Dating in your 30s

VasiliyZaitzev · 2016-12-19T03:16:41+00:00

How's dating in your 30s

I like dating in my 40s better, although my "Dirty 30s" were fine, too.

and is there a general consensus to when is the right time to settle down?

I'm 49. My girls are all 20-24. No end in sight.

Also, any advice on finding/dating fit chics?

Yes. No Fat Chicks.

Just a little background...

You may find this to be of use, moving forward:

Life After 30: How to Be an Old Guy

You're welcome.

StbRPG · 2016-12-19T00:59:29+00:00

Keep it up until your 40s then start a family. So far your story sounds about where a man your age, relatively successful that is, should be at.

zboo1h · 2016-12-19T02:03:27+00:00

You sound like you're killing it, bro. Steady as she goes.

I just turned 30 recently and I'm pretty much in your boat, except I'm only a couple years into my lifting and have a long way to go. I'm forever small and I love it.

Settle down in about ten years, and until then (I probably don't have to tell you) play it safe with sex and don't have any accident kids.

Some advice from a good friend of mine in the Army: marry an east Asian, not a western woman.

dendsm111 · 2016-12-19T03:33:51+00:00

Settle down when you want to and have the frame to do so.

quicklogaccount · 2016-12-19T01:17:07+00:00

How's dating in your 30s ... ?

Doing well. Thanks for asking. 30 in a couple months too.

is there a general consensus to when is the right time to settle down?

The most consensual answer here would be never! lol

All in all, you can settle down any time you want. Only two things are required.
First is cleanse yourself from the bullshit idea that "every woman is wonderful and makes a unique and magical partner" and learns that AWALT and despite that AWALT, there are shitty women and decent women.
Second is abundance mentality. It is absolutely non negotiable.

Also, any advice on finding/dating fit chics?

Well, unfortunately for me, the only environments that pre select hot and fit chicks here are overly expensive clubs that require their facebook profiles to let them get into events for free, and charge men HEAVY on that service.
But you're American, so it might be different for you.

squidracer · 2016-12-19T01:59:34+00:00

Single for the first time in my mid thirties after a six year relationship.. Honestly it's about the same as dating was in my 20's.

rpisnotpua · 2016-12-20T09:14:00+00:00

Sounds like you're the package.

A lot of enlisted dudes are huge betas (because the military needs people who follow orders) in their relationships, but if you're not, then you're set. Settle down when you find a 10 who is worth a LTR.

Title	Dating in your 30s
Author	robgymrat87
Upvotes	5
Comments	17
Date	December 19, 2016 12:57 AM UTC (9 years ago)
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