards/time frame, then I need to do it Exactly! I am much more anal about keeping the house in order. I can't expect him to know how I want things. It's not fair. And I feel you on the snack thing. S does that and it drives me crazy! But it's not worth complaining about it. I'm sure I do similar things (like using the last of the toilet paper and forgetting to change it haha!)
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 03:29 AM
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She also admits that her boyfriend could care less about her cooking and would eat whatever if she didn't do it. She wants to cook for him but his complaining about having to clean up afterwards? Shut up!! I'm 99% sure there are things that he does all around the house that she has never even noticed.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:50 AM
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LOL
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/14 02:45 AM
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The comments are wonderful. LMAO. If this is what the women of 2014 are like then I might as well be single. This was pure comedy. . She is trying to gain acceptance by delusional justification of her actions, however, she is a whore. . The amount of girls that come on TC and justify their cheating and being the other woman is starting to get ridiculous. I just don't get it. You're all just so shitty. You just hurt people for your own benefit and then act like your not immoral or make some false…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 09:23 PM
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My sister has bipolar disorder so this post resonates with me. Other than making sure you get your medication figured out, make sure you are diligent about taking it. I know you know this, but it doesn't hurt to reiterate. Additionally, exercise and eat well! Along with my sister having bipolar my mother is also in the mental health field and she is a big proponent of tackling problems with diet and exercise alongside medication. There's world's of evidence out there that regular exercise is one…
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/14 07:34 PM
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Ah! Yes in total agreement. I was reading that in reference to me rather than in reference to OP or anyone in that situation. Thanks for the clarification.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:20 PM
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You really can't speak for every woman out there Wasn't trying to. You could accuse me of maybe speaking for tall girls. and it's pretty ignorant for you to say that short guys worry about height for no reason whatsoever I never said that. I never said short guys worry about height for nothing. I didn't even address why they worry about it. I just said to stop. Worrying about height is something that I did as a teenager growing into my body and towering over my classmates. But I don't worry abou…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:33 PM
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Also relevant because he is asking how to be more attractive to women. You are not a woman. You may not be interested but others may be and seem to be. Just as you are accusing me of serving nothing but myself, you are speaking for only yourself. People use their personal experiences all of the time as evidence in this sub. Get off of your horse and open your eyes. I also brought in the fact that my tall girlfriends share the same opinion as me. Additionally, if you stand by the AWALT motto, one…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:06 PM
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Wasn't giving dating advice. I was saying how I perceive short men as someone who is taller than most men I encounter. My gender was relevant.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:14 PM
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but you should definitely let other people figure out why they don't want to date/fuck you instead of offering up suggestions I'm not sure what you're saying?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:22 PM
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I'm a tall girl and I've had short guys interested in me and I was never turned off by them because they were short, I was turned off by them because they made everything about their height vs my height. They would go on about how despite their height they could handle me, about how much they loved tall women like it was some fetish. Anyway, stop caring about your height and everyone else will to. Most of the tall girls I know don't really think twice about dating men who are shorter because the…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:44 PM
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As someone in a serious LTR I try to only keep close girlfriends who are also in serious LTRs. I'm not really interested in doing most of the activities my single friends want to do. I still remain cordial and we catch up over coffee but I keep my distance on the weekend because all they want to do is party. If you're thinking of locking a girl in and all of her friends are single and ready to mingle, watch out.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 02:38 PM
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She did say that if she's already really stressed that she would then cry over something like not being able to find her bra. I get that. It's the one last thing that puts her over the edge. It's silly, we all realize it. But it's not really the bra she's crying over, it's just one more thing on top of whatever else happened that day. But yes, perspective about what else is going on in the world can help.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 05:26 PM
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I can cry pretty easily too so I understand where you are coming from. I just start to feel really overwhelmed (stressful day at work and someone just says the wrong thing at the wrong time) and I just feel everything build up and the lump in my throat comes and I know I'm seconds away from tears. For me I really just have to make sure I give myself some time to process the event and work through the emotions. It's as simple as "excuse me, I need a minute to myself" when I'm at work or in a more…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 05:23 PM
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You should absolutely hire someone to clean your house. I'm more of a fan of finding an individual rather than hiring a company. Sometimes with a company they send a different person every time and that can cause a slew of issues (they never really get a grasp on how you keep your space; if there is everything anything stolen harder to pinpoint who; etc.) With a single individual you can develop more of a relationship and they can get a better feel for your space and clean it more efficiently th…
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/14 03:26 PM
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My point was that just listing off a chemical in an article does not mean the chemical is automatically bad. Cyanide and Arsenic are poisonous in large doses.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 10:04 PM
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And I said naturally occurring in food - not additives. For example, here is a list of all of the food that naturally has formaldehyde: http://www.cfs.gov.hk/english/whatsnew/whatsnew_fa/files/formaldehyde.pdf
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 09:59 PM
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The article was specifically talking about make-up paired with sunscreen so there you go. And you really think trees, clouds, and caves are something you can use on a day to day basis to protect you from the sun? Here's a clue, they're not. Some people live in cities and walk around in the sun all day. Sure a hat is practical but not all of the time. No one said make-up was magical. It was stated that make-up acts as an additional barrier. You're very poor at arguing.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 09:57 PM
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I don't adamantly want something to not be true but I'm not going to read a bunch of junk science articles and take it as fact. Nail polish isn't make-up. That's not what we're talking about.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 09:55 PM
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Yeah that's a lot of anecdotal evidence. That was your grandmother's experience. Not everyone wears a cake face of makeup and that sounds like what you're grandmother did. She wasn't using make-up to highlight or accentuate her features, she was using it to cover her face and that's not what make up is for. Just because people might buy bad brands of make-up and cake it on doesn't mean we should demonize make up entirely. That just means we just demonize uneducated decisions on what people put o…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 09:53 PM
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I'm not refusing to believe something could be harmful. I'm refusing to read junk science articles. If you want to provide some peer reviewed journals or a credible website I'd be happy to take it seriously.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 07:59 PM
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Second Asian BB creams being superior. My mom just moved back from Korea and I tried out some of the products she bought over there and WOW.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 05:24 PM
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Sorry but I'm not inclined to take those seriously as they're junk news sites. The website I posted is part of the Skin Cancer Foundation. Anyway, none of those refute the positive benefits of make up in reducing exposure to sun. Also 'toxic chemicals' is such a catch all term that's more useful in fear mongering than providing any real information. And these articles were focused on a lot more than make-up (nail polish, hair dyes) and the effects (as stated in the article) had not been scientif…
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 05:18 PM
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Actually, I have to disagree with make-up ruining your skin. If you're using good brands, cleaning your brushes, washing it off at night, etc. there's no harm in putting it on AND make-up can be a really good barrier against the sun. http://www.skincancer.org/prevention/sun-protection/sunscreen/sun-protection-and-makeup
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/14 02:03 PM
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Watermelon salad is my favorite summer side dish! Watermelon (cut in chunks or scooped out in balls for something fancier) Feta cheese, crumbled Red onion, finely chopped Basil (or mint), roughly chopped, be careful not to bruise the herb and a quick dressing made with white wine vinegar, lime juice, and olive oil. I also like to add some pepper to the dressing. I don't have measurements because I eyeball everything. Sorry!!
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/14 04:52 PM
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Yeah perhaps time management is a really big problem. Are you really organized and good at time management? If so maybe you can guide her on how to manage her time better during the day. Maybe that's the help she needs. I agree that it does seem crazy that she can't get what she needs to get done in almost 12 hours. Have you been up front with her about that? Maybe she needs a dose of reality. I know it's easy to make excuses for yourself until someone points out how sill you're being.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 10:55 PM
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Sometimes going to school is a fulltime job so if you can clearly see that she is stressed out between school, keeping the house up, and caring for your child then her asking for you to help out is definitely a cry for help. A marriage is a partnership and if she's asking for help then step up and help. If she were nitpicking you and telling you to do specific tasks and running the field then that would be a different story. But if she's simply asking for help, she just means she needs a little …
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 08:43 PM
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Despite their risque advertising, American Apparel has great skirts. Uniqulo is a great store for basics to build up your closet - also a great store for simple skirts. J. Crew Factory online is also another favorite of mine. There is always a sale for 30-50% off. I realize not a lot of these stores are typical 'vintage' type but my style is simple and elegant and those stores have done me well. And when you buy something online always do a quick google search for "J. Crew coupon codes" or whate…
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 01:09 PM
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I was amused and then I got to number 8 and busted out laughing. Everyone I know from high school who had an "oopsie baby" and is now single named their kid something crazy.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/14 09:17 PM
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Yeah I'm about 5'11 and 155lbs so I had to speak up!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:30 PM
3

Seriously. Everyone just seems to be okay with having a little extra "fluff" these days. It's gross.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 01:28 PM
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And on top of the general cunty premise of this video, she talked to that man like he was a child. I don't think saying "hey you're pretty" constitutes cat calling. Just take a fucking compliment. He didn't call from across the street, yell out of his car, or say anything derogatory. He's just an older man telling a passing girl he thinks she's pretty. What a witch!!
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:26 AM
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Ahhh so that's why Old Navy's sizes don't make a lick of sense.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 12:02 AM
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My mom is 5'2, not in perfect shape anymore, but also not fat. Basically, she looks pretty good for being nearly 60. Anywho, my parents lived in S. Korea for the last year and my mom was an "extra larg-ee" when she went shopping in stores. For some perspective, she fits into petite clothing here in the states. Asian women are pretty tiny on average so why would any non-asian women give two flying fucks??
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:46 PM
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Being ignored is more infuriating than being straight up insulted. And there's no need to go out of your way to insult a fatty. I think it shows an self-esteem issue with the person insulting. But 130lb threshold doesn't take tall girls into account, just my two cents on that.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/14 11:43 PM
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I remember reading a story of a (I think) South Korean man who sued his wife because their kids came out ugly. Plastic surgery is HUGE in South Korea and the wife had extensive work done. If I remember correctly, he won.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 01:05 PM
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If any of you have a Trader Joe's nearby they always have fresh flowers and are normally priced reasonably. In the Spring they always have tulips and daffodils and they bloom once you put them in water. They make me so happy! It really does cheer up a space!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 08:14 PM
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Definitely depends on the shorts, how you style them, and your body type. I don't wear shorts except for on the weekends really but my SO likes me in shorts because he loves my legs. You can make shorts stylish, you can make them cute. A lot of people don't wear shorts well or they only wear them to bum around in. Also there are times/places where damn it all to hell, I am wearing a pair of shorts because it is too hot to not and the activity doesn't jive with a skirt/dress. But overall, I agree…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 09:11 PM
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Baby mama drama is a real thing so just be prepared to deal with that.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 12:29 PM
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I'd say RPW is focused on sexual strategy that is inherent in each of the sexes and how that applies to successful relationships. The majority of the women in that sub are in committed long term relationships and use the sub as a place to share what keeps a LTR healthy and happy. In red pill terms, this ultimately means us women submitting to our dominant men. I think your confusion comes from the fact that you may not be someone who is LTR focused so RPW doesn't make much sense to you.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 07:48 PM
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Not just today's society. Beautiful people have always had the upper hand. Only beaten out by the filthy rich.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 07:32 PM
2

Oooooh! You just opened up a whole new world for me! Thank you!!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 07:13 PM
1

When I ate meat my favorite way to roast chicken was really simple. Just add some olive oil, salt, pepper, garlic powder and some fresh rosemary. Tastes great with or without skin. And for a spicy twist, adding cayenne pepper, some chili powder, and fresh lime juice makes it really delicious! Good luck in your journey towards healthier eating!
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:35 PM
1

I've browsed this sub for years but have never made an account.
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 04:24 PM
2

The only reason I don't wear dresses more frequently is because it's honestly hard for me to find dresses that are long enough to be work appropriate. I have a 38in inseam and I am all leg. I own quite a few dresses but for the sake of variability in outfits and style I only wear skirts/dresses 2-3 days out of the week. But the other side of that is my SO likes me in pants too because he likes how they show my shape and I style them well. I don't really wear jeans ever, just nice pants. I was a …
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 02:09 PM
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Throw together for the most part. Sometimes when I am feeling a lack of creativity I flip through the cookbooks I have and get the general idea for new recipes and add my own twist. We don't eat meat so a lot of the changes I make are to up the protein content. For baking though I normally follow recipes exactly because I am a good baker but I do not know enough to do things on my own.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 12:51 PM
2

Antwone Fisher is a really good movie that goes into detail about his sexual abuse at the hands of his foster sister (I believe). It's one of the most disturbing acts of sexual abuse I've seen in a film. There are sick fucks from both genders and it makes me so mad that people ignore this. I'm sorry that happened to you and I'm glad you overcame it.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/14 05:18 PM
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I think it's really stupid and done for shock value. Shocking people with nipples isn't going to change the dialogue. However, I've got to say that Americans have a weird oversexualization of breasts, so much so that women can't comfortably feed their infant children in public without facing harassment. But I don't think wanting to bear your breasts in public and wanting to feed your child in public are equal.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 02:14 PM
4

Yup, I'm biracial too, it was not a nice thing to read.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 10:44 PM
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at least two different dads If you are referring to one biracial child, that is not biologically possible. But I see your point if the mother has multiple children.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 04:19 PM
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Great article but what's the deal with the biracial comment? This goes double if you have multiple children and/or if your children are biracial. Shouldn't the child free commentary drive the point home? What does it matter if they are biracial? The only valid point I can see is men already don't want to raise someone else's kid and it goes doubly if the kid doesn't look like him. But it just seemed like an unnecessary comment because you would run into that issue if the child was the same race …
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 12:57 PM
2

Might have just been because you have really good posture. Do you? Bad posture is pretty par for the course these days.
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 08:51 PM
1

It can be hard for me to get out of my own head and recognize what he needs and how much he does for us. I'm also still sometimes bad about telling him what to do - just being bossy and controlling. It causes problems for obvious reasons. I'm improving with time though!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 08:03 PM
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I don't think I deserve flair yet as I'm still working on sometimes being selfish IRL with S. So please do this again in a couple of months!
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 07:50 PM
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Tanning is terrible advice because tanning is terrible for your skin.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/14 06:20 PM
3

I don't think it would hurt to share everything at a young age. Girls today are active at younger and younger ages. I knew people growing up who started having sex when they were 12 years old. As much as you try to guide her peer pressure is intense so giving her knowledge to make good choices can never be done too early.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I think everyone wants to find a reason other than that I needed to pay for tuition. I am so tired of her saying she did this to pay for school. She got a full ride to Vanderbilt! Sure, maybe she preferred Duke over Vanderbilt but that was her choice and nothing forced on her. She is acting like she had to do this in order to afford college and that is a lie. Um … no. I just think I needed to pay for tuition and I’m a sexual person and that’s that. You did not do this to pay for tuition, y…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 04:07 PM
1

Honestly, this is when one of the times that I am a big proponent for online dating.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/14 12:17 AM
1

I guess it seems like the obvious place at first - get a man's perspective on a situation since getting a man is their end goal. Probably the same reason men come here and ask advice on their relationship. /r/TheRedPill has made it easier to find this sub since putting it higher on the sidebar but I still think a lot of people miss it and don't find out about it until they post there and are directed to /r/RedPillWomen. Who knows though
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 10:27 PM
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I don't think I am entitled to it at all. I am just thankful that it is there and stated as much. I would have no qualms if my gym decided to take it away today. Haha, sorry, no pics today!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 10:16 PM
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Please explain how I am expressing contradictory beliefs? What exactly am I saying that is contradictory from anything else I've said? Can't just throw out terms because they're RedPill terms, you've still got to use them correctly.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 08:32 PM
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Agree to disagree then. I still stand by my gym having 50/50 membership (as that is what you used to base your payment decision) therefore equal payments being fair. If women's weight hours were eliminated I would not bat an eye, I would not be upset. I have simply stated that I was glad I was able to use it. Further, if a petition was filed for increased/decreased gym membership fees depending on women's weight usage I would be for it if it was priced appropriately considering the minimal hours…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:53 PM
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It definitely isn't fair in most gyms and in that case I am against it. In my gym though I think it is kept equal though because only one room out of three had designated hours and that room is the smaller room with the older equipment.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:37 PM
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I didn't say I was against it. I was asking you to explain the reasoning behind what you were saying. Specifically, I would be against it at my gym as the make-up is pretty 50/50 (as it is a university gym). What is used by who is uneven in regards to gender though. Cardio is predominantly female, weights is predominantly male. You're making a lot of assumptions in your arguments and kind of arguing out of passion and frustration and it would be really appreciated if you kept it more logical ins…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:37 PM
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Comradery amongst strange men doesn't exist. Yeah, for sure. The more I think about how my dad is the more I realize how that was a dumb comment. And yeah, to be clear I don't think I am owed a women's only hour at my gym but I am certainly thankful it is there. I'm not someone who would have petitioned the gym to create one had it not been there. I think they're a fine thing to have for a multitude of reasons outside of my own if the gym has the space for it. I think they would be a very unfair…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 05:20 PM
-1

When did I say I was against facilities being split evenly by gender proportions? Typically entitled how. I said I wouldn't care if the gym had the hours, just that I was glad to be able to use them. And the fact remains that it doesn't inconvenience anyone else as it is the smallest room out of 3 rooms overall and it is not all day or even every day.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:59 PM
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Don't think I said anywhere that I expected or thought I was owed women's hours at the gym. I just said that I appreciated it. I even said in one of my posts that I didn't agree with hours that actively took away from other's ability to work out.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:54 PM
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My biggest reason/defense is I wanted to know more about what I was doing before I started working out in the big section. For other women there might be other reasons. Some women are genuinely uncomfortable around men and that might be their reason. I think a good reason for women's hours though is for modesty issues (i.e. women who wear the hijab) as we have a lot of Muslims on my campus. But you're right my reasons for liking it aren't good enough reasons to keep that. I don't think I was eve…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:23 PM
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I don't think I'm treated unfairly. Even if my gym didn't have that women's only hour in one of the weight rooms it would have been fine.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:17 PM
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I'm not whining at all. Simply started this off saying I appreciated the ability to use a smaller, separate area until I knew more about what I was doing. Sorry you're angry, but it's not a very good argument to say "I've had to do this because this is what a man does" when this sub's existence is founded on the innate differences between men and women. Anyway, I wouldn't have cared if there wasn't a women's only hour in one of the weight rooms at my gym. I'm just saying I am thankful it was the…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:17 PM
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You're right, I'm not going to argue that point. I wouldn't have complained if I didn't have the women's only hours, but I am thankful that they were available to me as it made the transition more comfortable.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:15 PM
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I hate the texters too, trust me. If I didn't use my phone for music I would be on board for a phone ban at the gym.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:10 PM
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That was obviously an exaggeration meant to show my extreme intimidation when visiting the main weights section of my gym. Sorry you can't recognize hyperbole. When most of the guys are using 40+ dumbbells and I'm just over in the corner using my 10lb weights it can be a little intimidating.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:09 PM
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I definitely agree with what you're saying. I don't think I've ever encountered a gym that had designated women's hours that didn't have the space to accommodate it so any implications aren't something that crossed my mind because it has been a non issue at any gym I have been a member of.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:04 PM
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I don't think that at all. It's just easy to become hyper aware of your existence and the space you take up when there is such a stark contrast.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 04:01 PM
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Well that's good to know now. It's a non issue for me at this point as I work out in the main section. It's not an entire section devoted to women only as I explained in other posts. I go to the university's gym and there are 3 weight rooms and the smallest has hours designated for women. I have no idea if I was the only person who used it. I'm sure I wasn't. I just know that when I go to the gym after work now I am the only girl in the main weight room. This set up for women's hours doesn't see…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:55 PM
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Small or large gym, doesn't matter. If the clientele is 90% male, and the gym is fair, 90% of the equipment would be reserved for men only by your logic. I'm not sure what part of my explanation would have deduced that reasoning. Honest question, not trying to be a smart ass. 2-3 hours two days a week in one weight room out of three is hardly special treatment. It's a little time in a little space to encourage more women to get into strength training. At a small gym I would assume you would only…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:48 PM
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That's a good point but for something like strength training it's hard to start off at home as most people don't have that equipment.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:44 PM
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I'm sure there are in general but not at my gym. Now that I go in the main weight lifting section I don't think I have ever seen another girl in there at the same time as me. They mostly use the cardio machines or the isolated strength training machines which are in another section. There isn't any weird sexual tension, don't care about that. It really is all about wanting to know what I was doing before I went into the main part.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:39 PM
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I have a serious SO so I'm not concerned with other guys wanting to fuck me or not. I want to look good for my SO. And it's not so much them sizing me up. It's that I didn't have a clue what I was doing and didn't want to be in the way.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:29 PM
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I think there should be! I'm sorry learning yoga may have been an uncomfortable experience. Especially because women can be very judgemental!
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:27 PM
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Fair points but it's only one weight room out of 3 weight rooms in the entire gym that have women's only hours so it is very unlikely to interfere with anyone's schedule. Sorry that I did not make that clear. Honestly, if there were special times for men I would be totally okay with that. I bet a lot of guys would like that set up with cheerleaders and if it was something implemented I wouldn't have a problem. Especially at my gym because it's so large. I can see the issue of women's only times …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 03:22 PM
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I get what you're saying but it doesn't shut off men entirely, just at certain hours to cut down on the intimidation factor that is definitely there for women when you start strength training. I don't think it's fulfilling my "special needs". It's a space that I discovered that had women's only hours that I utilized. They're off peak hours so as to not inconvenience the vast majority of gym goers. By your argument, people who use strictly cardio equipment are paying for weights that they never u…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:46 PM
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Well I did specify that there specific hours where it was women only. You can't deny that weight lifting and strength training is a predominantly male oriented area of the gym. The hours allow women to get into weight lifting in an area that has less of an intimidation factor. It's not so easy to round up all of your girlfriends and get them to go to the gym to pound some iron. Women just don't do it.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 02:42 PM
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Sure, I don't know, I'm not a man. But I think there is still something to be said about a man walking into a room with a lot of other men (not very noticeable, not striking) and a woman walking into a room with a lot of other men (stark contrast). The point is that I really appreciate the little space my gym has set aside. It's not a whole other weight room with brand new equipment. It's small, it has the old equipment. But it's a space I really appreciated until I felt more comfortable with wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:53 PM
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It's not that different, you're right. But the weight room is already mostly men so I imagine the comradery aspect of it may make it a bit easier to join in. Women in a weight room stick out quite a bit because honestly there aren't a lot of women who strength train, at least at the gym I go to. A guy going in doesn't draw a lot of attention, even if he is new.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:17 PM
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As a woman I will say that I really appreciate my gym's woman only weight times because it is really intimidating to get into strength training when you are still trying to figure out what you're doing and all of the guys in the gym look like olympic athletes. I know being uncomfortable is my problem but having a women's section or women's only hours makes getting into the process a lot easier. Now that I know a bit more about what I'm doing I do go into the main section because the equipment is…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 12:53 PM
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This is not to say that your wife cheating is excusable by any means but emotional affairs are a big deal to women because we are emotional creatures so I don't think it is right for you to sweep it under the rug as easily as you seem to be doing in your post. I bet your wife was more hurt by them than you maybe realize. I know you said never again but have you guys actually dealt with those? Again, her cheating is inexcusable and deal with that the best way you see fit but you've also got to ta…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/14 01:15 AM
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Biggest tips I tell people who are not used to keeping a house clean are: Clean as you go. If you're in the middle of cooking dinner and there's some time in between tasks get some of the dishes out of the way. Take 15 minutes everyday to tidy up the house. I always do a big clean once a week but taking those 15 minutes everyday really helps keep the house nice and neat during the whole week. And just a silly one - don't make messes to begin with. Once you become a "neat freak" like I am you're …
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/14 01:04 PM
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No harm done in taking a moment to appreciate all the beauty in the world! haha
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 05:41 PM
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Meh, he probably has enough alpha characteristics to attract women he's interested in. Comments from women serving as proof.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 01:52 PM
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That man is gorgeous and I'm not ashamed to admit it.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 01:49 PM
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Great points, fair enough. You're right, cardio is definitely rammed down a lot of people's throats and strength training is often ignored. I guess I like cardio so much because I like the idea of increasing indurance (and knowing that I could survive the zombie apocalypse hahahaha)
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 01:47 PM
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What about the well documented effects of cardio and lowering blood pressure, decreasing resting heart rate, and increasing your lung capacity and ability to process oxygen more efficiently? In regards to weight loss and fat burning I am in total agreement that cardio isn't the end all be all and strength training often beats out cardio. But I don't think strength training is going to give you the heart rate/blood pressure/lung benefits that cardio does. Edit: My main point is I think strength t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 01:27 PM
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Side bar "Glossary of Terms and Acronyms" -----> AWALT = All women are like this NAWALT = Not all women are like this
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 01:09 PM
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That girl's story became 10x more annoying when I found out she got a full ride to Vanderbilt. "oh woe is me, I have to get pounded on camera to pay for my college education but also porn inspires me" Bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 01:07 PM
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I think cardio work outs are still really important for heart health though.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 12:55 PM
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meh, not necessarily. You can be content with what you have and still help your spouse be the best man he can be in order to get those promotions and make a higher salary. That's where I'm coming from. It's okay to wish your family had more money. It only becomes destructive when you let that desire turn sinister and start using it as a way to shame your spouse.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 07:58 PM
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Some people just want to provide the best life they can for their children and some people want to live the live they never did through their children. The latter is always so sad and obvious.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 07:45 PM
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That isn't always possible when a marriage is founded on the agreement that the husband goes to work and the wife stays to raise the children and keep the house in order. The only income source for said opportunities is from the father. This isn't to say that the only way you're going to raise a super successful kid is to put them in a bunch of expensive programs but it certainly helps. I don't think you can fault people for wanting the best for their children. Even if it's just the little thing…
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 07:19 PM
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But money does determine the opportunities available to your children which is where some of the concern can come from. It can be a very fine line though.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 05:49 PM
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I like having the seat and the lid down because I hate looking into the toilet when I'm brushing my teeth. I keep it spotlessly clean but I just don't want to think about that when cleaning up or worry about stuff falling in. I don't know, I'm anal about cleanliness.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:08 PM
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I did not see that you worked out so frequently, my apologies. Good for you! Maybe then it's time you got into weights or a more structured work out plan? Perhaps your school allows you to use a personal trainer for a nominal fee? Don't let your feelings get hurt over this. I understand, I got mad at my boyfriend at first too but they don't mean it to be insulting. They want us to look good!
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 01:21 PM
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Carbohydrates are evil. Period. Not necessarily. You can definitely incorporate carbohydrates into your diet in a healthy way. Whole grain (real whole grain, not the bs sometimes labeled in the grocery store) ancient grains like quinoa, oatmeal. Some people do better without grain, some people need grain in their diet. I don't think there's a catch all diet that fits each and every person.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 12:57 PM
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I think you're too focused on the weight aspect of this when you should be focused on how your body looks. Before I was really into working out I weighed the exact same as I do now that I work out 5 days a week but my body looks drastically different. My stomach is flat, my muscles have definition, my butt is round/perky, I don't have any flab. Get into a work out routine and you'll see what I mean. My SO said the same thing to me and I took it to heart and made some big lifestyle changes becaus…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 12:54 PM
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From a fellow introvert, perfect description, thank you. I also like to define it in terms of how we get our energy: Introverts recharge by having alone time. Extroverts recharge by being around other people.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 03:19 PM
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Ehh, clothing style is subjective and like they say "different strokes for different folks". It's not worth it to overhaul your entire look for a dude you have barely started a relationship with. Besides, if OP is correct, it sounds like her friend dresses tastefully but it was too plain for the guy she was seeing. That doesn't sound like a needed area of self improvement to me, just a matter of conflicting personal tastes. There are plenty of men who like plain, feminine looks. Sounds like this…
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 01:54 AM
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I think you can be close to your mom without being coddled by your mom. Having a good relationship with your parents is often paramount to having healthy romantic relationships. I think we can all agree that a man who has a good relationship with his mother can be very attractive. But a man that is coddled and handheld by his mother? Yuck!!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 06:28 PM
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Red/Blue aside, I think people that are pampered and doted on as children don't turn out to be very good eggs in general.
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 05:17 PM
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Second this! I love my ball and it really works your core too!
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/14 12:23 PM
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With only reading the link title (and being a biologist) this sounds like it came out of the loony bin.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 02:23 PM
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I try to buy dresses that will also look good paired with tights and a cardigan for the winter. :)
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 04:01 PM
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I'm not sure that "suck it up" is good advice when it comes to bearing the pain of wearing heels as it pretty accepted that long term heel wear is bad for your feet and back. If heels are your thing, more power to you! But if heels are uncomfortable there are plenty of other shoe options that are just as attractive and feminine. I for one don't wear heels all that often because I walk a lot at work and I'm already pretty tall (5'10). I wear heels to formal events and that's about it.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/14 04:00 PM
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I second /u/wearing_yoga_pants Kitchen Aid mixer idea. You'd probably have enough left over to buy some of the cool attachments too! I love my KitchenAid and get so much use out of it. You can get it in your favorite color or one that matches your kitchen decor! If you don't need a mixer maybe invest in a good food processor? That's my second favorite kitchen gadget.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/14 04:28 PM
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Good points in this video and comments but I think it would have offered a lot more insight if both the man and the woman offered a reason. He simply said "please" and did not provide a reason even when asked - he said "I just need to cut". Seems to me like the guy who asked why would have been willing had there been a good reason.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/14 04:17 PM
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Yeah I get that. I know it's not always intentionally mean but hearing it so often can really get to me.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:26 PM
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Oh well indeed. The voice thing is easier to overcome in face to face interactions.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:26 PM
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So true. Definitely a distinct lack of "girly" and often a lot of shaming for being girly!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:25 PM
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Have you seen the Will Ferrell SNL skit where he can't control the volume of his voice? So funny! But in all seriousness, it might be related to hearing issues? You should get it checked out if it's something that occurs often!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:24 PM
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Thankfully I am not much of a babytalker! Except for when it comes to talking to my dogs - that's okay right?? haha
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:23 PM
1

Good point about guys not being malicious when they make fun. They way women interact with each other sometimes makes it really easy to assume that all jokes are malicious in nature. Thanks!
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 08:22 PM
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That's an awesome reply.
/r/RedPillWomen04/06/14 12:44 PM
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You're renting? Might be worth it to just ask your landlord to re-grout the tiles. I did that when I first moved in because I couldn't get it to my standards of clean. And what are you using to clean sponge wise? That makes a big difference for me when I'm cleaning. I have this cool little mitt with an abrasive side that lets me scrub really hard in tricky spots. And sorry, but bleach is pretty much a necessity for really getting a bathroom clean.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/14 01:09 AM
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Just started following her on instagram. She's so talented!
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 06:27 PM
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My calculations indicate that I can eat 2200-2300 calories per day to maintain weight. So to lose weight I typically eat 1900-2000. I exercise 5x per week so this is why my calories are so high. How often do you exercise? I'm sure it was just an example but you're never going to reach your goals if you're eating mainly lean cuisines. They might have the required macros but there's hardly any nutrients and a LOT of sodium. You've got to start cooking your meals.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/14 03:06 PM
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A girl with a Master's degree is going to feel superior to me, this is not good for a potential LTR. Can you imagine the arguments where she tries to assert that she is more intelligent/successful because of that piece of paper? NO THANKS. I think this can be really dependent on if you guys are in the same or different fields. For example - I'm in health care and need a Masters for any sort of advancement. My SO is a software engineer and probably could have gotten away with never graduating wit…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/14 02:33 PM
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My SO and I are pretty honest communicators and let the other one know if there is something that we don't like. However, this normally only extends to clothing and any changes that are made. For example, in the winter I was really started to neglect working out because I was having a hard time with motivation. He gently pointed out that I was a little more flabby than I typically am. Started getting to the gym more often than I was. Another example, the other day my SO wore an outfit that I did…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/14 07:16 PM
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Yeah, I think people forget that there is such a thing as being too comfortable.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 08:36 PM
1

And to expound I believe couples should always present a united front. Yelling at your partner does exactly as you said, it shows that you don't have their back and it shows everyone around you too.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 08:35 PM
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Fair enough!
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 08:34 PM
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1) Yelling at your partner in public is the most emasculating thing you can do and just really rude. What the hell? 2) If they're fighting on their WEDDING DAY then good luck to all of their future endeavors because they sure as heck are going to need it. 3) I'm stuck between feeling sorry for this man and knowing that he is letting this happen to him. I want to shake him and scream "MAN THE HELL UP". Ew, don't hang out with them again.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/14 02:18 PM
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You need more cardio in your life. Fitness benefits aside it has really helped me calm the hell down. I am an uptight, anxious person. I get it. But if I get some good cardio in 3-4x per week I am a totally different person, a lot more relaxed. And I can definitely tell when I haven't been exercising enough. I'm the kind of person where I can literally feel my blood pressure rise if I start too get to wound up. Get more cardio in, reap the benefits.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/14 04:12 PM
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It is entirely dependent on the situation and the comment. I often get pretty non-invasive comments when I am walking around that are along the lines of "keep smiling beautiful!" or "you're beautiful" and I smile and say thank you and go on with my day and take it as the compliment it is. However, if I'm in a situation where I feel trapped - like on the bus or metro and it goes past the compliment and starts delving into my personal life ("what are you doing here?/where are you going?" "you got …
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 06:33 PM
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I don't think I'll ever want to go back to being 17. It was a very awkward and uncomfortable time. I'll probably long for my 20s, but never my teens. But who knows, I like every year more than the year before.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 02:24 PM
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This is pretty hilarious and well deserved. No one gets to call anybody out like that unless they're doing something illegal. And I don't know how her fiance could just sit there and smirk about it - if my betrothed did something similar I would seriously be reevaluating the relationship. But on the other side of things I would NEVER go back to being 17. I was a late bloomer and at 23 I am definitely more attractive and put together than at 17.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/14 12:58 PM
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That's exactly what I said in my post. That it is difficult for women to get buff. I'm not sure where the confusion is coming from. I didn't say it was easy for women to get buff, I said the exact opposite. you can definitely work out your arms and not get "buff". I lift weights 3 times a week and I am far far far from buff.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/14 12:35 PM
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I'm not sure what you're refuting me about? I'm agreeing with you. Women don't gain muscle over night, it's not an easy thing to do - that's what I've been saying...
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 07:55 PM
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I didn't structure my post very effectively, I see what you're saying. Protein is definitely "low calorie". But you're not going to pack on the muscles like a lot of girls worry about unless you're actively TRYING to gain muscle.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 07:20 PM
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No comments on your post overall but I just wanted to note that you can definitely work out your arms and not get "buff". I lift weights 3 times a week and I am far far far from buff. I lift to get some definition/tone-up and because weight bearing exercise is good for your bones. People who lift to gain muscle also have to supplement their workout with higher caloric (especially protein) intake. That's why you always see the big guys in the gym with their protein shakes. Anyway, have fun surfin…
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 06:56 PM
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I agree with everything you laid out in your post. So to be fair to me I did say "to keep it short" haha. But yes, perhaps fairness is a more appropriate word.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/14 12:25 AM
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My post never implied that I wasn't going to breastfeed. I'm a big proponent of breast feeding. Taking maternity leave is also very important to me. However, I don't think I need to take 4 years off completely for my child. My mom still worked after I was born and we have a really wonderful relationship. It's not as if I will be away from home the entire day.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/14 12:24 AM
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You made the first attack dude. Trying to say the only reason I'm born is a product of my mother's self-hatred and white guilt is not only nauseatingly inaccurate but a low blow. Why can't you recognize that?
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:32 PM
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You didn't hurt my feelings. You made it clear you're not capable of a rational conversation so I told you why I was out. Perhaps I should remind you that you started the discussion? All I said is you can't ascribe white beauty ideals onto black women. You called them creatures and then went on your rant about the obliteration of Western culture (whatever that even means). It's not YOUR race either. I'm half white. And what makes you think you speak with the voice of all white people anyway? You…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:23 PM
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Why should I continue to have a conversation with you when you are clearly angry (the frenzied nature of your posts and increased length have indicated such) and your ad hom attack on my mother (a person you have never met and know nothing about). You implied my mother only married my father over white guilt. Seriously? You're not worth talking to anymore.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:15 PM
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I'm not going to respond to the rest of your post because it's clear that you're just an angry white man. My mom doesn't hate herself and she doesn't have any white guilt. Obama hardly calls himself mixed, he mostly refers to himself as black which pisses my mom off because she knows he has a white mother. I actually have loose curls but along with those and my dark eyes I have my mother's facial structure and body type. Genes aren't just in color and hair type. She fell in love with my dad who …
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 11:07 PM
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You're seeking a single answer to a multi-faced question. Have you read the book Guns, Germs, and Steel? It describes why certain cultures/countries developed so much more quickly and have advanced further than others. It's a great read. Whites are still the predominant race in the United States. An area doesn't "need" more whites. No one says Detroit and Cleveland needs more white people because white people don't want to live there. It's a crime ridden area that even I have little hope for. No…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:49 PM
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Low birth rates are invariably linked with education. The highest birth rates are associated with the lowest educated societies. What are the most educated societies typically? Western. National Geographic and Time have done good pieces on what you're describing in your comment: http://ngm.nationalgeographic.com/2013/10/changing-faces/funderburg-text http://content.time.com/time/magazine/0,9263,7601931118,00.html Also who is we? You can't say collectively what Westerners find attractive. And I a…
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 10:19 PM
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Well racism wasn't meant to be the spirit of my post. Beauty ideals are different when considering different races. A lot of black woman keep shorter hair styles because textured hair is not easy to keep long and nice. And you can't really speak for ALL white men. Plenty of white men find Lupita and other black women attractive.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 08:49 PM
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And you've also got to realize that if it's something you can't get over or if you and your SO aren't on the same page about it and you choose to stay in this relationship you could end up harboring some resentment and poison the relationship. Definitely take a sober look at everything and ask yourself if it's all worth it and if this is something you can do. Chin up!
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 07:43 PM
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I've read in your other comments that your SO is Muslim (by nationality, I also read you are both atheists). This is something that is ingrained in your SO's culture and he was raised this way.You are absolutely not going to win. The only way I see this turning around is if your SO has a good, long talk with his father. Is that something he is willing to do? If not, is this something you can deal with for the rest of your life? That's what you've got to figure out. I'm sorry. I know that pain. N…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 07:36 PM
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You can't ascribe Western (or even White) ideals of beauty to a woman who is literally African.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/14 07:28 PM
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Eh - PhD normally implies an expert in your field. PhD can also mean higher earning potential. Both of which can be of more value depending on the man.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 06:57 PM
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Three cheers to being done early! I feel bad for my parents. I am grown but my sister is 8 years younger and my dad is nearly 60. I kind of wish I had kids early/now. But I'm already on this trajectory and he's not ready either. Hopefully before 30 (I'm 24 now). Does your husband do any employed work while being a SAHD or does your salary allow for that to not be necessary?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 06:56 PM
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I don't think this is true of all men. A lot of men like women who have hobbies and can contribute to a conversation - education often goes hand in hand with that. I don't think any man wants to go on a proper date with a woman who can't hold an interesting conversation. Edit: And if we even consider the past - women were expected to be educated/accomplished. They were expected to know several languages, be versed in literature, etc. They might not have been expected to contribute to the convers…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 06:44 PM
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Yeah. My dad is good about not forcing anything on people, it could work. We are also a pretty frugal couple! He's already good about saving money. If you don't mind me asking - do you have children? If so, did you work when you had kids?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 06:40 PM
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How does your opinion change if there's a nanny in the picture? I'm talking about for daytime care. I'm not one to work a ton of overtime or bring work home with me. Perhaps that could change when I'm more into my career.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 06:38 PM
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Hey thanks for your post! I have a second question that stems from what you posted here. You mentioned that your husband set you both up for retirement. How do I go about getting my SO more financially savvy without telling him what to do and allowing him to make the decisions? My dad was a financial planner for some time and has passed on a lot of information to me as well as setting me up with some important financial tools (life insurance, Roth IRA, etc.) My SO's parents are TERRIBLE with mon…
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 05:51 PM
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If you work at a desk all day consider switching out your desk chair for an exercise ball and stand. It forces you to sit up straight and develop your core (which is key to posture). Good luck! I am also a bit of a sloucher and have been trying to improve.
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/14 03:10 PM
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I've been trying to improve my baking skills and found a really great recipe for chocolate cupcakes and vanilla buttercream frosting. Everything came out really well and I have to say they're some of the best cupcakes I've had in a long time. My SO loved them and that's a big deal to me because he doesn't have a big sweet tooth.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/14 07:54 PM
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Reading fiction isn't such a bad thing, it depends on the fiction you're reading. I believe I owe my large vocabulary to being an avid fantasy reader - many fantasy writers are very descriptive - thus use a verbose vocabulary. Good luck! Just wanted to give my two cents!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/14 09:01 PM
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