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tromp-et/r/ExRedPill13/02/24 09:52 PM
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3

He could find a random friends (m/f) yes. But a friends with benefits situation requires more social skills that a normal friendship or normal relationship. Why would a woman going to have casual s*x with someone who’s inexperienced and super socially awkward? She’ll get nothing out of such a situation.. Only risks, no benefits for her…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 05:50 PM
6

He’s trying to find a friends with benefits though…. Finding a girlfriend should actually be easier than finding a friends with benefits, ESPECIALLY if you are autistic. A woman might want to be more understanding and patient with him if the end goal is a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 04:48 PM
2

What does that have to do with anything here?
/r/ExRedPill02/03/24 04:10 PM
39

No offense but would probably be easier and less complicated to find an actual girlfriend
/r/ExRedPill27/02/24 07:03 PM
13

The problem is that men that want to sleep around and then place demands on women’s body counts, are bad people. They are kind of telling on themselves: they view like they are degrading the women they are sleeping with, and still want to do it anyways. There is a sadistic element to that. If you truly feel high body counts on women are so bad and harmful (can be a fair view), then don’t participate in casually sleeping with all these women. Otherwise you are a massive psycho.
/r/ExRedPill24/02/24 08:28 PM
3

Yes. I’d walk away.
/r/ExRedPill23/02/24 12:11 AM
4

😂😂😂😂😂😂
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 09:35 PM
-8

Are you serious? Isn’t it completely obvious? Marriage is supposed to be a life long union to benefit the children. It gets really dangerous and unstable really quickly when one or both of the partners/parents sleep with random people outside of the marriage.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 08:21 PM
-13

Not from having sex, but from being able to easily have casual sex. That just doesn’t go well together with a serious relationship or marriage
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 08:11 PM
-5

It depends though. If he’s still in the same mindset, it can definitely be a problem when a woman is looking for a serious relationship or marriage. If he did some healing and maybe has been celibate for a while, it could be okay.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 06:31 PM
46

When he’s too smooth too quickly and tries to escalate sexually too quickly
/r/ExRedPill15/02/24 06:05 PM
11

Yes. It is kind of ironic how they are always hyping up “casually” dating 20 year olds when they are 30+ (just for sex) but then get butt hurt when a 20 year old monetizes on it 😂
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 03:08 PM
12

I agree. But this is not the red pill view. People that think porn is bad and is exploitative of women, are usually happy to see a woman getting out of the industry. They are happy to see her get married, have a family and a normal life. They don’t get all angry about that.
/r/ExRedPill14/02/24 01:57 AM
1

Haha, they are so weird. Watching porn: good Male porn producer making a lot of money: good Male straight porn actor: good Male gay porn actor: bad Female porn actor: bad - forever ruined Female onlyfans creator making a lot of money: the absolute worst of all evil
/r/ExRedPill08/02/24 01:48 AM
3

Thanks for countering it with your own personal experience and anecdotal takes then😅
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 06:15 PM
6

Even if women, on average, would prefer a penis size that’s slightly bigger than yours (hypothetically). Is this really the worst thing in the world? Why focus on this one detail, when you could look into 100s of other things that are important in a long term relationship?
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 02:09 PM
9

There is no wall. 80 year old people can date other 80 year olds. I do think it tends to get a little bit more difficult for women to find a good and suitable man when they are older, but it’s not like how the red pill is making it seem. I know plenty of women over 50 who got into new relationships after a divorce. The older women that stay single are often doing it on purpose.
/r/ExRedPill07/02/24 04:36 AM
10

They’re just mad. Some former porn star recently got married and had a baby (good for her!) and they these red pill guys were filled with rage. It’s amusing but kind of terrifying to watch their way of thinking. It’s like they want sex to be some very degrading thing done to women where women are permanently ruined by their penis. There can never be any growth or character development or repentance afterwards. Their penis can permanently mark and ruin a woman and this can never be recovered. Tha…
/r/ExRedPill06/02/24 10:44 PM
11

Yup, no real vision. He’s obsessed with the 20yo “304s” and pornstars, doing all these podcasts with them, taking pictures, partying, and then back to complaining about what they are doing and hating on them. He could do some podcasts with some older married Christian women/mothers (or whatever his ideal is), but nope. Back to the 20yo pornstars with fake boobs. Lmao.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/24 09:23 PM
23

Rollo and his obsession with girls younger than his daughter is the absolute worst. I remember the time he was trolled by Britney Venti about there supposedly being naked pictures of her out there and he really went with it and pretended to his audience he had the nudes. He hates women.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/24 07:12 PM
2

This is so true. Men don’t get this. Men would get into a relationship with the most incompatible and ugliest troll of a woman if it’s their only option even if he doesn’t really like her. For him it’s still better than being alone. Women are not like that. Getting into a (sexual) relationship is most costly to women.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 05:07 PM
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I know two sisters who are both in their late 40s and virgins. They are not conventionally attractive. They know this and seem to have accepted it for what it is. Both are happy and living their best lives. They have friends, nice houses, jobs, family, pets. They don’t seem to dwell over their lack of a man or sex, let alone demand anything.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:50 PM
8

Or you could work on yourself to make yourself more valuable to women (education, career, social skills, hygiene, styling, mental health, exercise, etc etc) and try to get into an actual meaningful and mutually beneficial relationship with a woman. Why a purely sexual encounter?
/r/ExRedPill16/01/24 04:46 PM
17

Also, I’m not sure if you did yet, but you can improve your looks to a certain degree. Good hygiene, dental care, skin care, hair cut, grooming, shoes and clothes that fit you well, exercise regularly.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:58 PM
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Learn to be happy for other people and focus on your own life. Comparison truly is the thief of joy. I’m chronically ill and used to be so jealous of healthy friends but I’ve learned to just love it for them and cheer them on and actually get a lot of pleasure out of that now.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/24 05:40 PM
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Generally speaking around equal age up to the man being slightly older leads to the most stable long term relationships. So based on that I’d say maybe her age -2 up to her age +5. But obviously there are a lot of other things more important for compatibility than age.
/r/ExRedPill13/01/24 02:14 AM
2

Look up the work of Laila Mickelwait. It’s shocking how much free porn there is out there where there is no consent for being filmed/uploaded, child porn, abuse, coercion, rapes. Personally I’d suggest to not look porn at all, but if you do make sure it’s ethical. Onlyfans is one of the better ways to do that.
/r/ExRedPill02/10/23 09:22 PM
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They should be good people. If you feel women being “run through” is so bad, then don’t run through them and don’t watch porn. Get some morals and be consistent.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/23 04:21 PM
57

These men are just bad people to be honest. They want to degrade women while at the same time shame these women for being degraded. It just shows a profound lack of morals.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/23 03:19 PM
26

It’s personal. It can be companionship, someone to build a legacy with, having a family, sex, arm candy, status, someone to have regular intellectual conversations with, a homemaker, sugar mommy, a therapist, or really just pure and genuine love.
/r/ExRedPill27/08/23 06:20 AM
6

You are 20! Very young. Work on yourself a bit first. Your education, social skills, career. You’ll find someone. Your height only matters for like 2% all things considered and you are not even short.
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 05:47 PM
3

Do you want to date her or do you want to be her friend?
/r/ExRedPill20/08/23 11:43 AM
-1

Marriage is for the children, not for personal happiness. Although I do think getting married to THE RIGHT PERSON would make you happier in the long run. But marriage for a large part is about self sacrifice to create the best possible outcome for your children.
/r/ExRedPill01/08/23 03:12 PM
1

Of course women are way more picky than men. I’ve never heard anyone say that’s not true lol. I could be friends with people ages 20 to 100, underweighted to morbidly obese, men or woman. Of course the bar to a romantic relationship is different than the bar to being friends. It’s not the same thing to “WomEn AlL JuST wAnT a ChAD”
/r/ExRedPill16/07/23 08:42 AM
1

I have a boyfriend.. of course I’m not interested in sexual or romantic advances from “friends”. If you are interested in a woman just ask her on a date to get to know her. If she says no, she’s not interested in you that way and you can move on if that’s what you want to do.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 11:03 PM
1

FWB is a contradiction in terms to me personally. I’d call what you are describing as casual dating or a sexual affair. It would have to end when one of you would get into a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill15/07/23 01:21 AM
5

Personally I don’t bother making new male friends anymore to avoid this risk. Female friends are great too and usually can get stronger without anything ever getting weird. It’s the better investment long term ;)
/r/ExRedPill14/07/23 10:55 AM
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Yes, but it has to be sincere from both sides. The scenario of a guy pretending to be friends with the intention to date/have sex is unfortunately very common.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/23 08:37 PM
10

There are roughly as many men as women, so it’s not possible for one gender to be in relationships more often unless it’s gay relationships. What you may be noticing is sampling bias. Also women are more often in relationships with men a bit older than them. So young men are single a bit more often than young women, and older women are single more often than older men.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/23 09:59 AM
1

You are making it sound like some great injustice
/r/ExRedPill02/07/23 08:20 PM
2

Of course not, but on average women will like dark triads less with age.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 05:11 PM
8

The things you stated are more true when you are dating very young (18-21) women. Once you are a bit older you’ll see emotional mature women actually appreciate different things.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/23 10:10 AM
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I’m a woman and personally I care. It’s not always the case but in my experience men with high body counts often don’t have good morals. They may have a habit of manipulating women into sex. They might be more likely to cheat. I have a boyfriend but if I didn’t I’d be very wary of getting into a relationship with a man with a high body count. I might be okay with it only if it happened when he was very young and he has since grown up.
/r/ExRedPill29/06/23 07:34 PM
1

Getting into a real relationship is very different from some superficial “smash of pass” video. 5 foot 8 won’t make you a male sex symbol but it’s pretty average in a lot of countries. Relationships are only for a small part about looks and physical attraction.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/23 03:42 PM
2

I agree! There is something inherently off when a full grown adult wants a romantic relationship with someone without a fully developed brain. I’m 29 now and I wouldn’t even be interested in a friendship with someone (m/f) under 23. Just can’t relate.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/23 01:08 PM
2

What are you looking for on dating apps?
/r/ExRedPill04/06/23 11:25 AM
15

Why do they get so angry at these women? They need them to get to 50 women to sleep around with right? There is some weird mental gymnastics going on there.
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 05:12 PM
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And then they rage at women on their show for sleeping around! Like, isn’t that what you wanted? How would it work statistically if men have to sleep with 50 women before marriage and women need to be a virgin?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/23 11:49 AM
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Also for someone taking such a moral high ground, maybe work on your language a bit. You just called multiple women a slut unprovoked. That’s not really all that moral.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:25 PM
10

You are confusing morality and legality. A lot of things widely accepted as immoral are not illegal. Do you want to make everything that you think is immoral illegal? Like smoking, cheating, lying, ghosting someone, buying and selling unhealthy foods? How would that even work legally?
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:23 PM
10

You are not making any sense. If I’m not for something it doesn’t directly mean I want to government to outlaw everyone else from doing it😆. And about abortion: if my mother would not have wanted to be pregnant for whatever reason, I would have been fine with her aborting me if that’s what she would have preferred. I would not have known anyways👍🏻.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 04:01 PM
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I’m pro choice but I would never get an abortion. Personally I think it’s wrong. But other women are allowed to have a different opinion and can decide about their own body. The government doesn’t have to get involved into that. That’s the concept of being pro choice.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 03:45 PM
15

Do you even know what pro-choice means? 😆
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 03:38 PM
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They are not looking for an equal relationship. I’m a woman and I had plenty of older men go after me when I was 20. Looking back on it all had something wrong with them. They were looking to exploit, take advantage, to dominate. Women ages 18-23 should be very aware and NEVER date anyone more than around 6 years older. In my experience that is around the cutoff. Older than that and it’s literally 100% creeps.
/r/ExRedPill30/05/23 01:07 AM
8

Exactly. Why have all these girls on if they are so awful that they will never find a husband anyways? Why even bother with that, what is the point. They could just have some successful married women in their 30s on, to give their perspective on relationships?
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 11:46 AM
7

Same recipe as F&F: Podcast hosts, in their mid 30s, raging at some scarcely clothed girls that dropped out of high school and do onlyfans. They always set them up with the same type of questions. Their listeners are men angry with women.
/r/ExRedPill23/05/23 02:11 AM
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I really don’t get these men that think casually sleeping around is harmful to women (it’s a fair view tbh) but then wanting to casually sleep around with women? How does that work in their minds? They want to go around harming others?
/r/ExRedPill07/05/23 08:13 PM
5

A lot of women want children. That’s a bit difficult to do without a stable relationship.
/r/ExRedPill26/04/23 08:23 PM
3

Honestly I think men and women dislike promiscuity equally in a partner. Simply put men might be worried a child isn’t theirs and women might be worried their man will produce some offspring with other women.
/r/ExRedPill24/04/23 11:46 AM
10

Because they are the ones who are complaining about their relationships most loudly
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 04:50 PM
1

My boyfriend is shorter than 185cm and he still has a girlfriend ;) Maybe your theory is wrong!
/r/ExRedPill19/04/23 11:04 AM
13

It’s not realistic at all because red pill men create the women they dislike. If every man would become red pilled everyone will be unhappy.
/r/ExRedPill17/04/23 10:10 AM
1

You need better friends. Tell him honestly you condemn his behavior and that’s why you will end the friendship. He’s most likely not a pedophile but he’s a predator and probably a lowlife loser.
/r/ExRedPill09/04/23 12:04 PM
4

No. I like smart, introverted, calm, easy going, low conflict type of men. Extroverted, outgoing, dominant type of men drain my energy levels too much
/r/ExRedPill07/04/23 06:57 PM
7

I know a man like this. Former womanizer, kind of narcissistic. He’s now married to a much younger woman who does not have his experience. They have a child together, she is being a house wife. He is cheating on her… multiple affairs… I would be very wary of this type of man. You might get hurt badly.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/23 07:15 PM
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I think there is a difference between younger girls and immature women, who might find it unattractive or weak when a man is vulnerable, and women, who generally like to have openness and good communication in a relationship.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/23 11:28 PM
29

One example is health problems taken more seriously when the patient is male. Women are more often gaslighted and diseases that mainly affect women get less funding for research.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/23 06:55 PM
5

You cannot tell intentions from 1 message.
/r/ExRedPill09/02/23 04:31 PM
1

Men are more desperate for sex and relationships. They are more likely to be on like 5 dating apps. Women almost never do that. They might be active on only 1 or maybe 2 apps, but not on literally every possible dating app in existence. Men are also more likely to want multiple (sexual) relationships. Women are more likely than men to be voluntarily celibate or single.
/r/ExRedPill08/02/23 04:42 PM
10

More options is not better when 95% of them will be very persistent in trying to sleep with you but will not take you seriously, won’t respect you (in case the man is much older) and don’t want to settle down. The older you get the higher percentage of your “dating pool” will take you seriously as an equal mate.
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 02:32 PM
13

More options doesn’t necessarily mean higher probability of finding a suitable mate
/r/ExRedPill01/02/23 11:19 AM
43

Yes 100%. For me dating at 20 was terrible because of the sheer amount of predatory, manipulative, narcissistic, red pilled, sex obsessed, older men who were going after me. It is very hard to filter that when you are so young and these men put on a great show for months.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 04:58 PM
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It might be true but why does it matter? You don’t have to gamify everything. It doesn’t matter if there are 39278544 men or 1345821 men or 50 men interested, you only need one. There will always be suitable options, even at 80.
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 04:26 PM
7

You can make a similar sort of list about modern men
/r/ExRedPill31/01/23 10:40 AM
5

You can change your outlook and you can change at least some and maybe all of your circumstances with persistence and patience. Do you have any sort of job at all?
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 04:37 PM
8

Even if some random (older) woman, that did absolutely nothing to them, is genuinely struggling in dating or life in some way, they are so hateful about it and they’ll all come in with this wall stuff? There seems to be just no empathy for women.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 11:17 AM
10

Or something about enjoying your cats when you are single
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 05:02 AM
14

They mainly fall back on personal attacks about either assumed promiscuity or about looks/age/market value. They are so simple.
/r/ExRedPill28/01/23 04:59 AM
2

What do you want to achieve here exactly? Nobody is going to tell you to go ahead with the surgery. You have body/height dysphoria. Maybe look into seeing a psychologist.
/r/ExRedPill27/01/23 12:34 PM
11

I feel like I read this same post a few days ago. You do not need surgery. You have an average height.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 11:03 PM
11

Relationships are only like 2% about sex. Once you get over 70 that’s probably closer to 0%.
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 03:44 PM
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For example when there is a problem the partner might be the first one to register it. It’s things like reminding your partner to go to the dentist when they maybe forgot. To motivate and help them to solve some conflict they might have. To spot when the partner is maybe a bit depressed and help them get out of it. When I’m in a flare with my chronic illness, my boyfriend helps with meals and looks out for me in that way. It’s pretty broad what it means. It kind of means to keep each other on tr…
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 02:23 PM
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To have someone to share life with. To have this one important person to talk to. Someone who looks out for me while I look out for him. Intimacy. To create a stable environment for future children (although due to health issues I’m not sure that will happen)
/r/ExRedPill26/01/23 01:44 PM
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Your height should not be that big of a problem in dating. You will still be taller than the average woman in your country. It’s not like you are 4 ft 11 which would limit your dating pool to a great extent. Please don’t obsess over it. A lot of women will be totally willing to date you if you have things going on for you. Are you kind? Do you have good communication skills? Smart? Educated? Decent career path? Do you take care of yourself physically and emotionally? Do you have some cool hobbie…
/r/ExRedPill23/01/23 09:53 PM
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I’m not convinced men having a vast quantity of sexual partners is a good signal to women. Is there any research on that? I’m a woman and I certainly don’t think about it that way. If a man has slept around a lot I would be worried he’s not going to be faithful to me. I’d be worried about him not being able to provide if he’s going to create 11 other competitive families. The best provider would be loyal.
/r/ExRedPill22/01/23 12:09 AM
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If these men truly believe casual sex and high body counts are bad for only women (fair enough) then they should not try to casually sleep with women either. Because apparently they think they are harming women by doing that. Intentionally harming others is not good. Basically they are admitting to being pieces of shit in their own minds.
/r/ExRedPill21/01/23 10:00 PM
1

Good point but anecdotally, it seems to be the husbands abandoning sick wives. Nurses that work with female cancer patients get prepared for it! Obviously most men will be there for their wife when she gets sick but it does seem to be mainly males that abandon a sick spouse. Maybe because sickness hurts more of the traditional female gender roles in a relationship (household, caregiver, having sex)
/r/ExRedPill20/01/23 11:25 PM
5

I agree! Dating a younger woman (or man!) is totally okay in certain situations but you have to be very careful with them, and make sure you are not exploiting naivety, causing trauma or making their life worse. Deliberately going after them to do exactly those things (red pill) is malevolent.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 12:57 PM
12

Teaching men to exploit way too young women. It would be a little less bad if they at least go after women their own age so she can make an informed decision. Directing all these toxicity to young women/girls, that can not possible know what they are up against, makes it so much worse. It’s exploitation.
/r/ExRedPill19/01/23 09:55 AM
25

Nowadays it’s all about teaching men to hurt young women, use them for sex and to “gain experience” and then complain about women being bitter, having “high notch counts” and trauma. This philosophy is literally the source of women having trauma with men and also they complain about it the most.
/r/ExRedPill17/01/23 11:48 PM
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It’s similar to taking feminism to an extreme. You’ll end up all bitter and resentful towards the opposite gender, causing your relationships and life to get worse. It can become a selffulfilling prophecy. It’s a lot better to be able to have a stable, equal and meaningful relationship with someone of the opposite gender.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/23 08:07 PM
6

It’s not all that simple. Look into divorce statistics for when a married person gets cancer or a serious disease. When a married woman gets cancer, divorce rates go up (Man more likely to leave her). When a married man gets cancer, divorce rates go down (woman takes care of sick husband). Men can “love” very opportunistically and only when it benefits them, just like women can do that.
/r/ExRedPill14/01/23 01:47 PM
1

The problem is often that a man will PRETEND to be a friend for a while, only for the entire “friendship” to stop when the woman doesn’t magically develop feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 10:06 PM
48

So true. I at 25 almost dated a 38 year old man who suddenly wanted to settle down and have children (after being a huge player and sleeping with 50+ women). I rejected him. Now he has found a girlfriend 8 years younger than him, who he lives with and she is pregnant. And guess what!!! He was still trying to pursue me, and probably others. How horrible for the woman pregnant with HIS child. I can’t imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 10:59 PM
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Male friends are often trouble in my opinion. They will pretend to be your “friend” but at some point they always want to date you or sleep with you. Usually when you are the most vulnerable 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 12:38 AM
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Single women with children should be even more wary of men than women without children. Some pedophiles actually target single women with children purely to get close to the children. It’s sick. Glad this mother and her daughter got out of that mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 07:19 PM
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Toxic, Britney Spears
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 05:07 PM
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