Where do I settle at ?

CompetitionFair7686 · 2022-06-10T10:55:35+00:00

Terrible mindset, most girls at your age don’t wanna loop for the one they are happy experimenting with tons of guys. So don’t promise them any future, just have fun hookup with as many girls as you can, and when you are 30 or 40, that’s when you might begin to consider settling down with one

potatoeswithfries · 2022-06-10T08:46:22+00:00

Is this a good mindset to have

No.

My dude, you're young, you're not supposed to settle yet, and most definitely you shouldn't be looking for "the one" (if something like that exists at all). Have fun with different people, try different things, figure out what you like and what you actually don't...

travelling_cirque · 2022-06-10T23:39:40+00:00

Don’t listen to the people saying that it’s a bad mindset.

YOU get to decide when is the right time to have sex for the first time. Not the Catholic Church, not strangers on Reddit.

You should not force yourself to have sex if you don’t feel comfortable with it. Not now, not after you’ve had several partners, not ever.

If you want to wait until your wedding day, that is a totally valid option. If you want to have a one night stand to get it over with, that is also an entirely valid option.

19 is still young, you have plenty of time to take it slow. Everyone your age thinks that having sex is a status symbol, so you are probably hearing a lot from all the people who are having sex, but not much from the people who aren’t. There’s lots of them. Don’t let yourself be pressured into anything.

Now, choosing to wait on sex might turn away some women. But just like you are allowed to choose your own path, so is everyone else- you just need to find someone whose path might line up with yours.

Good luck

Title	Where do I settle at ?
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Upvotes	1
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Date	June 10, 2022 7:55 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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