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Red Pill Theorytrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 05:12 PM
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Red Pill Theorytrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:09 AM
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Metatrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 02:17 PM
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Field Reporttrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill09/11/14 06:48 PM
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trophyboyfriend/r/askTRP05/02/14 02:51 PM
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Ask Red Pilltrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 02:33 AM
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Field Reporttrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 08:10 PM
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Metatrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:17 PM
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Ask Red Pilltrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 08:37 PM
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Ask Red Pilltrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 11:25 PM
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Red Pill Theorytrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 08:23 PM
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Field Reporttrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 08:39 PM
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Blue Pill Exampletrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 06:50 PM
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Metatrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 08:57 PM
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trophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 02:19 AM
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trophyboyfriend/r/askTRP19/05/14 05:12 PM
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Field Reporttrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:10 AM
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Metatrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 03:56 PM
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trophyboyfriend/r/askTRP15/05/14 02:07 AM
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Red Pill Theorytrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 05:53 PM
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trophyboyfriend/r/askTRP13/02/14 07:09 PM
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trophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill25/05/14 05:04 PM
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Ask Red Pilltrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 12:53 PM
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Red Pill Theorytrophyboyfriend/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 10:00 PM
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-12

So I have this really stupid concept of treating women like fellow human beings. I don't know where I went wrong.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:25 AM
-4

Don't I know it. I nearly punched her.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 06:24 AM
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Honestly, I agree with you. I don't think you throw out the code of honor amongst thieves just to chase pussy, especially with your friends. I saw a lot of that shit in one of the chapters at my fraternity. These guys were so busy cock-blocking and throwing each other under the bus and climbing over the corpse just to get a whiff of pussy, the thirst was palpable. Nobody wins in that scenario. There's a way to go about it where everybody who wants to wins, I've seen and experienced it and it's a…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:46 AM
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You can be a good friend and still game chicks. The two aren't mutually exclusive. For a primer on this, I suggest the Beige Phillip show. There's a reason Dante doesn't bang the chicks his friends are trying to hook up with.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:44 AM
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In the abstract, I get your point. She's not off-limits and is free to be 'empowered' by as many dicks as she wants. But my personal code doesn't allow for this kind of behaviour towards my friends, and because I have to act with integrity, I don't do it to them. I'll do my best to talk him up and get her interested but if she starts going for me, I put a stop to it - or just fuck her later when he's otherwise occupied - but I'll never rub his face in it. I respect my friends too much to pull it…
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 03:25 AM
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This isn't about working out or digesting the sidebar. There's been other women in this time, so it ain't one-itis, just a stupid 'everybody gets got' lesson I fucked up. It happens to everybody and I'm a little pissed, but this stuff happens. It's already motivated me to set up 2 dates and get one number today. But a friend who does that isn't a friend, I don't care how dark triad you are.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 01:51 AM
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Dude. She's 18 and since you've been married and are successful, that puts you somewhere ~30 or higher. What did you think she was doing? A virile 18 year old shows interest in you and you think it must be your 'tight game'? Next time use some forethought.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/15 06:32 PM
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Doesn't work that way. In every species on earth it's the male that has to do the the pea-cocking approach and the work. In essence, he has to prove his worth to the female because they are the ones who do the choosing. While you're standing off in the corner acting all aloof and mysterious, she's going home with the guy who approached and proved his worth. Are you sure you've read the sidebar? This means that at a bar or social situation, I have to prove myself better than every other guy who h…
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 03:10 PM
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http://www.sourpussclothing.com/media/catalog/product/cache/1/image/9df78eab33525d08d6e5fb8d27136e95/s/o/sourpuss_hold_fast_greeting_card.jpg http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-HzrtXkCAr9c/T6z6TW6-uiI/AAAAAAAADXY/YVy3i36sPfc/s1600/Hold-Fast-Tattoos-1.jpg http://th02.deviantart.net/fs70/200H/i/2012/190/a/b/angel_or_devil_tattoo_by_thedeadfox-d56mgum.jpg
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 04:10 PM
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It wasn't an open though. It was after some convo, but he slipped it in all natural-like (that's what she said) still, good point.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/14 02:41 PM
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Pro-tip: I find brown leather shoes go better with jeans (and a brown belt). As long as it's not the same shade as the sportcoat, you should be able to do it.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 04:29 PM
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Like most philosophies, there are good things to pull out of the PUA stuff and good things to learn about the 'game' method. But they're both useful. For example, the first recommendation of everything even remotely pua I've read is, 'approach and talk to women.' Which is basically the golden ticket. The more women you talk to, the more practice you get and the higher your odds when screening for receptiveness. The idea with the mystery method is it's basically a step-by-step method for, let's f…
/r/TheRedPill22/05/14 03:12 PM
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So what's the play here then? Understanding that women crave attention, if you give them none, they'll find somebody who will. If you give them some without - I assume - anything substantial to back it up, you'll become a beta orbiter or just be wasting your time.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 01:07 PM
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Small talk, usually. Trying to find some common ground to try and get something started. Though they've usually made up their mind before I even open my mouth. What do they say... Within 7 seconds or something?
/r/askTRP20/05/14 01:12 AM
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Yeah. I did. These stunned cunts gave the old, 'yeah, that's great, don't fucking care, ugly boy.' look and went back to throwing pheremones at him.
/r/askTRP19/05/14 08:17 PM
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Congrats on the bang. But I do hate you a bit. That's far and away the most depressing thing I've read all weekend.... it just highlights how far my game needs to come before I can even think of pulling that shit off.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 04:55 PM
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Close. But the true number is between 5,000 and 10,000.
/r/TheRedPill15/05/14 06:19 PM
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You show me a gorgeous woman, and I'll show you a man sick of her shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/14 02:32 PM
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It's 'grad school.' Two words. You'd think with your lofty education, you'd have been able to figure that bit out. And don't even get me started on the grammar. What are the entrance requirements for post-grad at your college, the ability to fog a mirror?
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:57 PM
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Isn't there a whole section in "No More Mr. Nice Guy" where he writes about the "As soon as..." phenomenon, and how it's self-defeating? I'll date as soon as I lose x pounds, or get x job, or get x thing straightened out. That list of 10 things reads basically like the opposite of that. The author's got nice enough tits though, but looks to be about 40. I wouldn't be surprised if she's early-to-mid 30s, but she looks like a piece of shoe leather!
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:39 PM
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650 words. Minimalist? I think not.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/14 12:32 PM
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Well, you could try logic. For the same reason all those cocks she rode in her 20s 'meant nothing to her because she CHOSE you after all' you can say that strange pussy meant nothing to you. After all, you chose her. Or you can pre-emptively break up with her because while she may be one in a million, she's also one of a million.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 05:13 PM
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How do I get him to understand that his value as a man is more than his ability to get laid? Apparently around these parts, your value as a man is only in your ability to get laid. Everything else is secondary. Everything we do: work on yourself, dress better, lift weights, make money, increase smv has the end goal of 'fucking bitches.'
/r/TheRedPill09/04/14 03:04 PM
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BENCHING a full rep. Which means bar to chest.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:37 PM
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You wouldn't know that from the responses......
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:37 PM
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Yeah, you're right. It was 14% a couple of months ago. I had it checked yesterday and was 16%. So I'm still a fat guy, but less of a fat guy than I was at the start. And good job at being able to out-lift me I guess... you want a cookie or something?
/r/TheRedPill06/04/14 01:36 PM
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Cool story bro.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 07:26 PM
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Oh shit, I missed that part. Whoops.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:31 PM
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Here's the thing about the gym: guys who look like they're on the gear, probably are. And creatine is $20 a tub, so everybody is using it because it swells your muscles. Your genetics may allow you to put on strength but your muscles are lean so you don't get the size. Personally, I'd rather be strong and lean than bulky and buff because if you have size and muscle and you stop working out, it turns to shit. Skinny guys just have it fall off.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:17 PM
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I'm not going to go so far as to call bullshit, but I hit the gym 3 times a week at peak time, and I think I can count on 2 hands the number of guys I've seen squatting 3+ plates with hips going below parallel or deadlifting 4+ without lifting straps and using proper form or benching 3+ plates with the bar to the chest. And to give some perspective, the elite bench for a 200-pounder is 360. That's the bar, and 3 45lb plates plus 1 25lb plate per side. I think I know 2 guys who can do that. Even …
/r/TheRedPill04/04/14 03:06 PM
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Well, because I'm the OP and enjoy the discussion.....
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 05:18 PM
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And your point? My whole point is it doesn't matter, and the amount of vitriol and bitterness here (on the macro level, not necessarily from you) is a waste of mental energy. It's toxic and taxing and just leads to more bitterness and less success.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:05 PM
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It's misplaced bitterness and trying too hard. We've all been in the situation where we're like "Damn, i really want to fuck that girl over there, but she doesn't want to screw me. Must be her." And it's pointless. Don't get mad at a woman for not wanting to fuck you. Go find one that DOES want to bang you, and you've fought half the battle.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:02 PM
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Whether or not your statement is accurate, I don't see the point of stressing over it. That was my whole point: why should I care whether or not a stranger lives with regret? The only lesson I have to learn here is how to spot one and how to avoid getting trapped. Anything else is live and let live. Let some other idiot deal with it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 04:00 PM
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For what it's worth, when I was young I was told (by my mother no less) that a woman who sleeps around doesn't like or respect herself much. And tbh nothing I've seen has changed my mind about that. But for every shoe there is a foot, and I've known a bunch of reformed carousel-riders who now have a hubby and a little brood of their own. They've basically suffered no consequences for getting 3 dicks a night for 10 years. I wouldn't trade places with her husband, but I am a bit bitter that I wasn…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:42 PM
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It's a literary flair. Like the semi-colon. Not necessary, but when used correctly can add to the writing.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 03:26 PM
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Pedant alert: proper use is 'per se'
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 01:06 PM
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So? How does it enrich you knowing that? Does it make you happy or satisfied knowing that they fail step 2? Or is it bitterness that they're not doing step 2 with you? Seriously bud, It.Does.Not.Matter. We are free to make our own decisions, and if a woman wants to do that, that's her choice regardless of how you feel about it.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 12:39 PM
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I'm stealing that and putting it in the OP. Just thought you should know.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:43 AM
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So? What does that matter to you? Who gives a shit if she spends her life miserable and unfulfilled? As long as it's not miserable and unfulfilled with you, why waste the mental energy?
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:35 AM
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Cool story bro.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:19 AM
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You seem to know a lot about the bro-frat lifestyle. If so, you should know that those who brag about how much they're getting laid are never the ones actually getting laid.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/14 02:16 AM
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My kindness is the most cruel thing I can do to you, because without challenge you become a mediocre man. Interesting line. Makes you wonder whether the men who have looked at women, the games they play and the shit they do, gone fuck this noise, I'm out, and gone their own way are missing something. Maybe the sole purpose of women on the planet is to test us to make us prove ourselves worthy.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 08:01 PM
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Forgot the most important one: "Between men and women there is no friendship possible. There is passion, enmity, worship, love, but no friendship." - Oscar Wilde
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:15 PM
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Was wondering what all the bullshit on the banner and front page was about. Well done, sir.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 04:29 PM
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What Pook is trying to say (but never quite gets around to saying it) is that sometimes 'good enough' is good enough. You don't need one more rep, you don't need 6-pack abs to go out and enjoy yourself and meet women. One of the traps we fall into is the 'if I were/as soon as...' trap, and it's self-limiting. You take something in your life you have control over: your weight, your non-genetic looks, your clothes etc. Then you say, "Well, I'll date as soon as I hit x goal." Or "When I get x net w…
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 04:27 PM
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The big 6 - bench, squat, deadlift, standing military press, rows, and pullups. Do those and you will get strong. You have to do it for you because it's not a miracle cure-all. Getting into shape won't magically make women start hitting on you, or even notice you. Case in point: I dropped 25 lbs, have 12% body fat, have a visible 4-pack now, can DL 360lbs.... do women check me out more? Nope. Do they approach me more? Nope. Do they even notice me more? Only in that there's a big scary-looking gu…
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:23 PM
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Sincerity is key. Once you can learn to fake that, you've got it made.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 03:17 PM
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Well I'm almost there.... a year and a day less about 3 weeks.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/14 09:53 PM
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Gear: the only supplement that works. I remember seeing a demotivational poster about that somewhere.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:48 PM
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Easy. Avoid them. The supplement industry is a non-regulated industry. Which means they can make wahtever claims they want. Your protein powder? How do you know each scoop contains waht's on the label? Your pills? How do you know the dosage in each capsule? It's a multi-billion-dollar snake-oil scam. There are really only 3 'supplements' you might want: Cod liver oil (vitamin a, d and omega 3... your fish oil NEEDS all three of these in order for correct synthesis) Vitamin D if you live in a nor…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 05:47 PM
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sin of echo chamber and groupthink. Use your brain. What has better results, acting like you're playing from a script (if I do a, and she does b, then I'll do c, but if she does d then do f), or talking, being natural, taking the wins and losses and developing a technique that works for you?
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:36 PM
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Right. And that's why my reasoning works perfectly: you forgot something crucially important about LMR. Is pushing through LMR really worth the possibility of misinterpreting the signs? What if instead of a test it's actually her saying no? Always be selfish and thinking of your best interests. Are you really willing to risk a rape accusation to get your dick wet? If so, you're dumber than a second coat of paint. No broad is worth that, no matter what. As a policy, 'no means no' is a pretty good…
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:11 PM
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Completely agree with this actually. Do you want to know the single most important 'game hack' you can do, and why all PUA methods work? The first lesson is always, 'go talk to women.' That's it. That's all you need. No tricks, no lines, no pissy attitudes. Just say hi. Some will be interested, some won't. Beige Philip: the best game is no game.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/14 02:05 PM
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Seriously, you should give up after the first 'no.' It tells you she's either a) not really interested or b) a grade-a game-player. Why beat your head against a wall? Do you really have the time or the patience to deal with that? I'd rather just go to the next woman. Odds are she might want to engage more with me, and finding a woman who's actually open to talking to you is way more than half the battle. You already have her interest.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/14 09:11 PM
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That feeling of victory (the plate) rather than capitulation/admitting defeat (the ho).
/r/TheRedPill26/03/14 01:12 PM
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The book No More Mr. Nice Guy has some good advice about how to communicate this stuff in a way that doesn't sound whiny or bitchy but in a method that conveys: this is how i'm feeling, I don't like it.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:47 PM
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Swing and a miss. The author completely misses the point of RP. He's still trying to modify his behavior to attract a woman. Backwards. The goal is not improve yourself to bag more women. The goal is improve yourself, because. Full stop. Everything, everything EVERYTHING follows from there.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/14 06:27 PM
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Not any of the ones I know currently, no. They're either coworkers or neighbors and are are off-limits, full stop. I don't like women having that kind of access to me.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 07:01 PM
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But that would be like... being the other fwb right? Or she's tired of the original fwb and is looking to trade up? I understand where you're going with this, but I also just felt my nuts shrivel a bit at the thought of being yet another notch for a chick. I'm absolutely better than that.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 05:41 PM
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Not trying to be a hater, it's I just don't really understand the mentality of a FWB arrangement, nor why somebody would want a relationship analogue without an actual relationship attached. Either be single and learn to be okay with it (it's not as difficult as it seems) or find somebody you're compatible with. It seems to me that sex without attachment is more or less masturbation (with more effort). And you just KNOW somebody is going to catch feelings as a result, because it's how we're wire…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 04:38 PM
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Also, why would you be wasting your time with someone you know isn't a good relationship match but is hot? Seems to me that a better investment is to better yourself or wait until somebody more compatible comes along....
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 04:36 PM
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It was invited. I asked a question in the OP.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 04:34 PM
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I'll repost a similar response I made above: My next question, I suppose, is what's the appeal of fuck buddies vs. an actual relationship? Given what I understand of fwb arrangements, why wouldn't you want to have sex within the context of either a ONS or a real relationship? It seems like the sexual version of adult adolescence. "I still want to have reliable sex, but without all the icky strings and responsibilities of a relationship and feelings or the possibility of putting myself out there …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:40 PM
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Fair enough and thanks for the answer. My next question, I suppose, is what's the appeal of fuck buddies vs. an actual relationship? Given what I understand of fwb arrangements, why wouldn't you want to have sex within the context of either a ONS or a real relationship? It seems like the sexual version of adult adolescence. "I still want to have reliable sex, but without all the icky strings and responsibilities of a relationship and the possibility of putting myself out there to get hurt." Why …
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 03:37 PM
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I've met 3 in the last 2 months alone. None are plates, just women I interact with. One was all, 'dating is too much work' so she found a fuck buddy (has since I think gotten a bf), the second has a fwb but is hoping he catches feelings. She knows it's not going to happen but doesn't have the courage to cut the string. The second got dumped from a ltr and within a month had a fuck-buddy.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 12:34 PM
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Has the opposite effect on me. I think to myself, "Either you're fucking till someone else better comes along, because why not, or you're hoping he catches feelings and you start dating." But that could be me projecting.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 11:56 AM
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Thanks for that, but I'm not sleeping with any of them. They're either coworkers or neighbors, both of which I consider off-limits for my sanity and focus. I have communicated this to them. Ego shielding do you think?
/r/TheRedPill19/03/14 11:52 AM
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So what's the problem here... the 8 things this guy talks about actually do seem to make sense. Some of his other stuff, while not being PUA-ey (the 'checklist' method that the PUAs use) seems to be pretty good coaching as well. Is it because you find out that he's not the PUA you thought he was, or do you just not buy into the advice he's giving?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 04:39 PM
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It won't. Women still control access to sex, period. Whether or not men are fixed is irrelevant.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/14 03:29 PM
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I'll only do a wall of text if it's something serious. But for the most part, I don't want to bitch. Give background, get to the point, ask the question.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 01:34 AM
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Right. So while you're busy shutting up and not saying anything, your chick is going to go fuck the loudmouth center-of-attention over there by the bar.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 11:22 PM
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False study. Everybody know a Canadians aren't real people.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/14 02:45 PM
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Don't sweat it bud, I've lost count of the number of times a woman has shown interest and I've been too ignorant/unfocused/insecure/oblivious to realize it. Until about an hour or a day later when it finally clicks. "Ooooh... fuck me.... Iiiiiiii'm dumb."
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 04:16 PM
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Quote from one of the comments: Men's tears do powerful things. Also quote: There is something about seeing a man who has been a rock for so many people cry. Possibly because we don't do it often (or at all). We don't cry, we're not supposed to, at least not in public. Why don't women's tears do powerful things? Because they cry at everything!
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 03:47 PM
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A good 60-70% of the people who post on this sub, I'm guessing... and that's probably being generous.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 01:04 PM
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Who the fuck cares about facebook 'likes'? And more importantly, why would you possibly care about what some chick on your facebook posts? Seriously, who gives a shit? Does it affect your day-to-day life? Is it something you can control? Realistically, can you do anything about it? If the answer is no, you ignore the fuck out of it and go about your life. .....seriously... fucking 'likes'?? Really?!
/r/TheRedPill14/03/14 01:01 PM
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"How badly does this affect women?" "Like, ew....I just got blood and brains all over my Jimmy Choo's." "I know! Seriously, like, why can't they just take a bottle of pills like a normal person?!"
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 08:58 PM
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Good goals. A word of caution about supplements: the 'supplement' industry is unregulated to my knowledge. Which means they could be selling you a tub of garbage and you wouldn't know. Tread carefully. Outside of vitamin D and Cod Liver Oil (and imo it must be cod liver oil rather than generic 'fish oil' or other type of fish), I've never noticed other supplements do anything.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 03:08 PM
1

googling mindfulness in plain english You mean to find the book?
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:28 PM
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Thanks, and that's good advice. Patrice was coming at it with too much anger and rage in my opinion. Not that he wasn't correct, but his 'righteous anger' doesn't really mesh with my way of looking at the world. I'm already working my way through the Beige Phillip podcasts, and a lot of what they say makes sense. At this point all it takes is practice and melding the knowledge to my personality (rather than changing my personality to the knowledge).
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:28 PM
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At this point in my life, I just don't see the appeal of holding myself hostage with the ransom being half my stuff.... I assume if I meet a woman worthy enough that might change, but as it sits currently... pass.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 02:23 PM
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Well this is sort of the 'next thing' for me. I did judo for 4 years when I was younger, then wrestled for 3 years in jr high school, hockey for like 8, football (handegg) for 4, karate for 1 (didn't care for it). I sort of like to do something for 3-5 years, put it aside then do something else. Sailing and bjj are mutually exclusive time- and cost-wise this season, so I'll have to pick one or the other. I could probably do both, but it wouldn't leave much extra time for anything else. I enjoy m…
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 01:12 PM
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What is the average divorce rate among the general population? around 1 in 3, or 33%? All this tells us is that footballers are the same as everybody else.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 01:00 PM
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Doesn't really matter, as long as your shoulders are back, head's up and chest is out. If you're having a hard time visualizing it, try just rolling your shoulders forwards-up-back-down. It'll naturally jut your chest out but won't look like you're posing.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 12:55 PM
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Lost 50% of my existing body fat % in the last 6 mos. 4% more to go. Taking up sailing in the spring If sailing is a bust, brazilian jiu-jitsu Practicing meditation (to see what the deal is) Riding my bicycle every day to and from work Every paycheque I try and buy a new item of clothing for my wardrobe since none of my clothes fit anymore Looking for work that will bump me into the 100k/yr club Stopped trying to modify my behaviour to impress women. If they're interested, let 'em proove it.
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 12:51 PM
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I agree. I use this as my own shit test to see if she's deserving of a second date.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 07:50 PM
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One of the greatest lessons you can learn as a man is how to get your woman off. If you can give her consistent orgasms, your relationship and life improves by orders of magnitude. Sex no longer becomes something she has to endure, and she actually wants it more because you've 'found her combination.' I don't know about many of you guys, but I only get one 'oh' then I have to wait a bit. For those playing the home game, that's called the refractory period. Now, your average woman can have 2, or …
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:26 AM
2

I understand where you're both coming from on this, but it's never an either/or situation. I've ended up fucking and dating a woman who I've paid for on the first date and I've ended up empty-handed and empty-walleted after paying. As for my results, it's a bit of a mixed bag. I was out of the game for about 5 years, and now I'm trying to get back in. Thus far, I've gotten pretty good at approaching, getting the digits, and arranging the first date, but I'm having rather less luck turning that i…
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 01:39 AM
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I think the video misrepresents the problem, to be honest. A lot of the way we socialize boys is wrong. They neither have a stable masculine presence nor a good role model to look up to (read: idolizing NBA players, rappers, etc etc - the wrong type of men). There's nothing wrong with teaching little boys to control their emotions. There's nothing wrong with teaching them to channel their aggression into sports. There's nothing wrong with teaching them that their aggression is a natural part of …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 05:35 PM
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As far as paying for the date goes... I'm of two minds on the practice. On the one hand, if the bill comes and she makes no effort to even reach for the wallet or offer, I'm sort of stuck, but she won't get a second date. If on the other hand she reaches for the wallet and offers to pay - and the date is not looking like it's getting to a second date anyhow - I'll usually let her pay her half and consider myself lucky I didn't double-down. If the date has gone great, there are sparks, I'll usual…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 05:28 PM
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If you behave as the OP describes, the woman becomes to see you as a 'girlfriend' or 'like her brother' rather than as a sexual being. If your intent is to date or have sex, you can't behave as a 'friend.'
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 01:41 PM
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Little bit ;-) It reminded me of a conversation I was having with a date last night. She is a regular rock climber and was telling me how disappointed she was when, after her male climbing buddy asked her out and she said no, he didn't want to climb with her again. I only spent about a minute trying to explain to her that "A man is only talking with you because he finds you attractive." 3 guesses as to how well that went....
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 01:39 PM
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You think she could just be happy that her friend has contacted her again? Women get really hurt and confused when they lose a girlfriend.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 11:53 AM
2

And here's the best... we can't cry or show weakness in front of our woman, because it will cause her to lose respect for us. But what's the most common accusation? "You have no feelings! Why won't you just tell me your feelings?"
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 03:41 PM
2

Men will do damn near anything for pussy. I feel like the first rule should be "Men will do damn near anything for pussy. Stop it. Have some dignity, man."
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 03:32 PM
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Better question: have you ever dated a sane woman?
/r/TheRedPill09/03/14 03:30 PM
5

Those Germans have a word for everything!
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 07:47 PM
2

Join a gym and become a regular ---> 3-4 times a week for several months. Get so you recognize the staff (and they recognize you) and other people who work out there. It's less about looking buff than it is about just being recognized by the regulars. A simple nod to people you recognize will eventually do it (Hey, I see you here working out, I'm also working out regularly, I acknowledge your existence here). Then when you have established yourself and are comfortable, start asking these guys wh…
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:22 PM
1

Hey Dox, since we're men it's worth our while to continuously reevaluate our theories based on experience. It's worth considering whether we match our theory to reality or our reality to the theory.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:19 PM
5

Bud, NOBODY wants to see you in a speedo. Consider it a public service.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:04 PM
5

The only way I can stare at her ass is by being behind her... so how does she know I'm staring at her ass? Are other woman spying, then running up to her and telling her?
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:03 PM
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oldschool redpill Focus on yourself, not the broad.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 09:38 PM
1

Agreed. It's much better to have integrity to yourself.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:28 PM
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Yeah, personal preference. I'm tired of teaching her. Now, obviously I don't want a knob-gobbling harlot, but I don't want to be her 'first' anything anymore (unless it's first sex thing beyond 'sex'). There tends to be too much attachment and other emotions. I'd rather have a woman who knows herself and knows what she likes and then is willing to push the boundaries, but I'd like a baseline above 0.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 08:26 PM
4

Unless she's a virgin (redflag) or has never been dumped (REDREDREDflag), she will always be somebody else's left-overs. And unless you are a virgin or have never been dumped, so will you. One of the things that gets glossed over here is the harsh truth and reality of one simple thing: SHE CHOOSES WHO SHE'LL SLEEP WITH All the posturing and game and working out is to increase your chances that she will 'choose' you over some other guy. There is really no other way to view this. You can only incr…
/r/TheRedPill06/03/14 05:33 PM
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Stop. Plenty of kids have their parents give shit to them and they piss it all away on drugs and booze. If this kid's being truthful, then it looks like he - yes - had some help from the folks, and probably leveraged some of their connections for the web design business. But the SAT was his work, the scholarship applications were his work and I assume maintaining the GPA to keep said scholarships was his hard work too. As a matter of fact, if I had to guess, he probably spent more time in colleg…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 01:54 PM
1

Got ya beat. Not only have I heard that one before, I've done that one before. I don't recommend it.
/r/TheRedPill03/03/14 11:34 PM
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uh what? Did you look through the pics? There's at least one fatty. The 43 year old broad. She's the proof that men will fuck anything.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/14 04:09 PM
1

Yeah, I forgot how awesome this show is. Hellooooo, Netflix!
/r/TheRedPill01/03/14 06:29 PM
0

My take away is that she is putting brunt of the consequences of the interaction solely on you and how you handle it. Which is solipsism at its best. That's not solipsism, that's just the way it is. We are the men, we are the ones that have to approach, we are the ones that have to put our ego on the line from approach, to getting the number, to first date, to sex. Everything. And at any point during the interaction, she can change her mind. That is a woman's prerogative sadly.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 04:45 PM
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Most of these are Briffault's Law writ large. I'm willing to buy into the validity of most of these. Ultimately, no matter how much we don't like it, the woman is the arbiter of a sexual encounter.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 04:21 PM
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The first paragraph where I said "too much hate for women, this concerns me." counted as concern trolling. So I deleted it. The rest is too good to have it removed.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/14 04:56 AM
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Happy to help. I was starting to get pissed at the lack of 'self-help' topics and all the 'Fuck bitches! They suck!' posts.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 09:56 PM
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It's situational. When you see a pretty woman in your day-to-day life, why wouldn't you say hi? But if you're at a bar, and you've just seen 6 guys hit on a chick, do you really want to be the 7th? There are ways to approach this too. Be patient, show mastery. Make eye contact, maybe give her a small applause when she dismisses a guy... stuff like that. By not doing what everybody else is (showing patience) you set yourself apart.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 09:41 PM
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You must have respect. If a woman does not respect you, she will not sleep with you.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 08:26 PM
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Dude, I still regularly fail at all three of these. I think we all do.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 06:43 PM
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When you're in an elevator, never lean against the wall, don't stand at the side unless you have to either. Feet square, chest out, head up, dead center of the car if possible. Take up space.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 05:26 PM
1

That's pretty good, all things considered. At least you're getting sex. I can't even bring myself to try and bang them (to my eternal shame).
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 05:05 PM
1

The most recent is, "Well, I'm pretty." Though it's usually just blank stares and confusion, like it's never occurred to her to be anything other than a pretty hole. I swear, my biggest mistake of the last 6 years dealing with women is treating them like a decent human being. Apparently, they don't like that too much.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 01:34 PM
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I think it's less about inner game and more about what these guys have been through. I know a bunch of undergrad and graduates in the STEM fields, and their whole mindset is, "Women never wanted anything to do with me then, so why would I want anything to do with them now?" And to a certain extent I agree with them. While these bitches are off fucking Johnny Caveman in the corner over there, these guys are studying and making something of themselves. When the hypergamy kicks in, why in god's nam…
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 01:29 PM
1

You're damned if you do, but you're double-damned if you don't. So you might as well do.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 01:17 PM
3

Good response. By 'object' I suppose I mean she has to be objectified because if you don't, you'll invest too much and be too injured by a rejection.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 04:53 PM
2

I tried to keep the question as open-ended as possible to let people have their own interpretations and stimulate discussion. But thanks for the feedback (I may have to revise my initial post). It seems to me like the best take-away from TRP and its PUA counterparts and all the literature is to 'just talk to women.'
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 04:52 PM
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As it applies to dating and seduction, maybe the most important take-away from all the material is, "go talk to women." The more you approach, the higher your odds of success. Maybe the method doesn't matter so much as the action?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 04:07 PM
2

Actually, I found this to be a pretty good resource. Nothing groundbreaking, true, but it's always nice to have a reminder. As a rule, you should always listen to what older, more experienced men have to day. Don't necessarily believe and implement it, but they will always have more experience than you do by dint of being older. You can never go wrong by listening to advice with a critical ear.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 01:31 PM
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Great post, OP. And something I've been struggling to articulate lately. I feel like - literally - there is nothing missing in my life that a woman can provide except sex. Need companionship? Get a dog. Want friendship? I have friends. Cooking/cleaning/laundry? I can do all that myself. Do you ever get that? Best question I've found on recent dates: "What can you do to enhance my life besides be a hole to fill, and take my time and money?"
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 01:25 PM
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I know, pretty basic stuff, eh? But the strange thing is, common sense isn't all that common. I see a hot chick I literally sit across from at work, and I have to do everything short of punching myself in the balls to remind myself to ignore her.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 11:10 PM
1

If you have to debase yourself, or cheat yourself, or sell yourself short for the sake of pussy, what have you accomplished? DM;HS? How about finding women worth fucking? That's the real challenge.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 04:07 PM
2

stand amongst the dead and ask them if honour matters They are dead, so I don't care about their opinion. Honour matters to those who are still alive, so don't give me that crap. My method of being a better man is to live a forthright and honourable life, come what may.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 12:31 PM
2

Naw. Even if bitches have no honour, I do. And whether I get laid or not, I still have to face myself the next morning. Knowing I blatantly lied just to get poon is a step I won't take. Let some other chump put up with her bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/14 02:31 AM
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No, I nexted her over her bullshit entitlement complex. I'm not jumping through hoops for a bitch who won't even pretend to be coy.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 09:03 PM
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Got the digits on V-Day at a local bar. Asked the girl out last week, and within the first 45 minutes - I shit you not - she’s all, “so how much do you make? I was out with this guy on Tuesday who drives and Audi makes 150k/year. I only date guys who make more than 100k/year. I’m pretty, so I can do that stuff.” So I made her buy me a beer and told her to hit the bricks. The date (if you can call it that) cost me nothing but time. She’s definitely not entitled to my time or money with that attit…
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 08:45 PM
0

Anybody have stats on how long sperm can live outside your body/hers? I'm a bit skeptical about the 'used condom spermjacking' talk. According to the Mayo clinic and a quick Google search, it's a couple of hours if left in semen (I assume inside the condom). Longer if frozen. It seems like a low-probability chance of success if you go that way. That's why there are so many of them - they're delicate.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 07:29 PM
1

OP, try and avoid BMI. It's not a good measure of size since muscle weighs more than fat. And if you have dense bones.... well... Instead, go for body fat. Try and stay below 14%, and the best is 8-12%. This is a good chart
/r/TheRedPill24/02/14 06:41 PM
4

Pook? That you?
/r/TheRedPill23/02/14 03:21 PM
35

In a world of female independence and limitless options, traditional family life is both less attractive and more elusive — for men and women alike — than it used to be. Funny, women are now told that they can do and be anything they want to. Men? We have the same 3 choices we've always had: we can go to work, we can go to war, or we can go to jail.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:31 PM
9

This just makes me sad. Either this is a pity party, or all women are neurotic and messed up, or we're all neurotic and messed up. It does lead me to think that the trivialization of sex is far more damaging then we like to pretend it is. I read a lot of sad, lonely, broken people on this.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 02:54 PM
13

"The world breaks everyone, and afterward many are strong at the broken places." - Ernest Hemingway "He conquers who endures." -Persius "Here's to wives and sweethearts, may they never meet." - Royal Navy toast for Saturday
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 02:03 PM
3

Speaking of... Season 2 is out today!! Hmmm... go out and chase pussy or watch HoC.... go out and chase pussy or watch HoC....
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 01:52 PM
1

I seriously started doing this mid-October, twice a week for an hour. And I started cutting back a bit on the garbage food like pop and chips (though I still have cheat days). The first bit is the easy part since your metabolism gets goosed and you burn fat quickly. The lower your bf%, the harder it becomes to burn that last little bit. I want to get to around 10% too. At this point, if I really want quicker results, I'll need to seriously modify my diet. I'm not really keen on that quite yet si…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 07:12 PM
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To be fair, GLO, sometimes your trainer is simply shit and you have to say no for your health. I went for a 'free training session' and the asshole wanted me to do barbell squats on a swiss ball. I ain't blowing out my back on the first day, so I told him to fuck off and found somebody else. Note to guys looking for a trainer: actually go to your gym. Vary the times you visit. You'll be able to watch the trainers work with their clients and occasionally work out. Look at what they have their cli…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 01:58 PM
1

Fair enough. We'll agree to differ (slightly). But I'm sure we CAN agree that grilling with an electric bbq is lame and for women and pussies?
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:43 PM
1

Dude, I feel your pain. Honestly I do. But the quickest fix is to go out there and talk to people. You'd be surprised at how pleasant most people are and how quickly you get comfortable with it.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 05:22 PM
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What they're actually talking about is a specific reference in the book. They talk about a certain culture's idea that a baby was created out of an amalgamation of sperm, rather than sex, wait 9 months, baby. Babies were basically blobs of cum because they didn't understand the female role. In this method, the idea of 'communal paternity' makes sense since so many men were banging one woman that they had no idea who the father was. Since they all knew they'd screwed the chick, they each had an e…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 04:56 PM
2

Are you sure it's not just qualified by 'grilling over open flame outdoors'? After all, grilling with propane is just as effective as charcoal, just using different fuel. "Taste the meat, not the heat" as it were.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 04:51 PM
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Yeah.... I read the first page of the comments section and I couldn't actually find anybody saying it takes reproductive power away from the women. Not saying this isn't great news, and sign me up, but c'mon.... if you're going to quote the comments, at least find the comment, don't make it up.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 02:50 AM
1

Listening to his podcast though, you hear that his sidekick Dante wifed a stripper, and Patrice has wifed a ho. That tells me they both failed the first rule of poon: don't wife a ho.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 02:02 PM
4

Men have the same 3 choices we've always had: we can go to work, war or jail. Since jail restricts my freedom, and war is hell, might as well pursue the holy trinity: money, power, and women.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:48 PM
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repost
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:11 PM
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They're ripping on him because he's cheating. I've been going to the gym for a long time, and trust me fellas, he's using more than protein shakes after a workout. Gear is cheating. Your body has a baseline muscle mass/size that is appropriate for the frame. You can get stronger, but oftentimes max out at a certain size without using 'help.' And you know what? That's often enough - you're already head and shoulders above 75% of men out there. Once you get to the size you want, change your routin…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:00 PM
2

To answer your question, it is possible. While gaming women, don't forget they're humans too. You can be a dick without being cruel and mean about it. Actually, that's probably the best to go for, "You're a jerk/dick!" Not, "You're an asshole." In the future, if a woman pulls the whole "I like to flirt, I just have too much pride to guess around with ambiguous signals like yours." thing, flip it back. Texting somebody you don't know well is always ambiguous and open to interpretation. You can't …
/r/askTRP05/02/14 07:28 PM
1

I... what?
/r/askTRP05/02/14 05:58 PM
2

My theory is it's either to build themselves up and create jealousy in you (look at how much attention from men I'm getting! I'm valuable!!) or to bitch to you about their problems and put you into the 'emotional tampon' zone. Either that or it's a subtle way of having them tell you they want to fuck. "Look, I have sex with men. I'm thinking about sexing you, but you're too dense to speak my language."
/r/askTRP05/02/14 04:54 PM
1

It just rankles. I've had girlfriends, and I'm done with that for awhile. I want to fuck, and just haven't figured out how to achieve that yet.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 04:53 PM
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Isn't that what you're supposed to do? Behave like you have zero interest and they come running?
/r/askTRP05/02/14 04:13 PM
-2

Frustrated is right. I'm angry at myself for misjudging the situation and not treating her like she treats herself. I guess I'm guilty of trying to impose my reality and beliefs on someone else. If she's going to act like a slut, she should be treated like one. Knowing what i know now, the option of courting and dating is completely out - I don't want the village donkey in my life, least of all as a girlfriend.
/r/askTRP05/02/14 04:13 PM
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Generally, the most useful advice most people can get in that forum is "Break up with him/her already, fix yourself by whatever means necessary, then find somebody better." Notice how they all resemble, "Things are going great blah blah blah I love him/her BUT." It's oftentimes easier to find somebody new than fix what's broken.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:59 PM
1

We could all live on one big continent where everything is beige and we'd find a way to make it "us" versus "them". Hats. It seems to have something to do with hats. Whenever there's a huge conflict, it usually boils down to one group is wearing a different type of hat.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 03:50 PM
2

This is why it's usually better to be picky about who you hook up with. This kind of crazy rubs off.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 03:17 PM
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I can understand how you get defeatist from that. I prefer realist though. Regular experience has taught me some hard lessons.
/r/askTRP
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I only agree with that statement on the surface level. By all means, don't disqualify yourself. But you need to be able to say no to. If it's a co-worker, or she's red-flag crazy, or you're getting a bad vibe, it's best to look elsewhere.
/r/askTRP
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I like it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take, and living with rejection is preferable than regret. I practice this every day, and while it blows up in my face more often than not, at least I tried.
/r/askTRP
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It does come back, but knowing what you know now, it's fewer and farther between. For me, it happens when I see a truly stunning woman and gives me a swift reminder to approach or I might miss it. My goal is to never let that feeling completely fade. It reminds you of why you're out trying to meet women, and lets you feel alive and excited about a new experience. Once that feeling is gone forever, dating and meeting women becomes a painful chore and drudgery.
/r/askTRP
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