how do i do this?

tris4992 · 2012-05-06T11:43:05+00:00

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2012-05-06T13:47:05+00:00

If you act "like a PUA" you are not very good PUA, imho. You need to define what YOU want to be. And then start on that path. Not mimic some frat guy with a cameracrew.

Set small achievable goals, but have a huge (but still achievable) goal in the end. For example: "I will work out 1 day a week for 2 months. Then 2 days a week for 4 months. And then 3 days a week for the rest of my entire life. After 3 years I WILL have a six-pack and rock hard ass."

The same with diet: Start out by making dinner one more time a week than you usually do. And increase the amount little by little, until you are happy making food for yourself all week, and getting take-away is a treat you give yourself once a month or something.

Same with sugary snacks, pop and potato chips and what not. I don't know how much you snack now, but cut it down by 1 day where you don't touch it. After a month, 2 days. Until you only have 1 day a week where you are allowed to snack.

It's all about achievable goals, and reaching those goals IS the prize in itself.

Hope you figure shit out. It was sad to read how twisted your view on life is.

lycosa2008 · 2012-05-06T13:36:23+00:00

you are exactly like me 2 years ago. i was addicted to video games, depressed, no social life and malnourished from eating fast food all day

Neil Strauss believes that "you shouldn't be yourself-be a better version of yourself"

i decided one day to take up a hobby, perhaps there's something you enjoy doing that you don't do enough often out never thought about doing it - a musical instrument, exercising or painting.

whilst this might not seem like a big change, it's a more realistic goal if you don't want to change everything at once. it helps get your mind off the negative sides of your life and be less depressed

i understand you don't want to become a pua, but Seddit is also to do with self improvement. read the stuff in the sidebar-it may be the most life-changing 30 minutes of your life

don't give up in life, always believe in yourself and things will fall into place over time

as said before, picking up women is a by product of Seddit-the real goal is to become a better person..good luck!

2012-05-06T15:50:25+00:00

The PUA archetype is meant to appeal to the broadest number of men and personalities possible. It's not the only way to attract women, it's just one way that gets results on a consistent basis that will work for the majority of men.

It seems like the resounding message of PU is to gain a real, honest sense of self-confidence and to strive for excellence in all of your pursuits. It's fairly easy to make the connection between handling all aspects of your life and having success with women. Gaining that confidence in life is more than half the battle, IMO.

k1ngk0ngwl · 2012-05-07T17:21:03+00:00

Go travel. It will change you. It will help interrupt your emotional cycles and you will become a more interesting person as a result. If you can't up and leave, start saving, set goals, and make a plan so you can focus on something other than how you feel.

Also, get some exercise. Even if it is walking through the park. Walk someone's dog. Anything. Getting out and being active will always bring immediate results. Meeting people, too. Meeting new people is stimulating.

They did experiments in the dark ages where they gave babies everything they needed except human contact. They died. As a general rule, people need human contact.

Title	how do i do this?
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Date	May 6, 2012 11:36 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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