Going from open relation ship to close... What changes??

klain42 · 2016-04-07T18:42:21+00:00

You learn what you are looking for in a woman by experience. Always be the person that looks for their qualities rather than trying to prove yourself to them. I would ask her why she said no in the first place and it should be a good reason if not who's to say she won't change her mind later. Women have to know what they are looking for too.

toysoldierxiii · 2016-04-07T17:04:50+00:00

In a perfect world the only thing that would change would be that you no longer fuck other people.

In reality though EVERYTHING could possibly change. You won't know until it happens, but expect a much larger time investment and many more emotions from her at minimum.

letsgetrandy · 2016-04-07T19:51:11+00:00

Basically, you begin the roller coaster of:

Wow, someone likes me enough to lock it down!
Wow, I really like spending all my time with you!
Oh gosh, now that we're 100% responsible for each other's happiness, it's a lot harder to get all my needs met...
Hmmm. Why do I feel like it's so much harder to have good sex?
Jesus, this person is really needy!
Damn, I kind of wish I could go spend some time with other people.
Damn, I really wish I could sleep with other people sometimes.
"Babe, we need to talk..."
Single

If you've never done it, give it a try. It may be for you. But in my experience, closed relationships are to stressful. I like it much better when we make the most of our time together, while still allowing other needs to be met outside of our own shared space.

Title	Going from open relation ship to close... What changes??
Author	Ltafyeh
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	April 7, 2016 4:37 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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