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| 16 | Ironic Misandry: Why Feminists Pretending to Hate Men Isn't Funny (2014)Cool to know misandry is bad because "bad PR" and "not a way to get allies" and not because, idk, hating half the population just because is bad and bigotry, no it's always all about the movement for these people, and yet feminism is not a cult.... | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 07/06/26 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Do you think that women have responsive desire?I disagree but this kind of debate never ends on anything useful here so whatever | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 08:58 PM |
| 4 | Do you think that women have responsive desire?Proactivity means nothing if she isn't attracted tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/26 05:04 PM |
| 1 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"Your post is saying 1 men don't like women who don't have sex with them early 2 women should know/vet the guys they sleep with 3 women who sleep around are less attractive How is this wrong? Women who sleep around are more likely to cheat and not be exactly the best long term option, if she doesn't cares about sleeping around and goes with whoever, why wouldn't she do that while with you? And on 1 i think it depend on what waiting means? Like going on dates where is only dinning and talking for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:54 AM |
| -1 | Immature male sexuality: "Affirm my value by devaluing yourself"1-guys who are virgins or inexperienced past an age are wierd, creepy, something is wrong with them 2-they have to prove themselves more, pass even higher scrutiny compared to other men and be more suspected even if more expert guys could be worse 3-they would have less chances to even try to prove themselves because women dislike virgins and they are virgins because women dislike them That's probably a more catch 22 problem instead of whatever the post is saying | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/04/26 05:40 AM |
| 3 | "A Man's World"Is this a wierd revenge against your dad or something? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 02/04/26 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Losing a monoculture makes dating harder, sure, but it also makes it more rewardingand believe me, the culture is completely different, specially if you are a man, the expectations and attraction criteria are different, but if you won't take my word for it maybe discuss it with other guys outside of you usual circles, cause I don't think we will see eye to eye on this | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Losing a monoculture makes dating harder, sure, but it also makes it more rewardingIn queer circles tho, that has nothing to do with straight people, tho cool for you if you like your niche ig | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Losing a monoculture makes dating harder, sure, but it also makes it more rewardingYou are still different enough to most men that your opinion, while valid, has nothing to do with cis/straight men, and niche stuff works in your favour because you are very niche not because niches work in general | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/03/26 12:09 AM |
| 1 | Losing a monoculture makes dating harder, sure, but it also makes it more rewardingI do get you benefit from your niche as a trans person but yeah, as cool as it is for you apparently the average person has a harder time dating and meting people and as cool as you may think looking harder could bring more rewards i think it also exponentially makes bad experiences wasted time more likely so people end up checking out more | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Losing a monoculture makes dating harder, sure, but it also makes it more rewardingThe argument was never about men or you, it was about her being trans and having an easier time now, men are a non-subject here, it was all about her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/26 06:38 PM |
| 1 | Reminder on what the blue pill is, since some of y'all have misconceptionsBy that logic incels are bluepill? What a stupid category, almost like it's made to pretend being normal to shit on redpillers just because | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/26 01:45 AM |
| 1 | Misandry is systemicWeirdo | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/26 12:28 AM |
| 6 | Misandry is systemicThe calls for her are mostly self harm, which is a different problem but it's always counted as a suicide attempt, and which women happen to do more | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/26 12:54 AM |
| 9 | When It Comes to Men, the Left Can't Fucking LearnI don't feel like catering to someone's fear of who i am. Because of something i can't control, both as a man and as someone brown, so if women fear that I would kill them somehow because im a man that is not that different from a racist calling me slurs or feeling like am dangerous or disgusting cause I'm brown | /r/MensRights | 07/01/26 12:37 AM |
| 1 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?Genuinely don't apologise, i don't want to apologise to you for another man's actions and i also don't want you to apologise for any other women's or white person's actions, we have nothing to do with each other and many other people can be held accountable for whatever they did to you or to me. but i would point out that in the same way you care about the discrimination other people suffer because of something they can't change, like their race, maybe take into account that men can also be disc… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/25 08:09 PM |
| 1 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?Weird comment to post on a men's rights sub but I'll bite, you are absolutely able to hate and hurt and do whatever you want to those men and i couldn't do anything to stop you but in the same way a white person wouldn't be held responsible of the racism i have suffered, random men have nothing to do with whatever abuse you have got through, i don't know where that expectation of collective responsibility for men comes from but im not failing for it, there are way too many men you could be ranti… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/11/25 02:26 PM |
| 0 | Even after "the wall", women have more dating options than men doYes | /r/MensRights | 17/07/25 01:26 AM |
| 5 | Men value and depend on Romantic relationships more for emotional support and suffer as a consequence, study finds.I sure as hell would depend less in a romantic relationship if i could get one at the drop of a hat, but I'm not a woman so that's impossible | /r/MensRights | 29/01/25 02:56 AM |
| 1 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.I meant stuff like this: Office of Women's Business Ownership Entrepreneurial Development Promotes women-owned businesses through business training and technical assistance and provides access to credit and capital, federal contracts, and international trade opportunities. www.sba.gov/offices/headquarters/wbo Or programs like the women in the science, technology, engineering, and mathematics (STEM) program There is nothing like that for men specifically and there arent grants or programs for men… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/01/25 02:13 AM |
| 1 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Makes sense now with Hr being a predominantly a female dominated field but Leave DEI aside from a moment as i don't think that we will see eye to eye on that matter, take scholarships and programs that only help women in certain fields, like women in STEAM or grants to women owned businesses, all of those are policies that help women have, i guess in your opinion, a fair chance at work and school right? Nothing like that is happening for men as long as men have the most power at the top Also you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 02:09 AM |
| 1 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Leaving aside the fact that the men who are lose and bitch have nothing to do with the powerful patriarchs who fucked over women (and they fucked over everyone else, if anything you are closer to them than any "loser" man) leaving alone that detail, and just for the record, just for the sake of argument, you are fine with men telling everyone else to pull themselves out by their bootstrap in the odd case women or everyone else needs help or even votes right? It probably won't happen, but you kno… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/01/25 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Hurray for you bosses and shareholders then? I still think its stupid to pander and make concession for women as if they didn't had enough of society sucking up to them, there is no way in hell people are saying that women are oppressed despite giving them any and every advantage possible and if you feel like defending DEI then the scholarship are indefensible, less men than ever are enrolling and graduating of college but women still get all that help? Unbelievable | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/25 10:08 PM |
| 9 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forHow is it pointed out and why it's important, are they making it seem as if it is just weird and lonely dudes? Because I know that women on those communities are every bit as unhinged as the men, and on top of that it could put a stigma on those wo enjoy anime and vtubers but don't engage in antisocial behaviour, which are the majority of fans | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/01/25 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forI thought that in-group bias towards women was q human feature | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 09:01 PM |
| 15 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forYet people who hate anime and vtubers communities are also incredibly insufferable, the kind of people who would make commentary videos on YouTube like "are vtuber fans ok?" making faces in the thumbnails and saying smug shit with a tiny mic, don't know if that is too specific tho | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 08:49 PM |
| 3 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forIt does contradicts the narrative that men were more into "toxic masculinity" in our recent past, to men it seems like relatively recently feminism tried to restrict any form of masculinity, good or bad, and it backfired tremendously, leading to the red pill, the broader manosphere and the current state of affairs. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forThe environment and nature decided that, plus Women were the ones deciding that, they chose who reproduced and who didn't | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forI mean the external would be society and the mix of traditional and non traditional masculinity that seems to be weirdly demanded from men, but maybe you mean the echo chamber effect of the sub? Cause I do agree we could make do with different takes here | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 05:41 PM |
| 13 | Traditional masculinity shouldn’t be something men strive forI get the idea but what you mean but i think the post was more about how society, men and women, still demand traditional masculinity when it benefits them independently of what men themselves want. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/01/25 05:32 PM |
| 3 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Typo, i meant STEM-Science, Technology, Engineering and Mathematics | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:37 PM |
| 1 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.There literally a post above yours of men saying that we shouldn't and don't rely on women for emotional stuff, what are you on about? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:34 PM |
| 3 | Dont expect women to fix men’s issues when they dont like women’s solutions.Are women who get jobs out of DEI or female quotas or scholarships children then? Cause one has to asume plenty wouldn't be in those positions without feminism help, like women in STEM. They aren't doing the adult thing so to speak | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/01/25 03:31 PM |
| 3 | "Teaching boys to treat women properly."It works for them tho? I'm not saying it's right, but if enough or even most men fold or like the standards that women put for them, then i don't see anything changing | /r/MensRights | 23/07/24 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Therapy isn't the definitive answerThere is somw utility for validation as a man, i would even say a lot of men here are on this because it validates our experiences, but the line between validation and enabling delusions is thin | /r/MensRights | 19/07/24 10:37 PM |
| 1 | I wanna talk to a girl in my class, but...Pai, el post es literalmente sobre cuanto se quiere quedar soltero , por las malas experiencias que tuvieron sus familiares, no? Pero que no puede porque le da soledad a veces. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/24 01:15 AM |
| 1 | I wanna talk to a girl in my class, but...Can you imagine that those opinions could be a result of actually knowing women? | /r/MensRights | 15/07/24 12:27 AM |
| 1 | If you’re an autistic guy and can’t date, it’s NOT YOUR FAULTHow would the autistic guys "win" on this context? | /r/MensRights | 14/07/24 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Why is majority of self-improvement content, if not all, targeted merely at men? I thought we men were privileged pandered-to creatures, why have I never seen any dating or self-improvement content aimed at women?It depends on what the algorithms recommend, if anything a lot of men related subjects are harder to miss | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Why is majority of self-improvement content, if not all, targeted merely at men? I thought we men were privileged pandered-to creatures, why have I never seen any dating or self-improvement content aimed at women?I think you are taking about different things, self help books and advice on magazines are very mainstream and they do skew heavily towards women, but self improvement and derived social media and Internet content is more popular with younger people and skews heavily toward young men, tho it also depend on personal algorithms and different echo chambers | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 05:40 PM |
| 6 | Woman goes on a rant because men like "nice women"With how stupid some "icks" and parameters women have when rejecting men, I'm almost inclined to believe that is a biological things, and it would be kind of pitiful to live with that level of neuriticism on your interactions, tho that doesn't takes away their responsibility | /r/MensRights | 09/06/24 05:00 PM |
| 3 | The Feminist To Far-Right Pipeline, A Review As It Pertains To Men And Masculinityi liked reading this, as that video was in my recommendation page and now I don't have to watch it, but that last pharagraph is where you lose me, the purity argument, and maybe this is just cause I don't know a lot about it, or maybe because I just watched a contrapoints video kind off about it, women have had waaay more desires, away more "sexual deviancy" since the sexual revolution, and if what I know about purity culture check out, its women holding up more their sexuality, not putting out … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/24 02:05 AM |
| 4 | Young Black men are dying by suicide at alarming ratesi have some stuff to think about after reading your comment, and even more about FD signifier, but as a very small caveat, dick shaming and other "body shamings" is what caused a lot of men, arguably including myself, to get into manosphere stuff and/or a severe decline of mental health, I don't know if that's better or worse than racism (you are more than welcome to have your won experiences and make conclusions about them)and I don't want to play victim here, but I think the comment you are re… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/03/24 01:02 AM |
| 6 | Why don't men protest more?for a lot of men, their problems or sacrifices either has "meaning" (because it supports their families, gets them partners and a place to fit in) or they simply think they are so much priviligued that their problems are not real problems. and that ties to the fact that men's problems are a net positive to almost everyone, from families and children who benefit from a stoic provider, to women and society that get their cogs running the machine and feeling proud about it. way too much depends on … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 29/03/24 11:59 PM |
| 1 | Corporate is the worst place to be a man nowadaysor the other consecuence of it could be men dropping out of the job market | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 03:46 PM |
| 8 | Corporate is the worst place to be a man nowadaysim pretty sure there are a lot of policies to help women on India, but it would be better to have someone from there to explain it. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Inside the disturbing world of Femcels: British women reveal why they've joined dark online forums where they share fears about being alone forever.and kidology is a lesbian, so men dont anything to do with her being a femcel, other lesbian women do. | /r/MensRights | 27/03/24 01:01 AM |
| 9 | Casual Misandrythe only good fucking thing about having been born in a 3rd word country is the legitimacy to respond to shit like this with real experience: most parents expect, if not demand, their boys to respect everyone, and trust me when I say that the moment when a boy is disrespecting a girl, the one who will get beaten up wont be the girl. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/24 12:54 AM |
| 3 | Men’s therapythis can be overtly specific but as a man who didn't liked how theraphy went, on hindsight, it had a lot to do with the therapist, she wasn't a bad person, but probably misunderstood some of my goals about the whole thing and ended up giving me a lot of advice that didn't quite fit with what I wanted to do with my life. tho I do have some trust on psychology as a discipline, so maybe I could try it out later with a different therapist, but more to your point, I think that a lot of my issues have… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/03/24 12:42 AM |
| 18 | Inside the disturbing world of Femcels: British women reveal why they've joined dark online forums where they share fears about being alone forever.so women cant control their standarts, then suffer from their own choices and then can just blame it on society/men? sounds like a lack of accountability to me | /r/MensRights | 26/03/24 11:33 PM |
| 17 | I saw this stand up short and I think it represents one problem seen in feminist spaces: Not fully questioning gender norms.i think i kind of agree with your message but lots of men who for instance, get sucked into stupid manosphere shit (myself included) did that because the pressure to conform a certain way is inmense as a man, and specially as a young man, and that is not at all just out of "toxic masculinty" or mysiginy or whatever buzzwords so many feminist use, plenty of women, and plenty of feminist, do pressure men to act a certain way, often in a way that is contradictory, with parts of traditional masculin… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/24 09:38 PM |
| 19 | Feminists claim we have a huge "victim mentality" when they are the ones complaining about imaginary stuff like the pay gapi dont know about the pay gap, but isnt a huge foundation of their movement the fact that women are victims of systematic discrimination? how would they receive help, or even have their problems taken seriously of they weren't "victims" themselves? i think they just don't want to have anything to do with men, except blaming us for their problems and extract value from us. | /r/MensRights | 25/03/24 04:37 AM |
| 4 | How can we prove the empathy gap?probing that gap is one thing, but arguing against it? or trying to change it? maybe its just all of this talk about how men are so privileged that I have heard so much, but I also remember an argument refuting this gap with a "men are just not used to not being privileged, now they have get used to it" or the "women don't owe men anything" kind of discourse. also, what kind of action could we take to make this better? even if it was seen as a problem, some women don't even care about men in the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/03/24 04:34 AM |
| 18 | Why are men forbidden to vent about how awful dating has gotten?plenty of women complain about men online, specially when it comes to dating, are you also commenting to calling them whiny bitches? | /r/MensRights | 24/03/24 05:48 AM |
| 0 | Gen Z boys and men more likely than baby boomers to believe feminism harmful, says pollthe trads and right wingers suck, but what does the left has aside from shame to men? and masculinity shouldn't be about political parties or ideologies, but that's kind of how things get divided today. | /r/MensRights | 19/03/24 08:58 PM |
| 13 | "What Do We Need Men For?"rich and handsome men are kind of not held to the same masculine standard tho, some don't even have to pursue, and you can bet that all those deadbeat men that some women complain about weren't ugly. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 18/03/24 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Would mind losing your best years of life in a rat's race rigged by guys with the best predispositions?i guess it all comes down to who is benefiting of the behavior and the results of it, if you have seen lots of "masculine" men or masculine traits be little more than benefits for women, then it makes sense that you don't like them, but when push comes to shove, you do need resilience, handiness, exercise, guns etc, to some extent, at least to make your life better. so I get your point, maybe, this comes from seeing lots of men who perform masculinity to their own detriment, or just for the bene… | /r/MensRights | 18/03/24 12:12 AM |
| 5 | How do we get people to have more empathy for incel men?the left also kind of pretends to care when they need votes or useful idiots for their causes | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/03/24 04:23 PM |
| 0 | Why is it that women tend to go for louder, obnoxious men who live unstable lives?its arousal, strong emotions, no matter if positive or negative, stimulate people, and men on average then to be more stimulated mostly by visual triggers, women too, but most also need emotional arousal, whether its about the emotions the guys trigger in them, or the emotions they rationalize after meeting a really good looking guy. guys who are criminals or with strong dark triad traits tend to arouse more emotion, so they are more attractive to women, or at least to women with low enough stan… | /r/MensRights | 15/03/24 03:54 PM |
| 8 | There is nothing wrong with being an inceli get what you are saying but plenty of men also call other men incels to gain female approval or to indicate that they would never be like those "mysoginist losers" even when they are in the same situation as them. | /r/MensRights | 14/03/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | No space for peaceful incelswhat was your oppinion of the incelexit subreddit? i lurked for a little while as I had some problems adjancents to inceldoom and didn't really felt as if they had any good option for men except maybe being a very progressive husband type of guy, if that makes sense. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 13/03/24 01:51 AM |
| 6 | Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynisticlots of men do project their negative experiences on women but generally speaking most men wouldn't virtue signal and lie about what kind of woman they find attractive, even when they like attractive women with more red flags than china. | /r/MensRights | 11/03/24 11:16 PM |
| 7 | Men aren’t lonely because they’re misogynisticwhat do women want, according to your experience? | /r/MensRights | 11/03/24 10:50 PM |
| 1 | A Look at Heterofatalismi imagine you could explain this as i have asked some redpill guys but a lot of them just don't like questioning their own beliefs, but how is hypergamy really a feminine thing? like yeah, women have more options so they choose the best option they can, but given the chance, don't you think a lot, if not most guys would do the same, if given the circumstances? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/03/24 01:19 AM |
| 2 | A Look at Heterofatalismlots of incels dont necesarely think about slaving women but I cant change your mind about that, about your post tho, the conversation about women standards is kind of useless for various reasons: 1) lots of women either arent honest about what they want or don't even know what they want, just say that they want the bare minimum, and then a lot of women validate that when one of them could believe that paying for dates is the bare minimum and the other could believe that protecting here like a b… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/03/24 01:03 AM |
| 17 | A loving marriage ❤️even if this woman cocked, cleaned and cared for their kids 24/7, if you have to deal with shit like that, if she just resents you for even daring to suffer, then is it worth it? like, do tradcons really see this shit and think "damn I whish I was that man"? | /r/MensRights | 07/03/24 03:34 AM |
| 9 | Why do white knights throw men under the bus?!this may be controversial but i do think that whiteknights get sex, its just that the women they defend normally also hate men, and I don't know if being with a woman who hates your gender except for some of the "good ones", is a good thing. | /r/MensRights | 06/03/24 10:17 PM |
| 6 | The most exhaustive incel study to date, releases its findings...what would make incels more "competitive" on the dating market? and by incel I mean, taking the study of the post, a 5"5 brown autistic guy, how would he step up this game? | /r/MensRights | 05/03/24 01:22 AM |
| 8 | I think some women confused indifference with misogyny.im pretty sure that with so many men simping for every woman they know and the general bad image of men, lots of women would like men to be indiferent to them, except when they want something from the guy (his money, his status, his love, his attention etc) then they complain about it. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 04/03/24 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Going to Therapy (as a Man)sucks that i dont have something more radical but this guy is pretty good at psychology and not too feminist. https://www.youtube.com/@HealthyGamerGG also while the entire field of pycology has a lot feminine bias, there is not a lot of alternatives to therapy aside from self-regulation, learning coping mechanisms and stuff on your own, apparently cognitive behavioral theraphy is good but I think there are enough differences between men and women when it comes to their inner workings and lived e… | /r/MensRights | 03/03/24 12:32 AM |
| 1 | 1-in-3: A Record Share of Young Adults Will Never Marryyou mean common law marriages? | /r/MensRights | 02/03/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | how many men would take whatever they can, and what to do about it, if there is even anything to be done.if there are so many men paying for onlyfans just to get a semblance of intimacy then i would bet those men would marry any woman, no matter if she is a mysandrist. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/24 10:54 PM |
| 1 | how many men would take whatever they can, and what to do about it, if there is even anything to be done.it sounds good on paper, but i dont know how feasible that is on practice. | /r/MensRights | 29/02/24 10:33 PM |
| 3 | how many men would take whatever they can, and what to do about it, if there is even anything to be done.what? | /r/MensRights | 29/02/24 12:32 AM |
| 3 | Commentary: The world is missing out on benefits of women in political leadershipbring tatcher back from hell, im sure the brits will love it. | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 03:05 AM |
| 13 | Debunking the "Feminist" narrative in regards to the so called "Orgasm Gap":While Heterosexual men are indeed significantly more likely to experience orgasm(92%-95%), the overwhelming majority of Heterosexual women do so as well(65%-68%).why is this even a "men bad" talking point when orgasm is about womens own bodily functions? | /r/MensRights | 28/02/24 02:54 AM |
| 2 | How do you explain to some people who maybe don’t understand misandry or the harms it causes, that it’s different to “heterophobia” or “anti-white racism”?i had a similar discussion with someone else with this same idea, but what about the men who do believe that "women are gods gift to men"? on one hand, there is an ammount of respect and autonomy that we have to give to grown adults to do whatever they want, but on the other hand, men who do act like slaves for women not only set a bad presedent for all men (as the women expect or demand other men who do the same) but also some men are really willing to throw other men under the bus and wear the… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 27/02/24 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Men are motivated by achievement, women by social approval.from what i understood a man would be more likely to look for archiviments even if they dont bring social aproval, while a woman would more likely feel no need to archieve something if it didnt had social recognition attached to it. | /r/MensRights | 27/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 1 | "Men can walk into a room and immediately have respect of their peers. But women -- you have to earn it."its always the same fucking thing with the apex falacy, all other men who arent respected are just invisible to them | /r/MensRights | 27/02/24 12:35 AM |
| 1 | Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group.i do think they are letting their misconceptions talk for them, but the black-pill is not necessarily nihilist, as some who take the black-pill do become nihilists, and stop giving meaning to everything and anything but just live with that knowledge in mind, most become pessimist, and rot after thinking about their situation, some become authoritarians/facist and seek political affiliations to lash out agains others, and some become utilitarians and go for more tangible outcomes like money to bu… | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 05:02 PM |
| 2 | Almost all sides of social media sees the manosphere as some misogynistic group.was it about the men killed in colombia? | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Are our brains wired differently?the differences in hormones that biological men and women have should make a distinctive difference right? as those hormones interact with the brain differently, that should make a substantial difference between the genders. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 04:37 PM |
| 2 | Saying men have to create their value any different than saying men don't have value.some guys even like this framework, it makes it easier to classify other men and gives justification to extreme competition and aggression towards those who they see as less, and also gives an edge to get more women to like them, not the best kind of women, but it still works for them. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/24 04:32 PM |
| 2 | I'm getting tired of my feminist girlfriendwhy do you think that her hatred towards men wont turn towards you sooner or later? do you think that your opinion of men has worsened since you started dating her? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/24 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else just stopped caring about politics/social justice because of the hypocrisy?i get what you are saying, and my situation is different, conservative policy would likely make my life worse, as a Hispanic man (tho not living in America), and leftist policies would probably be beneficial, but seeing how people on those spaces treat men, especially single-lonely men? i guess it could be childish to turn my back to something that should be better for me just because "people are being mean" but i just can't stand how they sound, what they say, and how they say it, even more wit… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 26/02/24 12:04 AM |
| 3 | So are you guys familiar with the ways Feminists remove agency from women?not sure if im reading too much into it, but as it is a topic that interests me, isn't this agency problem closely related to a lot incels issues? specifically how society responds to their points, it makes a lot of sense that if men are seen as these hyper-agents, then it goes to show that they are just not doing enough to be appealing to women, who just cant help but not be attracted to whatever characteristic incels are perceived to have. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/02/24 08:23 PM |
| 3 | The view of what maturity means within the gender discussion.i personally dont trust a lot of women definition of maturity as some would consider some guy with emotional intelligence mature, while others would consider a guy who plans on having a family or a guy with gray hair and an expensive suit or car, as more mature. it just seems to me like this concept of a "real man", in the way that if you pay attention to it, a lot of the "real man" behaviors end up benefitting whoever puts the standard first, and those are mostly women. in that same way, depend… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/24 04:06 AM |
| 1 | Five Reasons Why Legal Prostitution Will Improve Gender Relationsmy own knowledge of incels is more about the stuff they said on Reddit (when their subs were still active) and some of their viewpoints on youtube, and like the other commenter said, some pay for sex and some hate sex work of any kind, they are not exactly an organized group, but more people who believe in an ideology and have similar experiences. and i guess it comes down to who are you referring as incel, as it is also used as an insult for guys who are perceived as misogynist or losers in any… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 24/02/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | It's Not A Patriarchy, It's A Heteronormative Complex With A Significant Queer Componenti agree with the critique to the idea of patriarchy but im not sure if gender roles are to blame here, not because i like them but because the female gender role is non-existent and the male gender role is kind of inescapable at this point, there is no choice. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 23/02/24 02:17 AM |
| 1 | Five Reasons Why Legal Prostitution Will Improve Gender Relationsthank you, i was gonna writte a similar response, but was busy with stuff, its always really weird to me how people jump so fast to the "entitled" "no one owes you anything" angle so quicky with incels, when there is a lot of variety within the same group. and at risk of sounding like a incel-adjacent/incel-apologist, i would say that as a man, its really easy to fall into the trap of deriving all your self-worth from your sexual experiences with women, so much so that a lot of "succesfull" men … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 21/02/24 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Five Reasons Why Legal Prostitution Will Improve Gender RelationsYou even have the (original) incel movement who were against going to sex workers because they see sex as something they are owed, not something they have to pay for. what do you mean by this? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/24 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Serious Theory: the Right has always had its own "feminism", and this may have contributed to a serious problem within the movementi mean, no wonder women dont want to take the male gender role, ask some lesbians or bisexual women how they feel when they have "protect (even if it is protecting from negative emotions) and provide" for their partners and they are not very happy about it. another problem is that a lot of men are incredible eager to fill the role, even if it is at their own expenses, like the conservatives and the red-pillers, tho i think that a lot of male feminist and leftist men are also on this category. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 20/02/24 12:55 AM |
| 2 | Am I less of a man for crying?you can cry and be a man, but be prepared to face a lot of negative reaction from a lot of people, most of them women. you might as well feel whatever you feel, cause thats good for you, but be prepared for consequences, and dont join the military at a whim. at least talk to people who are currently in it, or got discharged recently, the more they seem to be like you, the better their opinions will be. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/24 09:46 PM |
| 2 | On a serious note: Can we talk about how men of color aren't allowed to be vanilla or "squares"?I'm not sure about the white supremacist angle as i think this connects more to the "andrew tate"/manosphere/grifter kind of content that toys with the insecurities of many men, but specifically the financial insecurity of minority/immigrant men, and like another commenter here said, they (we) are the ones hurt the most by financial instability, lack of opportunities in the job market, plus the pressure to be providers for our future families or our parents. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 05/02/24 09:35 PM |
| 6 | Incels - myth vs realityits assumed that men who hate women will harm women, often physically at some point, so no, thats not allowed. women can hate men because they are "punching up", and at least by numbers, most women dont commit crimes against men, even when they hate them, they just make their lives generally more unpleasant. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/24 03:55 PM |
| 6 | Incels - myth vs realityat some point, there should be a distinction between the forum goers, the school sh*ters, the guys who get incel thrown around by stupid people, and guys who are involuntarily celibate. | /r/MensRights | 05/02/24 03:09 AM |
| 2 | Layoffs are coming for a lot of womenyeah, those people pay for an illusion of intimacy, and a machine will probably never be able to fill that gap. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 03:44 PM |
| 3 | Women are significantly less likely to date Bisexual men when compared to men dating Bisexual women. This once again debunks the "Feminazi" propaganda about so called "Toxic Masculinity" supposedly leading to Homophobia.i think a significant part of it is insecurity, i have heard some gay men say that they dont mingle with bi men cause they think they will be replaced by a woman sooner or later, and i think that women, knowing how easy it is to get sex as with other men, also fear that they will be replaced at any moment. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 03:39 PM |
| 2 | Me simply MENTIONING men have problems too in South Korea got me –40 downvotes, and somehow a MAN got OFFENDED at me. Reddit is a jokeyou should make this clear on the post, cause people here seem to think you just barged into a women's issues discussion with men's issues out of nowhere. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 03:27 PM |
| 2 | Positive Post About Gay Men I Madefor sure, Prince (and even 2pac) and a lot of old flamboyant musicians were very straight, and they pushed a lot of the limits of what it meant to be a man in those contexts. i just think that gay men have way more right to be part of the conversation of what it means to be a man, compared to a lot of feminist women who despite saying that they want to help men, more often than not just want men to cater to their own interests and ideology. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 01:20 AM |
| 1 | Low income men are hated in current society, is there a word for it?What IS up to the individual is to decide whether or not the expectations of the other side are reasonable/attainable. if the guy sees that women are all about money and status and decides he doesn't wants women like that, is he a beta/feminist now? | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Positive Post About Gay Men I Madefeminist love to say how they fight against gender roles, but I personally think that gay men help a lot more to show and build more ways to be a man than any feminist, or almost any woman for that matter. | /r/MensRights | 03/02/24 12:39 AM |
| – | Why is interpersonal chemistry never accounted for in conversations about attraction- only looks?cool that people here are having fun with the "guys here dont touch grass" and their variants, no way in hell that will backfire or just solidify their views. i also read some of your comments, and you said that you weren't overly into specific things but basically put everyone average in the "can be attractive" box. do you think other women, most women, are like you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/24 09:09 PM |
| 2 | We must pay more attention to young menhe has good points about men not necessarily being reactionary right-wingers when they disagree with feminism, but it still worries me that his "solution" will be more feminism. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 01/02/24 06:50 PM |
| 2 | Hard pill for women to swallowyou should make a post with this | /r/MensRights | 30/01/24 01:57 AM |
| 3 | Why do women complain about marketing to "the male gaze"?i was watching a video about the female gaze and it just seemed to be the typical men=bad women=good thing, basically it said that the male gaze was about bodies and physical experience "about being watched" and the female gaze was about feelings, subtext and understanding "about being understood". but on practice, the examples were attractive men filling masculine roles but with different lighting and camera angles and women on different shots or giving monologues, i think this plays off in the… | /r/MensRights | 28/01/24 10:34 PM |
| 1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offThen why are you making this post about him? Why are you "bothered" by him? he was supposed to be an example of an outcome that im not willing to even think about going after, yet seemed to be pushed into me by different women in some different contexts, both on the internet and irl and they were reacting very badly when i wasnt agreeing how they wanted to that. the post was my attempt to see what people here thought about guys like him, maybe have a more nuanced perspective, and in retrospect, … | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/24 02:46 AM |
| -4 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offi dont doubt psychology as a discipline, i doubt people's judgments on an internet forum with little to no context. | /r/ExRedPill | 28/01/24 02:28 AM |
| -4 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offi think i already talked here about my friend who was cheated on recently, but the guy was really into making a life for both, listening to her, going out with her and her friends, going on dates etc, all the cute guy stuff that she apparently loved so much. later on, after distancing him from his friends, she cheated on him with some tall guy and went around with him to places that she knew we used to frequent every day for a bit more than a week, just to mock and giggle at the guy. and i dont … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offOr should there be more emotion involved but not to the point of getting in love where people would want to form a relationship? i would say this. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 09:02 PM |
| -2 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offmaybe | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 07:11 PM |
| 2 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offhook up culture, without using an official definition (if there is one) just seemed like what apparently happened in university, an orgy of drunk or drugged people who didn't knew each other basically, which is not exactly appealing to me for different reasons. something ideal have been relationships where the woman liked me and i liked her, but we went on our ways before things got messy, just as fellow travelers or students, without it just being lying and just having sex for one night or havi… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 07:00 PM |
| -4 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offyes, its this, no idea what that woman you are responding to is on about, i dont know her relationship nor im a doing a general point, i was just trying to explain, very badly, the difference in values that i have. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 06:50 PM |
| -1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offI suppose is your right, but you're also saying you'll use our bodies to get off until you do die alone. i dont know you, dont want to know you nor the group of women you apparently represent, but if you think women who consent to like me as i like have so little agency that they can be just used by me then i have nothing to tell you. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 06:43 PM |
| 1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offObviously, the advice you were given was not relevant to you. It's unfortunate that it was a big waste of time to deal with that. it was more than a waste of time, a lot of women dont react in a good way when you reject their advice, specially when they seem to believe they are teaching guys the only correct way, or saving women from potential danger or figthing against the patriarchy. what i mean is that they put a lot of feelings in it, and get really hurt when they perceive those are being in… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 06:40 PM |
| 0 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offhookup culture is something that i find conflicting but its still weird to me that so many people jump to tell guys to be husbands when they just want to be boyfriends, its a weird disconnection that causes men to believe women are lying and women to believe that men dont value their opinions when it just seems like they are talking about different things. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 06:36 PM |
| -3 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offthen what you want is lust. yes, for my own well-being, i wont be discarding personality, or at least some aspects of it. but yes, being lusted after is what i want, and how to get that or how be better at it is not exactly talked about, or at least in my experience people just advise blokes about working on their personalities, except on the red-pill. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 06:17 PM |
| -1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offexactly, you ask about dating, and then they start going on and on about their husbands, and they react very badly when you oppose their advice. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 06:11 PM |
| 2 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offyeah, I have been liked for how I look, been complimented for my personality, been friends with people who have been only liked for their personality, and seen a couple of cases of both in other circumstances. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 06:09 PM |
| -3 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offi dont doubt that the woman did loved her husband and at the same time being loved like the husband was is not what i want for me, its not how i want to attract a women, and is not how i want to be liked for, i fact i dislike it so much so that i was using red-pill terminology to describe it. its just that i know so many traumatized or at least troubled women who advice and really push for guys like mr.husband, so much that one would think a man has to be like him to be loved or at least liked, … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 04:22 PM |
| -1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offi do value more physical attraction and dont think its inherently superior, i just had women lately pushing for being the husband guy so strongly and being so insisting on it that it just made me hate it, from how they talk one would think there is no choice but being like him, and i know that i would regret living like that. and women have all the right to love whatever they want, but i have all the right to not lke the way the like me, in the same way a woman may reject a man just find her hot… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 04:08 PM |
| -4 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offyou don’t understand women or life at all. yes, that not what i want for myself, and if i have to give you some context on why that is, i have seen a lot of women pushing for the same thing as you, and a lot of them, on my very personal experience, that has nothing to do with your relationship, they just want to make other guys pay for the shit another man did, and for sure there are plenty of men more than willing to go above and beyond for those women, but having seen how they live and the dyn… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:46 PM |
| 1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offJust purely on a outcome basis, why the fuck would you not prefer to be that guy? i guess thats where the entire difference is, i dont care about marriage, that outcome of the other guy has nothing to do with me, because I value less whatever that woman was bragging about, its not what i want, if i was with a woman who goes on and on about my personality and not anything else, i wouldn't stay in that relationship. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:35 PM |
| -1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offWhy is that? it just feels better, tho im no sure how to explain why. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:29 PM |
| -1 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offim pretty sure i put in the post that the woman said herself that she had slept with tall and squared-faced guys, but ended up with a guy who was nothing like that, but i think you are onto something with your other point: i think i have heard about that stuff about the male and female gaze, im not sure if i agree with my standard being explicitly masculine as i dont like a lot of traditional conservative talking points about it, but i guess you are right, i like being liked in a way, in a very … | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 04:17 AM |
| 6 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offI’m like you, I’d rather be valued for looks/voice initially. It’s rewarding when attraction happens that way. Gotta stay in the gym and eat eighth for that. Some dudes have natural or well-honed charisma that takes effort for me though. yeah, it feels better but if you overdo it with only shallow stuff you end up with women way too incompatible with you that only like your physique, and shit gets miserable really fast when neither of you is what the other wanted, it's rough. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 04:08 AM |
| -14 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offLike, omg, just read smutty romance novels already and jerk off while you picture the bare-chested, handsome outlaw pirate who is secretly the heir to the realm. It would probably be a healthier mind space than your current one. i dont know what to tell you if this is what you got from the post, if anything ill just say i prefer porn videos or at least audio and not text if I feel like masturbating, and definitely not something marketed to women. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:59 AM |
| -3 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offI dont believe in marriage but I'm not sure if I have anything more to say if our viewpoints are so different, chemos are rough tho so i wish you luck, i would even pray for you if I was still religious. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:57 AM |
| 0 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offWhy try to be something you're not? There's 8 billion people on the planet. If you want a pure physical relationship go have one and stop worrying about others. Note that you should prepare to be single or fucking rich as you get older and saggier. And that's ok! but don't be in denial about reality. The young don't value the rich old folks for their sexiness. yes, i just had a lot of women, both in real life and on the internet, going on and on about how guys should be working mostly on nonphys… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:51 AM |
| 3 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offTelling guys who are struggling at dating to just be like him is BS. Dudes have to figure this stuff out confidence-wise. There are many paths to this, some Reddit-sanctioned, some not, the grittier side of redpill isn’t a good route though. this sounds good, it really was freaking me out to have so many people being into whatever the guy seem to be, its just not what i would want for myself. and i also think the woman was attracted to the guys, i just wouldn't want a woman to be attracted to me… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:30 AM |
| -6 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offdont want to get into details, i went to find content about dating, got lots of women saying stuff about guys having to be something i would rather not be, and im getting worried that i would have to perform as one of those "emotionally attractive guys" to maybe be like by a woman once again. i also had to witness one of those same emotionally attractive guys being cheated on and having to drink the pain away with him and others, and I wouldn't want to be in his place. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:17 AM |
| 0 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offthats very cool and i hope you go on being happy, i would not want that for myself, because i like way more liked because the girl thinks that am handsome and not because she wants a best friend to make the taxes with. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:09 AM |
| 2 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offher strong emphasis on not physical stuff, I dont have the post saved but from what i remember, her point was that she was with the guy despite him physically unattractive, because he was so good at everything else except his looks. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 03:04 AM |
| -17 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offWhy do you think she couldn't get one to commit? And even if that was the case, why do you think she'd rank her husband last in some mental list she kept? i dont value so much a lot of the stuff the woman on my example and women on reddit seem to like, i like being liked by how i am perceived physically, but again that was just me being cynical, i just would not like a woman i like talking about me like that. Why do you think her taste had to change? Maybe she was dating square-jawed dudes for o… | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 02:50 AM |
| -33 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offi would study craft and meditate how to make my points so clear that i dont have random people make assumptions about me, the example was supposed to be illustrative of my point, not the entire point. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 02:40 AM |
| -37 | women gushing about their husbands make me feel put offshe slept with handsome men, couldn't get one to commit, and then went for the safe guy she wouldn't even look at when she was younger and probably more attractive. tho if I have to be less cynical, most likely her taste simply changed. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/01/24 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Gen Z and trad wivesi just dont get the appeal of the "tradcon life", it didnt even worked with the men of those times working like mules when the economy was booming, why would it work now? they probably just dont want to work, which is understandable, lots of men would be househusbands if given the chance, but about being traditionally feminine, doing chores, caring for the kids, and trusting a man enough to leave her life on his hands? women aint doing that, and being a working mule for any woman, let alone wome… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/24 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Gen Z and trad wivesi just dont get the appeal of the "tradcon life", it didnt even worked with the men of those times working like mules when the economy was booming, why would it work now? they probably just dont want to work, which is understandable, lots of men would be house husbands if given the chance, but about being traditionally feminine, doing chores, caring for the kids, and trusting a man enough to leave her life on his hands? women aint doing that, and being a working mule for any woman, let alone wom… | /r/MensRights | 26/01/24 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What is alexithymia?And it is kind of weird how this issue is then coopted to talk about feminism and "smashing the patriarchy" as a solution when feminists are some of the groups that are the most interested in policing and controlling any forms of male emotional expression (kind of like conservatives ironically enough). | /r/MensRights | 24/01/24 04:28 PM |
| 1 | Social Media - The Matriarchyi have my own opinion about videogames but those women who play politics are still wanted, radical feminists are still wanted, porn stars and onlyfans women are still wanted, they marry, some even have kids, and most women are likely to complain about their abundance of choices rather than loneliness, plus women have in-group bias, so if they are ostracised, it won't be by other women. | /r/MensRights | 24/01/24 12:42 AM |
| 1 | Social Media - The Matriarchymost women are not unwanted tho, specially by simps | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 11:14 PM |
| 3 | Article saying “can we talk about woman’s lonliness crisis for a moment. This is laughable.thanks bro. | /r/MensRights | 23/01/24 02:26 AM |
| 3 | Article saying “can we talk about woman’s lonliness crisis for a moment. This is laughable.i dont want to give them my money or my data, is there any way to avoid the paywall? | /r/MensRights | 22/01/24 11:29 PM |
| 1 | men and entitlementI’m pretty sure in some cases incels get more sympathy than women, and also how there are more reasons in general to criticise incels more than women. your entire set of comments proves that this is not true, this two sentences back to back prove that men are just more criticized for stuff like this, and im beginning to think you didn't even read the post and just wanted to say incels entitled over and over. Another part is that you said ‘no one owes you anything’ well to be honest that’s actual… | /r/MensRights | 19/01/24 12:40 AM |
| 2 | Outcome of work investigationjust this comment alone shows a lot about you and how well you handle bullshit thrown at you, and if it is of any relevance I genuinely hope you can get away without shit getting too messy, be it so you get a new job or whatever path you take. | /r/MensRights | 18/01/24 01:31 AM |
| 1 | men and entitlementand what im trying to say is: why am i supposed to believe that incels are so objectively wrong and entitled when they complain about women and relationships and deserve hatred and a laundry list of things to improve, but when women do the same bullshit and are called out for it then its a societal problem and men bad and their standards are good and minimum and we have to believe that they are not at all entitled and we live in patriarchy? and i could honestly defend a lot of incel arguments he… | /r/MensRights | 16/01/24 05:28 PM |
| 8 | masculinity on the leftbut they also dont like men they can control, at least romantically/sexually. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/24 09:42 PM |
| 11 | masculinity on the leftand they say they hate the caricature of a man that patriarchy brings but being non-traditional or at the very least lacking the good parts of traditional masculinity, does makes a man's life harder. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/24 09:41 PM |
| 1 | men and entitlementYou’re completely forgetting the main reason why boys and men become incels in the first place is because of male entitlement incels are as entitled to relationships as women are entitled to "economically attractive men" . women complain a lot about men but they are never told "You arent owed anything", they can just blame men for not living up to their standards, but when men complain about the same topics, they are told platitudes and an endless list of requirements to meet, and if you had rea… | /r/MensRights | 15/01/24 07:49 PM |
| 25 | masculinity on the left“let’s do what a lot of men supposedly did to women/how men treated women in the past and use those same arguments/strategies toward men and their issues” one would almost believe they are projecting when they complain about toxic men. tho that first part about what women desire socially/romantically, as much as it correlates with my experience with women, i also have to say thats no way to live, at least to me. it doesnt matter if it does leads to success with women, i dont think that acting li… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 15/01/24 04:25 AM |
| 2 | I need advicem8 i really would like to parrot therapy like a lot of people do, but no, if you are a guy in the rural south, chances are you cant afford it, or at the very least have to be extremely careful with who you are choosing as a therapist, so to a large extent, you will have to take this on your own hands. and there is a lot of stuff that i could say about the manosphere and how reliable or unreliable they are based on my own experiences, but that would be it, my own experiences as a guy living in a … | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 14/01/24 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Eliminating factors for dating?I'm not disagreeing, just wanted to clarify. And i imagine that if given the chance almost any single man would do the same those women on dating apps are doing if the roles were reversed and they had the chance. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/24 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Eliminating factors for dating?I think what he's saying is that women can get away with using their physical and mental traits more easily than men can, and can appeal to a much larger audience for less effort. i would argue that is more that men have really low or almost no standards when it comes to women, especially with women who they are only want to have sex with, so yes, what need would they have to cater to average men when some random handsome dude on an app would do just fine? | /r/MensRights | 14/01/24 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Eliminating factors for dating?that makes sense, i also think what is considered attractive in a man is really narrow. | /r/MensRights | 14/01/24 01:07 AM |
| 5 | Eliminating factors for dating?Men can aspire at being like only a handful of flavours, aren't as much idealised but more likely valued after examination, could you elaborate on this? | /r/MensRights | 13/01/24 03:44 PM |
| 5 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?fair enough, its just that on those same circles that i have heard that advice the term "dehumanization" is also used a lot when women talk about bad experiences with men, so what you get is: *creepy/ilegal/awkward stuff that men do to women=dehuminazing *what lonely men need to do to change their situations=treat women as human beings *the reason why lonely men are lonely=they dont treat women as human beings *what lonely men do=dehumanize women *what lonely men do when they dehumanize women=cr… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 12/01/24 03:55 AM |
| 9 | How can we solve men's issues? Any ideas?convince more men to care more about these issues, even if they are not affected by them. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 09:03 PM |
| 11 | Young men are accomplishing less than ever before. Experts point to 'male malaise.'lol then thanks for your honesty at least. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 08:42 PM |
| 3 | What would your response to this post be?its fine to feel whatever they want, hell even double down on it, but what does it matter to the average man who is not a criminal? I unironically think its a cue for the simps who like to fix women to apologize for other men's actions and do everything and anything to cater to them, or some shit-test and a shaming tactic, who knows tho. | /r/MensRights | 11/01/24 08:28 PM |
| 7 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?and also really weird, cause terrible men also date, and probably date a lot, from how much women complain about it, so if being a good person was a prerequisite for dating, those men would be lonely and single. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/24 07:30 PM |
| 5 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?it sure feels as if you just cant win | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/24 07:26 PM |
| 9 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?or it could be used to indicate any behavior an individual woman doesn't like or disagrees with but making it dehumanizing gives it more weight and can't be refuted. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/24 07:22 PM |
| 3 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?and how would they change even if they want to? like, what is the actionable path to do that? not being sexist? being chivalrous? not being awkward? treating them like men? it kind of doesn't mean anything if each woman can use it however she wants | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/24 07:16 PM |
| 3 | just treat women like human beings-what does that mean?at least it would be helpful if they explained what do they mean when they say that, like, what kind of treatment are they expecting from the men they advice with that, but what kind of man doesn't even know how to treat someone else like a person? so its kind of like a catch-22 kind of situation. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 11/01/24 07:13 PM |
| 1 | This website has an unhealthy obsession with incelsyou know how these guys who are incredibly homophobic sometimes end up being closeted gays themselves? a lot of that goes on in social media, especially Reddit and i imagine Twitter. not only do those guys get to signal that they are totally not incels (even when they are in the same circumstances) but they also get to shit on someone else whenever they feel like they have a bad they or whatnot, and they also get to be validated, especially by women, for "fighting against misogyny or whatever. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/24 09:14 PM |
| 1 | This website has an unhealthy obsession with incelsi agree with your comment but just to nitpick, a lot of the research does conclude that the incels or at least the participants of incel forums, report staggering symptoms of mental illness (mostly depression and anxiety). but the number of people diagnosed with autism was roughly 10%, and a lot of them did report having traits of people on the spectrum, but the percentage of incels that are also autistic is not significant enough to put them all in the sack. and is easy to just say they are a g… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 03/01/24 08:53 PM |
| 2 | "misandry isn't real"and how did you got out of all that? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/23 08:38 PM |
| 7 | "misandry isn't real"no need to give humiliating details, you can just not reply to this comment but, how was that experience? being raised like that, how was your experience growing up and how is your life now? | /r/MensRights | 29/12/23 04:19 PM |
| 16 | Feminism claiming the loneliness epidemic?ok i take it back, i now see why you were downvoted so hard, and don't know if you are that different from those men you despise so much. | /r/MensRights | 28/12/23 02:11 AM |
| -15 | Feminism claiming the loneliness epidemic?i dont know why you are getting downvoted, very few women are treated as "really ugly",as in no man wants to have anything to do with them, but they have it ROUGHT, i would even say they have it worse than their male counterparts. | /r/MensRights | 27/12/23 09:57 PM |
| 3 | Double standard with regard to insecurityto be fair a lot of guys would do or at least try to do the work in order to make women feel better, its even told to lonely guys as advice, they have to be better because other men did x, y or z, so waiting or straight up not fixing themselves could be a good strategy for certain women | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 25/12/23 11:52 PM |
| 1 | men and entitlementand it could also work the other way around with women, like, you are not entitled to a high-paying job, you are not entitled to a university degree, you are not entitled to having public policy coddle you etc, but for some reason its not entitlement when is in favor of women, because they keep getting away with it. | /r/MensRights | 24/12/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Got into a quarrel with a feminist about dangers of generalisation.bit aside from the topic, but whats up with women "telling their stories" Every time stuff like this is discussed, like, i dont want to be treated like a potential criminal because a lot of criminals happen to share chromosomes with me, what do i do with your trauma? what does that has to do with me? what do i do with that information? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 03:12 AM |
| 2 | Are gen z men not becoming step dads?early millennials date/dated single moms? | /r/MensRights | 23/12/23 02:54 AM |
| 2 | men and entitlementit was the simplest answer but i still think that the willingness to try and shame men into shutting up with buzzwords will backfire very quickly, and is not mentioned nearly enough, especially in conversations about men and their emotions. | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 04:01 PM |
| 1 | men and entitlementyour comment made me think a lot, will have to read the article again to clarify some points, but as other commenters have said, sexual selection has a lot more to do with giving feelings of arousement to women, feelings that are easier to give if you happen to be a "chad" or if you know enough about women, and have enought early life experience to pull that off, that is something you dont get when you were short, ugly, poorly socialized or all of the above, and is potentially something that you… | /r/MensRights | 21/12/23 03:57 PM |
| 19 | Men and women in 20 years. Where do you see it?marriage rates and birth rate will tank in a lot of Western societies, even more than now, basically at the rates of Japan and South Korea, so the economy will change a lot (specially in regards to pensions), there could even be literal taxes for singles or wacky stuff like that. on a more social aspect, lots of women could lack food, shelter and any basic necesity and still have men simping for them, and for every man who goes on his merry way, there are ten trying to date divorcees, single mot… | /r/MensRights | 18/12/23 04:57 PM |
| 3 | men and relationships, specifically friendshipsthanks for the answer, i specially like that last part about letting the guys vent once in a while instead of going straight to the solution, that does seems lacking in male frienships at least in my experiences. however the third point of my post was more about the advice that people give to men who cant date, "just get more friends", my question was if people here thought that friendships can fill the void of not having a romantic relationship for these guys. | /r/MensRights | 01/12/23 01:05 AM |
| 2 | men and relationships, specifically friendshipsi imagine that all of what you tell me is by choice, as in, this is the life that you want to live right? | /r/MensRights | 30/11/23 10:41 PM |
| 0 | "Male Feminist" hypocrite utilises irrational and fabricated justifications in order to prove the existence of the so called "Patriarchy" and "Male Privilege".im very biased as a lot of the guys content has helped me, but aside from the "society is patriarchal", ignoring how women contribute to this problem and putting all the onus of this on "just be confident and change your biases", he does discuss some problems with red-pill content and some of the fuckery on dating apps. all in all, his content on general mental health is really good and on some of his other videos about men's problems, especially the interviews, are really good, tho it can be ve… | /r/MensRights | 30/11/23 09:13 PM |
| 2 | men and relationships, specifically friendshipscould you elaborate on that "other men are the enemy" part? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/23 08:09 PM |
| 2 | men and relationships, specifically friendshipsnot to glaze you too much, but this was exactly the kind of response that I was waiting for when I posted this, informative, well written, very nuanced, and also mirrors a lot of my own experiences, so: *on your point about the differences in communication and emotions vs external events, i think that there is a lot of push for guys to take a more "External problems are a fact of life, and feelings are something that needs to be talked out." as advice for men, and im not really sure about how ef… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/23 08:08 PM |
| 2 | men and relationships, specifically friendshipsi would like to see the data that you mention, but just out of curiosity, if there was a chance to have complete "permission" for lack of a better term, to have platonic relationships like women do, would you take it? | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/11/23 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Former male feminists. What was your wake up call?i would like to think that i am more in the liberal/left-leaning side of politics, i support welfare, progressive taxation and generally a lesse-fair kind of attitude on social identity, but i also happen to be very challenged, almost inept, at dating and socializing with women, nothing clinical, just bad experiences and bad luck. and when i was at my lowest, i happened to get a lot of "feminist advice", that's when i realized that women don't have men's best interests in mind, only theirs. It s… | /r/MensRights | 29/11/23 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Body positivity for menin regards to attractiveness, it hardly matters, a lot of women can get away with being fat, skinny,short, tall etc because men's standards are in hell, some would even choose women that are specifically against the mainstream beauty standard and find them hot, That is not the case with men, the threshold to be physically attractive is higher than ever, and unless you want to coast by personality alone, which to me sounds like cheating waiting to happen, then is better to be as mainstream appeal… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Incels: a new study.i think that the downvotes and the fucking stupid replies to this comment were unnecessary, but if you want another opinion on what you wrote, i might as well try: something very important that gets out of this kind of conversation is the fact that as much as you and a lot other people want to see relationships as this very serious thing, relationships for me and for a lot of incels that i know are experiences, not only experiences as a prerequisite for dating at all, because lots of women would… | /r/MensRights | 28/11/23 02:58 AM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenlots of stuff in your comment but. i still think that psychology has some value but yes, its not exactly a profitable field, having said that: Ultimately I would argue it's much more complicated again. Older modern men (40s+ but not grampa) tend to confide with other men alot about all sorts of things. One reason why they don't go to seek professional help, is maybe professional help is geared towards the way women communicate their feelings vs something that would work for how he would. (Rememb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/11/23 01:31 AM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenthe examples were topics that I heard women complaining about, and what I wrote is what they told me, it was supposed to be an example to illustrate how men and women complain about different things and how that could be an example of the differences between men and women when communicating stuff. if you want to know my opinion about emotional intelligence i think is the capacity to manage your emotions in a healthy way, and as much as women complain about men being incapable or very bad at doin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:17 PM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenand i don't know if its just me but i notice that this distaste for men is almost celebrated)? in social media. which is weird because by pure logic, for each men who is lonely and jaded, one woman is also roughly in the same situation, so one would imagine that it all would be counterproductive in general. then again in social media, it seems that women aren't lonely and they dont "need" men at all, so maybe they can get by just with social media validation from random men, which is cheaper and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 08:08 PM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenGroup, and more specifically female group cohesion. Which women generally prioritize at the expense of...well, anything really. Including efficiency. it would make sense to put so much bias into their own group if they didn't need men for anything, but instead of considering men, it just seems they want some men to be more attuned to the female group, or at least that what they say they want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:59 PM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenMen are communicating what they actually mean, while with women it's all a guessing game and most of tye time they even expect men to be mind readers. it does seem to be that way, tho just to play devil's advocate i think they just want to maximize compatibility by choosing a man who "gets them" without particular effort, as in, a man who just "knows" what she wants is less likely to give her problems in general. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:57 PM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womeni think it could have more to do with early socialization instead of innate biological differences, especially with trans people, but i wrote this post to know about the differences that people on this forum noticed in their day-to-day lives, so I want more subjective experiences instead of just data. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 04:07 PM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenthis post was more about the lived experiences and opinions of those who participate on this forum, so if the data says that the differences between groups are very small then so be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 04:04 PM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenIn my experience, women rely on their male partners for regulations of their emotions, especially their neuroses, far more. could it be an age thing? lots of women that i heard complaining about "playing therapist" for their partners were on the younger side, so maybe its the opposite for women with older men who instead use them to regulate their own emotions. or it could be that they resent men who can't regulate their emotions for them and resent them even more when they have to be the ones h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 04:00 PM |
| – | diferences in communication in men and womenI notice men can't communicate about their feelings very well either, men and women are both just kind of shit at communicating. Men are shut down when they try to communicate and learn to be better at it, and women tend to not want to spend the time and effort to drill down and find out what is making them feel the way they feel and it's more ethereal to them. this is the kind of answer I was trying to find from this post, so thanks for that. and from my experience, this process of drilling dow… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:49 PM |
| 2 | diferences in communication in men and womendo you think there is any postive aspect to women communicating like that? and i mean not just positive aspects for women but in general. and how do you notice men communicate? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:15 AM |
| 0 | diferences in communication in men and womenthe example was about women complaining that their men didn't do the same things they did when courting them, like taking them on good dates, buying them stuff, messaging them or stuff like that, and that they also had to deal with their men's problems even when they used "toxic language" or just didnt engage with their feelings by talking about them in the way that its done, for instance, in therapy. both of these things are, for the women that i heard, a lack of emotional intelligence in these… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 03:14 AM |
| 1 | how pressured do you guys feel get laid or be seen as someone who gets laid? and how do you deal with that?although the two mutually reinforce each other). Most of my relatives know I'm KHHV. The vast majority of people I meet immediately know I'm KHHV just by looking at me. I can tell, because whenever I meet people while with friends, they ask dating-related questions to them but never to me. this was kind of the point of my post, i wanted to know about other men experiences with this but i think that not having to deal with situations like what you describe would help in actually getting sex, an… | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 31/01/23 01:26 AM |
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