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If she likes high status, and you are high status, isn’t that her liking you for you?
/r/seduction12/11/25 04:35 AM
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The correct answer: be a celebrity, athlete, musician, or high status.
/r/seduction12/11/25 04:32 AM
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You are going to make lots of mistakes that hurt her feelings just because you are a clueless new husband who doesn’t know any better. Counteract that by over achieving on everything else. Take good care of her. Take her on romantic dates. Be the best husband she could ever dream of.
/r/RPChristians10/09/25 03:53 AM
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I’m sure on a philosophical level you are correct, the ultimate alpha (for lack of a better word) would do whatever the F he wants. But most men are just weak mortals who just want lots of hot pussy, so we pursue the qualities that make women spread their legs for us.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/25 09:40 AM
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You don’t manage a wife/gf like she is an employee. And I don’t even treat my employees as badly as OP is advocating. They aren’t subservient little minions to be ordered around. If you are a powerful attractive man, she will be eager to satisfy your desires. If she is not showing respect and working hard, then you are failing the number one requirement, being powerful and attractive. Get that handled and she will do anything you want.
/r/TheRedPill27/08/25 10:22 PM
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I would have agreed with OP when I was younger, because most of the girls you see in the “dating scene” are above average in looks and more extroverted and they easy can and do go to man to man However now as an older man, I see a very large chunk of the female population (daughters, workers, ordinary girls) who are like 4-6 average looks, introverted, and they are absolutely starved for good men, and they aren’t going from man to man at all. Most have had like one ex who ended up being a total …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/25 01:59 PM
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I wonder if it was the girl hitting on you that was the problem, or how you responded? You should not let anyone disrespect your girl by allowing her to hit on you right in front of your gf. And them blowing off her angry and hurt response as just her insecurity? That isn’t going to work in an adult relationship. Regular Red pill can accept this kind of relationship failure because you just get a new girl. But MARRIED Red Pill you have to up your game to keep her firmly bound to you in spite of …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/05/25 11:01 PM
2

Clomid seems like such an obvious solution, why is the primary solution usually injections?
/r/TheRedPill28/04/25 09:11 AM
3

What would you prefer, someone who was always complimenting you, or someone who would give you shit and tease you.
/r/seduction21/04/25 04:49 AM
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The whole question, focusing on height, shows a fundamental misconception. Women aren’t picking a “man” per se (like a men picking a woman). They are imagining a whole new LIFE, tied to that man. That is how the vast majority of women judge whether to date and marry a man. This includes his body to some extent, obviously, they want a big strong handsome man. But they also want all the rest of the life. Wealth. Fame. Excitement. Good times. Focusing on height is like evaluating a house based upon…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/25 09:12 PM
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A recent red pill epiphany of mine is that women don’t necessarily hate having this experience. The emotional roller coaster of pursuing an unattainable man. So don’t feel bad about whether they have feelings and you reject a relationship with them. They will treasure the memories and they can complain about you to their girlfriends for years. But I will say that there will come a point when it is time to move to the next phase of life. There are great joys in partnering for life and having chil…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/25 10:42 AM
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I don’t know about the carb timing. I think you have it backwards. Carbs are your fuel, I tend to eat them in the morning, they give you the energy you need to get shit done. Eating them at night and they turn into fat. I don’t know though, what have other people experienced? Maybe I have it backwards.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/25 10:56 AM
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Christianity promotes monogamy, where both parties voluntarily commit themselves 100% to each other, for life. It would take a pretty twisted mind to view this as “controlling”.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/25 02:26 PM
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I can think of one reason this could be true. Some people are drones and will do 1000 hours of stupid busy work because their teacher or boss tells them to. A lazy person would never stand for this. They would skip the work, take a lower grade, drop out of school, quit the job. So from that perspective, be lazy, just say no to stupid boring work. Instead, think, find better answers and solutions. Work hard only on the stuff that excites you.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/25 08:12 PM
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Probably the best and most useful post I have read this year, thank you! It is amazing how easy it is to let little distractions and time wasters into your life, and I think you are right about how they can quickly drain away your power and ability to move forward on what matters. I especially like the insight with regard to clarity. I didn’t think about how much little time wasters like social media can clutter the mind and make it more difficult to reach clarity on important topics, but I thin…
/r/TheRedPill04/12/24 09:34 AM
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Spot on. A guy who expects to operate on his own plan and his time, is in for a world of disappointment. Everything in relationships in according to the acceptance of the woman, on her time. And since her time is dictated by her lunar cycle, you just accept, you don’t dictate. That is why a man needs to be alert, open minded, sensitive to the world around him. That tall blond who first catches your eye might be a bitch, while her quiet friend in the back might be sweet and ready to go. You take …
/r/TheRedPill27/10/24 03:23 PM
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Men don’t “reclaim” strength and purpose, nobody takes it from us, we just have to pursue it. The biggest enemies I would say are video games and porn, they both are the leading culprits, luring men away from strength and purpose, making us weak and leaving us adrift. Another major problem is spending money. There is massive pressure to spend, even from your closest friends, family, lovers. A man has to resist this and embrace a life of austerity, frugality and with a mind for investing. It take…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/24 09:57 PM
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The young handsome guy had just fucked the older woman the night before while she was having a girls’ night out. So he felt awkward when he got introduced to her at this networking event. Spoiler alert, she sucked his dick in his car after the event.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/24 02:04 PM
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She will make a good plate, you need to focus on getting 6 pack abs. Then you can reconsider the issue. Once you have a lot of options she won’t be as enticing.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/24 06:09 PM
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I don’t think calling a woman a parasite is helpful or even accurate. They are a first lieutenant looking for a Captain. A woman can be your most valuable partner, but you have to be a real Captain, not some fake little man child. If you can’t command her respect, you are fucked. I’ve never heard that about fatherless women not being able to respect a man, I’d actually say it is exactly the opposite, they are desperate for male leadership. But they don’t make good partners because of all of the …
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 09:14 PM
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Women will only accept a man who is a net positive in her life. He has to be attractive and entertaining, financially successful and able to provide for her, and strong enough to command her respect. The bottom half of men are such weak losers that women will just say no, there is no need for her to accept them, she can just go alone. A woman can easily go out and party and fuck whenever she wants. She can earn her own money and live with parents. And she can have and raise her own children. She…
/r/TheRedPill12/10/24 07:46 PM
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Why on earth would you feel rage? Do you get mad at the sky for being blue? Red pill is about asking the truth, not for getting butthurt about it.
/r/TheRedPill07/10/24 10:42 AM
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Chad won before the competition even started, because he was physically powerful, which allowed him to be aggressive, confident. You win the game of the future by putting in years of work beforehand. Getting washboard abs should be your first goal.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/24 01:41 PM
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Great post, thank you!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/24 10:33 AM
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A little tidbit of advice for an advanced 16 year old. Society pushes hard on monogamy, most people tend to condemn dating multiple women at once, even if you are completely honest about it. The truth is that female competition is by far your best friend. Arrange and encourage lots of women pursuing you at once. It’s like pouring kerosene on a fire. And definitely enjoy all the MILF’s! 16-21 are your prime years for banging those hot 30-40 year old lonely women who want young D.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/24 12:34 PM
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Effectively all attractive women over 22 have most likely been with a high value alpha, so the beta chumps she dates later in life will feel like a step down. The obvious answer, indeed the only answer for a RP guy, is to make damn sure you are one of those high level alpha guys who is out breaking other women, and not one of the chumps. So hit the gym, lift some heavy weights, get washboard abs, get a great career that enables you to become rich and famous, and learn how to enthrall women with …
/r/TheRedPill10/09/24 01:25 PM
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This was actually a major RP moment for me. When I was really ripped 16-20 age range, a significant number of older women 30-40 were absolutely down to F. And they pretty much all had a bf or husband. It was a major eye opener because of course I was raised to think women were certainly not like that, it was guys who were dogs. But I would say women were way more interested in just fucking, and they had absolutely zero remorse about it. It had to be discreet of course, secrecy was essential, but…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/24 08:53 AM
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I don’t think it even matters why she wanted a break. Interest in another guy, questions about OP, any number of reasons, it just doesn’t matter. OP handled it correctly, keep those plates spinning. In fact, you should be working to add a few more 8’s and 9’s to the rotation. You don’t get to where you want to go through scarcity but through abundance. And through it all, grind grind grind. You should be grinding your way to having a harem of 10’s. That is your real focus.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/24 07:35 PM
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Rather than talking about success in life and with women, which is too complicated, let’s focus on something more specific. Success at a sport, say basketball. You don’t just show up at a game short, chubby, can’t dribble or shoot, and then complain the coach never plays you, and the 6’7 guy crushes you, and the cheerleaders and fans hate you. Kobe told you the formula. You train your ass off so you are super fast and athletic. You practice until you are the best dribbler and shooter in the gym.…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/24 12:19 PM
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OP is not saying don’t ask a girl out, he is saying don’t ask for exclusivity. I think there is some truth to this. In negotiation, there are times when you need to force the other side to ask. For example, initially men generally need to be the one to act to get the date. A woman loses leverage by being the pursuer at the start. She is best served by making herself attractive and attracting the man to ask her, rather than directly asking him out. When it comes to a relationship, it is generally…
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 01:28 AM
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Not if that is what you want
/r/TheRedPill08/03/24 12:48 AM
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Thunderstruck
/r/TheRedPill20/02/24 12:23 PM
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If she is legit Christian, she should accept you (the man) as the leader of the family, and she is supposed to submit to your leadership. This is especially important in cases like this, where you are already proven as a successful and reliable leader. She definitely can’t use christianity to try to usurp leadership in the family. Tell her that you are glad she is Christian, and she needs to accept your leadership. Read a bit about male leadership and female submission, as this is relatively com…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/24 01:22 AM
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I had literally the exact same thing, at about your age too. I also was a very active person, excellent diet and health. I needed 18 hours of sleep per day, just exhausted all the time. The doctors never came up with anything except a guess that it might be a chronic form of mono. After about 9 months it started getting better, but any attempt to start working out, surfing, etc, resulted in massive exhaustion. And most nights I started getting night sweats, absolutely pouring sweat. I’m talking …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/23 07:07 AM
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There has always been a lower half of the male population that has a shit life. They used to all get kills off in wars. Today they just live their shit lives, and some of them become trans so they can all fuck amongst themselves. In the end they are more irrelevant than anything else, except for periodically being annoying AF.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/23 07:53 PM
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Yeah I just don’t see doctors as being feminized because they are surrounded by nurses who want to fuck them. And the female doctor I used to fuck was a wildcat who loved nothing more than sucking my dick. Now being a nurse, I can agree that is not great for masculinity.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/23 02:39 AM
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I’m not a fan of dread game. It’s like using a sledgehammer to kill a fly on your glass coffee table. Address the underlying weaknesses, don’t mask them with this nuclear shit. It sounds like OP knows this, but other readers should make sure they get this message.
/r/TheRedPill28/11/23 10:00 PM
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The issue is where you put your effort, what are you trying to achieve? Option 1 is gratitude and arguable feeling happier (being less miserable). Option 2 is arguably is saying fuck gratitude (or at least not pursuing it) and actually achieving things like getting laid. OP is saying that he pursued Option 2 and is really happy about it because achieving his goal of accomplishment is more valuable that the feel good approach of gratitude.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/23 11:21 AM
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Imagine this scenario: For the next two days you are absolutely swamped with responsibilities related to your business. This business is already starting to pay off, you are making bank, and this is just the start. From 5am to 10pm not a single minute free except an hour or two in the gym. You have an evening off Friday night (after a busy day of work), but another girl is already scheduled. Ditto Saturday. Sunday you and your boyz are hanging out. Monday is packed with work on your biz. Maybe y…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 01:20 PM
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Neutral that just means she is a woman
/r/TheRedPill03/11/23 12:56 PM
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Can confirm. The great generation in particular were just complete alpha studs. They handled shit that would break most modern men. They were true Patriarchs in the finest sense, they ruled the home, their word was law, and not because women were forced, but because women adored them. My mom and grandma worshiped my grandfather, and he deserved it. The boomers and my GenX were brought up in this mold, we had them as mentors, but times grew so easy I don’t think we got the same hardness that the …
/r/TheRedPill01/11/23 03:58 AM
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Yeah at this point retribution seems like a moral imperative. This dude needs to pay the piper.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/23 03:21 PM
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Did you bring your Texas girl to DC?
/r/TheRedPill25/10/23 03:16 AM
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Same with my grandfather, that whole farmer side of the family lived to around 100, lots of whole milk and eggs. My cousins eat like 7-8 eggs for breakfast, giant steaks for lunch and dinner. They teach that this is bad, but my cousins are in absolutely phenomenal shape.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/23 08:26 PM
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Women change MASSIVELY at around 21-22, all of their goals and plans change a lot, so that might be a factor. Regarding frame, I don’t think TRP necessarily teaches you to bail on a weakened relationship and start over. Spinning plates is a possible response, it is certainly much easier, but in my opinion learning advanced relationship skills to fix the existing relationship is a worthier goal. Any fool can spin plates, but pulling an existing relationship back and reestablishing frame is a majo…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/23 02:07 PM
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Attractive women have always had lots of options, and they didn’t have trouble choosing their top guy. The problem today is that now the women are screwing all of them, and that causes a whole different dynamic. The solution is to hold off on sex until you have gone through that sorting process.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/23 07:08 AM
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I’m sure you have some great opinions about Tate and have really great counter points to his beliefs, but it’s just that nobody gives a shit about what you think.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/23 12:35 AM
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Nothing to do with OLD, any woman of value will (and should) have multiple options to evaluate.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/23 03:19 AM
0

You have two goals at the moment: 1. Get washboard abs, and 2. Transfer to a top ranked uni so you can start building your career as a doctor, an AI developer, or maybe a top quant guy on Wall Street. You are so damn busy working to achieve these goals that you don’t even notice the girls around you. And in any case, no community college girl is god enough for you anyway, so it just doesn’t matter.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/23 01:16 PM
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Good post! I think this is a common saga for many men. Single and spinning plates is EZ mode. Marriage requires a man to raise his game to a whole new level and learn a lot more.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/23 05:48 AM
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Why should a woman have any emotional attachment to loser men who want to fuck her. The answer is NO, only the HVM gets that, as he should. We don’t want loser guys procreating with our daughters. And you blow off women’s natural selection as “tingles.” Those tingles are millions of years of evolution that guide her to pick a good mate, and away from loser guys. She should follow those tingles to good mates, and fuck all the losers, they get what they deserve, nothing.
/r/TheRedPill31/08/23 09:28 PM
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I can absolutely verify that this is true. It is true that some people are born with it. Some people make one attempt, get lucky, and hit a home run. And other people are really unlucky and fail the first 10 times. But eventually if you work hard and keep trying, even the stupidest and most unlucky person in the world will finally get it right. I’ve seen it so many times, but most people give up after a pathetically short about of time.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 01:45 AM
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Somehow I am pretty confident that your “years” of self improvement consisted of a few months of you putting in about 44% effort.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/23 01:42 AM
1

Why would it matter if you want monogamy out of insecurities or some other reason? If you want it that is what you should require, I don’t see why the motivation is important. Except for the benefit of overcoming insecurities in general, which of course is a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/23 08:01 PM
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The thing many RP men are missing is the role of male leadership in relationships, this is the heart and soul of RP thinking. RP is not about blaming women, it is about explaining and understanding. RP teaches that Women tend towards instability, weakness, emotional, chaos. Men are supposed to supply the strength, foundation, the fidelity, stability, a “mission” in life. Typically raising a family. When women are weak, it is because they are lacking a HSV male supplying her with the leadership t…
/r/TheRedPill11/08/23 02:52 PM
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My initial thought was you were a nut. This was confirmed with your response to her, you flew off the handle for no reason. Leading with your cute is terrible game. Whoever said this is just wrong. There is then no reason to fly off the handle and start attacking her. Masculine is calm, cool, confident, safe. Never attack and don’t call out feminine behavior even if it is real and not just imagined. I applaud you for the work you are doing, and there is no doubt it will work out for you well in …
/r/TheRedPill10/08/23 05:47 PM
3

A small but important distinction — men CAN POTENTIALLY gain in value with age. They lose physical attractiveness the same way women do, but they have the potential to gain if they become rich and successful. This is important because of lot of ordinary schlubs making shit go around patting themselves on the back thinking they are going up in value, not realizing their SMV is essentially zero. Another important point re loneliness, women are the ones who can easily continue to live with parents,…
/r/TheRedPill04/08/23 02:14 AM
3

If you were properly focused on your grind, getting rich, getting ripped, you would not even notice a little shit stain like this lurking in her DM’s. If your girl is hot OF COURSE she is going to have lurkers trying to meet her. It is to be expected. You don’t blame a woman for men pursuing her, or for her feminine nature. That is weak beta energy. The way you maintain a proper masculine confident frame is to be grinding to be so good you no longer fear the competition. You should be laughing a…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/23 02:45 PM
1

If you are this overcome with fear, your first step is probably going to be to work on yourself and quit being such a complete pussy. You don’t deserve a girl if you can’t muster enough wherewithal to ask a girl out. What is going to happen when you are confronted with a real challenge? Second, don’t start with a compliment, that is such weak game. And don’t be afraid about being “respectful.” Once again, there will come times in life where you have to be strong in the face of real challenges. Y…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/23 01:21 AM
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I would say this guy just gave a Masterclass in how to have absolutely NO frame 😂 I give the kudos for trying, but the take home lessons are obvious. 1) Selecting time, location, context is critical. Door to door sales is the stupidest approach possible because the target starts out hating your guts. 2) A person only enters your frame willingly, only an idiot douche tries to steamroller a girl into his frame, all while this idiot is literally arguing with her about how often he F’ing knocked on …
/r/TheRedPill22/07/23 07:07 PM
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There is a lot of behavior that is inappropriate and unwanted, if a hot guy did it you might still reject him for it. But people only refer to it as creepy if the guy in ugly. An attractive guy who is married and hits on a girl is a player, maybe a scumbag, but frequently it is a term that is at least somewhat positive. Ugly equals creepy, rapist.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/23 01:34 PM
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Living with parents to save and raise a family is just smart, not something to be ashamed of.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/23 01:30 AM
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Men have a huge POTENTIAL SMV in their 30’s, my point is that it is merely potential. No girls are going to be thinking wow this guy is 38, that is the best! It is going to be the guys like you who lift, look good, etc, or the super successful Brad Pitts of the world. A schlub who does not improve himself is going to be alone in their late 30’s, because physically they are going downhill. No 38 year old dude is going be physically on par with what he was in his 20’s. Heck there are barely even a…
/r/TheRedPill03/05/23 01:42 AM
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I agree with you completely. I think what Rollo says has merit, but the important point that is lost in translation is that his chart is “potential” SMV. That peak in a man’s 30’s is for men who become extremely rich and powerful in their 30’s, not ordinary schlubs who work for a living. The really optimal time for all people is in their 20’s when they are at their peak. Both men and women fall off fairly quickly after 30. Not that they can’t still date each other, but a large percentage of sing…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 05:47 PM
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Diet, exercise, and sleep play a far bigger role than you think in the 40 years “cliff.” You have to become religious about your diet in particular, little to zero sugar, junk food, alcohol. I feel 10 years younger when I am eating very well, cut processed sugars, and end all carbs except for small amounts of the healthiest types. You also have to learn how to exercise. You need to maintain very high intensity workouts, but with plenty of recovery time in between. And lots of weights are critica…
/r/TheRedPill30/04/23 05:35 PM
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This is how it always has been, a woman is trained, usually by her dad, then her husband. Unfortunately now a lot of dads aren’t doing their jobs, so the default it they are trained by our F’d up school system. And unfortunately few men are up to the task of supplying any form of leadership. They have no substance themselves, so they just kow-tow to the woman. You can’t blame a woman for walking over her weak and pathetic bf. It all has to start with the man. He needs a solid moral foundation. H…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/23 05:46 PM
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I have two comments that will give you a huge benefit, immediately, with no added work at all, and deliver a minimum of 1000 billion percent improvement, guaranteed. So get a pen and paper because you are going to want to make a special note. ONE. Your comment about travel and how your lack of travel makes you boring, this shows me you COMPLETELY MISUNDERSTAND women and conversation. There is only one thing women find interesting, and it is NOT hearing about your boring trip to such and such. Th…
/r/TheRedPill03/03/23 05:24 AM
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I agree, and I have yet to find a true conservative belief that has proven to be incorrect. Quite the opposite, I am really thankful for how my conservative upbringing guided me through many pitfalls in life, when I was too young to have the wisdom myself. For example, I avoided drugs, which ruined many young lives in my area. I avoided STD’s, illegitimate children, and having a crazy ex take half of my income. So many friends and colleagues have their lives in shambles because of modern beliefs…
/r/TheRedPill19/12/22 10:17 PM
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Don’t throw the baby out with the bath water. Conservative values have helped strong men find a path through the traps of life for thousands of years.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/22 02:28 AM
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You are not a sheep, and you resist being herded into a shit job that you hate for minimal pay. This is a positive. You are right and they are wrong. Resist, think for yourself, and find your own way that includes you being the boss. Unfortunately, the world is mostly sheep, so be prepared to be an outsider. You will never just fit in. But you can find your own path.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/22 03:14 PM
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Competition between girls, especially friends, is fierce. As long as you are honest about dating multiple girls, they are both likely to be sexually aggressive to try to win you. Why go monogamous now? Your prime uni years are meant for this. I’d be thinking about going for a threesome if you can pull it off. Granted that is pretty advanced game but you only live once right?
/r/TheRedPill02/12/22 02:28 PM
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That is actually the exact opposite of what all that research found. 😂 A virgin from anywhere (US or abroad) is statistically far less likely to cheat.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/22 08:02 PM
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I find the hottest women are into sports, yoga, triathlons, things like that. So do lots of sports that women enjoy. A top notch yoga studio in a rich neighborhood is going to be stuffed with 10’s.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/22 08:50 PM
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Well written, thank you!
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/22 12:49 AM
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Don’t misunderstand, I’d NEVER turn it down! I’m a complete horn dog. 😂 But for planning purposes, you want to make sure you are ready when she is ovulating, cause that shit is going to be hot. When she is in the middle of her period, you should spend time with a more likely candidate. Seriously, are all of you guys incels or something?! knowing your womens’ cycle is like sex Ed 101. Women are super horny when ovulating.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/22 11:22 PM
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First, it is BIOLOGY that relegates most men to the trash, so there is no point in crying about it, that is just the way things are. Second, I would rephrase you conclusion: “men are trash unless we wisely” …. Work hard and build ourselves into high value leaders who are strong capable and worthy of respect.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/22 03:44 PM
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I’m confused, why do you not believe this? Do you not believe in a female menstrual cycle? Or that women get horny around ovulation? In fact, I would assume most men must do this right? I mean it makes a pretty big difference when dating.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/22 10:12 PM
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I would expect that to be true. I certainly am turned off by a woman pursuing post grad work.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/22 12:58 AM
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By “real data” I guess you mean Laughably made up chart that nobody could possibly believe is true. 😂
/r/TheRedPill05/11/22 02:51 PM
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The main metric women use is simple common sense. Is this guy going to improve my life, or be a burden. Many young men today are just burdens, so women decline. Any young men out there who want a good girl, just focus on being a net positive, have a good career, stay in good shape, skip the weed porn and video games, and learn to deal with your anxiety and other mental issues that everyone seems to have today. In other words, grow up and be a man.
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:58 PM
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Real world experience. I’ve noticed the same, there are a lot of good women out there looking for a decent guy. Not many guys to chose from imo. Lots of pot smoking video games players with mental disabilities and anxiety. Not many solid adult men.
/r/seduction31/10/22 03:47 PM
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I don’t agree that she she has necessarily lost attraction, she is pissed because he decided to continue his career, even though she tried to force him out of it. If she had lost attraction, she would be happy for him to be gone all the time, she could get a new stud and play while he was gone. The fact that she is pissed shows how much she wants him. Especially since she knows he can replace her with a long list of the absolutely hottest women in the world. She is livid about this I am sure. An…
/r/seduction29/10/22 04:04 AM
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You need to start by putting in an insane amount of upfront work, sometimes for years, to get yourself to a point where you are obviously going places. This is what draws the women to you, and when women start pursuing you, you get an abundance mindset. If you want some inspirational reading: Arnold Schwarzenegger’s book gives his great case study in putting in the upfront work and reaping huge rewards later. Bilzerian’s book does a good job explaining it too, he calls it “The Setup” - basically…
/r/seduction29/10/22 01:03 AM
1

I don’t know about that. I’d sleep in a cardboard box if there was a hot naked women in there with me screwing me senseless. And I’d call that a pretty good life. 😂
/r/seduction26/10/22 01:28 AM
3

Dating is a numbers game because there are a million little factors, many of which have nothing to do with you. Missing a signal she wanted sex is a pretty huge problem with women, I’ve never screwed that up on a first date and been able to recover, the girl tends to lose all interest. But it could been many other things too. Another guy is very likely. Or maybe your cologne reminder her of a bad ex. Who knows? You just have to roll the dice again. And she might even come back next month. Nobody…
/r/seduction24/10/22 06:33 AM
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She just wants to be your buddy. If she was sexually interested she would rip off her clothes and yell “do me baby!”
/r/seduction22/10/22 06:34 AM
1

Have you given her anything to get excited about? Maybe bring up an exciting adventure at the beach, followed by dinner prepared by a famous chef. Women tend to gravitate towards fun and adventure.
/r/seduction10/10/22 08:59 PM
4

Social media is not really a great place for married people, outside of family and other married friends. In my experience it is unsatisfied women who tend to nurture networks with single guys on social media. But I don’t think overt dread is the right tool for married men. It is like trying to correct a puppy with a baseball bat. I mean, yes it can be effective, but it is such massive overkill, and it is harmful to your long term relationship. If you can’t handle your women with positive feedba…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/22 02:38 PM
1

It depends upon the girl and the circumstances. At 20ish I think most girls favor pure attractiveness and a good time. Status may boost that, but so will a 6 pack. As women got older they start to favor status more, and POTENTIAL more than actual. If you are a G who is clearly driven to achieve, that is enough, they are willing to hope on your ship for an exciting ride. I think hard work, drive, ambition, that becomes the most valuable. Which is why video games can be such a turn off to many wom…
/r/seduction27/09/22 04:19 AM
3

I am an attorney that helps launch and grow new companies, I have probably launched about 1000 new companies over the last 25 years. The number one indicator of success is being a hard working solver of problems, and NOT a BLAMER. A huge majority of people are blamers. Any obstacle comes up and their whole focus is on who to blame, and to rationalize how it is not THEIR fault. These people ALWAYS FAIL. Blamers not only fail to focus on solving the problems that need to be solved, they also destr…
/r/seduction15/09/22 01:56 AM
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When I started dating my now-wife, I completely lost interest in other women. I think it is a natural response for many people.
/r/seduction06/09/22 06:43 PM
42

You could walk around with a stethoscope around your neck? 😂
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:23 PM
7

When word got around that I was preparing for Med school, the interest I got from women went up substantially, although I was so naive at the time I literally didn’t make the connection. 😂 I later switched to patent attorney, and apparently that was acceptable too. There is no doubt that these professions are highly sought after by intelligent young women looking for a suitable man.
/r/seduction30/08/22 08:21 PM
1

For me it was pretty easy, I literally ended up dating a perfect 10 and an even more perfect 11 😂 It was a little sad to drop the second girl, but no chance of finding someone better.
/r/seduction29/08/22 11:20 PM
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I can understand sleeping around for a while, but why would you WANT to keep this up? I eventually narrowed it down to two particular amazing women, at that point further dates were pointless. After some final time in the dating pool, I picked one of them to marry. I just can’t imagine wanting to continue dating inferior women when I already had the best picked out. Kind of like reviewing resumes and interviewing applicants for a job. Once you have a great employee, why waste time looking at mor…
/r/seduction29/08/22 02:34 AM
1

I’ve always found that the less I talk and the more she talks the better. A girl once mentioned how “mysterious” I was. Probably because I never bored her with stories about my life 😂
/r/seduction05/08/22 02:43 PM
1

Women are constantly bombarded by low quality men harassing them everywhere they go, so they set “rules” to dissuade the weak. You can either ignore the rules, or become so HV that women pursue you.
/r/seduction24/07/22 08:21 PM
2

I agree around 22-24 is pretty good, but I would not worry as much about finances. Earlier than 22 is pretty immature.
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 09:00 PM
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I think the term is interdependence
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 08:59 PM
1

A woman’s brain when getting ready for sex: (((1million thoughts raging, phobias, insecurities, worries, etc))) A man’s brain: Boobies! I really like boobies! Sorry ladies, just a cross you have to bear.
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:58 PM
1

Make some female friends and just hang out and have fun outside of dating. It will help you relax and learn social skills. BTW 23 is still pretty young so no shame in being a virgin. It will work out in the end.
/r/seduction17/06/22 10:50 PM
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First off, it is about the journey not the destination. You should enjoy the hunt. Second, rather than chasing disinterested girls, look for IOI’s. Game is easy when they are already interested.
/r/seduction15/06/22 09:43 PM
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Just until you can handle yourself like Tyson. They dude wouldn’t flinch if the devil himself came at him 😂
/r/seduction15/06/22 05:46 AM
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I don’t think there is anything better than martial arts. And actual sparring. You have to get hit, even if lightly. Not just for the skills and exercise, but so you can learn from other highly masculine men. It is an amazing environment, and extremely supportive. But it is just really hard to hold a strong masculine frame in the face of aggression from another man, unless you have some basic skill in self defense.
/r/seduction15/06/22 01:23 AM
2

Better yet, play into it and give her more content. Start a little drama and drive some traffic to your own IG. Be a G baby
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:09 PM
4

That is why Purple Pill is the ultimate form of RedPill. You have to elevate your game to the level where you can keep her in line for life. Plate spinning is like training wheels for your relationships. You drop lots of them because you lack full RP skills. Once you master these skills, you can select the baddest bitch of them all and keep her for life. If you want of course. You can keep spinning plates forever if you want, but I think most men want monogamy and kids, at least once they have m…
/r/TheRedPill11/06/22 01:36 AM
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There is definitely a percentage of young women who are really into much older guys. There is no reason you should be ashamed of your age, if she gives ioi’s then go for it. Creepy is a function of low value, not age.
/r/seduction26/05/22 09:56 PM
1

I’ve had good results with ether.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 05:07 AM
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If you burn your hand once, should you just keep burning it? She has clearly been burned a few times, now she has learned her lesson. And there are plenty of very good reasons why a woman may benefit from waiting for marriage before having sex. First, avoiding pregnancies out of marriage and STD’s, either of which can be devastating. These alone are enough to justify it. Second, there is an emotional damage cause by casual sex, the bonding and tearing apart is particularly hard on women. Talk to…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 11:45 PM
1

What is the reason for no women wanting you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:16 PM
1

No woman is going to be attracted to a wimpy gutless male who quivers in fear about sociable acceptable ways to approach. Your first step needs to be to completely change your entire mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:12 PM
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“No woman wants to be objectified” - except of course the millions of women posting scantily clad selfies all over the internet. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/22 09:04 PM
1

What didn’t you like? I found it very insightful and full of practical help. And it was actually effective when put to use.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:06 AM
1

Not true at all. I was a super introverted nerd in HS, I decided to get social and made an effort to learn how. I took a theater class, I invited random people over for parties, I did a lot of clueless embarrassing stuff cause I was a social idiot, but eventually I learned enough to add a few good friends. It gets easier if you just put your mind to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 05:04 AM
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I’m confused, you think boomer and GenX have mental issues?!? 😂 all of these modern issues were started by Millennials and doubled by GenZ. Nobody used to talk about mental issues and anxiety. That is why they are all referred to as snowflakes
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/22 09:39 PM
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Not really lol. No amount of fitness is going to make someone in their 40’s and 50’s compare with someone in their 20’s. But we can sure try!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:13 PM
1

That isn’t really true. There MIGHT be some minor increases in some risks, but this is pretty speculative and even if they exist the risks are vey small. Nothing close to maternal age, which has a huge increase in risks. This actually makes sense if you think about it. The man only contributes DNA, and it is tightly packed for protection. The woman contributes the entire egg, all of the cellular structures, mitochondrial structures and DNA, a whole lot that is better off young.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:10 PM
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There are plenty of LV men to marry them, but HV men can be more selective. Promiscuity is an instant transfer off the potential wife list. Fun to bang but not to consider for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 04:35 PM
1

A large number of modern women seem to have gone out of their way to make themselves unattractive. Morbidly obese. Blue hair and nose rings. Covered in tattoos. Absolutely slovenly in appearance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 07:28 PM
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They are not super high. You just have to get out and put yourself out there. I see short fat ugly guys getting lucky all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:12 AM
1

I would say read THe Rational Male and the source material, and be very careful about stuff on Reddit. A lot of Reddit comments are really bad and harmful advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:09 AM
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The primary thing to avoid is “serial monogamy.” Start by dating lots of people casually, you need to develop social skills and learn about what you want and like. Some people prefer to go slow on sex because of the strong bonding effects. Women in particular can feel really abused and battered from constantly connecting and breaking. I personally would recommend banging everything in sight because you are young and can enjoy the heck out of your youth. After you have done your learning, sown yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:06 AM
2

I thought women hit menopause in their 50’s and lost sex drive?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 02:16 AM
1

This is 100% true. An intact loving family and great kids who aren’t all screwed up. That is far more valuable than a bunch of sleazy one night stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 01:03 AM
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I have the same dynamic with my wife, I think it is a fairly common thing.
/r/RPChristians04/05/22 12:33 AM
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Since you can get hard, I doubt it is related to masturbation or testosterone levels. Inserting your penis into a woman is a rather large step psychologically, I suspect you have some form of fear, trauma, something in your subconscious programming that is causing it. First, it probably helps to recognize that this is extremely common so you can lighten the pressure on yourself. I suspect all men have it at some point. Second, a therapist might be able to help. Third, time heals all, it may pass…
/r/seduction03/05/22 02:56 PM
1

Abortions are still legal in blue states and any other state that votes for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 11:34 AM
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Lure him in with a nice firm curvy body, then hook him with tons of fantastic sex. Make all of his sexual fantasies come true.
/r/seduction01/05/22 08:45 PM
1

Seeking the truth is never a waste of time. Especially if you can do it while waiting in line or during commercial breaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 06:45 PM
2

All of the feelings and insecurities embedded in this post come from the same place, porn. Porn has done GREAT damage to our society. I have over 50 years of relationship experience, and more than 30 sexual, and it predates all of the modern porn. You need to unlearn ALL of what it teaches. Are there a certain number of women who get off on large cocks, yes, but the huge majority don’t care. Many even prefer smaller, because women vary in size too. Large cocks can actually be a huge problem beca…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 01:03 AM
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The post have a good point, that at a certain point around college graduation, all the good women are taken. I think this is good for young men to realize there is a bit of time pressure here. Waiting until 30 could mean you are scrambling for few remaining girls. Regarding the rest of the post, I am so sick of all of the defeatist complaining going on. Guys need to quit being such pussies. If you want a girl go get her. Make it happen. Or shut up and go be celibate somewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/22 10:01 PM
1

Just by existing a women is higher that shit, youth and a uterus gives them value. A garbage guy is worthless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:37 PM
0

Just because shit is average doesn’t make it attractive. It is still shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 04:35 PM
4

Yeah that’s why there are always women chasing guys at church, instead of professional athletes and rock stars 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:05 AM
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There is a reason our school system is designed to be so worthless. Financial idiots are far easier to fleece. Now, I assume you’d like to lease that new car that you can’t afford? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 11:54 PM
1

I have never understood the whole concept behind being angry at women who not attracted to a guy. Why would that EVER be a thing? If there is any fault involved it is the guy for being weak.
/r/seduction15/04/22 11:39 PM
1

With women I never cry. I beg. - Rodney Dangerfield
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/22 03:35 AM
1

Same lame questions, the truth is the same. Don’t whine, do the work to become a HVM. There is no shortcut. Either she is attracted to you or she is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 10:22 PM
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To all the rejected men out there: get gud
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:06 PM
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I’m with you, who would want details of this kind of thing?! Suffice to know they are a person of character.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 10:28 PM
2

As I have gotten older, I repeatedly discover that many truths that are “common knowledge” are just false. Flat out lies. Red Pill is basically a large field of truths centered around male/female issues that contradict the lies we have been fed as children. Which of course is why it is so hates and reviled. You always know you are on to something important when the useful idiots of the world start attacking it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:29 PM
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Being in control of your emotions does not make you a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 11:03 PM
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I am GenX. IMO, it seems the dating market has gotten so much worse, I think there are multiple factors. First, it seems like generations younger than millennials have much lower social skills because they spend so little time with friends, they are always on their phones. My generation spent all of our time roaming our neighborhood with all the neighbor kids. So basic social skills are really weak. Solution: get out of the house, off the phone, and just spend time hanging out with friends. Seco…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:37 PM
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Women have ALWAYS been promiscuous, isn’t that a key realization of red pill?!? 😂 It is absurd to complain about it, it is what it is. LVM’s need to quit bitching about it and get with the program.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/22 04:06 AM
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Women tend to want men who are strong and masculine. Having a kink that is weak and effeminate is going to turn most women off. And it is not kink shaming to be turned off by a kink 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 10:11 PM
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I know right?!? Just look at the comments you are getting. It’s not fair cause women can use makeup. I put in a feeble effort at running a few hours and women should want me. It’s just sad what a bunch of whiners young men are these days. You can tell just from the comments they are LSV and don’t want to do the work. It’s not fair!!! Boo hoo.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 08:35 PM
1

The problem is that the post-millennials have LOST the “old fashioned” beliefs that made our country great. From hard work, individuality, self reliance, strength, fortitude, honor, faith, to the new woke culture of victimhood, depression, self indulgence, porn, and wasteful behavior. I agree though that it is pathetic to hear these loser guys complaining that women are bad for not wanting their pathetic selves.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 07:28 PM
1

I misunderstood your post, I guess you are saying 50-50 with nobody having authority to override the other. This sounds great on paper, but it cannot work in reality, because there will be times when you can’t agree, and there needs to be a decision where one overrides the other (or I guess they could divorce). Legal partnerships are a great example because this is basically what a marriage is. As a lawyer I can tell you that a 50-50 partnership is literally legal malpractice it is so obviously …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:46 PM
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That is definitely true that there are some women who absolutely will pursue sex with a guy who is big, they are into it. I also agree that many in the middle of the bell curve may be very interested, at least as a novelty. So really big guys have a lot of opportunities for fun. But there are many women who will outright admit they either can’t have sex with large guys, or they really disfavor it because of the pain involved. So there can be downsides, especially if he wants an LTR with a girl t…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 06:07 PM
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You are absolutely free to have a marriage where the woman is in charge, if both agree, same as others might want a man in charge. I said that I agree this is a valid option if you want it. By why is your option morally superior to a man being in charge? I don’t think there is any need to resort to name calling. Calling me a misogynist for wanting the same thing as you is not right.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 05:11 PM
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I think the key connotation in “dating” is that it is still non-exclusive. People who are dating are likely seeing multiple people, looking for one to form a relationship with.
/r/seduction19/03/22 12:11 AM
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The problem with the “equality” approach is that it is not possible. Ask an experienced attorney to set up a 50-50 partnership and they will refuse, it is not workable. There will come a fork in the road where one wants to go left and the other right, someone has to have the final authority. Now that leader could potentially be the woman, but the problem with this is that most women would lose all respect for a guy who would agree to that arrangement. Women are usually drawn to powerful leaders,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 12:09 AM
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Only inexperienced virgins get hung up on penis size. Think of a bell curve. A small portion prefer huge penises, a small portion prefer small, the overwhelming majority prefer average. And in most all of the cases it is considered a fairly minor factor. Primarily it is men who think in such mechanical terms, women are primarily focused on the emotions involved. It isn’t the way you physically touch them, it is what is going on in their heads that matters. There is a very good reason for the siz…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 11:27 PM
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My only absolute requirement was that she not work, but spend her full time raising our children. I wanted a minimum of four children, and raising them is far too important to delegate to daycare and our horrific school system. The biblical definition of submission is also important. I will do my absolute best to make my wife and our family safe happy and successful, and always put them first. She will advise me as needed, and support my final decisions, so long as they comply with the first req…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:56 PM
1

That is a great answer, and it sounds like you must be a great wife!!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:41 PM
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An example from the business world might be instructive and non-inflammatory. A founder CEO is the leader of the company. He is in charge, he sets the goals, he has the final say in all decisions. He also typically has to work the hardest, has the greatest responsibilities, and gets the blame when things go wrong. Being a real leader is NOT all wonderful perks, not very many people actually like being leaders. His team may include various “support” people, a CFO, CMO, COO, etc. these supports ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 08:38 PM
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True self esteem comes from actual accomplishments. You have to get ripped at the gym, so you actually ARE hot, not just pretending. You need to start building an amazing career so you have a bright future. I really recommend a martial art, physical competence is a big part of confidence in the face of male competition. When other guys see you and your girl, they need to keep away, not view you as an easy target. Focus on your own actual accomplishments, and the rest will follow.
/r/seduction17/03/22 06:11 AM
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I don’t think I have ever hear Rollo complain about women having an “advantage” whatever that means. And men certainly don’t have to settle for anything. They just have to work hard to become HVM, something that a lot of young whiners seem to have a problem with apparently. Please quit the complaining. The wall exists, you need to be wary of women hitting their 30’s, especially single moms. But I hardly see the need to harp on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 02:21 AM
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Dealbreaker: any career other than SAHM
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 10:11 PM
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Feminine communication style is indirect. This is not the same as dishonest, and you should not expect a woman to use a male direct communication approach. There is a very good reason women have evolved to use indirect methods. This is an approach designed for self protection in a world where women are much smaller and weaker than the men who surround them. A direct communication that pisses off one of the men around her could end with her being killed. This is the evolutionary reason for the fe…
/r/seduction14/03/22 12:48 AM
1

I would never consider raising any children other than my own. If I were to remarry it would be to a woman with no children.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 10:59 PM
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Don’t take things so literally. She is twerking for him for gods sake, she does not literally want to be friends. This is an indirect way of seeing if he wants to fuck her. This was she is protected if he is not interested. Go by her actions, not her words.
/r/seduction11/03/22 12:34 PM
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They can definitely be friends, and they can hang out all the time if they want … so long as spouse is there too.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:59 PM
1

I really like sex. If a woman is agreeable to that, I will most likely really like her.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:25 PM
2

Don’t you disrespect me little man, or derogate or deride.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:24 PM
2

Great post! What do you and your wife practice?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 01:30 AM
1

A sane person hears that 90% of businesses fail and decide not to try. An entrepreneur hears it and gets excited, I only have to fail 9 times and then I will be a huge success.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:16 PM
1

I agree a SAHM might fairly expect some level of compensation to bring her earnings up, for a fair period of time, but they should be based upon HER lost earnings, not his earning power. So a school teacher doesn’t get $500 million from her billionaire husband. She gets an added $10-20k to make up for her lost earnings. If she wants to keep the billions, she needs to stay married to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:10 AM
1

Correct. It is true that the inviter pays, not just in dating, but in any circumstances. But if you want to be safe with a date, paying is probably safer. On the other hand, it is a baller move to let her pay. This indicates you are the high value party.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:54 AM
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A wiser man than me gave the following advice: 90% OF SUCCESS IS SHOWING UP. Because most people never do. And success is a total crap shoot. You just have to be the one who tried. This is true for women, and business too. Literally just talk to lots of girls, and pursue the ones you want. Eventually you will talk to the right girl (you are her type), right after she broke up with her bf, when she is ovulation and hot, and you get lucky and say and do the right things, then boom you screw her an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:22 AM
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😂😂😂 Just stay clear, there is nothing worse than someone angry and entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:02 AM
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In reality the actual court decisions are mom gets the kids almost all month, if the dad is especially good, he gets a few weekends. Once the money is paid to the woman, she can spend it however she likes with no oversight or accountability at all. Why should this be acceptable to anyone? I knew some kids who never saw a penny of their support. The man paid the majority “while married.” Once he is no longer married, I don’t see why he should have to continue his financial support. She is not for…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:56 AM
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It seems quite new. My experience is that the younger generation is socially maladjusted from social media, video games, and porn, and there is a growing population of young men who are unable to attract women and are therefore very disaffected. They were raised on fake self esteem and trophies for last place, so rather than learning to work hard and make themselves better, they just act like entitled brats. It is a sad indictment of our modern culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:42 AM
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I don’t know what world you are living in, but I literally don’t know a single case that was determined even close to that way. 😂 A cousin and BIL both have to fight to ever see their kids, and they both give most of their income to the ex. Even while she is living with another guy. It t is toxic as hell and BIL was seriously depressed for most of the last decade. Just sad. Anything close to fairness would be fine. Especially since in every other way there is “no difference” between men and wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:45 PM
1

Men spend the rest of their lives the father. What is your point? There is no reason for women to have priority. Especially since all the leftist feminists now say there is not even a difference between men and women. Shared custody and each sex contributes half of the expenses of the child. And each parent gets to determine how that money is spent
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 11:05 PM
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I know right? It’s so sad and pathetic. But to work out and become more desirable themselves? Unthinkable! It must be women’s fault. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:48 PM
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A woman can’t spend 9 months bearing a child, but a man can be enslaved for 18 years? At the very least, the man ought to be able to spend the money directly on the child. The real bs is when the mom gets the money and spends it on herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 08:03 PM
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I’ve noticed a lot of huge differences between the US and abroad, I am not sure what is making the US so toxic at the moment. For example, London and Australia are very environmentally conscious, but they are not nearly as aggressive or toxic about it the way they are in the US. In the US, they may not even practice what they preach, but they will attack you like crazed animals if they see you do something wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 02:00 PM
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That comment sounds a little too informed, what exactly went on at your last gyno visit?!? 🧐
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:41 AM
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The wall is not at all meant as an insult, it is an important factor in female behavior. You understand the wall so you can understand the associated female behavior. Women spend their youth in their peak beauty and desirability. They are used to having men desire them. At about 25, they have peaked, and their beauty then starts declining. The Wall is hit at about 30, when women start to realize this decline. This is important to men because a woman hitting the wall will frequently want to quick…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 05:23 AM
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Because ugly guys will get down into the dirt and get the job done right. You will never go back to a pretty boy again
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 01:31 AM
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A key component of male attractiveness is strength, stability, masculinity. This is what most women are looking for. And conversely, a showing of male weakness, uncertainty, and effeminate behavior can be a huge turn off. There are probably a lot of ways a man can show weakness, cry, etc., and it may not hurt him, and the woman may appreciate the trust he is showing. But in the end, it IS a risk. There is a very real danger the weakness he shows may kill her interest in him. So I personally woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 06:35 PM
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The guy will have two responses. First, he will absolutely treasure you for the super wife that you are. And people take great care of their treasures. And second he will follow your leadership.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:19 PM
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Even if is true (doubtful), what the heck do you want, a pity party? Quit making excuses, read the red pill books, and get gud.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:44 AM
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If a parent is counting points, they are not doing it right. Here is my advice to any parent. Strive to do more than your partner. Far more. At least twice as much. If he or she ever slows up, get excited because now you can really blow him or her away. As soon as you see a job, do it. Take the kids out a couple of times a week so your SO can just relax. Don’t track their contribution at all, except to compliment them on everything they do. This is called being an adult, and showing leadership. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/22 05:08 AM
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Women should not lower their standards. Men can just do without sex until they get on their grind and raise their SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 10:43 PM
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It’s funny that you say almost no red pill guys like marriage, on a purple pill sub, purple pill is literally red pill men who favor marriage 😂 To answer your question though, I personally absolutely prefer the first option. Although a very low n-count is fine, virgin not required. And I like a strong woman who can think and express herself, but who can also accept leadership, so long as I meet my responsibility of making sure that leadership is strong, committed, faithful, wise, and dedicated t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 01:18 PM
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You definitely could be right, at least in theory, but I think that typically a man’s desire for sex far exceeds what a typical woman would be able to deliver, at least for an extended time. I mean, who looks back on the dating/ honeymoon phase of life (where sex is plentiful) and thinks, wow all that sexy was just awful. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 12:46 PM
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You are just dead wrong on this. Men absolutely fantasize about a relationship like that, and it would never lose sparkle. The man who achieves this would be considered a legend and they would probably make a Netflix special about him. It is the long “loving strong” dead bedroom relationship that we dread, and there are many subs here on Reddit full of men in this situation. And I don’t think a man would care a bit if her other skills were lacking. A man who just had his soul sucked out is going…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:08 PM
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You are a goddess of rare quality and refinement, now we just need more of you!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:00 PM
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A 30 year old virgin ought to take anything he can get 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:23 PM
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I agree with your point, the whole concept of “settling” being a bad thing is misguided and rooted in insecurities and blue pill thinking. My daughter once was madly in love with Justin Bieber, is this going to create problems in her future relationships? It is laughable. Now there is a problem with gold digging, if she is not attracted to him and marries him for his money, that is going to be a huge problem. But aside from this exception, it is not something to worry about, it is an insecurity …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:19 PM
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It started when I was a teen, and older women started hitting on me. A couple got very sexual, then I found out they were married. It turns out, with one of the women, I actually knew her husband. He was a great guy. Opened my eyes. All the myths about how sweet and innocent women are, and how men are the predators. Not dumping on women here - We are all predators out for our own interests. Hopefully we can try to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 02:33 AM
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Great post. I am so sick of these “settling” types of comments. These comments spring from weakness and insecurities, and they are beyond blue pill pathetic. If any men are insecure about their woman “settling” or having been with a better man before them, they need to crush these insecurities at the gym with heavy iron, and in the workplace by crushing it at their chosen profession. You need to internalize Red Pill teachings, get on your grind, and focus on winning. Once you know in your heart …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 12:51 AM
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Immediate friends and family, here is the breakdown: one did go overseas and met a great guy,the majority are single and looking, but no real prospects, one settled for a guy that I consider a total loser, a couple turned lesbian, one gave up and married a simp with money. A couple are dating good guys, the absolutely most attractive girls can command one of the rare attractive and successful men. The most successful is my son, who I raised right, he got snatched up immediately by a wonderful gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 09:39 PM
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Don’t act like you are “picking her up,” just try to be friends and say hi. Ask about something that appears pertinent given the circumstances. And read her body language, is she saying she wants to be left alone, or is she looking at you with interest. Not every interaction has be be about a date, you can just act like a normal human being being friendly. Be friendly to guys too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 08:51 PM
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A core piece of wisdom from Red Pill is that a man MUST be a leader, this is pretty much required for a solid long term relationship, women just don’t have long term respect for weak men. For men, leadership entails a gain of authority, but at the expense of carrying certain burdens, one of which being the one who has to approach. There is no shortcut here boys, grow some balls of your dating prospects are going to be grim, and if you do get a relationship you face either her scorn, or her cheat…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 04:59 PM
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First, just because some people find someone unattractive does not mean their SO also does. People have “types” that vary wildly. I have found that everyone can eventually find someone who finds them attractive. At least physically. Black pill defeatists who let their own low self esteem and weakness turn them toxic are the main exceptions, but it is because of their toxic personalities rather than their looks. Second, people absolutely will be single rather than go with someone they find unattr…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/22 03:02 PM
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I don’t this is really the focus of red pill. All of these things apply to men too. Being worried about your wife having fucked a hot guy in her youth is blue pill insecurities messing with you. If you are grinding for excellence the way you should, you would be confident that you are the best she has ever experienced and she is really lucky to have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 09:06 PM
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You don’t HAVE to certainly, but who wouldn’t WANT to?!! I mean sex is awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:06 AM
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Why the Victorian attitude towards sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 12:51 AM
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I think this would be more correct to say sex education is good, not teaching about sex and repressing it, is bad. But neither of these are conservative policies, outside of the leftist imagination. I am a conservative Catholic and I firmly believe in sex education. Education that I provide, NOT some government worker who has been instructed to teach things I consider to be harmful. I am sure you too would want to control your child’s sex education if you thought your children were being taught …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 01:51 AM
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😂 😂 yeah! It’s the patriarchy again! Darn that patriarch! Where is this mystical figure who is so brain washing our women?! 😂 the idiocy that people will accept is staggering to behold
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:08 PM
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Have you actually read “The Rational Male”? Actual red pill teachings are pretty different than Reddit commentary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 09:04 PM
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Red Pill has literally nothing to do with morality. If you can get past the admittedly toxic comments from toxic losers on Reddit who know nothing about red pill, if you look at the materials listed in the side bar, red pill is only about understanding women. Literally nothing more. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 02:43 AM
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Red Pill is completely against cheating. Not necessarily on moral grounds, but because it is a weak, passive-aggressive, blue pill move. If the relationship isn’t working, a real man would either fix it or end it, not weasel around behind her back. And if she was cheating first, he should have had the balls to terminate the relationship on the spot, then proceed to screw other women. Cheating is just weak effeminate behavior that is contrary to masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:40 AM
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One empty suit named Obama single handedly wrecked millions of lives, yet the idiot class just doesn’t get it or care.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/22 01:21 AM
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That is defeatists nonsense. Guys in good shape have no problem getting women.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:57 AM
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This post mystifies me because you seem to be reasonably smart, and you seem to get the rules of the game, and yet your response is just to complain about it (both with women and capitalism, which are oddly similar). Why not just follow the rules and proceed on to great things?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 12:23 AM
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Boys get into anime and video games as young children, and porn as soon as they hit puberty, way before they are having sex. After years of getting fat weak and lazy, they then make pathetic socially awkward advances towards women, the women are grossed out, so the guys just continue with the porn video games tv weed etc. Do some serious physical training for a year and the problem will get solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 11:06 PM
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Many countries require a year or two of mandatory military service. This would get men into better physical shape. Change the school system to require 1-2 hrs of physical training a day from all students. Force schools to serve healthy food.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 10:49 PM
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Congratulations for making one of the dumbest comments I’ve read today!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:58 PM
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Fantastic post!!
/r/MarriedRedPill18/02/22 10:56 PM
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Obviously it can vary between yes, no, maybe, and all should be respected, but the typical leftist answer of “I’m not doing it if I’m not in the mood, screw my husband,” is reductive thinking and just plain wrong. It is the equivalent of a man saying he is no longer going to work to support his pregnant wife because he is not a slave.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 10:10 PM
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What you were taught is that he was a murderer and a rapist. In fact, it was drilled into you so hard just the mention of his name triggers an intense emotional response. This is brain washing of the first degree. Get used to it, you will find most of what you currently “know” is the result of brainwashing. Age and experience will eventually allow you to question what those in power want you to think and believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 05:25 PM
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Hey no need to start calling names, the Boomer comment was out of line 😂 But I think the topic was attacks on men. Smollett is just another example of blatantly absurdly false claims are made against men all the time and promoted by corporate media. None of my points are talking points, I don’t watch Fox. I just observe the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:50 PM
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I’ve had lots of gfs when young, now nearly 30 years married.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:40 PM
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I think you will recognize the difference between banning contraceptives and not wanting to be forced to pay for someone else’s contraceptives. If you have “no doubt” that they would try to ban contraceptives, then you have been grossly misinformed about what Christians believe. Being against contraceptives is no longer a mainstream Christian belief, and Jesus never said a word about it. However, being against killing infants is mainstream, and nobody who takes their beliefs seriously would even…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:23 PM
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Your own post makes it clear that you were taught that he was a villain.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:11 PM
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This kind of defeatist thinking serves one purpose - to absolve you from having to admit you are too weak and lazy to put in the work necessary to be a dominant stud yourself. Put aside the excuse making and get on your grind. Get ripped. Quit eating fast food. Build a great career making tons of money. But that would require giving up porn and video games. Your choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:08 PM
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The only reason people swallow this whole patriarchy myth is because they are completely ignorant of even recent history, and have no understanding of what life was like even as recently as 50 years ago. People should take a serious pause before they continue to piss all over the reputations of our collective ancestors.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 04:03 AM
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It is so pathetic to read comments like this. The comment is clearly and patently untrue, but so many people want to just grovel before nonsense to show how woke they are. First, no absolutely does mean no sometimes. Especially if a guy is directly pursuing something sexual. I’m NOT suggesting unwanted sexual contact is permissible, so please don’t get your collective panties in a wad. But in relationships, language is not so simple. I am sure any women who is going to dare to be honest, they wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 05:45 PM
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Nobody is arguing that looks mean NOTHING. But they are clearly not EVERYTHING. Go for a short walk and look at the real world. For example, my short bald friend got married and they had two great children together. They recently got divorced, and he now has a great new gf. Both women had plenty of money on their own, so it was not about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:35 AM
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If you don’t already know with absolute certainty that you are the absolute best she has ever had, then the problem is your own weakness and insecurities, not her interest in some ex. Put in the effort necessary to succeed, get in great shape, build a great career, get on your grind. If you were putting in the work you would know she is thanking God almighty that she was lucky enough to get you. If you are not putting in the work, your weakness is going to ruin any relationship, even if she is a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:30 PM
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This is spot on! Another way to clarify this thought- it is toxic to have a relationship where you focus on making your partner happy, and then expect them in return to make you happy. This is a very common and ultimately toxic dynamic. Men, often with low self esteem, take on the “nice guy” role where they “do everything” for their SO, then get upset when SO does not flood them with attention. Women, esp moms, pour everything into their families, and totally lose their identity, then get upset …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 11:30 AM
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This is classic red pill, and right on the money. I am glad your red pill friend was there to help you along the path.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 10:23 AM
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You should read the sidebar before criticizing red pill. There is nothing new about this thinking, no unique “white pill”, you are just spouting off a bunch of blue pill nonsense. And a clear sign of ignorance is to lump red pill with black pill. You should know that these are completely different beliefs, and they have nothing really in common. Why don’t you read The Rational Male and then get back to us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 09:55 AM
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I don’t think this is true, if anything it might be the opposite. There are a lot of hot girls who get into sex early and just party down all through their teens and 20’s. They only screw the absolute best men, so most mere mortals don’t get to enjoy it, but it is happening. Fat girls can be so self conscious and then bitter that they don’t really get into casual sex. Now I do agree there are still plenty of homely girls who are sluts, and plenty of guys who play in that pool. But as far as numb…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:38 AM
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Gen X rules. There should be a discussion about why Gen X is so much better than any other generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 01:33 AM
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This whole 80/20 concept is so misused it is getting silly. Just because there are 10-20% of men that are in high demand does not mean that women who don’t get such a guy just disappear. They eventually match the same way guys do when they can’t get a perfect 10. Physical perfection is not required in the real world. And there are some other important factors people don’t take into account. Fist, youth is a huge factor, so ALL guys go through a period in their 20’s when they are at their peak, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 07:58 PM
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Red pill is not directed to women, or saying whether they are wrong, it is about teaching men how to succeed. Beta bucks is about not being weak and relying on money to get women. A short guy can be a Chad if he works out in the gym and maybe does some martial arts training. Hypergamy is about recognizing that getting women is a competition, and if you are a weak lazy loser she is likely going to think about upgrading. I wholly support both behaviors in women. They should be contemptuous of men …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:04 PM
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Men are not shit and women don’t get a free pass. Terrible post
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:34 PM
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I don’t these comments are made to say men are saints or superior, they are made to say that men are NOT worthless misogynistic patriarchal assholes. We are working and contributing too.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:30 PM
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This is what women are told they want, and they probably enjoy their sweet loving loyal prince for a short while. But women also have a darker nature that wants a dangerous bastard who might be an abusive ass, at least until the woman can tame him. The world is full of boring loyal princes who are getting cucked behind their back.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:28 PM
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Modern culture pushes a narrative about women. They are sugar and spice and everything nice. Nice girls don’t do certain things, like crave a good ONS with a hot guy. Nice girls would never leave their good and faithful man. men are the ones who do the cheating, women are the victims. AWALT means that those so called nice girls are just as human as the bad girls and the men. So whenever you find yourself saying, my wife/gf would NEVER do that, she is a nice girl! you need to remove those blinder…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 11:20 PM
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The most likely explanation is that she didn’t have any idea why she fucked you. People do stuff all the time without any clear understanding what was driving them. The simplest explanation is that you were just her type. As for why she might lie, wow, make a list. There are tons of reasons why she might lie. Maybe she was pissed at her bf or ex. Maybe you look like her brother or her dad. Maybe she was just bored. There are tons of F’ed up reasons people have sex that they would not want to adm…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:54 PM
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I absolutely adore women, every bit. I would not change a single thing. I especially love they way they feel and smell, they are like living art. Maybe sometimes they can be like a deadly big cat, you have to be aware of their razor claws, but they are so beautiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/22 10:02 AM
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Banning abortion does not keep women out of power, and no mainstream conservatives are trying to ban contraceptives. In fact, I am not even aware of any fringe groups trying to do that. Almost every conservative I know USES contraceptives. Want to try again?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:56 PM
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They are literally teaching classes in school about how evil men for a “patriarchy” that hates and oppresses women. They are teaching that white men are unavoidably racists and to be hated. They openly call for and practice racist and sexist exclusion of men, and in particular white men. False claims of sexism and rape are made routinely, and when they are proven to be hoaxes no punishment is given, and if they can’t disprove the allegations, they are assumed guilty and locked in a steel cage fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 09:50 PM
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I have three daughters so you are darn right I am concerned. Most of their HS classmates were pretty dang pathetic. Who in the heck are they going to date. I don’t want any of these fapping losers as a son in law. And then these flabby unemployed losers get on Reddit and post all these complaints about how hard life is, how women only want 6 ft perfect rich men and I just have to laugh. I’d be happy if they started to date a guy who knew what a gym was and had a speck of ambition to succeed.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:47 PM
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It is absolutely possible, although you may need to make changes in your life. If you live an expensive area, move to an inexpensive area. This is why so many people are moving to TX and AZ. No more eating out, learn to love spaghetti, potatoes, rice, you can live on next to nothing and you will eat healthier. Explore thrift shops and garage and estate sales. You can get anything you need to for next to nothing. Hunt for a super cheap car from a private seller or an auction. My first car cost $4…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 07:33 PM
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Can you name ANY policies currently being pursued by Conservatives that would advantage men over women in obtaining positions of power? As a Conservative myself, and one with three daughters, I know of no such policy, and I would oppose such a policy. I am, however, as the father of a son too, against policies that are anti-male, and which teach hatred against men. Of which there are many. The term “patriarchy” itself is a hateful term used to create division and hatred. Which is why I despise w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:10 PM
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The modern Democratic Party is basically based upon stealing money in the form of taxes from workers, and using it to buy votes from non-workers. Since men are predominantly the workers, they tend to not like this, while many women want to be recipients of free government stuff. Once a woman is married to a successful man, it is her money being stolen, so they tend to switch. While lazy men who don’t want to work, or are jealous of more successful men, tend to go Dem.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:01 PM
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Families that have a parent raising the children have much healthier children, and I don’t know anyone who really cares about the lower income, you can always figure out ways to make ends meet. Kids raised in daycare have far greater problems with all kids of fears, depression, and misbehaving. I think one of the main reasons so many people struggle with anxiety and depression today is because so many of their moms worked. My kids had their mom at home all the time and I watched them grow more c…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 04:51 PM
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You are correct. If you are properly on your purpose you should be too damn busy to be friends with them. Friendly, yes, but friends, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/22 11:12 AM
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Hit the gym, lift weights, toughen up, stand up to some of life’s challenges instead of complaining, stop smoking weed, playing video games, and masturbating all day, start a business and get rich through frugal living and hard work, learn to box so you can hit and take a hit. Just a few initial thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:43 PM
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Nobody said anything about comparing him to a gf. “Traditional women do not want low-income men.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:36 PM
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A reasonable woman is not going to bail on her family because of a temporary setback such as an illness. Not even many unreasonable women do that, they have invested into the relationship. But Red Pill 101 says she is going to move on if you long term fail, hypergamy and common sense say the same thing. I would encourage my daughter to bail if her husband turned out to be a loser. And a high value woman absolutely does NOT need to earn as much as a man, top tier women never have to work a day in…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 08:34 PM
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This is SPOT ON! Add another factor, young men today are particularly weak, effeminate, and obese, so things are even more broken. There are good reasons why so many women today are unhappy with their options in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 05:15 PM
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Who wants to literally form a partnership with a lazy broke guy? I mean seriously, I just can’t fathom people making this complaint. It is just common sense. It is not gold digging to want, at a minimum, a guy who can succeed financially. If one of my daughters were foolish enough to want to marry a lazy broke guy, I can tell you I would enter that equation and put a stop to it myself if I had to.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:56 PM
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The core of RP is to become a genuinely high value male, physically fit, successful, leading an exciting life. This is what women genuinely want and desire, so I think most women would be thrilled to have a true RP man. But I am not considering a lot of the RP Reddit trolls and complainers to be real RP. A single mom would unfortunately do really poorly with a red pill man because the dangers of dating a single mom are well known in RP, so they would avoid one. A single mom will naturally (and r…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/22 04:01 AM
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I don’t think it necessarily a female trait, everyone gets especially hot with someone new. If any blame is to be placed, I think it would be fair to say that men in particular can tend to become boring over time. Men often don’t feel the need for excitement, many, myself included, would love to just come home, cuddle, have sex, go to bed. Over time this can get boring for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 11:52 PM
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It is usually a little of both. The more you are fun to be around, the more it is just genuine friendship. If you are super hot but unpleasant and bitchy, it might be more out of sexual desire. 😂 Another way to look at it is that women (via their sexual desirability) actually bring out the best in men. Most men strive to be good people at least to some extent, and if there is a little added incentive of sexual attraction to help him be good, that can be a good thing. I don’t think there is anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 04:09 PM
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The truth that TRP teaches is that there are two components of being boyfriend material. 1. Genuine physical desire, and 2. Desire for long term provisioning (ie money). While most relationships include both, men DO actually have to be wary of situations where there is primarily number 2. If a man has a lot of money, gold diggers are a serious concern. Notably, professional athletes are easy targets. Single moms and women in a similar situation are another danger zone, where women are known to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 03:40 PM
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My daughters initially found Justin Bieber to be super hot, when they were young. At the time he was quite effeminate. As they got older it was more Aragorn and more masculine men, and they rejected the whole Bieber look.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 04:59 PM
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Don’t try to change a man, that won’t work, but a man certainly can be inspired by a woman. Men definitely can become the best and strongest versions of themselves when partnered with a good woman. But you don’t start with a rotten guy and change him. You start with a good guy and you help him achieve his best.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:21 AM
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It sounds critical because you seem to imply that no men in their 20’s have their shit together, and it is naive to think that they might eventually get it together.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:14 AM
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I would say that they found a guy who HAS his shit together and is moving on to great success in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 05:11 AM
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Start training for a particular athletic event. Think of yourself as an athlete and eat and work accordingly. A change in how you view yourself is necessary for significant and lasting physical changes. And you need to drop a LOT of weight, you should weight 160, maybe 170. I would really recommend a martial art. Kickboxing. Jiu Jitsu. Great for getting in shape, and also great for your self confidence. And I have found martial artists to be great people, very friendly and supportive. And they k…
/r/seduction19/01/22 04:36 AM
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In my experience, the absolute top women are looking to get married in their early to mid twenties to men of a similar age. Men in their 30’s are absolutely NOT viewed as higher value, they are viewed with suspicion as the age is a huge red flag. I think the concept of men increasing in value in their 30’s is only true in one narrow exception, a guy who is unsuccessful in his 20’s can get a second chance, so to speak, if he is very successful in his career. But this is hardly a recipe for a grea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:50 AM
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I fell madly in love with my now wife “at first sight.” I obviously didn’t say so until years later when the time was right, but I knew it was only a matter of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 12:50 AM
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So many people think they can act like a douche and then just tell themselves they are being confident.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/22 09:28 PM
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Both RP and FDS have core teachings that are positive and undeniably true and beneficial. But both have proponents on social media who make lots of vile and toxic posts. So when you talk about either, you need to make that distinction. I agree that FDS posters are often toxic bitter losers, but if you read what FDS actually teaches, I think it is good stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/22 03:26 PM
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These are the things that are irreplaceable, so they are the most critical. I can’t have an intimate monogamous sex life by myself. I can’t get it somewhere else. I can earn money myself. I can have friendships with lots of people. I can hire a maid and I can eat out. Sex is the one critical thing that I need from my wife. Sex is obviously far better if she is attractive. And help around the house is obviously very nice. But sex is critical.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 03:25 PM
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First of all, it is really not a good summary of the past to just say that women were forced by men to work. Women tended to have children and work in the home primarily because it was essential to survival, not because of group of men forced her to. Women are more apt to work nowadays simply because we are so wealthy that it is possible to do so without starving to death. With regards to the fertility rate, there are a lot of women who really want to have children, but there are circumstances t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/22 01:30 AM
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Invest in a solid rental property in a really nice neighborhood with strong rent demands. Not only is real estate a fantastic and tax free way to build long term wealth, I think it comes across really well with women, you are a real investor if you can talk about your rental units. Dress really well, it goes along really well with the whole investor image, and this is a huge turn on for women. If you want to watch a funny illustration of this watch Get Hard with Will Ferrell, he bounces back and…
/r/seduction04/01/22 08:25 PM
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Are you fashionably dressed? I wear basketball shorts and old tshirts, and I never attract attention from homosexuals. 😂
/r/seduction04/01/22 04:54 AM
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First, I don’t think “men” think that incels are poor victims, for the most part we just think they are losers. Men are not too big on other men looking for pity. Not a guy thing. Second, as rancid as many incels can be, this story sounds fake. They may bitch about women, but a dying young girl, I highly doubt it. Sound like something written by an FDS shrew.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 04:34 AM
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My point is that for millennia NOBODY had any of these rights and freedoms. Men only recently got the right to vote, and that was bought at the expense of many of those men being slaughtered on a battlefield in our revolution. And even when men had the vote, the reality for 99% of the population was both men and women worked together to avoid starvation. And this was Up until only maybe about 60 years ago, so extremely recently. Now that we are rich and women started having the capability to cho…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:26 AM
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NOBODY had the right to vote for almost all of human history. It wasn’t until our founding fathers (and slightly earlier reformers in England) came up with the crazy concept of the people running things themselves. And they had to put their lives on the line to fight to the death for it. Yes slavery and exclusion of women took a few years to correct, but I would say it was corrected pretty quickly, relatively speaking. I mean, how many revolutions can one group handle? Farmers fighting a superpo…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 02:09 AM
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Hey that’s a low blow bro. No need to be name calling. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/22 01:24 AM
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Well OP did prove one thing for sure, a large number of Reddit commentators have serious emotional problems and insecurities. How could OP’s cute little story get so many crazy visceral comments? You people need to chill TF out.
/r/seduction01/01/22 04:02 PM
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So called “Gender roles” were dictated by nature, not by men. They were what was required to survive up until about 100 years ago. Now we have the luxury to decide for ourselves, but this was not the case a relatively short time ago. My great grandmother told me stories about life in the early 1900’s. And even my mom has stories about 60 years ago — No plumbing or electricity, and you struggled not to “get ahead” but to not starve to death in the winter. Women did housework not because they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 03:16 AM
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I agree completely! Interdependence is a wonderful thing and a man is 100x better and more powerful when paired with a good woman. I think the only caveat is don’t let yourself become needy and clingy. Both partners need to be able to contribute strength to the relationship, and not just let the other do all the work.
/r/seduction20/12/21 05:39 AM
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I make enough to support a fairly large family, my wife is SAH so she has never had a job. I don’t care in the slightest about her schooling or income. I am interested in her being intelligent, so I think she would most likely have a college degree, but it would not matter if she didn’t graduate HS. I actually view too much school as a negative. Once a woman starts piling up masters degrees or other advanced degrees, I would view that as a negative, not only for the debt I would get stuck paying…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/21 09:52 PM
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Anyone who says that women have “high standards’ when having a drunken ons have literally ZERO experience with women. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 12:35 PM
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Maybe unattractive women bitch and whine less than unattractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:54 PM
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It is definitely worth it, but you need to do it right. First and foremost, you need to partner with a quality woman, don’t just chose based upon looks and sex. Is she hard working, smart, loyal? Second, you can mitigate many of the downsides with a prenup. Third, discuss and agree on critical issues like religion, children, finances. You can’t gloss this stuff over. Finally, you need to communicate on tough topics, which is way harder than you might think. The really embarrassing, gut wrenching…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 10:15 PM
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Women want both alpha Chad qualities, and beta provider qualities. Both are very important for a relationship. It is a complete myth that they only want a Chad, they rightfully want a man who can be in a partnership too. If you know any read chads, they are just as bad at relationships as pure betas. They end up divorced because they can’t stop being abusive jerks. As women get older, they tend to mature and care less about physical attraction and more about finding a man of quality, who is hard…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/21 08:37 PM
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In my experience it seemed like most of the HVF’s found a similar HVM in college and they got married after graduation or shortly after, in grad school or first job. So my mid 20’s they are all gone. I got married quite early at about 22 and some people thought I was crazy starting so young, then literally a year or two later everyone was married, and the guys who were still single were kind of left wondering where everyone went.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/21 04:43 AM
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You are just coming into your prime. Young enough to be physically hot (especially assuming you are putting in lots of time at the gym), but now getting old enough to have a clue (everyone is pretty clueless at the start). Enjoy the 20-something year old women around you, who are in their physical prime. And don’t forget to bang a few MILFs who love young guys and can be a lot of fun. But as other people have mentioned, don’t sweat it, don’t take it seriously, don’t compare yourself to other, ju…
/r/seduction09/12/21 05:10 PM
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Don’t have sex with a guy to get validation or a relationship. Make him wait until he is committed and you are sure it is time. The whole 3 date thing is guidance for men, and they are going to ignore that so called rule if they like you. Indeed, a man values a woman far more if she makes him wait. You don’t typically want to marry a girl who jumps straight into bed with a guy she just met.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/21 01:31 PM
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It isn’t like a switch gets thrown and a 30 year old woman is no longer desired, but there is definitely a huge swing at this point. A woman at 25 is at her peak and has the most options, but suddenly around 30 she finds the top guys she once ignored suddenly no longer want her, and she starts considering guys who she previously thought were beneath her. This is not any form of revenge fantasy, it is a genuine warning to women for planning their lives. Lock down your top option around 25 because…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 05:16 PM
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Women don’t want anything to do with the horde of beta simps, they may accept their gifts and service, but they will do anything to get with a real man. If women aren’t pursuing you, you need to quit bitching and hit the gym, take a martial art, build a successful career, and otherwise get your shit together.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/21 05:25 PM
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You first need to make a distinction between actual red pill resources like Rational Male, and comments of a bunch of fake red Pill idiots on Reddit. I have found the same is true with FDS. Actual FDS teachings are wonderful, FDS commentators on Reddit are super toxic. I would say actual red pill teachings are absolutely wonderful, they can seriously improve your life, and save your relationships. There are so many societal teachings that are just WRONG and men need to learn the truth. It not on…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/21 12:46 AM
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Women who make a lot of money tend to be less attractive, so any guys who marry them for their money are going to more likely to cheat. I suspect that trophy wives of really rich executives probably also cheat at a similarly higher rate with their personal trainers. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 09:01 PM
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That is about 98.2% correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:29 AM
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I’m definitely in favor of people doing whatever works for them, but women are generally better suited for nurturing, and plus they have breasts.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:18 AM
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bEcauSe iT a dOG wHistLe 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:10 AM
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The laws of supply and demand apply, and if you nearly double the supply, the cost has to come down. The study you mention compares apples and oranges. Of course urban high tech areas have more women, and higher wage growth than Mobile Alabama.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 04:05 AM
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Tru I was being nice
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/21 02:56 AM
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It was corporations that pushed for women to join the workforce, so that corporations could tap this huge pool of new and cheap labor. They continue this push today, and leftists support it because, like corporations, they want government to assume the role of child rearing for a giant nanny state. I personally don’t think there is a single paper pushing job in all of corporate America that compares to the value of a mother raising her children, and being there for them 24-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:57 PM
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I agree, women should have that option, and should not be shamed for it. My wife is a SAHM and suffered hell for it. I think the women who have the courage to pursue their dreams in this respect are the true modern feminists. And they have to fight through a lot of oppression and hate to do so. Congratulations and don’t let others get you down.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 10:50 PM
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Why would anyone want to be saddled with a progressive failure when they could partner with a capitalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:23 AM
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99% of being progressive is virtue signaling, the other 1% is just being misinformed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/21 01:22 AM
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A college friend I used to hang with appeared to me to just be completely average. Average looks, average height. Not unattractive but just so average. This dude had girls all over him everywhere we went. I could never understand it 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 07:59 PM
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If they have a career, every hour they are at work is an hour they are not raising the kids, some daycare is. That is totally fine if that is your goal, but I want their mom to be raising them, not some daycare employee. And very frequently the career delays a woman having children into the woman’s 30’s, and it is not at all uncommon for problems to arise later in life that inhibit or even prevent having children. I think it is tragic that some women simply miss their opportunity at a family bec…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:35 AM
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Forge yourself into a powerful beast of a man, rich and successful, ripped and athletic, in command of your world, and pursuing exciting adventures that women will desperately want to be a part of. Then they will come to you and you can set the terms of your relationship(s).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:27 AM
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Good point!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:18 AM
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The left operates entirely to do nothing but give power to politicians. It is the focus of all of their policies. Higher taxes transfer spending power from middle class workers who earn money to govt/politicians. Biden just printed a TRILLION dollars that he and his cronies get to spend, and now they want ANOTHER 3! If that is not power I don’t know what is. Only the 1st amendment keeps the left from censoring all dissenting opinions, and they are doing their best to shut down social media and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/21 05:16 AM
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Men don’t have sex for validation, we have it because it’s DA BOMB!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 04:55 AM
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Women generally like things cleaner, so men are going to be perceived as not doing enough work. After all, what man is going to clean something that he already thinks is clean? I think the root problem is that it is far better for the man to work, and for the woman to take care of the home. When each person has a clear set of responsibilities, you avoid blaming each other. If the bills are paid, the man is doing his job. If the woman is happy with the house, her job is done. I know this sounds o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 10:00 PM
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Marriage is absolutely transactional, it is literally a contract, a partnership agreement. There is presumably a loving relationship behind it, but the marriage contract is about teaming up, traditionally to have children. I don’t think the act of a woman making money, by itself, is an issue, but if a woman is building a powerful career, she is typically NOT bearing and raising children, which is typically the exact thing that men are after. I can make money. I can’t bear a child. I want a women…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:57 AM
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I’m not clear what your response means. “Biased?” In what way? I mean I am biased towards my own opinion, I’m not sure what else you mean. And cynical? Im definitely not cynical. I love women, and I don’t think anything I said is negative about women. I am just talking tactics. Many men, like me, have spent significant efforts towards obtaining a sex life with a wonderful woman, and/or boosting said sex life. And we keep finding that the things society (and women in particular) say to do just do…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/21 02:46 AM
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I think TRP would be more correctly described as “seeking” the truth about how people act. It promotes certain theories because they appear to be correct, but TRP is open to more information. It appears women are attracted to men of at least a certain level of physical strength, because for 100k years this level of strength was required to survive. This is outdated today, but biology has not changed, women still find strength a huge attraction. Even more importantly, Status, is a huge attraction…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/21 06:22 PM
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Im talking about physical attractiveness in women. A 20 year old woman is so much more physically attractive than a 40 year old woman, that even a mediocre 20 year old will almost always be chosen over the hottest 40 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 11:46 PM
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This girl in college latched onto me and just followed me around, she was eager to do pretty much anything I wanted. First it was more trying to date me, but when I was clearly not interested, it became a weird stalker kind of thing. She always arranged to be where I was going, even on trips. At one point she sat next to me at a party, I told her to leave me alone and I got up and left, and literally she got up and left with me. She just quietly walked at my side like we were dating, it was so w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/21 03:13 AM
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Red Pill is not about women bad, men good. Not even close. Skip the Reddit comments, read The Rational Male to see what TRP is all about. While women are not devils they are not angels either, they are human just like men. TRP is about seeing through society’s tendency to idealize women. Women are sugar and spice. Angels. TRP is about understanding women as they are in reality. There are guys out there who desperately trying to draw the interest of a woman, or to rekindle their sex lives with th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 04:00 AM
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My statement that people can spend their hard earned money better than scumbag crooked politicians. Your response was just to call me pitiful. How about trying to come up with a counter argument and try to convince me rather than just calling me names.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:44 PM
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What is so terrible about that? I mean the world worked pretty well like that for centuries. If I were going to be pregnant, vulnerable, and rearing children, I would sure want a man to be there supporting and protecting me while I did so.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:40 PM
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In Texas there is competition for most services, and here are some interesting contrasts. Electricity costs about 1/3 of CA electricity, despite the rules of physics being identical in both states. In TX, they will pick up as much trash as you may require, no problem. In CA you have to schedule their limited services weeks in advance, and practically gift wrap the trash or they just leave it. Competition is the key. Education is the biggest boondoggle, insane amounts of money get mediocre result…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 11:35 PM
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I don’t think that is true. Even a mediocre 20 year old is generally going to be a more attractive candidate for marriage than the hottest 40 year olds. Youth and fertility are the most attractive qualities a woman can have, especially for men seeking marriage and family. Plenty of guys might want sex with a 40 year old cougar, but they are not going to marry them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 09:18 AM
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This comment is so off that you have me doubting that you have actually read “The Rational Male.” I would highly recommend it, and I think you would find it far more interesting than the FDS garbage comments about Rollo. Same with your comment about frame. All human beings have frame, and anyone can bring anyone else into their frame if they hold firm and if their frame is interesting and exciting. It has nothing to do with psychological disorders.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/21 01:41 AM
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But there is an adversarial element in any partnership that can’t be avoided.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:29 PM
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What is their attitude about money that you don’t like? Edit: why in the world is a question getting downvotes?? I don’t get it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:26 PM
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The things that female dating strategy teaches are all very good and positive things, I think it would make them more desirable as a mate. However, most of the commentators in the Reddit forums are just toxic people That I would never even consider dating or having a relationship with. I think it’s actually very similar to the red pill. The Red Pill teachings Are all really good, but a lot of the commentators are toxic losers
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 11:20 PM
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True, this has been going on a long time but it continues to get even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/21 04:30 AM
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Either the entire world will change for your benefit, or you can hit the gym and make yourself a HVM. I would not hold my breath on option 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:20 PM
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😂 but you want me to send you pictures of them?! 😂 for obvious reasons I’m not sending pictures. But you can look around at young people as you live your life and draw your own conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:42 PM
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I would not say I PROMOTE solving problems with violence, I would say PERMIT it. Small but important distinction. And I would not say I am thrilled with the option, I would just say it is the best of bad options. The negative unintended consequences are just too great.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 06:40 PM
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Go to your local high school and you will see what I mean in a glance. Maybe 20% of the kids are in sports and athletic, and the rest of the guys are pasty faced, flabby, all whining about how much anxiety they have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:40 AM
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I suppose it would be more noble to fight poverty or something, but I’d rather spend that time getting some good pussy 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:33 AM
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I see a lot of this from the female perspective now because of my daughters, female employees of mine, their friends, etc, and I don’t see these girls turning up their noses to athletic guys with solid careers. They are beset, however, with flabby loser guys with no career ambitions. I’m sorry but I have a really low opinion of most guys these days in their 20’s. What a pack of losers, they have clearly never been to a gym, they spend all their time playing video games and mastubating. It’s just…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:30 AM
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I can pretty much agree with most of what you are saying, and I definitely agree with doing everything practical to reduce violence, I am certainly not a fan of it. But I think there needs to be room for good guys to be able to defend themselves and their families. Police have their role, but it is limited because there just aren’t enough of them to be a real protection. By the time the police arrive, it is usually too late for the victim. And speaking of bad cops, this would also be mitigated b…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 01:23 AM
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That could be true. They do go quickly 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:18 AM
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But the thing is, I REALLY love pussy ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/21 12:02 AM
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I agree with you that bad violence against innocent people is a problem and it would be nice to get rid of it. The problem in your argument is the same with gun control. All law and rules can do is prevent good/law abiding people from using them (guns, violence). It won’t stop the bad guys. So all gun control and fighting prohibitions do is prohibit use by good guys. So your assumption that less violence is an improvement is incorrect. Prohibiting the use of violence by good guys is not an impro…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 11:28 PM
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I think with women it is much more psychological than physical. A man has to exciting, sexually alluring and thrilling.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 06:33 PM
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Men have fought for all of history except for maybe the last 20 years. And somehow we can figure out the difference between standing up to a bully and attacking an innocent.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:46 AM
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Our system makes studying these questions pretty much impossible. DNA testing companies report that 30% of paternity tests are negative, so there is some solid evidence. But otherwise you have to look to what people are reporting on places like Reddit. It is not unusual for guys to be complaining about wives who refuse to have sex with them, and about wife’s fucking 3-4 other guys and refusing to change, and the guys are like, hey I want to make this work, how can I get her to change? It is just…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:37 AM
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Wow nice! Sounds like you are raising a HVM!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:28 AM
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Women are bailing on men in record numbers, there is an explosion of single moms. Or they just recruit a simp to help raise her kids while they bang other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:19 AM
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Men are the ones who set and enforce those boundaries. Women are naturally going to test those boundaries. That is what shit tests are about. I am sure the girls are disgusted with simps who allow themselves to be abused in this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:15 AM
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Maybe Next time try casually dating many guys at one time for awhile, just have some fun, and make sure the guy is really awesome before getting monogamous with him. Not a big deal at your age, it is more important when you decide to settle down. Have fun! The 20’s are awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:12 AM
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Probably true 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:09 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:08 AM
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Australian and ZN men are way more masculine than men in the US! A lot of that is rugby, which is way more physically damaging than a mere fistfight. A fistfight might end in a broken nose, a rugby match will end in a broken collar bone. 😂 I am not against University, I am against it being REQUIRED to pursue any decent career. People used to become attorneys by studying under another attorney, and passing the bar exam. You can read the books without the expensive U. This competition will prevent…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 12:06 AM
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They often don’t get laid, especially once the marriage is final. They often end up raising children from other men. They are cheated on and then when the guy complains, he is laughed at. Look at the infidelity sub, guys catch their wife cheating, and she will respond by saying she is going to keep seeing the other guy! And the guy will be posting about how he wants to make it work! Unbelievable and so sad
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:44 PM
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Women can ask for whatever they want. A HVM can say no and pick one of the women who offers a good deal. My SAH wife takes care of the home, raises the kids, she was sewing yesterday if you can believe it. Many women want to be traditional.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:40 PM
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True competition would include the option of not going to ANY school. People used to become an attorney by working under another attorney. Why can’t a nurse study on their own, pass the boards, and become doctors? Today you literally can’t even braid hair without going to school and getting a license. Ps- congrats to your son UCLA is fantastic, and he will save a fortune in tuition
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:33 PM
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A HVM can say no to the millions of women who act that way, and pick one of the good ones. He can get a prenup to protect against the courts. He can hire a woman to bear his children if he has to. A woman can’t do anything to a man without some level of his consent. And LVM are just plain eager to get taken to the cleaners by the bad women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:30 PM
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I agree that tech is a huge factor, but it is school that is tying up 8+ hours a day with desk sitting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:14 PM
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Men are not just judged with respect to each other, they are also judged against simply not having a man at all. If a woman is better off with NO man, she will chose this. It is easy to get a HVM to knock a girl up and she can just raise him alone. I hear this more and more, from girls facing some bad options. An unattractive guy who earns less than she does is just not going to get chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:12 PM
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A high value masculine man can have his pick of women, either as plates or an LTR. There are a lot of great women out there who can make a great addition to the life of a man. Don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of bad women out there too, but there are a lot of good ones too.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:06 PM
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You can certainly have some fun for a few years, but sexual activity has a lot of repercussions. One big factor is that it fairly quickly leads to monogamy. There are a lot of chemicals released during sex that are designed to promote bonding. I see people in their early to mid 20’s who are posting in infidelity subs, and even deadbedrooms. They are getting drawn very young into quasi marriage with unsuitable partners. Enjoy those awesome 20’s but be careful about being drawn into a bad LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 11:01 PM
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As soon as a woman starts having sex with a guy, they almost inevitably become monogamous, and this takes her off the market so she can’t meet and date other guys. It is critical that a young woman date a large number of men so she can find one that is suitable. Therefore, she should not start having sex until they become engaged, or at least have been dating for a very considerable length of time and she has determined that they are likely to get engaged soon. Then, if he does not propose fairl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/21 01:31 PM
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Men will be and should be grinding under any circumstances. The question is whether you want a string of ONS and “plates” or a longer term more meaningful relationship. Most guys seem to prefer the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:18 PM
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I suspect that these are the guys getting tossed. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 09:15 PM
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I can only suspect you have literally zero experience with government run services, because nobody with actual experience would think the government running something actually works. The only way to really capture how bad these systems are is to point out that it is the USA that people are swarming and fighting to get into, the last bastion of at least a little freedom and protection from govt tyranny. And they are risking their lives to flee “workers paradises” like Cuba and Venezuela that have…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/21 08:13 PM
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I never cry. I beg.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/21 02:03 PM
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If that is what you think scumbag politicians do with Federal tax revenues, your naïveté is sweet but really unhelpful. Only time and experience can teach you otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 03:56 PM
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I would say most of what you say is correct to an extent, but it leads you to the wrong conclusion. I am a good example of someone who is extremely highly motivated by pursuit of women. First lots of women and just sex, then one particular woman for marriage and family. I am very goal oriented, so I focused most of my efforts on making money, and getting a great body, so that I could be successful. I dropped any hobbies or interests that were not suitable for these goals. For example, time consu…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 02:53 PM
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I’m open to a counter argument. Do you have an argument that scumbag crooked politicians are better at spending than the person who honestly earned the money?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:15 PM
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There is not even a mention of anything particular to party politics. Just the broad and overarching principle that people can spend their own hard earned money more wisely than a bunch of scumbag crooked politicians (of both parties). This is the core that separates the two ideologies, and it is never answered by the left. Since you can’t answer such a simple and profound question, you revert to ad hominem attacks. As soon as the name calling starts, you know you have won, because there is no a…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:12 PM
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Do you blame celebrities for getting sick of paparazzi? Guys have the onus of pursuing women, but women have the right to get sick of it and tell a persistent loser to F-off.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 06:06 PM
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That is really sad because when people get older they are going to realize what an empty life that is, and by then it may be too late
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/21 06:53 PM
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People who can think for themselves learn stuff, like red pill. They also tend to figure out simple truths, like people can spend their money more wisely than a pack of crooked scumbag politicians, so low taxes are good. Democrats are not only naturally sheep, their party crushes any attempt at independent thought. You mention lower taxes and all they do is parrot stuff like “trickle down economics” and they never think.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 06:52 AM
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There is definitely programming deep in the animal part of our brain that seeks promiscuity, and there is genetic advantage to cheating, so there are provisions for that too. But the more advanced part of the brain is primarily directed to pair bonding, as monogamy is clearly the most important factor in the survival of children. This is true for both men and women. In practice, almost everyone I know prefers monogamy. Even people screwing large numbers of women pretty quickly admit it is pretty…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 03:36 AM
2

Sorry I only date attractive men
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:50 PM
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Actual Red Pill books like The Rational Male don’t say anything at all what shows up in Reddit subs. Nonsense like only the top 0.01% of men have sex. Dude some of these losers never get out of their mom’s basement. There are millions of short bald fat ugly guys getting laid, getting married, having short fat ugly balding children. It is so sad that so may guys just seem committed to failure and excuse making. And any posts that blame or attack women are just stupid. Most of the attacks are just…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:03 PM
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I want to be in charge in a relationship, and I want to find a woman who is properly submissive. I want to take care of her, I want her to want to be taken care of. This is the type of woman who will make a good SAHM who will stay home and raise my children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:08 PM
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I hate the term ghost. When a woman is not interested, she will simply not pursue the relationship further, which is absolutely her right. This term attempts to turn complete inaction into some aggressive bad action. Total bullshit. Just accept the truth, she is not interested, and she is not doing anything wrong here.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 03:01 PM
3

I can’t stand tattoos and piercings.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/21 08:48 PM
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In my experience, there is a portion (maybe 20%) of women who have a fetish for tall guys 6’3 or so, maybe 60% who have some level of preference that the guy be as tall as them or taller, and the rest just don’t care, or they even prefer shorter men. Everything is a bell curve. I also don’t thin there are big distinctions. 6’3 and above is tall, then there is “taller than me,” then short. Take home: there are plenty of women for any short guy to find a good match, who genuinely won’t care. And n…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:52 PM
0

How do you explain the separation of fighters into weight classes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 01:41 PM
1

I don’t think most wealthy and powerful men do pay for sex. Certainly not of the wealthy and powerful people I know ever do, there are plenty of women who do it for free. Even when Trump fucked stormy Daniels, she didn’t charge him she did it for free
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 11:03 PM
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The flaw with this thinking is that young women will absolutely chose a guy with nothing except good future prospects. He can be broke and unemployed, but if he has his shit reasonably together and works hard towards a bright future, he will be in demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:33 PM
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That is not really true. Women approach guys that are their TYPE. The guy may be completely average, but if she particularly likes his combination of features, it will be especially attractive to her. Men are the same way. Short curvy fair skin and blue eyes does it for me. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/21 09:26 PM
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Very well timed post. TRP is about understanding women, not hating them. I for one am sick of a bunch of angry losers giving TRP a bad name. Take that anger to the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 03:25 PM
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A friend in college got laid at pretty much every party we went to, and I think a lot of it had to do with his single minded focus on doing to. He was a little more handsome than average, but nothing special. He would scope out all the average 5’s (or below average) and he seemed to have a knack for zeroing in on the one that was dtf then and there. He would zoom in, seduce them, and whisk them off to anywhere private he could arrange. Even a bathroom was fine. I had to admire his devotion to hi…
/r/seduction18/10/21 10:18 PM
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Everyone has their type, and that is a good thing, everyone is entitled to want what they want. Why complain about it? Might as well get mad about gravity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/21 10:00 PM
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Female Dating Strategy (FDS). The basic philosophy is similar to TRP, and just like TRP, most commenters don’t know the philosophy and just spew toxic vitriol. 😂
/r/RedPillBooks17/10/21 05:54 PM
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You should join FDS, there are a lot of people just like you posting the same kind of vitriol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 05:07 PM
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Sometimes it can be a white knight. Other times it can just be a guy letting you know that you are wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/21 04:07 PM
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Maybe to an extent, but that is not really what I have in mind, I would not advise dressing like a pimp, unless that is your style. I love a sharp suit and power tie myself, it never fails to get the ladies. If you want to see a great illustration of this concept, watch Will Ferrel in Get Hard. He is dressed in shorts and t-shirt as a pathetic loser, then he puts on his power suit and all of a sudden he is a powerful Wall Street tycoon who demands respect from a bunch of gangsters. Funny because…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/21 11:24 PM
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I’m talking about guys hitting on girls, not children. If a guy offers some random adult woman if she wants to see his scars, and she thinks he is super hot, she will probably think it is a sexy come on and she will probably take him up on it and hope some of the scars are in private areas. If it works, it was a hot seduction. If she thinks she is ugly, she will be grossed and weirded out, and everyone will agree he is a creep.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/21 02:26 AM
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I’m just throwing out ideas, the goal is to be interesting. Who is more interesting, a suave sultan dressed I exotic silk, or some ordinary bozo 😂 Think outside the box
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:33 PM
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I’m not saying it is subjective, I am saying that the determination of whether it is good or creepy is made based upon HER response to his advances.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 11:18 PM
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There is an important distinction. TALK about them. Don’t tell them about interesting things about yourself (boring), ask them about themselves. That is the talk side. Being interesting yourself is done by action, not talk. If you are from India, maybe wear some cool traditional India jewelry or garments, like a silk kurta. Take on the role of an exotic sultan, they can ask you about your exciting trips to exotic foreign lands.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:58 PM
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That’s not true u r just making weak excuses. While short will DQ you with some girls, there are plenty that don’t care. And I think you will have a hard time finding a worse face than mine with a giant crooked often broken nose. A ripped body is what they want, plus someone who does not make weak excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 05:44 PM
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But the determination is based on the way she reacts, not what he does
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/21 03:47 PM
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People make up their minds within a few moments, there is no need for anything long and drawn out. We have really good instincts. It is not based upon rationality, it is based upon emotion. Men need to learn how to interesting and exciting. A quick shortcut to interesting is to talk a lot about her. Her interests, dreams, goals. Her feelings about family, friends, classes, job. Etc Exciting is having a plan. Are you going somewhere with your life. Do you go out and do fun things. Do you travel t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:39 AM
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Truth. Stop with the excuses. It is so weak pathetic and annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:20 AM
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I absolutely would not take that route, but it is plenty easy to get a decent body just with plain old fashion work at the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/21 03:19 AM
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Chad worked hard to get his washboard abs that make women so wet. It all the weak flabby betas out there want that kind of arousal, hit the gym. Otherwise put your weak insecure asses aside and be happy to get Chad’s scraps.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/21 07:38 AM
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Touch her shoulder when making a joke. Read her response. Is she leaning in and laughing, or cringing away. Talk about her. Her classes. Her family. Her dreams. More touching. Very light sexual commentary, then observe her responses so you know whether to move forward or pull back. A classic example, when you have her alone, move inside her space to get closer for a kiss. Move 95% of the way to the kiss while making eye contact, how does she respond. Let her move forward the final 5%. If she doe…
/r/seduction08/10/21 04:20 AM
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My main political belief is that people who work hard for their money should be able to keep most of it, and that politicians are almost universally thieves and con men, and that they absolutely should not be given money, except to the barest minimum. This makes me a right wing extremist to most on the left. And I have found that most of the left absolutely will not tolerate anything short of total conformity to every dictate made, the slightest hesitation and you are branded a right wing fringe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:19 PM
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Lol where do you think all those married women with children come from? Of course they all start out as single and dating, so there are definitely plenty out there. But you aren’t going to meet them at a bar or on Tinder. More commonly at University, church, or similar place where they can meet the right guy to marry and have kids with and go to church.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 08:04 PM
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This one classic “nice girl” used to hook up with me on occasion, she had a serious long term bf the whole time. It was never even an issue, she never talked about it or acted uncomfortable about it. She would even talk about sex with me with her friends, who didn’t seem to think anything odd about it. Surreal. They are now married with multiple kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 04:28 PM
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If you think that women find 80% of men unattractive, you have not been out in the real world. I mean you would have to be blind to not see all of the very happy couples in the world. Even short bald guys have whole families and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 06:19 AM
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Women can pull off red hair but men generally can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 10:04 PM
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AWALT. All of them. What is point of breaking up, so you can imagine another woman is different? Just accept it. God made her that way.
/r/RPChristians02/10/21 11:03 PM
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Both alpha and beta traits are attractive to women, and the ideal is being strong with both. Ripping on guys for building a good career is foolishness. Do you really think women don’t want to fuck a surgeon or a powerful CEO? The sad situation is when a guy only develops beta traits, but is so weak at alpha that he attracts women but is not sexually attractive to them. These guys need to hit the gym and strengthen their alpha traits. But don’t lose the valuable beta traits too. PS - Pure alphas …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/21 01:45 PM
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If the question is whether this is a red flag, I would say no, she did not fit with them but she might be a perfect for for him. Unless there is some other evidence, like if there are 10 ex’s who all say she is an insane nut. If the question is whether the guy should be worried about them stealing her away, that is more a question of his own security in his own value. They are just “the competition”. Is Tom Brady worried about an upcoming game against the Patriots? Tom is a stud and he is focuse…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:14 PM
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Woah cool your jets there turbo. Jeesh. I don’t care who broke up with who, he is the ex. Any guy who can’t handle his girl having an ex is going to have a rough life until he gets ahold of his self esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 04:34 AM
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The only reason he was upset with her was because he did not perceive himself to be her first choice, he was literally jealous of another guy that she left for him. That is pretty much the definition of low self esteem. A high self esteem person would not give a rats ass about some old bf. If he was properly taking care of business at the gym and in the bedroom, he would not have these fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/21 10:16 PM
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😂 ok I stand corrected! But maybe I should say most women. I suspect it is rare that this would be sexually arousing to most women. Respected yes, arousing no.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:25 AM
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Nothing dries up a pussy more than video gaming.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 03:42 PM
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The majority of men are total dogs 🐕 and you should just expect they will screw any woman they can. If you expect that they will as a matter of course, then it will not bother you when they do.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/21 03:38 PM
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I would both agree and disagree. Money by itself is not sexually attractive. Trust fund babies who inherit a fortune are more of an easy mark than they are sexually hot. But the ambition, drive, and power that accompany a self made man is just flat out liquid sex appeal. It is at the root of every female sex fantasy. I also agree that intelligence alone, in isolation, is not sexual. No woman is going to see your doctoral thesis and 4.0 grades and get hot. But many things that flow from intellige…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/21 03:26 PM
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My neighbor shot himself and I found his body. It seemed a little traumatic at the time, but not too bad. But then almost immediately after I realized I had almost no recollection of it at all except that it happened. It is like my brain just edited that memory right out. Super weird feeling, it must be a form of self defense mechanism.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/21 09:43 PM
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I consider TRP to be The Rational Male and other similar texts written by people who know what they are talking about. This version of TRP does not teach any of the things you list. Who is it, btw, who talks about a decline? I think what you are referring to is a bunch of loser incels bitching on Reddit. I agree that these idiots should be ignored but don’t trash TRP with what these idiots are bitching about. Nobody cares anyway. They are the ones clinging to their own failures.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/21 03:54 AM
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Excellent post, thank you!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 02:24 PM
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I don’t think saying someone improves something implies it was neglected before. Even Olympic athletes are constantly working to improve. I agree though that if that were the case it could have caused resentment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:37 AM
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This came up in a movie I saw recently. Old rich dude had a prenup that specified all kinds of details of their sex life that were to be maintained or she would not get any of his money. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:33 AM
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When we talk about people changing, aren’t we talking about changing preferences, goals, etc? I mean, a drug dealer who prefers to sell crack for money, “changes” if they become a priest, right? And certainly a young woman in her peak of beauty and without children is going to behave completely differently than a much older woman with children. And her pursuit by men will certainly dwindle, especially if her behavior is bad, so you can’t say she will always be in demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:08 AM
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How do you dress? You might look older in a sharp power suit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 03:43 PM
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My experience is that it is actually the opposite, it is men who never change. Women very dramatically change in different phases of their lives. Party girls at 18 just want cute fun guys. At 22 they start wanting marriage and children, so they look for husband material. By 30’s they become far more independent and mainly focused on the well being of their children. Men just want sex from 13-90.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:43 AM
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I don’t know that there is a correlation between arrogance and abuse. But there is definitely a correlation between arrogance and success. You have to be extremely arrogant to do anything difficult and risky. How arrogant was Bill Gates when he licensed his OS to IBM. Some kid who did not even write the software! I personally owe a long list of huge successes to being unrealistically confident in my abilities, which were objectively well short of many potential competitors, who never entered the…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 06:05 AM
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People on the political right like rules and recognize value in generalizations, so they appreciate the truth in that statement. A woman’s past is the best guide to her future, and if she has a past of sleeping around, overeating, etc, that is a good guide to how she will behave in a marriage. A man’s future potential is more important than his present value. A broke med student is probably more valuable than a rich lazy guy squandering a trust fund. So there is value and truth to this saying. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:55 PM
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Start by casually dating a lot of women. Don’t have sex right away, because that leads to exclusivity and serial monogamy. Get to know them for a long period of time. Figure out who has character and who is toxic. Meet their parents. See how they treat people. See who sleeps around. Only when you do this will you be in a position to select the top one and discard all of the problem people. And I would look for women who are active in church, charities, other places that show she is loving and ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/21 03:07 PM
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Good post. Ignore comments from assholes
/r/TheRedPill12/09/21 02:46 PM
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That is not true at all. There are lots of women who are just as shy about approaching a guy they like, same as men. Also, there are many situations where someone is not massively attractive, but just somewhat attractive, and when a man/woman gets to know them, the attraction grows. One of my best sexual encounters was with the least attractive women I have dated. As I spent time with her, that cute little mischievous smile, twinkling eyes, her quirky style, eventually she just really got me goi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/21 05:07 AM
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Good work but I have some advice. First, pick the time to approach. don’t approach when they are rushing somewhere else, even if she thinks you are cute she is busy. Pick a good time, when people are hanging out, lunch, eve. Second, if you use a line and lead with overt sexual interest, it can make her uncomfortable and stressed. It also appears lacking in intelligence and creativity. Instead, take an interest in the first article of clothing you notice, piece of jewelry, handbag etc. just have …
/r/TheRedPill09/09/21 05:15 AM
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I don’t think there is anyone out here saying having no relationship is preferred to a good relationship. I think what they are saying is that it CAN still be a good life, and it may be preferable to a bad relationship. I have one friend a “confirmed bachelor” who has been happy to have no romantic relationships his whole life. I can think of several others who have had bad relationships that ended in misery and the only thing they got were decades of alimony and child support. One poor guy has …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/21 01:32 AM
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Because knocking up a woman is awesome, but paying child support sucks. Duh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/21 04:35 AM
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People who see the world in terms of advantaged vs disadvantaged are placing themselves at a huge disadvantage, because this toxic mindset is very disempowering. The biggest factor in physical attractiveness is youth and health. Everyone starts out with their share of youth. Anyone who works at it can be incredibly fit. Train 3 hours a day and you will move up into the top few percent. Genetic factors may help, but anyone can get high enough to have plenty of action. And extremely few people inh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/21 01:22 AM
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First, it is important to recognize the truth here, this woman intentionally dropped a nuclear bomb on their relationship. There is no way this was an accident, she was surprised, etc There are only two reasons I can think of why she would do it. She wants out of the marriage and does not want to be the bad guy. Or she has some sort of sick fetish that involves humiliating her husband. Maybe some deep seated hatred of men in general. Who knows? In any case though, this guy just needs to accept t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 03:46 PM
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There are two potential mindsets. I am god’s gift to women. I am far hotter than any other guy out there. She is lucky to get some of my attention. 2 I am a whiny little bitch who can’t get any attention because I am short. Which one do you think works?
/r/seduction29/08/21 02:58 AM
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The problem with Black pill is that there are just so many short balding ugly guys out there fucking women and having short balding ugly children. 😂 I know it makes for a good excuse to give up and not try, but eventually reality has to seep in there sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:19 PM
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If anything I see the opposite. Lots of FDS people on this sub. Both groups have plenty of cancer people, but it is nice to have the open debate!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:09 PM
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I think we get all types because the other forums have moderators who tightly limit posts to fit their own narrow minded agenda. This is the only place that really has open debate. Both TRP and FDS can discuss a wide range of topics without being banned. It is really sad that so many people are so against free speech these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/21 04:06 PM
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My SAHW is a master of: education (hone school, university model, traditional), cooking, sewing (makes and repairs her own clothes), interior decorating, carpentry, she is an amateur electrician and plumber, and her sculptures and painting works sell for over $1k each. Her employed companions: gee honey, tell me again how you transcribed all of those SB48 forms again! Wow that sounds interesting! What documents did you get signed today? Deep and meaningful work! Plus all of my kids are super suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 01:37 PM
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Women are the most vicious competitors out there. Way more than men. They just compete differently, covertly, they stab each other in the back with a smile on their face.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 03:34 AM
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Generally speaking, attractive is the only way to avoid creepy, at least if you are straight up hitting on them. An alternative is to just talk with them without expressing overt interest. Women like covert, not overt. Talk with them about their clothes, their jewelry, whatever, and once they see you are not psycho they might get interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/21 01:16 AM
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Youth and good genes in the form of a healthy athletic body and beautiful clear face. A reasonable level of intelligence and mental stability, usually signaled by lack of obesity, piercings, tattoos, drug use, and a low n count. I personally prefer a very maternal woman who does not want a career, but wants to raise children.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/21 03:30 AM
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I agree completely!!! Well said!! I get so sick of posts about how women or society need to change so some incel can get sex. It is just sad and pathetic because the world is not going to change for you. TRP is about understanding HOW to be attractive. Because society tells men so many WRONg things. Like chore play, and be more feminine and emotional. Guys are working hard to be attractive and just driving women away. Men need to learn and adapt, not ask the world to change around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/21 04:06 AM
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I know a guy who takes T and might take others. He is pretty ripped, but he has fits of rage, and is impotent. I don’t know why he decided to share that with me, but it sure solidified my opinion that they should be avoided. Any chemical changes to the human body should be avoided if possible. I am of the firm opinion that nothing is better than healthy diet and exercise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/21 09:49 PM
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“When someone asks if you are a god, you SAY YES!!!” - Ghostbusters (original)
/r/seduction19/08/21 08:29 PM
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I know it is anecdotal, but when my very submissive mother was attacked by a crazy knife wielding lunatic, my “patriarch” father attacked him bare handed and allowed her to escape with infant me.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/21 05:21 AM
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What has changed in this period of time? It is impossible to miss the absolutely horrible change in diet, massive sugar increase and obesity, and complete cessation of physical labor. Younger people may not really see the difference. My grandparents lived on a farm and physical labor was the norm, and I am talking absolutely back breaking labor that started at 4am. And very little sugar of any kind. Even non-farm workers helped out esp at harvest. Now people are extremely sedentary and eat insan…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 05:39 PM
2

I am really conservative (Trump Reagan Tea party) and I got a 6
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:19 PM
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The reason you are being willfully obtuse about what makes for alpha traits is because you would rather play the victim rather than take responsibility for your life. After all, it is all about being 6 ft right, so you have an excuse to do nothing.
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 07:06 AM
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Being alpha does not preclude Developing beta traits. A man can have both. A powerful surgeon for example
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 06:49 AM
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Very well said!! It is amazing how many people would rather be victims rather than try for success. That is why the world is so full of betas
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 06:18 AM
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No. Alpha men don’t think that. No, misogyny is not a step towards Alpha. Geez haven’t you ever even met an alpha guy?!?
/r/TheRedPill15/08/21 05:41 AM
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Some of the chemicals released in the brain during sex promote bonding. That’s not to say that the two people necessarily fall in love, but chemically speaking, formation of a bond is promoted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 08:38 PM
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The country could really use some RP teachers! But, like Jesus, that would not be an easy role. Don’t forget how that story ended 😂
/r/RPChristians13/08/21 01:18 PM
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Any men who consider this interesting are beta cuck losers. Get on your grind, hit the gym, and stop being such pussies.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:58 PM
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We like em thick and curvy 🤩
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 11:54 PM
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I have to agree with the women on this one. There are a huge number of toxic guys out there who have such huge personality problems his physical issues are never even an issue. While a guy might also be rejected for his looks too, there is such a huge diversity of opinion on looks, even ugly guys can find a woman who finds them attractive, or at least acceptable. But once the guy adopts a defeatist toxic attitude, it becomes the primary issue. And there is just no saving most men from themselves…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 08:31 PM
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I know about it because when I was 16-18ish I was pretty hot and athletic, and had sexual encounters with a shocking number of married women, most of whom I honestly could not believe, you would just never think this sweet normal mom would act that way. The whole story line that woman are against an age gap is absolutely LAUGHABLE. Now I am sure you and many women are not into it, and I am sure your disapproval of an age gap is sincere, but you should recognize that women are the same as men in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 02:12 PM
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Both FDS and many RP subs are moderated by mods who are so weak that they can’t handle debate. I think PP is the only place for people of intelligence to actually discuss the topics.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 01:42 PM
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First, I think it is important to point out that we are talking about statutory rape, which is not actually rape, it is a legal fiction where we pretend it is rape for legal purposes, to advance a social goal. In this case, it is protect girls from getting impregnated while they are too young to make wise decisions. I would think that feminists would be against this infantilization of young women. This does not really apply to young men, since they can’t be impregnated, so statutory rape laws ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 04:05 AM
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For the first 10 years or so sex was absolutely great. The first time we had a db was because our 3-4 children were twins and it nearly killed her, literally. Between physical problems, and exhaustion from two newborns and two others, sex was non-existent for a while, and then rare. But in all honesty it never really bothered me because it was just physical health problems, and I was dedicated to my career and spending time with the older kids. We rebounded over time, but then things slowed down…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 08:20 PM
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I think that the majority of relationships start with lots of sex on both sides, it is after a few years goes by that sex drops off. I agree that HLF also have struggles, and these are also important, but this is a RP discussion, so we are trying to learn about women’s behaviors and motivations, not men’s. I personally find it incomprehensible how a man could marry a woman and not want to have sex with her. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:53 PM
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That could definitely play a role, but unless he is just a complete loser in the sack, I am skeptical that this is the real explanation. When a woman is really into a man, pretty much anything he does in bed is hot. There is another factor involved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:45 PM
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Life is a constant struggle, if you are not moving forward you are falling behind. A couple’s sex life rises and ebbs with time. Dread is certainly a tool to use. I think passive dread in particular is good. Active dread is powerful but dangerous, and should be used only as a last resort.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:39 PM
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😂 😂 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:34 PM
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“I’m intimidated by a high earning female” is the “Let’s just be friends” phrase for weak woke men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 10:27 PM
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I don’t thin you have to worry about a relationship with a southern girl. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 09:32 PM
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My impression of women from the PNW are that they are like the “pastor’s wife” from the 50’s. Obsessed with silly dogma, and absolutely unwilling to stand for anyone who disagrees in the slightest.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 03:03 AM
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I think Red pill as defined by the creator Rollo Tomassi is extremely helpful to men. Reddit forums are almost always toxic garbage, and red pill related ones are even worse. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/21 01:15 AM
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I agree with you completely! These forums are toxic! PurplePill is the only one worth reading, and even this is pretty weak. My impression is that it is currently run by women, as almost all of the questions and comments are from a female perspective, but I don’t know that for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:29 PM
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I know! 😂 I’m working on it. It is a difficult challenge. I’m a lot better suited for logical jobs, engineering and such. Interpersonal skills are not my strong suit but I am working on it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:23 PM
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It sounds like he did desire you, and you did not desire him (because of weight gain and cod)? I’m confused. It sounds like what you want is for him to lose weight and work harder on success.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:31 PM
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I like a good challenge. I’m down to up the excitement!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:26 PM
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Nothing and nobody can “make you feel something.” Stuff can happen, but we chose how we respond. If your parents die, you can wallow in self pity, or celebrate the life they had. If someone calls you names, you can get angry, or you can be sorry that they are unhappy and venting on you. And the reason you work hard to succeed is not to buy people, but to have the power to achieve your goals, and hopefully to help other people along the way. The reason most successful business people work so late…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:21 PM
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I’m not disagreeing with your point, but I don’t think the tiger example works, because I think women are turned on by domesticated tigers. At least according to The Tiger King 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:06 PM
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No woman ever got wet from a man with a mop (Shameless, tv show). Being good with kids though, I think that might be a turn on for many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 12:02 PM
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That is one option, but not necessarily a good one. Better to learn and stay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:58 AM
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Accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:57 AM
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Women keep saying this, but I have yet to meet a man who actually thinks it. 😂 most men could not care less what a woman makes, and the rest are happy for the extra money.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:54 AM
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I can’t say you are wrong 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:42 AM
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Because if you can give them what they really want then they will let’s us see their boobies 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:39 AM
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Surprisingly to me, it appears the majority are women. But the majority on Reddit are women so that might be the reason. Plenty of men too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:34 AM
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No, but I like to think about things, and I have not yet concluded he is wrong. Do you think he is wrong? What advice would you give to a man trying to improve his “sex appeal” with his wife, since looks are not so important to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:31 AM
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How do we get women on board emotionally when rationality does not work? I think, my friend, you just asked the ultimate question. That is what we need to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:24 AM
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Is it though? I have been thinking about this more and more, and I think it is rather illuminating. I work hard at making money and staying fit. I am very responsible. But when was the last time I (or most men) put effort into being exciting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:22 AM
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A guy who is 5’ tall with a micro penis should not dwell on the fact that he is going to be rejected by many women because of his size. Instead he should just accept it, focus on things he can control, working out, making lots of money, etc, so that he can find one of the women who don’t care about his size. It is actually an empowering world view. Fighting against reality is the wrong approach to life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 11:06 AM
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You certainly should work to change things you can change. Everyone should get an equal opportunity. But demanding equal results is either foolish, or the road to slavery.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:58 AM
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The law of the jungle is reality whether I like it or not. I am sure the lazy losers of the world would happily steal my stuff if they had a chance. I would prefer that they work hard and succeed, but if they want to go another route, that is what the second amendment is for. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:53 AM
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Rather than using derogatory terms “gold digging whores” who only respect men who are 6’, if you use different terms I think you and any feminist will agree with TRP thoughts. Women almost universally want a man who at least earns as much as them, who in their right mind would want to partner with a lazy idiot who can’t succeed? I would not want any of my beloved daughters to marry a loser. Whore? Say instead that women are sexual creatures just like men and they should celebrate this. It is fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 10:45 AM
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AWaLT does not mean all women are bad. That would be AWAB. 😂 We love women, we just want to better understand them so they like us
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/21 01:28 AM
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FDS seems to be super toxic and they just seem to generally hate men. And they viciously hate TRP because of a whole bunch of beliefs that they say TRP believes that TRP does not believe at all. TRP is mainly just guys who want a gf and are trying to figure out how to attract one. Although there are plenty of burned out losers who just use TRP to vent and spout nonsense, so maybe in a lot of ways they are not so different. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/21 05:09 PM
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“Life isn’t fair” is not a dismissive response, it is an acknowledgment that mother nature is not fair, there is no way around it, and you just have to accept it. Some people are born short, some tall. What can anyone do about it? Bitching and whining about it does nothing to help, it just hurts to dwell on it. Just accept it and move on. Some are smart, hardworking, pretty, lucky, born into wealthy families, etc. some are not. Only children complain about fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/21 04:37 PM
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GenX tended to date without sex much longer. So there would be a lot of non exclusive dating, until things progressed to a point, then you would have sex and become exclusive. The problem that arises from sex starting so early is that you have two bad options. Sex with multiple people at the same time, or serial monogamy with people you barely know
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 11:12 PM
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Great post!! Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:42 AM
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There is a lot of evidence to support this
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:33 AM
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This is correct, she even acknowledged he was a great father
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:22 AM
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Maybe he needs to focus more on being exciting.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:10 AM
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Subs like Dead bedrooms stuffed with guys complaining how sex dies out after marriage. 50% of marriages falling apart. Cheating is an epidemic. Most movies and tv shows love to get a laugh about how married guys never get sex after marriage. It’s a pretty standard complaint.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 05:04 AM
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That is the ultimate question. Is your list of reasons what leads to the DB. Or is the loss of attraction just an inevitable result of marriage? A lot of commentators claim it is inevitable, and there sure seems to be a lot of evidence to support it. Society certainly loves to joke about how married guys don’t get sex any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:58 AM
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What attracts you to him in the first place? If you were not already attracted to him, his dirty talk would just gross you out.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:49 AM
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This is a good example of the differences between male communication which focuses on logic, and female communication which focuses on feelings. You are correct that her reason might be irrational, but she is correct that the rationality is not relevant. If she feels it, it is true as far is she is concerned. If it kills her attraction, she is not going to want sex. It is up to the guy to get her on board emotionally, regardless of whether her issues are correct or rational.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:42 AM
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Interesting! That might be right on the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:31 AM
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Ronen man (you tuber) says that loss of attraction after marriage is inevitable, and there is no way to maintain true sexual attraction over time. His position is that the only way a married woman can have great sex is via an affair, which provides the necessary emotional stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/21 04:24 AM
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True but if you want kids marriage is a huge plus to their success and happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/21 12:54 PM
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Letting other people tell you what to do is beta. If you chose commitment, it is alpha AF. You have to have serious game and frame to hold a woman for 30+ years.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:05 PM
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I don’t think it is correct to say that women reject men who say they only want something casual. This happens all the time, and I think it is generally considered pretty alpha to say you want something casual. Many women consider this a challenge. Indeed, it is actually really beta to be looking for a relationship. It signals weakness and neediness,and feminine energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/21 08:11 PM
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For both men and women, respect must be earned. If some random average guy just meets some random average girl (or vice versa), one would not expect there to be “respect.” On what basis? I mean you should treat each other decently and all that, but one would not expect there to be real respect because there has not yet been an opportunity to build it. This takes time, to show strength and character. Over time though, I think there are plenty of men who respect plenty of women. Although there wil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 03:48 PM
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Tru. Women love military guys. Firefighters too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:38 PM
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That is definitely textbook alpha. Totally self absorbed. Demanding. Emotionally immature. They definitely have huge problems with an LTR. But there is also no doubt that they find it easy to get laid. Women love drug dealers, bad boys. The key is to develop both alpha qualities, such as strength, courage, ruthlessness even to a degree. But also develop beta qualities such as loyalty, maturity, dedication, hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 08:01 PM
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I don’t think your comment accurately reflects TRP thought. There are alpha and beta traits, everyone has some level of each. TRP teaches men with too much beta to strive to build strong alpha traits as well. For example, a weak pushover guy who makes a lot of money, should keep the positive beta trait of financial success, but also hit the gym, build some muscles, take a boxing class, and learn to say no to toxic people. I think it is worth noting that most pure alpha types have many of their o…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:52 PM
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I didn’t downvote you. I’m not even necessarily saying bigger is better in the modern world. I’m just saying that biological programming from 100000 years of evolution says that women should get bigger and stronger because that has historically been what wins. It may be out of date, big guys are certainly bigger targets to shoot, but that programming definitely still exists. It’s not like women rationally plan to go after tall guys, they just feel those biological tingles that tell them to mate …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:39 PM
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Maybe you should try to talk a small fighter into fighting in the heavyweight division? Sorry but size is an absolutely deciding factor in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:32 PM
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In all fairness, hot guys can do the same. Anyone who is physically hot can match up with a less attractive partner who has money.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:52 PM
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Rick and Morty fans might remember Beth’s rant about how their son was going to fail school - “It’s not like he is a hot girl who can just bail on her life and set up shop in someone else’s!”
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 01:20 PM
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If things get tough, you want to be on team “giant guy” who is 6’3, or more, not team little guy. All else being equal, the bigger guy is going to win the fight. And you also want to have big strong sons who also can succeed and survive in a dangerous world. This is just pure biological programming.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 02:23 AM
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I have spent a huge amount of time at the beach, and I have to agree with OP. There are a huge percentage of women at the beach alone, and they are indeed very open to a beach fling.
/r/seduction20/07/21 04:02 AM
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A girl that vacuous definitely goes to the bottom of the list. Don’t block her, I mean you can still potentially screw her, but don’t ever think of her a potential gf.
/r/seduction19/07/21 07:57 PM
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Are you sure? I mean it may have technically existed in a lab or something, but I don’t recall anyone having it until maybe 38 years ago, the first system was “ON” TV that I recall, and it had like one channel I think. I could be wrong because this was long ago, but it was certainly very limited, and any nudity was very limited to special channels that were blocked unless authorized.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 03:34 AM
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Women today: I’m just looking for a reasonably attractive guy who is not morbidly obese, who takes a shower once in a while, who has basic social skills, and some hope for a future career. Men: nope that is way too much. You should love my fat weak body, I am afraid of showers, and I want to play video games a minimum of 10 hours a day
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:24 PM
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Everyone worked all day 6 days a week back then, they worked those hours because this was required to eat, not because someone forced them to. My great grandmother and grandparents had some amazing stories from that time, it was a struggle to not starve to death. The reason hours dropped was because of increases in productivity from the industrial revolution, not a government program. The same is true today. With increased productivity, I can pay my workers more and require less hours. But for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 06:03 PM
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They kind of didn’t, at least nothing like today, and not for kids. 40 years ago there were no computers in the home, no cable. Then for years video games were a game or two of Pac-Man on a Friday night. Porn was a nudie mag if you could get one, and even those were tame. Not video games for 10 hours a day and hardcore porn 24-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/21 05:48 PM
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It is really important that you recognize the truth about government action. What we have now is what you say you want, everyone can chose for themselves. When you talk about government programs, you are talking about mandates that people do things differently, or police come and drag you off to jail. Literally. This is not hyperbole. I know jargon about 4 day workweeks sounds great, but as a voter who is making real life policy decisions, it is important to understand what you are really voting…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 05:28 PM
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Anyone who makes it about “teams” either does not understand TRP or is intentionally misrepresenting it. TRP is simple about men understanding women. Dispelling fairy tale myths about women. But not hating them. They are not angels but not devils either. I think the biggest take-home is something that is really common sense. A man has to take care of things. He needs to stay strong and fit. He needs to make money and pursue success. He needs to continue to grow in strength over the years. Or his…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:54 PM
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Under the current system, people are free to do all of this if they want. What you are proposing is really MANDATING this for other people who may not want it. I personally want to make more money and work more hours. I suggest that you should not push to mandate other people live according to your wishes. Freedom is always the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 04:41 PM
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The reason a large segment of men are not having sex is because a large segment of young men are TOTAL LOSERS. Fat, lazy, physically weak and out of shape, bad health, bad diet, and too much time spent on video games, sick porn, masturbating, eating fast food, and looking at their phones. Not to mention no social skills. No women can stomach them. Any guys who want to turn their lives around, the solution is simple. 2 hrs of physical labor and working out a day, eat healthy food with low sugar a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/21 01:52 PM
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“You” were not rejected, she just rejected your offer of a kiss at that moment. You got lucky that she was so into you that she chased you down. Next time don’t give up so easily. You have to be able to take some no’s without completely bailing.
/r/seduction17/07/21 01:38 PM
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I think she was disgusted with that oafish approach. How awkward, unoriginal, and annoying. Women like intelligent subtle and witty. Not “wow yur preddy”. Simple but better: notice her cute bag, interesting piece of jewelry, hairstyle, or something. Something you can have a friendly and non-awkward conversation about. If she has a cute Disney bag, for example, there is likely a good story about how she got it, her favorite Disney characters, etc. Hope this helps
/r/seduction11/07/21 03:41 PM
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She is DATING this guy, they are not married. You are free to show her your interest and try to win her over. That is what dating is all about, she should be meeting lots of guys and finding the right one. Meanwhile, you should also spend time with other girls, you might find a better one. And regarding the comment that she would make it happen if she were interested, that is bs. Does a fisherman wait for a fish to jump in his boat? It is on you to make it happen. But kind of chunky, and not sur…
/r/RPChristians09/07/21 04:41 AM
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Society teaches men that women don’t care about looks, dad bod is hot, just focus on your career, work 80 hrs a week to be a good provider. Men are often scorned for spending too much time at the gym. Men who follow this advice end up getting no sex and cucked. Check out Deadbedrooms. Filled with stories like this. Men who are RP learn to hit the gym, lift the iron, and stay hot enough to get the sex they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/21 01:51 PM
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Why do people here honestly think men go through the hassle and expense of a dating app? 1) they want an intelligent friend to discuss Shakespeare with. 2) they love philosophy and want to have deep discussions about the meaning of life. 3) they are horny as hell and desperately want someone who will fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/21 04:41 AM
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I think the most important part of TRP is correctly understanding women’s nature, strengths and weaknesses. What you do with this knowledge can vary a lot depending upon your own goals. This can definitely include marriage if you are so inclined. I think spinning plates makes a lot of sense when you are younger, you need to learn the game and get to know a lot of women. As you get older, I think it is common to pick the best of your women and settle down. A marriage is the best environment for c…
/r/TheRedPill27/06/21 03:55 AM
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The number one most important lesson is to follow your own path and not GAF about what other people want or expect. You passed with an A young king.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:44 PM
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My thoughts exactly! Fake tits, piercings and tats are a hard no for me. They are basically telling you they are low value and erratic
/r/askTRP20/06/21 09:25 PM
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Great comment! I personally think that traditional marriage is the ultimate goal for real happiness. Spinning plates is fine for kids learning the basics, you can fail a lot early on and break plates, no problem because you have many. But once you are ready, you use those RP skills to make the relationship work for life. It is the ultimate RP challenge to hold frame etc for decades. You can’t break plates any more so no mistakes allowed 😂 but you need to have a solid woman for your wife, it won’…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/21 08:38 PM
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I agree. Dread is kind of a relationship nuclear weapon, and especially overt dread like this. I don’t know if you want to be launching the nukes over some late texts. Maybe you need to work on some other aspects of your game?
/r/askTRP12/06/21 01:47 PM
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Rather than such a strong open like you are cute, which can be off putting and make the girl defensive, how about just strike up a normal conversation ? It that goes well you can lead to some future meeting for coffee or something. Once she is comfortable that you are not a psycho.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/21 05:51 PM
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The correct approach is to learn what reality IS, and then deal with it. Not to whine about whether it is “fair” or not.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 11:54 PM
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I agree pornstars are slightly above average at best, and most are quite below average. Really attractive women are in such huge demand, why would they ever work? They don’t need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:14 AM
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Men today are pathetically weak, fat, and lazy. On top of being incredibly socially inept, insecure, and whiny. I think women have pretty low standards. Those low standards are just not being met. Pretty damn pathetic. Hit the gym, quit eating McDonalds, and for god sake quit whining.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 05:09 AM
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Patent attorney. It requires a very long process to get into the field, science/ engineering undergrad degree, then law school, then two bar exams, then 5 years to actually learn the job. But once you are in, it is amazing. I help people launch new companies, and new products, and protect them from knockoffs. Very difficult, but very rewarding, and the pay is quite good. Don’t underestimate the importance of doing something you can be proud of.
/r/askTRP30/04/21 04:40 AM
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My dating and early marriage were the same. They key is to maintain. Keep lifting and stay in shape. Don’t let it slide. It is easy to lose frame as you grow older and have kids.
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:25 PM
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You are Chad 😂
/r/askTRP28/04/21 11:24 PM
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Your helping her get a job does not entitle you to her affection. 😂
/r/askTRP19/04/21 05:05 PM
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A man on his purpose acts a certain way. Mainly just “not weak and needy.” A man who acts this way is extremely attractive to women. Also, being on your purpose prevents you from making many mistakes. If you legit are really busy, you won’t act like a needy fool falling all over a potential SO. You are too busy to do it. Let me give you an example from my life. I was fortunately on my purpose when a girl I really liked called. I wanted to offer to come see her the next day (she was about an hour…
/r/askTRP17/04/21 03:52 AM
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I am older and this may be a trend in younger people. Also it was a college group, which may be different.
/r/askTRP17/04/21 12:32 AM
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Aside from this, what does your gut say? Is she acting odd?
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:49 AM
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I’m sure that happens, but I personally have never seen it. It mainly seems to be in college where the absolute hottest girls get married, often to guys they met in college, or from HS. I thought I was getting married really early right out of college myself, then suddenly a year or two later almost all of my friends were married too. I think a lot of the guys who were still partying were suddenly like wtf? I generally agree that men’s SMV goes up, but smart women anticipate this and select men …
/r/askTRP15/04/21 03:02 AM
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I’m a big fan of marring young because the absolutely best and hottest women get snatched up in their early 20’s.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 04:02 AM
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Sorry it took so long to respond, I have been busy. To address a substantive point, let’s try solipsism. The argument is that nature has made women inherently focused on themselves to protect them and children from danger. When two neighbors go to war, the men all pretty much fight to the death, and the winners take over. Women can either fight and die themselves, or they can sit out the fight and join the winners. Through evolution, the women who fought tended to die off, while the ones who too…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 03:47 AM
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I am not familiar with this work, what is the source? In any case, Pointing out differences between men and women is not inherently misogynistic. There are biological differences, and it can be informative to study them. Although I know that this is about the extent of the modern left thinking, name calling. How about actually addressing one or more of these points? I don’t agree with the first paragraph, which makes me wonder about the source, but there is solid scientific evidence of the other…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/21 03:46 AM
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This is completely mainstream TRP thought. Minus all of the stuff critics imagine TRP believes. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 07:53 PM
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AMS is awesome!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 02:02 AM
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It is frustrating that a lot of bitter losers get lumped into the Red Pill movement. The core Red Pill teachings are very positive, in my opinion. In life, the real solution is always to fix yourself, not change another. Work out, excel financially, make yourself desirable. Be “on your purpose.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 08:28 PM
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Red Pill is NOT saying men are any better at any of these things. Men and women are basically the same in all of these respects. The difference is that society teaches that women are NOT any of these things. Red pill is the realization that women have these same traits, just like men. There are practical advantages to having this knowledge. Lots of men focus on their careers and end up getting fat. They need to know that they need to maintain fitness and strength, or their wife will lose interes…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:51 PM
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What does the first point even mean? Totally confused by that one. Others look good
/r/seduction03/04/21 06:33 PM
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Only a blue pill simp would believe this twaddle. All women act like this, and it is completely misguided to think there are “good girls” who are above it. They just put up a better front. That is one of the major revelations of TRP. I use to think this way as a blue pill youth, but reality just kept contradicting my beliefs. Beautiful, upper middle class girls from good families, going to top universities, acting like wanton harlots when given the chance with the right guy. Married women lookin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:50 PM
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I remember when I first started dating in college, I felt the exact same way. I dealt with it by simply asking the girls lots of questions, and not spending a lot of time talking about myself. It seemed to go over very well, and I’ll never forget the first time one of the girls commented on how great I was to talk to, and another said something about me being mysterious. Lol.
/r/askTRP30/03/21 10:06 PM
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Weird you would obsess about your face, just forget about it. My face is off a bit from a childhood injury, and now my nose a bit from multiple breaks. But in all honesty I have never given it a thought, and have never had anyone comment or even appear to notice. They are probably just noticing how tall and muscular you are, and wondering why you are not closing. As any good salesman will tell you, you should always be closing! Flush the insecurities and go with confidence.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 10:49 PM
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I’m not a no fapper lol. Do what I want! Certainly before bed would have less of an impact. But there is an energy drain. Most top athletes would never mastubate or have sex before a competition, even the night before. And the “release” that you mention is a loss of energy and drive. No release equals more drive.
/r/askTRP29/03/21 09:13 PM
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It is a huge drain of energy that you could otherwise put to productive use.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 07:34 PM
1

I want a woman who is smart and high quality, but I want her to raise our children, not pursue a career.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 03:09 AM
1

It is really sad that it seems almost impossible these days to be financially successful and also develop the strength and fitness that goes along with masculinity. My grandfather became rich while spending 1/2 of his time farming, so he was very strong and masculine. Not possible today, with houses costing $1mil and taxes taking 1/2. You have to sit in the office 8-10 hours a day to make it. Younger guys now have almost no masculinity left, they spend all day in school and have arms like twigs.…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 07:04 PM
1

Feminists! 😂 the new kind not the originals. Neo -feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/21 03:41 AM
1

To this day they talk about McCarthy as a crazy right wing nut who was on a witch hunt. Notwithstanding the fact that history has proven that his allegations were spot on correct. Many of the key figures he called out were later proven to be Russian spies.
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:14 AM
0

How does cutting and simplifying the tax code “stratify the wealth gap?” Being unable to stop Dems on Congress from spending like drunken sailers is hardly Reagan’s fault. We’re you even following his career when it happened or did you read this in some leftist propaganda manual?
/r/askTRP23/03/21 03:09 AM
2

This is a great topic for TRP! The good news is that with that attitude, a little hard work and success is guaranteed, it just takes a little time, and your first ideas may not work. But if you keep at it, you will find the niche. First off, you don’t typically want to jump right into entrepreneurship from unemployment. You need to make enough for Raman and such. And you need some basic experience. Fast food may be a start, but try low level positions in a field you would like to enter. You need…
/r/askTRP18/03/21 03:27 AM
1

This is absurd. It is absolutely acceptable to set the level of association you are willing to accept, and it might be lower than lovers. Such as friend. And the other person can chose to accept or decline.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/21 02:43 AM
1

Who can contradict Sir Mix a lot, the answer is clear. 36-24-36 and 5’3”.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/21 03:05 PM
2

It is really useful to get a completely uneducated opinion on red pill from someone who clearly does not even know the basics of what red pill teaches. Lol. But he is against “pill labeling”. Here is an idea, to avoid getting ridiculed, maybe read The Rational Male before commenting further.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:30 PM
6

You just went full red pill beast mode on her and drug her into your frame by brute force, she is yours for the enjoyment. Nothing simp like for enjoying a properly chastised plate. Nothing alpha about being hard or cold either. Where does this stuff come from? Just be aware of her nature, handle any tests, and don’t swamp her with validation or get needy. You can still cuddle and be human.
/r/askTRP05/03/21 12:42 AM
2

Sorry I was responding to one of the many comments to this effect!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:24 PM
2

Why is it considered shallow / bad to be attracted to looks?!? That is the way people are built, and there is nothing wrong with it. In a lot of ways it is the MOST fair. Anyone can obtain at least decent looks by eating right and working out. Most people can be solidly above average with hard work. Easily enough to have plenty of choices. TBH that is really me, I’m no model but I got into great shape and had plenty of great women to chose from. People are just lazy and don’t want to do the work…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/21 11:09 PM
1

Health is the cure for many problems, it gives you the energy and drive to do other things, so I would start there. Health is largely based upon habits. Are you in the habit of waking up early and working out hard for a couple of hours, or do you sleep in. Do you eat pancakes and doughnuts, or vegetables and lean meat. Start by establishing the habits, then worry about building intensity. Wake up at 6am and do SOMETHING every morning. I love swimming, but it can be a walk in the park, a basketba…
/r/seduction03/03/21 02:41 AM
1

I think it is very often the case that people marry in their own class, but not necessarily for family approval. There are a lot of factors. For example, people often marry people they know from school, which is very based upon class. Also, there are many stresses to a marriage when class differences are significant. Rich men want to avoid gold diggers. There can be friction between the families because of envy. Vacations in particular are stressful if one family likes the Caribbean and the othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:20 AM
1

As a gen x member, I have watched society’s social skills plummet over my lifetime. My grandparents lived in a really social world where people treated each other very well. When I went back to visit, the whole town would take us in. We were invited to sports games, every neighbor and cousin would invite us over. Church activities were every weekend. It was really a different world. The boomer generation and gen x moved around a lot, so you saw a deterioration in community, but my generation sti…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/21 11:06 PM
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Big no to most of these comments. First of all, eye contact. Don’t close your eyes!! Lean in slightly and read her reaction. Does she pull away of look like she is thinking no? It will be pretty obvious if she wants you to. Don’t grab her and pull her. Save that for the second kiss. First you have to make sure she wants it and grabbing is a big no. If she seems to be thinking yes, lean in further, and it should be clear what she wants. Let her close the last few inches. Not only is there clear c…
/r/askTRP06/02/21 12:54 AM
1

Rollo Tomasi says that the greatest fear a woman has is that they pick a guy that she thinks is a strong and confident alpha, and then finds out he is a weak needy beta. From the comments, women clearly want an emotional connection with their man, so they want their man to share emotions with them. Just make sure you don’t show the kind of weakness that shows you to be a weak beta. Reddit is full of posts by women who talk about how certain disclosures of weakness have left them feeling disgust …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/21 03:46 AM
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I don’t know if this is a frame problem so much as a sex issue. You have to have the proper skills to be rough and use really dirty talk. Women are pretty quick to bail if the sex does not work for their tastes, as they have a dozen other guys to chose from. I think the only alpha response to this situation is to chalk it up to a learning experience and move along. Everyone loses a few for various random reasons. You might lose the next one for not being rough enough.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 07:40 PM
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She isn’t relationship material, but I don’t think that means you can’t still bang her. Have you given her anal yet? Treat her like the hoe she is.
/r/askTRP02/02/21 02:28 AM
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It is widely reported from women who have been raped or assaulted that they often have rape fantasies afterwards. I don’t know why or what it means. I agree that this does not mean they want it to happen in reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 04:33 PM
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/r/askTRP31/01/21 12:45 AM
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You need to start meeting and interacting with people. Here are some tips I learned from my very social friend. When you are out and about (eg grocery store), make eye contact with people, smile, and say hi. Comment about something simple. The weather. Something interesting they are wearing. The new or old car they are driving. Basically anything that catches you eye. Try to say a few things and start a conversation, even if only for a minute while standing in line. Eventually you will start lea…
/r/askTRP30/01/21 06:55 PM
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Well said! The only thing I would modify, NOT FEARING the LACK of money is the key to freedom. You don’t necessarily have to have it. Although it is certainly nice to have it. 😂 but you can be very happy with little money
/r/askTRP29/01/21 08:30 PM
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If you might be interested in getting back together you might want to talk with her, as she obviously wants to. I once broke up with a wonderful woman for some stupid reasons, mainly fear of commitment. Thank goodness she forgave me and took me back. We are all just humans doing the best we can. You are going to need to be able to handle a lot more difficulty in life than a simple breakup! But if she is telling people she is suicidal, huge red flag, you may be better off. Bullet dodged. That is …
/r/askTRP28/01/21 01:26 AM
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This is extremely common, and I’ll tell you most guys describe it as being blindsided when they find out, often when the wife cheats or leaves. They don’t get the hints. I would really recommend taking the male approach and being blunt. Tell him about losing attraction, as much as it hurts both of you. Tell him that you still love him, but he needs to do x, y, z. Men love tasks, problems to solve.
/r/RedPillWives27/01/21 02:22 AM
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I am not saying this to be snarky, but how could you have unprotected sex with a single mom with her family background?!? I mean are you crazy?
/r/RPChristians27/01/21 02:02 AM
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A desire for security usually stems for weakness and insecurity. Work on making yourself strong and confident so you are ready for whatever comes.
/r/askTRP27/01/21 01:11 AM
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Women cheat either because they get bored with their husband, or he loses attractiveness. Men cheat either because they are players who never really intend loyalty, or because their woman loses interest and stops having sex with him. So men’s cheating is definitely not always about not caring about his wife, check out dead bedroom sub. Some guys cheat out of despair because their wife is no longer interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:13 PM
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You need more plates, then the answer would be clear. Anyone who has a big problem with her having a relationship with her ex has not yet fully grasped hypergamy. All women have other guys in their rotation. Don’t get butthurt about it. But her not giving him sex is a nonstarter. If she is not putting out she should not make it into the rotation until she mends her ways. Then he can leave the ex a creampie to clean up.
/r/askTRP24/01/21 03:47 AM
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This seems like an over the top overreaction to me, and indicates insecurities. Women are always going to have contact with other men, and some of them will be hot and she will have some attraction to them. This is inevitable and unavoidable. An alpha has no problem with this. The mere fact that it could be associated with monkey branching is not enough, because ALL women have this instinct and potential. If you want to date a female this must be accepted. The problems would be 1) if she were sh…
/r/askTRP20/01/21 07:39 PM
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The amount of time people work has been plummeting over the last 50-60 years. My grandparents, the greatest generation, worked such insane hours I just felt embarrassed. As a teenager I could barely keep up with him for 2-3 hours and I would be exhausted. He would work 10 hours + of hard farm labor followed by building a seed and chemical company. That’s what depression level hunger does for you. My generation x is pretty hard working but we are pikers compared to them. I think the current gener…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 01:46 AM
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Being in fantastic shape is like being a minor god. Lol. Women love you. You rarely get sick or injured. Life is good. I recommend it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 12:32 AM
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If you think a ruler of our society takes the job of a legislator or cop, you have a really poor understanding of the world. If you want to see who is really in charge, go to a mall or cafe or nice restaurant on a Tuesday afternoon and see who is loafing around with friends. I’ll give you a hint: the men are all at work as cops and legislators.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/21 11:38 PM
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Focusing on your goals does not preclude you from talking with several or even dozens of women per day. Just socially. This added experience will make it easy to maintain a good conversation. Asking Questions and having them talk about themselves is the best, it is guaranteed the best conversation she ever had. Lol. Family. Interests. Trips taken, or that she would like to take. It’s endless.
/r/askTRP18/01/21 10:14 PM
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For all of the guys out there who barely talk to women, or who only talk to them in a pursuit context, the best thing you can do is simply learn to talk with a female. Like a regular person. So you don’t sound like a weirdo when you talk to a girl you are interested in dating. So here is an action item you can add to your routine. When you go to some public place, say a grocery store, make eye contact with the first suitable person who appears on your path. Smile and say hi, good morning, whatev…
/r/askTRP18/01/21 07:27 PM
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This is a good comment generally, but I disagree on one point. The famous thing for a purple pill, that this one is different, that is a classic blue pill comment, not a purple pill one. Purple pill is a red pill, only who wants to have a traditional wife and family, a nuclear family is optimal for raising children. But we understand female nature, and we know that our wife is not special.
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:11 AM
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I think you hit it spot on. They are desperate for an excuse. Some people would rather have an excuse than success. I don’t understand it but I see it all the time. Sad
/r/askTRP16/01/21 12:05 AM
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The barriers they erect only apply to LVM. HVM skip these conditions. So TRP teaches you to not put up with any bs, thereby signaling you are HVM. But simps just can’t help themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/21 10:01 PM
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She invested 5 years into your relationship, why did she bail? Just my opinion, but maybe take up boxing or karate rather than the harmonica? I mean assuming you would like to eventually attract a new girl.
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 07:25 PM
1

Mr Zero knew before you did?
/r/MGTOW210/01/21 07:22 PM
1

This is a good example of why TRP is valuable. This is the kind of stuff it teaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/21 07:19 PM
1

In college I had to chose between a SAHM and a career girl (getting ready for med school). There was never any doubt for me. I wanted a SAHM. I can make all the money I need, I want someone devoted to raising good kids. Having a few extra bucks does not compare to having healthy successful children. And coming home to a healthy dinner and clean house. Well, somewhat clean. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:11 AM
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Lots of people start at your age, and it is really fun. I only dabbled at various times, I am still not serious about it. Lately I have been doing more fitness related kickboxing, and yoga (a serious mma trainer got me into it, and it has seriously helped my back and neck, where I have always had problems). And I took a few boxing classes, on a lark, and that was fun, but kind of beyond me. The trainer was a serious old school boxer who was constantly ramming cauliflower and broccoli dipped in r…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 06:44 PM
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I hate to hear you describe yourself as a loser. You sound like a cool guy. If you call yourself that it is tough to overcome it. Especially with years of getting hurt. I can tell you some things that help me: Really intense workouts and eating right. Endorphins. Good body chemistry. Maybe some good muscles. Martial arts are great for fitness and confidence. Move to an entirely new city where you can start fresh as a whole new you. Self help and motivational books and tapes. Uplifting music. Fil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 05:58 AM
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Make it a special point to start saying no to several things a day. Even if you are ok with something, just make a point to say no. Get used to it.
/r/RedPillBooks31/12/20 06:37 AM
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I want them to marry the hottest, tallest, richest, most alpha stud they can find. I don’t want short stupid poor grandkids.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 12:09 AM
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I completely support hypergamy. I have three daughters and I don’t want any of them getting stuck with some loser. In any case, I don’t know if TRP is about supporting or opposing it, just understanding it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:28 PM
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I agree with you that the mind cannot change reality and make you taller or change physical reality. I also agree that there are physical traits that can make an alpha mindset and confidence much easier. Just like being 6’7” and athletic can make basketball easier. But alpha/ confidence is purely a mental state, it is not constrained by any physical requirements. Let me give you two examples to illustrate this: I remember vividly learning to ride a bike (who knows why this memory persists). I ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 08:41 PM
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Alpha is purely a state of mind. Any beta could become an alpha if they change their mindset. The first step is to quit making excuses, and blaming things like height. Seriously, excuse making will hold you back more than anything I can think of.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 03:46 AM
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Everyone has some measure of A and B in them. Those we call beta are just people who are short on alpha qualities. A beta should focus on acquiring A traits. They can be learned.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/20 02:03 AM
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Relationships are partnerships. As an attorney I can tell you that all partnerships have an adversarial aspect to them. Each partner wants to maximize benefits while minimizing costs. You have have realistic expectations and deal with the conflict. Naive romantic notions only lead to problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/20 06:36 PM
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This seems to be a pretty good summary of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/20 01:09 AM
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Red pill men ought to recognize that they are the prize. This is basic to holding frame. Beta simps think women are the prize.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 11:32 PM
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Oh wow thank goodness you were here to tell us!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 11:10 PM
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There is no doubt that both genes and society play a role. I don’t think your characterizations of what society teaches are entirely accurate though. And also it varies a lot. Responsible parents warn boys and girls of dangers. Irresponsible parents teach sleeping around without precautions. There is no shortage of responsible men or irresponsible women. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 10:50 PM
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I have never understood these kinds of posts. What is the point? Do you think your argument about “consistency” is going to override 100,000 years of biological evolution? Men are wary of high n count women for LTR because men can’t be certain a promiscuous women will be bearing their children. It is really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 05:03 AM
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What would a millennial know about it you were an infant during those years? Lol. Almost everything you said is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/20 02:23 AM
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That is hilarious!! I didn’t know Luigi was such a badass!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/20 05:37 PM
2

The one commonality of all living things is that they reproduce. From viruses to humans. Any genes that don’t are immediately removed from the gene pool and replaced with those that do. I think most scientists recognize the theory of the “greedy gene.” I am sure philosophers can argue forever about free will and such, but the biological drive to reproduce is pretty much impossible to refute.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/20 06:05 PM
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Except science tells us otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 03:33 AM
1

As Kenny Rogers says in The Gambler, “every hand’s a winner, and every hand’s a loser.” Truth
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/20 05:09 PM
1

If they had learned TRP they could have avoided most of their problems. Geesh just look at poor Will Smith. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 01:21 AM
1

Is there anything in RP that is contrary to enjoying her company? I must have missed that part.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/20 12:36 AM
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I was raised Christian. My religious upbringing steered me away from many unhealthy relationships, and helped me avoid stds and unwanted pregnancies. I have been happily married for 27 years. My children are repeating the cycle. It is wonderful! I know this is probably not a popular opinion, and I was not entirely chaste, but I would err on the side of little sex outside of marriage. 25+ years of fantastic sex with the greatest woman ever far outweighs a few hollow flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/20 01:07 AM
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The deterioration of a woman’s looks after their 20’s is not the important factor, it is the concurrent increase of their problems, baggage, and resistance to sex. It is literally easier to get a hotter younger woman than a less attractive older woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 07:05 PM
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First, most people start broke and work their way up, so the whole class warfare thing is just silly. Second, who better to give advice than successful people?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 02:42 AM
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Health is the main issue, not necessarily size. Some big girls look great. But if you are not healthy that is not good, both for looks and quality of life. Overweight people suffer tremendous in many ways, and can die early. My brother was only about 41. Very sad. So do what it takes. I know it is hard but you have to do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/20 06:54 AM
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Close except for one change. Women didn’t develop social skills in the absence of evolutionary pressure, but because of evolutionary pressure. Women who did not develop the advanced skills they have tended to die out.
/r/RedPillBooks02/11/20 06:21 PM
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Do you really think that shooting a load into some woman is going to change your life and make you happy? The problem you need to fix is always within ourselves, it is never from another person.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:53 PM
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It’s amazing how many people post angry replies to comments that they completely imagine. Ed is all upset about you saying “get over it” - which he completely imagined, and you never said. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/20 05:51 PM
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Across the board. Energy levels way down and I get tired far faster. I feel 10+ years older. Aches and pains. Irritated bowel. Sex drive far lower. I wonder how many people have lots of general complaints that would just disappear if they lost weight. I’m going to buckle down and get back in shape no matter what it takes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/20 12:21 AM
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I just put on a lot of weight due to Covid, and I can tell you it has hugely negatively impacted all aspects of my life. I used to be in really good shape, so I have a really good frame of reference. I don’t think most people realize how much better their life is if they get down to a healthy weight. I’ll get it back down in a few months, but I’m really amazed at the extent of the damage it has done
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:48 PM
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You can’t buy your way into a wet pussy by supporting feminist causes. You either get it wet by being a hot and exciting guy, or you don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/20 08:42 PM
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It is up to the man to get his sh@t together enough to genuinely attract a women. If the guy is too stupid and/or lazy to do it, he deserves his fate. Why should a woman be saddled with propping up some loser guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/20 05:40 PM
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I went through a similar period a few years ago and there are two things that helped me. I have found that you are rarely in a good place when you are trying to change others. I have learned over the years to focus on improving myself to resolve whatever is bothering me. Are there things you can improve in yourself to resolve any of these issues? In all honesty, in looking back, I am embarrassed how many problems in life have been self generated. After a lot of soul searching, I decided I absolu…
/r/RedPillWives12/10/20 01:03 AM
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It is commonly repeated (mainly by women I think) that men’s ego is hurt by a woman making money. Has anyone actually found this to be true? I absolutely could not care less if a woman makes money, it is really a non factor. I would only find it a negative to the extent that her career interferes with having and raising children, but the fact of her making more money would not be negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/20 04:24 PM
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My impression is that it is mainly genetic hard wired, with society pushing slowly in a certain direction. If your dad was alpha (like mine) you probably spent more time with a beta mom, who was likely pushing you in a beta direction. If you got your mom’s likely beta genes that would make you beta. I got a lot of my dad, so I started alpha, moved beta, then rebounded back to alpha as I matured. Most people have at least some of both in any case.
/r/TRPOffTopic05/10/20 08:59 PM
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I am both. I specialize in tech. I form lots of start ups, so I am very aware of contracts and how much you can’t trust them. A great example, you want to OWN a property such as a patent. Via an Assignment. A Contract that says a party will sell it, or license it, etc, is often worth literally nothing. Ps- I don’t deny climate change, we know the climate has been changing throughout history, I am sure you learned about ice ages and warming periods too. This has been going on long before man. I p…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 07:50 PM
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In my 20 years of work as a lawyer, I find it extremely common that judges will routinely overrule clear contractual provisions in service to various other goals, sometimes political activism, other times in pursuit of their version of “fairness.” If you are careful in reading the other posts in this field, they all stress having the work done by a skilled attorney. The reason this is essential because plain English has no chance, you need to have a lawyer who knows all of the tricks and weaknes…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/20 06:46 PM
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“I didn’t know suggestions kill marriages”. I would guess that this kind of snarky comment is a big part of why your husband does not want to spend time with you. That is toxic and it prevents you from hearing the communication being offered.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/20 10:46 AM
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If you think prenups, and contracts for that matter, are reliable in the modern USA, you don’t know our legal system. Many lawyers and probably most judges think written contracts are merely general guidelines and suggestions. It is particular bad in family law, where many lawyers and judges are openly activists. A realistic answer: if you have a great lawyer who does a perfect job, if you are lucky enough to get a Republican judge, and if the amount in dispute is not very large, then the prenup…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:58 PM
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You are awesome!!
/r/RedPillWives24/09/20 03:21 AM
1

Parenting effort and stress are both at least somewhat within your control. Obviously you want to take great care of your baby. But can you dial back the time and effort and stress that you devote to your child in some ways. There are plenty of tasks that can be simplified. Good routines are critical. Once you have more children you quickly learn how many little details can be skipped. Child one never touched something that wasn’t sterilized boiled etc. Child 4 we just made sure it wasn’t poison…
/r/RedPillWives24/09/20 03:18 AM
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This post is a great illustration of why leftist thinking is wrong about everything. The world is not a fairytale place of fairness and equality. It is a raw world of capitalism and competition. Women are going to date and fuck whoever they find attractive, not some weak little bitch whining about consistency and fairness. And you can’t buy your way into attractiveness through paying for dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 07:57 PM
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It obviously varies a lot in different people, and also tends to be higher in youth and lower when older. But generally speaking, men are built to have sex at any time, so they don’t miss an opportunity to mate. Women on the other hand are designed for sex at ovulation. So as a matter of biology, men tend to have far stronger sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 01:24 AM
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There is a growing segment of our population, the Antifa people, who are just flat out disgusting losers. Weak pathetic men who are completely useless. Fat ugly self mutilating troll women. And they can’t stand each other, so they can’t achieve success in dating. There is nobody to blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 12:24 AM
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Self burn
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/20 09:26 PM
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A cursory glance at the top post makes it clear who is calling the shots in this country, and it ain’t men! Lol. Do you think the really powerful people in this country bother running for Congress themselves?!? They don’t bother they just direct the politicians how to vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 11:26 PM
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Women need men who can support a family. It does not matter how much the woman can earn. Her job is to have and raise the children, not build a career. If a man can’t get his shit together enough to earn $50k, maybe it is better he not sire children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/20 10:59 PM
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I read somewhere that women rate women as attractive if they are not threatening, in other words not sexually attractive to their man. So they select cute Victoria secret models, not thick lush sexy women that men prefer. That is why most models are not really that attractive to men, they are skinny with bodies that resemble boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 02:44 AM
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Toxic masculinity is a blatantly hateful sexist term used by fascist feminazis in a vain attempt to mask their hateful ideology with ambiguous attacks that mean nothing except that they hate the masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 05:03 AM
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Come on can we get a Conan the Barbarian quote?!? What is good in life????
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:35 AM
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It’s true some pussies died, but never anyone of consequence.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/20 02:34 AM
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I think you misread, your quote is nowhere near correct. 😂
/r/RedPillWives01/09/20 10:18 PM
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All of the marriage structure is based upon having children, if you are not having children marriage is not much use to you. If you are having children, NATURE puts you in a weak and vulnerable position, so it is natural for a woman to seek a provider and protector. It just makes sense for the weak and vulnerable woman to fall into a support role to a more powerful male leader. Nature has made most men and women want this dynamic, although it can certainly be flipped if both parties agree. The B…
/r/RedPillWives31/08/20 11:37 PM
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Asking for the kiss was a baller move. Continuing to push for more like that was a little cringe, kind of needy. I understand why you are doing it, you are starved for affection. But you can’t let that show. Nothing is more of a turn off than neediness.
/r/seduction25/08/20 01:20 AM
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The disadvantages are pretty considerable: WOMEN suffer STD’s, single parenthood, and very commonly feelings of deep dissatisfaction from the libertine lifestyle. MEN also suffer STD’s and isolation from a family unit. A small percentage of men might enjoy the rampant sex of youth, but would be lonely and unhappy when they age, and the majority of men would get little to no sex, causing great social unrest. Most important CHILDREN are crushed without the full support of both a man and a woman. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/20 11:01 PM
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The thing that feminists just can’t accept is that men are not threatened or emasculated by women at all. The reason many men don’t like women working, especially not hard enough to make serious money, is because we want you home bearing and raising our children (the one thing we can’t do ourselves). We don’t want F’ed up loser druggie children who can’t cope because they had no mom growing up. It isn’t complicated. Huge shout out to the good moms of the world who actually care for their childre…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/20 04:09 AM
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I agree! Most of the time in practice I think alpha just means attractive. The assholery is not what makes an alpha attractive, it is what he can get away with. Like with hot bitchy girls. Plus everyone values things differently. Some like tall, some short. Many woman honestly don’t care about height. Looks too are very subjective
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 09:49 PM
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I don’t think morality is really the important factor, “nice guy” is really a euphemism for weak and dishonest. An alpha is not afraid to be tough, honest and to check the girl when she needs it. He could be a drug dealer (who can’t take shit from anyone), but he could also be an tough but honest businessman. It’s not like a weak guy could just go commit some crimes and become attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 09:02 PM
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It would be more accurate to say that are born with indeterminate value.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/20 01:21 PM
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When a woman gets married, she is entrusting a great deal of her future well being, and that of her children, to the man she marries. It is therefore critical to her that she screen him thoroughly. Women are doing the best they can to discover weakness (via, for example, shit testing) so they don’t marry a guy who fakes it at first but is really weak. This is just her genetically conditioned instinct. Women don’t consciously plan this they just do it. Of course their testing is not perfect, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:55 PM
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TRP is not focused on getting into the casual sex market. PUA yes but TRP is about understanding women. This can be used for many purposes, and indeed most of the top thinkers are married.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 01:14 PM
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Pretty much all of the assumptions underlying your argument are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 09:31 AM
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Women want to screen out weakness, whether genetic or social conditioning. Idiots who fall for scams are bad for women whether or not the foolishness arises from genes or poor conditioning. The extent that nature vs nurture is responsibility is merely academic.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/20 09:25 AM
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The ex girlfriend is framed by the media as the victim. Sometimes the facts show her to be crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 09:30 PM
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I think the axiom is that women are the gateway to sex, and men are the gateway to relationships. Of course both sexes want both. They just have different points of power.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/20 12:21 AM
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I do agree with that, the loser men need to quit complaining and get their shot together. Red pill is not about complaining and unleashing bitterness.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 01:07 AM
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I agree, this is total low-self-esteem beta thinking. An alpha would not care is he was the first choice or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/20 12:29 AM
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I don’t think the point of the wall and such is intended to be chastising women or wanting them to “pay a price” - at least I hope not, only a complete loser would think that way. I think it is meant more as a warning to young women. If you go the feminist route and pursue a career and partying in your youth, you will regret it later when you have no family and are infertile. I see many young women fall into this trap, and once those 20’s are gone you can’t get them back. And then you find the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/20 04:48 AM
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It seems simple to me, men are not threatened by a female-female relationship because that woman can’t knock his girlfriend or wife up. On the other end, heterosexual women tend to view male-male relationships as unnatural and disgusting. I don’t think it is fair to condemn them for this natural biological response, so long as they treat the homosexual men fairly and don’t hate them for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 03:57 AM
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Opposites attract, and the large woman small man pairing is not that unusual. Obviously the standard comfort zone is man larger than woman but I think that is more natural attraction rather than feeling emasculated. But then I’m a big guy so other guys might be more insecure in that regard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/20 01:51 AM
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Tomassi is not famous for being hot or for having a dozen instagram bimbos on his arm. If you have read the Rational Male, you know he is famous for his ground breaking thinking on this subject. None of it is fraud, his marriage is an integral part of his book. None of his Red Pill ideas are inconsistent with his lifestyle. Anyone who says otherwise does not understand Red Pill thought, at least his interpretation of it. Don’t know the other guys so no comment there.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/20 11:42 PM
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I don’t endorse this comment about men controlling the competitive landscape but found it interesting. I agree women have many other factors that they alone control. But as an example, women pursue NBA BBall players, despite the fact that women have no interest in BBall, and many of them are downright ugly, unnaturally tall, and often stupid. So it really makes you think.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/20 07:56 PM
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I heard an interesting comment on this: men control the competitive landscape (jobs and other metrics of success) and that women just select men who are successful according to these male-set standards. Therefore men control who women select.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/20 07:44 PM
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There is a large variation in sex drive, some women are only rarely interested, others want it every day. Women who have a history of having lots of sex are a better choice for someone who has a really high sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 07:46 PM
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No they lied about will having given permission. He said that was not true. Who knows for sure about the rest, but she is basically getting the “you go girl” female empowerment treatment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 03:14 AM
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A great recent example is Jada Smith. Not only did she screw around, but she banged Will’s much younger friend! And how does the press handle it? They lie about Will having given permission, they were on a break, and she was going through the pain into some kind of female journey of empowerment. Lol. Makes it sound like the whole thing was Will’s fault! There is no chance at all that the press would have handled it this way if it were the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:43 AM
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The core of men’s sexual strategy is to impregnate as many women as possible, thereby spreading his genes and achieving genetic success. I think this is commonly known, but it is absurd to say it is socially excused. Men are castigated, financially destroyed, torn from their children, and socially ostracized for cheating. The common social myth is that sweet innocent little women never cheat, except maybe if the guy is a complete creep who emotionally and probably physically abuses her. TRP is n…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 02:20 AM
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Why do people care so much about these kinds of things? I want a girl with a strong sex drive. I would be more bothered if she didn’t want sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/20 12:28 AM
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I try my best to follow God’s laws; but other rules that other people try to impose are often just constructs to manipulative or restrict you, so they can be ignored to the extent you can get away with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:36 PM
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Scott Adams and Bezos are short, bald, scrawny, about as unattractive as you can get but they both are successful. Now sure that is extreme because they are both smart and wealthy, but it can be done.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:24 PM
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Basketball players hire coaches to teach them how to shoot. It isn’t your natural shot, you change it. Is this being yourself? Or should they stick with their poor “natural” form? What about singers hiring a voice coach? For me, “being myself” is figuring out the best way to do it, and learning that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 04:21 AM
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I think maybe you don’t know what shit tests are, and how they are passed? It is not based upon lying or deceit, it is based upon responding in a way that projects strength and confidence. It definitely does not put a woman on a pedestal.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 03:32 AM
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Bad genes can definitely make it more difficult no doubt. But I think even bad genes can be overcome with hard work.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 02:04 AM
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According to red pill thinking, women are typically most comfortable in the role of “first lieutenant” in a relationship, with a man leading and her being his trusted support and advisor. Obviously this is not universal, but in my experience this is generally true, especially for younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:59 AM
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Ooo that looks like a good movie. I like anything with Anthony Hopkins.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 01:50 AM
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Very few men do any of these things lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/20 12:54 AM
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There are plenty of women who sleep around, but there are plenty more who don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 05:23 AM
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Noting a generalization is not the same as saying they are all the same. For example, generally men are taller than women. But obviously some women are taller than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:37 AM
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What would be an example of what is attractive to you? Is there an actor, or character, that exemplifies what you look for?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 04:35 AM
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Where do people come up with this stuff?!? I am talking about strength and leadership and you apparently think this means I promote aggression and violence?!? I mean come on here! The thoughts in my post come from decades of relationships, and observing the relationships of family and friends. There is a constant disconnect between what women say they want, and what their actions clearly show that they do want. Of course they don’t want a man who is actually violent or abusive. But they do want …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:27 AM
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I don’t think anyone is arguing that all men and women are the same. I am certainly not. Straw man
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:19 AM
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I’m not exaggerating in the least! I obviously can’t name names but this is behavior I observe first hand and repeatedly. A person I am close with has always been an ass, and the women flock to him, he knocked one girl up twice and she just kept coming back. It would be better if he was merely strong and not an ass, but that is quite secondary according to quite a few women. I don’t promote it, I just observe and report.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:15 AM
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School basically teaches that boys are defective girls, and any remotely independent or boisterous behavior is promptly punished and medicated. Hollywood teaches that men are either corrupt scumbags or Homer Simpson type buffoons. Although it is interesting, now that women are more frequently writers themselves, and since most shows are now directed to women, the reality that comes through. This show Good Girls shows the mom protagonist sexually drawn to the bad boy drug dealer who is frequent t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 03:03 AM
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So George Clooney or Chris Pratt come over and you are thinking no damn way if you are not helping out with the dishes. Lol. I have a lifetime experience that calls bs. Or at least you are the only woman in history that would respond that way. No, it is the woman upset with her man that suddenly starts talking about chores. I don’t know where that other stuff comes from, I am just talking about relationships. I expect you would not have a relationship if any of that stuff was going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:31 AM
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Lol not a boomer. Gen X. I’ve been putting up with Boomers for years.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:26 AM
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I meet plenty of great young women every day, who have a great deal to offer. And I don’t think they are asking too much in return. Come on guys let’s be fair here. Women are not to blame for the current deficit of strong men. Go watch some old John Wayne movies and get some pointers.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:20 AM
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Through most of history both men and women had extremely tough lives. They worked together as a team just to survive and keep their children from starving. Women were reliant on men not because of some male scheme, but because there were a lot of predators that threatened to kill them and males protected them. Often at a cost of the men’s’ lives. All of this patriarchy stuff is just nonsense. It was through mutual cooperation that anyone survived.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 02:08 AM
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I said strong not an ass. I agree that what you said is exactly accurate. Women always say nonsense like that. My point is that is a red herring, they say that but they don’t really mean it. What they really are thinking is “this guys is acting like a weak simp, and it makes me lose all attraction to him. But I can’t say this, so instead I’ll say some bs like he does not help enough with the chores.” Have you ever heard of a romance movie where the guy wins the girl by being super loving and sen…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:53 AM
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A strong leader can be loving and supportive, I’m not saying don’t do those things. But don’t try to buy a woman with niceness and support. So for example, you can generally be friendly and helpful. But when a woman demands you pay for something, or do something, don’t just do it because you are a compliant simp. There is a difference and women can smell it. Bring her flowers because you want to that is good. Buy her flowers to try to get her to put out, no way, a woman is disgusted by this beha…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:37 AM
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I think you just restated my exact point. If these Betas work on becoming alphas, they don’t fall into the trap of trying to buy a woman. The newly made alpha gets the great sex he wants, and the woman gets the strong alpha she wanted all along. Everyone is happy. Another way of saying it, don’t fall into the trap of trying to buy a woman’s affection (with money, niceness, etc), instead make yourself the strong alpha she naturally wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:33 AM
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Any that don’t dwindle away when the guy is a strong desirable stud? I mean I know plenty of alphas who outright mistreat their woman and she would just love it and beg him to knock her up again. It isn’t until they get old fat and weak that the women start to have a problem with his assholery.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:24 AM
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Family does play a large role, but there is no denying the sweeping influence of schools, Hollywood, etc, that is currently dead set against strong men (toxic masculinity). I just saw the most obnoxious example last night on the new Twilight Zone. When men are all going crazy and killing people because of some meteor, except of course the gay guy. Then it turns out the meteor didn’t do anything. Message: men are just toxic murderous scum on their own. Of course this seems a little off given the …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 01:20 AM
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Sorry already married for 27 years. This is experience talking. BTW I’m not saying be a bad person, or mistreat women. I am saying you need to be strong. For example, if she says something you disagree with, have the balls to argue your case, don’t be a simp and agree with her just to please her. Ask a woman if I am lying if you don’t believe me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:55 AM
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This is absolutely the underlying cause of all other complaints. All of the little inconsequential shit women complain about on a daily basis arise from their dissatisfaction with their man when he is being weak. Do you think a read alpha stud has his woman (or women) bitching about his helping with chores?! The only thing they will complain about is his not spending enough time with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:53 AM
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Men are not playing a game they can’t win? Lol. Of course they can win! you just have to figure out the rules on your own. A woman can’t tell a man how to be strong and masculine, otherwise she just gets a weak man pretending to be strong. Her shit tests are specifically guard against this! I know it is perverse, but if a woman said what she wanted, it would destroy it. The guy has to be real and authentic, otherwise she may be knocked up by a weak loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:35 AM
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I totally understand and agree! This post is definitely not about blaming women at all. Just informing men. It is an odd thing that women can’t ask for the one thing they want! Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/20 12:18 AM
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Everything is on a bell curve. A certain percentage of women don’t care about height at all. A middle portion like men at least as tall as them, and a certain percentage have a fetish for tall men. there are plenty of women for you to chose from, that genuinely won’t care, or who are shorter than you. Lots of women are barely 5”
/r/seduction11/07/20 10:41 PM
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Top two things men want that you can control: 1) healthy is extremely attractive. Eat right and workout daily. You don’t have to overdo it or starve yourself, just be really healthy. 2) like men. I mean if you genuinely like the males out there and act lovingly, that is super attractive. And increasingly rare these days now that women are being actively taught than men are bad. It is sad that so many people buy into that hateful ideology.
/r/RedPillWives11/07/20 10:36 PM
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It could be more of an indicator of how WELL men protect women in general, and pregnant women in particular. Women almost never die under normal circumstances. So the rare cases of men killing women seems significant. And you can’t deny, 18 years of enforced servitude is a better excuse than many, especially if there was trickery involved. Not that it is excusable, automatic death penalty, but still.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/20 10:11 PM
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Definitely. A far better contribution than throwing a few punches. Lol
/r/RedPillWives07/07/20 10:24 AM
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You are correct that the basic male strategy is to have as many children with as many women as possible. But he could also have no children if he can’t attract a woman. A woman wants the best genes, but also a provider. Monogamy is the compromise that society has developed where both men and women compromise to get at least some of what they want. This biological programming has developed over thousands of years, and does not disappear in light of modern changes. Understanding the genetic roots …
/r/RedPillWives07/07/20 10:21 AM
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Honestly, direct is not very attractive to me. I don’t know why I don’t have a problem with it if people want to, but it is less attractive to me. The best approach was a girl who arranged to swim next to me so that we could accidentally meet and I hit on her. She later admitted it had been planned. It shows great intelligence. I guess to me direct seems desperate and not as smart. I know it is silly but that is my reaction.
/r/seduction07/07/20 04:42 AM
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He actually tried to take me hostage at the start, which is actually a great illustration as to why it is not good for the women and children to stick around. Furthermore, you can’t really argue with biology. If Mother Nature thinks it is best for women to run, that is what is best for survival. This agrees with my thoughts as a man too. Adding a woman to a fight would make it a lot harder and more complicated for a fairly negligible gain. This is not Hollywood, in reality a punch from a woman d…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/20 09:03 PM
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He won the fight and was fine. I don’t think he blamed her for anything. I for one am glad to be alive! Lol
/r/RedPillWives06/07/20 08:01 PM
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Agreed I feel the same way. In all honesty I think a woman attempting to help would be more of a hindrance. I would prefer for her to get the kids clear.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/20 06:26 PM
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Biology has clearly decided that you absolutely DON’T have to help dad stay alive. You (a woman) have to save the children. And if dad can’t fend for himself, he can be replaced. Often by the stronger victor. Biology can be a bitch. Lol.
/r/RedPillWives06/07/20 05:28 PM
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My mom was attacked by a knife wielding psycho when I was a baby. Fortunately my dad got home for lunch at the same time. He attacked the invader with his bare hands to save her. She grabbed me and ran, leaving him to very possibly die, without doing anything to help him. I think most people recognize that this is the way it works, and indeed people generally approve. It is the way our biology has developed for survival. Women protect the babies, and men can be disposable to a degree. It isn’t t…
/r/RedPillWives06/07/20 05:13 PM
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What is your problem with JP? From your comments you either don’t even listen to his lectures, or you are willfully misrepresenting him.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:08 PM
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I agree that much of TRP is common sense - but many young men are taught leftist feminist BS all their lives and have beliefs that are contrary to common sense. These RP teachings are eye opening! I also agree that some people take RP way too far into crazy conclusions. TRP should not be hateful to women, against marriage, etc. true RP loves women, is open to marriage, and is about self improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/20 03:05 PM
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Sounds like wife material, and that is rare, so go for it if you think she is right for you! Shut that insecurity shit down. You sound like a great guy, just keep working hard every day. Going in the right direction is more important than where you are today. Keep it up!
/r/askMRP27/06/20 02:57 PM
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Most TRP authors are happily married. Don’t let the naysayers sell this “marriage is terrible” BS. It is awesome and you are going to have a child! It will be the best thing you have ever experienced!! I think the main message from RP is to keep fit, hold frame, and be the captain of your family. Don’t get weak and complacent. Holding your wife’s love for a lifetime is a worthy challenge. Congratulations on your new family!
/r/askMRP27/06/20 04:18 AM
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The absolute best is early marriage trying to have kids sex! Damn there is nothing else that comes close to pumping a baby into a hot young eager wife!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/20 03:34 AM
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I’ll admit it can be a tough balancing act, but if you like family and kids there is not really an alternative. Love her but don’t put her on a pedestal. Hold frame and lead without being domineering. Much of the sidebar was written by married men.
/r/askMRP20/06/20 03:15 AM
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She is really really awesome that is for sure, and I really love her. But I don’t think there is only one possible girl, I have dated plenty of others, and I could move to another if I had to. I freely admit it can be a struggle though, she pulls me towards the blue, and I have to struggle to hold. No doubt it can be a bitch but challenges are what makes life great.
/r/askMRP20/06/20 03:14 AM
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WHY in the world would you want them or expect them to recognize these facts?!? Such a post is beyond blue pill clueless. Women want weak simps exposed so they can avoid getting their weak genes. This is their sexual strategy and it is working according to plan. The counter strategy is RP and that is up to men to figure out.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/20 02:32 AM
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I love marriage and I don’t see any conflict between TRP and marriage. I love having kids (we have 4) and my wife is a great partner. Of course there are huge challenges but a real Red Pill man ought to be up to those. Lessons: work on all red pill skills, hold frame, stay in shape, keep driving forward and being a success. The biggest lesson of red pill is to not ever let yourself get complacent weak and soft. I guess I am purple pill not red, never really interested in banging lots of women, a…
/r/askMRP19/06/20 10:45 PM
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TRP teaches men to increase their SMV, not whine about things. It would be Blue pill leftist bitches who would be making these complaints and I sure hope they don’t reproduce, we don’t need more of these weak losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/20 11:20 PM
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Really intelligent strong and confident women know that they don’t need a job or academic credentials. These are the top tier of marriage material women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 01:16 AM
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I like curvy girls so I don’t have a problem with it. I think guys are the ones who are repulsive with their obesity. But Americans are by far the hottest in the world. No way Europeans or Eastern Euros compare.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/20 12:59 AM
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Why are people so obsessed with complaining in any case? Just understand it. It is reality. Complaining about reality is for idiots and losers.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/20 04:02 AM
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I don’t fully understand that dynamic, but directly taking the final step is a huge no no for women. In a way I can appreciate it, it must suck to be a hot woman and constantly being hit upon. In any case, if you are still young, just start training really hard and you can get in the game. Anyone can do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 09:16 PM
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When I was young and doing serious physical training, I went through a phase where I was at that level. Most of my life not so much. Lol. But it was eye opening. Women will go to great lengths to place themselves next to you and show all kinds of IOI. Rarely they will be overt and ask you, that is way out of bounds and shows overwhelming interest. Overwhelmingly they act covertly. Common tactics are basically stalking, getting your schedule and arranging to be where you are. One girl tracked my …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:51 AM
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Most girls will want the guy to take the final step, but they will go to great lengths to make it absolutely clear that they are available and interested. And DTF. Sometimes they will even be overt, but rarely and only lower value women. That is crazy high interest if they overtly ask you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/20 02:25 AM
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I think that is what Black Pill is based on, that only looks matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:42 PM
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I’ll grant you that in retrospect it seems silly, it just goes to show how effective childhood programming can be. But yes, men are taught from childhood that looks don’t matter very much, especially to “nice” girls. That is why men are responding so strongly to TRP. It is shocking and eye opening, even if we do feel a little stunned at our own gullibility. Lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/20 09:41 PM
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This is the truth. Even Europe would never allow the absolute crap out food industry gets away with. It is disgusting how corrupt it has become. Especially between 1980 and today, what a massive collapse in quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/20 03:16 AM
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Take a walk around in the real world for awhile and look around, and tell me again about how women are second class citizens. Who is walking around in the malls on a weekday? Who is meeting girlfriends for $8 cups of coffee at Starbucks. In the middle of a work day. Or buying $800 purses? No thinking person could walk around the USA for 5 minutes and come to the conclusion that women are mistreated in any way. It is so false it is laughable. The only reason anyone repeats this nonsense is becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 01:25 AM
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The problem is not that men are not given advice, the problem is that they are given WRONG advice by society. TRP corrects this problem and teaches men what they need to know. FDS is nothing short of a cancer that teaches women wrong advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/20 12:16 AM
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Ancient man could not tell if a baby was his, no dna tests. So the only way to try to make sure the baby was his was to select a woman who was limited in sexual partners. And to physically control her access to other men. This makes promiscuous women unattractive. This is just a natural reaction, so it is pointless to talk about hypocrisy. People don’t have instincts that strive for fairness or consistency. It is the way it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/20 03:47 PM
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What does make HVM? What is the context that is missing?
/r/RedPillWives22/05/20 03:36 PM
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I have a smoking hot southern belle meet me at the door every evening with a kiss and a delicious dinner ready. Maybe the correct term is purple pill but it is pretty awesome.
/r/RedPillWives22/05/20 01:06 PM
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My wife dresses right in the middle between sexy and conservative. Nothing trashy at all, plenty of cute lace, and showing just enough so you can tell she is hot underneath. Always with makeup, but so little and so well done that you can’t tell. Absolutely no tats, piercings, etc. She treats me with respect. When I get ready for work, or get home, she greets me and usually gets up and comes to the door to kiss me and make me feel special. Little things like that take less than a minute but make …
/r/RedPillWives19/05/20 04:23 AM
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My parent came from small Midwest towns where everyone acted this way. The modern world has lost something precious that bound people together. I know it is fashionable to rip on small towns, but there is a lot to be said for having a safe place to grow friendships. I visited every summer for years, and every time I got there all the neighbors would invite me over, to get togethers etc. nothing close exists today. Even the small towns are different because people are so mobile they move all over…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:19 PM
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Asking a girl home for drinks is clearly sexual. OP is talking about getting together with friends to go bowling, to the park, to just hang out. There are so few non sexual interactions now. At Any time more than 10-20 years ago, the vast majority of interaction was non sexual. I went out with 2-10 friends every day all day. We rode bikes. Went surfing. Had bonfires. I had 4 female friends and 6 male friends, and the female relationships were entirely non sexual. We all hung out as a group. Nobo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 04:10 PM
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OP is exactly right, and they did. There used to be far more non sexual interaction. My parents had a large number of friends and would regularly meet new people. They actually met Bob Hope (once a famous comedian) that way and ended up giving him a ride home from some party. To this day my mom will be out somewhere with me shopping or something and just strike up conversations with people. I always admired her ease at making friends, and it really was just that easy. She would just say hi and a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:55 PM
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Making an offer IS sexual harassment if the man is unattractive. This is the latest form of feminism. Any attempt by an unattractive man to talk with a woman is being cast as sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/20 03:44 PM
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My millennial son is already married and getting ready for kids. But I mostly home schooled him so he was protected from all of the BS indoctrination going on in our public schools.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/20 04:09 AM
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This commentary should be an opportunity for guys to learn, not just give knee-jerk responses. I know you black pill guys are really obsessed with physical attractiveness, and there’s no doubt that it is a factor. However, even the most cursory look around in the real world will tell you that attractiveness is not the only factor, and for many women it isn’t even all that important of a factor. Look at all of the short, fat, unattractive, old guys out there are getting plenty of trim. Look at th…
/r/seduction14/05/20 01:04 AM
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One word: prenup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/20 02:37 AM
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I am not assuming that correlation equals causation, I am saying that correlation means correlation. It doesn’t have to be perfect to be useful, our genes are just doing the best they can with available information. The fact that women prefer tall men is not based on statistical information, It is based upon the fact that women out right say it, they put it in their dating profiles
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 10:38 PM
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Ever hear that old Julie Brown song “ I like them big and stupid “
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/20 02:39 PM
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Recognizing how some of my behaviors were not sweet and loving as I thought, but weak, needy, and clingy. Replacing these behaviors with strength and confidence.
/r/seduction03/05/20 03:02 AM
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A psych study of the hierarchy of needs places sex above food in importance. Second only to fighting, which men love above all else. That is not to say they have no free will, they can chose other things, or they might be tired, sick, etc, but generally speaking the males who pass up opportunities to potentially procreate get winnowed out of the gene pool pretty fast.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 11:14 PM
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Tall athletic masculine men are pretty universally attractive and it is hard to argue that these traits are not healthy and beneficial for protecting a woman from predators. Women with a nice balance of athletic and curvy, also pretty universal signs of attractiveness, tend to be healthy, and best suited for pregnancy. Bad hair and skin are signs of aging, poor diet and health. Deformities and assymetries may be signs of birth defects. This isn’t all that complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:41 PM
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Well if you start from the presumption that beauty does not correlate with health and advantageous qualities, then your argument is fine, but 100,000 years of evolution says that this presumption is wrong. It may not be perfect but it is the best our genes could come up with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 08:33 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/20 02:27 AM
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One big difference is that women are on a monthly cycle. Around ovulation women have a sex drive that gets close to a man, but much of the month they are much lower. Depending of course on age, health etc. Men on the other hand are designed to be “always on.”
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/20 10:50 PM
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Red Pill is about helping a man be successful himself. A father has the interest of the daughter. It makes sense that they are opposites, because they are different teams, so to speak. A short guy wants to reproduce his genes, but a father wants his daughter to reproduce with tall genes.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/20 01:06 AM
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The number one quality I looked for in a woman is I wanted her to genuinely love me, want me. I don’t know if subservient is the right word, I don’t want a slave, but feminine and not domineering. A good partner and mother. Modern feminism (not original feminism, but this new neo-Marxist, lesbian form) is a cancer that makes many women completely undesirable. Oddly enough, it seems quite intentional. Not only do they act terribly, they make themselves look awful, fat, covered in tats and piercin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 04:32 PM
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Well said!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:01 PM
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You keep talking about what women want, And what the average is, but those are not relevant to what I am saying. I am talking about the large number of women who are not average, outside the median. Are you saying that there is a shortage of men who marry women 20 years younger? There are tons of them, just look around you! Women complain about it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/20 02:49 AM
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I agree with you that your age ranges are the most common, and they are what women prefer, but you actually make my point for me. A 35 year old woman wants a man who is 35-40, and how many men in this range marry a woman in their 20’s? How many men around 50 marry women in their 30’s? A lot! A 10-15 year age difference is extremely common. A 20 year age difference isn’t even unusual if the man is successful. So those women in their 30’s are absolutely in competition for the best men with women i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:41 PM
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This post makes it clear you have literally zero experience running a business, or really know people who do. How do you delegate to competent people if you are not an expert yourself? You can’t tell competent people apart from the incompetent ones. How do you know if they are performing their jobs diligently and competently unless you are intimately familiar with the job yourself? And actively overseeing them. How can you make even the most basic decisions without thoroughly knowing the pros an…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 07:25 PM
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Men give respect to any men who are physically powerful, and while height is a factor, a short guy who is strong and confident will get respect. Otherwise the disrespectful guy will get his ass kicked. I honestly did not consider a height to be of any real significance until I started dating in college. I was surprised to find out the extent some women really love height. Some women really don’t care at all, and some only want to have a man taller than them, but some women have an absolute fetis…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:35 AM
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What a load of crap. There is no CEO of a major corporation that is anything less than extremely smart, unless maybe he inherited a spot, like a Rockefeller. Running a small business is extremely difficult, and 90% of those fail. Running a huge one is exponentially harder, and is simply beyond 99.9% of the smartest people in our country. You have to an expert in a dozen different fields, and be ready for any number of challenges. And they have to spend 80+ hours a week for their entire lives to …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/20 05:24 AM
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There could definitely be truth to this if you can pull it off, but you are playing with fire. When a woman is DTFuck you usually have to either deliver or suffer the consequences. I definitely don’t have the sophistication myself I’m just a simple guy who is trying to middle though lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:39 AM
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I think it mainly applies to prospects for marriage, not the ability to get laid. A woman has far better chances of a successful marriage in her early 20’s when she is at her absolute peak. Once she is 30+ there are several factors against her. First, most of the men who want marriage are taken. Second, she enters competition with women in their early 20’s who have a physical advantage over her. Third, she will start having a risk of infertility. Listen to this voice of experience! You can’t get…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:31 AM
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This rush to sex by the current youth has HUGE negative consequences for both men and women. Now I know it is fun, most people mess around and experiment, etc. but it used to be the naughty exception, and most people held off on sex with most prospective mates. This new dynamic of jumping right into sex is brand new, and you can already see the disastrous consequences. Seriously does anyone think modern dating is going well?!? It is a disaster. I have a son and three daughters so I am getting a …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 06:14 AM
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This is a really complicated issue. If there is a hint of REAL resistance you must stop without a doubt. But it is absolutely true that many women feel they have to put up some resistance and get “swept away” by the man. They are defending themselves against slut shaming. I have had a couple of instances where I stopped under these circumstances and did not follow through with sex (hey, I was confused ok, so don’t throw stones!). in every case the girl never wanted anything to do with me after. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:55 AM
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I am MRP but I am having trouble with some of the core concepts. The lessons from RP were a huge benefit to me in the past, but there are still some important issues to clear up now that I have thought on them for a while. First, I think all of the alpha/beta stuff is just wrong. Women are attracted to men who are tall handsome fit etc. NOT to a-holes. It is true that there are many men who get girls despite being a-holes, but it is based on their physical attractiveness, not because they are as…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/20 05:37 AM
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I’m just saying that your beliefs would fit right in with the Blue pill reddit. Your thought processes are the opposite of purple pill. Until you are willing to open your mind to new thoughts, I don’t know how this can be productive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:36 AM
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I think the lesson offered by Red pill is that women are far more sexual/promiscuous than society leads us to believe. And it is usually women who go around slut shaming other women. I think most men love it. I personally think it is awesome, I think it would be great if they were even more so!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:20 AM
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This is supposed to be a purple pill forum, you should bring this post to “relationship advice” or somewhere else where the participants are idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/20 03:01 AM
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Older women who are good are in huge demand, but they tend to either be taken, or simply not interested in a man. Most of those who are available tend to be completely nuts, bitter harpies, etc. so it is very difficult to find a woman in this age group (40’s) that is suitable. There are a lot of younger women (20-30’s) who are available, attractive, etc, and looking for an older man. They value men more, both for finance and companionship. There are a lot more options among younger women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:59 AM
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Modem Judeo-Christian western culture raised western countries to the current heights, which far exceed anything in human history. It is easy to cast stones, but the success is far better than anything else humans have come up with. With respect to Christianity, Christians freely acknowledge that we constantly fail to meet our goals. This is not hypocrisy. But We are at least trying to achieve something better than our animal nature. Modern leftist socialist countries undermine masculinity and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/20 03:24 AM
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Have you ever heard a single man say he wants an “independent woman”?!? I mean seriously I don’t think a single man in history has ever said such a thing. I think you know what men want. Lol Seriously though, good work with your son, he is lucky to have a great mom!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/20 02:12 AM
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I agree with you that there are probably cases out there where women just logically come to the conclusion that their man is not doing his fair share of the work in the relationship, and asks he do more. I think that this is a rare situation, however. When a woman is genuinely happy in the relationship, she tends to not think this way, she will almost always just gloss over such a disparity. A woman generally complains about chores when she is unhappy in the relationship, generally because he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:37 PM
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I agree with you that there are probably cases out there where women just logically come to the conclusion that their man is not doing his fair share of the work in the relationship, and asks he do more. I think that this is a rare situation, however. When a woman is genuinely happy in the relationship, she tends to not think this way, she will almost always just gloss over such a disparity. A woman generally complains about chores when she is unhappy in the relationship, generally because he ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/20 11:36 PM
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Good point, people may vary depending upon how they value acts of service. That is me completely! Nothing better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:11 AM
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I think you may be right there, who doesn’t love a partner who can cook?!? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:10 AM
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I think it is better to take the approach that divorce is not an option. Once you have that point of view, it forces you to address and fix the true problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:08 AM
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The issue then is, what is the definition of handling your shit? My impression is that women want men who kick ass in the real world, acquire wealth and power, maybe even a little fame. If they don’t have much time for chores, no problem. How many dishes do you supposed Harrison Ford washed while in his prime? I don’t think women REALY care about chores, it only comes up when the woman is unhappy with his other qualities. Rather than saying what they really think (you are getting kind of chunky,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/20 12:06 AM
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What if he is smoking hot, great in bed, and rich?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:58 PM
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I would argue that it is an efficient division of labor to have a man focus on career and making money, while the woman focuses on cooking and cleaning and child rearing. It could be reversed if both parties are amenable, but this is hard because women have to bear the child and breastfeed. Also I think such relationships are counter to most women’ mature. They are not commonly happy with a SAHD.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:56 PM
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That is a very misleading article. It first cites a reputable study that says exactly the opposite. It then admits there is no correlation between chores and sex. What they did find was that when women reported the chores were NOT fair, that correlated with less sex. But that is completely different! Her reporting they were unfair raises a host of unrelated issues. For example, I would expect that there is a strong correlation between women being unhappy in the marriage with a report that chores…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:48 PM
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That is my point! The man needs to address the underlying problem, NOT listen to the woman (who very commonly says she wants help around the house). He commonly needs to become more masculine and less feminine, less needy, less clingy. Listening to what women commonly tell men, that he should help with the dishes, will actively hurt his cause. Dead bedroom reddit is full of men bewailing the fact that they work all day, come home and cook, wash the dishes, vacuum, and then try to seduce their wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:21 PM
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I didn’t say SAHD SHOULD do half or more, vs a woman doing all, I was saying that once a man passes the 1/2 mark he invites a woman’s disgust. I have a lot of anecdotal evidence that this is generally true among women, I don’t know if you would agree or not that many women respond that way? I was also distinguishing him from the many SAH males who do little to none of the chores. Ironically, these generally handsome alpha bums, drug dealers, etc are held in high regard by many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/20 11:13 PM
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I agree that everyone is unique. But I do think you can recognize many traits that are generally true.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:54 AM
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But I haven’t even said what I believe about women. I assume you are generalizing about other posts? I am sure there are plenty of bad posts out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:52 AM
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Great response thanks! Never heard of black pill but I like it. I have always felt that looks and such were primary, always skeptical of the other stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:46 AM
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Are you saying that accepting the red pill opens your eyes to that fact that self improvement is a good thing? No TRP is when you learn that female nature is completely different than what you are told growing up. It opens your eyes to a whole new world. Self improvement may be a natural extension because it follows from the lessons you learn from TRP but self improvement is not the point.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/20 03:42 AM
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It doesn’t matter, but men need to know the truth. Society says that these girls are sitting at home pining for a nice guys to love her and marry her. Men need to know what they really want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 05:15 PM
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I agree that this is where we are now, what I am speculating is that the women who are unable to get guys who are both rich and hot will start settling for hot guys rather than rich and ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/20 04:46 PM
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I am so sick of all of these posts about what is “fair.” RP is about understanding the way things work, not whether those things are fair or not. Life isn’t fair. You live, you suffer, you die, and hopefully you can have some fun and some great sex along the way. Get over whether or not it is fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/20 02:22 AM
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Women cause problems, men solve them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 10:33 PM
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Which one?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:25 AM
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I have heard in multiple unrelated interviews of eu women that they are sleeping with middle eastern men. There was just an interview with an eu doctor and that was one of the tidbits that came out, and I have heard it in multiple such talks. When you put that anecdotal evidence into the larger picture is at least seems possible. The open borders movement clearly is driven by women. If I were a woman, I would not want most of the effeminate eu men either, the middle eastern men are tall strong a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/20 01:24 AM
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This type of insufferable arrogance is what turns men off the most. Men are not intimidated by a woman who is successful in her career, we just don’t typically value it, and her career success will not persuade us to want to date her if she is fat and ugly. And it is very common that those fat ugly women respond to rejection with this obnoxious trope.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:25 PM
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Obviously neither are new. My question, is there a movement in this direction? Is it becoming more common for men to focus on looks and not career? Will it become socially accepted and normal for hot men to live off their gf or wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:43 AM
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I am confused, I don’t think any of those things, not sure where any of that came from?? I don’t even think women will benefit at all from this movement towards jobs. I think most women are most happy staying home and raising good kids. I think the move to work is going to leave them feeling empty and unfulfilled. And I don’t think it would be good if men moved away from productive employment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:11 AM
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They aren’t mutually exclusive, I just think there is going to be a shift in the balance between the two. Men have been told for years to work hard at their job to be good husbands and providers. Often at the expense of health and looks. You can’t have 6 pack abs while sitting at a desk 80 hrs week. I think the shift in women is going to eventually move men towards more health and fitness. And perhaps fewer men willing to do the 80 hr weeks in the office. Why bother when women already have their…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 04:04 AM
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What are mutually exclusive?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 03:26 AM
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Good luck and let us know how it goes!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/20 02:14 AM
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If you made plenty of money, would you financially support a bf/ husband if he was super hot, fun etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:33 PM
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I have always been an old fashioned man, just like my father and grandfather, and it has really worked wonderfully well for us all. I make the money and she keeps the home. Since I am putting in very hard days of work at the office, it makes sense that she have healthy meals prepared, keep the house clean, etc As far as power, I have found the Bible formula to work well. I am in charge, but my responsibility is to make all choices for the family not myself. While this sounds out of date, there i…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:30 PM
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Sure. What woman wants to support a guy in his 50’s? Even if he stays in shape there will be hotter 30 yr olds out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 11:12 PM
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It could come to this, but I think there are plenty of hot alphas so they won’t have to hire. They will just financially support a hot bf
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:35 PM
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Not true at all. There are entire tv shows about fat rich western women hooking up with young studs from other countries. There is speculation that one reason western countries are letting in migrants from the Middle East is because western women hunger for physically strong alpha men. And I keep hearing anecdotal stories of western women sleeping with migrants. There are also a lot of comments on reddit about women being sick of settling for physically unattractive men to pay the bills. Lots of…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:33 PM
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I agree things won’t completely change overnight, but is there a shift? I see a lot of evidence already. And as for women not paying to support men, that is just plain wrong. There are lots of men out there being supported by girlfriends already. They are generally disfavored as bums, society does not approve, but I know plenty of men who have barely held a job. At least in their youth. They run into troubles when they get older. Mirrors experience of women. It might be men who push for marriage…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 10:07 PM
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This is good advice in any field of endeavor. Start by copying someone who is already successful. Unfortunately, young men often don’t know this, and have to hope their father provides a good role model.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/20 09:58 PM
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This is definitely true. Luck is a huge factor. I think the only thing we can control is being in the game and actively pursuing as best we can so we hit that lucky gamble. I know I ended up with a woman way out of my league but it took years of pursuit to be there at the right time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/20 03:04 PM
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Not even in the slightest. Lol. Being attracted to Sex w underage men is another total lie. It happens all the time with very limited consequences for women. I guess times are changing now but even still I think it is common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 09:31 AM
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I went through a phase around 16-20 when I was super hot and athletic, and I will tell you it is shocking the number of older married women who tried to have sex with me. I like to think that a top tier of quality women like my wife is above this, and hopefully this is true, but there are definitely a lot of women ready to cheat. I don’t say this as condemnation at all, guys are no better, but the story that women are above it is absolutely false. Maybe the best answer is to say men and women ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/20 01:31 AM
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Real RP is exactly what you are saying. Anyone else is projecting their own insecurities onto a what should be a very positive movement. If you want to boil it down, I think the main message is that men need to “man up” and become someone a woman wants to have in their bed. Build an attractive body and care for yourself. Be strong and capable of making a woman feel protected and safe, not bitter clingy and insecure. No part of RP is about BLAMing women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/20 02:19 AM
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This is actually fairly common. I know a couple where the mom clearly had a son with an alpha and then settled for a little beta husband to provide. She is usually nice, but sometimes comments slip out that must be really hurtful for him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/20 01:05 AM
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Well said.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/20 07:29 PM
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I honestly could not get into his book, I think he may have dumbed it down for a larger audience. I think I can understand your point a little bit better. But watch his original lectures on YouTube, he is absolutely amazing. And despite the effort to paint him as partisan or pushing an agenda, he is actually apolitical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:18 PM
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I’m saying that making and then repeatedly breaking pair bonds is harmful. And Serial monogamy is not a good way to find a good mate. women act traumatized, like getting repeatedly divorced. Like PTSD. It hurts their ability to have a healthy marriage with one man. It hurts their ability to FIND the right man. This is new to me too, my whole life I have been about the sexual revolution. This is from watching my daughters and their friends. Young people are doing things very differently today tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 04:04 PM
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I would have once agreed with you, but there are important factors you are missing. Not all abstinence teachings are based upon religion. There are good reasons behind it. When people have sex, their brains are literally chemically altered to pair bond. It has an especially big impact on young women. Casual sex with multiple partners, constantly making and breaking pair bonds, is literally traumatic to a young women, and makes later relationships much more difficult. I did not appreciate this as…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 08:11 AM
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Lol. There is absolutely no way you have listened to Jordan Peterson and come away with the thought it is based upon “platitudes.” I just plain call BS on that one. You can disagree with him, but this guy has more gravitas, a more impressive depth of knowledge and years of actual medical experience, than pretty much anyone you will find anywhere. You either have not listened at all, or you are completely blinded by some ideological bias.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:53 AM
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There are a lot of idiots who have stupid and shallow interpretations of RP. You need to read some of the real leaders to get the real deal. I think women would generally support RP if they hear it correctly. For example, a lot of modern leftist/feminism has led to men becoming very weak and needy. The blue pill men are trying their best to do what women are telling them, and women end up disgusted. RP teaches me to be strong confident and powerful, which in turn makes women attracted, and every…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 07:45 AM
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Now that women are earning like men, they need to take the next step and start screwing unemployed idiots with great bodies. Like men do
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/20 05:51 AM
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There are plenty of high value men who want commitment, but these guys get taken right away. You need to find this guy for yourself in high school or early University. After that it is too late. Same with women. If you play around in your youth, you will have a hard time finding the best mate later, you will be left with the men who don’t want commitment
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:39 PM
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I can’t imagine that this would get you banned from TRP because this is literally what Red Pill is all about. The conflict between female vs male in reproductive interests. It is men who are lied to, and told that women are sweet and submissive little creatures who should be married, supported, and protected. All the while that woman the man is supporting is off banging someone else, and the man is raising someone else’s children. TRP was created to warn men of women’s hypergamous true nature. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 04:05 PM
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Believe me we have seen lots of doctors. The pill is good for protecting their reproductive organs (infertility can be a frequent side effect). The only thing that seems to work re weight loss is a very weird and strict diet completely cutting carbs, milk, and a million other things. And how can you work out without carbs? I don’t know how they can maintain energy. Even then there is no chance of being really thin, although they have great musculature, due to the hormones.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 07:18 AM
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It can be hormonal, in which case it is almost impossible to lose weight. Two of my daughters went from ripped athletes to fairly heavy almost overnight once they hit puberty. It takes rather extreme dieting to make any progress, and they work out FAR above normal. Hormones control a lot of what we think are voluntary actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/20 06:49 AM
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Home schooling is a huge job, you will be completely overwhelmed all of the time. But it is the greatest thing ever! There are lots of great resources, museum school, space camp, it is amazing. Lots of stuff is free. My children loved it and are now extremely successful. I would recommend not taking it super seriously with respect to an agenda. Teach them to love learning, not grind busy work. Lots of free reading. I went from weak in English literature to 99 percentile once I started reading a …
/r/RedPillWives28/03/20 05:31 AM
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I agree! A for effort but lots of cringe. You are a Beta who is trying to fake the funk. Watch the movie Get Shorty, specifically the Scene where John Travolta is teaching Danny Devito how to collect on a loan. The first time Danny tries, he tries too hard with too much emotion. Travolta then Explains how to do it, without emotion. The person he is trying to intimidate is just an entry in his book. There is no emotion attached to it. That is the best explanation of alpha that I have ever heard. …
/r/seduction24/03/20 01:08 AM
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You are correct there is no way you can be a stay at home mom and also have a job. Especially if you home school. Home schooling is a full time job! You need to arrange your lives to live on his salary once you start having kids. You just have to learn to do without stuff. No eating out, no Starbucks, etc. We went for years with almost no disposable income. You cook at home without extras. Pasta not steak. We also moved from CA to TX where costs are so much lower. It is actually a nice lifestyle…
/r/RedPillWives23/03/20 01:53 AM
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Jordan Peterson has some great youtube videos on hierarchy and how innate it is to have these structures and to strive to climb within them. Better fighters, making more money etc. I can’t imagine being happy without striving to improve both financially and also spiritually. Most thinkers agree that striving to help your fellow man is the only true source of happiness. And I do agree that achieving some level of strength and virtue is integral to a western definition of a man. Lowlife losers, li…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 02:22 AM
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I don’t think it is about avoiding an emotional connection per se, but about avoiding giving a woman power over you. Once a woman gets a monopoly on your sex life, she then uses that leverage to take control of other aspects of your life, gain control of your income, etc. If you keep multiple options and remain ready to drop a woman who tries to exert control, you can avoid entrapment. Plate spinning can encompass an emotional connection and a long term relationship, as long as the women does no…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 02:13 AM
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My understanding is that pickme is basically a woman who goes to great lengths to please their man. Sounds awesome to me and certainly something I would look for in a wife. And happily reciprocate. Why does this have to be so complicated. Is it weird to want to partner with someone who genuinely wants you to be happy. I mean only idiot leftists could think up this stuff. I think this is why leftist feminists have such trouble getting a man. If a woman thinks men are scum, men are very pleased to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/20 02:01 AM
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I do think that people tend to pair at similar levels if intelligence. You may not see a lot of really smart people marrying way down. But I know plenty of powerful professionals who marry at the very bottom of the career spectrum. I wanted a woman who would stay home and not have any career. I picked an unemployed woman over a doctor. My old boss married a woman from data entry. Pretty common.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/20 04:52 AM
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Career women spend their peak years in school and at their job, and miss all of the best guys they could attract. Then later they try to attract a man, and lose out to hotter younger women. Not to mention infertility problems which are extremely common with career women. I wish it were possible to “do it all” but you can’t. You can’t simultaneously get married and have children, and also work 24/7 at a top career. It bothers me because I have 3 extremely smart and successful daughters, I don’t w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:38 AM
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I don’t think men care at all about a woman’s financial success one way or another. But if the woman puts her financial success ahead of the man/family, he will likely not like that and opt for a woman who puts him first. It is not that he dislikes her success, it is the result. What I think most men want is a women who will bear him children and raise them right. Not another income. I certainly don’t want to have a larger bank account but screwed up kids raised by a nanny.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:20 AM
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I don’t think hypergamy necessarily means just that women are gold diggers, it means they are looking to trade up — mainly wealth power etc but also looks and other factors. How many men out there do all of the things they are told, work hard, do the dishes etc and then get dumped or cheated on by women looking to trade up? It is very common. You can easily spot them once you are aware, there are women everywhere with their eyes on the door as soon as they can arrange the higher branch. Not that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/20 03:11 AM
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That is a healthy approach and I am sure you will find a good guy who appreciates your good wife qualities. Good to hear some people still have strength and virtue.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 05:18 AM
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This is a great point! It is also a core RP teaching. Blue pill teaches that women love men for being stable providers who work hard, are loving, and help with the dishes. This is complete BS! Women are attracted to men who are young ripped tall studs. It is not about blaming, it is about knowing reality. The Blue pill bs is for manipulating men into becoming wage slaves and household servants. In reality it is much more important to cultivate the alpha and get women physically attracted to you.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:40 AM
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I think you misunderstand RP, this is not even close to any RP belief. Men still find women in that age group attractive. The 30 year “wall” is simply when women begin declining in SMV relative to men, who are still climbing at that age due to non-physical factors such as success and power. There is a shift in the balance of power between the sexes. It actually has nothing really to do with the way men think, it has to do with the way women react to this shift. Men who they may have turned down …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/20 03:28 AM
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Why do we have a system that oppresses men to such an extent that 1/3 of the men grow up to be pussy simps that they can’t get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/20 02:15 AM
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The Bible says “honor” them, I think that is important, parents should get decent treatment even if they are terrible. Not respect though, they have to earn that. A male human is a vicious alpha predator, he should be treated as such. Luckily many of them aspire to transcend their bestial nature and be good, loving protectors of others. Find one of them. And if you have to go into a bad area, bring a good guy. And a gun. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 01:27 AM
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There is a huge different between compliant and nice/not bitchy!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/20 12:58 AM
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Were you seriously taught to be compliant, and have no idea that men are predatory? In all honesty I highly doubt it, unless your parents are just the worst parents ever. I think it is pretty standard for dads to teach their daughters to beware of men, not be alone with them, or in remote locations or bad neighborhoods. This is not really a red pill issue, I think it is common knowledge. It is only modern leftist feminism that says women should be putting themselves at risk in this manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 11:51 PM
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Men are hardwired to plant their seed in women as frequently as possible because this how we reproduce our genes. We are driven to do so by a sex drive that I don’t think women have any understanding. Based upon testosterone levels, men have, on an ordinary day, about 10x the sex drive that a young woman has while ovulating (her peak). Imagine the most thirsty you have ever been in your life, then walk around in the desert for a couple of hours, until your throat feels like it is coated with san…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 04:50 AM
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Reading is my preferred way to learn, plus just plain life. After a few years of dating and watching your friends date, you will more fully understand how women think. Biology and science are helpful because understanding the biology behind human behavior makes things more clear. The “greedy gene” explains a lot of human activity. Psychology is another important area to learn. I am new to this field and I wish I had learned the basics years ago. The human mind is way different than most people i…
/r/RedPillParenting11/03/20 04:00 AM
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After about 25 years of marriage, I can say without a doubt that marriage is the greatest and most fulfilling thing I have ever experienced. No string of cheap one night stands could hope to compare. And starting young is even better. You get to spend your youth together having fun. Then having kids together is amazing, while you are still young enough to enjoy kids. Having kids when older can’t be nearly as much fun because kids are exhausting.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/20 03:44 AM
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Hard to tell without knowing more, but you sound pretty red to me! 😀
/r/RedPillParenting11/03/20 03:09 AM
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In between. Learned a little and is no longer blue, but not yet ready for the whole truth.
/r/RedPillParenting11/03/20 02:57 AM
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Hopefully you can find something more meaningful to do with your life than hedonism. Although I agree about yolo when it comes to pick up. Lol
/r/seduction11/03/20 02:54 AM
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Red pill is extremely complicated, and has many concepts that you may not fully understand for some time, given your youth. You are on the right path, but my advice is to go slow, and read a lot more. Especially when dealing with blue or purple adults. The Rational Male is good and there are many others.
/r/RedPillParenting11/03/20 02:43 AM
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You are 100% on point, she is looking to swing her way over to your man. Her behavior is predatory and she needs to go. Tell her and your husband in no uncertain terms. If it makes you feel any better, she is desperately envious of YOUR job and she wants it. No need to feel inferior. Just pissed off at her abuse of your friendship.
/r/RedPillWives11/03/20 01:56 AM
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I find the viciousness of your post, and your selected user name, to be interesting and sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 04:34 AM
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I don’t even think it is women per se that “lie” they often legitimately think they are being truthful. It is more that SOCIETY lies. And it is not just particular features (like being tall), but the entire picture of what women really want and their basic nature. It is an intentional lie because society wants men to follow the pattern, get married, be a good provider, have and care for children. Maybe the ends justify the means, but it sucks for the men being lied to. And also sucks a bit for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/20 01:25 AM
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I absolutely could not have cared less about a girl’s background and career. I broke up with a doctor to marry a girl who never really had a job. But I did have a couple of girls refuse to date me because they were concerned they were too low class for me. They stuck with their blue collar boyfriends. I think because they were safer bets for marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/20 02:53 PM
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Not true. I would wager that the majority of successful marriages are some version of this. Smart women find a good match with a success oriented man and they remain married for life a significant majority of the time. My whole very large and extended family. The overwhelming majority of the families we married into. There are a few divorces later in life once the kids have grow, it happens, but both parties end up ok. It is a normal thing in the America middle class.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/20 03:15 AM
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We went through a similar phase but we got through it. Give him intimacy even if not sex. He needs you to want him and love him more than mere sex.
/r/RedPillWives27/02/20 01:03 AM
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It is true that a woman must give up some financial power to have a traditional marriage, but she gains considerably in the exchange. Not having to work in an outside job, and able to devote herself instead to caring for her children, which many women love and find very rewarding. And the courts provide tremendous protection in the event of divorce, so it is not like she is all that powerless. Indeed, it is the man who puts himself the most at risk with a traditional marriage. Wife can leave at …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 04:29 PM
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I think there is a bell curve for everything including attraction to a given feature. Some women don’t care about height, many like it at least a little, and to some it is a dominant factor, even a fetish. I am a tall guy and I would occasionally meet women who were just blown away by a tall guy. But there are plenty of women who really just don’t care.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/20 01:09 AM
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I think there is a possibility for everyone, but you have to earn it. If you are a fat lazy unemployed slob you may not have many options. But you can eat right work out and get a great body. You can strive for a great career. Plenty of women would give anything to have a loyal man with a great body and growing career. Ladies back me up here?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/20 07:20 PM
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There is a spectrum. Gold diggers may have no attraction. Some are extremely attracted. The attraction can fade with time, but it can also grow, if the husband increases his attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 04:04 AM
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Being nice to someone isn’t the same as genuinely liking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/20 03:34 AM
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I don’t think the point of RP is to praise or condemn behavior, just to accurately describe male and female natures. There should not be condemnation for women who screw bad boys until they hit the wall, or praise women who chose “nice guys” from the start. Women have predilections for how they behave and it useful to understand them. Furthermore, “nice guys” are not always really nice at all, this category is more accurately filled with weak and needy betas who don’t really deserve praise. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/20 11:20 PM
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This agrees with my experience. A nice body is great for a date off a dating app or something. But a beautiful face is critical for a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/20 10:14 PM
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Women don’t choose how they attracted any more than men. We are all attracted to what what out bodies chose as attractive. Men like health and fertility. Women like strength and ability to protect. Generally speaking of course. Millions of years of evolution are at work here. Women who selected weak men is the past typically died. Getting mad at women for not being attracted to small weak men is just an exercise in futility.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/19 09:32 PM
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Men don’t shame women for casual sex. Other women do this. This is a women’s competition tactic.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/19 04:36 AM
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The problem with that analysis is that it is premised on the belief that it is MEN who do the slut shaming. It is really a FEMALE tactic to slut shame. Women use this tactic against their rivals and it really has nothing to do with actual sexual activity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 05:50 PM
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Where there is a will there is a way. And btw I do thank my parents for staying together until we kids were older and out of the house on our own. It was not nearly as devastating as it can be for small children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/19 12:55 AM
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Oh please, don’t try to paint divorce as some noble sacrifice for the kids. The mature thing to do is to communicate and work it out
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:37 PM
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Marriage is not intended to maximize happiness for the parents, but to provide stability for children. Although it can be pretty nice if you marry the right person, loyal, etc not just for looks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/19 07:21 PM
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I accept reality lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/19 05:21 PM
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I disagree there are plenty of nice traditional girls out there looking for nice traditional men. My traditional son just met and married a wonderful young woman and they are planning their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:17 AM
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She is not playing games she is a great wife, but emotional responses just happen. If she feels pressured and smothered it is going to be a turn off. I have to sometimes resist the urge to be needy. Realizing that there are real benefits to not having sex is actually kind of liberating. Especially when it results in her genuinely wanting it more often. :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 02:01 AM
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Masturbation and sex in general is a huge drain on your energy and drive. I have found that getting aroused and not having an orgasm is a huge boost to both. My wife is lower libido so I have been through a range of sexual frequency, and lately I have been experimenting with lowering the sexual frequency to her taste. It has been a pleasant surprise. She has actually been far more sexual in response to the reduced demand, and times when we don’t have sex has resulted in much increased drive for …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/19 07:53 PM
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The European solution would be to let him play a little on the side, and if you wanted you could have a side piece too. He is the old fart, enjoy a nice 22 yr old with nice abs.
/r/RedPillWives22/10/19 01:00 AM
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Observe the girls. Are they giving you signs they are attracted to you? Approach the one who are giving signals. And don’t be too goal oriented with what happens. Just let it unfold. You can meet some great friends too. the sex will happen don’t worry.
/r/seduction02/09/19 06:17 AM
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That made me laugh out loud. :)
/r/seduction31/05/19 10:58 PM
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I am so sick of people saying that being strong and confident is being a douche or misogynous. And women do respond positively to it, even if they don’t like it. Women are attracted to strong and confident guys even if they can be aholes, and they are disgusted and repulsed by weak beta men who kiss their ass.
/r/seduction31/05/19 09:46 PM
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Unless there is a ring on her finger she is available. He should have married her when he had the chance. lol
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:57 PM
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She did, but they broke up, and we started dating
/r/seduction28/05/19 03:53 PM
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I met a really cute girl, and she mentioned a boyfriend. She is now my wife
/r/seduction27/05/19 04:21 AM
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Any woman who does not appreciate that is not worth having!!
/r/seduction15/05/19 02:18 AM
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Buy a used classic, you can later sell it for more than you paid. Porsche. BMW classic
/r/seduction28/04/19 04:01 AM
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I was similar when I first went to college and I just went for it and had fun. Don’t overthink it and have no fear. Explore everything, find fun stuff to do, and meet people who enjoy the same stuff. Meet men too and have fun and hook each other up. This may help, here is a list of random stuff, pick one and do it within 48 hours or replace with something you think of: go to the beach and try surfing or boogie boarding, go to the gun range, go skeet shooting, skydive, go line dancing at a wester…
/r/seduction26/04/19 03:02 AM
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She wants to friend zone you. A complete rejection would be to endorse the “run away” option. But you really blew it with the marriage comment. Obviously way out of line. Back way off
/r/seduction15/04/19 11:19 PM
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If you have a Purpose, a major goal or goals, which consumes most of your efforts, you won’t worry so much about the other stuff. Career, fitness, spirituality/morality, are often good Purposes, but everyone has their own. It also makes you way more attractive.
/r/seduction11/04/19 04:29 PM
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You are young and full of hormones, enjoy it when you are sky high, and don’t worry about it when the world is ending. In the end just take comfort in the knowledge that the Universe is unfolding as it should. Work on your confidence, don’t be needy and drive her away, don’t constantly text and call. If she is not interested move on. And maybe she will call you later when she is ready
/r/seduction09/04/19 10:12 AM
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Guys aren’t fixated on it, women are. We just respond to their obvious fixation on it.
/r/seduction09/04/19 02:48 AM
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Looking back, I was a lot like you. I didn’t play around a lot, despite plenty of opportunities. I have never regretted it. I met a fantastic girl and we made a fantastic life together. No std’s. No unwanted pregnancies. And we had enough sex in the first few years to dwarf any missing one-night stands.
/r/seduction02/04/19 03:08 PM
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Focus on (1) your profession, (2) fitness, (3) hobbies and interesting stuff. The women will see it, and come to you. Looking back at my life, I had almost zero success pursuing women, but unbelievable success in attracting them.
/r/seduction14/03/19 03:05 AM
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They are just showing their own insecurities and envy. The alpha response is to ignore it and carry on.
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:43 PM
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You sound like a cool dude to me
/r/seduction20/02/19 09:19 PM
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You need to learn to be subtle and indirect. Don’t grab her breasts directly, start with flirting and see if she reciprocates. Great YouTube videos on flirting.
/r/seduction25/11/18 05:03 AM
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Pick up artists PUA have simple procedures you can use, along with ways to start conversations. YouTube some videos they are good
/r/seduction25/11/18 04:15 AM
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There are a lot of materials on the net re conversation and good topics. Would also recommend materials from the PUA (pick up artists) as they can teach you more about what you need to know.
/r/seduction25/11/18 02:25 AM
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You are clearly in a bad place mentally and emotionally, so all us dudes feel for you and wish you the best. First, you have to get some wins under your belt. Work hard at school and start building a good career. Hit the gym big time. You will look better and your biochemistry will improve. Eat better. Get some exciting hobbies and pursue them. Once you are winning at life and have a plan, you will have a bit more confidence to pursue some hot chicks. Some final tips. Women are driven by their h…
/r/seduction25/11/18 01:46 AM
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I am amazed at how common that is, that women are nervous about being on top. I like a girl being on top some of the time, it is comforting, and zero chance of it physically hurting. I guess I am a fairly big guy, maybe I am out of the ordinary, but most girls could not make it hurt if they tried.
/r/seduction24/11/18 06:38 AM
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Being super busy is an asset, women love men with a plan and serious goals. Add some good hobbies where you can meet great women and you will have a good chance to attract them. Physical fitness may be a good place to meet. The girls are hot and it is healthy. I have found yoga to be a huge plus physically and the women are hot. And a yoga class is really intimate. But anything you are passionate about will work. And even the busiest job leaves plenty of time for other stuff.
/r/seduction18/11/18 05:27 AM
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Guys are remarkably simple creatures. We like 1. Fighting 2. Fucking and 3. Food. In that order. Once are done fighting, we want a woman to provide the fucking and food. If you want more detailed instruction just ask. We like simple and straightforward. And I totally disagree with the other guys comment, I don’t think my guy would ever have a problem with a girl asking about lap sitting or anything else. In fact it is kind of hot. Especially if sexual. I think the biggest problem in relationship…
/r/seduction18/11/18 05:17 AM
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