TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

trpdgc Archive

View 14 posts and 501 comments by trpdgc on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
-1

Both of those messages are cringey edge lord tryharding and might work but only if she's an idiot. Nobody wants some controlling dude. Women need boundaries and direction but not if the guy talks like he has autism and is picking up lines from a book. "Be here by 6:50" lol, literally no one says that unless there is a flight. Be strong but playful. Also, Netflix and chill is fucking old so it no longer offers plausible deniability. Instead let it happen so option 2 is better as everyone eats. "I…
/r/askTRP30/07/18 09:36 AM
3

I am married and even though it was rocky at first, TRP made me realize that marriage can work only if you are strong of body and mind, encompassing the core tenets of frame. But if you’re a weak bitch, or worse, a weak person faking strength, you will get chewed up. It’s not very surprising although somewhat frustrating that the manosphere sees marriage as a negative sum game, solely because of social safety nets such as family courts and feminism. Corollary to that it’s basically admitting tha…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/18 12:04 AM
1

Economics =/= finance. Economics is a purely theoretical framework that applies almost never and is basically a required reading course for college. Now if you want to study finance and get an investment license in your state that’s a different story. What increases value at your age is to figure out how to influence others and network because if you can’t make friends now you won’t have an easy time making friends later. . Go intern in a sales organization. Try building a small startup. Get an …
/r/askTRP24/06/18 04:32 PM
1

Half of your post reads /r/iamverysmart. You don’t need to explain yourself and your beliefs to others. You probably come across as a pedant and people don’t like your condescending attitude. Reason you don’t want to talk to others is because you relish feeling better than they are. This is a foolish notion especially at 18. The pursuit of knowledge shines when used to make you better, not better than others. I have to agree with the other responses here that you are looking for excuses and mask…
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:17 PM
7

She is planning on doing things that she needs to hide from you. In fact, she is probably already doing them. To allow yourself to be in that position is weak and emasculating. You cannot force someone to love or respect you, I strongly suggest you change your passcode and take out her fingerprint, get back in shape if you need to, get nice clothes and a haircut, reconnect with your male friends, and live a separate life.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 03:08 PM
2

Yes it is - you’re most likely being manipulated and she is using your complex instincts to wrangle you into a situation you will most likely regret. If you move to the US you will most likely end up under her heel. If she chooses to dump you (and she will, because you’re much older than her and most likely won’t fit in her social life in a few years) you are still on the hook for support for a child that might not even be yours.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 03:04 PM
6

Take it out and make sure she knows it. “Trust goes both ways” is your line. Hold frame. It sounds to me like you’re on the verge of a breakup. Keep checking her phone and if she starts talking to anyone dump her on the spot and don’t bother with the confrontation.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:59 PM
18

Delete it immediately.
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:57 PM
4

Does she have access to yours?
/r/askTRP24/06/18 02:55 PM
12

TL;DR: Viagra is amazing and safe, and doesn’t make you have an instant and prolonged boner. Instead, it gives you awesome erections that you are in control of. You can get it in Mexico if you don’t want to pay a ton for it in the US. Viagra does not make you hard. It stops the body from making you prematurely soft. The (simplified) way erections work is that the brain signals tissue at the base of the penis (smooth muscle tissue adjacent to corpus cavernosum) to release a chemical (cGMP) that r…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 06:40 AM
1

Why does it matter. If you’re getting what you want it’s all good. If you’re not, move on.
/r/askTRP18/08/17 01:26 AM
1

37, she's 30 no kids
/r/askTRP24/11/16 10:45 PM
1

If only chicks' stomachs were cryogenic chambers!
/r/askTRP23/11/16 09:33 PM
2

I make 200k a year working at a nuclear plant. Can't be much more specific than that on my alt account.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 09:32 PM
2

It's the best
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:39 PM
3

Bahahah. Weekend is still on track. Food is food indeed.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:16 PM
1

Right, when I mean a discussion of morality, I really mean a discussion of amorality.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:15 PM
2

Situation dealt with. Thanks for your suggestions. See the main post for the update.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:54 PM
1

I'm 37, I could definitely be more fit, but my game needs work too. I dealt with the situation and updated the main post if you're curious as to how it went. I will do some of your suggestions through the weekend.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:54 PM
2

True. I dealt with the situation, and updated the main post.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:53 PM
1

I propose possibly the inverse, explaining TRP frameworks as supported by moral principles. To your original point, that dwelling on moral consequences and thinking in moral frameworks will not guarantee outcomes in your best interest, which happens to line up very nicely with Venkatesh Rao's Gervais Principle
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:52 PM
1

I'm sure we could abstractly distill the aspect of morality in sexual strategy and improvement of our gender by sifting through the collective consciousness of post and comment history. But we could also concretely distill it to bring it to the front again, because it's an important aspect of the pill and we spend more time in the weeds and less time in important frameworks.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:42 PM
3

I have a long way to go before I'm openly telling my plates I'm fucking other women and still keeping them around. So far my attempts at this have not worked. Probably need to get more ripped at the gym, still at about 20%.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:12 PM
1

Interesting take. Most of my dates are successful and I almost always kiss by the end of the first date. When attraction is very high I'll just kiss in the middle of the date. I've never been turned away (which I realize could mean that I'm not pushing my limits enough, but could also mean I've become very good at reading situations). I have fucked zero women that I haven't kissed on the first date, now that I think about it. Got a link to that OmLaLa material? I don't recall seeing it.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:11 PM
1

Is anyone? It's a subreddit for discussion. I think we need to discover this topic as a group. A lot of the anger issues people sustain, and as a corollary the bigger picture, need to be looked at through the prism of immorality.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:06 PM
2

Shit, my personality is part of the problem
/r/askTRP23/11/16 03:01 PM
2

I guess my point is, I'm so hardwired to relate comfort with attraction, but I don't think you're trying to say that they're diametrical from each other. It's probably possible to have both or none. Not reciprocating a hug or not conversing don't necessarily increase attraction. I can visualize how to give less comfort, not so much on how to leverage the attraction.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:55 PM
1

Very insightful. Thanks for the advice. I'm sure that this is a matter that we need to cover more widely in the main subreddit, if you ever felt like it it'd seem like you could speak well to the subject.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:53 PM
2

You weren't kidding about being a psychopath. I like the idea. I'm going to skip the "oh god this is bad" because it seems mildly passive aggressive, I'm gonna go to this event and be a shitty boyfriend. Definitely though, I need to make sure we're in separate cars.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:28 PM
6

Exactly, which is why bluepill behavior is gross to women, because chicks are not naturally attracted to other women.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:26 PM
2

Now you have to walk it back. It all escalated so gradually yet quickly. It went from being "thanksgiving with a friend" to "boyfriend at a bed and breakfast with a bunch of friends". I suppose I could ignore her.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:23 PM
2

expect the shitstorm What a bummer. The part that makes me the most upset is that it's clear I did this to myself.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:21 PM
2

Hey that's my move! I was not sure if that was a good move, but coming from you, feel pretty good about it now! ;) Great read on the situation Reading up on posts such as yours (I remember you from my days of yore here) helped me get a read on situations such as these. Even though I'm still blue in the balls, progress! Less comfort more attraction. I really struggle with this. I am a comfort pump. I am not that good at attraction, in the sense that I'm not good at it if I try. I'm extremely attr…
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:19 PM
3

I'd wager that your problem is that you give them the idea that you're boyfriend material not only because you check the boxes of what they want in a guy, but also because you behave like one. Probably. considering that you actually did agree to meet her friends basically right off the bat True. Right on the head. Let's say I've learned my lesson, I still don't know how to deal with this immediate situation. Just about any option I see right now is either a dick move or losing frame.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 02:15 PM
1

What do you use for formatting your reddit posts? On my mobile app your posts show up with a ton of & nbsp ; (eliminate the spaces)
/r/TheRedPill10/09/16 10:52 PM
21

The original post is a year old and already outdated. Gonorrhea is more serious today than it was then. There is strong evidence that it's developing antibiotic resistance and would make it much more difficult to treat. Source: http://www.cdc.gov/std/gonorrhea/arg/
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 02:28 PM
1

Dump her. If you don't want to because you don't think you can do better hit the gym and do better.
/r/askTRP23/06/16 09:01 PM
3

Don't be ridiculous. You're being pedantic and needlessly dissecting. First of all, there's no pill -- men come here because they saw a glimpse of truth, and it takes a lot of time and effort to deprogram years of indoctrination. Even if you want to use the dumb pill analogy, large pills that are difficult to swallow take time, effort, concentration, and practice. So yeah, you can be in the process of swallowing up a pill, just as much as you can think you're done and your body rejects it before…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/16 08:54 PM
3

It's a wasted effort of dubious purpose. For a man to need to rely on women for rights activism defeats the purpose. A man needs to only slam his ham fist down and the thunderous boom silence the room. Women need numbers because of their squeaky weakness.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 06:55 PM
4

No one cares about your supposed training, try hard. My experience is that the more someone brags, the less they actually have to offer
/r/askTRP16/05/16 06:52 PM
2

You're smitten and she gets what she wants from you. The reverse is not true. Most of us have been there, it's hard to snap out. Go party a little bit or find a tinder slut or something.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:44 PM
6

You are so alpha and edgy, you must have missed the part where an alpha leader inspires others to look up to him, but you chose to be a fucking idiot instead. Talk like that to someone in person and get your lights punched out.
/r/askTRP16/05/16 03:32 PM
3

The Red Pill isn't underground enough to maintain exclusive access. There is such a thing as Red Pill Women. It flies in the face of AWALT to acknowledge such a place could be valid. I am of the opinion that women should not form communities that purport to support men. These communities simply do not benefit them and to pretend they do is as convincing as this excellent investment opportunity I'm about to sell you.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:27 PM
3

It's not really an oxymoron. The rich socialist is the one that seeks to be friends with the dictatorship.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 11:39 PM
8

Now we know where the other 21 cents went
/r/TheRedPill11/05/16 08:50 PM
1

I'm not sure what you're quoting there.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/16 11:17 AM
10

I live out of state, and I fly to see them most weekends. I keep my shenanigans to weekdays. I'd never sacrifice a minute with them to fuck a bitch. I know that's not what you're saying but nothing is being neglected at the moment. Good points on value.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 07:40 PM
6

Not sure what you mean but it sounds good!
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 04:18 PM
1

This will have to be my new policy. I've had other plates that when they see the competition all of a sudden they're making a point of telling me how they're going to the gym an extra two days a week and the shit tests really vanish. It works a bit to dread as well, but overall not worth the risk.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 04:10 PM
16

+1. Possibly. The conversation evolved after that, I told her that I don't commit unless I explicitly state so. She assented, but as we all know, who fucking knows what she really meant by agreeing. She told me a great RP story about this guy she was dating that offered to help her move but his car was broken down and asked her to pick him up. When she said she couldn't, he walked FIVE MILES to her house, with FLOWERS. She dumped him a week later. It was hilarious. Point is, I don't think she's …
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 03:53 PM
2

Calm down cowboy. Read between the lines, I've forced myself. I want my family to have exposure to my children. The other options you've described are essentially other more archaic and less efficient forms of social networking. I agree FB can cause trouble, but so can anything else -- a letter from a mistress, a phone record. Hard and unyielding rules are for bitches and autistics. It's not the tool, it's how you use it.
/r/TheRedPill29/04/16 03:35 PM
1

Dude, you can't negotiate attraction. What you can do is exploit what you have. If she's not into you and just wants the validation then that's all you'll get.
/r/seduction25/04/16 08:41 PM
2

Gay
/r/seduction25/04/16 08:39 PM
1

You're not suffering from oneitis. That's narrowly defined as "you like only one girl and she doesn't like you back." You've seen many women and have frame? Then decide whether this one is worth your commitment. If she's not, plate her. If she is, good luck. LTRs are not blue pill. Letting women walk all over you is.
/r/askTRP25/04/16 08:33 PM
3

You are having an emotional reaction right now
/r/TheRedPill25/04/16 08:20 PM
13

Maybe you're a troll trying to get someone to tell you to hit them back. Nobody will. If you're not a troll, you'll have to be more specific as to when they hit you or what kind of thing you said just prior. Women don't by men just because.
/r/seduction17/04/16 07:08 PM
3

You can continue to banter, or to realize that your frame does not depend on her. You can ignore her and go to a candidate that's worth your attention. It's important to realize that there isn't a secret answer to every possibility, some women are broken or hopeless or a waste of time, and you shouldn't bother with them.
/r/seduction15/04/16 06:21 AM
1

Ignore her.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 08:12 PM
6

He's so alpha, I'm getting wet
/r/askTRP13/04/16 07:54 PM
1

Fair enough. My advice now is to walk and don't look back.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 09:53 AM
10

This is solid advice. Nothing is free.
/r/askTRP13/04/16 03:26 AM
-4

Hahahahahahaha She said her last name was Tinderella? That's not a last name, that's a derogatory term for validation-seeking duck-face hos in Tinder, a portmanteau of Tinder and Cinderella. Dude she was mocking you when she asked you to add her on FB. You didn't stand a chance. "No lol" was her taking frame over you. She's a slut looking for validation and odds are she's a catfish. There isn't a magic recipe here that'll get you what you want. Doing ANYTHING else at this point is supplicating l…
/r/askTRP12/04/16 10:38 AM
7

Hilarious metaphor. Have had chickens and seen women relate to each other. Disturbingly accurate.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 02:16 PM
1

I was born in Puerto Rico. A puertorican woman is usually very submissive but if your frame falters she will destroy you like a harpy destroys a prime rib cooked medium*. They can see through bullshit like no other. Do not try to outsmart her as she may not be smarter than you, but she is much more cunning and capable of malice. The important thing to remember is that puertorican women do not typically fit AWALT. They're fairly unadulterated in how traditional they are, but things are rough in t…
/r/askTRP11/04/16 12:56 AM
8

Accurate oversimplification: A beta male is unattractive because he acts like a female.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/16 12:45 AM
1

Sometimes.
/r/askTRP11/04/16 12:37 AM
78

I'll tell you exactly what happened: you were brought up in conversation, either in a group or over the course of several smaller encounters, and the ladies agreed that you were definitely the highest status male in the ring. While they all "joked" about it there's a strong undercurrent of "whoever fucks this guy is the highest value bitch in the office." Now they're competing. This has nothing to do with you. Working for a woman is dicey enough, women are incapable of respecting men that report…
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:19 PM
1

I actually liked this one.
/r/askTRP10/04/16 01:48 AM
5

I don't think she's cute at all. I give her a 5-6.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:39 AM
9

I see three options
/r/askTRP10/04/16 12:32 AM
1

Look, son, clearly you lack significant amounts of real world experience and this is why you're easily fooled and taken advantage of. Get back to me when you've accomplished more than moving out of your parent's home and actually built something of your own instead of taking credit for other's work. Then you'll understand what needs to be done.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/16 02:06 AM
1

Same tired meme of how successful he is. He's a good role model ONLY if you're a dollar worshipper, or a reality TV fan I guess. Newsflash: there are many other things that are much more important, some related to money, but many more that are not. Many civilizations have risen and fallen and it's the summation of these things -- culture -- that made it happen or that allowed them to unravel. We've evolved over hundreds of thousands of years to coexist and none of it had to do with the pursuit o…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 11:22 PM
1

Hahaha if you think the Republican Party is about enabling the little guy to be successful you've been seriously brainwashed. The right is ALL about enabling the rich to become richer in a free for all.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:08 PM
0

You missed the point: trump is not your dad or even a good role model. He's not a leader. He's a windbag with an assortment of interesting and effective traits. Treat him as such.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 10:07 PM
1

Below suggestion is good, but warn her. Her hamster will have to turn harder: "Do not come, I am busy and will not answer."
/r/askTRP08/04/16 04:25 AM
7

I think the fembot tinderella didn't get what she wanted and is going elsewhere to get her validation of the patriarchy
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 04:16 AM
41

Trump doesn't give a shit about you. If you want to be a real man you need some fucking reason and accountability.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 04:15 AM
1

Fuck that shit. We won the 50/50 lotto.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/16 03:48 AM
2

Glad to hear, stranger friend.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 03:47 AM
5

Antislut defense. I guarantee that if you're in equal or better shape than you were before she wants to fuck you. Purposely keep your distance from her when you see her to build some tension. Feed her some alcohol. Get closer, escalate, then pull back again. She will be completely off guard. You should have a wet dick within two hours of seeing her.
/r/askTRP08/04/16 12:07 AM
0

Boom.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 11:58 PM
0

Don't know why I'm being downvoted. I think there's privilege in being the more rational and balanced gender.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 11:02 PM
-1

You guessed wrong.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:22 PM
2

He can start improving by standing up for himself. You have no idea what his financial situation is, and he didn't ask for financial advise. Is your advice good? Yes. Is it misplaced? For sure.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 10:04 PM
-3

Hahaha he didn't come here for financial advice. These trump fans, I tell ya. So what if he can take advantage of her? Shit, I take advantage of whoever I can. All he needs to hear is GTFO.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:55 PM
1

Attraction is universal.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 09:17 PM
-23

Male privilege is still an awesome thing.
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 08:29 PM
1

abundance mentality. she's trying to manipulate him.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:21 PM
1

lol that was a test. never fucking lol.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:21 PM
1

I'm not your fruddy, briend!
/r/askTRP07/04/16 08:10 PM
2

The data shows otherwise. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:38 PM
1

What in the actual fuck is that at the end of your message?
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:29 PM
1

Don't respond.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 07:21 PM
38

The details are appreciated
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 05:38 PM
8

I expect you to have those discussions here. This community values continuous improvement and we don't tolerate stubborn curmudgeons. If someone disagrees with you we expect it to happen with argument and not downvotes. There are instances of mods deleting threads because people are being stupid about questions, but a sub is a sub and if you have something to discuss we do it here. Most of the time it's people asking for advice on how to land the chick that's about to friend zone them, and they'…
/r/TheRedPill07/04/16 03:34 PM
3

I watched that video for 10 seconds and I already wanted to backhand her, and I'm sure she's way worse in person.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:33 PM
16

I 100% agree -- but if you could take a $10k loan or a $10k handout with no strings attached, which one would you take? She's a dumb ho for sure, and her body language screams "I'd rather be born a man", but we can't fault her for using her tits to get cash. If I could make my dick cum coins I'd fap like a motherfucker.
/r/TheRedPill03/04/16 04:32 PM
4

Or you could be somewhat resourceful (or not lazy) and fucking search Here bud http://www.okcupid.com/profile/Pamela0226?cf=regular
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 05:25 PM
19

Holy fuck this shit is gay as hell.
/r/seduction29/01/16 11:14 PM
22

I like the idea but it's too wordy.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 09:34 PM
1

Yeah, it's like a hamster has its own hamster. It's insane what women will rationalize instead of fucking apologizing.
/r/askTRP26/01/16 03:50 AM
1

To be fair, she didn't ask him to prove himself, it sounds like she cheated so she could feel sure he was the one. That said, that's a hamster spin if I've ever seen one and just as shitty. OP, unless you're OK with her having some maintenance sex on the side every once in a while so she can continue being sure, or when you're not there because you're maintaining your family's finances, or when she realizes Chad may be the one and leaves you with a huge tab, then fucking drop her.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 03:05 PM
-2

So you WANT to be a bad person? This subreddit is dedicated to helping each other improve as men, not regressing into shitty behavior.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 02:56 PM
2

You're suggesting he changes jobs because he's not satisfied with his social life. I don't think that's good advice.
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:28 PM
2

I like your style.
/r/askTRP25/01/16 12:18 PM
1

Fate will not take care of you, you take care of you.
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:15 PM
3

It's not good advice. Change jobs? Love will find you? He's looking for realistic and actionable tips not lofty "hope".
/r/seduction25/01/16 12:15 PM
3

Someone said you shouldn't build rapport. This is true in the sense you shouldn't be trying to get to know her over the app. You still have to very briefly and effectively show her that you're worth her time. Here's a quick glance at a typical conversation I have. opener her response smartass comment she replies another smart comment she may reply or just lol you're cool. What's your number? she'll give it. If she doesn't and says "I don't even know you" I'll say something like "it's not like I'…
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:49 PM
1

Wow best fucking gif to ever convey an idea. Thanks for that excellent suggestion. Women respond to social cues better than anything, she'll think twice than to fuck with me and risk being made to look like a fool.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 01:38 PM
1

Anytime, brother.
/r/askTRP23/01/16 06:51 AM
8

Are you saying I'm a turd for drinking or for not drinking in business class? Punctuation and inflection are important here
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 06:48 AM
0

Well said. We're not hear to take power from women, but rather to empower ourselves.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 12:55 AM
1

You were making good sense up to this point.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 10:36 PM
1

I feel like you're onto something big that's not discussed enough and I get the broad strokes but I'm having a hard time digesting the thought. We often talk about hypergamous women being broken and of no worth to us and I'm trying to reconcile this with what you've posited.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 09:44 PM
9

Someone is going through and downvoting everything. I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 09:15 PM
5

I think it's part of the balance. Feelings and logic are complementary when unadulterated. Thanks for your comment.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:31 PM
16

Hahah I'm referring to business class in a delta flight from Atlanta to Los Angeles. Surely you'll encourage me to keep tipping the whiskey.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/16 08:28 PM
5

You actually allowed her to ask you the question you asked her without having her answer first? Weak. Women are getting pinged on by dudes with incredible SMV on tinder. Be clever and unforgettable. And push for the close, which is to say, get her number to isolate and quickly get a date. If this is difficult then next, there are many others that will. Don't waste your precious time.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:22 PM
1

Thank you. I won't be complacent. Any sign of bullshit will be met with silence or verbal judo.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:07 PM
2

If these came off naturally for you then you are better than I. Excellent suggestions. These responses come from a place of confidence. I'm very confident but still have room for improvement in the IDGAF department.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:05 PM
2

Good point. There's a slight but important difference between being annoyed and having her feel like she's being annoying.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:03 PM
1

I could see myself going in that direction but I've got my two other plates, my week is so busy juggling bitches that I sense relief when I think of dropping one. I think this works well with abundance, because any amount of bullshit will push me over the edge in getting rid of this one and make me want to replace her with one that takes less effort. That said, it's easy to fall into overvaluing one particular woman. This one is definitely the hottest of my three. Another one is hotter but also …
/r/askTRP22/01/16 07:02 PM
1

All fair points. Regarding my level of investment, I'm referring to monetary when paying for drinks or whatever. I almost always go dark and won't initiate a conversation and I've made it the standard that if she doesn't reach out she's not getting any action.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:17 PM
3

I'm not actually feeling jealous, more like annoyed at having to deal with childishness. I guess this is good since it feeds into amused mastery. I like your suggestion and it makes sense.
/r/askTRP22/01/16 05:14 PM
1

I've taken that approach 80% of the time but it keeps coming. How do you nip it then?
/r/askTRP22/01/16 04:01 PM
2

Just like you can't speak of feminism without hating men even if just a little bit
/r/seduction21/01/16 01:25 AM
1

Sounds like an excellent chick. Continue dating her. If it turns out to be a mistake and crushes your heart it'll be a mistake you were glad to make.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:48 PM
-1

I'm not trying to be elegant.
/r/seduction20/01/16 06:05 PM
-1

I don't emoji not because it makes me "more alpha" but because men that emoji sound like weak bitches, and I'm not one. I can get my point across rather effectively without using some retarded Japanese keyboard. People have been communicating for millennia without needing to rely on stupid drawings. If you want to convey some feeling, use fucking words.
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:49 PM
3

I could attempt to explain, but I'll use examples instead. Which one will a woman respond to better? I like how your body moves. I like how your body moves 💃😘💋 It makes men seem like boys, and puts you in the same territory as her girlfriends. I fucked a fitness instructor last year that dumped a guy just because of his emoji use. It's weak and doesn't hold frame. It makes it seem like you're afraid of saying what's on your mind will upset her. It reeks of cowardice. Now, this is a guideline, ma…
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:43 PM
2

The secret to feminists is to deny them the treatment they expect as feminists. Stand up to them and treat them like petulant little girls and they'll either leave or melt. Do not buy into their narrative.
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:35 PM
2

Good suggestions here. If she insists on talking to the guy immediately leave and go strike a conversation with the hottest girl you can see within your girl's field of view.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:21 PM
2

I like "doll" because it subconsciously highlights her good looking toy aspect. Still though, I use it sparingly. I haven't gotten any shit about it. I'd love to hear other suggestions. Don't ever emoji.
/r/seduction20/01/16 02:18 PM
1

You're telling him that he has a case. He doesn't.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 02:17 PM
-8

If you're not an attorney don't give legal advice.
/r/askTRP19/01/16 07:35 PM
0

I agree somewhat. Where I disagree is that a woman can be good friends with a man. She's not saying "let's be friends" because she thinks he adds value to her life and she can add to his, she says it because she doesn't want him hitting on her anymore and it repulses her that he likes her.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 05:28 PM
1

What the fuck kind of advice is this? He's got better things to do with his time than to try to manipulate a single female brain. Yeah he could stay her friend and not totally next her but trying to get her to see him differently is a slippery fucking wall.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 11:48 AM
1

Don't be afraid to show intent. Try to kiss her during a high point. If she rebuffs you play it cool but go silent after you part ways. Do NOT orbit. Make the hamster work for you.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:38 AM
1

Your game will get magically better the more fit, confident, and not give a fuck attitude-y. Practice helps too. But if you're hot and confident, you can be silent and still slay
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:32 AM
1

You think about a girl that's not a family member and that you're not at least somewhat intimate.
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:31 AM
2

I've said "do you always do a man's job for him?" and most of the time they back off sheepishly and will admit to prefer a man taking the lead. If she bitches about it, red flag
/r/askTRP18/01/16 01:30 AM
2

I always enter some witty banter, and somewhere in the high point before it gets boring or overdone, I say "I'd love to meet you. Come to xxx at yyy." 95% of the time they say yes or offer an alternative.
/r/seduction18/01/16 01:28 AM
-4

Found the guy that can't shoot a fish in a barrel
/r/askTRP17/01/16 09:25 PM
2

My buddy in Japan confirms this.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 09:24 PM
1

For ONS you have to have high SMV, escalate quickly, and don't be too romantic. Start complimenting them and taking them on dinner dates and you're BF material. Make them thirst for validation and want to touch your biceps and they'll realize you're too hot to lock down.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:40 PM
1

Check-in texts are suffocating. Thirty bubbles regarding logistics carry the weight of one single "so how's your day". They reek of neediness, that you couldn't stop thinking about her and had to know how her day was. We both know you both don't care how the other's day was, you both want validation of still being liked. That kills mystery and sexual tension. If she wants to find out if you still like her she has to meet you. So I would add those 5%ers to the compounding factors. Allow her to re…
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:35 PM
2

Plausible and likely but not necessarily so. Although her behavior was odd, so it seems to imply that she was being dishonest. And let's face it, AWALT
/r/askTRP17/01/16 08:30 PM
1

Interesting. How long did it take you? Why five seconds? Tried it for a bit and it doesn't feel like I'm talking. Would it make more sense for it to be one second? I believe it worked for you but just curious as to whether you experimented with different methods.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 07:48 AM
3

That is, until you started acting like she was the best thing ever. That disgusts them and turns them off. Women seek validation but counterintuitively feel disgust towards those that give it to them.
/r/askTRP17/01/16 03:08 AM
4

Hahahah. I'm gonna leave that there.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/16 01:04 AM
1

Don't know why you got downvoted. This is accurate.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 09:20 PM
1

The first was a comfort test. It's when she looks for validation. Shit tests test for masculinity. "You didn't notice?" was a shit test. Some responses, varying in character: "No." "I did, but also noticed you gained a few pounds" "I have more important things to think about" "I only care about your tits and pussy" "They look the same" Or just look at her and not answer and change the subject.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:35 PM
1

Get rid of those who do not accept your new self. Good friends don't treat you like this. As far as the girl, you were wrong to barter money for sex. You barter sex for sex. If you want to have that kind of exchange go buy a hooker. You could've made her owe you anything, in particular is that she pays for the next meal. If you're paying for shit and in return she sucks your dick you are squarely in beta bux territory.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:29 PM
1

Why'd you ask for anything? You tell her what you want and how you'll do it. As a good leader you'll poll her on what kinds of things she enjoys but it's your decision. If she makes suggestions feel free to accept or reject them. She probably picked up on your placing her pussy on a pedestal and not having other chicks. Soft next, so go silent, and if she reaches out coolly give her a time and place. If she does not accept ignore her until she offers an alternative.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:14 PM
2

Don't lie. Cowards lie. Being honest without apology about a difficult subject shows an incredible amount of outcome independence, abundance, and IDGAF. If she questions your judgement simply say "I don't recall asking for your opinion." Being honest without apology shows weakness.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:10 PM
0

I'm not saying they're of no value, I love instant gratification more than the next guy. What I'm saying is that I don't demand it because it presents an unreasonable filter. I've had plenty of excellent pussy that I scheduled a few days out, and I'll admit that keeping interest is more of a challenge but not impossible. More than two or three days and flake probability skyrockets.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 08:06 PM
10

Frame is stability of mood and control of a relationship, independent of what's within said frame. Like a picture frame, the outside holds it all together and has nothing to do with the maelstrom in the art. At best you're complementary. A woman is the art piece and the frame is what holds her in place, enabling her to express herself and experience her feelings. You are not part of the picture, the picture exists within you. Another good analogy is a structural framework in architecture such as…
/r/askTRP16/01/16 07:20 PM
1

It's not reasonable to demand same day. My rule is future first dates are not more than two or three days away.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 07:11 PM
2

The hamster is not spinning, she has no idea why you've cut contact. Simply tell her "I know you're on tinder. We're done." She's most likely going to deny it, and you will ignore her, hamster will be spinning in full force. When she does admit to it, and says "well you're on it too otherwise how would you know" you tell her you saw it on her phone. Then ignore her some more. She will scream and bitch about your lack of trust and this is the kind of reason why she's on tinder blah blah, and you …
/r/askTRP16/01/16 07:00 PM
1

Surprised nobody has given the most obvious advice: confront her. Tell her, simply, I know you're on Tinder and we're breaking up. No argument, no bullshit. We both know the reason you didn't tell her is because you were hurt and didn't want to have another painful two hour argument. Be a man and face the truth.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 03:15 PM
3

Wear a condom. Less invasive.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 06:08 AM
0

Idiot
/r/seduction16/01/16 05:17 AM
0

Ask her why she's doing this. Tell her it's unacceptable. Do not argue with her. Truth is that this may be indicative of an obsession with you.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 05:17 AM
1

One thing is for sure - you could never have this type of controlled and deliberate discussion with a woman.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 03:43 AM
2

Precisely. The guy admitted the profile blew up with the new ab pics. Clearly the preselection is due to the abs. It's actually worse to request a margin because you cheated on the one reason she showed up. No one likes to be lied to. And the argument that he's getting his abs back is invalid because they're there to fuck and not to wait for a few months while the guy gets his shit together.
/r/askTRP16/01/16 03:25 AM
0

It's quite obvious from your posting history. I'm not sure what you're trying to achieve, but considering that you have achieved nothing you must either have been failing or enjoy wasting your time.
/r/seduction16/01/16 02:07 AM
1

You're not a very good troll. I'd suggest you start an alt that doesn't have your thoughtful and nuanced comment history.
/r/seduction16/01/16 01:32 AM
2

An alpha doesn't ask "what do I need to do to be her girlfriend." Men want sex and freedom, women want commitment. Being alpha in a nutshell: increase your value, demonstrate intent, don't care about the outcome, don't take shit from anyone, and realize the world is your oyster. You are doing none of those things.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 08:10 PM
1

You're setting yourself up for failure. Part of abundance mentality is preselection and not wasting your time.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 04:04 PM
2

You don't have an IDGAF attitude because you clearly GAF. You can't fake it. Own it -- this woman that you've pedestaled will likely never be yours. And if she ever were, oh man will she make you into her beta bitch because it's quite obvious you'll do whatever it takes to "plate" her. Quotations are because you'll be the plate and in her frame. Go spend your energy elsewhere.
/r/askTRP15/01/16 04:03 PM
-7

You're so wise, tell me more about your incredible insight
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 04:00 PM
0

ITT, people that forgot what subreddit they're in. Sorry people miss your post OP. The SJWs are out in full force today.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:28 PM
-10

Another idiot dispensing parenting advice. Why don't you give him some party tips too? This is TRP and you're missing the point of his insightful post.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:27 PM
-10

Who the fuck cares about your parenting advice, this is TRP
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:26 PM
-4

Last time I looked, this is trp and not parenting. You're missing the point.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/16 03:26 PM
1

How so?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:29 AM
3

I am 100% serious with this question, and not trying to troll: is there a possibility you're bisexual or gay?
/r/askTRP14/01/16 10:24 AM
1

Your perspective is important. People text. Is it unnatural? Yes -- when life hands you lemons, right? The importance of these communications implies the importance of being good at them. For example, how stupid does someone's grandpa look when they sign their Facebook post? Haha. Most importantly, it says something about the weakened relationships of future generations. No wonder feminism is worse than ever, women can get what they want without even getting close to a penis.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/16 08:42 PM
2

Ignore her or be short over communications, make plans with your buddies that don't include her, get in better shape, pick up a cool hobby. Anything that raises your market value causes dread since she'll see herself devaluing in front of you.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 08:38 PM
1

You can't force her to invest. Give her dread game.
/r/askTRP13/01/16 04:39 AM
2

One of my ex wives was like this. Took her years to grow out of it. She does this because she wants to feel like she's in control, which is fine if it weren't for her incredibly childish behavior. After the fight calms down, I would tell her that if she does it again you'll leave her. And when she does -- dump her.
/r/askTRP12/01/16 11:44 PM
10

http://www.smbc-comics.com/?id=1927
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:46 PM
18

You just described a man.
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:32 PM
1

How'd it go? (Note to people voting down: karma means nothing to me, you're wasting your time)
/r/askTRP11/01/16 09:59 PM
1

I can smell bullshit a mile away.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 09:56 PM
1

I'll add: over text. Haven't talked to her in a few days? Say "I love you" or "can't wait to have you"
/r/askTRP11/01/16 02:35 AM
1

This and nothing else. Many people don't speak to attorneys because they think they're too expensive and they think they can handle it themselves if they just get the judge to understand. 1- attorneys are free to talk to for initial conversation and give excellent legal advice for free during this period 2- not having an attorney is much more expensive. An attorney saved someone I know approximately $50k and I he only paid him $4k (California) 3- you CANNOT handle this yourself. If the woman law…
/r/askTRP11/01/16 02:28 AM
0

Careful giving advice like this. Her behavior is good for a good tongue lashing, but her texting her ex and profusely apologizing is not grounds for fucking other women. That's childish and stupid. He needs to punish her and make her regret her actions well beyond her apology, and more importantly, he has to restore his SMV.
/r/askTRP11/01/16 02:26 AM
4

It reeks of fiction. A fat guy getting hit on by hot chicks? It's sad
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 08:56 PM
1

You lost your frame by being butthurt. You keep your frame by not giving a fuck. That's why we always rave about abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 08:55 PM
1

Flirting is quite easy, it's in you as an evolved trait. You need to communicate intent and build sexual tension. Follow these easy guidelines: - light touching (kino) - slow down your voice, use pauses - be comfortable with silence - if she talks a lot just make eye contact and smile and nod and slowly close the gap between you - if it's loud and you have to whisper into her ear kind of come in like you're gonna kiss her but smoothly sidestep to the ear - open doors for her and put your hand in…
/r/askTRP10/01/16 01:40 PM
8

You constantly sound butthurt, and not admitting to being annoyed makes you seem like too much of a coward to admit it. Instead, act with amused mastery--pretend (or realize) she's just a child playing games. Don't be so needy.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 01:34 PM
9

Your fiction isn't even good.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 01:31 PM
2

You can force IOIs without approaching. This technique is brilliant, safe, and effortless. http://youtu.be/-unuqF4uklE It works really well because it requires very little practice and being awkward isn't a big deal. It also requires very little words.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 11:53 AM
1

Text game is decent for someone you met online, but really all you need to do is be clever and funny. Secure the date. K-close, and schedule another for an F-close.
/r/askTRP10/01/16 02:11 AM
1

"At least"? That sounds a lot like justifying. Don't do that one.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 06:42 PM
7

Agree. She wants validation, you give it to her in the form of physical attention.
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:28 PM
1

The need is there. You feel so accomplished because it's so easy for you to do these things, but you have to realize that many new visitors haven't even spoken to a girl that's not their mom. It's not always straightforward. Yeah they can read the sidebar but some people need a little bit more than that.
/r/seduction09/01/16 06:27 PM
1

Surely the WK will try to cash his credits to get laid, but the bitches will move on to fuck a guy like you while WK jerks off in tearful silence
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 05:40 PM
2

Tell her you'll go to the liquor store for her and have her give you money. Proceed to have her come get it four hours later because you didn't make it.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:54 AM
1

Text the number and use her name in the first message (eg, hey Trish! This is trpdgc"). Don't mention tinder so they get their plausible deniability. Be clever and go from there. After the first successful date I'll save their number. In the "company" field I write "tinder" or "okcupid (username)"
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:52 AM
1

I guess what I'm trying to say is that my depression and anxiety made it difficult for me to keep my hard on by staying mentally horny, but when I have feeling in my glans it's still possible to stay hard just from the penetration. I struggle with both the physical and the physiological aspects. If one is absent I can manage if the other one is present. If both are present I'm fucked. Edit: and not in a good way
/r/askTRP09/01/16 08:39 AM
-1

What is this, the Church of Scientology where we use misplaced internal lingo during arguments?
/r/askTRP09/01/16 06:50 AM
1

I don't use pharma. My problem is not getting hard but staying hard. I realized that it was an insensitivity in the glans of my penis, so as long as I don't drink alcohol or wear a rubber I'm good to go. Of course I have to wear rubber, so I've had to find condoms that fit me perfectly. Sheepskin work best. I've considered Viagra though.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 05:57 AM
1

Updates?
/r/askTRP09/01/16 02:10 AM
1

Agree with urfeelsdntmatter in that your feels do matter more than anyone else's.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 01:19 AM
1

I have suffered from it. If I even had a sip of alcohol or wear a condom I had serious ED issues, and I've overcome many. I saw a doctor and narrowed it down to anxiety and depression.
/r/askTRP09/01/16 01:18 AM
1

People here don't fucking understand oneitis. The definition needs updating. "Oneitis" when we orbit a single woman that doesn't give back. Having a good looking single mate that fucks awesome and pulls her load is known as "heaven"
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:57 PM
-20

The situation requires introspection. For all we know she's a fat bitch.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:55 PM
0

So they want you to date other Jews?
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:52 PM
2

Your family behaves strangely. What's your nationality?
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:45 PM
2

1- stop getting your sac bitten 2- stop watching porn and go monk 3- talk to your doctor
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:13 PM
1

That's one of the truest fucking things ever.
/r/askTRP08/01/16 08:12 PM
7

You'd be surprised how well this works. I have a slightly more insidious and noble one--I commute to another state every weekend because I have daughters there. When a plate wants more I tell her that I can't be in a position where I have to choose between them and my daughters if I felt like I needed to return to the other state. Nothing makes for a better fuckbuddy as someone that is emotionally wholesome and responsible but just can't LTR due to logistics. It is really the most respectable fo…
/r/askTRP08/01/16 01:32 PM
1

How?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:40 PM
2

Are you suggesting that I meet a girl at a bar and ask her to pack for an overnighter? Seems like a stretch.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 08:36 PM
6

At this point, let him marry her and be done with it. Some day he'll fucking learn
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:25 PM
2

Ironically, you're getting blown away while the exact opposite is happening
/r/TheRedPill07/01/16 07:20 PM
1

There's a strong bias for posts that are low in votes. It take some serious introspection and willpower to give an argument legs if others have dismissed it. Rightfully so, we've evolved systems to filter out the noise, and by golly, reddit is fucking full of it
/r/seduction07/01/16 06:40 PM
5

Made the exact same comment the other day and got downvoted :-/
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:41 PM
6

"You're attractive like a star. As in gravity. Cause you're fat."
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:40 PM
3

Carlsbad is where it's at, but your SMV better be fucking amazing. Every chick there is a hot blonde vegan yogi
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:35 PM
3

He's Asian
/r/seduction07/01/16 02:34 PM
0

That's your deal, not hers. Are you gonna hold her accountable for your insecurity? That's not manly and that's not the frame you need. She's not a cheater, until she is and then she's done. End of story.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 03:28 AM
0

It's not a big deal. Think about this - why does it bother you so much if you're honest with yourself?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:20 AM
3

Be more specific. How did she know?
/r/askTRP07/01/16 01:00 AM
1

Take it easy dude. Don't give her an ultimatum over sleeping with a girlfriend. That's controlling and lacking in frame. Put up with it this once, be cool. If she's a shitty girlfriend it'll show some other way. I say let it go.
/r/askTRP07/01/16 12:57 AM
3

When there is disagreement between words and actions, always go with actions.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 10:58 PM
0

TRP is a firehose. You're not supposed to take the whole thing to the mouth. There's idiocy and trolling, sure, but the core nugget is our self improvement above all.
/r/seduction06/01/16 05:15 PM
1

You should start thinking about the offensive rather than showing the best defense. Wait for him to say something stupid and pounce. "It usually helps to think before opening your mouth" "come on man, make mocking you somewhat of a challenge" "when you say shit like that, aren't you afraid people will think you're an idiot?" Or just stare him in the eyes with shoulders square until he averts his gaze. If he asks you what you're looking at, keep staring.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 04:15 PM
1

Or the gym -- a place where time is never wasted.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:54 PM
2

Or watch her not crawl back as you bang bitches in your otherwise empty room.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:42 PM
16

Speak to an attorney. Most will do free 30 minute consultations and you can find them on avvo.com. In the meantime, Do not speak to her. It'll only build her harassment case. There is no benefit to you by attempting to resolve this amicably. Immediately log your best recollection of what happened, you can start with your reddit post and build from there. Get fucking detailed. Have your conversations with your friends over text and save them. Even though text conversations are hearsay if the othe…
/r/askTRP06/01/16 03:08 PM
-2

What you feel is natural. Come to /r/theredpill -- many of us like you embrace our individuality and power as men. Edit: I'm seeing the downvotes. These are people unlike you that want you to be like them. Just come check it out.
/r/seduction06/01/16 02:48 PM
2

Good table flip without being butthurt. "Oh yeah dear, you don't have the value for me to allow you to treat me this way." Her behavior is disrespectful but she doesn't realize it, hamster and all. If she openly mouths off to you or acts in a passive aggressive manner it's the last red flag you'd ever need. This is exactly why we discourage considering sluts for LTR, because they're ruined and they will always secretly wish they find someone better looking than you for a fuck.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:56 PM
3

The experience he needs is to next and never look back.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:50 PM
2

We tryhard a little bit too. Many of us are focused on self improvement but there is a big portion of TRP that's all about that revenge fantasy or getting the girlfriend back from chad.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:11 PM
-2

Rpnews
/r/askTRP06/01/16 01:09 PM
-1

Hit reply on the wrong post but to the right user = invalid argument K buddy
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 05:02 AM
-1

Having a hard time with your claim of reading people when you accused me of being a female troll
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 03:15 AM
-10

You're on a roll - at being fucking stupid.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 01:57 AM
1

Pushing you out of your spot is textbook aggression.
/r/askTRP06/01/16 12:46 AM
1

I'll agree with you about younger women being more responsive to texting. I see that as more of a problem than anything. With younger ones I immediately jump to offering pot, it's surprising how many are down. Stoned chicks are easy targets.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 12:45 AM
1

You can fuck a chick with a hammer, does that make hammers important fuck tools? We are meant to seduce with our bodies. Yeah there's Web 2.0 ways about it, but ultimately dick goes in pussy.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 12:44 AM
0

Texting game is not essential, it is a fine skill that is only complementary. Men have been getting pussy for hundreds of thousands of years without it. From a philosopher I'd expect a stronger set of premises. If you'd rather make her cum over text, that's fine, but I'd rather have her cum when my face is buried in her mound.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/16 12:42 AM
2

IMO, usually. What if you're super chatty or intense over the phone? No one wants to be stuck there. A quick non-committal "I am outcome independent but you're welcome to tag along" invitation is more alluring to a woman than "hey hey hey hey hey hey I'm here let's go". Not always the case, my second to last GF was a phone followup and she responded to my voicemail about a day or two later. Often if a girl wants you to call she'll ask you to. Considering that the issue here is likely of how much…
/r/seduction05/01/16 09:42 PM
1

I was there -- I know. It can't be faked, it must be lived. Good luck.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:55 PM
0

Next time he disrespects you in front of the group, stare him in the eyes and tell him to say it again. He might drop his gaze. If he does this you're the new alpha. This may sound trite but other than making a new group your only other option is to supplant him, and that includes physical confrontation. One thing is certain, drop a bitch to the ground in a single punch to the face and he will never try to cross you again in front of others. Hey may, however, try to stab you in the back. In the …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:39 PM
5

That was a slick fucking approach. Other than texting instead of calling, you did awesome. So the same thing several more times and you'll surely get results.
/r/seduction05/01/16 08:34 PM
5

You do care, and you know exactly how you feel about this. There's a tendency around here to pretend men don't feel, but we do. Bottom line this is bullshit, line up some pussy right now and get the fuck out.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:28 PM
2

Most certainly so if your definition of success is "getting my dick sucked"
/r/askTRP05/01/16 08:03 PM
-1

Good point. Unless you're extremely good at reading people and writing, early written communications are more a liability than anything.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 08:02 PM
1

I'm 5'8" and I rarely find it to be an issue because I'm confident. Try this though, a bit weird of an experiment, but wear height boosting insoles. You could pump up an extra inch and a half (wear boots so your heel doesn't pop out). Try approaching now. You will feel a difference. Women will be more responsive. I'll bet you a million dollars it'll only be because of your confidence. Take the fucking things off and pretend you're ten feet tall.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 06:53 PM
2

I believe I made that point in my post, and I agree with you.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 06:49 PM
2

A man that's constantly texting isn't doing man things. I think texting sparsely best reflects my lifestyle and priorities.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 06:34 PM
3

My tinder profile straight up says that pen pals can look elsewhere. I've had women swipe based on that alone, according to them.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 06:33 PM
1

If you're incredibly proficient at any one thing it'll always impress. Let me ask you this: can you tell me that it's been JUST your texting game that got you laid, or that in its absence you wouldn't have? As a nod to your comment though, I added a golden rule.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 06:22 PM
7

If your looks are solid there really isn't anything more to do than to get a number. My tinder game: Solid pictures Say something clever and not serious Witty reply to her reply Ask for her number bluntly after her impressed reply. Only a frigid cunt will say no, which acts as an excellent filter Text her something with an anchor to the tinder response Say "let's meet at xxx on yyy" http://i.imgur.com/olsBtzr.png http://i.imgur.com/1I2N1C8.png
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:54 PM
-4

I believe texting also works to build mystery in the counterintuitive manner of not texting, considering women are bombarded by BB validation and their perception of what a nice guy should do. Women will complain that a guy doesn't communicate enough, but if you have solid encounters then she'll be thirsty for more. Sating their desire for attention over text only hurts a guy's chances of doing it in person.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:43 PM
6

Good texting rapport is actually harmful in person unless you have flawless game, because their expectations of you are so high and if you could get them wet over text you better make them flood in person. But if it's true that your game in person is flawless, why even bother wasting time with texts? The point is - it is never important to be a text seducer. It's either harmful or pointless.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/16 05:26 PM
1

I heard the opposite - it removes the possibility in their minds that I have yet to see the message, and it indicates that I don't give enough of a shit to even respond. Why do you think having them off gets them spinning?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 04:33 PM
0

That sounds horrendous. But if he were good looking and had a bunch of money surely some western girl would accept in order to take advantage of him.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:45 AM
25

As if grades and pussy were mutually exclusive.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 11:44 AM
1

Why?
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:53 AM
1

To be fair, we train ourselves to not be excited about anyone else either.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:52 AM
2

Let them ask and get shredded apart by us. Part of swallowing the pill is having it forced into our open palm in the first place
/r/askTRP05/01/16 10:50 AM
1

Abundance mentality -- you lack it.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:22 AM
2

I have to agree with you. When I eat pussy it's because I like it, and because it makes them wet. Overdo it and they dry up tho
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:20 AM
2

Hey man. Most of us swallowed the pill after oneitis screwed us. I say bring the lovestruck dummies to our doorstep.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:19 AM
1

She didn't reschedule. She's been all apologies and that's it. I don't know how much weight to put into them. Doesn't seem like a stretch for her to ask for a makeup which is why I'm hesitant to do it for her.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:16 AM
2

Girls love being mocked and called on their shit. They love having their shit tests destroyed. Because deep down, that's the whole point to them.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:09 AM
1

I'm sorry, but I can't see how someone can say "I don't give a fuck" and still imply that getting women is a worthy goal. It seems to me like you just like to pretend you don't give a fuck, but actually you do. And that's fine - we should give a fuck - about ourselves. And I think we should own it. To me it boils down to this. Why do we give a fuck about ourselves? Because no one else will. Why do I give a fuck about pussy? Because it's not going to be granted to me and I like it. Why should any…
/r/askTRP05/01/16 01:05 AM
2

Did it. The hamster is starting to spin, she texted again with deeper apologies but no solution. Maybe she's too dumb to realize this is the point at which she picks up the bootstraps, or maybe expects me to lead her but honestly any more leading of a stupid donkey feels a lot like being a bitch. I have iMessage read receipts on so just leaving that "read" there without any response is an escalation on my last messages shortness and lack of punctuation hahahaha
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:35 AM
0

Interesting. That's very... Jedi of you. Also definitely conveys the amused mastery.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:33 AM
-4

Tell us more about that - how did the smirk help in a way that not smirking wouldn't have? To me a smirk sounds a bit gay but I realize I may be wrong.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 12:20 AM
1

I agree. That's the dishonest and lack of self respect part, pretending to be in a LTR when she is not. There is never a reason to lie, except if someone will be materially and significantly harmed from being honest.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 11:16 PM
0

Good job on giving sound advice. TRP is a raw firehose and has quite a bit of bullshit. It is a means to an end, and ultimately the pill is about seeing past the matrix and not how to make a new cookie cutter alpha life out of said matrix.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 04:23 AM
2

I can tell you are actually stoic and successful because you don't dig your heels and hold your points well. This "optics" thing is fairly new, sometimes I just want to make something up to see if it works.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 02:33 AM
2

I'm not saying I don't care about the "optics" concept, I'm saying I don't care about the usage of the word. Clearly appearing like you're on top of shit is critical to your professional reputation. I have actually been very successful as a consultant in an industry where we're disposable if not performing at top levels.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 02:12 AM
2

I fucking despise the recent usage of the word "optic". Or corporate jargon in general. I've been very successful without having to use shit like "circle around" and "shoot a note" and am quite proud of it. Otherwise, brilliant advice -- no one tells you this shit in college and it's significantly more important than any other similarly sized knowledge nugget. Even pointing out its obvious letter-size as a nugget is an understatement to its impact.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 02:05 AM
1

The problem with text game is it's name: it implies that there is a certain combination that will get a chick wet. And although technically it's possible that this happens sometimes, it's really the exception. There isn't a "great" and a "poor" way to text. It should be called "texting mechanics" instead, because instead all there is are things that are ok to do, and some you shouldn't. Like pooping. Think of the rules at a busy surfing lineup. If you fuck up you might get roughed up or miss wav…
/r/askTRP04/01/16 01:21 AM
3

I would say that her willingness to take LTR while allowing you to fuck around is a red flag on its own. No honest, self respecting woman would behave in this manner. Definitely not a woman I'd want to be exclusive with, she has a rock solid alibi to do the same thing herself and is akin to you greasing her hamster wheel and spinning it for her. To answer your question, not everyone uses tinder for the same reason.
/r/askTRP04/01/16 12:35 AM
9

Some of the data out there does not support your claim. When making claims like this your personal story doesn't matter. You can't equate your experience to that of all other members of your group. http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ White women like white men disproportionately, responding to all other races poorly, and only Asian women like white men more. Edit: I can't spell
/r/TheRedPill04/01/16 12:30 AM
1

I like it.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 04:39 AM
1

You need to work on yourself. You can't fake your way to a higher social standing for more than a few minutes. Be more fun at parties by not giving a fuck, get in bed with a few good looking chicks, and use TRP for all of these.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 04:37 AM
2

I do not, as I don't know know your social circle. Typically there are a few people near the top, maybe one at the very top, everyone else floats just under them. There are no "bottom of the totem pole" people unless they're not really wanted in the group at all. Size? Ratio? Activities? Age range? Typical personality? Do you get invited to stuff or find out about it relatively soon or do you rely on leaked comms or badgering others for info?Have you been around since the beginning or are you lo…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:57 AM
7

She's not shit testing you. Shit tests are masculinity tests, given subconsciously by women to determine whether you're a man or a boy within the context of sexual interest. Shit tests have correct and incorrect answers. It seems like she's not interested in you, so what she's doing is she's trying to use you for political gain. She decided she does not like you and is trying to push you out. That is not acceptable. There is no correct answer here - other than the one you do to make it clear to …
/r/askTRP03/01/16 03:08 AM
1

I agree with the soft next approach and not hard precisely because although possibly, it's not common.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 02:40 AM
1

Ignore it. Don't even "k" as that comes across as needy or possibly butthurt. "Have fun" sounds dishonest, "cool" and "no worries" is too much of an out. Ignoring is best here. If she is interested she WILL throw out an option, if she's not interested there is nothing you can do to change that.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 01:38 AM
3

Sticking around for her to choose is about as beta as it gets. Do you think she's telling the other guy the same thing? It's unlikely... She probably realizes that telling you about this quandary could lose you, and she's not going to risk both. I don't know if you should probe again for interest. Your intent is clear. You've already made your sales pitch. Anything else will be essentially pleading. I'd say "k" and move on. Anything other than her making her choice in your favor is really not wo…
/r/askTRP03/01/16 01:36 AM
2

Although almost always true, there are times it makes sense to wait for a response. Sometimes I want to have time to reply meaningfully, sometimes I don't have all the information together in order to give a good response and don't feel like "let me look into this" matters. This is why I have read receipts on.
/r/askTRP03/01/16 01:30 AM
4

The reason you're doing this is because you're afraid to fail. There is little risk behind the scenes. You can enjoy the victory somewhat, but you are shielded from failure. Notice how you take credit for many a success but no mention of how you may have failed in helping or done something to fuck things up. I do this sometimes when I spectate my friends playing a strategy game and I coach them. When they win, I feel a similar high to winning myself, and when they lose it's very easy for me to r…
/r/seduction03/01/16 01:27 AM
1

James Marshall speaks of it quite a bit, tension buildup and release. Don't fidget, laugh too much, smile too much, speak too fast. Keep eye contact, be a bit intense, build it up, then release it.
/r/seduction03/01/16 01:24 AM
1

That is fact. Ever since I got back in shape I haven't failed to close a single time. Tinder hoes, but still.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 02:21 AM
1

That seems to be too much like asking for validation. No one would ever say no to that and might make it seem like you're piggybacking on your son's looks.
/r/askTRP02/01/16 02:19 AM
1

This subreddit is either genius or retarded, and it's sometimes hard to tell the difference. The good thing about that is that the raw data is out there.
/r/askTRP01/01/16 05:48 AM
1

You're at a physical disadvantage, but I've dated several women that were taller than me and I just act like I don't give two fucks about it.
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:44 PM
1

Whatever you say boy
/r/seduction28/12/15 09:43 PM
1

Why can't you meet or video chat? Although not impossible, too much texting is not good before a first date. You can manage this better with Skype or FaceTime. Be VERY careful of women with trust issues, they'll string you along with no intentions of meeting. As long as they get what they want they won't give a fuck whether you get what you want.
/r/seduction28/12/15 07:49 PM
2

I'm 5'7" and I do just fine. Height makes chicks wet, but confidence more so.
/r/seduction28/12/15 07:43 PM
3

I think he is invoking the more "street" definition of stalker which is "clingy/suffocating"
/r/askTRP28/12/15 07:42 PM
1

I think you're holding frame very well, other people's observation that you said too much are valid but don't really break your rigidity. You were simply escalating, we can't treat every single inquiry like a nuclear shit test. What's happening is that she's testing your ability to handle money and make good decisions. Shit tests are excellent opportunities to show off our masculinity, because that's what they are -- masculinity tests. Like Indiana Jones going through the Temple of Doom, the tre…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 05:12 PM
1

So many people not answering your question, but you weren't really specific. What was the shit test?
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:17 AM
2

One-eye-tiss, the tiss sounds like piss but is a soft and quick t, which is between a t and a d
/r/askTRP28/12/15 10:15 AM
5

I've been slaying on tinder and although somewhat handsome I'm Hispanic and not very tall. It's given me a shit ton of confidence and practice. There was a speech by a guy called the Gambler about night game and one of the bits was about forcing IOIs in a bar. You dance like an idiot and then point at a girl, and force her to react. When she gives a smile, you approach. You can get rid of finding cues of whether she's attracted and you can boost your confidence because you've put some of the wor…
/r/seduction26/12/15 03:29 PM
2

If women really preferred asking subreddits instead of friends for these subjects those subreddits would be gynormouslynmegafucking huge. They're not. A small chunk of women like the anonymity of reddit but by and large they talk to friends and family. So, no, they do not.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:23 PM
5

You may want to sit down with her and point out that her behavior has changed recently, and although you don't mind helping her, she's suddenly shifted. Don't be afraid to explain your concern that her dumping all of her problems makes it difficult to deal with your own. You guys have been friends for a while, you should be able to be honest with her. Key to being a man is not being afraid of saying what's on your mind, if she's offended that's on her and not on you.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:12 PM
3

The country doesn't need a kick in the pants, it needs sound decision making. The only thing that needs a kick are people that think Trump would make a good president. A country is not a business or a pageant.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 11:34 AM
1

So you're using two year old pictures? Sometimes that's obvious too
/r/askTRP26/12/15 11:32 AM
1

I was actually trying to call upon the remindme! bot but I think I'm not using it right
/r/askTRP26/12/15 09:29 AM
1

Your height is a huge entitlement in terms of your des fail attractiveness and ability to gain mean muscle mass. Don't let it go to waste. Grow a beard if you can. Tall bearded men with large muscles make excellent alphas. As a 5'8" male I've really had to compensate in clever ways.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:11 AM
17

Snowflake
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:09 AM
1

RemindMe! Two weeks follow up
/r/askTRP26/12/15 02:07 AM
3

avvo.com is the best resource. Call several for free 30-60 minute consultations, after this you'll have a good body of information. Information is power, and in divorce it's fucking invaluable. It's the same as the difference between making it to a foreign street address with and without directions. In China. Yeah, you can make it without help, but good fucking luck.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 01:44 AM
1

Which state?
/r/askTRP26/12/15 01:42 AM
2

Have you ever closed from IG/FB flirting, and if so, what's the %? Women work off of tension buildup and subsequent release. Both in short bursts and in overarching long term contexts, like the plot arcs in many TV shows, there is minute conflict, episode arcs, season arcs, and show arcs. If this sounds a lot like "drama" it's because it is. The problem here seems to be that you're not tapping into this dynamic properly, and understandably so, as these are notoriously difficult formats. Women wo…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 01:30 AM
1

Report back
/r/askTRP25/12/15 06:48 PM
1

You've been with her for two months yet you haven't fucked her? She uses you as an emotional tampon while she is fucking someone else. We call people betas here left and right for silly shit like acting needy -- but you are literally beta, second to a faceless alpha -- who you actually may know and maybe even be in your circle of friends. Have some self respect and dump her. Easier said than done, yet you must realize you are getting nothing out of this relationship. Do you love this woman so mu…
/r/askTRP25/12/15 06:19 PM
4

Dude. Your situation sucks. You have no choice but to lose that weight. Your over reliance on this girl is going to fuck you up. If you wait for it to happen you'll be a mess and still fat and sad. Your best bet is to keep losing weight and start weaning yourself off of this girl. It will not end well. Are you good looking? Do you have a strong social influence or friends? Maybe a football player? Do you fuck this chick?
/r/askTRP25/12/15 02:11 PM
1

You're young. Feel it out. Allow yourself to make mistakes, for this is how you will learn.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:17 AM
1

Wait until you're super mad at her for rebuffing you then block the shit out of her while you have the energy.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:06 AM
1

Yeah, this. But the exact opposite
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:05 AM
2

You are suffering quite a bit for this pussy. If it's not oneitis I suggest you don't shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 05:03 AM
3

She's probably denying sex because you're dropping her status in the group. Plates work best in complete anonymity as she won't feel like a slut. That said, fuck other girls
/r/askTRP25/12/15 03:21 AM
1

Faking anything is even more insidious than a stand-alone lie as it necessitates a sustained and premeditated effort.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 03:14 AM
-1

I ended up ignoring that part of the text and went with "I'm not working, just went for a run and now getting ready to drive to Connecticut" Sometimes frame is all about not reacting
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:19 AM
2

We want you to be better, but this isn't a great place to get this kind of advice. What we can tell you though is that you really can't fake being passionate, unless you're passionate about lying, which is actually a thing and could make you a great salesman or sick pickup artist.
/r/askTRP25/12/15 12:17 AM
-1

I hate excuses and this sure seems like one. I agree with you though, back in the day I had a habit of talking myself out of things.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 06:14 PM
0

Looking for validation?
/r/seduction24/12/15 12:14 PM
31

Seriously? Call her out. "You're not who you said you were." Focus on the dishonesty aspect and not in the she's fat aspect, you can do whatever but it sounds like you don't have the balls for the latter.
/r/askTRP24/12/15 12:13 PM
10

Not necessarily. A simple "no" could've been just as effective. Being humorous during a shit test is good for flirting but not as good for establishing respect and boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/15 03:53 AM
1

Correct. Abundance mentality gets you to a place where you only bother with the super hot ones.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:19 PM
5

Well said. He comes across as manipulative, he's got a gestapo reporting to him and has turned everyone against her as an execution of ransom. He thinks he can convince her to love him if she just saw him like everyone else does. His self-hurt could also be attention seeking. Shit, if this woman was my sister I would tell her to run faster.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 05:02 PM
0

Cringe
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:26 AM
1

Amused mastery. If this is in person, smile and say "no, I meant what's your number." If over text, which is what I suspect since you're looking for a good response, it's a bit more difficult to show amusement without being an emoticon fag. Something like "I know I can" Women shit test like this. Last night after a date I kissed her, and she said "I was just wanting a peck, not full French" and I said "I wasn't asking". She was really into it. If you want something you must either take it or ask…
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:24 AM
1

I don't think such a legal requirement exists but you certainly should communicate it. Condoms are an excellent choice. You will learn how to have this conversation after some practice.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:19 AM
2

Why doesn't he throw a few dozen emojis there and supplicate, and tell her he loves her forever and that she will always have a piece of his heart? /s
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:17 AM
1

Maybe she has a bet? Maybe her dad is nerdy as fuck? It's important to maintain frame and to show outcome independence. Be cool and don't overinvest. Smack her in the ass someday and report back!
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:13 AM
1

I care about her to the extent that I want my daughter to see I have a base level of respect for her, and that the family court would find me to be the rational parent. Excellent point regarding the teaching aspect. A child cannot be allowed to act like a child at their sole behest.
/r/askTRP22/12/15 11:07 AM
1

You obviously don't mean it, the point is that you're not her bitch. A girl once tried to smack me in the arm for saying something dirty and I grabbed her wrist before she connected, and I squeezed a bit and didn't let go. I could hear her pussy soaking.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 03:25 AM
0

Ignore all advice except this. Along the same lines, it could also work to say "you better lay me out because you won't like what will happen if you don't"
/r/askTRP21/12/15 02:56 AM
2

A two hour drive is overinvesting. There's no way you can show abundance after that obvious sacrifice. Have her meet you halfway or come to you. Otherwise, work on getting something closer. 30 minute drive is my cutoff and I often wonder if that's too much.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 02:55 AM
0

Don't lose frame, but burn her. In an obvious amused mastery tone, say "normally that may give me pause, but coming from someone with a hilarious case of *** I'll take it as a compliment." Replace xxx with something you know will burn her. If you've noticed a flaw in her she's been thinking about it for years. Big nose, ears, hands, gut, ass, small tits, bad skin.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 02:53 AM
7

This is hard but important. If she asks you if you're a cheap bastard, beat the shit test with "not as much as you're disrespectful and entitled". It's important to get women to help pay for several reasons: - shit's expensive yo - we only value things we invest in - you are equals or if anything you're the one calling the shots - she has to earn it, and this ain't an investment opportunity
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:44 AM
1

Ignore him, yes, but also look for the opportunity to do the same to him. The day will come. If he does it, he's a strong team player. If he doesn't, you know where he stands. Are you sure it's not a woman? This is textbook female workplace behavior. Getting promoted is not that complex, it just takes a lot of energy: make your boss happy, make him trust you, then make HIS boss happy while keeping yours happy. Dress well, be on time, don't leave before he does unless he's a chronic late worker. …
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:40 AM
2

Correct. Bringing up TRP with a plugged in person is like a scientologist bringing their crazy shit to you. Not saying our method is bullshit like scientology, but to a blue piller or a woman that's what it'll sound like. Only tell people that are ready to be told. When someone is desperate for answers, when they are at wit's end, then they're ready.
/r/askTRP21/12/15 01:33 AM
1

I'd advise you to go after the girl to show her who's a man now. But you're not ready for it. It's been a while coming, so it can wait a bit longer. Practice. Express abundance. Gain confidence. Godspeed.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 10:44 PM
-1

I have a really great neg when I'm dating a woman around my age (36). I'll start by asking why she's lying about her age. She'll get defensive and I'll say "you don't look xx, is it plastic surgery? Where's the scar? It's gotta be back here" as I push her hair aside and get a bit close to look, but then pull away. Only do this if she obviously look young and there's already been a bit of escalation. Also if she's in good humors, don't ever drop this when she's being unresponsive. That's the poin…
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 04:39 PM
11

A woman will feel negged if she didn't get the ascerbic compliment. Like sweet and sour candy without sugar.
/r/TheRedPill20/12/15 04:25 PM
4

If you go out on this date where you clearly think you have more SMV you are definitely leading her on. While you're there you'll also be charming because you don't want to be rude. The bottom line is that this chick is a catfish and tricked you into a date by misrepresenting herself. She's not single from being picky. Most women do this to a degree, but hiding the obvious double chin or FUPA gut is fucked up. If you want to have tact save it for the cancellation text.
/r/seduction20/12/15 04:18 PM
1

Also over time my comedy style has kind of evolved to be more suited to my personality. Farts during first date
/r/askTRP20/12/15 04:04 PM
2

Everyone knows the bird of true love is the swallow.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 10:50 AM
1

And see her out of the house immediately. It will be good for her to get some rest and alone time.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 10:47 AM
4

It's more complex than oneitis. We throw that word around so casually. I think he's trying to prove to himself that he's grown out of his shell, kind of like in a movie where a kid gets beat up by some bully a few times, and at the end of the movie the bully gets his comeuppance. What is unsafe about this strategy is that if he doesn't bed her his confidence could suffer, and if he does he could really end up with oneitis because he's likely to overinvest. I still agree however, best to move on.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 10:45 AM
1

This is pretty standard in schools nowadays - when one child is aggressive towards another, they try to frame it like they're somehow both guilty. This shifts responsibility away from the school so they don't feel forced to deal directly with the aggressor's parent. It's much easier to not have to take sides.
/r/askTRP20/12/15 10:41 AM
3

As stated below, my biggest hurdle is being aware of the moment and not resorting to BP ways, especially during a shit test. I'm getting better though. The more confidence you exude the less likely you'll be tested.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:15 PM
2

You're having s hard time swallowing the pill. You can and will learn just fine without her opinion. All you learn and practice with a bitter back and forth is how to lose more frame. Walk out and don't give a fuck. If this was happening after a fifth date you'd be sprinting towards oneitis.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:11 PM
7

My experience is that ONS just want to get fucked and not eaten out, but don't mind if they get eaten for a minute or two. After that they ask me to fuck them.
/r/seduction19/12/15 02:06 PM
4

If you're feeling honorable, tell her you're not looking for a serious relationship. Otherwise you should be able to fuck her. Not all single moms are looking for sugar daddies
/r/askTRP19/12/15 04:00 AM
1

Guy's a dick troll without constructive comments but he has a point.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 03:26 AM
1

Except his anus
/r/seduction19/12/15 02:52 AM
2

Gold
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:49 AM
2

Haha you're hilarious I told the guy I'd be sad to see him go, but don't think I'd feel sad about you. You are a sad, sad person. Notice how I said person and not man, because you are as inspiring and respectable as a piece of string
/r/askTRP19/12/15 02:43 AM
1

I must be fair to you, if you lack intelligence you lack the capability of recognizing intelligence or how this condition affects the world. Like rats, all they know is foraging, but do not know about the disease they carry. In case your narcissistic peanut female brain didn't pick up, you are the rat.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 12:29 PM
5

Quoted Nietzsche, must be true. +1 Seriously though, whether big N's opinion is accurate, if you were to come clean all you are doing is shifting the emotional burden on her -- further making you an even bigger piece of shit. If you want to be good to her, if you want to treat her like she deserve, be a man and swallow it. You are there to be a mechanical foundation to the house, not to rock it like an earthquake. I've cheated before. I felt like a piece of shit. Hell, sometimes I am a piece of …
/r/askTRP18/12/15 11:03 AM
1

Obligated dates suck. If she goes off to fuck someone else then it's ok, but if you do the same you're a dick. Then again, who gives a shit. You should've gone with her but acted like you were stag. She would've added social value and if she saw you hitting on other chicks you could've possibly bagged her when she started hamstering.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 09:17 AM
1

You're Indian but since you look white you pretend to be white by acting like trash. You clearly hate yourself but are surprised at this guy that hates you too. One guy acts like a moron (following your lead) and you draw inferences on the rest of his race -- textbook racism. The problem is not that you're white or brown, it's that you're a piece of trash. And you're also a woman, meaning that you came here for validation and not at all to be told what you needed to hear.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 09:12 AM
1

It's only been said a dozen times that you ignore her. An "ehh" is borderline disrespectful.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 09:06 AM
1

You're trying too hard to be edgy and mysterious. Clearly she wants you and she's putting up with your apparent disinterest, but she will fade when someone gives her a bit more sense and attention. Tell her you'll go to the party with her, but try to set something up prior if you have time. Nowadays days are weeks and weeks are years.
/r/askTRP18/12/15 09:03 AM
3

If you study one single piece of the stuff on this subreddit, out of context, it seems like it's about hating women. But if you take it all in, with purpose, and you act like a moral and ethical human being, it all forms part of a whole. This place is raw, and surely can be used poorly, yet that's true of any blunt object. You're taking this post out of context just by assuming that we're to communicate these items to women. But we're not -- it's like saying that when a public speaker is told to…
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 06:51 PM
4

If your reading comprehension was up to par you'd realize that this is not about shaming women but about adjusting our artificially inflated view of them. People that struggle with "putting pussy on a pedestal" could use some handy tools to manage their problem.
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 05:09 PM
6

Haha they look 18 and when menopause hits BAM they look like Mr. Miyagi or Yoko Ono
/r/TheRedPill17/12/15 05:06 PM
13

I'll tell you one big reason why society wants you to live. Because many people have contemplated suicide at one point or another, and through the help of their peers or self improvement have learned to enjoy the net product of their lives. Because if you die by your own hand, it could have been them that died to their own. Because they see a little bit of themselves in you, and your success is a little bit of theirs. Because we feel empathy, something mostly forgotten, but it's there to keep us…
/r/askTRP17/12/15 04:59 PM
1

So much bad or over analytical advice here. Besides the obvious advice of "move closer to a city", we have a task at hand. Tryharding is the quickest way to end this. Just flow. If you live in a shitty part of PA (I do too -- I'm an hour west of Pittsburgh), it will be impossible to have an abundance mentality. Be clever, at some point tell her you're going for a run and ask for her number (simply say "what's your number"), text her several hours later, tell her you want to meet her, and set it …
/r/askTRP15/12/15 12:25 PM
5

False. This is a personal setting with global effects. If you have it off, you can still see read receipts for people that have it on, and if you have it on you'll only see it for people that also have it on.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/15 12:25 PM
0

It is a logical fallacy to consider the validity of an argument dependent on the arguer's credentials. An argument stands on its own or it does not.
/r/seduction14/12/15 05:49 AM
2

You could've faked apologized for the foot stepping. But a more clever way would've been to tell her "a good way to lose those extra couple pounds is by dancing"
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:41 AM
7

Meet her at the hotel bar. Then find an excuse to go upstairs, like you need to charge your phone.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:28 AM
1

Let's all be honest here -- is it legal in your state? And check her drivers license for gods sake
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:25 AM
-1

Idiots that want a TL;DR can't give meaningful advice. Your girlfriend is being poisoned by her friends. She will become one of them. "Tell me who you're with and I'll tell you who you are." TRP says, go do your own thing. If she wants you she can crawl back. Her alternative is to be a slut like her friends. You have to be outcome independent -- act like you're doing the right thing for yourself and not in a manner that will give you the outcome you want: a good girl that will do your bidding. I…
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:23 AM
1

This is stupid and overthought. If you match, you're physically attracted. If your point is to meet then state as such. If she resists she's looking for pen pals. Don't waste your time, there are thousands of women in your area and none of them are that special. Treating a woman like she's the only one leads to unhealthy behaviors. Leave that for the serious dating phase if you must. Here's my advice: Say something clever about her pictures and/or profile and banter for 5-6 messages tops Say I'd…
/r/seduction14/12/15 04:14 AM
-3

What I don't like about the above suggestions is that it makes it look like you're breaking up because she won't respond to you in a timely manner. I don't think she deserves to not be held accountable. Be a man and tell her why you're leaving, and don't argue or plead. "I know you're cheating on me. Don't try to reach out to me, because I will ignore you if you do." I can see why avoiding the drama is appealing, but what's the point? Put her number on ignore if you must.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 04:08 AM
8

Best suggestion fucking ever. Unfortunately if she introduced him this way she had no plans of ever seeing him again. She wasn't even trying to avoid a scene.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:55 AM
-9

It's too late to embarrass her in front of her family, so hard next is the only way. I wouldn't even accept an apology here, unless she made it in some grandiose manner like doing some huge sacrifice or taking you out to a game or a super nice dinner.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:54 AM
1

Of course you are, you can't learn football by jumping into an NFL game. You'll get fucking destroyed. I meant that we should practice on chicks that are equally and somewhat higher in hotness than the guy, and not on ugly ones, or obviously out of league ones
/r/askTRP14/12/15 02:41 AM
3

Experience is an unforgiving teacher. My ex is like this. Man I loved her, and she used every single opportunity to use that against me. Sad, really.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 01:55 AM
1

No, I do it because I have a trigger happy ex wife that likes to stalk my main and I don't need to hand her crazy ass any ammo.
/r/seduction14/12/15 01:53 AM
2

I try not to be too edgy. Sometimes I'll be playful and sometimes I'll miss an obvious opportunity to be clever. I go by gut. Abundance mentality is a good gut guide, but if someone is faking it, they should avoid doing it during working or late night hours. Most of my banter is between 5 and 7pm.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 01:52 AM
1

"If you have sex more than three times"... Hahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahahahshhshssh
/r/seduction14/12/15 12:53 AM
3

Well done. It won't get better -- only worse. In time, you'd have been the "cause" of her "problems", and if you thought you were powerless to fix them then, ooh buddy you ain't seen nothing yet.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 12:41 AM
3

Feminists are sometimes known to break down in the presence of a strong man. Pass a few shit tests and she might melt.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 12:32 AM
1

Sick burn. That guy is a troll.
/r/askTRP14/12/15 12:29 AM
2

Where is this 24 hour thumb rule come from?
/r/askTRP14/12/15 12:25 AM
1

There you go, making assumptions again. You are such a sleuth. I am so inexperienced! I don't even know what an alt/throwaway is! Surely you do, right?
/r/seduction13/12/15 06:11 AM
1

Don't practice on ugly chicks. It's like pretending to get better at a sport by playing with/against shitty players.
/r/askTRP13/12/15 04:04 AM
1

As a rule of thumb, it is unwise to comment on matters you're unfamiliar with. I know how strong the temptation is for anonymously and safely acting holier than someone else on reddit, but save yourself the time you're wasting. If you don't like my opinion, use the system and vote, then move on.
/r/seduction13/12/15 04:02 AM
1

But getting all of that back isn't impossible or doesn't require surgery.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 11:50 PM
1

Not even man enough to tell the truth
/r/seduction12/12/15 11:50 PM
3

This is not necessarily true. Men age well and women don't, and wasting a certain amount of time on a relationship is much easier on a man.
/r/TheRedPill12/12/15 09:59 PM
3

I'm gonna oversimplify here, and I'll allow someone else with more time to add some detail, but you can look at this from a marketing perspective. Things go up in value when they're in demand regardless of what the source of the demand is, the value of the people that are causing the demand has a positive correlation with this effect. Which is to say, if ugly chicks flock to you your value will go up, but not as much as if you're being flocked by hot chicks. Now just because something is in dema…
/r/askTRP12/12/15 08:30 PM
0

You really showed me, going into my posting history and downvoting a bunch of stuff, bitch
/r/seduction12/12/15 07:41 PM
1

I agree with matrix to a degree. If you don't fuck her you will definitely ruin any chances of a LTR. Women develop feelings after they get fucked. The problem with hoes is that this process is broken. Fuck a 25 year old virgin and you'll practically be cleared for marriage. Don't fuck this girl and she'll think you're a fairy fag, the opposite of the kind of guy she likes. OR, end up in a sexless relationship, if that's what she's looking for (wherein she'll get her fill elsewhere). Lose-lose.
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:27 PM
1

It does if the pattern is to jump from short term relationship to short term relationship. She doesn't want to move forward because this is where she wants to be. As soon as she finds a guy she likes better she wants to bounce to the next pod.
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:23 PM
1

Of how they're a special snowflake.
/r/seduction12/12/15 03:21 PM
4

That's the bottom line. "My brother is such a manipulator. I can see it but no one else can! How can he get away with this?" Does his homework "Oh this is not manipulation, I do this so he doesn't fail." Guess what buddy - your mom is probably carrying a similar thought process. You are just as much a bitch in this as she is. THAT is the method if manipulation, you care too much about me to let me fail
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:32 PM
0

I was butthurt. I fucking hate flakes. Faking abundance mentality is hard enough. I have some of it, I have a rather stable plate that I use as a source of that mentality, although I'm getting sick of her as she seems to be investing too much and leaving shit behind at my house. First world problems
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:30 PM
0

Irrational confidence? Not sure I follow.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 03:24 PM
-1

You are so meta right now
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:15 PM
0

I was trying to not sound butthurt while also pointing out that she wasted my valuable time. Maybe there's no good way to do that. I see your point. I am pretty clever at texting game after the relationship is somewhat established but need more work pre-1st-date. I'll try your suggestion of keeping it logistics only.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:04 PM
0

You're right. Maybe I'm not. I recall the main sub post about not discussing the game. It's too late for this one.
/r/askTRP10/12/15 02:00 PM
1

"Nothing casual about it, at my age it takes a lot of energy to get a boner."
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:29 PM
1

This is a good agree and amplify.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:28 PM
1

A large component of an accent is his vowels are carried out. English is one of the languages were vowels have many different sounds, unlike Spanish, Japanese, etc. which have "ah, eh, eeh, oj, ooh". I don't know polish so can't comment on that. Listen to individual words, and try to imitate the exact mouth shape and sound of the vowels. Soon you will get it.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:25 PM
1

I do recommend approaching satisfactorily attractive women to practice, while still trying super hot ones, as you determine your SMV and learn the system better.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:18 PM
1

I do. But what's the purpose if that guilt? You should only feel it if you're being dishonest. If the woman knows you're not exclusive there is no reason to feel guilty. Now, if you have tasked about being in a LTR then you shouldn't fuck around. A man doesn't lie unless he absolutely must.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 01:14 PM
2

I concur. Also get off your phone. It's not sexy.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 07:21 AM
4

Facepalm Emojis are for chicks. We don't need to inflect a smile. If anything, emoji this: 👤
/r/seduction07/12/15 06:16 AM
1

Not my responsibility to fix that
/r/askTRP07/12/15 06:11 AM
2

Sounds like my second wife. Bitch is crazy but she'll do whatever I tell her to do. Hot to Trot by definition.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:42 AM
1

Definitely an area for development here. We focus rather strongly on women about to hit the wall. That generation is quickly coming to pass and we must refine our strategy to match a new sexual market.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:39 AM
2

Are you implying that IF is a joke? There is a very obvious link between calorie intake and life expectancy. Living longer and aging slower is pretty serious. Now if you just want to be a meathead for the sake of it that's your body.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:37 AM
1

Your dread game will hurt him. She'll be conditioned to realize that listening to him will cause her pain.
/r/askTRP07/12/15 05:35 AM
2

Science is not on your side. Numerous studies have shown that IF is a very effective dietary technique for endurance, weight loss, and overcoming plateaus - two of those are directly related to lean body mass.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 07:19 PM
5

Reasonable. Although I wouldn't rely on her to deliver that message. Might as well do it yourself, although based on what you told me about him you risk appearing threatened if you do. Laughing him off may be a better option at the moment. It'd be satisfying to stick your tongue in her mouth if he's ever a witness to both of you at the same time.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 07:15 PM
1

1- high intensity training. E.g. running at max heart rate for 30 seconds and reduce intensity for 90, and do it for 10 minutes every other day 2- intermittent fasting. E.g. skip breakfast and have a coffee without creamer instead. Other forms of IF exist that are harsher but more effective, such as eating only every other day, the latter I'd only recommend for two to three weeks max 3- cut out carbs from your diet. E.g. I make a crockpot on Monday of beef sausage and veggies, and eat out of thi…
/r/askTRP06/12/15 06:59 PM
39

You're not getting very good advice here. I think you behaved rather well. You forced good dread and got her to explain herself. You kept your frame and drew her into yours. Don't let others persuade you into thinking that LTRs are bad. Oneitis is only an issue when you're pursuing and getting nothing in return. If this chick is good she's good. But do evaluate whether you'd rather be with someone else or by yourself. And find out who this orbiter bitch is. If he's within physical range when you…
/r/askTRP06/12/15 06:54 PM
2

Solid point. If a man is busy being a man the behaviors that attract high value women will flow naturally. Playing a game for the sake of seeming like a real man but not actually being one is zero sum.
/r/seduction06/12/15 06:22 PM
2

I've heard that from people that don't find any women. People watch what you do a lot more than what you say. Show up at parties with different women every time and they will never ask again.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 06:01 PM
2

They are disrespecting him by implying that they're better than him because they're all in relationships and he's not. They're testing to see if he's incapable of getting a woman. This can not be tolerated. What he should do is show up at office parties with a different hot chick every time. That will shut them the fuck up real quicklike.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 06:00 PM
1

Tickle is right. Until the day you have offspring, you're your top priority.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:55 PM
2

Fuck a hot chick. It'll clean you up pretty good.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:54 PM
1

It's important you realize that DT is a bad diagnosis. A leader that inspires others in a positive manner is not Machiavellian or a narcissist etc., it's just that such a person jives well with today's fucked up women. A DT will never lead a life with a positive outcome. Just work on yourself and your confidence, and when a DT tries to dominate you, annihilate them.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:53 PM
2

"Leave to think for a few days" = GTFO but it'll be easier to tell you to not come back if you're out of the house and in your own. So leave. And don't contact her at all. Let her hamster, if you don't say a word, it'll dread her into thinking that it's her fault you cheated. The hamster wheel spins in both directions.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:50 PM
2

Facebook groups are gay as hell. Guys that congregate in these are weird and/or old. Your interests are fairly common in men, a few meetup groups could unlock a network.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:48 PM
6

If she insists on social media, get something that doesn't lead to orbiting as that what she may want. Kik and snapchat come to mind. Let her follow you on IG but don't follow her back. Do not like any of her posts. They will hamster at why you're not validating them. Anyway, when you're on kik or snapchat, be short and to the point. You'll do better if you have weed and alcohol honestly. Young girls like bad boys that don't shower them with attention -- they can get attention anywhere else. If …
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:43 PM
4

This is an unfortunate reality. To hook up with the best legal pussy we have to operate in the space of these younger women. It's a bit mysterious, and weird, and the rules are unwritten. I'd study the Instagram and Twitter feeds of successful young men and get a sense of how they behave. We should probably have some sidebar material on this game.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:35 PM
2

You can't know what a perfect girl is until you've dated a bunch of good women. For all you/we know, this girl is just OK, or slightly sub-par, but seems perfect in comparison to the shit you've had to put up with. Central to the red pill is that no woman is perfect, or special, and that this attitude leads to "putting the pussy on a pedestal", which leads to you getting walked over and taken advantage of. There are BILLIONS of women in the world, can't speak specifically to your vicinity since …
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:32 PM
3

Ask her what she's listening to. A response on music or a podcast or an audiobook unlocks a treasure trove of topics. If she's short on her response you may have to unlock more interest but at this point you're back in the regular conversation game.
/r/askTRP06/12/15 05:19 PM
-2

There is literally zero risk of this happening as long as you're not a dick. A woman will not risk ruining her reputation and image just because a guy saw her out. It doesn't give her the validation she seeks. Edit: keep downvoting me, I'll be too busy with my repeat pussy to care. I guess this sub has more bitches than I expected -- which is good, because it means our attendance is up
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 03:06 PM
1

Clearly you don't understand TRP, or you're reading up on the less educated members. We love women, and we love ourselves. We hold ourselves to a standard and expect to be respected.
/r/seduction06/12/15 02:59 PM
2

I was the same way. After reading TRP and a few months of struggle internalizing (or... swallowing), I rarely not close on a new female acquaintance.
/r/seduction04/12/15 11:04 PM
5

He seems to be new to this. He's getting it slowly. We're all insecure in some way or the other, and though he slipped he didn't fall -- I'm proud of him recognizing his beta behaviors and trying to rise above them. Being TRP doesn't mean be a dick. It means stand up for yourself and never apologize for who you are unless you absolutely must. We're here to better ourselves and be supportive.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 03:42 PM
-6

Today called, offering your balls back.
/r/seduction28/11/15 03:33 AM
-4

This is stupid, and so are you. Peace out, Internet tough guy
/r/seduction28/11/15 03:32 AM
-39

As per usual, you give some decent advice while also giving some cringe-inducing advice. Such as "using an emoticon so she knows you're kidding". Never fucking emoticon an emotion. It's gay as fuck. And the truth is, having text game is tryhardy and defeats the core concept of TRP - having an abundance of options and a shortage of time leads to direct and decisive action. Anything else and you're pretending to have these things. Instead of teaching people how to pretend, teach them how to do. An…
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:25 AM
1

Certainly don't apologize again. Act like nothing happened and be totally cool and not but their, but also like you were never together. Make her seek you by having her feel like you couldn't care less that she stays or leaves. There's your frame. She may or may not come back. Genuinely act like you don't give a shit because you're so abundant.
/r/seduction01/11/15 04:30 AM
1

You've had to have read this before: don't argue with a woman. It will either go nowhere or you will lose. The only way you can win is to deny the argument. You've already lost frame by getting all pissed so walking away late is still better than never. These texts are not meant to start a conversation, they're like sonar pings from a submarine, meant to see if you're at all interested. If you were not being intimate with her, she's looking for you to continue orbiting her, and you need to GTFO.…
/r/seduction31/10/15 01:54 PM
0

Lying makes you an even bigger bitch. Check yourself.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/15 05:07 AM
2

Well said. OP is being a dick and is pretending to be someone he's not.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 09:32 PM
1

You're a sad excuse for a member of this team. You don't get why it is we're here. How about you contribute, instead of pouncing on the opportunity to call someone else a bitch? I bet that's it - you've been called a bitch so many times you can't help but to seize some low hanging fruit. I guess I ain't helping by pointing out that you're being a bitch.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 09:04 PM
1

There's other ways to make it different. Play a rape fantasy, lick her butthole, cum in her mouth, call her a slut, have sex at the JCPenney dressing room. You can make her into a new lay just by doing different stuff in the bedroom.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 09:00 PM
1

Is she unattractive to you? Is she bad in bed? Does her pussy smell or taste bad? I separated from my wife and have had sex with about ten women since, and while it's been fun and educational, I still prefer my wife because she's such a dirty slut in bed and her pussy is wonderful.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:21 PM
2

Some women. There are women out there that will partner with a man and create a strong union and team. Some out there are capable, and need to be prodded. And some, like you imply, are just shit.
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:18 PM
29

I feel bad for every one of you fucks. All of you, pounding away at your keyboard or phone screens, about how much of a retard and a loser this guy was. A beta bitch will never learn. Like you were never a beta or a bitch, like you've never made a mistake. He just lost his fucking father. A real man feels bad for the poor sap and will tell him "you'll never make this mistake again." Being dominant does NOT mean be an asshole. Being an asshole means exactly that - an asshole - and you will never …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 02:16 PM
1

They're instantly deleted by the automoderator.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 04:18 PM
-2

That's why I lost it to a fat chick, because it makes an excellent benchmark!
/r/askTRP19/10/15 03:28 AM
1

RemindMe! 2 weeks gym bully
/r/askTRP18/10/15 08:27 PM
1

No, option regarding sharing something interesting to the RP community.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 08:21 PM
13

Get his membership revoked. Get others involved. Get all 21st century on his ass.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 01:54 AM
1

President is mostly right. - if it went well, try to schedule a second date at the end of the first. This clears up her mind about whether you were attracted to her. They don't necessarily know what to do either and you'll give her something to be excited (or wet) about. - ask her to txt you when she gets home to make sure she's safe. When she does, she'll spill something about a good time or what not, and simply reciprocate. - follow up on the plans you made during bullet one. - ??? - profit
/r/seduction18/10/15 12:16 AM
1

Don't develop rapport on tinder or text, it never translates to real life and it often sets up some sort of expectation in both of your minds. Have a short conversation and escalate: "you seem really cool and low risk for a stalker. We should meet up". When she agrees, get the number, and open the text with immediate plans to meet up. If she waffles she's a pen pal and those are the worst. Hard next any that refuse to meet within a few days.
/r/seduction18/10/15 12:12 AM
3

Thank you for that - we go on and on about how smoking is bad but few men ever teach their girls that being a slut is bad.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 08:29 PM
1

Can't participate in TRP main yet, and don't know any other outlets to share. What's my best option?
/r/askTRP17/10/15 08:28 PM
1

Your female boss has had to compete with male peers and appeal to male superiors, and it's been very hard for her because there was nothing she could do to hold them accountable. All of a sudden someone that reports to her is acting like a jock. She. Will. Crush. You. If you apologize to her she will see you as a weakling as none of these people that she competed with ever did - and she will crush you even harder. You only have a short window to get this resolved. Do not apologize, but get your …
/r/askTRP17/10/15 05:34 AM
1

If your profile just says CS and doesn't break down the acronym, I would say "I'm not the one that's supposed to be degreed in sucking cock" You may get unmatched, but if you don't, you took a hard turn into fun street. This filtering scheme may not be 100% effective in keeping your list full of sluts but if you can bring up sex in a funny way you're golden.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 04:16 AM
10

You may be in anaphylactic shock. See a doctor, or eat some more, same result
/r/seduction17/10/15 03:46 AM
9

You're right. There's no alphas or betas. Just schmucks who will date a hooker because she's way out of their league.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 10:55 PM
1

I would do that for a fling but maybe not for an LTR candidate. I don't want to deal with the "you used to cook for me".
/r/askTRP16/10/15 07:40 PM
1

He seems to, because he's not the one at risk of relapsing.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 04:32 PM
24

You're full of shit. Having an abortion is emotionally disturbing, and pretending this is about tingles is retarded at best.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 03:57 AM
2

Even better. Make sure you're original in your approach.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 03:53 AM
1

To be fair, I blind swipe.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 02:35 AM
1

That's funny, I've seen one of those pictures (the illusion) as a tinder bot.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:15 AM
1

I have a full beard and have met a lot of women that don't like it. But those that do love the shit out of it (not literally)
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:14 AM
1

No, he's using TRP as an excuse to pretend she's not there and so he doesn't shit his pants.
/r/askTRP16/10/15 01:12 AM
1

I actually recognized you were from India and I said Middle Easterner mistakingly, thinking that Indians fit that name. I just learned that they do not. Anyway, I still need to see the text you used in your profile.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:59 PM
7

You're an attractive guy with a well defined face and should be getting more matches. You gotta lose the popped collar, makes you look like a douche and not in a good way. The cargo pants look cheap and unkempt. Beard looks good. You may be fighting stereotyping as middle eastern men are sometimes seen mysoginistic (did I spell that right?) PM me (or reply here) with your profile text. That matters too. Funny works best. Don't be an obvious slut. Don't state your intentions. Don't leave it blank…
/r/askTRP15/10/15 05:02 PM
2

She can't replace me because I already dumped her.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 04:42 PM
1

PM me. I've studied online attractiveness and done a lot of testing. Also, I recommend you read OkTrends: http://blog.okcupid.com - it's a brilliant and hilarious and insightful look into the statistics of online dating. There are a few posts that deal with the art of the profile pic and text, the rest of the blog is useful to read for other reasons.
/r/askTRP15/10/15 02:00 PM
1

You're not an older guy, fuck you. Maybe it's just the 35 year old in me talking D-:
/r/seduction15/10/15 01:17 PM
1

It's a valid point, but I mostly acted naturally and without worry throughout the night. I'm really only dissecting the evening in a post-event analysis. I wasn't listening to everything and asking myself "is this a shit test? I must pass it", for example, she expressed that she thought IPA beers smell like hobos. I told her, I used to not like them, but now I do, and I was getting one anyway. She said, if you get it, then I should sit at the other end of the table, to which I replied "if you ha…
/r/seduction15/10/15 12:06 PM
-6

Sounds like you care more about him than ever. TRP success story right here folks.
/r/ExRedPill15/10/15 03:31 AM
5

I just put a Mexican woman I was dating in the friend zone. She sent me a whatsapp saying that she loved me. That immediately soured the whole thing, and I ignored her for a few weeks which made her go fucking insane. (I'm aware that was a dick move but whatever). Recently I reached out to her to tell her it was best to take a step back. Her answer, literally (but translated): You will always have a friend here. Let me know if you want to talk. It's best to be honest about things we feel. You're…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:45 AM
2

Women get fat for many reasons other than marriage, same with guys. Reducing this to a "factoid" belies the complexity of the issue. Marriage is indeed a higher form of commitment, in the sense that it is much harder to cut clean. Girlfriend? Dump her and you're done. Marriage? Months or years of legal squabble and thousands of dollars and dozens of hours to attorneys and courts. It's naive to think that LTR is a greater commitment. If anything, it's a stronger motivator for performance.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 12:41 AM
1

Lose the :p and maybe it won't look like a middle school text. It looks lame on paper, and if you imagine the person sticking their tongue out, it looks even gayer. Would you banter like that in person?
/r/seduction14/10/15 08:07 PM
1

I just did EXACTLY this on Tuesday, checked out her nails and a ring, teased her, passes a few shit tests, she was investing in the conversation, everything was great. At the end of the night she seemed open to a kiss, and right after I landed it, she had this awkward nervous look on her face. She thanked me for the night and that was that. Next day at lunchtime I sent her a very casual "had a great time, looking forward to the next one, <some anchor comment about IPA's>". Never heard from her a…
/r/seduction14/10/15 07:57 PM
1

I agree. If she wanted to go she'll put in some investment. She did suggest you remind her, which is bullshit, but you have nothing to lose by giving her that reminder. If she says anything other than "yes" or "no, but we can hang out on xxx day" then never talk to her again. Definitely do not keep trying.
/r/seduction14/10/15 07:51 PM
1

Possibly.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 06:58 PM
2

Does this include customer service reps or do you insist on males?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:36 PM
2

I had a date set for today with a woman I'm seeing, and she tried to reschedule the day before (yesterday) because she was on her period - to a date about two weeks away because we both travel a lot. I allowed my ego to take over and I expressed disappointment and butthurt, and this slowly became an accidental shit test that I failed over and over. At some point, I started ignoring her and I went to sleep. The next morning, she texts me good morning and hope that we can still talk over the next …
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 06:35 PM
0

I like "who is this" more. When/if she responds then you can ignore her. Teach her a lesson, maybe do some other dude a favor.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 03:12 PM
1

You're a fucking troll and you say dumb shit all the time, but I get the sense that you genuinely don't give a shit about anything.
/r/askTRP14/10/15 04:14 AM
2

I'm a bit new to this but not so new at dominating situations. It was a bit overdone and creepy to be honest. And you called her an ugly child. I'd just not respond. If she writes back it'll be blown over but don't fuck it up again. The more RP thing would've been to ignore her as soon as your buddy showed up. Women fucking hate it and will do whatever they can to get their attention back. Maybe even send you that picture you're fishing for!
/r/askTRP14/10/15 04:07 AM
1

Relevant username, FFS
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:42 AM
1

If my sister heard you she'd laugh. Just like I am right now.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 12:17 AM
1

In case you were too dumb to figure out context clues.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 11:11 PM
2

Only bitches say things like "LMAO". Grow the fuck up.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 01:26 PM
3

I realize that's a mistake, that's why I'm here. I'm not looking for wife #3. I'm also 35, having two serious long term relationships is not insane. The only difference is that two of mine were legally recognized. Not trying to rationalize - I'm over marriage - but I'm looking into getting character insight and not a useless word such as "delusional". Especially since I'm clearly not, a delusional person wouldn't be holding themselves accountable for crappy behavior in the past and look to impro…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 05:51 PM
2

IG is for orbiters. If you know these chicks in real life go after them that way. Maybe have an IG and post cool shit but don't follow them. You'll just be another penny in their drawer if you do, the day they realize you're the one guy not following them it'll grab their attention.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:36 PM
1

Honestly, if she's playing a game like this, I'm not interested in feelers. I don't think it bodes well for some chick to treat me like a runner-up from the get-go but I don't know if this is something that can be corrected.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:05 AM
1

How is it weak? I've seen myself responding similarly and for legitimate reasons. I want to agree with you but I don't clearly see how.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:04 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter