| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 38 | FR of one of the best parties I've ever been to | tris4992 | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 04:58 PM | |
| 13 | A thank you note to this community | tris4992 | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 01:25 AM | |
| 1 | interesting dillema | tris4992 | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 11:10 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 2 | How to tell the difference between someone flaking out and genuinely busy?Everybody has been giving theory that while correct doesn't really answer your question. How to tell the difference ? If the girl is genuinely interested but isn't available on the date you proposed she will offer an other date or ask if some other time would be good for you. If she's just trying to get you of her back she won't take the initiative to settle another date. | /r/seduction | 18/05/12 02:24 PM |
| 2 | A lull in progressSorry my bad, I read your 3th paragraph to fast and assumed you where uncomfortable with yourself. After reading your post again (this time slowly and carefully) let's talk. problem 1: so you have interesting conversations with lot's of kino but can't drive up interest ? I don't really know what to say. Any specific points you notice yourself getting hooked. A certain level of the kino ladder you can't progress past ? I don't really know what's going wrong here. Perhaps next time your out try to… | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 06:17 PM |
| 4 | A lull in progressRead the sidebar and this time don't skip the inner game parts. They're rather important. | /r/seduction | 14/05/12 04:55 PM |
| 3 | Dressing well yet not giving a fuck: Paradox?Think about it this way. You don't dress well for other people. You dress well for yourself. You couldn't care less what people think about you. You just enjoy being (dressed) awesome as ****. | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 06:02 PM |
| 5 | My dad was beta and I am scared I will be just like him.You've got time. Shake lose whatever has been holding you back and focus on being who/what you want to be. There is allot of material around here that can help you along the way. I'd advice you to carefully read and absorb the inner-game articles. Don't be afraid to make your own future. | /r/seduction | 10/05/12 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Club Bitches: The Sequel... read the whole thing ... I enjoyed the first installement but this is just goddamn genius. You're everything I aspire to be. You put pretty much everything I've got so far to shame. But don't worry, I'll catch up eventually. | /r/seduction | 09/05/12 09:53 PM |
| 1 | how do i do this?How to build attraction is fundamental to successful interaction with women. HOWEVER, one of the more important factors in building attraction is having your inner game sorted out. That is what in my opinion is your problem right now. I've picked up 3 posts from the "all about inner game" list that I think will help you the most. But I encourage you to get started and work your way through most of the sidebar material. This isn't easy, the material might seem huge but you will quickly find out t… | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 10:54 PM |
| 1 | how do i do this?also read the sidebar that shit is amazing for you I really recommend reading the stuff about inner game, that helped me allot and I believe it can help you The fact that you came here means you recognize the problem and want to get better. I'm confident that not only is it possible but that you will. | /r/seduction | 06/05/12 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I crashed and burned tonight.here is my epic 3step plan to not repeat this kind of stuff 1) read material in sidebar 2) embrace philosophy and make use of new found knowledge 3) be awesome and enjoy not having this happen to you anymore | /r/seduction | 30/04/12 09:18 PM |
| 1 | How long does it take on average to get into the friendzone?The friendzone doesn't really work that way but if you insist on putting a metric on it. From the second you meet a girl you have 2-5 min to get her interested/attracted or you will start sliding into it. | /r/seduction | 25/04/12 08:44 PM |
| 2 | FR of one of the best parties I've ever been toYou've just made writing out that wall of text worth it. I'm glad I could inspire someone else to get out and have fun. | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 09:44 PM |
| 3 | How do YOU get into a talkative mood?Indeed, ironically enough the easiest way to feel talkative is to start talking. | /r/seduction | 22/04/12 01:45 PM |
| 9 | FR of one of the best parties I've ever been toWell he's not really a dick, just doesn't have much of a spine and won't stand up for himself. But yea I doubt I will still be hanging out with him. Anyway thanks :) I'll try to post some more FR's in the future. I've been lurking/learning for ages now but only recently been having the courage to go out and apply. But I must say it's been working out wonderfully. | /r/seduction | 21/04/12 07:09 PM |
| 1 | A thank you note to this communitygood on you mate ;) | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Fucking Flakes.Did you really read and take in what's in the sidebar or gloss over before forgetting ? I mean no offence but you don't talk like a (aspiring) PuA. Not giving a fuck is seddit 101 yet you talk about dawning over the flakes. We learn how to create attraction and play the game yet you talk about "chicks needing to step up and realize better guys exist". In your writing you talk big but your posts basically come down to the same circle jerking whining and crying that the hivemind breeds and this su… | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 09:39 PM |
| 5 | Fucking Flakes.... have you even read the sidebar ? That mentality won't get you anywhere. Girls will just keep using you over and over again. Everything in your post points to you being a complete tool (flowers, doing nice things, poetry ???). You can have all the good looks in the world but I'm pretty sure you lack confidence no matter what you say. If you think you have even half the confidence you claim to have, read the sidebar, apply what you have just learned and reflect on how melodramatic and spineles… | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Fucking Flakes.What I would really advice is for you to take 30min and just sit down and read through the convo's with the flakes. Try to find a pattern. Try to analyse what generally sparked interest and what bored them. What reels them in and what turns them off. After you identify what keeps going wrong try to adapt and tailor your texts to these weaknesses. It is also possible that you screw up before the texting begins but from your post it doesn't sound like that's the case. | /r/seduction | 15/04/12 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Male Make Upheh I lol'ed but for those that can't read between the lines, unless you're Harvey Dent levels of fucked up you probably need more confidence instead of hiding behind make up. | /r/seduction | 20/03/12 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Why can't we be friends?hmm what about if you get a girlfriend or claim to have one ? then they would have to respect the "fact" that you're already taken right ? | /r/seduction | 17/03/12 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Seddit, what is your opinion on wingmen?Wingman are what I like to call a force multiplier. They will turn a good approach into an awesome one and a awesome one into a godly one. However it will make a bad one worse because the girl(s) will perceive the situation as 2 creeps hitting in her(them) instead of just one which will creep her out even more. Bottom line as far as I'm concerned is that it's definitely worth having a wingman. But only if he knows what he is doing. A bad wingman will just drag you down. | /r/seduction | 14/03/12 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Is there a nice way to tell a girl I no longer want to sleep with her?you make a very good point as I said I was just theorizing, your advice seems far better | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 03:59 PM |
| 3 | Is there a nice way to tell a girl I no longer want to sleep with her?kay this is just throwing an idea out there I have no idea how failproof handle this situation. What if you talk to her and give her a veeeery elaborate its not you its me talk. Start of with how long you've known each other and how you feel really comfortable talking to her. Then start talking a bit about yourself. Paint yourself as a bit insecure (sexually ?). Then finish of with, I'm not ready/scared to do this with you. Perhaps because you feel so connected or because of knowing her for so l… | /r/seduction | 10/03/12 03:47 PM |
| 32 | My friends keep trying to hook up with the chick i bring to partiesnot being friends with two rapists seems like a good plan regardless | /r/seduction | 08/03/12 04:39 PM |
| 5 | ring on finger : how to proceedignore it Heaps of girls wear them for cosmetic purposes, proceed as usual. Unless its like a plain gold band or something. There are certain types of rings that just scream marriage. | /r/seduction | 06/03/12 09:40 PM |
| 2 | Why can't we be friends?let me first tell you how lucky you are, plenty of folks out there would want to trade place's with you... I understand what you're saying but I just want you to be really clear about this. Now about that advice, one of the first things seddit teaches is be upfront. If you're attracted don't hide it and be confident. I think reverse engineering this principal should yield results. Perhaps verbally remind the girl she is a friend and you're not interested. However that is basically saying the gir… | /r/seduction | 04/03/12 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Tips for first datelisten to mr. 8legs and read up on the sidebar real goldmine of information ;) | /r/seduction | 04/03/12 03:03 AM |
| 3 | How theatre made everything infinitely simplerI actually do theater as well, it's a great idea for anybody trying to get better at picking up girls. You learn how to express yourself better and meet new people at the same time. I've met some of my closest friends there and had heaps of fun. | /r/seduction | 02/03/12 08:28 PM |
| 13 | How sticky are people's memories of the old you?This might sound rough but break loose. Don't let yourself get dragged down by the ghosts of your old self. Get new friends and make your new life awesome. I can tell you there is nothing more satisfying than running into your old friends when your having fun with your new ones and just see them being amazed at how you have changed. Unfortunately the only way they will ever truly see you in a new light is after you've cut them loose. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 12:09 AM |
| 17 | How to handle when a girl throws the "L" word at youPull a Han Solo ;) Say "I know" with the cheesiest grin you can muster. | /r/seduction | 25/02/12 12:01 AM |
| 8 | Every day I'm getting made fun of, getting insulted, getting picked on, etc. by co-workers, friends and people who then join in because I seem beta. Any advice on how to respond to these things and become more alpha in a group?quick guide: disregard shitty friends get new awesome friends enjoy new awesome life I know you need to still put up with coworkers. But just apply the golden rule of keeping work and private life separated. Work is work, play is play, don't mix them. | /r/seduction | 24/02/12 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Date this Saturday. Help?wear => try to wear as nice as possible without making you uncomfortable, for instance I may look nicer with a shirt than with just jeans and T-shirt. However I look even nicer in a tuxedo. But in a tuxedo I won't feel natural anymore and that will effect how I act (less relaxed and uncomfortable) so it would hurt my game. Therefore I will pick the shirt. eat => eat something you both like, also try not to go for a meal that is too heavy k-close => make it clear you are interested, escalate kino… | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 12:45 PM |
| 2 | Well... why doesn't it work?instead of "whatsapp'ing" them maybe try to be a bit more assertive. Don't play around, have a plan. Instead of "whatsup", try "hey, I'm going to see that new movie saturday. Feel like joining ?" I find this greatly reduces flaking. You're not asking her to go with you. You've already decided to go and are offering her a spot. Also perhaps wait just a bit longer. I usually wait 24 hours at the bare minimum. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 06:38 PM |
| 6 | God damnit, I don't know what to do when a girl grinds her body against mine.there is tea all over my keyboard now ... have an upvote | /r/seduction | 12/02/12 03:45 PM |
| 1 | I'm cockblocking myself right nowupvote or downvote ... I'm torn | /r/seduction | 02/12/11 06:06 PM |
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