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| 1 | How do some guys get laid or dates without having to make much effort or doing anything special?I think the hardest part as an adult with a certain lifestyle is meeting women. I never had to try from childhood thru around 23 despite being about 130lb soaking wet with shoulder length hair and minimal aspirations. then it got harder but not impossible in the mid 20s without the youthful social circle and party lifestyle. Late 20s with WFH and no social circle in the city I'm based it's gotten very hard even though I'm well put together now with a good job and can do the >2x bodyweight s/d an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/22 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadQ4W: What is the most attractive body type to you on a man who is less or equal to 170cm / 5'7" ? A celebrity reference would help, even if it's an older guy but based on how he looked in his prime: e.g: Manny Pacquiao / Lionel Messi / Tom Cruise etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/22 07:12 PM |
| 9 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadSometimes you hear about women who deceive their husbands into raising another man's child, thinking that the kid is his for years or decades. That behavior is straight up evil. Like pathological serial killer tier evil. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/22 11:18 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadalas 2/3 should be good enough.. D's get degrees afterall | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:47 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI'm 5'6 that's tall right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 01:42 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat Megathreadroof pool is a good vibe then it sounds like ? we have one in my building with a nice view and I see men and women both doing literal photoshoots of themselves out there. sometimes with full on camera crews and stage lights etc lol . Personally I would be too embarrassed to ever do that for myself but maybe it's worth a shot just a quick pic for the profile | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 10:40 PM |
| – | Daily Community Chat MegathreadShould fit men include a shirtless pic on an online dating profile? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/06/22 09:58 PM |
| 1 | At what age does it become weird to not have lost your virginity as a man?I lost mine at a pretty common age (16) but I wonder about how long a man can go without before it becomes weird again (29 y/o and it's been several years). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/22 09:00 PM |
| 1 | If you bring up any issues that men deal with in dating on social media and especially Reddit, even if you have success, women and s!mps will call you an !ncel. This is simply a shaming tactic used to deflect and shut the conversation down.incel just means a guy who can't get laid. it's the same as calling someone an ugly virgin like we did to the losers back in grade 10. The adults using it as an insult now are just adults engaged in collective bullying. It's nothing new or crazy. Writing off someone's opinion or shaming someone as an incel is no different than calling them an f-slur or a retard. I'm not saying it's the worst thing in the world, it's just immature and generally polite society frowns upon adults behaving like this… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 12:28 PM |
| 15 | Unattractive WomenWeird how people are coming out of the woodwork to talk you out of your values. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/06/22 11:50 AM |
| 1 | Do women you’re not attracted to you mean anything to you at all? Do you look up to or admire any women?Q4W: Are your expectations of us really this low? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/06/22 08:11 PM |
| 2 | What's the alternative to "be yourself"?being a politician | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadPutting aside the accessories and just focusing on looks, she's not really my type. Maybe a 4/10 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI was kind of with you until the 3-year age difference. I don't buy that. I do kinda think that the highest quality men and women tend to marry in their early to mid 20s, typically meeting in college and marrying soon afterwards. I guess in that context when I say high-quality, especially for the men, I mean hard working men of high moral character and principles, not necessarily the rich and famous alpha chads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI guess I'm late to things.. Around that age 21-23 I was an addict playing in bands, skimming by off of shady income. A couple years later I had a bachelors degree while working full time and with an LTR I was super in love with but ended up breaking my heart after I started getting sober, employed and credentialed and she lost interest because my life got boring and predicable. At 29 I have a masters' degree, six figure legitimate income, in good shape physically and mentally. I haven't even ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt makes sense but it's a little bit of a downer. In my teens/early 20s I was a bit of a degenerate but naturally that was my most successful period with women.. not that I was very successful at all, but I had a string of LTRs and some interest in me then. Reached a low point then spent the last few years turning my life around in different ways. Now I feel I'm at my most successful, most attractive, strongest, fastest, most grounded and disciplined of my life but it feels like I'm late to the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 09:25 PM |
| 5 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadIt feels like most women I run into these days are taken. I'm 29, and talking about young professionals 23-30 age range. I went to a big conference a few weeks ago with a ton of people in this age range, and +1s were invited. I would say about 80% of the folks there were coupled up, if not married. Even on the younger side of this age range it seems to be the case. This is especially true for what I would consider high quality LTR/wife material partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/22 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Do single mothers get a bad rap?/s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 01:59 PM |
| 2 | Women here constantly respond to every complaint by men with some variation of “women don’t owe you sex” or “sorry you can’t get your dick wet” and basically imply that sex is all that men want from women. This is obviously false and used to once again diminish our struggles.I want to love and be loved. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/05/22 01:19 AM |
| 2 | The trope that men only care about looks is a reflection of the gynocentric society we live inMy attraction as a function of 0-10 looks is something like: 1 / (1 + e^( -1.5x+8)) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/05/22 09:43 PM |
| 2 | If there is a very high chance that a woman will divorce you in marriage is there any reason for men to get married anymore?The reason for marraige is family formation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI workout every day. I don't get why I would do the other two | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadHow long they should give him depends on the context of the job-loss. Maybe he works a physically demanding job and was horrible injured in a work-accident. That situation would be different from a guy who's fired for poor performance then sits around unemployed moping about it. If the trad man is living up to his end of the deal, he will be ashamed to be unable to provide for his family and doing everything within his power to change that situation. In an extreme case where he is permanantly di… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:24 AM |
| 1 | How could OLD be improved?Had me at the first paragraph. Every word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:01 AM |
| 2 | How could OLD be improved?I get matches here and there, even text conversations, but very rarely do actual dates happen. People want to chat but as soon as meeting up or even a video call comes up it's ghost-town. The text conversations I've had went from me being interested and trying to be interesting, sometimes being ignored and sometimes benig reciprocated at first, to me pushing to meet as fast as possible because of how much time I've wasted with these text conversations already only for a meeting not to happen. Th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/22 12:00 AM |
| 1 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?I had been lifting for a while before I ever started deadlifting. I was worried about injury and figured I had things covered through other excercises. At the time I could probably squat around 280 bench around 200 lb. Figured my deadlifting would be somewhere in between lo and behold I was absolutely drenched in sweat and shaking after my first set of six reps at 115lb. It took a couple months of consistency to get that lift up to a normal amount but it really helped me overall because I had be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 07:41 PM |
| 9 | Is the gym obsession/fad making it difficult for average men and influencing women's opinions on how the average man should look?At first it sounds like you are saying the average physique is better now and unattainably so, but then you admit that most guys have never lifted a free weight in their life. Which one is it? No women are laughing at Brad Pitt in fight club that's an absolute top tier male physique. Lifting is good for you and makes you more attractive, so are running, swimming, cycling, gynmastics, martial arts, futbol, rock climbing etc.. Just be active, sweat every day and push yourself to be the best you ca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/22 01:05 AM |
| 5 | Celibacy is not commendable or respected anymore, this is a problem.Another aspect I missed is the idea of posession. The man does possess his wife but the wife also possess the husband. They are become the same soul. Much of the story is a comedy so you have to take things with a grain of salt, but the virtuous knight presented in the story always refer to his beloved as his mistress, his captor, his owner, even his torturer and his foe. The honorable is the slave of the woman and she tortures him with her haughty indifference or her lofty expectations of him. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 11:22 PM |
| 3 | Celibacy is not commendable or respected anymore, this is a problem.I couldn't find the right quotes to capture the whole dynamic being presented without writing out the whole thing word for word. It is complex and the pieces I failed to include certainly are up front about the fact that the woman is the chooser, which is correct. It does come across as controlling from these passages, but again I think it suffers from lack of context. The idea here is that the virtuous women in the story WANT to be faithful to their husband, her honor and her husband's honor al… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What are the professions of the men on this sub?I work at a tech consulting firm doing cloud architecture, data science and data analytics work. The company has made several vocal committments to reaching certain demographic profile goals in the company, including 50/50 men and women. What this means in practice is that they have to hire many more women than men fresh out of school. So as someone pretty early in his career most of my coworkers are women, most of my supervisors are women, and most of their supervisors are men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 11:00 PM |
| 10 | Celibacy is not commendable or respected anymore, this is a problem.To me it isn't about celebacy but about virtue. Reading "The novel of Impertinent Curiosity" story-within-a-story in Don Quixote presents what I consider a really good understanding of the old-fashion ideas of virtue which are long gone and missing. Really no quotes will do it justice but here are a few anyway to get the point across: "A virtuous woman also resembles a bright transparent mirror, which is liable to be stained and obscured by the breath of those who approach too near it. A virtu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:39 PM |
| 4 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadWhen I was 6 I thought the fouth graders were pretty much adults. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 10:18 PM |
| 1 | On a day to day basis, how many attractive women do you see?On a daily basis where I work from home, hit the gym at 11AM when it's absolutely empty, go for my run at 4PM when there's almost no one out then spend the evening reading on my balcony or playing video games, very few. If I actually leave the house and sit outside on a popular corner for an hour on a nice day, it would be too many to count. There are also many attractive women in my office. After all it's full of smart, driven, innovative people and the median age is right around 30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:52 PM |
| 3 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadYou have to be careful, especially with big compound excercises and heavy weights. Thre's a reason you see guys jump into that goofy powerwalk around the gym after their deadlift sets. Some das I get light headed even on warmup sets. Other days it doesn't happen at all. Squatting is more dangerous than deadlift here for obvious reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadI know a lot of people here, myself included, are frustrated with the realities of the dating market as it pertains directly to their own self interest. Sometimes I try to take a step back and remove myself, my desires, and my circumstances from the equation and it actually gets much worse. The kind of social changes I think would be necessary to course-correct are radically opposed to current trends. Not only that, I myself have desired, participated in, and on some level seek to continue engag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat MegathreadThey aren't the same thing, but they don't have to be to serve the same purpose in certain contexts. I'll use myself as an example. When I was fat I looked good with a beard because my face was fat and puffy. When I'm fit I have a good natural jawline and never let myself go above stubble, because it doesn't show off my face shape. Another example, I'm short and when I shave my head it makes my skull look small, which it is. When I keep my hair big and long like a mane my skull looks larger and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Daily Community Chat Megathreadthere's a reasonable argument to be made comparing the two in that context. Biggest differences are the beard is natural and it might be worn for other purposes than aesthetics (religious or cultural purposes for example). Those differences aren't trivial but don't entirely invalidate the comparison | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/22 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Most men who don't have "success" with women are a-social. Lack of social skills is a far bigger hindrance than the aspect of looks.This hits home for me. My problem is that I don't interact with anyone except old friends, work friends, and internet friends. I'm perfectly happy with that and socially/intellectually fulfilled with this arrangement but it makes meeting women very difficult. When I was in high school/college, I found it super easy to meet women and form relationships. I took that for granted and couldn't possibly imagine how different it would be as a working adult. the prospect of inventing reasons to form ano… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Objectively speaking, sex is disgusting and that is a good argument for monogamyAs I get older I start to think more and more that traditional social values around monogamy, prudence, sanctity of marraige etc were not the result of sex-negative close-minded prudes but really functioned as floodgates preventing serious socially and psychologically and physically damaging consequences for society as a whole. Unfortunately it's really hard to voice those feelings without coming across a certain way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:19 PM |
| 2 | Most of the men/boys on this sub need to start lifting and eating healthy. That alone will improve their health tremendously & in the long run help them attract women.I'm interested in this comment and if others feel this way. I taught myself to lucid dream a long time ago and used to do it. After a while I stopped and now I actively dislike having lucid dreams. When it happens unintentionally I pretty much immediately wake myself up because I don't feel like I am getting any rest during them. Often waking up takes a lot of "effort" somehow like the feeling of pushing a boulder that's lodged in the ground and then suddenly the inertia gives way and you jolt a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Most of the men/boys on this sub need to start lifting and eating healthy. That alone will improve their health tremendously & in the long run help them attract women.good luck man. A year ago today I was just north of 200 at 5'6". Today just south of 150 and stronger in the gym than I was at 200. Personally I didn't think of myself as fat before even though I was. It sounds like you are more honest with yourself than I was. That will probably help. Stick with it and it might not take as long as you think. It will feel good when you get there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/05/22 09:54 PM |
| 23 | There's a fair reason as to why men's version of "objectification" is deemed more potentially harmful by "society."The trouble is that the difference between 'creepy' and 'forward' is consent or like the possibility of consent. If some guy is unattractive anything that even hints towards sex is going to be creepy. If it's an attractive guy he doesn't get labeled as creepy unless he crosses a much further line, because there's still the possibility of it being a wanted advance On top of that unattractive guys are just scarier in general. Subconsciously people assume they have less to lose | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/21 02:01 AM |
| 3 | As a man with low libido, my dating experience is way better than a normal man's.Do you ever find women get frustrated or expect higher libido? For me I have a hard time getting aroused with strangers, even attractive ones. Sometimes I can but usually I have to get to know someone for at least a week or something. After I get to know them I'm back to normal man libido and want it constantly. It's led to some awkward situations where women will want to sleep over the night we met and I won't be in the mood, and sometimes they get frustrated or feel unattractive. Other times t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 07:57 PM |
| 4 | Social circles/groups to find dates are not that reliable because most have already established members and don’t consistently invite newcomersBars / clubs are selection bias though. The kind of woman some guys want to meet would rarely to never be out drinking and dancing. Maybe twice a year for her friend's birthday. If you want a party girl/guy, that's who you normally find boozing every weekend. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 02:35 PM |
| 4 | People in the manosphere don't understand status, attraction, af/bb because they socialize too littleI don't think this is an accurate representation of their views. No one considers status to be BB. Being an engineer who has no friends or experiences in life and makes low six figures is BB. I would say status is actually the most important variable both in red and black pill worldviews. For black pill looks is the 2nd most important aspect, whereas for red pill it's something like character. Money is relevant to both but it's only really important at the point where it can buy you status. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/04/21 03:53 AM |
| 1 | The hypocrisy i’ve seen in the RedPill communityMy takes as a nopilled male: (1) Generally men are more wired to seek variety and any hook up with anyone who passes the low threshold of acceptability. Generally women are more wired to hold out for the highest value partner. I think we all have innate capacity for both. TRP treats male promescuity as admirable and female promescuity as degenerate. l. I think this is the reason they come off as so annoying. There is a grain of truth to this perspective, and of course it works out well for men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 09:40 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Red pill is just mostly scammers who are trying to take advantage of down on luck menYea the PUA guys are frauds. The reddit incarnation of TRP is a bit difference because it's not monetized afaik. I haven't read it recently, but in the past it's struck me as a mix between genuinely well meaning people offering advice, circlejerk of people with bare minimum or incidental success (unrelated to their theories) , and tales from the basement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Are "post-wall off the CC" women forcing men to date them or something? What's with the hate against them?" women are taken after college and if you are still dating from 28-32 you are probably dregs and you are picking among the fucked up leftover women. people dont like to hear this but its true. so men are being "forced" by reality to date single moms and ex CC riders if theyre waiting til 29 to try and start dating, thats all thats left What if they are virgins though or have had sex with only one or two people. They don't want to end up with a woman who has had 20+ partners. They feel inferior … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Pick-Me and Cool Girls Mega ThreadSCABS CROSSING THE PUSSY PICKET LINE this redditor has a way with words | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 02:39 PM |
| 14 | is the pandemic making men on dating apps more sexually aggressive?That is bad behavior. As a man I don't use dating apps because frankly I think that using them at all is a red flag for me. I realize this eliminates a lot of people, even some who aren't promiscuous types, but it's just easier that way for me. I don't expect that men who use the apps are any better, maybe even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/21 03:47 AM |
| 5 | Men who don’t value friendships with women also don’t value relationships. They just want sex.Single/lonely men don't value friendship with women they want to sleep with | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 01:15 PM |
| 1 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.Interesting. Do you mind giving an idea of your age range to help put this into context? When I was a teen I weighted about 130 lbs, shoulder length hair and smelled like pot smoke. A certain type of girl was into it. Now I'm in my late 20s and a lot stockier with medium length shaggy hair and facial hair. No more hippie style just very minimalist what you could easily call basic. I feel more attractive and manly, but I'm curious what women think. Maybe I should add that I'm not attracted to the… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 11:39 PM |
| 1 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.Is this guy's after style really broadly attractive to women though? I'm sorry if this comes across as rude, genuinely curious. As a straight guy when I think of a "good looking dude" that is not what comes to mind at all. He kind of looks like a girl. I would picture someone more like these as 7/10 men https://i.imgur.com/Zv5w1al.png (just googled 'random people') | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 11:16 PM |
| 7 | This sub talks a lot about low value males, but what about low value females? What are they like and what do you think their life is like?At the top of the SMV hierarchy are 8+/10 men. They can get most anything they want out of life, have a very easy time with women, respected and admired by the general population at face value. Next are 8+/10 women. They are right up there with the men, and they might even get more out of life for free. However, their shelf life is somewhat shorter than the 8/10 man typically. They may still have a tough time getting respect and many will assume they have only coasted through life on their looks… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 10:24 PM |
| 1 | A lot of Redpill tactics seem counterproductive when researched.I think a lot of RP stuff is packaged as "how to navigate the psychological games women play". Some of the stuff really is that but some of it is actually about navigating the psychological traps readers play on themselves. For example, the dread game stuff always comes across as a roundabout way of keeping the reader from becoming emotionally invested in his romantic pursuits. It's not actually about somehow cultivating an emotional investment from women by willfully withholding attention as is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.The idea that valuing sexual history is a stupid white person thing is unreal lol. The most conservative countries on earth are all in Asia and Africa | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.It's nonsense because valuing dating history and sexual promiscuity is a multicultural phenomenon that's rampant in cultures of every skin tone. Talk to some East Asian or Arab people about the topic and they could well make the average white republican look progressive. To assume that everyone who holds that value is low IQ and low value is making an ignorant generalization about millions or even billions of men and women across the world. I know it's a troll because the poster is saying the sa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 05:12 PM |
| 2 | If the n count obsession is about avoiding infidelity, why aren't male n count discussed?Women should care about a man's N count but many just don't. most people who want low n count partners are low n count themselves, although not all are. Yes, if women put social pressure on men to be low N count it would be good for everyone. Men and women should put pressure on each other to be monogamous and loyal partners, though I believe insisting on virginity is unsustainable They go hand in hand. It's not an obsession. This is something that's rooted in many global cultures and been a mai… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:15 PM |
| 1 | What is the appropriate body count?I am confused by the last bit? Are you discouraging the use of data to support an opinion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 01:07 PM |
| 2 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.This post is absolute nonsense to the word. It's just a troll lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 12:24 PM |
| 6 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.The issue is that we can't expect average young men to have the same sexual prospects as average young women. The top tier men get a bigger share of opportunities while a substantial percentage have few. Top tier women also have ample opportunities and the higher quality opportunities among themselves, but the average young woman also has a comfortable set of options compared to the average young man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.It is definitely natural. There are valid rationalizations for it too. Imagine if a cultural component of monogamy was that married couples would never travel from their home country after marriage. Suppose one partner had been a world traveler and the other could never afford to leave their village. One person is sacrificing a piece of life they have fully participated in while the other will never get to experience it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 03:07 AM |
| 3 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/20 02:58 AM |
| 12 | Do men value women who "invest early"?It does seem rational in that way. As it turned out, the women who were attracted to me as a broken person were themselves broken. The irony was that as I worked to improve myself, largely motivated by these relationships, the women became less attracted to me and were unwilling to themselves take steps toward a more functional and productive lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 07:02 PM |
| 24 | Do men value women who "invest early"?Personally I've had an almost obsessive preference for women and loyalty to who accepted and loved me when I had nothing going on. It's not rational and probably self destructive, but it did come naturally. As I became more successful in my life, I became more wary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 06:48 PM |
| 2 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.Point taken | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 06:43 PM |
| 6 | Many people would be uncomfortable marrying someone who had a lot more sexual partners than they did.I don't think most men would feel uncomfortable with 1 or 2 more than themselves, especially if both parties have nonzero counts. I find it difficult to talk about this stuff without quickly devolving into anecdotal accounts, so I will do that. The first girl I was with was not a virgin, I was her third partner. We had a several year relationship that unraveled due to other issues. Some years later I dated a woman who had many partners, something on the order of several dozen. At this point I'd … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/20 06:41 PM |
| 2 | Do you find people are more flirty when one or more are in established relationships?That makes sense. I could be overreacting and it could even just be in my head. I think there is more than one factor at play though. It sounds like we are in different stages of life and sometimes the flirting here is more obvious. Something like invitations to meet alone or photos is a big difference from a deep conversation in a group setting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/20 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Do you find people are more flirty when one or more are in established relationships?What does actual flirting look like? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 11:04 PM |
| 0 | Do you find people are more flirty when one or more are in established relationships?That makes sense aswell, but sometimes it seems more extreme. Like to show up at a party with my girlfriend and some woman who I only know somewhat will come up like old friends acting touchy and wanting to drink and these sort of things. Basically in ways that would make me feel uncomfortable if the roles were reversed so I can't pursue at all even though under other circumstances I would have been much more receptive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Do you find people are more flirty when one or more are in established relationships?Very interesting point. I have actually almost identical experience on the trails around here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Boys need to be socialized to be neutral towards women collectivelyEvery single person has to explicitly disagree with the op to make a post in this topic? ridiculous | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 01:33 PM |
| 5 | Why are women allowed "beautiful at any shape or size", but men aren't?Men might be held to some higher standards but I'm not convinced weight is one of them. All of the media messaging that big women are beautiful means nothing if men aren't actually attracted to them. Some are but most aren't and cultural programming won't change that. I probably see more fat dudes with hot women than fat chicks with handsome men. Neither seems really common but neither seems rare exactly either. Part of the discussion is how fat we are talking. With women a little curvy or skinn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 04:08 AM |
| 3 | Manosphere subs like redpill, mgtow, and others, as well as female dating strategy highly overexagerate how thirsty the average man is, as well as a how attractive an average woman is to a man.Some men live up to that but it's not so many. For me many women fall into the 'take it or leave it' category that's about a full half of women my age. Then there are the hard nos and the ones that I'm very attracted to. I doubt it's that far off the average women's standards. I guess the difference is 'take it or leave it' means I'll take it if it's not too much trouble, whereas for women it sometimes seems like 'leave it unless you can convince me otherwise' | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 03:57 AM |
| 3 | How to accept that love is opportunistic?I can relate to some of what you're saying. I don't think unconditional love is realistic or natural - it would mean someone that loved you even if "you" changed who you are fundamentally and acted in any way no matter how detestable. At that point it isn't even loving "you for you" it's just blind and mindless adoration. The thing I pine for is a trusting love. I think it is very hard to trust people with vulnerabilities and this sort of things and it would be nice to find someone who truly sup… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/20 06:07 AM |
| 2 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.most legit of the 233 comments so far | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 10:25 PM |
| 1 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.why would you shit test anonymous people on an anonymous forum that makes no sense to me. i'm basing this on what i see IRL. FYI I just got home from a 2 hour workout. I lift regularly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 08:36 PM |
| 5 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.i dont get what you mean. ime younger girls have always had LESS preference for jacked brutes - no teen idols have even been like that. I'm basing this on what I see IRL and the disconnect from what people say on reddit lol. I'm still believe in some TRP stuff. I lift 4-5x week myself and would practice many of the other things advised over there just because I want to. I don't pretend that it's the only way to get women though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 06:39 AM |
| 9 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.so you come to a forum that's meant to be a place where men and women can honestly discuss attraction under the cover of anonymity yet you're saying "we" should outright ignore anything they have to say here? Init.. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 06:09 AM |
| 0 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.this is exactly what i'm talking about. you assert this argument yet literally every woman who posts in this thread is saying otherwise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 06:06 AM |
| 2 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.what are you saying ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 05:12 AM |
| 6 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.that is a good point. people mentioned that not everyone has 'pretty boy genes' but also not everyone has a naturally wide frame and genetic aptitude for strength either. the thing is at least a moderate level (high level compared to average sedentary people) of fitness is always a plus. I can see why that is suggested. My point isn't really about telling people to change anything they do. In fact I bet you damn near 100% of hetero men would rather look like jason momoa than prince even if it we… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:22 AM |
| 6 | There is a disconnect between what women are attracted to and what men think they should be attracted to.Of course everyone is coming in to say the stuff that proves my point. in reality Jason Momoa is very attractive, but if you were to take a 1980 version of him and compare to prime Prince the results would be at least 50/50 if not slightly out of his favor | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe that there is "someone out there for everyone"?Of course not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Question For All: How do you feel about women who sell/post sexual vids/pictures online?I don't feel anything about them in particular, but I wouldn't date someone who did that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (26 January 2020)I hate how topics get removed for "low effort". Not every topic needs 5 paragraphs of text to open discussion. Plenty of my topics do, but not all. Some moderator gets to decide what is worth discourse before even giving it a chance. Shit tilts me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | Do women control the “game” as long as a sizeable proportion of women are willing to entertain loneliness over relationships with undesirable men?Women do control the game. I think the reasons are more nuanced than that though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 08:04 AM |
| 5 | Seems like there is always an ulterior motive agenda with women.imagine having to scroll to find this comment . cba with yall sometimes 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 1 | The main problems with reddit style TRP philosophyI largely agree with your posts. As for the use of autistic, I meant it in the colloquial sense, something like "nerdy and over-analytic theories on social dynamics, spun up by an individual who's body of life experience rarely extends beyond the confines of his parents' basement." No intention of weaponizing the word, this was an unedited rant. A lot of people, including a best friend with a mild ASD uses the term similarly. Coincidentally he was a big TRP guy for a while and has had a lot of p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/20 02:55 AM |
| 1 | How has moments of unemployment/under-employment affected your dating life?When I was unemployed and trapping I did well. In a boring mundane job I did poorly and also hated my life. Now I'm a STEM student and I don't leave the house from the workload so unknown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 07:35 PM |
| 1 | This sub needs to come to an agreed definition of BluePill.In practice "Blue Pill" is a relative term to express an ideology that is (a) perceieved as naive or deluded yet widely purported and most importantly (b) contrasts the ideology of the "woke" poster. For example a reddit TRP guy will likely think some Lookism type ideology is blue-pill in its rejections of concepts like frame and charisma. While the lookism guy will almost certainly think that TRP guy is blue-pilled for believing in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 06:06 AM |
| 2 | When it comes to dating, what makes someone boring?There's too many factors to easily summarize. I know it when I see it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:53 AM |
| 1 | What's the shortest/tallest you would date? Are you turned off/on by certain heights?I don't care | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:51 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Am I the only one for whom attraction can absolutely be negotiated?Well I explained what I am referring to already in the post - some older idea about "the person knows in the first five minutes whether they are into you" sort of idea. The two ideas go hand in hand oftentimes and have been conflated enough for myself and other people to mix it up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:25 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Am I the only one for whom attraction can absolutely be negotiated?Funny thing is a decent number of ppl actually aligns with the more restrictive definition I described in the OP - particularly male posters | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Am I the only one for whom attraction can absolutely be negotiated?Maybe I misinterpret what it means. Perhaps they are just saying you can't do favors to buy attraction which seems a lot more reasonable statement to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 04:57 AM |
| 1 | Wait, Do Y'all Really Think "Exciting/Fun" = "Criminal Activity"??It's a balance in sense because if you live a fast lifestyle certainly many women will be attracted to that, especially young women. There is a lot of excitement to it and unpredictability. At same time as people get older many will end up with addiction or in jail. Often the girls won't stick around or will have baggage and personal issues as well as they get older and stay involve with that lifestyle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 3 | [Q4All] Am I the only one for whom attraction can absolutely be negotiated?do you guys even read the post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 04:00 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Am I the only one for whom attraction can absolutely be negotiated?no, there is a lower threshold as i mentioned in the post. this applies to me for like 4/10 - 10/10 women. It's not all about being sweet and adoring either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 03:39 AM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Am I the only one for whom attraction can absolutely be negotiated?Not always I have seen. Often I see it to mean, if a woman is not attracted to you than doing her dishes (or her homework, or texting her everyday) will never change that. Usually examples do include these kind of favour tasks which I think we both agree have no positive impact on attraction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Q4MEN: would you rather marry a 26 year old woman with $0 that you have to financially support while she works at a grocery store, or a 4” year old woman with $300k to her name who you don’t have to financially support who works full time as a nurse practitioner?26 year old of course. i am 27 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/20 02:19 AM |
| 1 | How important is authenticity in a partner?Not sure if question is rhetorical but to me it means being confident about what you know/do and humble/honest about what you don't. Either way thx for the input | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/01/20 01:47 AM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 January 2020)maybe true but i think there is something else to it. my topic from yesterday is still on front page with 2 upvotes lol. generally all topics here are not upvoted much and its common to see single digit upvotes on the front page. i just wish when you up or downvote stuff on discussion type subs you had to leave a comment also so the person who wrote it understands your view | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 January 2020)Your topic " Q4ALL Rp'ers, what is your opinion on the BP'ers of this sub? BP'ers what is your opinion on the RP'ers of this sub? is something like what i would post and also you can see that many people replied to this and still upvotes is only 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 January 2020)No pill - I just post topics that are interesting to me with open mind. I don't feel there is any "problems" or advocate any actions just a search for different peoples truthes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Community Chat Megathread (19 January 2020)Why do my topics get downvoted a lot on here even though a good amount of people reply to them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How important is authenticity in a partner?your example isn't a valid one because obviously women will prefer a strong man over a weak man and a confident man over a weak man. The question is to what extent it matters if a guy is a poser. e.g. guy is handsome and wealthy but he acts like he's an expert in everything that he really doesn't know shit about vs a guy who is average looking and middle class but he's confident about what he knows and humble about what he doesn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 05:14 PM |
| 0 | How important is authenticity in a partner?this is pretty much my intuition of the subject. though i wasn't going to say dumb as much as men and women tend to pick up on different sort of social cues. certainly some things a lot of men 'don't get' that women pick up on. I feel this is one that men pick up on more easily but if a woman discovers it and can't find a way to justify it to herself it's usually a deal breaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | How important is authenticity in a partner?It sounds like women have a range of preferences on it. My view is that perhaps majority of women are repulsed by it while some will accept it, but many will not even notice it the way men notice it in each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 04:47 AM |
| 2 | How important is authenticity in a partner?well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 04:45 AM |
| 1 | How important is authenticity in a partner?What your saying makes sense. I think there's a difference that I'm not exactly sure how to articulate. The authenticity that I'm talking about doesn't mean that you act exactly the same way with your grandparents as you do with your best friend or a stranger. That sounds like a very boring or even socially stunted person. It has more to do with the way you approach new or different situations and challenges. It's about being confident about what you know and humble/honest about what you don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 03:29 AM |
| 1 | How would your life change if you knew for certain you would never have physical or romantic intimacy again?It's a hypothetical situation where this is an inevitable reality for you, not something that you choose to happen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think less young people are having sex than ever before?because we're posting here at 2:20 AM on the night of a holiday | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Is the redpill a boomer ideology?Funny enough boomer women on this sub give better advice than boomer men. Preaching partying, doing drugs etc to attract women which I suppose is timeless but it doesn't always work (some incels tried and failed this one). Do boomer women really preach that on here? Tbf they're not wrong loads of women are into lil peep type dudes. On the downside i's not always conducive to meeting quality partners or long term success in life... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 07:12 AM |
| 1 | It gets harder to date after high schoolcame in to say this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 06:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageI'm not advocating any approach or even the idea that there is a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageGreat post that makes me think. You mention the potential of the dating market suffering from the economy that millennial inherited, implying it could be due to its weakness. This is the part I'm most skeptical about. If anything I would be more open to the idea that weaker economy might lead to stronger interpersonal relationships for better or worse. When partners truly rely on each other for survival there is less transient relationships, less boredom and hedonistic treadmill. However I'm not… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 05:13 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageVery interesting point. Most of my examples have been with men because I am one and that's what I have perspective on. Coming into this discussion I had this notion that my argument was even more relevant to women. This is mainly based on (1) the popular idea around here that most women are competing for a smaller percentage of high value men (2) horror stories of deception and betrayal I've heard from women. That being said I didn't consider some factors that might be relevant. You mention the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 04:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageBut your friend then appreciates you, so they might do something nice for you later. In general doing nice things for people brings reputation gains and social capital, as well as expands your social network. You effectively gain in social capital from that interaction, much like okcupid gains in user traffic capital. You could even charge financial capital for such things and call it dating coaching. Once you start charging that changes the game IMO it becomes a buyer/seller relationship not an… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 04:12 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageThis is a valuable perspective. I'm 27 now and some of my friends got married in their early 20's. They tend to hang out with other young families and LTR couples. Now that you mention it, I tend to see a lot more of them when I am in an LTR than I do when I'm single or casually dating. I think the dynamic you mention is very real and I expect this only increases with age. Lets say there is a social group of mostly couples with a single friend. I can see there being pressure to fix them up for t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 04:07 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageThis is an interesting point that I'm glad you mention. Most TRP posters would attest to the fact that majority of society provides dating advice that is useless at best and often downright counterproductive. Most would also agree that the early days of the manosphere was chock full of people selling both empty promises and actual information behind seminar fees and other costs. How TRP and other "open source" information fits in is most interesting to me. On some level I believe it is a grassro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 03:45 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageI don't understand. Beyond ordinary compassion, no one has incentive to want to see you eating either, and yet people do in fact continue to farm and ship things to market and so on? It sounds like you are talking about a vertical industry with this example. A farmer sells to a grocer and both benefit. This is a vertical symbiosis. A farmer sells his chickens to another chicken farmer to expand and increase efficiency of his dairy farming operations. This is a horizontal symbiosis. Farming is co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 03:34 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageYou make an interesting point that I think is important to this discussion. Consider the example of substance abuse. There are cities in America with overdose death rates over 100/100k or on par with homicide rates of the most dangerous cities on Earth. While some would argue it's not enough, the fact is considerable attention and resources are directed toward helping people with addiction. If you visit those cities it brings to mind what you say "A society is a product of its individuals" and i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 03:16 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantage"Why would they?" is what I'm asking. It sounds like we share this view then. It's not entirely different from economic markets, because these kinds of dynamics do exist there. However I think they predominantly exist in primary markets that deal with the extraction/collection of limited natural resources e.g. oil / mining. I am not familiar with Brazil's economy but in America this industries make up a fraction of 1% of the economy. In other industries there is more inherent benefit from cooper… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 03:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageI think you have a point. Some other posts have talked about the 'group of friends' situation. I think when you have a group of friends with all reasonably similar SMV you can all help each other out and potentially all gain from it. This breaks down when some of the friends have much higher SMV than others (the threshold you mention). That's not to say that friends with vastly different SMVs can't act in mutually beneficial ways, but often the direct SMV benefit is one sided, and that's compens… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 02:49 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageTherefore it has tangible big potential for individual advantage, and since we're talking about sex which involved two (or more?) parties, symbiotic as well. It seems I wasn't clear in the OP because a lot of people are bringing this up. I'm not talking buyer/seller/vertical symbiosis but competitive/horizontal. If you meet some guy who struggles with women, what SMV benefit do you get from helping him change that? What SMV benefit do other guys in the marketplace gain from that? IMO it's little… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 02:43 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageIn a lot of markets, competitors can act in ways that are both selfish and mutually beneficial. I think it's possible for this to be true in the dating market but it's a lot less common to happen naturally. If some guy is unsuccessful in dating, there's no real benefit for other guys in helping him change that. I believe that it is similar for women who are competing for the same pool of top tier men. I suspect it might be even more extreme with women, but I lack the perspective to say that with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 02:37 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageLets say you meet a guy who struggles a lot with women. What do you benefit from helping him succeed sexually? What do other men gain from it besides him? In my view it's very little | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 02:24 AM |
| 2 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageThis is a good response and one that most directly addresses the view I was trying to describe. What I've noticed is this works well when all of the group is sexually successful as a baseline. Lets say we have a group like this and only one guy is bad with women. Disregarding morals, the rest are best off by using this guy's failures to make themselves look better. It's possible for everyone else in the group to serve as ideal wingmen to help him get with the best looking woman, but I don't see … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 02:23 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageI'm not saying there is no potential for both parties in a "sexual transaction" to benefit. What I'm saying it's rare for other men/women in the market to benefit from their success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 02:05 AM |
| 1 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageIn a lot of markets there is a dynamic where competitors can work together for mutual benefit. In this market that's rare. For example helping some guy who isn't getting laid get laid doesn't really help you in any way. I'm not saying it doesn't help him or it couldn't be mutually beneficial for that guy and his partner, just that it doesn't help anyone else | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 02:02 AM |
| 0 | CMV: The sexual marketplace has virtually zero potential for symbiotic advantageI'm not saying there is no potential for both parties in a "sexual transaction" to benefit. What I'm saying it's rare for other men/women to benefit from their success | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/01/20 01:59 AM |
| 1 | Men clowning aroundIf you're trolling, well done. If not, I'm not surprised a guy like you is unsuccessful with women. You deserve the pit you're in. Either way I'm done. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 07:45 PM |
| 1 | Men clowning aroundEngineering and CS roles are also typically meritoracy and the latter rarely requires even a formal education for highly compensated jobs. Personally I went to school because I lacked the background in math and statistics I felt was needed for these roles and I believe I was not capable of teaching myself these fields at a high level. My process was to teach myself just basic statistics and learning to code using edx online education in my free time. Then I spent several months preparing for GRE… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Men clowning aroundMore weak defeatist outlook. I'm a former addict and criminal and went to school after years of menial work to pay for it and had no trouble finding a career that pays well on the other side. People who didn't keep making excuses why they can't or try to say you're fake in all this different ways for doing what they didn't. It doesn't matter if it's with your money with women fitness or anything else, it's the same crab mentality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Men clowning aroundHow is it clowning though? In that case doing anything outside for reason besides immediate gratification is clowning? Changing your behavior in any way for better or worse is clowning? Self-defeating loser mentality to hold. Reminds me of guys who stay broke doing petty crime since getting a job or education is clowning. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 07:01 PM |
| 3 | Men clowning aroundLets say you are low functioning alcoholic. A woman says she will leave you unless you fix up. It's not "clowning" to get sober in this case even if you are only doing it for the woman. If she leaves anyway you will still be better off for it. Whether or not you care to do something is not the metric by which clowning is measured. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:40 PM |
| 0 | Men clowning aroundi see what you mean. some people will engage in self-improvement activities soley to attract women and that is why we see people conflating it with "clowning". Thing is it's still for your own benefit whether or not you engage in it only to attract women (subjectively feel this is the wrong outlook to have, but it's the individual's perogative). Just because you aren't interested in doing it doesn't mean that it won't benefit you in other ways. Therefore it is not clowning | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Men clowning aroundIMO this is why it happens: "Clowning" here refer to basically putting on an act / becoming ingenuine for entertainment purposes. Because for this guys rotting in the basement is their genuine experience, anything they change for that is to get women and they call it becoming a clown. What you have to do is ask yourself is this behavior for my own benefit or engaged solely to attract women? In a case like working out or improving living habits, the answer is clearly 1st and it's an issue of conf… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 23 | To you, what makes a woman "low value"?" When you tell me Trisha totally branch swings when Ronnie AMOG’s you on Thirsty Thursdays, I get it. But Kendra is not going to give up her whole life because a dude who is an inch taller than you winked at her. " LOOOOOOOOOOOOOL this is gold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:52 PM |
| 3 | Women find negative feminine traits unattractive.i never read 50 shades or have an opinion on it. I'm just saying future literally has a song "I won" with lyrics " I just wanna take you out and show you off You already know that you the perfect one Girl when I'm with you, feel like a champion Ever since I got with you I feel like I done won me a trophy A trophy I won me a trophy (I won, I won, I won) A trophy " It's not a joke at all he's being serious and many women love this song and in love with Future also. Many women finds it romantic and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:47 PM |
| 4 | Women find negative feminine traits unattractive.Every rapper and most pop musician talk about drowning in pussy fucking another guys girl etc etc 24/7 but they are never crtizied for entitlement unless they are unsuccessful. If they are successful it becomes self-fulfilling prophecy and no one calls them entitled for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:38 PM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanI'm familiar with maternal love but this isn't what I meant to infer at all. In fact the thing I compare it to directly throughout the post and response is fraternal love. That is a bond of loyalty men develop that runs very deep. People will serve years in jail or put themself in risk of death for their brothers, blood or otherwise, and this goes both ways. For the few I count as brothers this has been something that lasts over many years and even decades. It's not something that needs to be no… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 05:50 AM |
| 2 | Good girls: a treatiseThis is a good post. It's easy to forget about this for people when they are run in the wrong circles for long enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 12:58 AM |
| 1 | What does FDS consider a HVM and how does this differ from the archetypal red pill man?I believe men are not allowed to post in that sub . Also would like to get a side-by-side with the kind of man that TRP strives to become | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/01/20 12:47 AM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanIt's insulting to say that I have a desperate need for love or to imply that I am looking for 'another mommy' when that stuff is not relevant to what im talking about at all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 08:09 PM |
| 2 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanI agree with some of what you've said. to repeat from another response: Even some deep trust is contextual and betrayal is common. It may be that we are able to be deeply trusting in some things (familiar loyalty) with those we consider brothers only because we do not ask or want for their trust in others (romantic loyalty). When we consider the burden of imposing both of these on a single partner it is easy to see how that is a much bigger ask. In the past perhaps some of this burden was mandat… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 04:24 PM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanWith men the closer you become in a friendship the more you shit talk them typically. I say things every day to my closest friends that moderator wouldn't like to hear repeated here. Offensive comments on physical features, ethnicity, orientation (real / perceived), religious belief, physical disabilities all this stuff is par for the course. It's banter and it's itself a form of trust reinforcement that the other person will fire back with words instead of violence and trust that they are stron… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 03:14 PM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanThis post sound a bit insulting and not inline with what I'm saying. But I will repeat the answer to someone else that applies to some extent: So much of life involves this subtle machinations of competition, veiled agendas and isolation of the genuine experience. It is strange sometimes to think over life and to convince myself the things that really happened in it, because much has not been shared with another person. These things don't bother me as often but sometimes I do want for a relief a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 03:09 PM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanThat's what i got from it also | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanIt is selfish to expect a bond of loyalty from someone, though it could be mutually beneficial in some case. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:46 AM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanTrue though I didn't say I wasn't dating or mention any personal hesitance because of TRP posters, just my thoughts on the this particular ideological POV that many of them holds | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:42 AM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanDo you think that most men love the same way that most women do ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:36 AM |
| 1 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanSo much of life involves this subtle machinations of competition, veiled agendas and isolation of the genuine experience. It is strange sometimes to think over life and to convince myself the things that really happened in it, because much has not been shared with another person. These things don't bother me as often anymore but sometimes I do want for a relief and I think many men will feel the same. There can be more temptation to compromise ourselves with the women we enjoy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:33 AM |
| 2 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womannot bad very close to an actual post in the topic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:18 AM |
| 2 | TRP depresses me because it seems to say you can never trust a womanYou make a good point even some deep trust is contextual and betrayal is common. It may be that we are able to be deeply trusting in some things (familiar loyalty) with those we consider brothers only because we do not ask or want for their trust in others (romantic loyalty). When we consider the burden of imposing both of these on a single partner it is easy to see how that is a much bigger ask. In the past perhaps some of this burden was mandate from religious beliefs which could potentially s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 06:01 AM |
| 2 | Q4Men- are you ashamed of dominance mimicry?I don't wear sports jerseys because I don't watch sports. If anything I'm ashamed to have had thoughts similar to those you proposed here over the years, mainly because of how pretentious the post comes across. I realized though that if I played any sports competitively, I would probably enjoy watching them more. Another thing is that many people follow sports for the camaraderie and keeping up with these things can really help with networking even in unrelated career fields. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/01/20 05:08 AM |
| 1 | There’s nothing inherently wrong with adult men in their 20s and 30s dating adult women who are in their late teens or 20s respectivelythere's nothing inherantly wrong with this. i'm 27 short and fresh faced - i don't think anyone would bat an eye seeing me with an 18 year old. I haven't been with someone that young personally since i was 20 or 21 but I don't see what the big deal is when both parties are into it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 04:55 AM |
| 3 | Most incels aren't ugly. They're just mentally ill.it's a weird terminology overall. I'm definitely a "would-prefer-to-not-becel" but these things don't just happen on their own, and I'm sure when I have the opportunity something will work out. It can be harder for people who are firmly rooted in the "incel" mentality whether or not they are actually volcels. If your life mission revolves around making that one thing happen then things can get weird and desperate really fast. On the other hand if you aren't trying chances are nothing will happen… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 11:50 PM |
| 8 | Most incels aren't ugly. They're just mentally ill.I'm a graduate student - most of those hours are coursework | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 09:04 PM |
| 32 | Most incels aren't ugly. They're just mentally ill.i'm not horribly ugly but i work 60 hours a week, i'm a recovered alcoholic, and have no interest in going out to bars and clubs with my precious little free time. Consequently I don't really know any single women and I've been "incel" for the past couple years. I think this kind of thing is common | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 03:17 PM |
| 2 | This purge is generating the best content I've ever read on this subdoesn't it kind of cut both ways? I see a good number of threads dissing men and women. when this purge is over people have said what they've said and even when things get more civil you will still have a better idea of how people here really think | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 04:54 AM |
| 1 | This purge is generating the best content I've ever read on this subwhy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 04:04 AM |
| 1 | would you rather wife a woman who spent five years as a full time sex worker specifically for short, ugly incels (and has had no "civilian" partners) or a woman whose only lifetime partner was Chad.well played. wish i could edit the title | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/20 03:03 AM |
| 10 | Good news for r/FDSthe Gorbachev of menopause | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 10:08 PM |
| 0 | This purge is generating the best content I've ever read on this sub???? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/19 09:26 PM |
| 4 | Only get as far as holding girls' hands.well you met her at a club so i'm gonna go ahead and say you should have been making out with her at the point where you got nervous and starting asking about her job | /r/seduction | 22/02/14 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Why "bitches" can't get along.I'm pretty caring and submissive by nature. somewhat of a "male bitch" by your definition. I like the bitchy women for hooking up with. They're fun because they're so grumpy and hard to please but I would NEVER NEVER NEVER get into a relationship with one. Wifey needs to do what she's told, end of story. | /r/TheRedPill | 19/02/14 07:25 PM |
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