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trejil/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:18 AM
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trejil/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:02 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGEtrejil/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 10:14 PM
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LTR/MARRIAGEtrejil/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 07:25 PM
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trejil/r/askTRP23/12/18 09:42 PM
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I am not surprised at the tone of this response because from my experience in general, women are less empathetic than men. I was hoping to gain different insights. Not solutions. Reddit is not the place for things like that. My situation involves lies,,, sex ,,, religion ,,, CHILDREN,,, hidden sexualities,,, money ,,, double lives and blissful wives. It is not as simple as "Just leave." Because I have other people to think about, not just myself. I think that only people who actually have KIDS (…
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/18 06:47 PM
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I appreciate this insightful answer. I am glad that someone has acknowledged that my situatio. Is much more complicated than "Simple. Leave." It involves secrets, lies, crushed hopes and dreams, double life, financial issues, and children. And yes, it has been a LOT for me to take in. But I am seeking professional help again.
/r/RedPillWomen25/12/18 06:32 PM
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Yea, that may be true. However, if I had known his sexual identiy right off the bat, it would be easier to accept it. Now, i feel like he is an stranger since he kept a huge part of himself hidden.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 09:01 PM
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The guy should be the one leading the conversation, and IF he is interested and not socially awkward, he should be able to carry it, make it flow beyond yes or no questions. You dont need to learn about any male hobbies to talk to guys generally. They talk about that with their guy friends usually. If he asks you qhat yiu like to do for fun, be honest, and talk about it with enthusiasm so he knows you have hobbies, passions, and are an interesting person in general. You can always talk about thi…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:57 PM
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Im trying to separate the issues at hand. Because while they may seem connected, they dont seem that way to me. I have even talked with his previous girlfriend about whether he was rough with her too, and she said it was not an issue or a behavior she saw from him. To list his positive qualities, he has a kind, generous heart, always helps people in need, helps out mu family, was the sole provider for 3 years without complaint. I am not by any means an uneducated, helpless woman. I hold a master…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 01:08 PM
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Yes. Everything you wrote indeed true.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 03:06 AM
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I completely agree.
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 02:53 AM
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Yes, I can see the reasoning behind this. However, its pretty complicated. I just gave birth, 3 months ago to our second kid. I work, but if I were to leave him and take the kids with me, they would basically be in daycare 50 hours a week so I can support them. It is actually quite easy to say, "Just leave him. Simple." But its really not. My older daughtet is obsessed with her dad, splitting them up would break my heart. (And obviously, I would take full custody. Especially since I have proof o…
/r/RedPillWomen24/12/18 02:52 AM
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Fair enough. Would you date and marry a bisexual man ?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 11:36 PM
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I am not attracted to bisexual or gay men. Does that make better sense ?
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 11:35 PM
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Thank you for stating that! Exactly, it is killing all attraction for me. I wasnt able to put my finger on it til u said it. And I just cant get it back knowing my husband desires very badly to be sexually dominated by another guy. The other commenters who stated that cheating is subjectively worse than a husband being a closeted bisexual must not have realized that bit.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 11:33 PM
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Thanks for the advice. Actually, i do take screenshots, but he found out and deleted them when I was sleeping. So now I will take further steps in getting the evidence.
/r/askTRP23/12/18 09:54 PM
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I guess ypu wouldnt know unless it had happened to you.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 09:46 PM
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Ive tried several subs - got nothing
/r/askTRP23/12/18 09:46 PM
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May I ask: Are you married ? Have you been cheated on during marriage? If the answer is no to either, I dont rhink you could really give advice on this one. A lot of unmarried women say the EXACT same thing: I would never stay if my husband cheated. And i hate to break those rose colored glasses, as I was once 21 and idealistic myself.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 09:27 PM
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I fell upon your question and feel compelled to answer. I would not recommend the US. The situation here is that while many young people in your age group do live on their own, they typically work min wage jobs, continue to recieve financial support from their parents, live with 2 roomies, and finding any well paid job is still about connections, who you know, etc. And dont even get me started on health insurance and what happens in you get sick or hurt with no insurance. I understand that you m…
/r/askTRP23/12/18 08:44 PM
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Imagining my hisband engaging i. homosexual sex is absomutely the most unexpected, unnatural thing that comes to my mind. Its like a horror movie for me. Him cheating on me with a woman would also be horroble, but it would feel not as "wierd" - and it is also not so uncommon.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 08:27 PM
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Im pretty sure hes bisexual. He calls hinself bisexual in his messages to guys, and he also messaged a few women for sex as well.
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/18 07:58 PM
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Well, good job. Anyways, as to your problem with her weight, just give the Pure Barre thing a try, highly recommend.
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:44 AM
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Buy your wife a bundle package for Pure Barre, if you have a studio in your area. If not, there are probably other boutique fitness classes/studios offering similar programs. I had trouble getting back to my pre baby weight, and felt depressed after my second baby was born to the point that i didnt care what I ate. My husband got me a Pure Barre package and I take a class at 6 am 3 days/week. It has helped me drop the last 20 lbs within 2 months, it is fun, I start my day energized and motivated…
/r/askTRP20/12/18 02:15 AM
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By the way, are you male ? If so, please head to redpill, this question is geared towards females.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 05:12 AM
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Good advice. However, regarding the sexual pqrt, what would you personally do ? I do sometimes wonder if we are sexually incompatible, yet I always had this belief that when couples care about eqch other, they know how to "itch each others scratch" so to speak. I feel like I could tolerate roughness if first he starts off really gentle for a while, i think that would make a good compromise, but he is always gentle for like .5 second before the rough grabbing starts again. He says he just cant he…
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 05:08 AM
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Yes, i agree that if you wait for marriage, the dating and engagement period tends to be quick, which is only fair.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 04:58 AM
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Idk, he probably watches porn but not in front of me. He probably did learn these things from porn, i did explain to him once that porn stars are different from real women but i dont think it sunk in.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 04:47 AM
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Thats okay:) i didn't suspect cheating until way after we got married, but i didnt dwell on it because we hadnt been intimate at that point. When ixwqs in my early 20s i got super jealous all the time but now at almost 30 im more chill. I do not suspect that he cheated on me after the wedding though. Tampons dont make u lose ur virginity but you would be surprised how ignorant a lot of men are on hymens.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 04:25 AM
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I dont bother to notice when other men try to flirt with me, and besides, I always have my 2 kids with me
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 03:41 AM
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No problem. 5'5". 131 pounds.
/r/RedPillWomen17/12/18 01:01 AM
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Sorry but its over with her.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:41 AM
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Appreciate the advice, i like the idea you have about 80/20 when it comes to money.
/r/askTRP17/12/18 12:09 AM
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Can you specify please ? I try to let him be rough, but its too painful sometimes. I dont like being grabbed, pinched, yanked, etc. I enjoy soft touch so much. He doesn't care which way i touch him. He doesn't feel much pain from me when i try to be rough back.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 10:45 PM
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No problem! We dated for a little less than 2 years. To avoid vaginismus, i would recommend simply using tampons during your periods. I dont recommend using plastic models or toys unless you are very gentle in case you dont want to accidently break your hymen. Oh and about that, your future husband will want to be the one to break that and see the blood if you tell him your a virgin. You know, as a sort of receipt. ;) We did a lot of touching "down there" but never made it to all the way. He was…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 10:43 PM
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Can you specify please ?
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 10:32 PM
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Thank you! Yes, now it is more clear i had wondered if maybe, this is just him being "red pill" and he SHOULD be like this, that its my responsibility to carry out all of these duties even if it means i barely sleep 3 hours a night. I talk to my friends and answers are mixed. Many tell me that women should be doing anything they can to support their husbands, that they should never ever be just sitting on the couch, and that "a womans work is never done." I struggle with this kind of discipline.…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:31 PM
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I was a virgin till marriage. I was 24 and he was 27. He waited for me for sex but we kissed and slept in the same bed sometimes. He had at least 20 partners before me. I do have some regrets. I found out on my wedding night i had vaginismus and i had to use a series of creams and plastic models to fix it. I believe i had vaginismus because i was an older virgin and had a lot of hangups about sex, since my mother forbade me from having premarital sex despite the fact that we are not ao religious…
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/18 10:22 PM
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I guarantee she will delete you from her phone if yiu send that.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:03 PM
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Thank you! I really appreciate the insight. This kind of advice was exactly why I posted to this group and not another one that would only see the black/white version and tell me to just "leave." I agree that it is really important to keep looking good for him and not let myself look like a wreck at home. One issue i am having is that finances are indeed tight, and economic stress brings out the worst in people and situations. We have different spending habits. I proposed setting up a bank accou…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:00 PM
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Thanks, going there
/r/askTRP16/12/18 08:12 PM
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Say whatever makes you feel good. I wasnt born in the US so my mindset is also different. It sounds abusive because i wrote down the worst aspects from my POV, which may differ from his POV. I am also not a feminist, i am a traditionalist. My husband wants my paychecks, but we both have full access to the money, its just that he spends on stupid stuff that causes me to need to work more hours. So if you want to call me "full of shit", go ahead, im not gonna give a f***. Just please go to another…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:20 PM
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Well, since we are all strangers, i guess i can say. So he is usually just too busy or tired. And i get that every marriage/relationship requires intimacy to survive, but even if i wear something cute, he migjt notice and say something but then go back to playing xbox.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:05 PM
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Im actually not a troll. Im a married female who has seen the movie "The red pill" and read some posts/principles on the old TRP reddit to see if i could figure out my husband. Im also not a left or right winger, and when i read the TRP principles, i found myself agreeing with q lot of them in that they work. For example, i always respected men who "hold frame" and who have passions and determination beyond women/relationships. So if you dont like my question, just move along.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:01 PM
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Awalt = all women are like that (?). I guess its rough navigating between being a positive red pill type of partner and taking it too far.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:57 PM
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The things is, i am angriest about the things his brother says to me and how my husband takes his side, followed by the smirks i see coming from brother (who has also not spoken to me in a few years or even acknowledged my presence). And i dont know what is normal and what isn't anymore. My husband is angry that i have a hard time keeping the house clean, but its hard doing it myself with the kids plus working plus paperwork at night from my job. Is it alpha to side with your brother against you…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:34 PM
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Its so complicated...
/r/askTRP16/12/18 05:30 PM
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I think most able bodied people are capable, but those lug nuts were very very difficult to remove. I had to use all the force from my leg with the tire iron. I was very tempted to let the strangers help me but i didnt feel comfortable because of how isolated the area was.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 06:09 AM
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