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Step out of my comfort zone. Stay out of my comfort zone. Know that being outside of my comfort zone will not kill me. Be happy, make someone else happy.
/r/seduction30/12/14 02:44 AM
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I was in an open/poly relationship, the gf agreed to it and I had a few other girls over the course of 5-6 months that i was seeing regularly. (no fucking free time at all) and she only ever slept with one guy and that first guy she slept with she ran off with. Which sucked but now i have more free time. There are other circumstances is all I'm saying.
/r/seduction11/12/14 04:29 PM
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So you have some kind of STD and still want to flirt. So flirt, just stop spreading that shit around please. Edit: my bad. I would wait, or even just talk to a girl that wants to fuck about it. You can still please her in other ways and maybe she can convince your dick to play along.
/r/seduction01/12/14 09:31 PM
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I think i sound like a total dipshit on camera/recording but apparently im suave and my "mannerisms make me seem like I know exactly what im doing"
/r/seduction01/12/14 08:28 PM
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My only issue with this guide is that it doesn't really show how to motivate yourself. Other than that its has very little spelling errors and is generally without incorrect advice.
/r/seduction01/12/14 06:25 PM
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She doesn't belong to you. She can giver her number to whoever the fuck she likes. "no, you missed out. Even your friends thought you were a bitch giving your number out infront of me just after receiving mine and leading me on, please fuck off" LOL You sound like a total dickhead.
/r/seduction01/12/14 05:52 PM
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If this person was new to my life then I would reply with, "I don't know much about you, actually." If they were an old friend that was feeling down and needed some evaluation I would tell them honestly what I liked about them.
/r/seduction01/12/14 05:49 PM
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I'm 27 and just moved back into my parents to save money while I look for a new job. I'm 27 and I do not have my own room. My sister used it for sewing and my mom is an at home medical coder so those two are in an out of there as early as 6am every-fucking-morning. At first my thought was "damn this is going to be embarrassing, i can't tell any women about this they'll think im a total loser!" And then I went out in my old town, ran into a couple of old friends who were still in the same mindset…
/r/seduction01/12/14 05:04 PM
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Be able to enjoy simple conversation and show you're more than just a pretty boy. Be honest and open about what you do and confident that you do these things. If you don't find common ground to build emotional connections with people you will be nothing to them but a pretty, hollow person. People bond over anything, silly or not. Be it running as a hobby, anime shows, forensic sciences.... anything. You have to be passionate about things able to talk about them. If you're having a conversation w…
/r/seduction25/11/14 10:47 PM
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Get married.
/r/seduction25/11/14 10:25 PM
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I mean are you in an open/poly relationship? If you are then say either "I could have a girlfriend." as /u/NeoSamwell suggested. Avoiding the answer with a "Yeah... lots" or "not tonight" or something similar. If you're out to cheat then might as well lie and say no.
/r/seduction25/11/14 10:10 PM
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Things should naturally escalate. Don't just start the movie and get naked and start prodding her for sex. Movie starts, you should either already be cuddling or begin cuddling within the first 10-15 minutes. Initializing cuddling is as easy and telling her to move/sit up and then move yourself behind her so shes laying on you. As soon as she lays on you, put your arms around/on her in a comfortable natural way such as on her arms, leg etc. Lightly rubbing your thumb on whatever body part your h…
/r/seduction25/11/14 09:28 PM
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Like /u/jacks_not_surprised said you need to just wait for any decent situation. It definitely does not need to be movie-esque or an amazingly romantic situation. If she begins talking about something she's passionate about in a positive way you can just say "wait" mid sentence and lean in for a kiss. If she continues talking then act like it was nothing. If she asks why then say you think its cute the way she talks about X. It basically comes down to understanding social congruency. Any moment …
/r/seduction25/11/14 09:21 PM
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Look at it from a reversed perspective. I've fucked around with girls that were normally being begged for attention but that did not mean I wanted a relationship with them. They just weren't interesting or they did not have the right characteristics to be a girlfriend. Chances are you're attractive but you don't have the qualities that they're looking for in a boyfriend.
/r/seduction25/11/14 09:16 PM
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Sup
/r/seduction07/11/14 01:42 AM
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Depends completely on what your goals are and if they change. After each step and goal you complete your goals change. Some start with approach anxiety and once they've got that problem licked they decide that next they want to fuck 20+ in one year, or instead they decide they want a LTR. What are your goals now that you've had 150+ fcloses?
/r/seduction06/11/14 11:31 PM
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Gotchya. I'm not exactly showing myself as having abundance lately but I'm not begging either. I think mostly I'm just jaded by dating lately. Thanks for the advice.
/r/seduction05/11/14 10:31 PM
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It's a part of the equation, and not a very big one, i'd say compared to others. I already realize that I have wasted way to much time on women who have nothing going for them except that they're fun to be around and good in bed. I am successful compared to most in my age range in my area. I don't see myself as less than others because I know that in a year the current situation won't matter and furthermore in 200 years no one will really know we ever existed. That doesn't stop me from being alo…
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:59 PM
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So its not really about a prize at all, its about convincing yourself that just because this girl is the hottest thing you've seen, not to fold and lose your stature. Even if she is not good enough though, some level of effort has to be put in by you to do anything with her.
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:33 PM
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If its the second or so time meeting them and I like them I call them dates, otherwise its just meeting someone new. Once I know I like them then it becomes dating. We're dating. We go on dates.
/r/seduction05/11/14 08:17 PM
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Generally you can say whatever you want as an opener so long as you do it confidently and in the right tone. I can walk up to someone I don't know, have never seen before, point at them directly once eye contact is made and very loudly, accusative and with a smile, say "YOU!" after some delay they become very confused, or smile or reply with "Me?" I continue forward and ask sternly "IF YOU COULD BE ANY DINOSAUR WHICH WOULD YOU CHOOSE?" in an overly-serious and excitedly expecting tone. I act as …
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:24 PM
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A lot of younger women do this. They're anxious and having a friend there makes everything way easier for her. She has a witness, she has protection, she has someone else there to backup her judgments. In my experience these make for shitty dates, or not dates at all. I'm betting you did not refer to your meetup as a date. Her friend is going to be there the entire time. You will not be able to escalate. Chances of falling into the "friendzone" here run very high unless you can get some time alo…
/r/seduction03/11/14 09:17 PM
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Not with her no, I think she was just actually a moron and I've got standards for who I spend my time with. I think this strategy will put me in more of a pompous mindset. I don't have any issues approaching or speaking with anyone anymore. I just wanted to try it to see the effect.
/r/seduction03/11/14 07:36 PM
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Went out last night to try this out.... I'm not sure if i'm a expert at convincing myself of something or I actually met a total moron. I couldn't stop laughing.
/r/seduction03/11/14 06:36 PM
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Get fucked up. Find someone who looks like they're having fun. Have fun with them. Make-out with them.
/r/seduction17/10/14 10:25 PM
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Repeat step 1.
/r/seduction10/10/14 06:52 PM
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step 1. Go talk to a person.
/r/seduction10/10/14 06:29 PM
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Lot's do, or hate.
/r/seduction10/10/14 04:27 AM
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She was my girlfriend and fuck no. If i remember right she had sex at 15 or something. She wasn't perfect or my dream girl. In fact she wasn't really even all that special but I trusted her enough and respected her to give it a go. It wasn't great either. It was just slightly below average sex. Nothing changed after, besides the fact that I was no longer a virgin anyways. Also on the "best me yet" part. You're never the best you. As you get older you may get the idea that at XX age i was in my p…
/r/seduction09/10/14 09:12 PM
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I was a virgin until 21 by choice. I had previous offers that I backed down from because I didn't find the person attractive enough or I didn't respect them enough. I had one girl who was a "attack everyone else for anything she could because she was overly self conscious and wanted to distract everyone from her issues, type" She had previously tried to get into bed with me at a party and I turned her down and she cried and I nicely tried to explain to her that I just wanted someone i cared abou…
/r/seduction09/10/14 08:46 PM
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Honestly it's a lot like teaching anything else. You firstly have to be good and be able to prove that you're good. Second is having enough credible material on hand that people will eat up. Third is spending an obnoxious amount of time with people who are too afraid to follow through with what you're trying to teach them. Fourth Profit.
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:10 PM
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I got called McClassy last time I went out. I overdressed for the bar. So then I started introducing myself as McClassy. It was a lot of fun. I might do it again sometime.
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:05 PM
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The issue you're having is that you are over valuing them because they have something that you want, and you think you have nothing they want. Everyone wants sex, companionship, someone to make them laugh, smile. Everyone wants to feel something! You have to figure out how to present something they want or stop needing what they have to offer so much.
/r/seduction06/10/14 11:03 PM
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You've got some growing up to do in the dating department. She wasn't into you because you were like a toy to her. She manipulated you by being sexually suggestive so that you would sit around and entertain her while she finds a more worthwhile mate.
/r/seduction03/10/14 06:04 PM
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I can't imagine how you could not get laid in this scenario. I mean other than you're basically her bitch.
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:49 PM
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Then I suggest you don't end up in these situations in the future. Just ignore women like this and do what you want to do with your time. You hanging around her while she wants to fuck some other guy is a huge waste of your time and efforts.
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:33 PM
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OOOooo this would be such a fun situation for me. Honestly I would sit there with her as a friend and disqualify her in every way i could and tell her about it. She open's her mouth "you have bad breath", "i can smell your bo from here", "there's a reason you haven't been laid." "ewww seriously? no one wants to [lay you]" If she starts doing that whispering shit, push her away. If she starts clawing at you sexually, spray her in the face with a spray bottle. Push her off and make it harsh. You w…
/r/seduction03/10/14 05:25 PM
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I'm friends with all but 2 ex's. I lived with one for 6 months within a year of us breaking up and watched her fall in love with her boyfriend. When she moved out from me, she moved in with them and all i found was joy for her. Just refuting one of your points.
/r/seduction30/09/14 08:02 PM
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As long as you don't completely smell of rank ass, the dopamine will boost your confidence and you'll release more pheromones. Back in the day I would go on a run or lift a bit at home before a date. Not work out until I can't walk straight or lift anything larger than a cup a coffee but enough to get my heart rate up and sweat a bit. I would change my clothes and put on some light cologne. Every fucking date, as soon as I got close, would comment on how good I smelled. Escalation from there was…
/r/seduction26/09/14 07:36 PM
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I envy you. I wish I was in a situation where I needed to come to a realization that what I've been doing has been a huge waste of time. Now I'd waste no time if I had something to conquer, but there's nothing I can find for me to conquer anymore.
/r/seduction22/09/14 10:58 PM
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If you don't decide on her and you start to pull away or give attention to other women and she freaks out or suddenly tries very hard to get and keep your attention... run, run so very fucking fast and don't look back.
/r/seduction17/09/14 06:11 PM
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It's entirely up to you whether you feel it is worth spending the extra time and effort on conquering this one. Normally I don't say conquering in relation to dating or interpersonal relationships but most guys will see this "helpless" girl who was unfairly treated by previous suitors as a challenge to conquer and overcome. Honestly I did enough of these "relationships" in and just out of highschool to set me up with a huge shield against them. The last damaged goods that tried for my attention …
/r/seduction17/09/14 05:34 PM
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I have better things to do with my time.
/r/seduction11/09/14 09:03 PM
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School, bookstores, coffee shops, hookah shops, mall
/r/seduction21/08/14 07:09 PM
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Yeah she normally only lives about an hour, which is easy to do. She's moving in with me in a month so there will be many sex.
/r/seduction24/07/14 06:35 PM
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...Because my girlfriend is working in a city that's almost 3 hours away from me.
/r/seduction24/07/14 03:57 PM
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"camping bar" What the shit is this?
/r/seduction23/07/14 11:21 PM
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No but I go there frequently. I'm usually playing around in Sacramento which is just a bit far to ride my motorcycle just to go solo for a night, from where I moved to.
/r/seduction11/07/14 09:35 PM
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It's not just about work, I have other reasons for being out here at the moment.
/r/seduction11/07/14 09:34 PM
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Looks like the way to go when I get extra time to host or plan things.
/r/seduction11/07/14 09:33 PM
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Work is all older women. I tapped out everything online dating wise (all 28 matches on okcupid) and jack shit on tinder. Most people here don't even know what tinder is. I grew up in an area like this and was always harassed so.. opening up my mind to these people even a little bit will be very difficult for me. I have a bit of resentment that I really doubt ill ever let go of.
/r/seduction11/07/14 09:33 PM
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Seriously I'm slowing crawling closer and closer
/r/seduction11/07/14 09:31 PM
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Unless I find them particularly interesting. Been spending time with too many people I don't really see much potential in.
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:12 PM
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My life is progressing just fine thank you. I'm finally in school to advance my life. I love my girlfriend (who is also poly). I have very little drama in my life. I simply just can't stop meeting new people.
/r/seduction24/06/14 05:27 AM
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I've seen therapists in the past for an unrelated issue . I do drink a tad too much but not on weekdays. I own the way of the superior man.
/r/seduction24/06/14 04:02 AM
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I don't miss work but its definitely something I've regretted putting at risk. I get quite a bit of exercise and don't really feel I have an issue with attraction. Thanks for the tip about the book I'll check it out.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:44 AM
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I have a few guy friends but we don't really have fun anymore. I pretty much only have female friends. I don't get much of anything from hanging out with guy friends. I hardly ever meet dudes I have anything in common with anymore.
/r/seduction23/06/14 11:30 PM
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I never even thought of it as being needy behavior. I wonder if its a validation thing but even if I fail all night it still cures the itch...so I don't know.
/r/seduction23/06/14 10:46 PM
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I would be careful with this nowadays. Not stepping back when a woman says she has a boyfriend is turning "Creep; Rape vibe" territory for women. Women tell you that they have boyfriends for only 2 reasons and neither of them are good for you. 1.) she actually has a boyfriend. 2.) She does not want to talk to you and telling you that she has a boyfriend is the only thing that won't offend you and make you angry. In both scenarios you should pretty much just drop it.
/r/seduction30/05/14 09:18 PM
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I don't think any solid correlation could be directly drawn about a person from their teeth. Genetics, money, hygiene... Stop trying to find a pattern in people based on single factors it doesn't work. It will probably never work.
/r/seduction18/04/14 11:51 PM
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I don't transition via text, just use text to plan the first meetup, then throw in some sexual cues and kino in person. After that texting is whatever goes.
/r/seduction18/04/14 09:13 PM
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I've used it for years off and on, got a few good relationships out of it and made a few friends. That being said for the amount of effort put it, i don't get enough on there where as i get at least one number every night i go out. OKcupid constantly barraged my self esteem with dating. I quit using it and am much happier for it.
/r/seduction18/04/14 08:56 PM
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Dude you blew it, he doesn't want to risk establishing something with someone who has kids because he tried in the past and it didn't work. He's allowed to filter who his partners are and doesn't have to be pathetic and try to fuck every women who's willing. Imo thats not what he's trying to do with his life.
/r/seduction18/04/14 08:42 PM
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This is one of the most honest and realistic to life field reports I have ever read. Thank you, and congrats on improving your life, people can smell it from across the street and it is sexy!
/r/seduction18/04/14 08:40 PM
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I must not fear. Fear is the mind-killer. Fear is the little-death that brings total obliteration. I will face my fear. I will permit it to pass over me and through me. And when it has gone past I will turn the inner eye to see its path. Where the fear has gone there will be nothing. Only I will remain.
/r/seduction08/04/14 04:48 AM
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I don't want to be the girlfriend with a penis Good cause thats my job bitch!
/r/seduction04/04/14 08:15 PM
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this video consists of a guy asking a woman about her opinions on a bunch of dudes OKcupid profiles. "women say they like nice guys but end up with thugs in leather jackets, right?" -interviewer "Yeah but not meeeeee! I'm different!" -Interviewee Generally women don't give great practical dating advice because dating for women is mostly about the "in-the-now" emotions that they feel about someone. Not about who logically is the best mate because of any particular reasons. Overall video is pretty…
/r/seduction01/04/14 10:51 PM
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I totally understood and agree. Shouldn't get wrapped up in Reddit drama.
/r/seduction26/03/14 02:51 AM
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So the answer to my question "How can the general public's opinion of seduction and pua be corrected?" Is "Just don't"?
/r/seduction25/03/14 11:55 PM
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I'm sorry. Please go ahead and explain why I disgust you. I'm listening.
/r/seduction21/03/14 06:52 PM
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Transgender, not very attractive in the conventional sense, losing my job, may have to move in with parents soon because.... fuckin being poor sucks. My motorcycle is falling apart underneath me. I still love my life and people around me know it. I'm able to enjoy two wonderful girls who are aware i'm never going to be their boyfriend as well as being aware of each other. Still fuck and romance them on the daily and its great. I still go out at least 3 times a month to get MORE numbers because..…
/r/seduction20/03/14 09:00 PM
1

Well also another thing to realize is that giving someone else a 7-10 with this bullshit scale is that you're really just giving yourself a 1-6. I mean that at the same time you're putting someone else on a pedastal you're also in relative comparison putting yourself down.
/r/seduction14/03/14 09:26 PM
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Alright, fuck... I listened to the recording yesterday at work. Went out to field test this. I only used it twice but it had both girls laughing by the 3rd line... I did.. -I hate you -you bitch -let me get yo number! both times in the right funny attitude and they would bust up. Keep going with it for a bit like, "omg im sorry" and "come back....uh... bitch?" Worked pretty damn well...
/r/seduction12/03/14 04:22 PM
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Thank you so much, THIS IS THE ONE ARTICLE/VIDEO I NEEDED! Now im certain i can go out and win at 100% of all social interactions! JK thanks for the perspective though.
/r/seduction10/03/14 10:35 PM
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I ride to bars constantly. It attracts tons of different people so it offers a lot of social proof. Don't get wrapped up in talking to all these people about riding etc if there is a girl there you want to talk to who isn't with the ppl asking about the bike etc. Get some eye contact with the girl you want to talk to, if she walks by say hello etc and politely break away from the ppl you're talking to and go open.
/r/seduction10/03/14 09:28 PM
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Tell her it was rude and ask her to explain why she said it. Maybe she didn't know it was rude. If it was meant to be rude, leave.
/r/seduction10/03/14 05:48 AM
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Agreed. I had my aim all wrong.
/r/seduction04/03/14 05:10 AM
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Thanks a lot, this is exactly what I was looking for!
/r/seduction04/03/14 03:53 AM
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Of course you are going to go through a lot of girls that don't fit your screening criteria, but you shouldn't be investing in those anyway. Exactly my thinking. Everything about that game plan is perfect, I definitely linger too much before finding out what I need to know. you are asking if they've been with a girl, or thought about it, whatever. Tell her you like girly girls or whatever your type is, let them know what you like What if we just changed the gender to trans-girl in each of these …
/r/seduction04/03/14 03:28 AM
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how much you pass. I don't but I'm still very cheerful, social etc. I have made trans jokes in the past but sometimes they're almost self-deprecating which i know is way not what I'm suppose to be doing. Something along the lines of challenging a girl who talks about hair in a competitive way to a beard growing contest. It sounds like you are being way too indirect before trying to lead the interaction into sexual territory. That's the thing though, its when I get direct that things start to go …
/r/seduction04/03/14 02:50 AM
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This fluidity of women's sexuality is what I'm depending on.
/r/seduction04/03/14 02:28 AM
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Thanks a bunch, ill check it out when i get home! Hooooly shit this is perfect. I need to mimic her direct but amazingly disarming demeanor. I was imagining what i would say with most of those interactions and i was way off. (i know a lot of these are staged but the interactions looked very organic here) Do you see anything wrong with her style at all from your perspective? Yeah this is pretty much who I want to aim to be like... except I that I'll have a penis for a long time too.
/r/seduction04/03/14 01:49 AM
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Mainly during isolation when I would get in a bit closer and put a hand on thigh, hand etc, it seemed like they would suddenly realize what was happening and politely decline, saying i was lovely nice, but then later on follow me around still playing friendly. Earlier on, I could be play around a bit with pushing her while walking, hand on back to guide stuff and it worked great as usual. Sometimes I do this leave hands on side and shoulder after I give them a hug when we are introduced so I can…
/r/seduction04/03/14 01:41 AM
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There was a really good video with a lesbian PUA who daygames "straight" girls, many of whom claimed not to be interested, but she still slept with. its all having a strong frame. K this is something I need. Do you happen to know any keywords to search for to find this specific video, or can you link for me? I'm at work atm and can't go browsing just yet.
/r/seduction04/03/14 12:54 AM
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I used to practice PUA for a while back before it started showing me i wasn't who i thought i was. Specifically my issue is escalation because people seem to become very confused/jarred from any sort of advancement. Most flirts I give usually just don't have the desired effect because they're not expecting it. I've even had issues where people were receptive to my flirts but when I would make physical contact, even lightly like a hand touch... i could see the reality set in and it gets a bit awk…
/r/seduction04/03/14 12:47 AM
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Thanks... bro... fath...
/r/seduction25/11/13 09:56 PM
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Why would i want to avoid this? haha
/r/seduction25/11/13 09:56 PM
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Yeah, tranny, trap, shemale are all porn terms. Transgender woman, transgender man, queer, whatever else is fine. Edit: You can't be expected to know it all, no one would fault you unless you were specifically trying to be derogatory with your pronouns.
/r/seduction25/11/13 09:47 PM
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Im not unfamiliar with PUA, and the game overall. Just in a very different place than i was when i was decent at it. Im not afraid to learn by failing again. Thank you for the advice, baby maker! Edit: Was a joke ;)
/r/seduction23/11/13 12:36 AM
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