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trpbleh123/r/askTRP14/11/16 08:01 PM
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trpbleh123/r/askTRP13/04/17 04:36 AM
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trpbleh123/r/askTRP28/11/16 08:17 PM
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Just out of interest. Your description of 'fit, lean and veins showing' leaves me thinking you're slim-athletic rather than muscular. Would that be accurate? That sounds about right. I'm 5'11, about 160 lbs right now, I'd say 12-14% bf, abs are there. 15 inch arms to give some perspective. I'm not really into the bodybuilder look anyway. I used to be a fatty but over the past 3-4 years I've made a lot of progress and feel much better overall, more confident, and have better posture. I definitely…
/r/askTRP24/05/17 03:26 PM
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I've never had this happen. I'm not jacked by any means but I'm fit, lean, and veins showing but haven't had this experience happen to me where women check me out. I've had dudes come up and talk to me about lifting though. I think it's important to lift and everything but I don't think getting muscle automatically makes you some eye sex machine.
/r/askTRP23/05/17 02:15 AM
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27 have only been with 3 girls and I have been trying to improve myself via lifting, grooming, style, career, etc. and I think I've done a great job but I still don't see women falling into my life. I don't really have opportunities to talk to women as my career is male dominant I don't have an active social life. Part of me is worried that the women fall into your lap later in life if you're taking care of yourself is a myth sold by TRP and there is always some carrot dangling in front of you. …
/r/askTRP08/05/17 01:28 PM
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Candid/stolen shots can also be good. They tend to capture your genuine character at that specific moment. I've always been good in these I noticed. When I'm unsuspectingly having fun and someone takes a pic it usually looks good. When I have to pose for a pic that I know is coming I just don't know what I should do w/ hands and if I should be looking at the camera, my smil also becomes a bit awkward.
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:40 PM
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Examples?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:38 PM
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If you don't want to do a thumbs up, what can you do with your hands if not in pockets?
/r/askTRP13/04/17 12:38 PM
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Escalating, fucking her and giving her another story to tell the next alpha.
/r/askTRP21/01/17 05:57 AM
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Dating any 20 y/os? Or do you have to date older women generally?
/r/askTRP19/12/16 08:29 PM
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Software dev too... happy with the work I do but not happy with the lack of success it has brought me with women. lol
/r/askTRP30/11/16 02:09 PM
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I appreciate the perspective. A part of me thinks you're able to say this because you actually got the chance to do stuff like that already and so you know you're not missing out or whatever. My job is part of the reason but really I only work 40 hours a week and I can work from home once or twice a week. It's more that I never got the chance to travel and have fun when I was younger because I didn't have the money nor the balls. And so a part of me wants to compensate for that maybe. And if it …
/r/askTRP29/11/16 04:12 PM
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I really need that voice of my head to be gone, about seeing the world before I settle down. I know when I'm back I'll easily be able to build myself back up. I also want to become a more interesting person, I'm boring as hell, never take risks or anything. It's almost necessary I do this to grow I think. What kind of volunteering did you do and what did you get to see?
/r/askTRP29/11/16 02:11 PM
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How long was your vacation? I did 2 weeks but it was not nearly enough time to do that much of europe.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:41 PM
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I have 4 weeks off per year but in my career it's really impossible to take more than 2 weeks off at a time as people rely on you. Very few companies around here even give more than 2 or 3 weeks. I'm not really interested in getting visas on my passport but seeing cool places in the world. I also never got to bum around really. I never had breaks in school, started my career right after graduating with no time off, so I feel a bit burnt out maybe but it's something I've always wanted to do. A lo…
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:40 PM
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Man, yes I have a career but I really feel like I'm just grinding away. Yes, I have money saved but what's the point of it if I don't ever enjoy it. Why would I want to waste my youth and enjoy it when I'm an old man..? Besides, yes it drops me off the radar for a bit but I'm fairly certain I can resume my career with very minor road bumps when I come back.
/r/askTRP29/11/16 12:25 PM
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It's sad because she was on a hook-up app on top of that.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 11:42 PM
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That's the plan. Decade might seem like a lot but time flies, and I feel the clock is ticking sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:23 PM
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Your whole comment and especially Really wish I discovered TRP sooner wreaks of defeat. Man, in a way I do feel defeated. First I was told the BP lies, a nice girl will come, you just have to be patient, so I did nothing. Then I found the self improvement community who said work on yourself and they will come. Worked on myself, lifted weights, learned how to dress better, got my career rolling, got into some hobbies that I enjoy to this day, but yet I'm still struggling inside to fill this void …
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:21 PM
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Thanks man, and I'm glad you're loving life. But you didn't really give me much context on what changed, why you're loving life, what you've seen that changed this, or anything. This is pretty much just trying to make me feel better, which is nice but without context it means nothing.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:03 PM
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Man, this all sounds good and stuff in theory but really, I've been lost for 3+ years now and I already am looking back thinking what wasted time. Don't get me wrong, I have a great family, a good career I enjoy, no debt, a decent physique and I think I'm a good looking dude that dresses nice. But I missed out on women in high school/college and it depresses me to this day. I regret not exploring sexually, not going through a bunch of women. At 27, I'm surrounded by people who are getting marrie…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/16 02:17 AM
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How do you move around so much? What do you do for a living?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 11:42 PM
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This sounds depressing... how do you get your share of fun in regards for women then besides the creating a lifestyle for it?
/r/askTRP22/11/16 11:31 PM
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Thanks a lot for your perspective. I appreciate the advice, and your responses have generally made me feel better about my situation, but I realize I need to start taking action now. My career and physique I think are on a good track, but I really need to work on the social aspect of my life and I have to start asap.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 07:12 PM
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It kind of feels like I'd be settling then. I could only be the beta bux per say. The girl that had her fun with the alphas, and I'm just attractive to her now because she's past her wall and I'll be being settled for (this is sub-conscious on her part probably). I really fear settling for a slut because that's all I can get, when I didn't even get to be the guy who has his fun too. The only way I see is to really for a while, try to be that guy who sleeps around too, drive up my n-count, have m…
/r/askTRP21/11/16 04:39 PM
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This is a big fear of mine. I'm 26, very late bloomer and haven't sown my oats at all so I still want to get rid of this feeling of missing out. I know AWALT but I'd love to get married and have kids one day, but as I get older, I figure the quality of women I can find to have kids with is just going to go down. I'm at bit of a loss on what to do. On one hand, maybe I should look for an LTR now that might be a good mother but then I'll feel like I missed out for the rest of my life and most like…
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 07:47 PM
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Isn't it a lot harder to get far via day game though? From what I hear, night game it's a lot easier to slay
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 06:52 PM
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I'm a software dev, over-thinking analytical dude. According to you, day game is best for me? Why?
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 03:54 PM
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Don't sound like a dick, I'd probably want to look for the same thing. I'd rather a less career-oriented woman who hasn't slept with every Chad around who has more traditional values but finding those are rare these days man. Good luck though.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/16 01:55 AM
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I guess it happens to everyone... but at least you had abundance it seems so you can look back on it. I never really figured women out. Would love to have a 3some one day but think it's so far out of reach for me. Thing is I'd love to get married and have kids one day but as I get older the pool of women to select from will just get nastier and sluttier.
/r/askTRP16/11/16 06:32 PM
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But most women lie about it, and to the inexperienced person like me, those lies look like truths.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 06:28 PM
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What kind of criteria would you look for next time in a potential wife?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:26 PM
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(2) It causes "Alpha Widows" to realize that they aren't yet. Also comes the personal realization that you are the commodity- the quality man- who has the time and patience to filter, analyze, screen, polygraph, etc, any interested prospective maternal donors. How do you filter and screen for these kinds of women?
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 02:24 PM
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Congrats. I'm envious of you. Would love to be a father one day, but the number of quality women that'd I consider having a child dwindle by the day.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 03:21 AM
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Your friend's old situation sounds a lot like what I'm in now. Rather successful programmer. But can never find my way with women. Been trying to self-improve all my life hoping I'll suddenly become good but doesn't seem to have worked out yet.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 04:45 PM
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What is the brace around? Can you work around it? (ie if it's a leg brace, do upper body stuff)? Or can you do body weight exercises maybe? Can look into calisthenics. Really just work around it as best as you can. Other than that, hope you have a quick recovery man.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:50 AM
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Yup... just wanted to rant and hopefully find people that could relate I guess... I'll get over it and get back on the horse I'm sure... just having a down.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:47 AM
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Man, I know I'm not alone... but yes, it's comforting knowing someone's in the same boat. I hear about forever alone men all the time in worse situations than me. There's so many men just wanting a girl to call their own but nope there's that whole hypergamy rule... and eventually once the women finish riding their CC, they settle for one of those guys and they'll be happy with what they got saying "the past is the past." It disgusts me in a way, that's why I'll never settle. I don't want to sou…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:45 AM
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Not sure this is entirely true.. I used to go to something similar to a church community with my family and it was boring as shit. I admit I didn't actively involve myself in it though. I have great parents too which are always there for me but I think I need friends/girls. I like the idea of a frisbee club though, sounds like that might be a fun sport.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 02:00 AM
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Typical TRP response: work on yourself. you dont need them... Easier said from people who probably get some once in a while... from a guy who's barely got a whiff, it's hard. Its a paradox, when you truly dont give a f*ck about being lonely and have made peace with yourself, then they will come. It's funny. This is probably true... but there have been times where I really didn't give a shit that I was alone and although I was fairly content, I still didn't see much in terms of social life. This …
/r/askTRP15/11/16 01:56 AM
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I'm not sure I found the answer yet. I thought pursuing a passion and getting enough money to enjoy a better lifestyle would help but reading your post makes me think it won't. Idk, I like my job and software development was something that was my passion before... but nowadays it's work. I enjoy it and get good money though and I think I'm happy with the work I do. And I have money but I don't really blow it like most people... most of my money is in investments so it's doing work for me I've go…
/r/askTRP15/11/16 01:54 AM
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I'm sure this will help, but really, I want to fuck women man at the end of the day. I will do this for my own sanity though.
/r/askTRP15/11/16 01:38 AM
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You're right, it's not on point completely, but I mean it's at the point where I should feel good about myself. But really the point is, I feel like I lack the social experiences I feel I should have had.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 10:46 PM
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Somehow, I knew. Feel like a lot of us devs are like that to be honest... and our environments at work are pretty conducive to that introvert behavior a lot of the time. It seems most people start with the stoics begins with Seneca's Letters from a Stoic. I believe I started with Meditations, by the Roman emperor Marcus Aurelius Something written in this millennium that may be easier to grasp is The Obstacle Is The Way. I have been eyeing The Subtle Art Of Not Giving a Fuck. Thanks... might chec…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 10:45 PM
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software developer/gamer/football player Haha, sounds similar to me, I'm a software dev too. But I don't have the benefit of being a football player. Fun job when things are good in my life... shitty when things are shitty (end up surfing the net and TRP and making it worse) I'm not a doctor but it sounds like you do not have clinical depression but situational depression which is just a a general lack of coping mechanisms for obstacles in your way. Not something medically to worry about but som…
/r/askTRP14/11/16 08:51 PM
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I'm similar to OP and what you describe. Theory-wise, I get a lot of the things and see a lot of it but don't have success. I do lift, and I'm in shape, but when it comes to women, I'm a pussy beta. I really wish there was an actionable steps guide or something. Kind of like a lifting routine, but for getting confidence with women.
/r/askTRP14/11/16 06:30 PM
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