toysoldierxiii Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Two reversals - what just happened Twice here. And yeah, there is no good response to that whether you are ready for it or not.	/r/seduction	28/05/16 05:08 AM
1	Is it possible to friendzone yourself to lower her defense and then seduce her? In anticipation of relationship? No chance in hell, women can smell your desire/desperation like hyenas smell fear. And the minute they smell it they'll start building the wall to the friendzone that can't be broken down. Starting as a genuine friendship? Yeah, I do it with my work wives all the time. Really not interested and try my darndest to keep things professional until the flirting and sexual tension ramps things up to uncontrollable levels. But you can't fake that.	/r/seduction	26/04/16 09:50 AM
1	Should I respond back to her ?? Kinder response than I was going to give him.	/r/seduction	25/04/16 05:19 AM
1	Can I purposely present myself as a guy who's broke to filter out gold-diggers? How often is that even an issue? I work a not much more than minimum wage job and am upfront about it, it has never been an issue. They are only told about my passive income streams if they last a over a month, but just sex or additional dates have never been a problem due to disclosure of crappy job.	/r/seduction	25/04/16 05:18 AM
0	Stop Acting Aloof Around Girls For real. Yeah OP, in a perfect world everyone could be honest and upfront. We don't live in a perfect world. Try it sometime - hit it off with a girl then text her multiple unsolicited times each day and tell her you really like her and could see yourself settling down with her. Let us know how that works out for you (hint: there are hundreds of threads per day on this very website about chucks peacing out on clingy dudes).	/r/seduction	18/04/16 11:45 AM
5	Can someone explain kino? It just doesn't seem like a normal thing? How can I "get it working"? Well yeah, reading it in a book and trying to mark off items on a checklist will obviously be awkward. Plus a standard dinner date limits your options. Try bowling, I love that shit for ramping up the touching - from high fives to small of back guiding when switching turns to comforting arm or shoulder rubs on a bad ball to hugs you can knock out your little checklists in 10 frames. Tl;dr: plan activities with movement and/or highs and lows.	/r/seduction	17/04/16 08:30 AM
1	Can you explain these banter lines (from pickup101.com)? Your numbers are off, it typically wouldn't bother me except your number 4 is Sexual Thoughts and OP's number 4 is The View. Ugh.	/r/seduction	13/04/16 08:29 AM
1	Can you explain these banter lines (from pickup101.com)? They are moronic and destined to fail; they cannot be explained. Partial exception given to #5 but only after she is comfortable with you.	/r/seduction	13/04/16 04:12 AM
-1	Girlfriends and congruence test Really? There is a pretty hard line between a shit test and someone's phone ringing while they are taking a shit. Plus if she is your girlfriend you don't always have to be in game mode, you are allowed to be polite - she already knows you aren't her butler/pet/non-sexual friend.	/r/seduction	13/04/16 02:37 AM
3	How do you make her feel safe? I'm of the opposite opinion of Dirk - EVERY woman wants to feel safe so I give this one mucho bonus points for phenomenal communication and openness. As to the OP, it means exactly what it says. Safety, physically and emotionally. Physically is obviously easier if tall and big but little things like being fearless and confident around her work just as well; open doors, walk her home/to car, walk on the street side of the sidewalk, etc. Emotionally just means being a rock for her, someone she can…	/r/seduction	10/04/16 12:21 AM
-11	You can tell who is getting laid a lot on this sub by how judgmental they are about women. Skilled PUAs have more experience, more success and less resentment about women. Needs tl;dr	/r/seduction	09/04/16 09:37 AM
1	A Few Question Not bad at all, in fact as long as you are using those dreams and aspirations to better yourself toward that goal you are in the right state of mind. Playing out different scenarios and reactions is always helpful since it makes it less likely she will do or say something to catch you off guard. No. Skim through all the posts on the just the first page here - half of them are about the text game fucking things up. In person your snark doesn't get misinterpreted, you can gauge reactions and adjus…	/r/seduction	09/04/16 06:58 AM
1	Do Looks Really Matter To A Girl? HERE'S WHAT IS 10X MORE IMPORTANT! Drinking game for the word "like"	/r/seduction	08/04/16 06:09 PM
2	Had a weird interaction today Hang out here enough and you'll learn that touch is the great indicator. Her rubbing down your crotch is a pretty extreme case for her being either interested or a complete space cadet. Either way asking her out wouldn't have put your job at risk so you should've gone for it. If the thought of being forward scares you the focus could have been on the dog here - telling her you want to take him somewhere/for a walk/dog park/whatever one of these days. De facto date.	/r/seduction	08/04/16 03:18 PM
3	Did she signal interest? Yeah, u/eviiil got it - this seems just like standard polite customer service. Next time a woman does a good/helpful deed for you like this or extras at a restaurant throw out an "I owe you one" while keeping the eye contact locked in, if there is any interest they'll mention something (drink, dinner, etc).	/r/seduction	08/04/16 02:34 PM
-1	I hate being ignored. Is it unreasonable to expect to be told when it’s over? just stop texting and get on with life? Yup. How do I deal with this bruised ego without doing something immature? You accept that women (especially Gen Y) are, for lack of a better word, damaged. There is no rational thought in play with most of them, it is all emotion. That same emotion we manipulate to bag them initially can just as easily turn on you, moreso if you don't keep playing the game forever. You'll have better luck figuring out why monkeys throw their poo than you do figuring out w…	/r/seduction	08/04/16 02:28 PM
3	What are your favourite methods to keeping the conversation interesting? If there is chemistry keeping the conversation going should come pretty naturally - I've talked about bar peanuts for damn near an hour with my ex. If not you'll need open ended questions, stuff you can dig deeper into. What are you going to school for easily turns into why, favorite classes, toughest content, any goofy professors or classmates, what do your parents/friends think of that degree/path, is it really what you want to do, etc, etc. Edit: just re-read the OP; of course YOU are getting…	/r/seduction	07/04/16 09:35 PM
1	Going from open relation ship to close... What changes?? In a perfect world the only thing that would change would be that you no longer fuck other people. In reality though EVERYTHING could possibly change. You won't know until it happens, but expect a much larger time investment and many more emotions from her at minimum.	/r/seduction	07/04/16 05:04 PM
2	Great conversation on Okcupid, then suddenly no response. OKCupid, the land of flakes and entitlement. If they are on that site they are damaged beyond repair. You cannot apply rational thought to 90% of OKC or PoF chicks.	/r/seduction	06/04/16 11:46 PM
0	Great conversation on Okcupid, then suddenly no response. It means you went on OKCupid, the land of flakes and entitlement. Shut down that account and do something else. Literally anything else. Ride the penny horse thing for kids in a Walmart for hours and you'll have better luck. If you must stay online out of fear at least do Tinder.	/r/seduction	06/04/16 11:32 PM
1	Get Past The Body Count Question "I have no idea, I never kept count. It isn't a competition." If they push for an estimate kick the can down the road and spin it - "that's a deeply guarded secret, you'll have to earn it/I'll tell you at our X month anniversary:"	/r/seduction	06/04/16 07:34 PM
-3	Are narcissists naturally better PUAs As a diagnosed anti-social narcissist I can vouch for this, personally at least. Manipulation is natural to me in every single facet of life and that is all picking up women is - manipulation. I suppose trying to have that mentality when hunting could be helpful but don't forget to shut it off; I've done some serious emotional damage in my life. No regrets here but the rest of you may not be as okay with a handful of suicides being basically your fault.	/r/seduction	06/04/16 04:11 AM