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traktor28/r/askTRP11/01/19 01:21 AM
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traktor28/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:33 PM
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traktor28/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:39 PM
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traktor28/r/askTRP07/05/18 10:15 PM
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traktor28/r/askTRP03/04/18 09:37 PM
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traktor28/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:01 PM
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Watts is the ultimate
/r/askTRP17/06/19 09:45 PM
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insult
/r/askTRP02/04/19 10:02 PM
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Solid advice. This tactic should always be used in situations like this. Derp
/r/askTRP29/03/19 05:46 PM
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More context. What type of boundary did you try to set?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:45 PM
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impressive trollage
/r/askTRP22/03/19 08:00 PM
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Sometimes first date bang is too much for their hamster. Sometimes its actually better to let things build up as well. You seem good bro. Just have fun set up date 2 and repeat.
/r/askTRP22/03/19 07:57 PM
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Suffering in life is guaranteed. To offset this, a man must burden himself with the heaviest load he can possibly handle so you don’t become bitter. Not only will this help you get over your oneitis. This will give your life the meaning when you are grasping for it. Get busy.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 11:12 PM
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Check mate
/r/askTRP19/03/19 10:05 PM
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Well you gotta be honest with yourself. Its a weak move to befriend a girl under false pretenses if you actually do have feels for her and want to fuck. Hard to say if you are in the friendzone, but with the stuff you've told her it sounds like you are. What do you actually want?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:59 PM
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Sign language before he can speak. My friend did this with his son. It was a great way for the kid to communicate what he needed. Kid is smart as fuck now too and he’s only 2.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:38 AM
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Ya better lose ya self in the moment
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:57 PM
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What’s the question?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 05:40 PM
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In a sense. I play hockey. Game 7 finals cmon breh this isn’t even a question. You playing
/r/askTRP15/03/19 06:08 PM
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Hockey more important imo. Loss of frame if you skip out on your team for your gf
/r/askTRP15/03/19 05:54 PM
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I would definitely sign up for some sort of adult school classes. Maybe take up learning a language. Try to fill your time right now with busy work, the ex will be on your mind no doubt, but try to minimize the hamstering by being busy. My ex reached out last week and your situation is all to similar to mine. It is very hard but you know you gotta go no contact. I was tempted by my emotions to entertain bringing her back into my life, but even the small interaction I have had with her over the p…
/r/askTRP05/03/19 11:15 PM
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Everything is vibration.
/r/askTRP05/03/19 09:40 PM
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Could activate her ASD and backfire. Maybe coffee or whatever near your place. If things go well invite her over after.
/r/askTRP04/03/19 07:24 PM
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You're in the wrong place asking this question. Try google
/r/askTRP28/02/19 11:10 PM
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You should care about the important stuff. This frame is more related to sexual strategy, the IDGAF attitude doesn’t mean don’t give any fucks about anything. You still should give fucks about important shit.
/r/askTRP26/02/19 12:12 AM
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I did the same last year after I learned so much about women's nature. Anyways, Time to start over is right. The thing that stuck with me is "don't get lulled into a false sense of security, even if you think all is good." A woman's love can be so temporary that it all can come crashing down overnight. This place is a tool set that just gives you a better odds at your turn lasting longer with them, but it's still a serious gamble if you go into LTR territory. ​ Just get back to it man, happens t…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 08:49 PM
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I got tricked last weekend. Met a girl for drinks, she was wearing all black. Had a pretty face, but after her back to my place and was shocked when I got her clothes off. It was absolutely disgusting, and couldn't believe she hid all that blubber under that jacket. I still fucked her, but it was terrible. Most the time fat chicks at least know how to suck dick, this chick was the worst lay I have ever had. Did not finish and had to make an excuse to get her to leave. ​ I would advise against la…
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:16 PM
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Yep 2015 I was partying hard doing tons of blow and drinking. Major stress from a divorce. If you look at pictures from me before and after it looks like I aged 10 years in 2 years of not taking care of my body and mind. Get yo head straight nigga
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:15 AM
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da fuq. upvote for the laugh
/r/askTRP17/01/19 09:20 PM
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Don't shit where you eat! ​ Can you switch seating, teams, or floors? What firm?
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:29 PM
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Never dig through the trash. What you find is never as good as you thought it would be, plus all your neighbors see you doing it.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:05 PM
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I don't what you expect to hear from us. Quit taking middle aged women anxiety pills because uhhh they're for women. Man up quit smoking trees and get your head right. If you are severely depressed. Read/Listen to "How to stop feeling so damned depressed" by Dr. Horwitz ​ Change your mindset. Your depression isn't you.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 09:34 PM
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Oakland, SF, Emeryville?
/r/askTRP16/01/19 08:34 PM
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Oakland, CA
/r/askTRP11/01/19 05:24 PM
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Well find something that you can excel in. Maybe something you have played before. I played hockey since I was a kid so I’m biased.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:20 AM
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Where do you live? Hockey is where it’s at if you’ve got a rink near you.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 07:14 AM
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Well at least I’m not alone. Basically same story with the women and how I’m feeling, but different sport. I’ll look up kickball in my area. That sounds fun. I used to run that shit in elementary school
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:52 AM
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Yeah I agree with ya. It fucks up my ability to handle my relationships properly not having a social circle of my own. I would basically be joining her life in that case rather than her joining mine. This could also end up bad if I build some social circle through a girl then shit goes sour and I’m even more rekt from having to break things off with her and the group. Might be worth it though.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:46 AM
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Yeah. I realized I won’t ever be happy until I find other ways of filling that void. I live alone and was even thinking of getting a random roommate because of this, but fuck idk about losing my privacy and solid deal on my 1 bedroom apartment.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:35 AM
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Yeah hoping to find a couple single buddies to do this with. I guess I’ll have to join more sports teams. My shoulder is fucked from jiu jitsu when I was younger or else I would join a BJJ gym again.
/r/askTRP11/01/19 06:28 AM
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Nah I believe it bro. The mind can do wonders. Just sounds funny af
/r/askTRP21/12/18 08:52 PM
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I have these same thoughts with too much idle time. Trying to work through it. Shows we aren’t there yet mentally. Gotta get our heads straight because this will lead right back to codependency issues in future relationships. Not good. Looking forward to more advice given here. Definitely read no more me nice guy. I’m halfway thru it and this is covered in it
/r/askTRP21/12/18 09:21 AM
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Yeah if only I knew what I know now.....
/r/TheRedPill20/12/18 06:41 AM
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I can empathize brother. I kept going back to my ex wife who cheated on me, knowing she was fucking other dudes, but still rationalized it because I was getting my fix. Literally was addicted to her psycho ass like heroin. Crazy that not only did she allow it, I did too. Lost all my dignity, confidence, and sunk myself into a pit of depression for years because of it. Was it her fault, nah. My dumbass allowed it. In hindsight, I did not value myself. I "loved" her more than I loved myself. Which…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/18 09:33 PM
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Lol’d at the Chakra alignment part
/r/askTRP19/12/18 07:26 AM
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Just don't befriend them under false pretenses. That's a weak move.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 10:36 PM
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Thanks my friend. I appreciate the reply. I will see a doc and try getting back on some meds.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 10:14 PM
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I'm curious what the medication is these days? As a child I was diagnosed in the early days of discovering ADD/ADHD and back in the 90s they were pumping me full of ritalin and adderall in elementary school. I quit taking these meds on my own volition because I felt I didn't need it going into middle school. I continued to struggle with school in my teenage years and never went to college. I still pulled my shit together in my adult years, learned solid trade skills and have a great job and have…
/r/askTRP14/12/18 09:39 PM
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It isn't about learning how to fight. It is about learning self defense and being confident in oneself. Take up rowing if you are driven towards it. Great for your back and arms.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 06:58 PM
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Yes. We all need that warrior spirit, it’s what separates the men from the boys. Once you learn to protect yourself and know you can hold your own walking into any room. The confidence comes naturally with it. That helps in every area of your life. Good luck!
/r/askTRP30/11/18 12:12 AM
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BJJ
/r/askTRP29/11/18 10:42 PM
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Don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:20 PM
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Good shit man. With my situation she will never get the chance to even see me since we’re a town away from each other. I guess it’s a good thing, but my ego is trying to trick me into initiating contact. I won’t ever do that, but the thoughts are there. So fucked
/r/askTRP27/11/18 06:53 AM
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Yeah I guess it is just me wanting to prove her wrong for bouncing on me. Approval seeking behavior. I feel like I’m doing everything possible to kill this hope or oneitis, but it’s lingering longer than I want.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 05:36 AM
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This is painfully relatable. Fak
/r/askTRP21/11/18 04:17 AM
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Yeah I lack in my social circles these days getting into my 30s and moving to a new city. Probably would help to force myself to leave the apartment too! Thanks man
/r/askTRP21/11/18 12:04 AM
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Well said! Great way to look at it. My ego is massive, now time for me to match it physically
/r/askTRP17/11/18 02:03 AM
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Yes be a good bro
/r/askTRP17/11/18 01:59 AM
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GOLD
/r/askTRP16/11/18 08:26 PM
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No way. It'll fuck you up being around her know the shit she said behind your back. Shit is so toxic, you did the right thing man. Stay strong
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:23 PM
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Damn that must have been so rough to read. Something in the universe (your insecurity) made you read it, and you found just what you needed. ​ Good job on how you handled the ladder part. Fuck this cunt, you don't need that type of shit in your life. Blocking and ghosting was the right move for your dignity. Continuing contact with this girl would have been extremely unhealthy for your sense of confidence/self worth.
/r/askTRP14/11/18 11:19 PM
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Shoot your shot bro. See what she says. You'll know if she's interested with her reply. If she says she cant, and doesn't reschedule a hangout for another time. She's not interested. “I got 2 tickets to show Friday at 9pm, would you like to join me?” This sounds fine. Don't overthink this shit. ​
/r/askTRP14/11/18 08:54 PM
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Basically, my GF of about 1 year has been acting noticeably less interested in me for about a month. This sucks, but it's good you are paying attention now. About a month ago I had to apologize to her because I'd been acting so moody and distant with her myself, to which I explained I'd been feeling quite low, and quite unhappy with my job etc. This is a loss of frame. This could very well be the catalyst for her attraction dwindling. Then about a week later, she was being really off with me her…
/r/askTRP12/11/18 10:04 PM
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Well said!
/r/askTRP12/11/18 09:01 PM
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Meditation is helping me. Thoughts and feelings come and go. Let them pass.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 08:47 PM
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Word. Legit stuff. Definitely need to internalize everything he said so I don't make the same mistakes again. It's somewhat funny after looking back how wack I handled shit. Gotta work on being able to control my actions/decisions when emotions are running high. ​ It's so easy to see the right choice after you make the wrong one. Fak lol
/r/askTRP09/11/18 10:12 PM
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Yo man your breakdowns are great. It's awesome to see people giving their time and effort into helping others improve themselves. This guy Charlie_Wright8312broke down my post from yesterday and it was great. I can't express how much I appreciate the analyzing and time put into helping some stranger. ​ Would love to see your thoughts on my situation. I fucked up with my last breakup pretty bad and it's a tough pill to swallow. No pun intended. ​
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:19 PM
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Hey man, Thanks for taking the time to write all this out. I really appreciate it! Makes everything so much more clear. I had the right idea at first, but def let my emotions get the best of me. I’ll just have to chalk all these mistakes up as lessons learned and let the anger go. Most of that just stems from a bruised ego.
/r/askTRP08/11/18 03:09 AM
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Lmao on the tank of nitrous part
/r/askTRP27/06/18 07:30 PM
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I can relate bro. Plus I live in Oakland. Go figure
/r/TheRedPill26/06/18 11:58 PM
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Im 32. Divorced, been having a lot of fun the past couple years just casually dating. I want more than just hookups now though and I am looking to open myself up again. Just trying to pay attention this time around and not walk into something with the love blinders on. Thanks for your insight. Definitely gonna just go with the flow for now and not shoot myself in the foot unnecessarily.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:20 PM
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Yeah I agree with you man. Thanks for elaborating on it. It helps me analyze my situation better. I guess i'll just have to wait it out and see how things go. I do feel way less motivated to talk to new girls although I probably should be during this time. Since I have a solid one I feel lazy trying to pull new ones and have trouble fitting multiple dates into my weekly schedule. It's hard af for me juggling multiple girls.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:53 PM
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Yeah I haven’t brought it up so that’s the problem. I feel like if I bring it up I’m gonna fuck shit up at this point. Since I didn’t establish it in the first place, it feels counterproductive now. I never felt the need to bring it up and she’s never asked is why. I would be willing to drop both those hb7s tho. I just don’t know if it’s the right choice.
/r/askTRP19/06/18 11:27 PM
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I just say “challenge accepted” she’s bluffing anyways
/r/askTRP19/06/18 04:09 AM
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I was briefly married. Don't regret it at all as it was the catalyst for me becoming the man I needed to be to really enjoy life. It broke me and the bank big time, but in hindsight I needed the wake up call. I was in some fantasy land with the blinders on. Would I get married again? No, absolutely not. I'm lucky I got a slap on the wrist the first time around and didn't have kids or buy a house. All I got was a fat blow to my ego and reality check. I handled it like a bitch at the time that's t…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 09:28 PM
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Discipline and natural endorphins do wonders for the mind
/r/askTRP14/06/18 05:07 AM
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MMA
/r/askTRP11/06/18 08:40 PM
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patches and discipline
/r/askTRP31/05/18 10:16 PM
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Good job dude stick with it
/r/askTRP25/05/18 03:14 AM
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You must do this. It's the hardest thing to do, but necessary. Focus energy on finding a new date.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:12 PM
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[Read this field report from the main sub] https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8j7dmq/field_report_guide_to_slaying_feminists/
/r/askTRP15/05/18 08:46 PM
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ahh bummer. itll happen soon bro dont chase her
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:11 PM
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Nice man glad it worked out for you
/r/askTRP13/05/18 05:24 AM
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Update us with the results haha
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:04 PM
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Yeah that’s perfect if your dad complies
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:03 PM
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Idk man. Use your brain there's gotta be another place nearby.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 10:01 PM
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oh thats the spot you took her or you work with her?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:58 PM
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I dont get how your are using the shit where you eat reference. Because you have been there before?
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:57 PM
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Are you in a city or rural area? Anywhere walking distance that is somewhat secluded? I would tell your folks "hey, we're going for a walk." Then take her somewhere bring a blanket and some cheap wine and have fun. Use your imagination. I used to bang my gf in highschool in the most random places.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:38 PM
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Nearby park? Drive somewhere and bang in your car? At your age I made that shit happen anywhere I could!
/r/askTRP11/05/18 09:32 PM
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i knew it from the beginning. This guy is hopeless
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:18 PM
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Okay man you’re making me feel bad now. Your post was incredibly hard to read. The autism thing is just an ongoing joke on here. Lighten up you shouldn’t let some stranger on the internet break your frame. You know how to proceed. Get her number and ask her out. This screams of oneitis. Read the side bar.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:19 AM
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Uhh. Good luck? It hurt my brain to read this. Did you actually get her number or not? If so set up a 1 on 1 date and escalate.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:04 AM
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Another one on the spectrum
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:02 AM
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Really??? When i was looking in east bay last year for a one bedroom apartment $1850 was a good deal for a spot lakeside. I did not want to live in the rough parts of Oakland which were grimey af for around $1200-1400 and SF was even worse. My lease is up in July so i think ill look for a better deal. I dont want roommates tho. I really just want a small place with a garage but i doubt ill find it.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:46 PM
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Lao Tzu for sure!! I second this
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:49 PM
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Yup. Great lessons to be learned here.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:56 PM
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Yeah man hang with your homies. Keep busy. I had a severe case of this same shit with a chick I only knew for a few weeks. Banged a few times, good in bed, our interests and hobbies were similar, and because a few things lined up didnt mean shit, she just wasn't feeling it. My ego did not want to accept that. So she was on my mind for quite a while, but in retrospect now that i'm over it entirely. I wasnt that into her at first, she wasn't some top notch beautiful chick, it was just my ego not w…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:50 PM
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How old are you? Its a studio apartment or just a room? Bring some alcohol if you guys both drink. Usually helps keep the vibe light. Cook dinner together?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:37 PM
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Your ego freaking out after a rejection is normal. This seems to be pretty common because of the attachment built, hence where the "oneitis" develops. You already know this based on your post, but your ego will still try to trick you into that thinking. "Why wasn't I good enough?" or something along those lines. Don't listen to that shit. Give it time and she will leave your mind.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 08:13 PM
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Thanks man I’ll look into this for sure!
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:47 PM
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Tell a homie of yours prior to the date. “If I text you “keyword” then call me so I can bail on the date” make up some fake emergency.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 04:36 AM
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Hey thanks for the in depth reply. This is a really good idea. Most places I’ve come across or choose to eat at normally have yelp reviews and pictures, but it’s worth looking into. I like your train of thought tho. This could be for any business honestly. Just run around proposing website design for them. I have no experience in building them, but I know that these sites make it simple. Squarespace, wordpress etc... I’d also have to learn decent photography skills too
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:50 AM
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Haha I grew weed last year and on and off thru my 20s. Cropped out after 3 months made 18k and traveled Europe for 4 months. Out here in Cali that market is flooded and going to shit now unless you are already established and doing the extract type thing. I can’t do that shit living in an apartment either. It was time to grow up anyways
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:07 AM
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Thanks homez
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:05 AM
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It’s proprietary coding for audio video control systems. For example: touch panel interfaces, projector screen control, automated lighting and shades, video switching. Crestron is the type of systems. It’s based off of c#, but it only useful in the field I already work in. I would be interested in app design but I don’t have any knowledge of those languages. I’m thinking now that switching things up might be more lucrative in the long run. Thanks for the advice
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:29 AM
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Yeah definitely! I still always help my mom and sister out with all car related stuff. Sometimes friends if I have the time and it’s nothing too big, but most of my friends don’t really have any services that would be a good trade off. I’m definitely open to it but living in an apartment makes things tough for that type of thing. One of the main reasons I want more money is to have a garage and workspace again.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:02 AM
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I will consider this. Just have to find the right niche. Maybe something to do with drifting. I do have some friends in Japan that I could maybe set up some sort of specialty parts store and have them shipped here. Middle man stuff over here to the states. There is just already so many people that do it.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 12:01 AM
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Yeah I feel it. It’s like things have never changed from working a movie theatre job when I was 15. Working paycheck to paycheck. I keep getting better jobs, but cost of living keeps going up. Mo money mo problems
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:58 PM
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Yeah I quit drinking, smoking, blow, and just went hermit mode for like 6 months. It was terrible, but I feel great now. Be glad you have kicked the habit at your age. It will get better. Drinking and blow go hand n hand. It is hard, but don't relapse dude! Not worth it.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:57 PM
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Oh man this was me last year. Its difficult. I was super addicted to blow, and it made socializing so easy. I could talk about anything. Try not to be too self conscious. One thing that helped me is realizing everyone is just out there pretending. If you can get past that shit with the girl early on then things tend to go smoothly. The drinks>beach>back to your place sounds good.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:41 PM
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Keep us updated!
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:03 PM
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Thanks for the reply. Notes taken. I'm in between wanting just a hookup and an LTR and i'm confusing myself on how to act.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:53 PM
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Hmmm yeah. Thanks for that perspective. I just assumed attraction and it worked before, but I can see how it would get old and sounds needy. I know I’ve been on the other end of it. After fucking a girl a few times then losing interest in them. Then they act needy and text me shit like that, it’s a complete turn off.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:17 AM
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I agree. With these ones I feel like I acted too disinterested. One of them would make comments like. “You never ask how I’m doing” and shit like that.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:11 AM
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True you are right. I didn't mean to say normally it happens "this way" The majority of the time it happens before because of not building enough attraction. I was basically referring to my situation and the chick was wishy washy. At first tried to pull the LJBF card but then proceeded to take her clothes off and fuck me. Then pulled it again later and it confused the fuck out of me. But yeah we don't keep in touch anymore.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 10:00 PM
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I don't think you truly got friendzoned here since you pushed past with the kiss immediately after. Sounds more like LMR. Normally the LJBF talk happens after you have fucked and she loses interest or finds something new. I had a similar encounter. The girl told me after drinks LJBF, but then we proceeded to go back to her place and hookup. Then the next time I hit her up to hang she pulled the "as just friends" card again. She made it clear she wasn't interested in meeting up again so I nexted …
/r/TheRedPill04/05/18 08:33 PM
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Shoot your shot bro by what you say she sounds interested. If she pulls the LJBF friends card just say "cool" and soft next her. Move on to gaming others because she is not interested.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 05:19 PM
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What works for me best is my homie that is probably equal SMV with me. We feed off each other and been killin it. I've brought out my lower value nerdy homie a bunch of times and it's always terrible. Ive just been trying to wingman for him. Then ive gone out with some friends that are above me and they have more success than me in a group setting.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:37 PM
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Look up Edinburgh. Probably the best spot in my whole solo backpacking trip thru Europe. I hit ten countries in 2 months. Amazing and the hostels are badass. I met so many chicks from all over the world. Do ittttt
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:13 AM
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Maybe your husband wants a threeway with you and his homie? Undercover bisexual? Idk that shit sounds awkward af.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:57 PM
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This is the way. This is how you become a sorcerer.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:23 AM
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Edinburgh, Scotland or Prague, Czech Republic I went there for my solo trip and killed game. Stay in hostels and do all the pub crawls. Shit was wild! Chillin in ruin bars older than our country.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 03:21 PM
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How well do you know her? Have you met in person before? I don't think it's necessary to say anything although i know you want to know if she's interested. Someone else will have to chime in on if a reply is necessary. Not saying anything could come across as butthurt, but also saying "okay" could sound butthurt too. Texting is lame. Remember its just one girl. Sucks she didn't reschedule but for now I would just leave it at that.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 07:07 PM
1

Yeah i would say 2 times max. Give her the benefit of the doubt for the first invite. Try again next time you are going out and want to invite her. If she has another excuse and no attempt to reschedule. Next.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 06:53 PM
2

Do not mate guard. Do not turn into some detective. It is unattractive and will fuck things up over time. I think your good just playing it off like you did and she did the right thing by telling you.
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:54 PM
3

Yeah I agree 100% and thats why im starting to feel guilty. Internally since i am an empathetic compassionate dude I cannot just string some chick along for my pleasure. Thanks for your perspective on it. I keep assuming true RP practitioners are just a bunch asshole fucks that are able to use and manipulate girls without having any feelings. Thanks for proving me wrong
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:22 PM
1

Yeah you're right. Most of the input i see from you here is very sound. I have been feeling this way for a while, but i keep letting her come over to bring me beer and food and shit and then bang her just because its easy. I will really consider your advice, but I already feel internal confliction like i'm just gonna try to avoid it. Fak
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:07 PM
1

This can only last for so long as the kid is gonna grow up. You mentioned not giving mixed signals, but i find that hard to believe. Do what's best for your daughter. I know seeing her more is important, but stringing her mother along doesn't sound healthy for her. That's just my opinion.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:30 PM
1

Escaping with alcohol and drugs will just prolong the inevitable. Feel it in its entirety. This is the only way. Takes time bro. Find the lesson you were supposed to learn from it.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 06:08 PM
2

Wow, Good luck
/r/askTRP28/03/18 06:09 PM
2

Being righteous and better than everyone else in itself is a form of indulgence. Balance that shit man. Staying angry at the world is not gonna help. Maybe you should fully embrace it. Judge everyone, hate on everyone, until your sick of it. Then find the beauty in life. I understand and felt as you do at one point.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 04:30 PM
1

lmfao i wanna see the pic of her and her parents in bed
/r/askTRP27/03/18 07:15 PM
3

"im not a playa i just text alot"
/r/askTRP27/03/18 06:50 PM
1

Very tough at first. Cultivate some homies from work? What city did you move to? I'm dealing with the same shit, im trying to rebuild my tribe. Only been hanging with random girls so far. I need some solid male homies to hang with. I have two good friends that live nearby but they have families so its not the same as when we were young.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 10:46 PM
1

You're human we all make mistakes. Best way to learn. Now you know.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:49 PM
3

It's a process not an event. Give it time. The best cure is to talk to (fuck) other women. So keep up the approaching and online dating. It's your ego fucking with you not her. It'll pass dude. Just don't contact that hoe, then you start from scratch again.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:32 PM
1

If she flakes and does not reschedule. NEXT. Save your dignity and dont message her. Saying "wish you were here" is opposite of what you should do.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 08:26 PM
3

Lmfao that is my entire diet spot on. I get so bored, but I feel good.
/r/askTRP26/03/18 06:38 PM
1

Cultivate a passion. Get back into something you loved prior to females. Pour your energy into it. Do that thing for you and only you! That is what helps me with those emotions. They will still be around, but that is one way to turn your attention away from it.
/r/askTRP23/03/18 04:29 AM
2

Use your gut man. Radio silent is the correct choice. Let her contact you. In the meantime game others!
/r/askTRP23/03/18 03:40 AM
1

Seems pretty solid bro. Just remember not to live in your head while trying to continue your implementation. You'll come across too mechanical. At least that's my issue. I generally always know what the right thing to do is, yet it doesn't come as instinct yet. I'll make mistakes and in hindsight be like "fuck, I know exactly what i should have done." Practice Practice. It seems like you got the idea. Good luck slaying
/r/askTRP16/03/18 08:36 PM
1

What did you say??
/r/askTRP16/03/18 08:18 PM
2

I know for me i tend to set some lofty expectations and goals that aren't necessarily sustainable. I set myself up for failure and relapse. Maybe just start simple to get back on track. It has helped me with diet, smoking cigs, and other addictions. Don't be so hard on yourself and try to get going again.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 06:06 PM
3

Got milk?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 05:50 PM
1

What the actual fuck is the nonsense?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 02:55 PM
5

No, definitely do not confront this guy. It shows insecurity. Mate guarding is the beta move. You are fine, be happy your girl reacted that way. She def wins points in my book. It's the girls job to reject those dudes. I would expect her to do the same if you were right next to her. Then you could just laugh at the guy with her.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 10:23 PM
6

Holy fuck. 3 weeks and your thinking “this is the girl” You are getting way ahead of yourself. You have not absorbed what TRP is. Simply look up the definition of oneitis. You got a severe case of it. No judgement. I’m still recovering from my symptoms. We’re here help.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 05:10 AM
1

You cannot properly microdose without lab equipment. Cutting small corners off your blotter paper can result in major differences in micrograms. If you want to do it proper you need to keep it consistent. I would recommend just dosing up in full and do some deep introspection if thats what you are looking for. While LSD is great. It will not answer your issues. That needs to come from discipline. I would suggest mushrooms to reset your brain. Much easier to pull info out of your experience and a…
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:44 PM
1

Lol head is good with her.....otherwise she’s a dead fish. Not much abundance for me right now so I’m just putting up with her. It’s annoying af.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 12:23 AM
1

Damn i got literally the same type of chick right now. Total boner killer. I'm pretty sure you cant "fix" them, but let me know if you figure it out.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:54 PM
3

Third time? You just gotta game others don’t waste your time responding...... they don’t deserve it.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 12:54 AM
1

"I cannot remember the books I've read any more than the meals I have eaten; even so, they have made me."
/r/askTRP16/02/18 05:12 PM
2

He said he didn’t
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:29 PM
1

I like this. Cant win if you dont play!
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:51 PM
2

Vision quest 2018! Also a great book that will resonate with you for sure is The subtle art of not giving a fck - Mark Manson Suffering is part of the journey. Pain is a feature of the human body not a bug. The human body is amazing. It’s just telling you you need to change some stuff and you’re on the right path already! I wish I figured it out at your age!
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:06 AM
1

I’m 32 and I can relate to this almost exactly dude. You are blessed to realize at your age. LSD is great but very hard to pull stuff from your experience and apply to your life. Mushrooms is way better for that type of introspection you were looking for. I use it as medicine and not recreational. Every few months I will dose up and it’s like Ctrl alt del for your brain. Imagine your brain like cleaned up blank desktop with one folder containing all your old thought patterns and habits. You can …
/r/askTRP15/02/18 02:18 AM
2

Yeah its def a tough pill to swallow. Basically ruins everything i used to think about relationships. It's happened to me before this as well, but I also didn't know why. TRP is the only way I think I would have been able to learn how to prevent it. Otherwise id prob keep trying my nice guy approach. Which seems to work initially for me, then i get attached, things change and they all end up doing the same thing. Fucking wake up call.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:58 PM
1

Man this is so familiar. I did the same thing with the last girl I was dealing with. Total blinders on and finally had all these same realizations after the LJBF talk she gave me last week. Mine was a bit different because we banged the second date, but afterwards I did a bunch of friend zone activities with her a failed to keep the attraction game up. Definitely don't contact her or you will def feel like an AFC. I'm not sure if you're having these hypothetical conversations in your head for wh…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 10:15 PM
2

No Dad to raise me really fucked me up. Mom over compensated for this and its been hard to turn it around. Still trying.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:17 PM
1

Kale shakes and yoga
/r/askTRP08/02/18 05:00 AM
1

Spreading the gospel brother..............thank you!
/r/askTRP06/02/18 11:07 PM
1

Yo most realistic approach I have heard! I will carry this with me. I have been having trouble recently due to the fact I moved to a new city. No friends yet, but im trying. Getting caught up with some females letting them fuck my head up. I need some homies to hang with soon.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 10:54 PM
1

I will. Thanks brother
/r/askTRP06/02/18 09:12 PM
1

thanks for the link
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:56 PM
1

okay i worded it fucked up. I agree though. Its more about not giving fucks about the dumb shit that i shouldn't sweat.
/r/askTRP06/02/18 08:52 PM
1

I hear these type views a lot. I've been trying to layout my thoughts on this for a few months now. I've been thinking about it a lot because I've seen a lot of people talking about how we are insignificant because we are a tiny speck in the universe and I knew somehow I disagreed on many levels. I haven’t formed a complete thought on it yet. But for starters..........Why do we consider size the ultimate reason of how important things are?
/r/askTRP05/02/18 11:32 PM
1

yeah for real. rejection makes my ego crazy and tries to justify this nonsense.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 10:43 PM
1

Yeah I'm on that for sure, this happened because i lost frame somewhere along the line. This bitch might not even hit me up so this could all be nonsense. Just trying to prepare myself should she hit me up. Good rejection to learn from either way
/r/askTRP01/02/18 09:09 PM
1

Yeah. Ill just have to gauge the situation/contact as it comes. If its late night, or whatever. Stupid ass hypothetical conversations in my head.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:57 PM
1

Well after that text last night shes insinuating that she doesnt want to keep hooking up, but still wants to be friends and hang out. Which obviously.......fuck that shit. Shes hot as fuck tho, so I kinda wanna play this right so i can maybe keep banging her in the future. Still haven't replied so i'm gonna just stay radio silent. Reason i made this post is because i wanted to see what a bunch of you guys response would be when she does initiate contact to hang out.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 08:42 PM
1

Interesting point of view, but friend zone hanging out is not a place I want to end up.
/r/askTRP01/02/18 07:14 PM
20

Seems too creeper status in my opinion. Man up and ask her in person. Although I have done what you are saying and it worked, but that was because the chick lived in a different city that I frequented.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:57 AM
2

Thanks this seems pretty spot on, but I’ll have to hang with her more for option 2 and just be straight up. In honesty I still barely know her so maybe it would be best to spend a bit more time getting to know her before I do that. She could pull some major dealbreaker shit. I know what I want, but feel like if I say it......it’s gonna ruin things from the pressure it puts on her.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 06:36 AM
1

I'm in that same boat buddy. I quit drinking on top of it. So the bar scene is definitely out of the picture. I have been using online dating apps as its pretty much the norm now although terribly frustrating and feels like a huge mindless waste of time. Its a weak move to go to meetups or whatever under some false pretense just looking to meet chicks and not truly interested in the activity. I know this doesn't really help, but you aren't alone. Keep doing you, hopefully they'll come join you o…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 11:38 PM
1

Thanks.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 10:24 PM
1

For sure that's kinda what my gut tells me.....we did hook up the second night if you missed that part, but i know that was just a hookup not an emotional investment.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 10:13 PM
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