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Every escalation must be accompanied after some comfort building. You probably provided no comfort and escalated. You looked like a creep. Remember survival instinct overrides every other instinct. She probably thought what you did was kinda creepy.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:41 PM
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No. American values are the reason why we are the greatest country in the world. Stop with this conservative ideologies. Freedom to do whatever we please is the cornerstone of any countries success.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:38 PM
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It won't happen overnight but with persistence it will happen eventually. Respect is earned, not given. Change from today.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:29 PM
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That's why it's called heartbroken. They feel more attracted but their self esteem takes a huge hit. If your LTR has a high self respect it will take preference over her feelings towards you and she will begrudgingly leave. If she lacks self respect she'll just accept it and stay.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:27 PM
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Ask her for an arranged marriage. JK. Maybe you need to get out of that country. I see a lot of Indians here in the US.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:19 PM
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How did it go? Don't forget to keep it going.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:15 PM
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Yes. They have less experience and believe more in the romantic idea of love.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:13 PM
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Everytime I see guys talking about tinder I just lmao inside. Theres more girls out there in the open than on tinder. Most girls on tinder are getting loads of attention on it anyway. It's incredibly competitive. You'd rarely meet a solid couple who met on tinder anyway. Practice day game. It's like learning any hard skill. Say for example playing the guitar. There's a learning curve to it. But after loads of practice you can entertain yourself without anybody or anything. Once you get good at d…
/r/askTRP28/04/19 06:11 PM
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Just ask her out and proceed like you would for a normal girl. Act and accept like you don't know she's a religious one.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 05:57 PM
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Well I've had an instance where I was just texting this girl I met on a plane for 3 months for no reason. We'd just talk random stuff. I thought I'd never meet her so it was good to share and talk about stuff that you can't openly talk with friends. After 3 months I went to that town for work and I met her and fucked her. I didn't even want to fuck her and it just happened somehow. I've also had situations where I've texted a girl and nothing materialized out of it. So to be honest you never kno…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 07:46 AM
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Your hamster is spinning wild.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 07:33 AM
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SMV is not everything. It mainly caters to getting your dick wet, which majority of men mainly care about.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 07:31 AM
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Takeup a sport/activity and be good at it. You'll meet girls in that clique and if you are really good, you'll automatically be alpha in that group
/r/askTRP01/03/19 07:25 AM
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This shit is upvoted in this subreddit. No wonder people hate trpers. I'm a guy who has never gone down a girl, and never will. I don't like the thought of it and don't understand why men like doing it either. Women do give me a blowjob but I don't expect it. I'm pretty sure there are girls who feel the same way about me just like men. Life is too short to waste chasing a fucking blowjob. A fucking blowjob. Only virgins and low n-count men chase blow jobs. A decent girl who doesn't suck dick is …
/r/askTRP01/03/19 07:09 AM
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Why not tell her you suck at ice skating and don't find it interesting and would like to do something which both of you could enjoy. If that's not possible, go for something else.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:51 AM
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Everyone is a moron here. You handled it well. Please don't listen to anyone here. I would've handled it the same way maybe with a little more addressing. I would've added something along these lines to what you've said Look you're going to think I'm insecure or your friends are going to say I'm insecure, or call me possessive or controlling or abusive. I know how women work. There's not a lot I can do to convince you in any way. All I can say is : Look at it this way. When you met me, if you sa…
/r/askTRP01/03/19 06:44 AM
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I don't agree with soft next for stuff like this. The second she responded you should've called her out on her mistake and mentioned to her that she should've let you know beforehand that she had to stay over at her friends place, and that your time is valuable. When she complies with it and follows through the next time a similar situation arises, you are good to go. Soft nexting should happen the next time when she doesn't follow through by letting you know well beforehand. It could've been th…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:56 PM
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How are people on this subreddit turning into girls. if this situation happens again just be a man send her a text saying :- " I didn't hear back from you. Is everything all good so we can meet at xx?" And stop overthinking simple things like this If she doesn't respond back. Move on and hard next.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:42 PM
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Why do guys act like they are bad boys and have fucked numerous girls in their past while a lot of them are actually virgin nice guys? Because they know it artificially raises their SMV towards their opposite sex.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 10:00 PM
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Except the Virgin part, everything else fits the bill for most guys.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:57 PM
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Trp will not become mainstream for reasons already mentioned by other comments. It won't benefit society as a whole either because if everyone follows it, the world will become nasty toxic place where the world won't move towards peace. However trp would be the automatic result under apocalyptic situations and wars etc where the fittest mentally and physically survive. Everyone will invariably start following trp principles because it's ingrained into our survival DNA. All said and done, the dev…
/r/askTRP17/02/19 09:40 PM
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Look man everything that has happened to you is all in your head. You need mental help. Try to tell your mother that you need a shrink. There are people out there blind, broken legs, arms, disfigured, terminal disease etc and you are bitching about nothing. From your post all i see is your emotional problems and you hurting yourself. All are issues created in your head. I don't exactly see the bad hand you were dealt? I simply don't understand. You are acting like a woman so women aren't attract…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:13 AM
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You're in for a big lesson lol.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 04:01 AM
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Like the other commentor mentioned, escalate during sexual tension/connection creation. You should be pushing hard every date. To answer your question. Just text her. Come up with something you want to do with her. Once she texts back try calling her on phone saying you're cooking or something so you can sense her interest via phone. Keep the phone flirty and fun but make sure you keep your conversation aligned to setting up logistics for the next date and once confirmed end the call.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:27 AM
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Eat clean and lift with more compound excersies so your body is burning calories like crazy during rested state trying to heal a lot of torn muscle fibers. It's a myth that you can't gain muscle without bulking and then cutting. That's not true. However normal bulking and then cutting is much more easier process than clean bulk which is why most people do it and recommend it.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:22 AM
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Call him out. When he lies call him out. When he shows signs if ego, call him out. Trust me there are probably lots of people who feel the same about him. Once you start calling him out jokingly people will start following you and he will stop doing those things. Dark traid characteristics do not work anymore in the present day world, since more and more people are calling them out which they wouldn't do in previous generations. The world is changing. Caution : Don't develop these characteristic…
/r/askTRP20/11/18 03:16 AM
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All these guys are losers who keep their once LTRs as friends. This is just not the right way to go about it. It shows scarcity mentality and is overall unhealthy. If you can cut ties with ex, do it. If you get another girl in your life what if she is friends with her ex. You're going to be okay? You will have no leverage to set rules while committing. Better get ready to get cucked or get into drama or swinging lifestyle. A quality girl will not be okay with you being friends with ex unless she…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:57 AM
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Be upfront on the first date about your cancer and bring out all the cards on the table. This is serious stuff ... You will have to approach it different. If she gives a go ahead proceed ..
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:51 AM
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Here's the gist of the article I read. But I can't seem to find it anywhere after a lot of googling. If someone can find it, link it to this post. Long story short in the good old days low SMV men were punished for making sexual advances to high SMV women. To exaggerate it, If you were a cobbler trying to hit on the queen you would be punished by other high SMV men by death. So low SMV men were instinctively socialized to act in a submissive manner putting high SMV women on a pedestal. Women who…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:45 AM
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Simply interact with them when both of you are isolated or isolate them and build connection. Be masculine.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 05:06 AM
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I don't generally recommend this but here goes. Open your Instagram and like a hot girls picture that you find really attractive. Let her hamster spin. I guarantee she'll notice. That'll put her in place. But don't fucking tell her this : "You liked that ripped guy, why can't I like a hot girl". Just act like nothing happened and move on with your life. Lol why would you demoted her cause she liked someone else's Instagram pic. If it were me I wouldn't bother and just let it go. But I'm pretty s…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:44 AM
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ROFL. Funny how this is what fat girls say and stay fat.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:37 AM
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Doesn't matter. All the best brand shit is just marketing nonsense. It's all the same. Find something that works and stick with it. These are inane shit you shouldn't bother with. You can skip whey and just eat clean good food and get shredded. Obviously not the rock level buff but shredded to make women swoon. Just eat clean and lift.
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:34 AM
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If you truly would leave that's abundance mentality. If she believes you, and you are someone she thinks high off. What you did is alpha. If you won't leave and just putting your foot down and she doesn't beleive you, she can ignore your rule and actually think what you did is beta. Here's why I always say before becoming exclusive with a girl you must set these rules. Not after it has happened. The best thing you should've done here is not put these rules. Increase your SMV and go get two other…
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:30 AM
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I have fairly high n count. After a while sex just feels like me masturbating into a hole. No butterflies and crazy endorphin rush as when you have low or zero n count. Even after a long dry spell. I don't know how guys just fuck forever and not get bored of it. Men are wired to prosper and excel in healthy relationships through commitment. Cutting it out as redpill recommends is not fulfilling. It is however happier than being in a bad relationship. I think lot of guys that say sex is everythin…
/r/askTRP31/10/18 06:51 AM
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Find men who you are attracted to and genuinly connect with. Lot of immature guys are just like immature girls. Immature guys chase bad girls. Immature girls chase bad boys. They are not looking for relationship. They are looking for that drama. Simple boring bonding relationship doesn't work for them. Find someone who is mature. Doesn't make decisions emotionally. Has very masculine tendencies. Has strong principles and respect towards himself. Think about it like this. Take a guy you dated or …
/r/RedPillWomen29/10/18 01:01 AM
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It gets better with more practice. Eventually you'll get there. Keep doing it.
/r/askTRP16/10/18 12:33 PM
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That's not comparable in my opinion. I personally would be perfectly happy if I got to fuck supermodels day in day out. Sex is literally the only thing missing in my life. Other than that it's as perfect as it could be. For me. I'm not interested in money for example. I have enough. That's exactly what I meant. You are not interested in money beacuse you have loads of it. You don't have sex in your life so you think if you have loads of sex you'll be super happy. But that's not true. Just like i…
/r/askTRP15/10/18 12:27 AM
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Contrary to the popular belief, women don't care if you make food music. If they are attracted to you and you play music well it's a positive. Posting it to your Snapchat will reduce your SMV technically since it's validation seeking. But it will improve your chance to get your music around if it is good. Do what you care about most. Your music or your SMV. Life is not all about fucking women and SMV.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:57 PM
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She's indirectly asking fun from you. And yes she probably wants to explore an affair with you.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:55 PM
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False. Let me explain this to you. Food and water is a much bigger need than sex. I'm assuming you can pretty much eat any food you like. Does this make you happier than someone who isn't getting that? Not really. Happiness has nothing to do with sex, food, water etc. True happiness and how to attain is something out of scope for this forum.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:52 PM
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IDGAF is an attitude that means you don't care how effective what you are doing is. To explain this with an analogy. If you are playing with children and some children try to fuck with you or test you, you are instinctually unwavering in your emotions because you don't care. It's an attitude that helps you and for your well being. It's not to be faked to get something out of someone. Because if you did, it's not really IDGAF. However when you truly DGAF you are technically seeing yourself much a…
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:48 PM
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Don't fucking go. It's so stupid. If you really have to go have a plan to get in later than when the party started.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:35 PM
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You are being needy by underdressing because you think it's needy. Alpha males beleive in everything they do. You can wear a tie jacket and a goddamn vest with make up on and still excude alpha, if that's who you are and truly beleive is how you wanna be seen.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:12 PM
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For the first just smile/grin and continue. People around will notice how you took that test as a joke. For the second. I think your friend can speak for herself. Qualifies the girl your hitting on in a good way. And I agree with other people here. You need to develop an alpha frame/mindset. Abundance mentality and confidence. These answers will be automatic.
/r/askTRP14/10/18 09:07 PM
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That one in the link is a drying agent. However you can try it. Check to see if that brings out any acne fully out to the surface. The one I was going for is for anything that contains Retinol. And then you can apply drying agent after popping out acne fully when it has surfaced completely. I asked you to get off this sub because you were asking for opinion on this sub by posting your picture which is insecurity. It's not wrong or bad but being in this sub too long can make it worse mentally. Si…
/r/askTRP11/10/18 03:02 AM
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If she's truly virgin. Keep going. To know, If she's real or not you'll have to pop her virginity. Cause there are girls who fake virginity too.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:05 AM
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I had worked with a lot of women and let me tell you this. This guy got it to the T. To ado to this, They'll probe the living shit out of you to talk. Don't do it. Everything you say can and will be used against you holds so true in this environment. Remember to not step down on important values for any women.
/r/askTRP06/10/18 01:03 AM
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If you are so afraid of it, just ask her to get one and pay for it.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:37 AM
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Talk with them and shoot the shit. Escalate when you are alone with girls.
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:34 AM
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What is your job lol. I'm pretty sure you're over exaggerating of what is actually required, unless you're a gang leader
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:32 AM
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Are you like a fantic? This is such a beta mind. This shows exactly how much un-redpilled you are. This is the exact thing redpill tells you to not to do. You are raging like a girl. There is another forum already created. Why this useless thread. When I first saw similar threads like this I thought I'll just ignore. But now I'm thinking how many people sit on this bandwagon being so emotional about such a trivial situation. Just go live the real life. And if you still want some advice or read, …
/r/askTRP30/09/18 06:10 AM
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What's funny here is. What if she becomes friends with someone in office that you have no clue about? You'd try to stop her from talking to him? Common dude. Just let it go. It's your stupid mind. Trpers make people paranoid for no reason. Make a friend who is a girl at your workplace
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:28 AM
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25 different men in 25 years is too high. Trust me, she'd be known as a slut by lot of her friends. At around 25 years girls have fucked on an average around 15 men max. And this number only because of the new tinder age, otherwise it'd be fewer.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:17 AM
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You don't explain shit to her. It's her job to ask questions. And all those commitment questions are to be dismissed and not taken seriously. Answer with A&A or dismissiveness. Change topic. She'll get the hint. Girls who really like you will work harder and harder to get that commitment from you
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:11 AM
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Condom always, unless LTR. Do you stop driving because there is a chance of you getting into an accident?
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:07 AM
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LTR doesnt get demoted to plate. You break up or hard next.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 08:03 AM
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Yeah and then proceed to invite those guys to have sex with her. What a dumbass suggestion.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:57 AM
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This is what I use. Dismissive serious stare for 2 seconds then proceed to shake your head like you do when you want to say "this again" and continue doing whatever you are doing. Shows your girl that you see what they are doing and have confronted them. Don't approve it. See them as children that you are disappointed with. But don't percieve them as a threat at all and also don't give them any usable attention.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:56 AM
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She thought you're a player. I have gotten a similar reaction from a girl who thought Im a player since I don't update my social media at all.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:40 AM
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That's fine
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:37 AM
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When you jerk off to porn, do you care about what the pornstar opinions are. For Fucking - I only care if she's attractive to me. Rest I don't care. I never talk about politics or any of these sjw/liberal/conservative timewasting topics with girls I fuck and steer away from it if it's brought up
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:34 AM
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It's okay. Escalate during movie. Get seats where no-ones around. I don't like movie dates, but on one of the movie dates I went, as the move went one the girl "acted" scared and I just put my arm around her. Then she got closer and I started whispering into her ear during some dialogues. Jokes/chatting etc. She also started whispering into my ear. We shared a drink and somehow I ended up actually escalated to fondling her boobs from outside. Just caressing her and then touching her nipple and g…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 07:17 AM
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Google depression.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:50 AM
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Keep doing you. Don't chase her. You can definitely call her out by asking her why she removed you from Snapchat.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:47 AM
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Friendzone is a situation where a guy is romantically inclined towards the girl, but girl only see him in platonic way. If you don't see a girl in a romantic way and are friends with a girl you are not in the friendzone. It's very possible when you have a hot girlfriend and have an average looking friend who is a girl. Then you have no romantic interest towards the friend. However in those cases the girl might have romantic interest in you. In that case she's in the friendzone
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:44 AM
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You yourself deep down don't believe her. You want someone to say, bro she's good bro. Go marry her. Here's a scenario : Assume you have moved there and she died in a car accident. Assume you have finished grieving. What would be your next big moves. Would you move back? Would you go get another degree? Do any of those things align with what you would end up doing by moving 2000 miles. If not you better not move. Let her move to your place. Then you can believe her or give her a chance
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:38 AM
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Is it illegal? If do don't do it. Else there is no difference than any other normal date
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:19 AM
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You exert authority by making people follow you. People follow people who provide value. So provide value by doing your job exceptionally well which students can easily notice and also empower students and guide them. As you succeed in empowering a few students they will start to follow you. Other non followers will notice that and gain respect and start following you. Of course there are always going to be rebels. Deal with them sternly and don't back down on your principles. I'm vague here bec…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:14 AM
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She has problems with jokes. Probably a little insecure and actually lonely. But honestly the text was stupid. So cringey. I can see you were going for sarcastic hole joke, but I'd never make sarcastic jokes over text before the meet. Hope you learn from this. In any case. You could've replied something like, <praying emoji>okay Miss lonely Idontunderstandsarcasm how does #Insert place# sound? They have really good xxx If she still replies you are a jerk or something other than flat out rejectio…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 06:02 AM
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You have to first ask yourself the question, wpuld you be interested in going to the photosession, if it was a random guy taking pictures.. if yes then go to the photosession expecting nothing from the girl because you are going for the photosession and girl is just a bonus. If you are not interested in the photo session but you're interested in the girl then find another place and time to meet up with her. If you are interested in the photosession and the girl you wouldn't even be asking this q…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:40 AM
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Yes. If you were good looking and taken, you wouldn't even ask this question.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:32 AM
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There is redpill, which say beta bux etc. But if you have ridiculous amount of wealth, you can get anything and everything you want provided you aren't an idiot. To become that rich is hundred times harder than getting ripped. That's why trp advocates the most easy and fool proof solution which is to get ripped. If you lift weights consistently and eat right you WILL get ripped. Its a guarantee. It's just that easy, and literally EVERYONE can do it, whereas everyone CANNOT become rich. Also why …
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:29 AM
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Like the other commenter said those are shit tests. Actually very common ones when you are at the bars and girls aren't looking for attention from you, except maybe the boyfriend one. I'd walk away too. For the other ones, you need to be dismissive of those and keep pushing through. Dial down or double down. You ease out after dismissing shit test by disengaging into other topic and come back, or you push ahead after dismissing acting like you don't give a shit what she said. When you double dow…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 05:02 AM
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Who cares. Just go out with them and day game parallelly. There is no tip to day game. Meet a girl .. say some comments. Come up with questions to guage her availablily. You don't want to hit on women whose husband's or boyfriend's are around. Then flirt.. blast of shit Tests. Give some comfort while kino escalating, create connection. When you feel you've built high sexual tension, at the high end of the conversation. Break, take her number and get outta there. You don't need to read a book on …
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:46 AM
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It's not a sexual strategy. It's independent of that and it's just a behavior named by the redpill subculture. Having the hots for one women is also not bad. But revolving your life and your entire existence and happiness around one women, which is generally what people with oneitis suffer with, is bad
/r/askTRP28/09/18 04:39 AM
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This is going to be humble brag but I never got friend zoned. Even girls I saw as friends secretly wanted to fuck me. I'm good looking but not Chad level good looking. I seriously don't understand how guys get friend zoned after learning basics of trp. I would like some genuine friends who are girls. But even girls who have rejected me never became close friends. I think deep down they know I'd definitely push boundaries and fuck them. And girls I'm not interested in can see through my behavior …
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:52 AM
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Probably notice but don't care.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:45 AM
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I'm so confused who is who in that text thread after ok, who are we. In any case. I felt you were doing fine. You clearly like her a lot and she seems interested in you. Lot of compliance from her. Just tell your friend you like her and you want him to not come. Then meet her make moves and don't friend zone yourself. There's the way out. Don't be so depressed about nothing. Your mentality is filled with negative thoughts and scarcity while reality is completely otherwise.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:39 AM
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I feel like She's testing to see if you would say :- hey we don't have to be friends. We can be in a relationship or something beta like that. What did you do after she stated you are friends? I think she wants the girlfriend tag and wants to know you are committed to her. This is not a positive thing because she's manipulating you into making you say this and getting your commitment. Accepting this will put you in beta bux category since it shows she can manipulate you on her terms. Soon you'll…
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:28 AM
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Most common shit test. Agree and amplify. Or ignore smile/laugh and continue being dismissive of her question.
/r/askTRP28/09/18 03:13 AM
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Just to put things in perspective. Think about it like this. If this girl did not cheat on you, wouldn't you say everything was good? But the problem here is, no matter what you do, this girl is going to cheat and cheating is not something you can accept in an LTR unless you're a cuck, or if she's an FWB/plate. So no matter how happy you were or she was, at the end of the day it doesn't matter.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:46 PM
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Well for example. Kino with escalation. Transitioning to a deeper voice than usual. Telling her you gotta go but staying that extra minute to talk. (Don't this after you close. That just screams beta. This is more for the beginning). These are kind of clues girls clue into subconsciously. And things you automatically do when you are attracted to someone. These things create comfort for her so it will allow you to escalate after you've generated attraction by blasting off shit tests. You have to …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 06:38 PM
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Yeah I'm pretty sure she was your first and you never fucked any girl after that, or probably never fucked your ex either, cause if you did. I'm sure you'd have forgotten about your ex. I believe you don't feel worthy, because in your mind you associate fucking a girl as you being worthy. Also Lifting in itself isn't doing to give which internal validation. You need exercise you passions and dreams.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:40 AM
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Haha classic thot. These are sometimes the nicest girls who know how to claw into a man. Lot of trpers circlejerk about how they are alpha when they fuck a guy's girls. Thot's actually see the beta in you through all your armor and actually think :- wow this guy is just so easy going. I think I'll give him good sex, be nice to him, get him attached to me and then fuck/have fun on the side while the guy is hamstering how alpha fucks he is and gives me good LTR privileges. Soon marrying her and ge…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 10:29 AM
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All great advice. What I'm wondering is the guy is going to face token resistance or lmr and going to fail hard. Virgins or even people who have no experience with single night lays have no clue how to react to that. That's one of the easiest instinctiual experience test girls will do. He'll either end up doing rapey/sleazy shit or completely back off, because he is inexperienced. Girl will end up making him wait. The only way you blast past lmr is experience and you go by the feel. And it canno…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:52 AM
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Simple trick. Envision you have 100 other girls lined up. You want to have fun during this time with her and don't care what happens or how it goes. How would you behave with this girl? And then you'll have your answer. Practice getting hard and putting on a condom. Putting on a condom was the worst thing that happened my first time. It just ruins the moment and I still feel this awkward moment during first lay with any new girl. Makes it kind of mechanical, especially when you have worked hard …
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:33 AM
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Simple. When you finally stop bouncing on and off. You've internalized redpill. Until then you only understand redpill.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:13 AM
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Just reply "yeah" and forget about her. Yes literally a one word reply. If she replies to that message you're good. Continue as normal. Btw fix your mindset, try thinking about your future with other girls and mentally move on. It's very important. But looking at your post i feel you've probably already replied to her.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 09:07 AM
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You are probably very low SMV or below average in looks. Sorry. I know a few in my group of friends who have been ignored, they are almost always not good looking or provide no value. But they compensate by taking attention seeking roles. Most likely trying to inject into conversations and trying to be the butt of jokes etc. Which gives them a feeling like they are getting more involved but actually lower their social status. That's a vicious circle. My advice: Work on your SMV. Looks status and…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:53 AM
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Balding does not mean you have high t. That's the most dumbest argument I have heard. Balding = genetics. Any other argument is pseudoscience. If it was true people would just take testosterone inhibitors to prevent balding.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:44 AM
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Why have men changed to women these days. I swear. Bro who the fuck analyses like this about simple logistics. You are free Thursday and she asked for reschedule. Just tell her that. Sure I'm free Thursday .. that works. What time are you thinking? I wanna make sure I don't have any plans at that time.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:37 AM
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Hey you look cute. Yeezys huh? Insert comment about her shirt. Make fun of her height if she's short 1000s of conversation starters. Show them that you fancy her by your actions and not by words. Get number. Set up date. Leave at a very high note. Where happy emotions are charged. No nuetralizing comments before splitting. Rinse repeat
/r/askTRP26/09/18 08:31 AM
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That's fine way to handle it. I have a feeling questions are almost always shit Tests which you should always agree and amplify and disengage. That question pretty much translates to. Do you have something you're hiding from me? I need you to be an open book with me. Yeah no need to entertain that
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:42 AM
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Zone it out and don't entertain. Tell her you're not interested in listening to her/friends problems. Tell her gossip bores you. Unless you are also telling her your problems, your request is fair. Pretty easy.
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:37 AM
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There are shit Tests and comfort tests. Girls comfort test after some shit Tests. She wants some comfort before getting close to you after you've built attraction blasting off shit Tests. If you pass the comfort test giving her a comforting answer you create connection getting you closer. If you answer the comfort test like a shit test she will back off because you literally provide only attraction and no connection. This doesn't mean attraction is gone, but connection is killed. How does one kn…
/r/askTRP26/09/18 02:34 AM
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Long forehead. Bad nose. Otherwise fairly decent jawline. Fairly okay symmetry on your face. Your haircut should either be super short with a clear part visible or long hair straightened combed back with a part to increase the look of jawline. Invest in a blow dryer to straighten your hair. Fix your acne. Go to a dermatologist. If you can't afford one, eat a lot of vitamin a. Fresh pimples should be dabbed with peeling agent to remove skin to make the pimples pop out. Then you use drying agent l…
/r/askTRP25/09/18 08:04 PM
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It depends. At a different circumstance when you are in the mood, would you flirt back while texting? If yes, the let her know you are not in the mood or doing something else so you don't want to text. It's important to do that because you don't want her to take the wrong idea and see that you don't like flirting back. If no, then simply ignore.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:48 AM
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No. It isn't. But if you're a lone wolf who doesn't have hobby and friends. You won't get to keep her because of the neediness it will create.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 03:40 AM
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I don't have an expiry date but I'm sure there is one. We'll know when we get there.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:09 PM
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Forget that they are girls and think they are your guy friends and act accordingly. Start from there
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:06 PM
1

When she's turned on and you are take your dick and put it on her face. This will work, provided you both never acknowledged that she hasn't given you a blow job yet.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:05 PM
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Nice trolling.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:01 PM
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Lol you love drama. There's only fluff on your entire post. Something girls like to gossip about. To your question. Be exactly like you'd be if none of this happened.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:51 PM
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You know your problem. Just start by practising today. Only agree to things you want to do.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:42 PM
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I dont think you even read what I wrote. Plates don't get involved with your friends unless you have no other choice. Involving friends with a girl implies you are seeing her as a girlfriend or seeing her as a friend. So sex is dwindling. This is how girls work. You are escalating commitment without her asking for it or you truly communicating wanting it. This kills attraction. She was probably thinking you see her as a girlfriend. Maybe she wasn't looking to be your girlfriend. Why on earth do …
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:33 PM
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Uninvite her. Schedule something else with her that doesn't involve friends.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:14 PM
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I'd say don't mix business with pleasure, but then you say you don't care if you lose her as a client. Then, ask her out. This is so obvious.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:35 AM
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Lots of guys wouldn't watch porn if they had the opportunity to have a lot of sex. Girls have sexual availability and she chooses to watch porn. Maybe that's how she chooses to releases her sexual frustration instead of gobbling dicks. It also means she is sexually open. So I only see it as a positive assuming she is a pretty gal. Now if she was hideous ..
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:29 AM
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Well in that case you are good. I don't know why you're worried. You should easily be able to handle him.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:22 AM
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I don't know what your fantasies are telling you but girls don't share with best friends. There are obviously exceptions, but very rare. I'd say: "Unfortunately no" making up some excuse. The word unfortunately is important meaning you were interested. Meet up with only her another time and get a feel for her friend by making her open up about her friend. Guide the conversation to threesome and let her know that you are cool fucking two girls. See if she brings up her friend the next meetup. If …
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:19 AM
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I understand where you're coming from. Here's some explanation. Soft next creates space and forces her mind to run wild. Her emotions about are based upon imagination and she doesn't have any real information to correlate her emotions. This builds attraction. She wants to get close to you to validate and solidify her emotions. When you reiniate contact. This is how it works. Your frame : Because the other girls are busy or you are done with your main priorities. Her hamster overdrive: why did he…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 09:07 AM
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So what.. ask her out on another time you're free at? Example : You : How's your schedule on Saturday? Her : I'm doing blah blah blah. You : Okay. Seems like we can do Saturday 6:30 pm and I get free at that time. Will also give you an hour after your blah blah blah.. (this 2nd statement is to purely to validate her activity even if its fake) If she still gives some excuse. Call her out for being busy in a humorous way. There's tons of ways to do that. And put the ball on her court asking her to…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:35 AM
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Look man. Plate = fuck buddy. You can take her to stuff where you do things like hiking etc with her, but there should be no friends. You are complicating things. When I was new I used to do shit like you and it caused drama. Taking a girl out with your friend makes it look like you see her as a girlfriend. Even in that case you should only do outings with friends after that "commitment talk" when she brings it up. Stop inviting her to stuff if you see her as a plate.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:14 AM
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I just want to go to hers this Friday and be there for 5 minutes to break up, then leave asap. Don't do this. Assume you have broken up with her. She should be of the last priority to you. There's no need to explain your break up. Find other girls. Lift and go enjoy time doing your hobbies and hanging out with your friends.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 08:02 AM
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This is not something I'm recommending. This is something I'm showcasing based on experience on an almost similar situation as OP's. OP can take what he wants from it. Now that I think of it, it worked out because it gave her enough connection to hold onto. Sending a small brief message would not have given her enough connection to hold onto for that many months. I'm sure in her mind she was seeing a romcom happening.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:54 AM
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Nope. Don't manipulate. You're thinking in the wrong way. It's beta way of thinking. Stroking his ego will put you in a lower status. It won't get better. It's similar to how betas think they can manipulate the girl into having sex with her by abusing her innate need for power. Be professional and stick to the idea I gave you. Focus on being in good terms with his seniors and his Juniors. Once he notices that, he will soon start working on trying to be on good terms with you (Trying to manipulat…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:41 AM
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Okay I have been in a very similar situation before. I had to travel for work. She texted me a couple of times after that day and I said this (read below) and when I met her again we hooked up. It was super easy. Hope this helps you. Hey look I like you and I didn't expect to hit it off so well with you. I was just there to have fun doing xxxx. I'd definitely meet up with you under normal circumstances, but unfortunately I have to go away to ##place## and I won't be back until 6 months at least.…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 07:18 AM
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I don't mean to disrespect you, but how are you a VP without knowing how to handle these situations? This is politics 101. Just call him out and pressure flip a few times with humor. This has to be done in a public setting with other people in the vicinity and not one on one. This should allow him to get his attention fix and open up towards you a little if not get onto your good side. People like him have this obsession for not looking bad in front of others. If you can't be friends with your s…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 06:28 AM
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Snap chatting girl - youre same as every other guy snapchatting her, unless you are way above her SMV.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:56 AM
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Who is this? Lol. The idiot here suggesting you act like a girl. What dumbasses in trp. If you truly didn't know who she was you'd have responded by saying who is this? But, you knew who she was. You cared enough to respond which means you seeked out contact wanting something from her. The right answer wouldve been not to respond. Now you responded and she ghosted. So what? This happens a lot with plates. She just wanted to reach out and hamstering something in her mind with your response. You s…
/r/askTRP08/08/18 05:47 AM
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Next her but don't ghost her. Thank her for the honesty. Take her to a good dinner and have some good time. Don't fuck. Reward for her honesty. Keep in touch as friends if she's friend material. I say this because trp is about leaving a girl for the better. She shouldnt have to suffer for having good values. Honesty during vulnerability is the rarest value a person can have. You reward that. Ghosting will probably leave her for worse ensuring that she will lie to the next guy.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:51 AM
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I wouldve replied. Totally unadulterated genuine romance. #insert random comment and change topic#
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:47 AM
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Mock them back. Or over exaggerate their qualities.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:45 PM
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So she told you she keeps in touch with ex. Why'd you ignore that? It's instant plate material for you because you aren't okay with keeping in touch with exes It's not butt hurt to confront about your issues. You can tell her - "I like you but there's something in my gut feeling that says if a person is not strong enough to let go of the past to a better future they have some issues. And I always follow my gut feeling. They are almost always right." This should only be brought up when she pushes…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:24 PM
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If you are sexual person who she sees as someone who won't judge her sexual advances then yes she might escalate sexually. Otherwise she will give cues and expect you to escalate sexually. Just like men are scared to escalate against girls they think would judge them to be a creep if they escalate sexually. Of course all of this is under the assumption that she finds you sexually attractive.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 05:01 PM
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Don't listen to some people here. You can definitely have wife kids and still follow your dreams and mission. Most people here are all guys who have been burned and are pissed. That doesn't mean you are correct either. Your mission shouldn't be your wife and kids either. They should be part of your life. Makes sense? Find hobbies passions etc that you can dedicate time into to. Life is about trying to experience everything you can imagine.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:58 PM
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You are using very cocky language. But she just asked you what it means, so clearly you haven't set the cocky vibe on her like you are thinking. You literally don't know how to answer, because your frame is not strong on her. The right answer here for you is to go cold. Don't reply. Wait for her to double text. She'll very likely change the topic or get into your frame by hamstering. If she doesn't text back you go drinking with your buddies and reach out back to her in a week. But I guess its t…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:34 PM
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Just let it go. Let the friend be.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:47 AM
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We'll done. Couldn't have said any better.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:46 AM
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She's not interested. I'm Serious. Also by asking "are you free"? You are forcing her to show availability to you. It's not bad but if you already created a lot of interest for her. In this case it let you in these waters because your question was probing rather than direct. If you were direct in asking her out. Hey there's is cool place xxx I wanna go to. Thought it'd be fun. I'd like you to come. Just a random example. Then you'd get a yes or no. If it's a I'll let you know you can ask her let…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:24 AM
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3 to 1 year max. I've seen people in blogs write that they have had plates for longer but I think it's the extreme case. They will come back sometimes so you can continue again but Everytime they come back the duration lowers into ultimately no comeback.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 12:00 AM
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Hilarious. Good luck enjoying manipulating her. Shit's not going to work bro. You just showed her that you have feelings for her and suddenly you are going to want her to become a plate? Good luck with that. Rookie movie buddy. Soft next her? More like hard next. You have feelings for her and she's a plate? Maybe make her a GF, or at-least it seems like that's what you were trying to do. After meeting with friends, you don't have sex with her in private? I'm confused.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:25 PM
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You are confused on how to be a man. Simple. Ask her out to do something fun. Preferably something you enjoy doing and stop guessing like a little girl. Remember to keep the ask short and settle on the logistics right then and there. Only confirm after logistics are set. Your flirting should be all subconscious and readable for the girl. In your mind think you are asking her out on a fuck session near the dumpster so no-one knows about it. That should be your level of confidence in your words. D…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 09:06 PM
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Don't talk to her less lol. Just get yourself occupied more. End of story. Time to find something you enjoy doing apart from gym and your girlfriend. Do more of that and you'll eventually end up talking less quantity because you are spending more time doing other things. This will help you spend more quality time with her and she'll appreciate you more.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:34 PM
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Most of these tinder "sluts" don't have any validation coming from other forms. Dick and communication from men is all they have for validation. You can't blame them for it. It is one way of living life just like you are banging sluts. Lot of guys here are stupid saying, don't go meet chicks in tinder. That's not where you find LTR material etc. That might be true but you can also meet someone on the street or at your hobby place who use tinder. This is similar to guys saying don't LTR a chick t…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:20 PM
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Just keep on going. Stop thinking about being in a relationship. Girls eventually want some caring for long term commitment, but it will automatically happen for someone you truly feel like committing. Until then keep doing what you are doing. Follow what you father says and become successful, preferably in the path of your passions.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:01 PM
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It's only White Knight if you did it purely to get closer to her. If you would've done the same thing and stood up for a girl you find completely unattractive, you're showcasing alpha behavior. Not doing anything and just laughing it off is also alpha behavior. But that is generally an instinctive behavior if you don't care about the person getting slapped in the ass. If you have shown that you like a girl and she's shown she likes you and you both know this and you choose to not do anything abo…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 06:11 PM
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Bro. Don't ask advice here. This place is filled with idiots asking you to dump her next her etc. That's not advice. Are you just going to keep dumping and nexting all your life? What's your goal? Look as a man you should have command over your resources with inherent or explained rules. In your case when she brought up that she's friends with her ex, you should've calmly talked to her and immedietly brought the matter out saying that's not acceptable (if that is your principle). Someone else mi…
/r/askTRP24/07/18 05:48 PM
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This is your hamster spinning lol. Scenario 1 : Guy works on his body/life, has a career and working hard to succeed in life. Woman - Symptom of not getting enough attention. He just cares about his job and about himself. He doesn't care about me. I like this other guy who actually genuinely cares about me. Fuck my husband. Get all his money. Let me go with this guy who cares about me Scenario 2: Guy has a very deadbeat job and boring life. Cares for his wife and family a lot. Girl meets some su…
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/17 06:57 PM
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Exactly. The idea that you cannot do it is what is super hilarious from a man's perspective. Because a woman's value is based a lot on her prettiness which goes down as you age. A man's value is based on his looks (which can be achieved through fitness), money (achieved by getting a good job) and status (learned social behavior). All of them can be improved by a women. Most men choose not to do all of those because they are lazy or sidetracked by something else. Fix that and you fix the guy. Mos…
/r/RedPillWomen30/01/17 05:48 PM
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I'm a man. Here's my advice. Find a low level attractiveness guy(skinny, fat etc) (basically lower SMV than you) who is not into picking up girls and flirting with girls. Say he is passionate about some video game or electronics something like that. Find out if he has the traits/willingness to succeed. Use these traits he has and validate him with sex etc to improve him, in his attractiveness level. Let him know that you'd like to be proud of him, and encourage/help him to work out and introduce…
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/17 06:14 PM
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Agree and amplify with everything. Why are guys so bothered about the girl's situation. She has been distant, she isn't talking to me properly etc etc. You have oneitis, otherwise you wouldn't notice her being distant. Her : Good luck with military stuff. I want to be friends. You : Thanks baby. I understand, you don't want to be in a relationship with me when I'm off for training. No problem. We can be friends. Just want to let you know that you can't get back to me as a girlfriend after this. …
/r/askTRP05/01/17 10:58 PM
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Ignore all this pointless banter. Just set the meetup and go on from there.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 10:49 PM
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I make 6 figures. Look for a job that pays high. Get education to get that kind of job. Excel at it. (or) Find your passion and excel at it and sell it to the world. Might get you millions.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 10:46 PM
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Do not allow solo trips. This is one of the main things you bring up when she asks for exclusivity. List down all the things that can cause cheating and let her know during exclusivity. You fight this shit. Let her know that she can go on the solo trip, but you will not be her boyfriend anymore. There is no argument here and no talks. This is my boundary and this is how I want my girl to be. We could definitely go on a trip to Thailand together in the future. The decision is upto you. I will not…
/r/askTRP05/01/17 07:02 PM
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Small penis is like small boobs. You will still want to fuck the living shit out of the right girl, or fall in love with a girl with small tits, if she's right. Penis is the exact same thing. Remember that. Girls will just rationalize that penis size doesn't matter in your case if everything else is in place.
/r/askTRP05/01/17 06:56 PM
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If you are high status value, compliments will feel genuine. Chody shit will create tingles. TRP specifically asks you to be high status by lifting and following your dreams. It not only teaches you to be high status, but also game which AFCs can use without reaching high status.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:50 PM
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Just fuck her like its the last day on earth and fuck her till you cum. Do different positions and different places and be dominant/lead. Do not worry about her orgasm.
/r/askTRP03/01/17 05:27 PM
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You are doing fine, but seriously this is a validation seeking girl. Don't LTR her lol. She's going to trouble your ass. She loves guys going behind her. You have to neg her to shit to keep her faithful.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 11:48 PM
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Who cares? Just make sure he doesn't fuck with your frame. Why are you so bothered about him? Its like you want to be better than him. That attitude is going to make you insecure real quick in social situations with him. Just maintain your frame you are comfortable with. If he is better than you, he is better than you. Get your ass to the gym or learn a hobby whatever, and increase your value. You are not going to AMOG him with magical tactics.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 11:42 PM
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Lol so you asked for something and when she didn't send because its not that good you said lame. That's not alpha. What you did was lame. What you should've said is, send it to me, I'll be the judge of that. And if you found it lame. Then you could've said in a joking manner well its lame :P Alpha doesn't mean total douchebag. Now if she sent you a stupid picture without you asking and you replied lame, that can be alpha. But you can dismiss her attempts more jokingly without saying lame. Do you…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 11:36 PM
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Biting her nipple after sex if its some nonsense she wants to be answered is alright. Its ignoring. That's good. You are doing fine Silence is different. I was assuming the former.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:03 PM
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Silence to shit tests is not good. Only good for texting. Not in real life.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 03:44 PM
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Learn from this. Here's the deal. Setup a meetup. Cater to her needs to. Be considerate, reward her investment. As long as you are free you shouldn't mind. Like if she says a time and you are free, say : -"Yeah I'm free at that time. Works for me". If she wants to reschedule. Don't game her. Now good you had a meetup set. I message her at 5 that I will be passing by the place we were supposed to meet at 6,and that she should message me if she wants to hang in advance . She says she can't today,s…
/r/askTRP27/12/16 11:19 PM
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I never go down on any of my women. That's beta in my opinion.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:31 PM
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Hey I notice that you have this addiction to your phone but when you are with me, put your phone away. I find it disrespectful to my time. Watch her actions. If she complies you're good.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:28 PM
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Treat it as a shit test. A&A and escalate. Don't reason with their emotions.
/r/askTRP26/12/16 06:23 PM
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I rarely cum from blowjobs. Who cares? Most girls hamster that they are not very good at blowjobs or they aren't hot enough. A girl asked me if I had some sexual dysfunction. I fucked her hard, came on her face and that was that. She never questioned me after that. Still gave BJs.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 09:32 PM
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Yes, but she will shit test you a LOT. If you are 9, you will be amused by her shit tests. If you are 7 acting like a 9 you will hurt. Thanks to TRP you can fake yourself as 9. Her hamster will spin and she will think you are a 9.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 09:24 PM
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I have tried once (I read somewhere that this is possible. I think it was in TheRedPill subreddit, where this guy has threesomes with his wife). She said okay. Then it bothered her so much. I had to cut it off. After I cut it off, it pretty much ruined the relationship. Its like suddenly she felt more power in the relationship. Shit tests went crazy. If your relationship is good, please do not do that. Its so stupid. You need to have uber submissive girlfriend or have to have incredibly high SMV…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 09:18 PM
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Introduce him to sports. Make him value himself. Let him work for something to get money. Teach him to learn good habits. Help him hold a good frame in life. If he fails at something, or someone bullies him etc. You need to be the guy who is there to comfort him and help him realize that he is amazing and be the least judgemental father, so he can open up more to you. Allow him to be vulnerable towards you so he gains confidence to be able to confide in you. So you can guide him in the right pat…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 08:54 PM
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Before lending anyone any money. Hey buddy, I like helping my friends. So when can I can expect you to repay this money back? Decide the terms. If you are not happy with when he/she will repay don't lend. Let him/her know that you are sorry for his/her situation but you can't wait that long. This is you setting boundaries. Once he/she agrees. Then lend the money. Promptly remind him/her. If they don't return your money back. Then drop them as friends if you are okay with losing that money. Cut t…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 08:44 PM
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Do not let anyone undermine/disrespect you. Quickly put them in place. Jab back on guys who jab at you. Don't just sit there taking it. You will become the bullied. You don't want that. This is where your alphadom plays a role. Friend everyone who treats you well. Get close slowly. Don't rush in being this guy who is uber funny and all cool. This isn't a bar or a club. Anyone who doesn't treat you well you ignore them. Care for your good friends. Appreciate if they help you with something. Lift …
/r/askTRP22/12/16 07:34 PM
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I'm sorry for you buddy! It will all be good. Its normal the way you are feeling. Women can be the most heartless people certain times. This will make you a man. Its good. Learn from this. Leave this bitch. Trust me. Fuck her. Get another girl. Keep your priorities straight. You need a frame in life that makes you happy, and no matter what happens you DO NOT BREAK FRAME. Be rational and learn to kill/bury those stupid emotions. Learn from mistakes. Read the side bar and never let go. Any time yo…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 03:57 PM
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DO NOT FOR THE LOVE OF GOD GET INTO STUPID SMALL FRAME BATTLES. Oh god your girl is probably loving this shit. I think you are new to LTRs. This is very normal in relationships. You are taking the redpill too hard. What text did she ignore anyway? - You need to be more clear. She is probably unknowingly shit testing you. If you react to this which you did, she's going to do this more to piss you off, which she did. ROFL. Just reduce the amount of texts. Maybe you were being too needy? If she doe…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:52 AM
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You create your morals. I follow this rule -- Always put yourself first. and treat people/sects/group how they treat you.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:35 AM
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Shit test is throwing shit at you. Asking what car you drive, or where you work is not a shit test. She figuring you out. Just like you figure out the girls. Those are normal questions. If you drive a nice car this is a chance to qualify yourself. It raises value. If you have a good job this is a chance for your to qualify to her. If you tell both of these things before she asks you, it means you are qualifying yourself to her. Saying look at me I'm cool. In both cases you are sending her the sa…
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:31 AM
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This!
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:14 AM
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Do not fight for her. Just game her like your friend does not exist.
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:04 AM
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Women don't need for you to have social circle to fuck them. They will fuck you even if you are a loner. SMV = sexual market value. Social circle is a plus
/r/askTRP22/12/16 12:02 AM
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Have a good time and fuck her till you cum. That's all that matters.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:52 PM
1

Anytime someone asks you for a dick pic, you send a banana unpeeled. Its stupid to send a pic of a dick. Even if it was a chick that sounds incredibly chody.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:42 PM
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Sure keep it for when we meet. If its so important we can talk it over the phone. Your choice and leave it at that. Don't listen to people here. Just let her talk. Be this amazing listener and ask her more and more and DO NOT SHOW ANY JUDGEMENTAL behavior or be pissed off at something. Tell her you understand. I'm glad you are opening up to me etc. Once she has spilled out everything. Come here and write it down. Its better to hear what she has to has to say than just spinning her while she is k…
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:37 PM
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Sure pm me.
/r/askTRP21/12/16 11:05 PM
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Dude you broke frame. You fucked up. When you break frame. You soft next (radio silence), until she re-initiates and you continue as if nothing happened. Do this a few more times and you lose her. Do not be needy.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:44 PM
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ROFL. Troll post.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:38 PM
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You handled it okay. But this is how I would've handled it. I didn't know you didn't. But I'm glad you aren't dating other guys.. and reward her for that, by giving her some awesome fucking that you have never done and a little bit of affection like cuddling etc. Continue plating phase. Watch her actions. If she reacts positively, you have a LTR worthy candidate. If you do not want monogamy, then let her know that she is free to date other guys.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:37 PM
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Get a frame that you believe in. Hold frame. Everything else will be everyone else's hamster. You will be nice guy, asshole, whatever that they want you to be.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:26 PM
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If you want to LTR a plate. In the plate phase, bring up a story of one of your past relationships where you had this girl who would be friends with exes. How she tried to break your boundaries etc. Let her know that you didn't think it was cool and you dumped her. She kept crying to want back in. But she already damaged the relationship you know. Poor thing, I felt bad for her. She was really good, I liked her but my rules are rules etc. She'd ask questions like.. wow you threw away a good rela…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 11:14 PM
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Dude, as long as you are getting what you want. Why do you care if you are the one initiating. You want her to validate your existence? Thats womanly. You are a man. I would love to have a girl who doesn't bother me with inane texts about my day and just follows my lead when I want. She is being a proper woman. Man = texts to go on a date, hookup. Call to hang out and watch netflix etc. Setup a meet to go on a hike. Setup a meet to go on a date. Setup a meet to come hangout with your friends. Wo…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 10:48 PM
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Who cares? Meet up with them and do whatever you want with them. Fat girls have hot friends. More the merrier. Accept everyone, don't need to frame anything with them. Just don't be beta around them. Let them chase you and validate you. Pre-selection. Just cause you accept their advances doesn't mean you have to make them your girlfriend. Reasons like these are why I see lots of guys have bad social connections. So you are saying if a fat chick approaches you, you are not good looking? You are a…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 10:40 PM
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Not at all. But you probably have very small room to work with. You create rapport/flirt and get her to invest in helping you with something. When she complies ask for more. Then create rapport/flirt and quickly escalate to date or private meetup. She says no? whats to lose.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 10:32 PM
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Find your passion. Keep/ get your body fit. Your work ready. Your passions ready. A good social circle. Atleast two hobbys. A girlfriend + plates. Pursue your passion. Care for your family and friends. Live your life. All this can only be achieved through habits and practice. Always put yourself first, and believe that you deserve everything. Everything is replaceable except you and your family.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 10:29 PM
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You already know what you should be doing. Your frame is what you believe in. Choose your frame you want to be in life. Work on achieving that frame. Believe it. Anyone who test your frame, you just laugh it off and hold frame.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:10 PM
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Become beta towards her while gaming other girls. Every fight, tell her you are sorry and how much you love her. Break frame constantly. Then let her dump you saying we need space or anything of that sort and break up. Move on to the next girl. She'll come back. Plate or friend your ex. Ez Pz. I have done it.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:07 PM
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She's a plate. You don't game plate's friends, unless you want drama. If you LTR with your plate, then you can friend her friend and bring her to a ready for plating stage. If she wants your number, you give it to her. If she texts you, you text her back. You do not initiate anything with a plate's friend. You can be open to her advances but never pursue. You are going to enrage your plate's hamster.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 09:01 PM
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She want's to test and see if you subconsiously think he is better than you. She doesn't even realize, she's doing it. She's also testing boundaries. Power talk your way through this. She isn't a plate. You don't next her for something that silly. She's your GF. Don't set boundaries directly. That's stupid and sounds insecure and way to authoritative. Your answer should be. Poor guy he probably thinks you love him or something, he wants to get into your pants. (Reading between the lines ---poor …
/r/askTRP20/12/16 08:33 PM
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You qualified her frame. Hence she opened up, because you created comfort. When you create comfort you parallely escalate and create eye contact. and then pull back into your default frame (cocky and fun) She tested your frame by asking what your online dating experience have been. You should let her qualify you. She's making you qualify yourself. Never qualify yourself ever. If she asks questions where she asks to qualify you, you always answer with amused mastery or sarcasm or amplified respon…
/r/askTRP19/12/16 04:44 PM
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You reward good behavior and their investment like a boss. Make them do stuff for you. Make them buy you stuff, clean, cook etc and reward with affection and love. And punish bad behavior severely, more than the degree of your reward, by ignoring and dread gaming. If she causes drama you ignore her until she begs. Then you pull and you reward her like crazy. Repeat forever, until she breaks. She won't be able to leave you. She will be scared to create issues. Now she is head over heels for you, …
/r/askTRP17/12/16 12:09 AM
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Say:-- Yes he is. His name Mr cute face or whatever compliment you want to give to your friend. Tease her saying something like: --- someone's got a little crush ;). Come I'll introduce him to you..with a smile and zero change in emotion. No feeling of rejection etc..This will show her your abundance mentality and that you are not trying to snag her. Watch how she reacts. If she says nah etc etc. She was just testing you or just plain complimenting him. Just continue talking and change the topic…
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:07 PM
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That's why morality is stupid in the modern world. Just keep flirting and approaching girls non stop. Do whatever you want. She should constantly be trying to mate guard you. I friend and flirt with every girl even in LTR, unless they stop me. Pretty girls are always going to get hit on. You have to stupid to think she is going to not be hit on. Telling her not to talk to other men makes her want to talk to other men more. Once you get into an LTR she's the placeholder for your immediate needs. …
/r/askTRP15/12/16 12:42 AM
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Work on making this world a better place and spread your genes.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 12:18 AM
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Probably got boring for both of you. She was testing the waters to spice things up. Seems like there was no attraction left for both parties. Seems like both of you got too secure with each other.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 12:13 AM
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Basically your frame is you don't want a relationship. You have established that. Now you want a relationship. She's going to wonder why and how you changed. Say she cooked for you, cleaned for you, gave you awesome sex etc etc, and then you committed she'll understand that OKAY this is why he commited to me. I need to keep this up. If you were RP you would only commit to a girl who does all those things. Some qualities that you expect, because you have many girls and didn't commit because this …
/r/askTRP14/12/16 11:20 PM
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If you followed trp, you should be spinning plates and she should know it by your actions. She will bring up her feelings and ask for commitment. If you want to commit you do. If you don't you dismiss and keep spinning until she drops or she works super hard to get your commitment. Its that simple. You sound like you started in an LTR, and tried to fake alpha game and now you are hurt. Seems like you actually do have feelings for her. If you didn't have feelings for her, you should've dismissed …
/r/askTRP14/12/16 10:20 PM
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You are initiating some text game, or in a sort testing her. Men don't do that. They just play the game or pass the test when the girl initiates it. You are acting like a women. Your whole post sounds like a women complaining about her man. As long as you are getting what you want, and happy. It shouldn't matter who is initiating. That is what = man. Instead of stopping to text her maybe you should've included yourself in some other activity which will make you busy, so you can slowly withdraw. …
/r/askTRP14/12/16 09:40 PM
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Sounds good. Remember I didn't point out. Whenever you try to build comfort or validating her. Cut your cocky funny playful stuff vibe into nuetral genuine vibe looking deep into her eyes and slowly, where you are sounding genuine. Example while delivering lines like:- Wow you are really are shy shy girls scare me, they are like crazy fun when you get to know them. Gotta keep some distance you know. Don't want to get too close to them real quick ;) Silence... Then move back into cocky funny fram…
/r/askTRP14/12/16 07:51 PM
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Dump her. That's cheating. And imo a guy's cheating is not as bad as a girl's cheating. You can ask really close girl friends themselves, they will agree with you. If you really want her she had better apologized profusely begging you to take her back promising that shit would never happen again. Even then she's always going to know this in the back of her mind... well he did let this slide. She saw a small break in your frame and your frame now says I have accepted you even if you cheated on me…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:39 PM
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It seems like she is authentically shy. Test her frame for shyness. If she is genuinely shy. Ask her to do something that shy girls don't do. If she can't do it or fails. Qualify her saying, wow you really are a shy girl. From then on don't disagree with her. Agree with her and align your frame with her. Tell her how shy she is and tease her playfully about shyness. Don't be rude. Tell her you are also a very shy guy in a cocky funny manner, and do something like :- "Moving hands awkwardly and a…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 11:12 PM
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Don't let a girl flake on you twice. Be in the moment. The first time she flakes. Tease her, something stupid like ... you are such a corn flake. She'd be like what do you mean or she gets the point. Let her know that you don't like flaking and quickly move on without giving her an opportunity to retort. If she retorts, she'll probably deny it or give an excuse trying to frame that she didn't flake on you. Don't argue with her. Just agree and amplify with some amused comment. She will understand…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 10:19 PM
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Then follow my advice to the T. Here's a tidbit. It doesn't matter if she saw you as beta or alpha or anything. Girls cannot move on from you without closure. Its hardwired into them. Ghosting or being uncaring just stalls her bond with you. She will hookup with other guys, probably get a boyfriend but without closure she will always be yours. Make the best use of it. Every girl wants to control you. If she doesn't want to, it means she doesn't see you as attractive. She wants to be wanted. Foll…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 09:34 PM
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Just ghost her. Don't block. Don't text. Don't breakup. Don't call. Don't answer. I would recommend not reading texts or voicemails either. But if you have to you can, but it will probably just manipulate your thinking. If you read the texts and she has read receipts. Don't fret. Still ignore and go on with your life. Just forget she exists. She will beg to get back, promise to give you the best sex etc. Its very important that you Ignore everything. Do not tell her to fuck off or answer with an…
/r/askTRP13/12/16 09:06 PM
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