I asked RedPillWomen this, and did not get any real answers, as I was expecting. My husband is a closeted bisexual, refuses to admit it to me, but I have found hundreds of messages to other guys from hookup sites like this: "Bro wanna meet up I live in (our apartment complex name) and I can * you and you can *** to me." The mesaages go back from 2 months ago to 4 years ago. We have 2 small kids. We went to counseling. I tried talking to him many times, but he just denies denies denies. Sooo....... is it a commin thing for most men to be bi curious ? He is very macho. Very red pill, doesnt take shit from anyone or especially me, tall, looks good. I was VERY shocked. Need advice on what to do ... from the Women subgroup I only got "have a talk with him" which is ineffective. He says to me "If you think Im a (homosexual slur) then GTFO." I havent physically caught him in the act. But the thought of him having sex with guys makes me nauseous. Ive been tested, all negative. Im pretty sure he never followed through with the cheating because I never saw an address in his messages.