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Haha, this is fantastic.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/15 04:36 PM
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Lovely. You got me to thinking about other realms where women swear like sailors, adeptly employ crude humor, and take on a sort of swaggering ruthlessness: teacher break rooms, toddler play groups, etc. I recently had the gift of witnessing two women who are quite deeply and successfully grounded in their femininity display the most utterly stereotypically masculine behavior while discussing... gardening. Thank you for posting. Best wishes.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/15 03:15 PM
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Your masculine energy in service of your feminine mission. You're executing the recipe perfectly; don't change it. Nurses have a long tradition of exhibiting an exaggeratedly masculine persona in some respects. It's nearly required of them, their feminine mission is so weighty. Enjoy. It serves you.
/r/RedPillWomen24/09/15 07:27 AM
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I don't see how this could be construed as a shit test. To me, she is overtly qualifying herself. Read: "I'm not easy. I'm of high value." But of course, it's off putting. It's been touched on here before, but the coolest girls will rarely overtly self qualify, because it reads as manipulative. So maybe aim higher if it bothers you.
/r/seduction12/09/15 02:13 AM
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Everything about this is terrible. 1) Introductory poetry class at your local community college: take it. This may improve your writing. 2) Time with people more mature than you: spend it. This may improve your self.
/r/seduction31/08/15 12:24 PM
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You know what? I think you're right. Fact is I am in such a safe neighborhood that I am happy to get into conversations with strangers all the time now, but there was no way I was going to say "I'm not married" on the street because it just would have felt like too much of an expression of interest for me. A different woman might have done so.
/r/seduction29/07/15 12:46 AM
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Miniskirt and tank top today. I guess it could be my age and demeanor.
/r/seduction29/07/15 12:43 AM
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If you decide to stay until Sunday, hang out by the surfing museum on West Cliff Drive, ~7-11 pm on Sunday night. (Every Sunday night.) Plenty of people your age. Some doing fire dancing. Some playing drums. Lots chilling out and passing around joints. Everyone is really friendly. Santa Cruz culture at its finest.
/r/seduction28/07/15 09:40 PM
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Veiling? Is this the same as wearing a headscarf? Do you wear it for religious reasons? Fashion? Modesty? Please ignore if it's too personal.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/14 10:59 PM
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You should devote time to a thing in proportion to the desire for it that burns in your soul. Anything else, and you are incongruent and ultimately compromised in all things. That is all.
/r/seduction28/07/14 01:28 AM
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There's some merit to making plans ahead of time to mitigate this circumstance. When she knows what day and time she'll be seeing you next, and what you'll be doing together, she'll be more likely to be excited about seeing you, instead of wanting to see you immediately to assuage her insecurity rather than for mutual enjoyment. I've heard time and time again that most of the pleasure people take in vacations happens in the time planning, anticipating, and looking forward to their vacation. Not …
/r/seduction28/07/14 01:22 AM
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OP, this is is excellent advice. I am almost exactly your shape, but a bit smaller in all dimensions -- and I do have a couple dresses in this shape that look quite good. However my favorite pieces of clothing (half my wardrobe) are jewel-necked dresses that are very fitted at the natural waist and do actually skim the hips, rather than flare out at the hips. Ironically, skimming the hips and thighs (think halfway between pencil skirt and A-line skirt) is traditionally the best way to dress a dr…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 06:17 AM
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Well to keep HER interested the very best advice is: Tease her! Be playful with her as often as you can. I think you'll find this list of Roissy's old articles on LTRs very helpful: http://www.rooshv.com/top-15-game-tips-for-long-term-relationships (I think all of it is dead on except the "touch initiation" article, where he talks about how the ratio of female touch to male touch should be as high as possible. This just isn't true for shy girls -- not for me, not for my friends.)
/r/seduction10/03/12 04:58 PM
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Thanks for this. Freeze-outs can be such a scary mindfuck, and they screw up the sweet, eager-to-please girls that we all wish the world had more of the most.
/r/seduction06/03/12 02:48 PM
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"Balance theory" would say that, yes, it's unstable for friends A and B to have opposite feelings about person C. Eventually one of the following would happen: your friendship with her breaks down or her relationship with her boyfriend breaks down... or you end up befriending the boyfriend. I had a close male friend who hated my boyfriend at the time, and, looking back on it, with he hated the bf with good reason. We basically never spent any time together where the three of us were present, and…
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:49 PM
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I hear you. Interesting that you mention being introverted; I am too. It can be so tough to get things started in introvert-introvert pairings. Keirsey would say that's why introverts pair best with extraverts; but I've come to believe that's not true for the long haul, and lots of relevant psychology research on LTRs seems to back that up. So plough ahead with the shy girls, for all our sakes... And I will just say that I'm as shy as can be, but have come to a point where the arm touch feels to…
/r/seduction05/03/12 05:18 PM
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As for social circle, take into consideration that, even if you aren't trying to take a guy's girl, and even if he know this, he might still get pissy -- just because you're a higher status guy interacting with his girl. Why? Just because it plain makes him look bad in comparison. I've noticed some very savvy types who are attempting to ingratiate themselves with a given man for whatever reason actually essentially wing for the guy to the guy's girl, all without the guy really knowing/ participa…
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:37 AM
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An interesting question I've gotten into along these lines with a PUA friend is: What is the most impeccably ethical way to handle this scenario? Should one take her statement at face value and leave her alone? Or would doing so privilege her conscious, rational self? What if there's another part of her -- a part of herself that she simply isn't able to give voice to -- that is that kind of girl? Is it then the most ethically defensible position to continue to offer her opportunities to also exp…
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:26 AM
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Thanks for this. I wish more guys would realize that it's just as important to stay alert to whether you have the girls genuine interest/ investment as it is to maintain a powerful position. I love it when a guy I'm interested in who has solid game can also read me, and know when to ease up and reward me with warmth, etc.
/r/seduction05/03/12 09:02 AM
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Arm touches are great during the day. I like to touch friends' upper arms as soon as I see them, and I see that it immediately helps them open up and puts a smile on their faces. This is super easy, and I recommend starting with this. If you're on a date, I really like what Tokyo Pickup has to say: "Just put your damn hand on her lower back, 20-40 minutes after meeting her." This is so much less risky than the leg touch, imo, and she'll like it more too. It's especially easy to do this as you're…
/r/seduction05/03/12 08:50 AM
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This is brilliant. I used to be something of a prude, and it was my wonderful game-expert male friend who finally convinced me of all of this, and I'm much happier as a result. Or at least I feel like the possibility is there. Before, I was twisting myself in knots, trying to be a perfect, good girl, and turning off the kind of guys who were right for me, and indeed turning myself off to them.
/r/seduction21/02/12 04:39 AM
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Hey man you don't understand. I don't need men to buy me stuff, which is why I suggest free stuff to do. I just feel really weird and like the guy isn't the "man" if we split the check, and I'm feeling like I'm not acting ladylike if I pull out my wallet. For me it's like if someone asked me to show up on a date in men's clothing. I realize there's nothing inherently wrong with it, but I just end up feeling so weird about it. I also had a really traditional upbringing. Cut me some slack, I'm a g…
/r/seduction19/02/12 09:07 PM
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Chances are this isn't the case here, but some women really do feel this way. I am one of them and I hate this about myself, because I'm sure I'm missing out on great guys because of it. I try to avoid agreeing to dates that cost anything, because if the guy lets me pay, I immediately think of him as just a friend and lose all attraction for him.
/r/seduction18/02/12 11:00 PM
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Let's not confuse "happy" with "smiling." You know who smiles most? Babies. Little children. Women. This is fact. Smiling, like laughing, may well be a mostly "pro-social" gesture. That is, we may be smiling for others. Thus, smiling a lot can be risky for a man: he may be seen as too much of a low-status people pleaser. But I like smiling men. They make me feel happy. About to ask out a man who always gives me a beaming smile whenever I see him, in fact!
/r/seduction17/02/12 03:12 PM
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