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| – | How will you describe a 10/10 guy?Okay so I guess you’re right that my list is not very specific, and mostly boils down to “I’m tired of being treated like shit and have lost hope that there are actually men out there that don’t make me want to throw myself off of a cliff.” If you want my absolute (definitely unattainable) vain as fuck 12/10 dream man, here goes: I have a thing for Mediterranean men Multilingual. Big muscles but not obnoxious muscles They have enough money to not be concerned about it, but don’t obsess about it,… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 07:05 PM |
| – | How will you describe a 10/10 guy?My personal 10/10 They respect me (and all other women) as an actual individual instead of merely a sexual object or a maid. They appreciate me not only because I’m hot, but because I have plenty of other great traits about me. They care about ME, not my body. They are able to care for themselves, both physically and emotionally. Physically, this would look like good hygiene, exercise, healthy eating, keeping their living spaces clean. Mentally this looks like being in touch with their emotions,… | /r/seduction | 11/06/22 02:46 PM |
| 1 | Where do I settle at ?Don’t listen to the people saying that it’s a bad mindset. YOU get to decide when is the right time to have sex for the first time. Not the Catholic Church, not strangers on Reddit. You should not force yourself to have sex if you don’t feel comfortable with it. Not now, not after you’ve had several partners, not ever. If you want to wait until your wedding day, that is a totally valid option. If you want to have a one night stand to get it over with, that is also an entirely valid option. 19 is… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 11:39 PM |
| 2 | Pride Parade Game PlanYeah, uhhhh… This seems exceedingly disrespectful. Going to pride not to be a straight ally but as a hunting ground to “pick up hot chicks” is really not in the spirit of pride. I mean, I can’t tell you what to do, but I would not recommend this particular course of action. | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 10:39 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]In teens and 20s, girls/women tend to go for older guys because women tend to be somewhat more mature (puberty happens much earlier, and societal pressures force girls to grow up more quickly.) This doesn’t take into account the social clock/ life experience (when you go to school, enter the workforce, etc.) but I always felt like men my age were on average significantly less mature than myself and other women my age. The way to solve this for yourself is to be mature, and you’re going to have t… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 10:25 PM |
| – | How to lower my standards to get more experienceI’m with you girl. I would say I’m attractive, but I genuinely don’t want men dating me JUST because they think I have a nice rack or whatever. It’s fucking demeaning and objectifying. I don’t want to date men with this misogynistic fucking attitude. I also feel like there is a super big double standard out there, where men say they don’t want superficial women, but that man himself is superficial as fuck. An “I only date 10s” but also “I hate chicks that are only in it for my money” or “all the… | /r/seduction | 10/06/22 05:58 PM |
| 3 | The easiest way to prevent neediness is to actually have enough of a full and interesting life that you are not making another person your sole focus.Ru Paul has it right: “If you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you supposed to love somebody else?” With needy people, I often find myself in the situation where I feel like I am giving and giving and giving, but the person I am giving to is so broken that I feel like I never receive. It is an imbalance. I dislike neediness not because I like chasing men, or I don’t like attention. I dislike neediness because it puts a massive toll and burden on me to provide for the guy and take care of… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:46 AM |
| 1 | I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends presentWell then you seem to be all set! | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:02 AM |
| 7 | Mind is blown after making a fake girl profile on Hinge in my area....WTFYou say everyone is a template? There are two options: Change yourself or lie to fit the template (might work for ONSs but not for dating, also generally not a great option) Or highlight the parts of you that stand out. Mention your quirky hobby. Show a picture of your pet tarantula or whatever. The “Oh, he’s a ___, that’s cool!” is instantly going to create a significantly better connection than being blonde with a strong jawline. | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 02:01 AM |
| – | I did it! I asked a random girl out in a bar with her friends presentYou’re definitely right to be concerned about making us uncomfortable. I am always a little scared when approached by male strangers, as so many of them do end up being creeps, pushing boundaries, etc. But the fact that you’re concerned is actually a good thing, because you’re aware that it can be uncomfortable, and will thus be less likely to do the kinds of things that make us feel uncomfortable or in danger. So really you have a good start, and can take a breath to reassure yourself. Otherwis… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 01:53 AM |
| 15 | I approached the hottest girl in the venue last night.I agree OP was pretty respectful, but I just have to say I love this! | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 1 | We all know a guy who seems to drown in poon juice despite having almost nothing going for him, so what's the deal?Physical attractiveness is a bonus but it is not always a necessity. The only time someone is specifically (physically) UNATTRACTIVE is if they clearly don’t take care of themselves. If your hair is greasy, you smell, your shirt is stained in Cheeto dust, and your car is full of McDonald’s trash, you are unattractive. But you can fix that with a haircut, good hygiene, some nicer clothes, a vacuum (and maybe trying to eat better.), and suddenly you aren’t in the unattractive category. From there,… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:57 AM |
| – | [deleted by user]Woman here: ask for consent. First off- if you kiss someone without consent and they aren’t ready or wanting it, that can be extremely jarring and/ or upsetting. MAYBE some women find it weird if you ask for consent, but as a woman, I can say that AFAIK I have never met another woman who genuinely doesn’t like being asked, so it is better to be safe than sorry if you’re not sure. Next- I actually find asking for consent to be particularly attractive. It shows me that the person I’m with respects… | /r/seduction | 09/06/22 12:15 AM |
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