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trendynamegoeshere/r/MGTOW14/05/18 12:29 AM
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trendynamegoeshere/r/MGTOW13/09/18 11:04 AM
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trendynamegoeshere/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:03 PM
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trendynamegoeshere/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:40 AM
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trendynamegoeshere/r/askMRP21/02/16 04:43 AM
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trendynamegoeshere/r/askMRP17/02/16 01:32 AM
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trendynamegoeshere/r/askMRP08/04/16 05:48 PM
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well she didn't/doesn't know i am aware of the previous relationship
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/19 10:32 PM
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Whisper confession ftfy
/r/MGTOW14/08/18 11:57 PM
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Fair... She made an excuse/situation where we were alone for about 30 minutes and invited me to cross the line should I want to...
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/16 12:09 AM
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You know the old beta joke about a woman having a detailed archive of every mistake her husband has ever made? Its true. So now that she's starting to take you seriously, she's remembering all those fits of anger you displayed, and it scares her because she doesn't know that won't come back. You messed up because you were way too focused on her back then. Not enough AM/OI. Show her a better way? Nah. Just be consistently pleasant/non-angry, pass comfort tests, and demonstrate to her (actions not…
/r/askMRP12/04/16 07:08 PM
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LoL I love it... I feel like my posts suck every time I click submit. Usually someone gets what I am saying and I find the advise I was looking for.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 07:05 PM
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Headed there now. Thank you for a reference.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 05:23 PM
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Fair - painful to recall but fair. Show her a better way I don't understand this and it isn't a very searchable term.
/r/askMRP12/04/16 05:21 PM
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I understand. I don't want to doxx myself in explaining why it isn't as you see it.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 03:38 PM
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YISSSSSSSS
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 11:43 PM
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If you mean you think I don't know that I could take this chick to pound town... It's been blatantly obvious for years. I am not ready to break my vows.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 11:42 PM
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It's only gay if you bust right?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 11:18 PM
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All brojobs aside, I am kinda hungry....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 11:18 PM
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Inspiration to be as awesome (read alpha) as she seems to think I am.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 11:17 PM
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I have the self discipline to not touch the goods. Today I was very uncertain if she was going to jump me.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/16 10:02 PM
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How fun of a guy are you? Do you laugh and make jokes and playfully tease her? This is a question I asked myself recently. I am very playful but her reactions have changed dramatically... Like flirting with her hasn't had the same effect. How would you react if she fucked up your dinner or your favorite shirt? Well there was the time she threw a plate of food I cooked across the room when I was super BP and she was preggo.... I just shrugged it off because it wasn't my plate. I likely would stil…
/r/askMRP08/04/16 08:17 PM
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It's obvious I should have written more. I don't feel like she fears me. Hell I'm 100% sure she doesn't. The fear isn't a fear of me. I have a feeling that it is based in the "tables have turned" type of thought. I have had the come to Jesus that I am out of we don't come together and fix these issues. I have lifted and worked my way to what I feel is a solid 7, 8 on a good day to her 6 maybe 7 on a good day. She is anxiety ridden and has low self esteem as well so her self image is likely a 4 o…
/r/askMRP08/04/16 06:10 PM
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Fear of flipping - dude it's a wild ass guess. The assumption is that the egg shell thing is derived from that type of fear. I don't flip and I never have so IDK...
/r/askMRP08/04/16 05:59 PM
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When doxing yourself is 10000000% worth it. OUTSTANDING WORK!
/r/TheRedPill18/03/16 04:23 PM
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Yeah, I cant argue his last word issue. Thats typical woman shit. Hell, the best politician is always the best salesman so you know there is mind games and fuck fuckery going on. I was merely "sxratching the surface" as another commenter said. The Bern is playing victim of "the man," Trump has been focusing on how we are better and we know it IMHO.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 07:26 PM
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I was going to quote you and write a counter arguement, but you are so overconfident in your opinion that it is not worth my time. He insults people, you are stupid if you like that...
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:46 PM
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Yes, Trump is pretty up there in terms of redpill, no doubt. I see why people compare politics and politicians to the redpill and blue pill, but I just think by doing that you only see the surface of it. I like your "Surface" idea. Its like what 97% of the topics covered in the debates are just scratching the surface. As much as I love Bernie, I do see him as on the bluepill of the spectrum though. The difference seems to be that Trump pushes for his policies because HE feels its right and HE be…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:34 PM
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Look at the rest of the world. It works great. We aren't the rest of the world. The Economics of our educational system is such that the burden of cost is placed on the student. Take books for example. They are 3 to 5 hundred times more expensive than they were 30 years ago. Want a major contributing factor - the teachers write them and want to get paid. Also, Trump is not self funded...like its available all over the internet, his daddy gave him a small one time '2 million dollar loan' to start…
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:30 PM
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There isn't actually any hate, just hurt feelings.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/16 06:16 PM
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Nah I meant she went nuke. She flew off the handle and I laughed about it.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:26 AM
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Yeah, dont get me wrong... i am always game to fuck, but I had a long ass day and I wanted to talk some shit and act like a dumbass with her. Maybe slam some of that jack daniels apple cider whiskey...
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:24 AM
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You're trying to weaponize it too. You're just no good at it. Are you saying that you interpret MRP as weaponizing sex like a woman? Or that you suspect that is what I am actually trying to do?
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:14 AM
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Cause I really didn't want to. I have been pretty turned off by her. I would bang, but I really wanted to get the kid to sleep and go watch tv and talk shit.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:13 AM
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God damn you. LoL all sales people over complicate the close.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:12 AM
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I was gonna quote you but you just told me what I pretty much needed. I am in this limbo of letting go. I know I can have a happier life outside of this marriage and I am ready to go. I propose its not her as much as its thos strong moral thing that my parents never gave up/broke up and neither did hers.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 05:12 AM
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A for instance.. trying to get the kid to sleep, I messaged her so we didnt have to speak and said, "Are you gonna go to sleep once she passes out?" And she responds, "Yeah what am I supposed to do?" I respond, Whatever you want to do. And she says im going to sleep then. Me: I am going out then once we get her to sleep. FUCKING NUKE. Yelling GTFO and "you dont fucking care about me" and other stupid shit and I laugh it off and fog it and Agree and Amplify until she shuts the fuck up.
/r/askMRP21/02/16 04:46 AM
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I am re-reading NMMNG. I still use god damn covert contracts. I am disgusted with it. I am so sick of this constant reversion to being a nice guy. It has made me have hate, and I am not a hateful person. I have trouble with covert contracts because I EXPECT to be wanted. I have improved my body, and my confidence and it is confirmed by the women in my every day life outside of my house. I get blatantly hit on constantly. The problem is, I expect my Wife to feel the same way and she wont because …
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/16 05:42 PM
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I have been reflecting on this as well. Its going to take me a few days to work these out.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 04:12 PM
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Havent read alpha moves or daybang. I am going thru nnmng for the second time.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 11:46 AM
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I agree. However, the guidance is always appreciated.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 03:22 AM
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A better litmus test would be how other women are responding. Have other women's reactions have come full circle while your wife hasn't budged? Absolutely. There are man specific women that come to mind that before never noticed me.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 03:15 AM
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The coin flip is whatever to me. But Man that lasr question is really hard to answer.... "Add value.." is the next question I will spend some time reflecting on...
/r/askMRP17/02/16 02:28 AM
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Im currently about a third of the way thru nnmng. That will be next but i am starting to feel done here.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 02:11 AM
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I definitely lift. Hell, the few times we have had sex, she grabs like never before. I aint at fucking pro wrestler cut/size but I have made some excellent progress. Oneitis - I doubt. Hell I flirt with women in front of her like fuck it she doesnt flirt with me - someone will. I love the military and what I am learning from college. So, check check check.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 01:54 AM
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You're not really giving us much other than weight loss and reading. Where are you at in dread? Are you dressing better? A life apart? Are you putting more effort into your marriage than the eight seconds it took you to type this? If it's not working, something is missing. Solid point, i didnt feel like writing an essay. Level 8 dread. Dressing much better, suits, ties, new clothes and drawers. Life apart is kind of a given, sales, military, college. I have put much more into the marraige and I …
/r/askMRP17/02/16 01:44 AM
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7/10 I'm in sales so closing is kind of my thing.
/r/askMRP17/02/16 01:38 AM
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Im with this guy. I have seen women in the Engineers and they become dead weight, fast.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/16 09:43 PM
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Thats an interesting perspective that I didn't consider. You are telling me your caveman version is in and out as quick as possible with no reguard for doing anything she wants?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:54 PM
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Well, up until the last month or so we generally do some pretty vanilla stuff, start off with some oral for her, 2 or 3 different positions, and for the past few YEARS we would get off like clockwork at the same time. It was outstanding. The fact that we dont "sync up" like we did is more frustrating than anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:53 PM
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CNS?
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:47 PM
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I will give that a shot for sure.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:47 PM
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I read about them after you replied with this. Interestingly enough, I think I have too tight of a muscle there... I also read about reverse kegels. Think - pushing a big turd out muscles but not shitting yourself- that action teaches the muscle group to relax on command.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:43 PM
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I will re read it. I doubt i can get too wild just yet. Vanilla has become frequent for us because of RP. I will start transitioning to more wild shit down the road for sure though.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:42 PM
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I feel the same way now that I have spent some time reflecting yours and the other replies. I have to separate myself from caring about hers. I think part of my problem is that my S.O is not very expressive verbally with compliments and shit so the hamstered need for validation the other commenter mentioned is activated like a mofo when she starts grabbing. This creates excitement and nervousness in me and I finish early.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:41 PM
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Upping the frequency has been a tough sale lately due to scheduling changes and general life stuff. I have been working on a goal of 2 hard approahes a week with her. The longest streak I had without a hard no was 3 weeks.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:38 PM
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Yeah, I am going to re-read SGM.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:36 PM
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You're hamstering about her ability to climax with you and now you've tricked yourself into letting it be your only source of validation. You're not a woman, stop that shit. I spent a few hours considering this once I read it. I came to the conclusion that since it stung a little bit to read it, its probably true. "she's probably playing starfish by minute 17 and thinking about what to cook for dinner tomorrow around minute 21." See my last statement... stings which means its probably true. Brea…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/01/16 06:36 PM
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Exactly! And the last thing im trying to do is open my mouth about it with some bs "woe is me" shit. Its a really great, yet unexpected side effect of teh gainz.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/01/16 11:32 AM
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Pussy pass revoked.
/r/MGTOW22/01/16 11:58 AM
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Who cares?
/r/MGTOW21/01/16 09:57 PM
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In other news, that thing in the pic is fucking hideous.
/r/MGTOW21/01/16 12:19 PM
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The issue is education and the ability to conceptualize right from wrong, good from bad.
/r/MensRights07/01/16 07:05 PM
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60-120s. Its an army drill. 60 sec sprint, 120 sec jog. How ever many sets your body can handle.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 10:40 PM
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I cant even count on hands and feet how many barracks hoes got knocked up before deployment. Kind of disgusting really.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/15 10:16 PM
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I just went to the gym for the first time this week on my lunch break. I stumbled in, but my body took over and I left my mind to wander in my playlist. My mind was completely clear for 25 minutes all I did was lift and sweat, and I left feeling amazing. I am sore as shit but I feel 10x more level headed than I was when I left work.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 07:10 PM
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Oh yeah, gonna be up there with ignore or a&a.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/10/15 02:54 AM
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LoL I like it!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 11:57 PM
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Yes GREAT BIKE. And you can get them for cheap. I got mine for less than two grand!
/r/MarriedRedPill13/10/15 11:55 PM
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If only, i still struggle with sacrifice for my child. I know that it will only damage more to see an unhappy father. I have to figure out what it is that is keeping me from leaving other than the kid.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 02:39 AM
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Found TRP after I got married. Saw this post and the one yesterday about something similar. I have been reading TRP and MRP religiously for the past few months. Implementing all of the changes, lifting, studying, college night classes, finances and decision making, ALL of it. Changes have been good for me all around, but the best changes are outside of home life, and that pill burns the most. I get the feeling that I will always be the beta buck in my marraige simply because I hitched up with he…
/r/TheRedPill10/10/15 08:23 PM
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This guy knows what he is talking about.
/r/seduction10/10/15 12:45 PM
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Bro I live in Athens. Dont put em on a pedestal and dont be a greek like douche and you will be fine. Something about this college makes dudes turn douche just like their dads. Dont believe me? Go to porterhouse around graduation when parents are bringing their boy to dinner and notice that the father and son look and act IDENTICAL. That and some of thes girls have their sorority shoved so high up their #*$¥ that they cant see straight. Just play the numbers and a smooth approach will get you th…
/r/seduction10/10/15 12:44 PM
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Psssht, dishing the truth as usual. I interpreted it that as hypergamy. I find it the hardest pill to swallow yet because I saw it IN MY HOUSE, with one of my soldiers... Luckily he was shoved up my ass the whole time and the mission is over today.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 07:47 PM
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Kind of my gut feeling. Luckily the mission ended today.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/15 07:42 PM
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One million% true statement.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 04:31 PM
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Misery loves company.... and misery pays WELL...... ALCOHOL, FUNERALS, ETC.... Incoming downvotes for devils advocate but business is business and he made millions on misery.
/r/TheRedPill28/08/15 12:40 PM
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I havent read about disillusionment phase... i do see the light one way or the other and i have been killing the tests
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 11:25 PM
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Im considering ending it with her. The more RP I become, she continues to get salty and hateful. I'm not staying married to a salty,angry, hateful crone.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/07/15 06:19 PM
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The Hamster in a woman's brain can be manipulated provided you're in charge of your 'Self'. My wife used to be into Facebook, shitty shows (Vampire Diaries, Insert Bullshit Time Vampire TV) and not lifting weights. I was able to eventually remove all of those bad habits and replace them with productive ones. I would love to know what steps you took. Just the same as I was able to get my wife to see that Facebook made her feel shitty (Comparing lives, comparing wealth, comparing free time, compar…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/07/15 01:26 AM
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7th inning stretch behind the concessions?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/07/15 09:23 PM
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Starts with a "you" - Shit test Starts with an "I" - comfort test She is shit testing you still. Be stoic. Ignore her until she crawls back.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/07/15 04:45 AM
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Yeah I am going to have to get really creative to make dread work wonders for me.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 02:20 AM
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What do you think is more powerful: telling your wife you don't need her or having her see you flirt with other women? Nah i agree with the flirting and dread. I just have a challenge to overcome to really run the hamster. 2-3 hours a day together awake is dificult, not impossible, but difficult.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/07/15 02:09 AM
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Nah not conversation like that. More like, my statement, her buthurt, and my wisnifg tools to reiterate my point. At that point in the evenings conversation the subject changed to normal stuff without shit tests and awkwardness.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 03:00 PM
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I agree and disagree. Full on heavy flow. Im out on wrecking furnature for a nut. I should have pushed for at the minimum an hj. I need to drasticly improve my smv because for some reason she doesn't see me as higher than her... mildly delusional.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 01:28 PM
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While I can agree with you because of the doctorine i have read, i only disagree because she hasn't heard me speak about anything other than logistics for 2 months. With my situation its hard to make actions speak with 2hrs a day awake together without being a complete asshole. Thats where monk mode helped A LOT.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/15 01:26 PM
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Yeah I have seen a lot of that while in monk mode. I realize that while I dont need her, I want her around because of the kid. But I can live without them both because I know that my child will always love me and be there because I feel the "parental need" to provide for my child. That "Parental need" is nothing more than good training from my parents because the difficult truth is, that feeling is just a strong want. Its pretty deep stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 08:25 PM
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We had a conversation about it because she has been shit testing me about not speaking to her. I have been monk mode most of the month. I straight told her, "I do not need you, at all. Every reason you think I need you, I dont. I can be perfectly content alone. BUT I do want you. I want all of you. I want you to be around and I like having you around." Butthurt shit test ensued and I fogged it and did the broken record to get my message across. It felt pretty powerful because I was in control of…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 06:01 PM
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Start with low weight high rep if your back is weak. Its better to do 30 reps of 25lb deadlifts for a month or so on deadlift day. The last thing you want is to injure your back because you cant really train any muscle group without it. Kettles are fine as long as your form is good.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 02:12 PM
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My wife states "talking about sex in any way is weird to me." And wont go any further Into the conversation.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 03:30 AM
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I will spend some time reading these.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/15 02:14 AM
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Author was a man.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/07/15 03:59 AM
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Well damn son, that shut me down. I still have a lot to learn.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/07/15 12:41 AM
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Because she is not but a sheep in wolves clothing.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/07/15 08:02 PM
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There is no jedi.... these are not the droids.... I have yet to turn down the starfish. I took it last night after I used the wisnifg stuff on her petty B.S. I am going to prepare myself to turn down the starfish next . . . Im anxious about what will happen honestly.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 05:20 PM
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Edited for your sanity. For clarity, you think my ignore mode is covert contracts?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 04:14 AM
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Edited.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 04:07 AM
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" its really hard to take part in this act when you havent explained your behavior on sunday" Oh, the self-rightous, wounded-bird, manure and guilt spreader is out in full force! Who says you have to explain shit to her? Who gave her the gavel and the scales of justice to demand you explain all your perceived faults to her? Like UEMcGIll mentioned, this is WISNIFG territory straight out. Bro if you could only hear the self rightous spew that comes from this womans mouth. I tell ya, if she said m…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 02:04 AM
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Were you an asshole on Sunday or is she referring your beta friend tattling on you? I was legit an asshole and i owned that shit. I stated that i am an asshole and you and all of our friends know it, nothing new. If you were an asshole own it. "Yeah Hun, I was fucking beat, and acted like an asshole. Won't let it happen again". No problem in calling a spade a spade, then move on. If it was because your beta friend and his big mouth, fuck him. Fuck her. If you feel you did nothing wrong, put that…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/15 11:51 PM
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This
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:44 PM
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Its not an easy task because you havent got the FRAME to do it. You what if yourself in 849273849 different directions.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:43 PM
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Dude, take it how you want. I am just telling you, the literal way to take it is that you have many BETTER options. Obviously. The harsh truth, you chose to have children with what sounds like a severely damaged woman child.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:10 PM
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You are right, its better for your kids to see their father as a miserable emotion starved man.. or a habitual cheat and lair. Good call bro. Clearly the sidebar has made a measurable difference for you. Edit: Best advise is to leave her. Seriously. She might come right around once she sees you leaving... but dont expect it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 09:06 PM
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Well, you gotta figure out what gets the motor running. None of us can diagnose via the internet. But I am here to tell you, there is something that does it. It could be right in front of you. She doesnt want to be up late... so lets watch tv in the bed! Then initiate like a mofo. Maybe do something atypical to initiate. Bite her leg/hip if she is in cheerleader shorts .... dont be so typical dude with tits and ass... go after her legs, shoulders, neck, back... you get the picture. You could jus…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 08:55 PM
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PREACH! God I have done it so many times in the past that I still fuck up and do it.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 08:51 PM
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And suck it up and be a man. She aint doing the deed because you havent given her the butterflies and wet panties.... you gotta preheat the oven more bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 08:34 PM
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Bro, do you even initiate? It reads like this: him "wanna suck my dick?" Her "lets watch tv" THAT IS NOT A NO. Warm that mofo up and get her to purring on your dick! Dont ask for it, Take action!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/15 08:31 PM
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It is mean. I have decided based on what others have said to simply ignore it and push thru.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/06/15 04:24 PM
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Hahaha this is an epic response. 5 star awesomeness, and point taken.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 03:43 AM
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I do lift. I am in shape, I... occasionally cook. I have to be "in shape" for my military duties.... And i have led her to start going to work out. She does HIIT kickboxing.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/06/15 03:29 AM
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Yeah exactly. It is almost an instant gratification when you finally get some results.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/15 04:21 PM
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You are your own hobby. Delegate time to the kids, and yourself. The rest is work, gym, etc.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:59 PM
1

As a veteran with heavy burdens I can tell you that the gym has been my friend over the past few months. The difficulties of what we have seen and done will be with us forever, but if you continually train your mind and body you will find that the load gets lighter. Remember your basic training, personal courage -- draw on your own strengths to find your outlet that is NOT within your household. Be proactive when you feel that rush of adrenaline or that crushing sinking in your gut, WALK OUT. Ju…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 03:16 PM
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Good lord bro, you are like 3 months too late for me. I am sure this will help some new guys. I have deliberately figured this out on my own and it makes a huge difference. Home Example: all the bulbs blew out in the lights in the dining room but it is well lit enough from kitchen lights. In the same day i realized that the master bath shower needed a good bleaching (military in me thinks everything needs it from time to time). I prioritized that the bathroom was more important because i would f…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/05/15 05:51 PM
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Logic - that one key to every aspect of life that escapes soooooo many people.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/15 02:35 PM
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Im def a novice.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 07:11 PM
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I tell my wife to order A pizza the other night for a cheat meal. I come home to two pizzas, cheezy bread, mountain dew, and one of those new big ass cookies from P.J.s. Its just her trying to like subconsciously sabatoge you because your smv is getting higher. Its not even on purpose...
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 07:09 PM
1

Nice!
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 10:21 PM
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First of all, thanks. Makes me realize I am not there yet, but I know im making progress. I just gotta get the drip going again and the best way to do it is "lift heavy things, and put them down."
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 09:02 PM
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Yeah, nutrition, nutrition, lift, cardio. She is doing a surefire workout program similar to HIIT that is NOT crossfit. It is showing her some gains, but the belly fat is last. She knows this and gets obviously frustrated with it. I keep my cool and address it, I just havent found a way to keep her focus on her gains, not her flaws.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:53 PM
1

Right! When I wrote this line, I proof read it and thought, that really makes it easy to understand.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:50 PM
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I can appreciate your comment, it makes sense. I am concerned in the fact that she does in factshow the intrest in me that says she is at least mildly turned on, its more than she is holding back because of her insecurities. I will def continue to shape up, it feels awesome to see myself changing into what I want to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 08:50 PM
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No one wants to hear your fucking problems with reading. We all work, most of us moreso than you, obviously. I read NMMNG in 3 days, because I wanted the change. If you want a shoulder to cry on, this aint where its at. This is where the truth will slay your victim fantasy.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 12:04 PM
1

I am considering saying fuckit all tonight. No joke.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/05/15 09:42 PM
3

Congrats on the BJs
/r/MarriedRedPill24/04/15 12:24 AM
2

I feel like the ultimatum from her side only had one outcome. She knows I don't want to leave and have our kid grow up in that situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/15 03:31 PM
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I was given an ultimatum this morning via text that said seek counseling by friday or seek divorce. I realized I had codependency issues when I read NMMNG. I really don't think I have lost my cool, even here. I reacted for sure, but more from the fear of loosing my eyesight with anger. When she goes postal or apeshit or nuclear, whatever you want to call it, I am usually the calm rational one. (read my other posts) My challenge is that she has diagnosed anger issues. And I KNOW she craves that d…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 07:38 PM
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It will for sure. I feel like a jackass. It was more of a fear and anger based reaction to possible loss of eyesight. I could feel my eye dripping fluid under my hand, and it burned like a motherfucker.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 07:29 PM
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I have been in military combat, that's adrenaline. But oddly, you are right. I haven't had an adrenaline rush like that in a LONG time. Kind of weird how the risk of eyesight can bring that out of you...
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 07:27 PM
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Eh, I have been improving. This past month has been amazing for me, I have dropped 20lbs this year, got a promotion, upped my clothing game to an incredible level, and I am lifting cause ya know,,, lift shit. I wouldn't call it temper, i get hit by my kid all the time playing, I get mad and angry with my 2 jobs and school all the time. I don't have fits of anger or temper-tantrums. I got hit in the opened eye. The shit made me see red. It wasn't anger, more like fight or flight kicking in becaus…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 07:26 PM
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The good news, our roommate was present and in the room for the entire thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/03/15 02:55 PM
2

I finally started coming on to the wife super hard and so far it has gotten me what I wanted.... even if it's maintenance sex, I'm trying to lay the wood like a lumberjack. Anyways, she shut me down tonight because she is on the dot. I still managed to escalate to playing with her boobs but I didn't get my rocks off. I feel like I held the enemy at bay but didn't win the battle. She wouldn't take care of my needs and I went for hit hit commit and the only commit I got was a squirming no. ( hit h…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/15 04:40 AM
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I'm pretty proud of how I handled it, similar to the cat in your situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/02/15 08:27 PM
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NICE! I LIKE THE AGREEMENT!
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 03:46 PM
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Not a bad plan...
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 04:01 AM
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No danquan. LoL Seriously tho, no they are not. They are about typical bs like "I clean everything" we don't want more kids for at least 2 years.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 03:05 AM
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I get that and I can understand where you are coming from because both of us are animal lovers. However, a month ago we were arguing and considering divorce... Now all the sudden a dog is a good idea?
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 02:14 AM
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I have considered it. And it is a possibility as I am not the all knowing great one.... It just doesn't feel right. Went from super agressive fighting/arguing to wanting a dog. AWALT, I get that.... but my S/O is generally pretty logical.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/15 02:07 AM
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Write that shit off and do you bro. Right on!
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 07:01 PM
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I realize now how it was received. Shit test city this morning. I'm going to start wisnifg today. I think I should have went there before mmslp.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 04:05 PM
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I can see what you mean. I guess it could have been taken that way too. FAAK. I thought I played that shit in the right way, and its possible that it wasn't received the way i intended.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 06:24 AM
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I wasn't asking permission, I was agreeing and amplifying her "i could eat everything" shit. She does that and all i hear is, " i can do whatever and you will never leave." Thats why I made the statement and said I want to get sexy so I wont eat a ton of shit. Forgive my potato writing style if it came out wrong.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 06:10 AM
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One thing that I have done with my schedule is decide on my late work nights that I will be even later. Two reasons, 1. no sense in trying to squeeze out 20 minutes of dad time when kid doesn't always wait up for me. 2. I can decide where to go what to do without input from the s/o
/r/MarriedRedPill22/02/15 03:30 AM
2

I just tell her I have been reading some books that a friend recommended to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 12:58 AM
2

Bro, that shit is bothersome to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/02/15 12:57 AM
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Also, for the forseeable future, I have decided to say fuck having sex with her. She turns me off anyway with her nasty attitudes and addiction to fake "reality" Television. I will work on sex in a month or so, I gotta get my mind right first. Plus, I am a firm believer in the "you are what you eat" philosophy. she eats that dramatic shit, and I am eating this good ass red pill knowledge and it is making me a better and more desirable man. I want this to sound OI but it will probably come off as…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 10:26 PM
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I have been an ANGRY, Covert Contracting, manipulative nice guy. It has been almost 3 weeks now and I have started to really take notice of my anger. When I put my kid down and she starts crying I almost instantly get pissed off, and I am talking from like a 0 to a 6 on an 1-10 angry scale. I have noticed that I also get angry when my wife shuts me down from flirting, touching, kissing, etc. I am still incredibly resentfully angry at the lack of sex in my marriage, and her apparent dis-intrest i…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 10:23 PM
2

Good lord dude, everything I find on here from you is exactly what I need to hear. You should open your own practice as some sort of red-pill doctor for guys like us.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 06:39 PM
2

This is good, reallly good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/02/15 06:05 PM
2

I brought home a dozen long stem and one extra for the rug rat. She made a good meal. Pretty sure that will be it. I have too far to go to expect much else from her.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/15 05:19 AM
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HOLY FUCK. This is the shit I did when we were dating that I have missed completely. I can't use it yet, it wouldn't work correctly if I tried. But I can use it in the future.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 08:11 PM
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I think you guys are the shit. Also, i can tell i am a ton more angry after reading nmmng because i have an anger issue that i deal with separate to this from my time in the military. Adding in my self assesments and realizations, anger is pretty high. You are spot on strat. I hope that in the future I can be able to help my bros like you have so far. I have actually done a bunch of the activities from nmmng using coworkers as my safe people. I want to do the moratorium. I also went cold turkey …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 04:06 PM
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THIS. You are right. Idk why i didnt realize that.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 01:21 PM
1

Well i have been improving all year, dress, dropping weight, normal SMV shit. The actual shit here for about 10 days now. I wanted to do the sex moratorium from nmmng but it is killing me. No porn, no fap, and denial of sex is too god damn much.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 06:15 AM
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She's on the looney meds? She takes a med that is an SSRI. I read in mmslp that these are bad. The googler said they are sex killers for some. You need to Red Pill Up. Lift, get away from the house, join a club, eat right, dress better. I have done ALL of these items. I am about two weeks into RP mode. I was doing well up until this mishap. Let your wife know what you need. Sex, a feminine wife, food on the table (if your that type of guy). I have made it very clear what i need. You can't expect…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 06:06 AM
2

Fucking lost it tonight.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/02/15 05:46 AM
3

I'm buying that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 04:53 AM
1

I have questions that you can probably assist me with. Being less available. I don't want to not spend what little time with my family away.... so by saying less available is the idea to just seem distant? I get it if so. Kind of like lost in space when it comes to her. Should I not speak with her to coach her through setting goals for herself? Should I hide my feelings from her? Do I need to seem distant and not communicate much? I understand being a stone when she shows emotion, thats easy. Do…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/15 04:49 AM
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I understand why daily updates would be discouraged. I feel like as my journey continues I will likely make less and less. I really didn't feel the need to post this one. I do however feel conflicted because the first few days of this for many of us are the roughest. It has helped me tremendously to write about it and share with you guys. All of the input and advise has helped with my first RP week.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/02/15 12:52 AM
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This is confirmation of what I see and believe.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/15 04:37 AM
1

Holy fuck that's strong!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 10:38 PM
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Good Lord I hope so. I failed to mention that she blames her lack of sex drive on her meds. I don't accept that as truth because she has not seen me at my full potential. Laat night after the eggshells convo, I told her that I have a hard time keeping my hands to myself and I want to fuck her constantly. My attraction to her is not objectification, its attraction. It was a good feeling to spew out the truth in a calm assertive way.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/02/15 07:49 PM
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This! Exactly my thoughts!
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 10:28 PM
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What do you take from her sending me the article and referencing the objectification and pornography? I am puzzled by that. Also, can I post a link to it for reference?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 09:17 PM
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Contextually yes, Let me rephrase. I have looked through her phone many times in the past. I have not checked it within the last two weeks because I have been more focused on myself. I have the ability to, and I have, checked the phone records and cross referenced phone numbers to be sure I know WHO she is talking to. With 99% sureness, I know she is NOT cheating. I said that in a total fucking beta way, thank you for checking me.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 08:36 PM
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I am sure she has not checked out and she is not cheating. I have had my suspicions in the past and checked all of the above.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 08:34 PM
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UC did the majority of it in the comments on my Day 2 update. by PM he suggested to reaffirm that I am making changes without mentioning TRP and the books as well as letting her know I do not want her to leave but it will not phase me if it does. I did take the liberty of looking at her FB message with her cousin and sister. She is a very personal person and keeps information regarding our relationship tight, and only speaks about it with that group msg and her friend from last night. In her mes…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 08:13 PM
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I fixed it. Thanks bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 07:38 PM
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I can totally handle NOT responding. But she has complained for ages about the lack of communication on my part. How do communicate that I dont want her to leave.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 03:37 AM
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The problem with that is that I have been unavailable for most of the time. I have been bottling up my emotions and walking on eggshells for a very long time.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 03:09 AM
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How would you respond to those texts? or would you simply ignore them?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/02/15 12:05 AM
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I want to text her back but I know I shouldn't and I won't. I have to focus on the fact that I am right about the respect issue AND that I will survive ANYTHING that is thrown at me, something that she should respect (kind of circular logic, which is probably good to focus on right now.)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 08:21 PM
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THIS SHIT RIGHT HERE THO!!! GOD DAMN I WANT TO HAVE THE BALLS TO DEMAND A FUCKING BLOWJOB LIKE THAT. YOU PUMP ME THE FUCK UP SIR!
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 03:51 AM
2

What exactly is going caveman/primal in bed? Just going on a rampage on her ass? or something else?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 03:45 AM
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I used agree and Amplify on her tonight as well as pressure flipping. SHIT WAS CASH! She couldn't take her anger out on me so she went to bed.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 03:44 AM
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I am super guilty of care takeing and not putting my needs first at home. I work really long days in sales so I take the liberty of taking my lunch and doing shit I need to do. So when I get home I place all of the importance on playing with my child until she goes to sleep (which I see no problem with) and then walking on eggshells around my wife trying to take care of anything I can for her. I have read half of nmmng, and I see some of my major faults in the stories of these guys.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/02/15 02:52 AM
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I can provide plenty more information on my relationship if you would like it / need it.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/02/15 06:11 PM
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