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I think you are self defeating.
/r/askTRP26/02/17 08:14 PM
2

You didn't have a good bargaining position asking for the selfies?
/r/askTRP17/11/16 01:10 AM
9

I never try to read into any text because I think that'll make you go insane.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 01:39 AM
5

Just ghost her until she reaches out to you and then see what happens next time. If It's an unfavorable meeting make it the last time.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 01:19 AM
1

Leave it alone mate. Enjoy life and a beautiful woman.
/r/askTRP24/10/16 10:49 PM
2

Well is anything screwed up?
/r/askTRP24/10/16 07:46 AM
2

Sounds like things are fine. Why overthink this?
/r/askTRP24/10/16 06:44 AM
1

I mean its really up to him.
/r/askTRP15/10/16 07:42 PM
1

Ahhhhh. Didn't know!
/r/askTRP04/10/16 03:56 PM
3

Just go round 2 and 3 if your round one is fast.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 05:28 AM
1

The approach seems very insensitive. Not trying to judge but this seems a bit fake.
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:49 AM
2

Save it for GoneWildStories
/r/askTRP04/10/16 01:44 AM
2

Don't get try to fuck her one more time. Nothing good ever comes out of it.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:23 PM
2

Im not sure a single man here can tell you what she means. Its like a big Katamari ball of shit with some sex on the side. If the shit isn't distracting from the good sex, your threshold for shit tolerance must be high :) Id be too scared to have sex with that. Afraid she is too anti man and might bite my wang off or go units on you GoneGirl style.
/r/askTRP01/10/16 07:21 PM
3

Would your girl say that? (If you weren't around)
/r/askTRP30/09/16 02:44 AM
7

Let her do her thing. As long as your gut says its good and she is showing you good energy and attention no worries. If you notice changes in how she treats you for the worse after she starts going out without you etc, then you know something is up. Unless something is up don't bother saying a thing. Usually if women get distracted by other guys its all too obvious.
/r/askTRP29/09/16 05:01 AM
2

Get ready for a good pegging :). J/k
/r/askTRP29/09/16 03:36 AM
3

Sounds like you suck at flirting with a girl trying to be playful.
/r/askTRP18/09/16 08:07 PM
1

I mean you ghost their ass but some of them try! Cold Crazy feminism.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 07:03 AM
0

I occasionally meet a FWB or plate that tries this shit on me.
/r/askTRP15/09/16 12:01 AM
4

It's funny when they try to convince you that you want them to have bigger tits so you should pay for it.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:57 PM
1

Not at all. This is more like a woman misandrist role swapping and trying to be male polarity in the relationship.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:53 PM
1

Seems like best thing to do it ghost until you run into her in a favorable situation again once uni starts. Since you don't have access to her, and if she is getting laid locally, your messages will turn into background noise. I mean how exciting can your messages be to read when she just got home from getting deep dicked with last minute out of town farewell hookups. Leave it as it is and use the good in person exchange to segue connect with her later at uni,
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:21 PM
1

Silence unless it's messages about meeting. And meating :)
/r/askTRP14/09/16 11:10 PM
5

She is fucking someone else tonight and thought fucking you was boring and isn't thinking about it. No worries tho, this may not have anything at all to do with you. Move on and forward.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:50 PM
2

The only people I wanna spend time on are the ones that eagerly want to chase me or worship me after I do little. I meet new people till I see this, then I move on to phase 1 with those girls. Some become FWB, one might become an LTR every now and then. So how do I handle the rejection - any girls who are doing anything less than eagerly pursuing me aren't at all what I want. If you focus on the eager ones you get more sex, less games, more calm, more focused life, women who make you feel good a…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:36 PM
1

Change their mind about fucking you?
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:31 PM
1

To much thinking. Move towards meeting her in person in messages that's all.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 10:29 PM
3

You know some people won't agree but I handle painful twitches of oneitis with high quality low volume escorts. First you have to have the tenant of money in place in your life so you can afford a high quality low volume escort who does GFE well. At the spend level where the girl isn't on drugs and takes her profession seriously. Immaculate body and skin, spa treatments etc athletic, in shape. $$$$. A cheap gross hooker or $200 escort won't serve you well here. Likely just make you miss your ex …
/r/askTRP13/09/16 08:42 PM
1

You sound like an angry idiot.
/r/askTRP12/09/16 01:41 AM
3

I too felt it needed a down vote.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 08:11 PM
3

This post is amazing. To see a woman spend so much time and importance on the intimate side of her relationship is really motivating. Makes me wanna vet potential female mates that much harder.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/16 07:59 PM
1

Huh wha?
/r/askTRP27/08/16 11:11 PM
-22

As much as you typed here it sounded like he touched you in your wet spots too.
/r/TheRedPill04/08/16 11:25 PM
2

Yeah need examples of the boundaries and how she crossed them.
/r/askTRP04/08/16 02:05 AM
6

Sounds like the white knight swapped polarities with you and made you bluepill (kicked out of party after you lost your cool and you care about it (this post) meanwhile the other guy probably got laid and annihilated your frame for everyone to see. You don't care about gender equality. You lost your cool because nobody noticed you in the face of higher situational SMV guy. You can't just lift and grunt off like this in public you also gotta be able to talk to girls.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 07:17 AM
6

Male hamster right here
/r/askTRP31/07/16 09:09 AM
1

Well if you really have no feels than just go into orbiter mode for the pool and the occasional pity sex she will throw you when she feels rejected by her chad conquests. Prepare to become her cabin boy.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:22 PM
3

Its easy if you talk to people in day game mode to have multiple female acquaintances interested in you slightly but also respecting that you don't orbit or escalate with them because you have a girl. Then if you break up, those female acquaintances could convert into plates or your next LTR. It allows you to keep your game up, keep your lady wet and not leave an LTR with dead air and no female contacts to spend time with.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:19 PM
1

Totally has oneitis - posts here trying to play it cool to convince himself he is cool and missing a pool.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 06:01 PM
6

Age 40 - 20 yr old HB8 Met her at a coffee shop. She was like this cute looking for a mentor type. She fucked me every few days until I figured out she had a boyfriend from her snapchat and went no contact. In a video I saw him giving her gifts and gushing about how much he loved her and wants to marry her someday etc. poor guy. Now I saw her on Twitter recently and she is some kind of escort cam girl or something. Looks like trouble I avoided.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:54 AM
1

Makes me feel bad to read about a guy (OP) getting played like this and then spending so much time thinking about it / writing about it. Good luck and please move on from this mess. She was fucking you at best. Lots of exposure and risk for you.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:46 AM
1

So she is busy hat day. Isn't it possible?
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:33 AM
0

She is trying to plate you. Sounds like you like her a lot though.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:32 AM
3

Don't even know where to start with this one. First tough times suck so sorry for your head spot. How can you recognize a guys nude thighs in a picture? Porn will fuck you up and render you useless as a man. Don't go down that road. Find a real pic with her face before you confront her.
/r/askTRP30/07/16 11:31 AM
7

I cant make it work and wouldn't want to. Relationship = shared activities / shared proximity. Romantic relationship includes sex. None of those things happen with LDR. No proximity. You can keep a relationship, but not a romantic one unless you see each other in person weekly. And even then.,....
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 02:29 AM
1

Sure go for it or give the lass a chance to write a real reply.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 11:21 PM
0

Sounds low chance. Let her make a move.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 09:57 PM
1

Diet matter a lot
/r/askTRP29/07/16 09:47 PM
-1

Tinder isnt even useful
/r/askTRP29/07/16 09:41 PM
3

"Now, I was her alpha fucks and she cheated on his BB for me." Sounds like your little pink dick bored her so she chose the little pink dick that also pampers her. In this case you pretended she was a plate but had major feels for her. You disillusioned yourself into thinking you were alpha anything for her and got boring. You didn't put a ring on it or an LTR so she chose the guy who likely performed just as good as you but will also take her home to mommy. She threw a shitty insult at you beca…
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:15 PM
5

Girls can say mean shit, so do little kids. She 'said' something mean, just like a bratty little girl would. Why are you catching this many feels? Would you also plot revenge on a little girl in a playground that called you a dork?
/r/askTRP29/07/16 07:07 PM
5

I didn't know ASKTRP was a suicide prevention helpline. This post is a cry for help. She was right, you aren't acting like a real man.
/r/askTRP29/07/16 06:56 PM
2

Huh what? No romantic action but you want to plate her? Sounds like you want to become orbiter / cuck. Move on and pump your SMV. Even knowing her lowers your SMV.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 06:38 AM
3

She said she was considering getting sexy with you - not that she was outright going to fuck you. Your eating out comment - hahah man.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 03:11 AM
1

Rejection is funny. Especially when you see the girl a week later and she is feeling whatever and hooks up with you anyway. Being rejected or not is subject to many factors. Factors that can change and have nothing to do with you each time you see the girl.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:29 AM
1

She is not that interested. If so you would be talking while between her legs, not over text, after an Instagram romance.
/r/askTRP28/07/16 02:26 AM
3

I cant even understand what you are asking. Are you female?
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:55 PM
2

Instagram Game? Wrong sub?
/r/askTRP27/07/16 10:44 PM
3

So you gave her the lead.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 09:18 PM
1

Sounds like drama.
/r/askTRP25/07/16 09:16 PM
3

The weed makes him think he could fuck backpackers. He is likely addicted to porn as well.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:52 AM
1

I would absolutely agree and concur that I was using her for sex. That's kind of the whole reason boys and girls mix on the playground.
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:48 AM
1

You are taking on a plate as a girlfriend?
/r/askTRP24/07/16 07:46 AM
1

I do it with success, money and looking unique / being interesting. If you strip away those things, I'm a SMV 7.5 or so guy. I am in shape, and toned good health but not a hulking rodeo stud or anything. I only ever LTR 8-9.5 HB girls and date as low as HB6. Higher SMV guys try to poach my girls all the time but being a successful guy who is also edgy (tattoos, good style etc) as opposed to being a boring executive workaholic type keeps the girls locked till I am done. I am exciting, take them t…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:48 PM
2

You mean grindr? (couldn't resist)
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:39 PM
3

Also if your girl responds with jealousy, don't drop the new friends, just rationally make your LTR comfortable. I remember when I was young and wet behind the ears I would let girls acting jealous and wanting me to stop being friends with other girls actually cause me to avoid them and softly kill the friendships. You assume if your girl wants you to not talk to other girls it means she won't flirt / get to know other guys - hahaha wrong. Girls will pout and expect you to not talk to other girl…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:36 PM
3

You absolutely need to meet a new girl and new friends all the time. This keeps your relationship lively and gives you things to do when you need to back off of your lady a bit so she an get her attitude straight or finish her tantrum. Don't shittest your girl by flirting so much to the new girl. I believe in being cool to my LTR if she is being cool with me, but certainly be friendly, introduce everyone and always give your LTR an optional invite if you hang out with new friends. Make new conne…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:32 PM
2

Finishing in a girls mouth doesn't matter to me as much. I much prefer a hard / deep PIV orgasm. However, if you are at least on terms where she will on command give you oral however you present it to her, then just wait till one night where you have made her get off several times and her body has really really relaxed. Get on top before you finish and just give it to her quick in the mouth with no talk right before you cum. I find in that moment no girl has ever refused. They quickly take it, s…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 08:18 PM
1

^ This. I do all of these things.
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:21 AM
2

I don't wear deodorant. I haven't in years and nobody has ever said I smell bad. My girlfriends are repeat customers who come back around for sex even months after our honeymoon fucking wears off. They say they love my musk. They rub their faces in my chest and my cock all over their faces. I just wear a body lotion (higher end and water based) and a cologne that mixes well with my natural PH and enhances my male smells. I get it - I can get into a musky sweaty pussy begging to be penetrated too…
/r/askTRP22/07/16 02:20 AM
1

I also don't use Tinder. MUCH easier to talk to women in public anywhere.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:11 PM
1

I don't think about them.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:10 PM
1

This is way below RP discussion standards. Go see a proctologist. Nothing about controlling your ass ooze has anything to do with the RP.
/r/askTRP17/07/16 09:00 PM
0

I would do this - take her out for drinks once. Make it clear that if you didn't work together you would hammer it hard. Make it clear no chance in hell. Next days at work ignore her and just keep being awesome. When she gets fired or quit, then you can get a taste and it will be so warmed up and hot for you.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 10:19 PM
1

Doesn't sound like a big deal for plates you never plan to upgrade to LTR.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 10:13 AM
1

Im not sure asktrp is for dermatology questions.
/r/askTRP15/07/16 12:23 AM
0

Sounds like maybe you are interested in the guy and he excites you. I ignore any guys really when lovely lasses are around.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 11:49 PM
2

This sounds weird. Why reject them?
/r/askTRP14/07/16 10:56 PM
5

Id worry more about what makes you feel good. Forget about how she feels, what pisses her off etc...
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:51 PM
4

She is in the whirlwind of emotions wondering if she made a mistake and is trying to reengage. If you could sex her it would be good right now maybe but don't expect her to have changed or act any different outside of maybe a week of good sex and pleasantries. She wants to self validate now and see if she still has a hold on you. Once that thirst is quenched she will go back to being her normal self.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 04:40 PM
3

A lie is a lie. Usually when I see one, I start to notice many more. Kinda like how you see one small and and then realize they are everywhere. The easier to lie about something small, the easier to lie about bigger and bigger stuff. Also I first notice it usually as something where you don't even know why they lied about it.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 05:29 AM
1

Sadly it cant work. The good news is plenty of girls so push these aside. You gotta think of them as a person who chose heroin or crack over living healthy. You also gotta know they could rebound so easy in an LTR and instead of crack or heroin their addiction is different dicks from new male mates. They could have been having great satisfying sex with a partner too - but taking on too many medically ruins them for LTR / marriage purposes.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 03:12 AM
4

Sounds like her request is reasonable and not a shittest.
/r/askTRP14/07/16 12:22 AM
1

Don't talk to her again unless she texts wanting to meet in person. In person see what the chemistry is like and act accordingly.
/r/askTRP13/07/16 03:49 PM
3

Sounds like he wanted a little alone time with you if you know what I mean.
/r/askTRP12/07/16 03:27 AM
3

when i get texts from exes of olde or hit on by other girls when I'm in an LTR, I take note but I don't play and don't rub it in my LTRs face. I ignore it silently and move on with my LTR. If they cant stop texting after I ignore I block them so I don't gotta deal with the racket and re-engagement attempts. You don't need exes for dread game because you just focus on your projects like working out, sports, arts, etc - Dread gaming your LTR with exes looks desperate and drama like a lost little g…
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:51 PM
3

I felt the same way when I had a girl doing i to me. She is making drama and its disrespectful.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:31 PM
4

I had a girl who did this once. It felt like she was rubbing it in my face as a shit test. I would rather my girl just ignore the shit and not even tell me about it. Also why not block clingers like that from the past? Why even let a message get thru? I think you feel bad and lose attraction because you know its kinds shitty she does this.
/r/askTRP11/07/16 09:30 PM
1

I retired young and the girls all feel like grifters at this point.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 06:34 PM
5

It's depressing for sure. Sex alone starts to not feel the risk, especially if you have a lot to lose.
/r/askTRP07/07/16 02:21 AM
1

Good move!
/r/askTRP04/07/16 04:44 PM
2

Sounds like a slight shit test and you passed.
/r/askTRP30/06/16 02:27 PM
5

Just move on
/r/askTRP30/06/16 01:56 PM
1

I have had it happen if my girl and I are having sex where she has released many many waves of wetness. The difference in friction from her squirting doesn't feel as good and i kinda go cold or numb even tho i am still hard. If thats the kind of problem you are having get her to talk dirty to you while you finish off on her tits or something. Using your hand and her stimulation should pop it off. If she has already had multiple orgasms I find they are eager to do anything I ask to finish off.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 10:06 PM
1

If you are masturbating, or worse masturbating to porn, stop ASAP.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 09:42 PM
8

OP doesn't get it. At almost 50 years old I don't bed 20 something girls because i have an insecurity, I do it because its a special fetish for them and I love the way they treat me. With the girls 21-26, they love to play the mentor / student game with me. Knowing I can turn tricks for them in bed that the 20 something guys mostly don't get yet. Taking them on exotic dates that make them my sex pet for a weekend or a week or more...sometimes they bring girlfriends who leave their 20 something b…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/16 07:51 PM
1

Also calling her 'girlfriend' You are basically her squire. You work for her and she works for whomever is paying to hammer her for the hour.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 07:36 PM
2

Think about it this way; You GAVE a hooker a husband experience and paid more than any one of her customers paid to fuck her. Why not just go pay a different hooker once a week or so? Cheaper and less trouble. Im not into hookers, but considering what you are doing with this one.... You shrugged off red flags I have never seen anyone ignore.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 07:35 PM
1

"successful neurosurgeon......" Thread was beta-max from the first few words.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 05:40 PM
1

You mention a bunch of things like guys messaging her and Facebook stuff. What about real life? If she isn't unaccounted for etc just ignore the social network stuff. My LTR is a HB9 and all day long its guys stopping in traffic, heads turning, likes on instagram, etc etc etc... Not as many message her because she just ignores any first attempt, but I believe HB7 and above will have orbiters like flies all around 24/7. I have girl orbiters, ex girlfriends, etc too so I get it and also know I fin…
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:41 PM
7

Some of the blatant disrespect can chip away at your ego and reduce you to beta form if you aren't careful.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:26 PM
1

Sounds like you are overthinking it. When I am in an LTR, I put on blinders and ignore the noise. As long as we get together for the ritualistic high energy / high enthusiasm nightly savage fuckfest during which she serves up some sincere cock worship, I'm good. Good sex, good relationship - don't get confused by the noise but also don't ignore red flags. clicking like on Facebook pictures or whatever - who gives a fuck. Focus on real book and fuck book, not Facebook.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:25 PM
1

"Went so far as to get another cell phone and text himself from that number and act like it was her and send me screenshots." Is that the real story?
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:22 PM
1

"Speaking with her now she claims now she made an appointment before I even kicked her out to get on birth control, the guy from thr bank she ran into was a friend on Facebook and Instagram I notice, it wasn't until I found out a guy from the gym knew him and I asked if she had been going there did she have any idea, and she deleted him off both accounts." Edit that.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 04:20 PM
1

Well did you have a good time? If so go on another date - if not next.
/r/askTRP28/06/16 01:24 AM
4

I dated a BPD girl where before me she accused a guy of rape and got a mob of skinheads to white-knight assault him into a hospital bed. After my experience, I barely escaped and would have been next.
/r/askTRP27/06/16 11:12 PM
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