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I don't know what kind of weird strain of feminism that is. Its a mainstream one.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 03:35 PM
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You didnt tell me how i was wrong, you just told me what i already know.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/18 12:53 AM
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Generally the only chicks that fall for these stunts are young chicks (check that out, shocker!) and abused chicks. I see this claim a lot and I don't know how you can rule out selection bias. You're missing data. You know how many guys you've caught using pickup tactics, but you don't have the number of guys you didn't catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:27 PM
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How exactly do you think women live single? Eating a lot of pastries and frozen dinners and that is from personal observation. Not that there aren't women who can cook, though it seems like most girls who "can cook" mostly just know how to make desserts. I've never met a girl under 40 who can make a solid healthy and tasty dinner from scratch.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 06:20 PM
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Even if you go clubbing, most of the guys flock the attractive ones The confident ones go for the hottest girls. The guys down to meet average girls also have average confidence ie they aren't "flocking" to anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:50 PM
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Women's "normal" is quite a ways right on the bell curve of men. Just like how some men's "normal" woman isn't fat, which is also on the right side of the bell curve of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:49 PM
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Being told to depend on a man to take care of you is the opposite of feminism. Its not "Being told to depend on a man to take care of you". Its being told that if somebody places expectations on you (especially if that person is a man), they are being sexist and/or oppressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/02/18 05:42 PM
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I have to assume you're trolling. Nobody can seriously think and write like this, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/17 12:03 AM
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How great the guys they are banging are changes over time though. Thats the real "wall".
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/17 12:14 AM
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What excess men? In the US and most Western nations there isnt a huge difference in the male and female populations. On what evidence are people basing the theory that a significant number of these men and women will be spending their lives single?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 08:04 AM
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I think you might be the exception, not the rule. And when I hear stuff like this I just assume some failings on the mans part. This subreddit has taught me that a lot of guys are apparently really, really bad at pleasuring women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/17 08:01 AM
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Has a guy ever gone down on you? Done anything to just make you feel physical pleasure? I'm trying to figure out why you see it as almost a service to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 09:19 PM
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I mean, you have the top comment in that thread. I think what you said is what most people agree with.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/17 04:12 PM
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So you're not worried about permanent damage? Its the main thing that concerns me, along with the legal issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 12:44 AM
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We can watch Netflix and play video games with our cats, instead of facing the anxiety, danger, and even sheer terror going out on a date with a stranger brings. Girls and guys are different in many, many ways, but they both start to feel lonely after doing this for long enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/17 12:43 AM
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why do I still have to spend an ungodly amount of time making myself up every day Do you? It was never an issue for me. I guess he had higher physical standards than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/17 12:18 AM
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I can't just say "come fuck me"? You can (usually), guys can't. /r/deadbedrooms exists. People thinking marriage locks the attraction in place are the first to experience problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:52 PM
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Uh, ok
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 11:51 PM
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A lot of these girls[NSFW] around you know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:53 AM
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haha is that some sort of ultimate goal, not to be single? Well I tried for the longest time to believe I was perfectly fine being single after the last breakup, and while its not terrible, I like having a girl in my life. Its not my sole goal in life though. Its one of several. Don't beg and plead for things that others get for free. I agree, don't beg or plead. If anything its the best way to kill attraction. waste your life chasing pussy I used to say this a lot. The biggest problem I have fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:48 AM
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Attention, which is what she has wanted from the start and she certainly got.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:08 AM
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Is it wrong? Yes. And its completely unhelpful. Its anti-helpful. I want all of these men to list out their worst fears and then face them one by one, in their own way. See how long they stay single. That fight will make them feel alive, I promise. I'm fighting it in my own way right now and every little victory feels amazing. But I know that if you have nobody there to push you, it can take a long time to get in the right mindset to make the fight possible. It's annoying? why Because it gets in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 02:05 AM
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PPD isn't an extremist circle jerk, TRP is though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:54 AM
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There's too much negativity on redditt Especially here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:50 AM
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I said "not-fat", not average. I don't think its extreme to want a girl who isn't fat. You just will have to do more work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 01:49 AM
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It's a fair cop
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:59 AM
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We don't. Welcome to the subreddit, nobody really knows anything. Maybe we're all obese landwhales.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:53 AM
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I actually think reds would have just as much as an incentive since they are the ones concerned with "proving" TRP works Reds are more willing to talk about all the problems they had operating on blue pill ideas, since they no longer defend those ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:46 AM
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That subreddit is the extremist circle jerk
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:44 AM
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harbouring resentment and rehashing it at every opportunity... Strawman
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:43 AM
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Blues have more of an incentive to cherry-pick I never said I knew they did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/17 12:42 AM
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No it helps to ask the basic questions of "what have you done to make yourself more appealing? How many girls have you actually approached after this self improvement?" I never said anything about who deserves what. Why do girls always read male sexual entitlement into everything?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:55 PM
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Yeah I agree, but I always try to respond to complaints with suggestions. I feel like shitting on negative people just makes everything even more negative for no reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:51 PM
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Blues have more of an incentive to cherry-pick the good in their relationships though. Who knows really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:48 PM
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Sorry to say but if you can only attract fat women, that's your league and exactly what you deserve You wont even tell them "then improve yourself"? Pretty negative attitude. I'm glad you aren't their "friend".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:47 PM
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I agree with a lot of the general theory about the nature of relationships, though I think the whole cock carousel needs to be replaced with more realistic concepts of serial monogamy. In general TRP is good at describing the traits you need to be more sexually attractive. I've gone back and forth on the relationship thing but I think they do demonize relationships and marriage a bit too much, even if I agree that marriage is often a bad idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:44 PM
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Yeah anybody who works to develop a social circle (and is already fit, good hygene, etc) will find somebody (by "find" I mean have an opportunity to ask a single girl out, but you still have to initiate because you're the man). I think the hard part is finding groups within your own age range, depending on your location. Some groups are mostly married older people.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:40 PM
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I think most of us just don't think it's the PRIMARY female sexual strategy or the one most women end up needing to engage in. I sincerely hope you are right
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:35 PM
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You can simplify that down even more simply: the problem is fear, and the inability to face it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:30 PM
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The issue is that anything less than casual sex on demand with lots of smoking hot women is considered unfair and not good enough This seems like a strawman to me. A lot of the complainers are complaining about not getting not-fat women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:28 PM
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The defeatism on this subreddit is super fucking annoying and it keeps trying to bring me down, because my foundation is far from perfectly solid. Please, guys, for the love of god read some Epictetus.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:26 PM
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unless Chad means any man that can pick up a woman irrespective of his appearance, height, income, car, personality anything I appreciate the people on here who talk about how a better concept of Chad would be the one who dominates within certain circles, and isn't one specific type of person.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/17 11:24 PM
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Guy standards where you're writing code at 3 AM for some game mod that nobody will ever even play
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 11:17 PM
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In my opinion if you see a girl who expects an expensive lifestyle, run the other way. Unless you're so filthy rich that it hardly matters. Good luck with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:57 PM
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the person you're going to spend your life with needs to bring more than good looks to the table. You're right, but its not necessarily money. Just being good, and being intelligent is more than enough. Being successful doesn't really matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:54 PM
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By "out" I assume you mean clubs and bars mostly?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:37 PM
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I'm not sure if they are serious. With girls at least, being sexually skilled really isn't what it going to get a ONS, being fun and charming and hot will. Alcohol plays a part as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:34 PM
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I feel like one day that girl is going to have sex and a switch in her head is going to flip
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:24 PM
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Well what did you change?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 10:19 PM
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I get screamed at/ followed/ wolf whistled pretty much every day Where do you live? This must be a big city thing. I never see catcalling.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:48 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/17 07:46 PM
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Well of course there are going to be men who don't compete well and they either go incel or find a bottom of the barrel girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/17 10:54 AM
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Whats worse, shitting on people or shitting on people and feeling good about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/17 12:02 AM
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First, behavior: The key finding in the study is that the number of Americans who self-reported having had at least one same-sex encounter since age 18 jumped significantly from the early 1990s to the early 2010s. For women, the percentage more than doubled, increasing from 3.6 percent to 8.7 percent; for men, it nearly doubled, going from 4.5 percent to 8.2 percent. “The increase … appeared consistently across all age groups to those in their 50s and inconsistently for those in their 60s, 70s, …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:31 PM
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I'm not denying that people cannot be conditioned, obviously they can, I'm arguing that the things you are talking about are not the result of that. Just because you can condition physical responses in dogs does not in any way provide evidence for the claim that the reason people love to eat cake and donuts is because cake and donut manufacturers somehow managed to condition them to that level. Its such an absurd claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 11:22 PM
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I disagree, at least when it comes to how The Rational Male described this and my own experiences. What it means is that they don't want it so based on their own accomplishments, strength, confidence, etc. and more based on being good to their partner. Its the whole beta dream. It is not unconditional. Its only that male conditions and female conditions are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:58 AM
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this is hardly controversial. Our love of sugar being driven more by ads than by our bodies desire for calories is what I would call highly controversial. Do we also only like going on roller coasters because ads tell us it is fun? Just because its easy to say that ads drive all of our desires doesn't mean that its true
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 10:52 AM
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its even more looks based then tinder I don't know if you have, but I have experience with this. You are very wrong. It is looks based (men do care about looks a lot), but it is very different. On Tinder, average girls are flooded with messages, average guys struggle to get responses. On gay dating apps, you can be a totally average guy and set up a threesome with virtually no effort. And just like with straight guys, men are more diverse in tastes, so if you're a big hairy dude there are tons o…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/17 02:44 AM
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Gay dudes are very lucky, anybody who has spent time on PPD has probably appreciated this at some point. They get to cheat on the SMP, because supply and demand are both high for almost everyone. The only downside is slightly more difficulty finding and maintaining LTRs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:40 PM
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I would but its too risky. I'm just starting my career, getting caught with that shit would destroy me, then I would be much worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:36 PM
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When feminists talk about the societal influence of patriarchal attitudes and prejudices What they call patriarchal attitudes are just different attitudes about the sexes, and I'd argue that is mostly biological, some of the best evidence being just how universal it is across cultures (with cultural influences selecting the degree, but not the existence of these attitudes) Nobody can escape it, not the MRA's and not the feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:32 PM
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She moved on quicker that means that all women move on quicker which means that women were evolutionary bred to move on quick due to having been war brides for thousands of years. TRP explanations for things typically start with observations of aggregates and then get applied to individuals, not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:27 PM
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We learn to associate sugary food with treats when we're kids and all the marketing that happens for chocolate and sweets 100% effects our perception of them Most adults associate sweets with gaining weight, but they eat them anyway because they taste really fucking good. I don't think marketing has anything to do with it at all. How much marketing did you even see for this stuff as a kid? I grew up without watching TV, I never saw ads for this stuff except on very rare occasions. The reason we …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:26 PM
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Got off whatever ungodly reason (probably being attractive) In what way is that a sexual obsession with her? I don't disagree at all that women sometimes get reduced (or no) sentences just for being female. Its just not a comparable phenomenon. That is society - men and women - valuing women more and giving them more benefit of the doubt. Its not personal. Individuals sending love letters to other individuals is very personal. Men are just as bad if not worse. I disagree completely. Here we come…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/17 11:16 PM
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Being a total asshole will not maximize your sexual success, but being an asshole will give you much more sexual success than being a super polite, sweet guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 11:28 PM
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I think the point is more akin to "why do girls do this and not guys?" You don't see guys sending love letters to the women who drowned their children and whatnot. Even if its just some kind of psychological issue, its still a gendered one.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 11:27 PM
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So what happens when we take the great into automation we humans no longer have the option to create value to somebody else? You're coming up with a very generalized scenario that doesn't really fit well with reality and asking me to disprove it. That is not what automation does. It just changes how easily you can create value for somebody else. If you have managed to make a society where massive amounts of value is created with virtually no human input, you're in utopia, not hell. I don't get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/17 11:25 PM
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God damn what year is it, 1995?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:55 PM
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Butts are certainly more "fashionable" now, because having a good butt is an indication that a woman does squats on the regular I don't think thats it. I don't think butts were ever not fashionable. Boob and butt size in media has increased as more media has gotten more overtly sexual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:54 PM
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Awwww yessss
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:43 PM
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Where do you nerd girls go? I still can't seem to figure it out. I will probably go to my first anime convention soon, but I have a feeling its mostly going to be teenagers and such, and mostly dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:43 PM
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But it seems to me that the fun loving, appearance obsessed party girls are most sought after They are the most visibly sought after because you aren't going to witness the cute introvert being chased by confident guys since she is in her house not at a club. I wrote that top paragraph after only reading the first two sentences lol. Now I see that you understand this as well. Growing up I was an introverted bookworm and even the nerdy guys didn't want me Did they turn you down or were they too s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:41 PM
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See how the young men of Islam happily volunteer to annihilate themselves in horrifying numbers I don't think its getting laid or not getting laid that is the problem. Its just kind of what you expect when a conquering warlord starts a successful religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:33 PM
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I have no idea. I don't get it. Its absolutely everywhere on the porn side of the internet. Sister this, brother that, mom this, dad that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:31 PM
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The only reason - the only reason - that you matter to the system is because you can create value for it Which "system"? You're being way too general here to make any kind of sense. The free market absolutely rewards those that create value for it. Making good investments is creating value for it. That is why people who invested in Apple back when they were a bunch of nerds in a garage have now been rewarded handsomely. What use will any of us be to those who own it? What do you mean? I am sayin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 11:30 PM
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I saw this video by Boston Dynamics the other week, and realized hard manual labor won't be a thing in highly developed countries decades from now There are a lot of assumptions there, such as the ability for machines such as those to be low-maintenance and low-power consumption, while also being capable of a wide variety of tasks for extended periods. The labor required to diagnose and fix problems with something like that is probably a good 20-50 times the cost of the manual labor itself. How …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:15 AM
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I think a lot of neo left wing solutions, like free health care, UBI, and increasing the minimum wage, are really not the way to go Mmmmm then we can all be poor and unemployed! The leftist dream.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:06 AM
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join a sex social network like adult friend finder Is this your idea of a joke
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:03 AM
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God damn gays and their easy sex lives. I will be forever jelly.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:02 AM
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but instead they're forcing themselves to do a bunch of stuff they dislike because they're been convinced that they need to be a super-social promiscuous partier to be happy I've come to realize that even if you recognize that you aren't the kind of person that loves going partying all the time, even to find a good LTR you are going to have to do the same sort of socializing regardless, unless you happen to get very lucky using other methods (like online dating).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 02:00 AM
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To be fair, there are plenty of nice girls who are not hideous, just kind of average/slightly below average (like most of us). The only problem is one you create for yourself when you demand an extremely hot girl who also has a wonderful personality and has common interests with your own and would be loyal in a marriage. That is a fairy tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:58 AM
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Marriage is not for me, apparently. Maybe you just gotta hold out for a hotty (good luck). I'm totally down for a less-than-pretty girl, as long as "ugly" doesn't mean fat, but just fucked up teeth and a manjaw or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:17 AM
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I'm assuming that you linked that to show the impact of women in the workforce, among other factors No I linked it to directly counter the "wages are stagnating while productivity is rising" meme.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:16 AM
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They post girls there? Not a very accurate subreddit name.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 01:15 AM
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Yeah exactly. Its like somebody on here said recently, if you want a great wife, find an ugly girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 12:36 AM
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"All the good guys would rather be dating those cheating sluts than a nicegirl like me. Guess I should just be a fake bimbo if I want to get a boyfriend" I have never seen any girl say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 12:34 AM
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I wonder if more girls would be into anal if it wasn't so strictly categorized as "that painful thing that all guys want"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 12:32 AM
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Productivity is up and wages are stagnant https://aneconomicsense.org/2015/02/13/why-wages-have-stagnated-while-gdp-has-grown-the-proximate-factors/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/17 12:30 AM
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Really? Good. Because I probably will soon and its gonna be awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/17 10:18 AM
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Thats not what I understand DGAF to mean. DGAF basically means you don't fall victim to your own unnecessary fears and anxieties. You brush off rejection like its nothing, you laugh at yourself without an issue. You never take anything too seriously. Basically the stereotypical cool guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 11:19 PM
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Hey, bartender, would it be weird if an idiot like me who never drank before showed up alone to your bar and asked for your help?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 11:03 PM
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There isn't one attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 11:01 PM
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Then its a different sort of attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 02:04 AM
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Yes, every single single girl will have sex with a man they are sexually attracted too. Its built into the definition. If they aren't feeling it, then they wont do it. If they are, they will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:59 AM
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Yep. I'm at the point now where I will have sex with you if you ask and I'm attracted to you. That is literally every girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 01:50 AM
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How can this problem be overcome? Have you overcome this problem personally? Share your xp. Yes. Like anything else, the worse you have it, the harder it is to overcome. Buts its never impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/17 12:40 AM
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The only true retards are those that believe that the workings of the universe are limited to that which empirical evidence has suggested to be the case Thats fair, but church really doesn't sit on the opposite side of this argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:29 AM
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I am very tall, you are not
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:26 AM
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Do eeet
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/17 04:26 AM
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Ugh, I'd be into you even though that would be yet ANOTHER major height difference relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 11:52 PM
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Is there snything I can do to improve my league? Not really. Show pics or I wont believe you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 11:47 PM
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Literally any age. If even one girl truly thinks you'd be great to have an LTR with (and wants that), then you are now a gatekeeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 10:43 PM
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It becomes stronger, but it exists for younger guys too. Obviously if you aren't somebody who is a good marriage prospect then there isn't anything very valuable behind your gate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 10:40 PM
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I mean, if the road is 200 lanes wide and the speed limit is 100 and there is no stoplight, then you might want to spend a long time waiting for juuuuussssttt the right moment before beginning your walk across.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 10:09 PM
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They feel it in their bones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:06 PM
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Marriage when properly thought out, with the girl vetted well and if you're both in the right mindset and share common goals will certainly work out very well more often than not. Look at how many caviats there are there. Thats why its probably a good general rule. Its a rule you should break when a lot of the right things are in place.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:05 PM
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I can't figure out what my league is. Maybe its higher than I think, maybe its lower than I think. How do I even tell?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 06:24 PM
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I don't understand your comparison. Girls not wanting to fuck tons of hot dudes isn't really the same as guys not wanting to stop playing video games. Girls are happier in relationships, which is what most of them do. Guys are fundamentally unhappy when they are addicted to video games and sugar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 05:33 PM
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People around here seem to use prude to basically mean "boring person who doesn't drink or do drugs". When it comes to sex I'm an absolute no-limits freak.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 02:51 AM
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I don't drink because I'm a boring prude, hence I have a tiny n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 09:23 PM
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Ey gurl, lemme overgraze yo commons
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 09:02 PM
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Everything we do in life is towards maximizing reproductive success Your biological utility and your purpose are two completely different things. You have not filled the logical gap between "we are biologically driven to spread our genes" and "spreading our genes is our purpose" This is fact, rejecting this means rejecting modern science. No. Science tells us nothing about what a person's purpose should be. It tells us why we have our drives for food, for sex, for companionship, etc. It does not…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:45 PM
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This is part of the reason why I really enjoy having seperate bedrooms when cohabitating. My last, and longest LTR was like that. She was bothered by the idea at first but quickly came to appreciate it. Just having that option to have your own space is really pleasant for both people. Thats kind of the mini-version of "distance".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:36 PM
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God damn the people here have fucked a lot of people. I can't even imagine having been with 30-50 people by your mid 20's. Wow. The common variable seems to be alcohol lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:33 PM
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the whole pont of life is reproduction No, it isn't. Anybody who claims to know the true point of life is a liar and/or a swindler.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:28 PM
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All you need is one good PC monitor
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:26 PM
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Not to mention more time to establish a better foundation to bring children up in.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:25 PM
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Enjoy sexual play with men near their own attractiveness level, while taking very great care to prevent disease and pregnancy. I don't think they really want to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:24 PM
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Or both! :D
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:23 PM
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It is in some people's book
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:26 PM
1

Socks with sandals is the pinnacle of alpha
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 06:26 PM
1

Most music is blue pill. Lyrics are always fantasy about chasing the one and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 04:15 AM
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Single?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:39 PM
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I'm a lonely nerdy guy with a long history with social anxiety, I currently have big goals that I'm working towards every day. And every second I spend on here is detracting from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:37 PM
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If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, make an ugly woman your wife. I'm down for that, but: ugly yes, fat no. That is dating way too far down once you get into fat territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:35 PM
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The onus is on men to provide this advice. Women will always expect men and boys to just "get it".
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:33 PM
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"I don't know what he has actually said outside of what the people I already agree with say he says, so I'm going to stick with my hugbox and show you what they think about him"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 11:01 PM
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Similar values, similar interests, not being obese, doesn't have to just be a female version of me, but I think "opposites attract" isn't a good idea for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:15 AM
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I wish there were actual nationwide statistics on prenups, including seeing what percentage were thrown out (and for what reason).
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:13 AM
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Which is not an "epic rant" lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:10 AM
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Those of us that do something that we're passionate about or genuinely enjoy are fortunate. Most people do not. This is far from unnatural. People have always had to work. Sure, when humans were living in caves and knocking rocks against trees they had more downtime, but they worked nonetheless. Working full time in a "boring office job" is much, much better than how most humans lived for most of history. If everybody "escaped the rat race" and went off to be artists and writers and dancers, we …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:10 AM
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RP's and MGTOWs can't stop titling and labeling stuff from Peterson really incorrectly. Peterson doesn't do a lot of ranting, he makes very clear and fascinating points on a variety of topics. And he is not a TRPer in any sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:03 AM
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purposely lying about the gender law thing in canada Have you watched this? They go through the details quite painstakingly, and respond to direct criticisms.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/17 01:01 AM
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I have learned from experience that its better to just not have sex. Which realistically means masturbating. Interesting how we would rather see an attractive girl but not touch, than touch an unattractive girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 06:12 AM
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That would be awesome, but those immediately get removed by the mods for silly reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:50 AM
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Country music disgusts me
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 04:09 AM
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Seems a little fucked up to use her article like that. The OP didn't say anything not consistent with the article.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/17 02:35 AM
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Yeah exactly. Everybody wants to be wanted.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 10:43 PM
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You don't dig them now? I get this impression of you being one of those girls on the back of a Harley, arms wrapped around some guy wearing aviators, a bandana, and a denim jacket.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 03:09 AM
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Only in spirit
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 12:59 AM
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motorcycle etc Its always motorcycles with you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/17 12:57 AM
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although not usually ad many as our male peers In that sort of crowd, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 11:46 PM
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They are very rare. And a lot of them are fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:45 PM
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Somebody who didn't know what critikal looked like legitimately asked me if I was critikal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:37 PM
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This subreddit is not a healthy place, for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:34 PM
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I have a very deep voice, but its also a bit nasally. So I guess I get a score of +1-1=0.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 02:34 PM
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making men feel shitty and having bad psychological consequences for men Only because they think its realistic to expect it to happen at some point because it shows up in movies, shows, music videos, memes, novels, etc so often. This is also why Reddit is an anxiety factory. People come here to read about things that are engaging. What is one thing that seems to be consistently engaging? Hearing about other people's amazing experiences (which may or may not be lies), and hearing about desires ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 12:08 AM
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guys want super porn sluts Yeah I used to disagree with this but now I think its my own projection, because every time theres a "post hot/perfect girls" of some form or another on this subreddit, theres tons of photos of airbrushed bimbos/pornstars. I don't get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:55 PM
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women don't work like that I am in 95% agreement with you. But you don't really think that a man could be so drop dead gorgeous that a girl wants him just from that? I mean the top of the top in looks, height, etc. And of course context matters (just as it does when its men looking at a hot girl). I think there are exceptions to this rule. Where looks are so overpowering that they blast through anything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:51 PM
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I have had massive social anxiety problems for a very long time, so I can read this sort of thing. Its super rare in girls. I currently know one like this and I am kind of attracted to her. Like me she tends to reject social interaction even when she doesn't really want to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 11:49 PM
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Perhaps it depends on the type of people you're around. I cannot even comprehend how being quiet can come across as snobbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:46 PM
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This is why you keep that shit way in the closet and only come out if you are actually gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 02:01 PM
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Which is funny because I have both done that while also not being attracted to dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 01:59 PM
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Yeah I love starvation too
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 01:42 PM
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Super shy girls are the cutest though. Are you sure you didn't get more attention just because you made yourself more visible with more social interaction?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 01:39 PM
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No, but maybe its best I keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 11:39 PM
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Also the entire state of California. But thats not simply mistrust, but downright disliking you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 11:36 PM
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Its a prison, I don't want to volunteer for prison.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:27 PM
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Perhaps its just my view that debt is one of the worst things in existence, and taking it on should only be saved for the most extreme situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:17 PM
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Or someone with a very good STEM degree? Lol. Its not a bad thing to have this, but it wont be wetting any panties. This alone will not give you the kind of wealth I'm talking about. Musical instrument for instance maybe ? Yeah that would be one example. What does high social status and significant wealth look like for a 22 yr old man? Well connected, possibly holds some kind of leadership role in one or several organizations. Significant wealth at 22 means either young entrepreneur or trust fun…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 02:13 PM
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Makes sense. I completely support squatting You are the ultimate SJW/hippie/post-modernist/commie stereotype at this point, on almost every conceivable level. Its fabulous.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 05:01 AM
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Accumulating debt for something that is far from immediately necessary, and is not any kind of financial investment. That is just not responsible.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:59 AM
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Anything to avoid actually learning game. Most people acknowledge that looks - at the very least - significantly lower the barrier to entry.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:57 AM
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But that would only be covering up for psychological problems People keep bringing this up, as if finding any part of yourself unattractive means you have mental issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:56 AM
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I'm sure you're just swimming in so much pussy that this is a viable option
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:55 AM
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Beauty is more biological than cultural
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:54 AM
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I shame it because people that get it have insecurity problems Or, you know, they just want to be more attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:53 AM
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That wont actually make you more physically attractive to others, which is kind of the point
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:51 AM
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This sounds like a terrible idea
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:48 AM
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if you aren't even going to acknowledge her existence as another human. "If you don't let me sleep in your home, then you're a bad person" how is this not extremely manipulative?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:46 AM
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Many things. Good genetics, some degree of physical fitness, high social status, significant wealth, charisma, several talents, etc. Top of the top.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 04:44 AM
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it's not something were out there pursuing Well you might not be pursuing purely sex, but I think girls tend to want to be in relationships with guys they are also sexually attracted to. to the guy I don't want to bang who bugs me and tries to make small talk Yes, but the only way for him to find out if you want to bang him is to talk to you. There is an information gap. So again, in terms of his interests, taking the advice of "don't bug women with conversation" will leave him alone for the res…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 05:31 PM
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Yet I still don't believe you actually do this. What we're talking about here are very male-heavy circles. Anythings possible though. And on the other point about RP, these kinds of guys are not who girls want to bang, regardless. So even if some hot girls like to talk to them, it would be what other people call "friendzoning". RP is for guys who no longer want to be that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:55 PM
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I don't think I have ever made a communist meme on this subreddit. Whenever communism comes up as a topic I either ignore it or write a bit about economization or incentives.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:42 PM
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Except there's no circumstance where you would end up talking to somebody like this, except if you're both at the same gathering for the same hobby.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:38 PM
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I don't think you actually know my understanding of communism
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:37 PM
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My feelings on Marxism!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:32 PM
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For one thing, hes not going to be very fun to talk to unless you're talking about very specific subjects. Small talk is out of the question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:31 PM
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Its a bunch of general rules. RP is much more defined. You can technically call any set of ideas an ideology, but BP isn't an organized one. Even the term itself was created by TRPers as a catch-all term for people lacking RP ideas.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:02 PM
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Lol, frankly I don't believe you. At the very least you're using the girl definition of "shy guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 03:00 PM
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Very true. And libertarians are disproportionately more on the spectrum than many other beliefs, which is in and of itself more associated with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:46 PM
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In this tiny little sphere of the internet, you will see that. Thats it. In no way is it a popular opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:44 PM
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I think it's more to do with dominion. Having dominion over the girl. Power and control. Yes as I discussed elsewhere that kind of psychology is something girls love. But I wasn't really talking about why people like or dislike anal, but why people here like talking about it so much. Fortunately my bf doesn't seem overly interested in discussing things. He's more action oriented And yet most girls say they want guys more open... ha!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:43 PM
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Yeah but thats another point isn't it. Getting noticed means a likely chance of getting shit on. Hence why RP is so obsessed with talking about risk taking. Guys who want to sleep with hot girls must learn to get used to the bitchiness. Its a perfect example of how a shit test isn't necessarily conscious on the girl's part. Whether you're trying to or not, you're filtering out the shy from the brave.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:38 PM
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Well, guys who are shy and never say anything sometimes get bitched at, but usually they are just ignored entirely. I'm not sure if that is an improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:28 PM
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Thats bull. Anal is one act that people on here love to obsess over (just as much as a lot of TRPers). There are tons of other things people might be interested in. Anal is just what bloops like to choose because it makes the guy seem like the "bad guy".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:26 PM
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BP isn't a single philosophy, its the default beliefs held by most people in the West. Its just a lack of RP. Thats what this whole debate is, whether or not RP is valid, justified, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:19 PM
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I edited in a colon to clarify lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 02:17 PM
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Cuz I gotta be, the very best STEMlord there ever was To be an erngerner is my real test To join this nerd horde is my cause!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:52 PM
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No, you're right. The cultural aspects that drive that in Japan aren't all the different than the ones in the West. Its more about biology and economics than history. America is definitely moving in that direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:50 PM
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Or maybe he should've been mature and not cheated on her because she outearned him. Wow that was quite the assumption
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:48 PM
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Never gonna happen. Most guys will take a less glamorous lifestyle to be with the person they developed an emotional attachment to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:47 PM
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Biology agrees with him. When shit goes down, men are expected to get hurt and die first. Always. Men dying is less sad than women dying. Making fun of men based on their sex is fine, doing the same for women is horrible. This is just how we are as a species. We have our roles.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:46 PM
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If you're poor, white, and male, your only hope is being really, really fucking smart. Nobody is going to help you get into college just for being poor, and absolutely nobody is going to help you for being oppressor white.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:44 PM
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men will become a targeted demographic for education and career-based programs Lol. Just..... lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:42 PM
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Women don't want to sleep with violent criminals. At least, middle class women don't. But aggression and confidence is sexy. Girls aren't aroused by wimps. Or do you disagree with that as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:39 PM
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Do majorities not have power? If we assume that women within that group make up the majority of women in that country, do you think they would have no effect on policy?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:38 PM
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Well, how much do you desire your own family, a woman's touch, etc. vs. all the other things you enjoy in life? Its cost-benefit analysis, like everything else in life. Nature is kind of an asshole, so for most of us: women come out on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:36 PM
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I thought "Chad" basically referred to a class of men who's primary common trait is the ability to attract a lot of women without having to learn anything "non-organically".
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:32 PM
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Women and men are part of that, not every man gets what he wants. Men should not be given advice that makes them succeed. Men should be given advice that makes the collective succeed. I appreciate your honesty here. Its all the more reason things like TRP, with all their flaws, must exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:29 PM
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If a woman doesn't want to perform sex favors on demand that have nothing to do with her erogenous zones and/or are in fact painful, then submitting to a millennial man is mistake. Are we now taking that one quote from TRP as the consensus? If a woman doesn't want to perform sex favors on demand that have nothing to do with her erogenous zones Take out the "on demand" (because thats silly) and I see sexual incompatibility with myself. If you view sex as nothing more than the next level of massag…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:24 PM
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why put in effort to be pleasant I think being alone would be better than living with somebody who has this kind of attitude. As if being a nice person is work. Not that I disagree with you. The difference in power has a massive, massive effect on personality. The whole "the hotter the girl, the bitchier" stereotype exists for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:12 PM
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If she isn't working for you, find someone who will and who does. And understand she will not be a hotty. A small handful of guys get to have the girls who are both.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:08 PM
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but they always wanted to go do something The thing that bothers me the most honestly
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:06 PM
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The bar seems set at "sane" Correct. An attractive girl basically is a girl who is physically pretty, and hasn't accumulated shitty personality traits. They don't have to court so they don't have to be "entertaining" and charismatic like a guy does. Guys start low and have to work hard to go upwards. Girls start high and basically move downwards at different rates depending on how they were raised, what their friends were like throughout their life, what their dietary and exercise habits are lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 01:05 PM
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I think it has a lot to do with women re-enacting scripts they've seen or read about in Cosmo to "please their man" No, because fundamentally the man initiates this sort of thing. There is nothing for them to "enact". The girl just submits. I've never had sex with a girl who wouldn't tell me if she was not enjoying something. I'm convinced most girls love it, loads of girls openly acknowledge that they love it. Obviously they are all different in how far they will take it, but I'd be surprised t…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 12:58 PM
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needs to be founded on mutual self-sacrifice and deep kindness and patience Most never meet people even close to being able to do this. I think part of RP is dealing with that reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 05:48 PM
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You ok there buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 04:12 PM
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Another unicorn to add to the list on PPD!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:22 PM
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A woman going about her life who does not want to be raped or sexually harassed is not a person demanding dignity When did anybody say anything about rape? Why do women want to fuck the kind of men they want to fuck? Why do they want to marry the men they want to marry? Why do they feel emotional attachments to these types of men in certain circumstances? Why is rape seen as something as horrible as murder? Why was rape seen as something that only happened to women for such a long time? Is it al…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:18 PM
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You treat them as a resource, not as people. People's behavior isn't effected by the resources they have? I just want you to imagine, for a moment, if somebody flipped a switch tomorrow where Women could no longer get pregnant and Men stopped finding women sexually attractive. Do you think our behavior wouldn't change as a result of this? That women's priorities wouldn't change like crazy? Leftists really have a problem with topics like this because when they see any kind of unemotional calculat…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 02:14 PM
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Thats a fictional concept of love that I think many people don't actually follow or want to follow. I don't think you can fully separate attachment and love, they are not completely different emotions.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:59 PM
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is it possible for a woman to have het sex and not be submissive? Maybe, but I've never seen it. I disagree with the person you quoted, I don't think that is inherently "the best" though it is enjoyable. In my experience, it is the kind of sex most girls enjoy. I've got all kinds of weird sexual interests, and I can't push the boundaries very far on most of it. But when it comes to taking complete control, choking, spanking her hard, spitting on her face, etc. the girls I have been with have alm…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:55 PM
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It can be, though I'd argue even that kind of giving is "selfish" in its own way. But I'd say love most of all is wanting that person around, and wanting them happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:42 PM
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Once Marxism is in place and disputes keep coming up and collectives cannot be bothered to gather in order to vote on resolutions for every single one, eventually some guy (probably somebody well-liked) will be seen as the de-facto dispute resolver. After a few years he will handle the punishments as well. And a few years after that he will start digging graves, and minorities will be the first up against the wall. Gay people, trans people, they'll be the first to go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:41 PM
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Islam proclaims absolute truth. RP accumulates the subjective experiences of thousands of people in order to develop guidelines on what to do to accomplish certain things. Muslims expect you to view the Quran like a scientific journal. RP does not expect the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:36 PM
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IT IS THE KING OF ALL STRAWMEN. MOUNT YOUR STEEDS, PREPARE THE TORCHES, TONIGHT THE SKY WILL BURN BRIGHT WITH LIES.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:33 PM
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No, you have to time travel
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:31 PM
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Yeah, the aryan tribe
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:31 PM
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Love is a selfish emotion though
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:29 PM
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Under federal law, anyone under the age of 18 that sells sex is a "child trafficking victim" which makes it a rather inaccurate term. https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/fact-checker/wp/2015/07/02/are-there-hundreds-of-thousands-of-sex-trafficked-runaways-in-the-united-states/?utm_term=.677f1d350cc1 https://www.villagevoice.com/2011/07/06/cnns-amber-lyon-ambushed-craigslist-but-she-wont-talk-to-the-village-voice/ https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/the-watch/wp/2014/03/27/lies-damned-lies-and-se…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 01:26 PM
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No, I didn't, and I had nobody in my life at all to give me decent dating advice. I'd say most of the advice I got from the adults in my life was just not good. I don't know why adults are so willing to tell kids to rest on their laurels. I cannot think of a situation where that is a good thing to tell a child. I think the only thing my dad ever told me in terms of dating advice was "they will come to you". Thanks dad. I understand that its my responsibility to fix now, but I think most people w…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/17 12:04 PM
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There are no true Scotsmen. I took the time to draw you a Scotsman Diagram so you can see whats going on
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 02:56 PM
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Lol the last part of that video is such a cute, unachievable fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 02:33 PM
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Drive. In Drive, Gosling is basically the exact definition of cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 02:30 PM
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like the man is literally so far in the upper percentile of human attractiveness that he does it for a living Hes got a nice face, but the shirt will just never look bad on a muscled body like that. The muscles are a choice that most people can make. that guys face does more for women than his arms do That is true in general, but fashion doesn't change your face either. A nice body will make you more attractive, it will make your face seem less bad. So will fashion. Beats gym beast in a T-shirt …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/17 02:25 PM
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5/10. I give a point for each digit
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 07:05 PM
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That is just... so picky. I don't get it. Its a shirt.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 07:03 PM
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Hate the shirt on guy one Because... there is a circle on it? Blank shirt + jeans is basically my daily uniform by the way lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 06:49 PM
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They don't respond to his message That is your opinion, that is not my observation. When he started the whole "clean your room" thing, people actually started doing that. When he said that before you try to fix the world, try fixing yourself, his viewers overwhelmingly supported that message and many are taking that quite seriously. Problem is, they also hate each other almost as much I haven't seen it. I think the "hardcore traditionalists" don't even exist (perhaps in extremely small numbers),…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 06:46 PM
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but women and men can clock a 3 dollar T-shirt from a mile off Since when is a t-shirt and jeans not sexy when on a fit man? Is this going to "dry pussies?". Or this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 06:39 PM
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should stop going on about how men and women are utterly different creatures What you've done is taken a hyperbolic statement and presented it as representative of one major side. there are differences but they are both cosmetic and trivial compared to what we have in common The differences are not that insignificant. Those differences have significant effects on the world. People die quite regularly as a result of the differences between men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 06:34 PM
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The only one of these that I wouldn't LTR because of appearance is 7. Though I can't see 1's body. I've realized that a less attractive face is not a huge deal. A fat body is a huge deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:46 PM
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Where were you when I was 15. My life could have been so different.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:44 PM
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Sounds to me like something that only happens to highly attractive men in very specific (highly sexual) environments.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:43 PM
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You don't feel like it because even in this thread people have explained how incorrect you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:39 PM
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Well, I didn't say they wouldn't turn you off. Everything turns you off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:36 PM
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OP never said he was an advocate for TRP. That last sentence was quite clearly OP's opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:35 PM
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I don't believe so. I don't think he would support it if he knew about it. Especially not the subreddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:35 PM
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/u/Princeso_Bubblegum is trans and far-left, how surprised can one be that there is an emotional reaction to Jordan Peterson.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:32 PM
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The "middle ground" argument. The worst of them all. There is a right and a wrong here, and its not the midpoint between two extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:28 PM
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He goes on fascinating tangents
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:26 PM
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only hold superficial appeal to the anti-SJW crowd, most of whom despise traditionalism almost as much as they do feminism Since when? To him he has been quite surprised by how many men respond so positively to the basic of message of "take on responsibility in your life." That is the new counterculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:25 PM
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The 6 pack in cargo shorts n crocks wont get nothing stood next to the man with the ironed shirt, pants and shoes that look more expensive than your fist car. I think that depends on how the second guy's body looks. If you've got a fantastic body I don't think crocks are going to turn women off. And obviously wearing the worst clothes possible isn't a good idea either. But you can just wear a decent fitting 3 dollar t-shirt and some decent quality well-fit jeans and if you've got some nice arms …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/17 01:23 PM
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the easiest way to get hotter is to get clothes that fit right and don't look horrible. In my opinion, if you look good naked, you'll look good in anything (as long as it isn't loose). A guy with a nice body will do great in a t-shirt and jeans.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 11:02 PM
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I haven't seen a huge personality difference between 23 year old girls and 30 year old girls. There are plenty of 30 year olds who act 18 and 22 year olds to who act 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:14 PM
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OP still looks at 20-something girls but girls that age obviously aren't looking at nor are they going in the same social circles as old 30-somethings doods I mean, is an early-mid 30's man interested in a mid-late 20's woman really all that strange?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 07:13 PM
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What are you doing where you can just travel around all the time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 05:56 PM
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When did he say anything about punishing women?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 05:48 PM
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Now they can immerse themselves in the internet and don't have to risk rejection Well duh, who needs "outside"?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/17 05:45 PM
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My concern is that Ill only be able to find other people who like going to bars and clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 12:39 PM
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Bat boy is real though
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/17 12:33 PM
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If they are a completely different person, who are you loving?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 02:40 PM
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I didn't have any "phases" over TRP. I had an anger phase before I ever heard about TRP, that lasted a few months. The depression phase lasted about 7 years. Neither were caused by TRP though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/17 12:14 PM
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True, I haven't argued with him about his. anything that they tell themselves women want in order to comfort themselves I mean, you'd think "women love skinny nerdy types" would be more comforting since just being skinny is much easier than paying for roids and working hard in a gym. women who say they aren't attracted to him aren't lying I didn't say they were, but that depends on how we are defining "not attracted to". Because most of the time, the context of the conversation is "who is really…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:51 PM
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A month plus is not a lot of time How many calories a day are you eating? How many grams of protein? What is your body weight? What kind of lifting routine?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:36 PM
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Because feminists, along with SJW's in general (which is more the group I'm going to talk about, because I see the types of people you are talking about as part of a larger group), have learned how to gain power within their respective circles through the use of shame. They regularly shame and scare university administrations into bending to their will, and the post-modernist ideology is more widespread than some realize. They appear - as others said here - in a lot of nerdy spaces like gaming a…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:35 PM
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I'd say its even more present online than on TV, though like you I haven't watched TV in years, just occasional clips from YouTube.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:17 PM
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I had tears in my eyes If your fingers are in her and you see this, and then you keep going, I think it is quite clear you know that you are committing an evil act, and just don't care. Do you think there are really that many men who would see that and still be deluded enough to think they weren't committing rape? I don't believe that at all. As an aside, I hope she collected evidence, because however horrible the event sounds, it is one person's testimony and I'm not going to assume guilt based…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:16 PM
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He thinks working out has no effect over looking better, he has talked about it numerous times. He also thinks that lots/most people cannot really change their appearance or improve with lifting, which is basically a roundabout way of making excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 07:07 PM
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How the fuck... how the FUCK... did you know about my taco fucking habit? Who are you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 06:10 PM
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Women much prefer fit and lean to cut, defined and muscular /u/LewisCross is not arguing for balloony types All he said about the pictured guy was I personally don't believe women would kick this guy out of bed Which I would agree with. He is clearly attractive, just not "ideal".
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 06:09 PM
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balloony body builder types This is what girls say guys say. I don't see it around here.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:29 PM
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I'm a man and really never feel things you are describing How are your t-levels? Whats your sex drive like? I've always had these experiences occasionally. A girl who sticks in my head all day, just from a three second glance.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:25 PM
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/u/wub1234
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:24 PM
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I wonder how many bloops disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:24 PM
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I am not really able to shit on people in pain
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 05:23 PM
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I dont even know what submissive means anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 02:22 AM
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You want them dead dont you
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/17 02:21 AM
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Funny how some women complain about men and then raise the kind of men they were complaining about.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 11:18 PM
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Do you generally accept that there are some women who care about men's problems? Yes, but they are a painfully insignificant minority. They tend to be rather masculine in personality and/or were exposed to men's issues in a very personal way.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 11:17 PM
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The truth we all knew
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 11:15 PM
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Wow that profile screams "weak provider". My recommendation is to toss it and start over. Its painfully unmanly, which means it is painfully unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 11:14 PM
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Lol I just calculated my average (using the years starting from the year I had my first sexual encounter as a 17 year old), its 0.71. I guess I'm below average then.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 11:12 PM
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median man Exactly. We say average but really we should be saying median. The "average" man would be like those images that average facial features. The median would look much different. Definitely less physically attractive. And older.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 11:09 PM
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This subreddit loves to get really gloomy doesn't it? Its actually effecting my real world decisions and desires and its weird/potentially bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 02:17 PM
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"Fat" ugly is different from "born with it" ugly. I can't really connect with somebody who treats their body that way. Heck I struggled with a girl who wasn't fat at all but basically relied on her youth to keep her thin, and had no consistent healthy habits. Destined to get fat. Also, the "nice one" is not necessarily "hideous" just less hot than the "hot one".
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 01:21 PM
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Who is "they"? I wouldn't even hesitate to choose a less hot girl who is good and shares similar interests and values to me over a super hot girl who has little in common with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 01:17 PM
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I mean, food is probably important too
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/17 01:15 PM
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They don't talk about it except in threads specifically discussing introversion
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 06:47 PM
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I mean disproportionate relative to the general population. Girls are generally more social, more active. Just because there are so few girls on here to begin with, and the only girls who spend time on the internet are weirdos to begin with, the percentage of "introverts" is much higher here than the general population. Thats my estimation.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 06:36 PM
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This statement basically told everybody reading this that you were more of the problem than the women were.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 06:29 PM
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There is a disproportionate amount of shut-in women in this subreddit, which shouldn't be too surprising. There are several who have brought up how they basically spend their free time at home reading books or doing some hobby or another.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/17 06:27 PM
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Similar interests, similar values. Similar quietness. Loyal, very much in love, and very sexually attracted to me Experiences happiness from making me happy (obviously should be the same in the other direction as well). No entitled mindset. She doesn't have to be my twin or anything, but I think "opposites attract" doesn't work for a happy LTR. Functional maybe, but not happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:57 PM
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How much are you supposed to value commitment?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:47 PM
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I've been spanked as a kid, it was measured and moderated, didn't lived it bad Thats the response everybody gives. "I was spanked, I turned out fine/I was spanked, it made me a good person" etc. But there are a lot of assumptions and a LOT of biases built in to those anecdotal statements. Actual statistics and science on the matter only show that it is a net negative on human development. because spanks were more humiliation and domination induced than actual pain Its about fear, fundamentally. …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:40 PM
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When people say that it has always kind of bugged me because I see that as being a problem for keeping female attraction, but not male attraction. If anything, guys adore predictability. I know I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:31 PM
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That kind of depends on the hobby
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 07:29 PM
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Great now I'm watching a whole TED talk. This girl basically laid out AF/BB at the start, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/17 01:35 AM
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Isn't this answer a tautology?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:58 PM
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Think borderline Dark Triad, but they're aware that giving people good vibes pays off. I don't think that is the "Nice GuyTM " that most people refer to. It basically means an entitled whiner with no self-awareness who is typically quite physically unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:57 PM
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People should be willing to behave the same way that they expect their partners to behave Nobody does that because the genders are different
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 11:53 PM
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I'm emphatically NOT a Down to Fuck girl Every DTF girl says this though. Its kind of like when people say "I hate drama".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 08:10 PM
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I can sort of see that, but there were clubs and such a long time ago too. I think you're on the money about how increased isolation is effecting this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 08:09 PM
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Spanking is hitting. DON'T HIT YOUR KIDS. Take it off the table and you will immediately improve as a parent, at least a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 07:47 PM
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It's easy to find co-ed rec sports leagues, or board game groups, or rock-climbing groups I'm pretty sure thats what the people who are having sex are doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 07:45 PM
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but RPillers seem to believe that men deserve our sympathize if they don't get to bang 20 different hoes in college Nobody has said this, or anything close to this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 07:40 PM
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Most Red Pill beliefs are not presented as scientific facts. Just collected observations from a variety of people. For God sakes bloops, TRP was never - and has never claimed to be - a scientific journal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 07:37 PM
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Many places, here is him discussing part of it, but I recommend watching that whole interview if you want the clearer discussion with full context.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 07:34 PM
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A deep desire to destroy everything, to control everybody else, not because they want to create something better, but because they are miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/17 02:57 PM
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Well, parents seem to love talking about the benefits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 08:01 PM
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Lol yeah I know
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:57 PM
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I've never had this with anyone, but I dream of it. Someone I can just be myself around. It would be so beautiful. :) Absolutely. I would love that, I would love them. But its a dream, and it will always be a dream. Real people do not work like cartoon characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:48 PM
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Sip that juice box is, like, the worst way to describe that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:41 PM
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Ignoring context and being purposefully ignorant for the sake of "winning" arguments is much more time consuming for them, clearly
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 07:04 PM
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unknown variable """"""""""""""""""""""""""""society""""""""""""""""""""""""""""
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:55 PM
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How does society tell women to act that way?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:52 PM
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Nobody argued that men don't have a higher capacity for violence and aggression. However even that male violence is most often the result of organized, tribal conflict. Whether it is armies, gangs, families, whatever. Its not a random impulse. It is planned. I think it would be interesting to see a comparison in the emotionality of men and women raised in the same family, in the same environment.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:51 PM
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Bullshit, his entire comment seems focused on OP sounding like men should be supplicating or else they are deemed "assholes" The middle ground is respecting your own life and making your own choices. You set the endpoints of the spectrum as either supplication or dominance, I am pointing out that TRPers are at least starting at the middle ground between those two. I don't, but your examples aren't really supporting the idea that a man must give into a woman's "every whim" either. That came acros…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:41 PM
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Oooh goody. That doesn't scare me that is perfect. I have laid out plans that, even if I take longer than expected to meet them, will make me quite attractive right around the time I should be looking for an LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:39 PM
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Women's attraction is weaker and less stable than men's Its not necessarily weaker, it is just tied to different variables and men understandably really have trouble coming to terms with this. I have trouble coming to terms with this. But if you hit those variables, a woman can get absolutely glued to you. I've experienced it, it definitely feels good. And I think a woman can feel sexual desire more powerful than a mans, it just exists specifically for her man and over a shorter period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:36 PM
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The rule I have managed to always follow with my sexual partners is a ratio of about 3:1 her orgasms to my orgasms. Being orally obsessed has its benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:29 PM
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As usual, I believe there's a middle ground here that RP is missing. No, you're either not seeing it or willfully ignoring it. /u/angels_fan was quite clear in what he was saying. do you genuinely believe most women believe this? Some. Who knows how many. Definitely enough to create fiction writers who cater to this idea. I've seen people get upset when a guy asks their girlfriend/wife to do something. I think the thought process goes "how dare he make requests of her". I've seen people get much…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:22 PM
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See I think the mid 20's and late teens lead to worse marriages, and I remember some people posting stats on here about how those are more likely to end in divorce. The teens and early 20's are much worse because cute girls will tend to be the drinking/partying type who don't have to put in any effort to find commitment (and some don't want it, though many do). Actually when I think about it the only people I know who got married young all got divorced, some got divorced several times in their 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:15 PM
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Stop trying to defeat anything. Just do whatever works best for your own life. Fighting hopeless political and cultural battles is for MRAs.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:08 AM
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seeing mutual growing love as a horrible thing rather than something to be cherished I think its just that girls don't need or want that. They want to be taken on an adventure, and if they are cute then there are tons of men happy to oblige. They also don't stay shy because its easy to be social when you are liked by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:07 AM
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Sam Harris and him both have an amazing ability to put up with the absolute garbage people throw at them
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:04 AM
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I recall several people saying that status doesn't matter. But its been a while since I've seen it come up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 04:00 AM
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He absolutely eviscerates them and shines a light on the horrors from which their beliefs originate, to a degree no other living man has really managed to do
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 03:59 AM
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Interesting how bloops sometimes respond to RP delusion with BP delusion
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:37 PM
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Yes like I was saying, hence you are just disagreeing with my point that dread doesn't necessitate poor treatment in the snarkiest way possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:31 PM
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Lol you could make the same point for murder, you might as well just say "you are wrong"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 06:17 PM
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Not sure how meaningful a 3 percent difference is either way. Also I'll point out that you can be distant in a relationship without cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:54 PM
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It was several years ago, I don't think so anymore. It represents "a" Red Pill, but most of the concepts I believe in I got from other, better places that are a somewhat different "Red Pill".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:38 PM
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If anybody says no they are lying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:36 PM
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goat, and many other bloops, feel that the world can only work in such a way that when RP tactics are used, the woman (who is of course smarter and better than the man) would end up in a dominant position, even if that position is fooling the man into thinking he is in the dominant position. Basically, "RP is gross" thus RP men, being natural losers, must in reality always be in the losing position, and possibly so stupid and deluded that they don't realize. No other outcome is possible. To thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:32 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6ba0a2/cmv_the_redpill_suffers_from_alexithymia/dhlhe0f/
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:27 PM
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The only feminists willing to have a level headed debate in real life are the casual ones who don't espouse a lot of very popular feminist beliefs. The ones who will absolutely acknowledge that the wage gap statistic is misused. The type of feminism with power, the type that is extremely common on campuses, is the type that is more interested in shutting any debates down by force and threats. They will respond to any attempt at debate with either Chants Shaming language Violence False accusation…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:25 PM
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...as if I'm not still a hardcore romantic
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:19 PM
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Yeah I think that whole idea is kind of a myth. Which really only strengthens the need for RP-like principles among men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:18 PM
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You have never had an actual conversation with a feminist No true feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:17 PM
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That's not what it means in definition, just in practice
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:17 PM
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Every version of it that isn't purely lip service.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:16 PM
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Also, it's "feminists of color" not "colored feminists"... JFC I like the second one because it puts y'all on edge how little experience you guys have in person with feminists Ever watched the great feminist warrior Steve Shives interact with his girlfriend? He looks like a beaten dog, apologizing whenever he almost accidentally disagrees with her. Its pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:15 PM
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I'd argue that dread, in general, does in no way necessitate "poor treatment"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 05:08 PM
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She still rolls her eyes at him internally. You have to believe the wife is always the victor
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:43 AM
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An unattractive badass is still more attractive than an unattractive coward. Though yeah the guy who stands halfway between those two is the most unattractive of all.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:35 AM
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Of course media uses attractive people, people we like to look at, but when those people talk about relationships (whether as characters in part of a fictional story or a talk show or whatever) its always "be yourself" and such.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:34 AM
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Yo girl let me sip dat almond milk latte
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:30 AM
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The same thing bloops do. Maybe we're all outliers claiming to be the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 04:30 AM
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It is possible to be a serious student and still enjoy yourself as an undergraduate I saw plenty of Freshmen and Sophomores doing this, but none of the Juniors. They slept in the labs.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 01:41 AM
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He tells himself he doesn't have time to party, but that's a hypothetical since he doesn't invited anyway I mean both are true for me. convinced he'll have a 6-figure job offer to show for it upon graduation If I'm making 60,000 I'm happy. I just want to pay for my hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/17 01:39 AM
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I had tons and tons of female friends (and typically found making friends with girls to be way easier than with guys), and I was really not all super from who I am now. Just had different values.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 09:19 PM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/6ci8jx/do_you_think_using_escorts_is_overall_better_or/dhwoxlg/
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:39 PM
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If the average man is sleeping with two women a month, he is no longer the average man. That is the issue. /u/future_space_boobs was making a statement about the average of a population, and that statement was painfully false.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:36 PM
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RP men didn't come to RP because it lies about their experiences, but because it explains their past experiences so accurately.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:34 PM
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You're on Reddit. Don't you think that is hindering your path to your full potential?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:51 PM
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hell falling in love is treating like a disease "help me doctor I fear I have oneitus!" Because it leads to shitty results, and behaviors (made out of desperation) that even bloops agree are unhealthy. Believe me, I really want oneitus to not be a problem, because I always get it, but to do so would be to deny the difference between fantasy and reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:48 PM
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I agree with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 03:03 PM
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In my mind, Indians, Arabs, Persians, etc. all go into the same general grouping of "too much cultural and religious stuff to be worth it".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:54 PM
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How else am I supposed to know how big I am?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:16 AM
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See username
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 02:05 AM
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Some girls seem to think that its how most men think. It might be how some very hot men think, I dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 01:57 AM
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Wait do people actually bring books to bars?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 01:35 AM
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I consider everything I listed to be "only" sex. Maybe I'm a unicorn, but I don't even know what it means to just want the physical act of filling holes, with no desire to be desired and no desire to fully experience their body.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 01:05 AM
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Because women typically like manliness, especially in the bedroom. Hence they have fantasies of a strong, beautiful man aggressively and passionately taking them, owning them in the moment, feeling his power and dominance, etc. If there is one thing I never believed until I lost my virginity, is how much of a woman's arousal revolves around strength and power. Constant eye contact, giving her orders, grabbing her neck/wrists, I've never had sex with a girl who didn't get more aroused from me doi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 01:01 AM
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wanting only sex from a woman is dehumanising Sex is one of the most human things we do. How is wanting to fully experience another person's body and desires "dehumanizing"?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 12:49 AM
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Yes. You are again dodging my question. You haven't addressed it once, you're just shifting the discussion around to avoid it. Why start a discussion if you don't actually care about things that might change your view? You are giving her a ton of benefit here in terms of sarcasm, because you are already on her side.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:36 PM
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So if you read that article except it wasn't about men but about Jews, you would say "oh they are just being sarcastic, no issue here"? Do you think that is how mostly people would interpret it? The whole article is written in such a way to display a clear distaste for men. Viewing them as powerful, and women as victims. If that article was written about other groups of people I'd bet good money you would not be giving them the same benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:29 PM
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I didn't ask you to address Naziism, I asked you to address the article. Replace the Nazi party with a book club if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:19 PM
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Read the Koran? How much of the Hadith? How about Dabiq?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:17 PM
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You do not understand Islam. At all. Why am I not surprised?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:09 PM
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Wow Eye rolling is not a counterargument. You didn't answer the question. If you read that article on its own with no feminist context, would you consider it hateful? Because that is the point. You are saying there is nothing hateful in the article. I think that is because of your personal biases and double standards, hence why I switched it to something that feminists would not like, namely antisemitism. People often struggle to see their own biases, and word replacement is a great way of makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:06 PM
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it's not; feel that all you want. it's only really a problem when you start inflicting your feelings about it onto other people, via whining or poor treatment. Just to be clear, you would agree that his sister is wrong then? Because she appears to believe that even the feeling of disappointment over not getting laid is creepy and disgusting. Even when its just a man's internal feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 10:02 PM
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They should go track down the feminists who are saying those statements and argue with them. The last thing those feminists want is a debate. They're kind of obsessed with preventing them. Hence why the only feminists who ever really show up to debates are ones with much less extreme views. Well, except the 77 cents on the dollar thing. That seems to get pushed by the majority.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:57 PM
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Ok, imagine reading this article and tell me honestly that you wouldn't consider this to be pretty clearly backed up with feelings of hate Nazis don't hate Jews. But it wouldn't matter if we did Hurting Jews’ feelings is not the same as life-threatening Jewish aggression One of the most common derisive taunts thrown at Nazis – and one of the oldest – is “Jew-hater”. It’s been around since the days of the Kaiser, and still gets used today, though its a pretty anodyne insult. Most Nazis, like me, …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:47 PM
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Oh so thats how you jerk a girl's penis
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:12 PM
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so let us have our “man-hating” fun while you go on ruling the world This is also a good example of why no matter how much feminism wins, they will always speak from a "victimhood" perspective, because without being victims they can no longer justify their hate. The "men have all the power" trope is their entire foundation, even when its hilariously false in the countries they mostly like to complain about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:06 PM
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https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/sep/19/men-women-rape-prevention-its-on-us https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/aug/08/michelle-obama-joke-women-smarter-than-men https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2014/aug/26/anti-rape-nail-polish-stop-rapists Here is a great video where the Men Kampf word replacement filter was used on her articles
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 09:03 PM
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How am I supposed to jerk you off when you don't even have a penis?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 08:55 PM
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socialize like a god damn normie. NEVAHHHH!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 08:52 PM
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Lol /u/future_space_boobs has some interesting ideas when it comes to how other people live
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 08:48 PM
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"everything is sexism"
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 02:48 PM
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Most bloops only understand RP in the form of hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 02:04 AM
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Thanks mom
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 06:22 PM
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Really? That is exactly how she comes across to me. Goes out every Friday night, likes to have fun and talk to everybody, very girly, very opinionated, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:43 PM
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I think your absurd opinion gets ascribed to a lot of men who don't actually hold this opinion. Men don't deserve sex, but they do deserve the truth about sex and relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:42 PM
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I think I haven't had any truly good LTR's because of social anxiety, and also spending most of my life hating myself. I think those two things are kind of tied together actually.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:39 PM
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There are men and women who have abusive parents that don't go on to paint all men or women as abusive... Following this logic, I should be saying that all women are empathetic towards men. But I'm not. I was pointing to my mom as the exception, not the rule... In my view, it is hateful to class an entire group of people with negative stereotypes People with this attitude hate describing groups of people in general at all, and it makes conversations with them very difficult. If you don't list ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 05:37 PM
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Never said they weren't
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:30 AM
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Connery's Bond could be kind of shitty in a somewhat unattractive way, but the rest of them are very dominant guys, that is just who Bond is. In my small bit of observation, girls find it kind of hot. He elegantly takes control of situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:29 AM
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I dunno, they all seem very wild and giggly
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:26 AM
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Honestly, considering her tastes, it might
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 04:26 AM
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That sounds like a loooooooot of work
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:52 AM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:33 AM
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Well, I suppose you added the variable of "number". I mean that a person's personality and life experience plays into how enjoyable sex with them is.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:30 AM
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He literally hates women so much he'd prefer life without them (except for sex of course). Ever try a fleshlight? Fleshlight isn't a living breathing human that desires you and - you know - interacts with you. But I think if there was a pill to turn you 100% gay, some TRPers would take it. I'd definitely think about it. And no, I don't hate women. Again though, the foundation of this argument is that TRP is represented by the TRP subreddit, when in reality there are at least 3 different "Red Pil…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:28 AM
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I wouldn't base my enjoyment of sex with somebody purely on looks
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:20 AM
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"Problem"? Starvation is a problem. Obesity is too much of a good thing. Its just another addiction, but its better than dying. It will be solved at the same time that we can solve all the other addictions in the world (which is probably scientifically possible).
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 01:18 AM
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I like grown up, mature hard men But then you say "too old". But I guess you want a dom basically?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:56 AM
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Yes all four You'd rather have curly long hair guy over the blonde guy? Lol Sorry they're too young for me I feel like your personality would mesh with theirs quite well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:52 AM
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Dude looks like he rode a skateboard to the studio
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:49 AM
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Schwarzenegger was kind of his own thing, that was more of a "this guy's body is fascinating" than a "this guy's body is wetting panties". Before that guys in movies weren't jacked, after that they all suddenly started to be. Yeah because it was slowly getting more common to see fit guys in real life, so the bar was being raised. But even in the 80's there were still male leads with average bodies. Now they are the minority by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:41 AM
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How about these guys? Or maybe this guy? Or this guy? Or these boyyyyyyyyyyyyyys?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:38 AM
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have no empathy The only woman I've ever seen experience empathy for me is my mother, and even then that is rare. Not to say my mother is bad, my mother is awesome and gives me more kindness and support than I deserve. I've seen plenty of sympathy, but it starts and ends there. But having somebody else experience empathy for me is pretty rare overall. When it does happen, its been a guy. don't know their own minds Most people don't. Fundamentally, nobody does. But women do seem to have more clou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:30 AM
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The TRP sub could emphasize this more It used to. Now its awful. Nobody should go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:04 AM
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I'm saying he was not designed purely for men. There are clear artistic choices made to please the female audience. The movies would be quite different if they were designed just for men. Hollywood never makes a movie for men. At least not in the age of film piracy. Its not an affordable practice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:03 AM
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I'm still curious which kind of guys you actually find attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/17 12:00 AM
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Plus I think tons are attractive Who? All I see is you criticizing the looks of both men and women on here. What guy on Earth is a 10 to you? (inb4 skinny boy with eyeshadow) And you'd be super happy to be with me lol trust me!!!! I would sleep like this every night
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 11:53 PM
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I completely disagree, he appeals to both. He is clearly written and cast as a very sexy man that women are drawn to. His look, his personality, everything. Especially nowdays, Hollywood typically avoids films that appeal primarily to one demographic, especially if that demographic is men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 11:48 PM
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I don't think Hollywood started having more bodybuilder types because of an increase in the popularity of the sport, but because it looks good, it really stands out. Its no different than why actors have makeup put on them. What modern bodybuilding has done is raised the standard for male physical attractiveness, so now most lead males have better physiques than the lead males of the past. Its a result of competition, basically. Since there weren't a lot of men in the 60's with big biceps and pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 11:45 PM
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James Bond absolutely appeals to both men and women. But its who he is even more than his look. Whats not to like about aggression mixed with luxury and elegance?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 11:39 PM
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I've found that being teetotal lends itself to meeting weirder people who often times are much more interesting sexually
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 09:13 PM
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So then statistically I have to meet somebody within the next year. Lol like that is gonna happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 09:12 PM
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Yeah I was dumb and didn't think of having a towel on hand. She exhausted me so much that I just passed out in the soaked bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 09:11 PM
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That explains why I don't have much of it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 09:10 PM
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A few years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 09:09 PM
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high quality marriage material gets snatched up early "Early" is shifting forwards, soon it will be in the 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:47 PM
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If most guys are this shitty and selfish with sex I must be some kind of God. I'm pretty skeptical of this. But I guess it comes back to my hypothesis that the men who women want to fuck the most tend to correlate with personalities that make them bad in bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:45 PM
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Messed around with a girl who squirts like a fountain the other day. Strange experience. It isn't urine, but it has enough urine in it that I had that aftertaste in my mouth for the rest of the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:20 PM
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The idea that women never sympathize with men is of course false My perspective has always been that women will readily sympathize with men, but it is extremely rare that a woman will empathize with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/17 08:03 PM
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Interesting, I've heard of "The Wachowski Brothers" but never knew that.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 01:49 AM
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Didn't the Matrix do that
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 12:27 AM
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Makes sense
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 12:13 AM
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I've always thought the "introvert extrovert" categories were meaningless and incorrect. People are introverts or extroverts depending on environment. Its not really a personality type.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/17 12:05 AM
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Poisoning the well appears to be your primary weapon. Also maybe you can tell me why MtF trans are so overwhelmingly left-wing extremists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 10:44 PM
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I think /u/GinSmokeLies understood your point perfectly well. You're making a point about [well-studied] statistics but using anecdotes to back it up. Here is my anecdote: I was born when my mom was 39. My only birth defect is being really fucking tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 10:40 PM
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"Everybody who disagrees with me is a Nazi"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:59 PM
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Unless you're in a mass grave
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:27 PM
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In Laci's case I think its more the case of her growing up and having bit of self awareness. I never thought I would see this happen
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:26 PM
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I'm sure it will work the next time its tried
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 04:25 PM
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This depends entirely upon the probability of a post-patriarchal society experiencing a catastrophic event. Patriarchies exist when male strength is required, otherwise you are right.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/17 12:48 AM
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Yeah, its an easy way of having her decide for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 10:12 PM
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So far, no
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/17 04:06 PM
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Women don't need a "strategy" to have sex, they need a "strategy" to make sure a high quality guy is among the guys who want to have sex with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 09:15 PM
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Yeah I think I have a problem lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 07:44 PM
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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 07:38 PM
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Well, the joke is that young looking big boobed girls chase after shy guys with no friends, but even in anime that is kind of for comedic effect. I think /u/notworthmuch20xx is correct for some cases, but it was never what got to me. Even when I was in junior high I appreciated that the whole "horde of hot girls trying to get the loner to be their boyfriend" was absurd fiction. The stuff that really got me, that effected my real world perceptions and desires in the dating world, was not where th…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 07:31 PM
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Everybody loves to define what being a real man is to suit their own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 06:07 PM
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There are probably just as many socially maladjusted women as men False, if not only just because autism effects more men than women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:30 PM
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She seems like she likes to have fun
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:55 PM
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and because men don't create more men's shelters. http://news.nationalpost.com/news/canada/earl-silverman-who-ran-mens-safe-house-dies-in-apparent-suicide
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:50 PM
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Movements that argue Disney tricked them? I hear you guys bring this up here more than anybody else. I personally didn't watch much Disney as a kid. I've wanted to make a post on here about anime, which I would bet has had more of an impact on my generation's low SMV men. Many of those romances are tailored for men, and not in the stereotypical, hyperbolic way people like to make it seem.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:43 PM
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Here you go
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:33 PM
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I went with penguin. Maybe I should have been a squid instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:26 AM
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Ok, then I will agree with you that a decent portion of RP men believe women want to be ravished by refugees. This is not the original claim: They literally believe women invite immigrants because they want to be raped by them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:17 AM
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Race realism means that human races exist and are a viable way of categorizing humans. It also obviously means that races are different (obviously not just when it comes to appearances, but when ti comes to other stuff too like IQ differences). And you disagree with this? IQ doesn't vary by race? You cannot categorize humans by race? Different races don't have slightly different physical characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:15 AM
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Don't be weird Lol that is a rather broad word. Something good will happen. Someone will want you. For some this is false hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:04 AM
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Individuals with highly contentious personality types
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:00 AM
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Yea, right. Source? Exactly It's both. No, because you are using them by their actual definitions and they aren't. You've got to pick which opinion you think TRPers actually believe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 05:00 AM
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You are the girl RSDTyler loves to pick up lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:58 AM
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I mean, at least half of them are in prison. Does that count as getting one's needs met?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:56 AM
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Actually 65.7% of feminists believe it. Also you've shifted goalposts. First it was "because they want to be raped" now its "because they want sex".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:51 AM
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A 30 upvote difference must mean its a hated opinion then? The point is that it is very, very, very far from a consensus.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:47 AM
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You have to be naive if you believe certain people don't take these things seriously Some do, you make it out to be the mainstream opinion of every single form of Red Pill. There are feminists who want all men to be castrated, so I guess all of feminism is all about physically castrating men. I would also remind you that pol on 4chan started jokingly posting Nazi propaganda too....until they got overrun by actual Nazis. They are still mostly edgelords. 4chan has always been a place of extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:45 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/5i9j9m/female_support_for_importing_migrants_is_a/db7b6zs/
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:42 AM
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I would have to see it and see if it was hyperbole on their part. The RP subreddit (less so for some bloggers, though Heartiste is definitely extreme) loves to use extreme language and it triggers the hell out of bloops. If I had to choose, I'd rather be in the society where people speak in more boisterous manners than constantly apologizing and couching everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:27 AM
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Naive people take it literally and believe women want to be raped by freaking refugees. More mind reading
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:21 AM
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Said "Vanguard" called it: There is an element of nuance that I'm sure will be lost on BP'ers and feminists. You can't just go around forcing yourself on women if you're low value (or lower value than they are, in her eyes). They will react poorly. It's no different than the differentiator between creepy and non-creepy. Attraction is king. He's just using a shitty, incorrect definition of rape. Just like how what we call "rape fantasies" aren't really "rape fantasies". You're being blinded by yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 04:16 AM
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There is so much strawmanning and hyperbole here that I'm just not interested in wading through it all. They literally believe women invite immigrants because they want to be raped by them because women in tribes were raped by invaders and the instinct remained Literally, is it? Nobody believes this. Black Pigeon's video did not say this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 03:02 AM
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They do know about the red pill Impressive mind reading abilities. I've seen plenty of people there use the term "red pilled" and then later when somebody else brings up TRP note that they didn't know about that place. Because the red pill is not just a reddit thing. So you are going to tell me that before TRP (and even after) nobody has ever used the term "red pilled" to refer to learning a bunch of harsh truths about the world, unrelated to dating and sex? This is absurd, it is not an expressi…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:39 AM
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They call their ideas red pill Some of them say they were "red pilled". TRP was not the first group of people to use Matrix analogies. Trump supporters were also using it with no knowledge of TRP. Its an expression that exists outside of TRP. I don't doubt that there are fascists in TRP. most of them have a direct connection to the Red Pill Gonna need a citation on that one. From ancaps to actual fascists. If you're a leftist, they tell you have not internalized the red pill. Do they now? I've s…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:23 AM
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Would you marry or LTR a guy who also didn't want to have kids?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:16 AM
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4)Race realism. 5)Jewish question Lol I don't think that those people are directly connected to the red pill in any way. TRP guys hold a wide variety of political beliefs. Small numbers of antisemites are found in virtually every unpopular political ideology, left or right. PUA, MGTOW, and Red Pill all have major disagreements. You cannot honestly group them together as anything unified. They are simply different groups that all fall under the "manosphere". Nothing more. I was thinking more in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:13 AM
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In my observation, most guys (including myself) prefer thickness over petiteness. Good thickness, that is. The petite women are used to entertain and sell products to other women. Long hair is neither here nor there Maybe A big ass is neither here nor there either. Gigantic? No. But I would be very, very surprised if there wasn't a very deep biological component for the love of a round, firm ass that sticks out a bit as opposed to a pancake ass. I don't know anybody who prefers the latter. Same …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 02:08 AM
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Which Red Pill? I think we're at a point where we're going need to annoyingly add more labels, because the Red Pill has kind of branched off into probably at least three major groups, the TRP subreddit representing one of those groups.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:59 AM
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Its not like a man will stay with a woman no matter what, even in the most extreme circumstances. But I disagree that men and women are equally transactional. I don't think even you believe that completely, because men and women typically have several very different dealbreakers. Also, you're missing another point about love and attraction. The woman not wanting kids isn't making her unattractive, just practically not the best choice for the man who wants kids. There are fewer ways for a woman t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:57 AM
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They want some utopian fantasy world where they get to fuck hot young things well into their 40s and 50s All you people know is hyperbole
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:48 AM
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Women won't need you financially and they won't be desperate to have kids before they hit 35. Women will also look younger than any decade that's gone before as they age, due to cosmetic advances, staying out of the sun and the continuation of ovarian function. This doesn't seem like a problem that is restricted to 35-40 year old men. This implies that trying to look for an LTR at any age is going to get worse. Which I kind of agree with. We are going in the direction of Japan. For me, its not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:44 AM
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Where do you get that from? Simple. They have more options. Their attraction is less dependent on just your basic personality and looks and includes more of your financial future, how others see you, how entertaining you are, how much of a leader you are, etc. So there are just a lot more ways to turn a woman's love off. The higher SMV the woman, the more you have to always be moving, always be awesome, or the love will die. None of this is implying that men are perfect. There are just fewer pos…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:34 AM
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That misunderstanding leads to the idea that it is transactional, as TRP often believes You... don't think its transactional? Thats not even a TRP exclusive belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/17 01:27 AM
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So much belittling going on here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 09:28 AM
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And all of these things will be even better if the means of production belong to everyone. You will not get to that point without a free market, because nobody is going to do the work or take the risks if they can live comfortably off the communal pile. And I'm sure businesses will run really well when every single decision has to be made by unanimous vote. I'm really looking forward to that. If we reach the point of technological advancement where most jobs could be done by machines, capitalism…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 04:55 AM
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It's not about being compassionate, it's about practicality. Intent is irrelevant, it destroys economies. how is libertarianism going to solve that? Let me ask this: The state fines companies when they pollute, but who fines the state when they pollute? what are you going to do when machines will eventually be doing most of the jobs? That is the unspoken objective of capitalism. Evermore efficient production. Somehow everybody conveniently forgets that as automation really starts to take over, p…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 04:25 AM
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Do they think the American Democrats are "leftists"? They're pretty much centre-right I will assume from your spelling of center that you're from that weird place across the pond. Democrats are not center-right. All of Europe is left. The leftists are extra left. The "right wing" is center left. Nobody in Europe is economically right wing anymore. You're all just arguing over which government regulations to support. America is shifting towards that. Trump is a good example of that shift. but if …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 04:02 AM
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HAHAHAHAHA as if he will ever do that. His excuse muscle is extremely fit.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 02:29 AM
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If that were the case then women would hang around bodybuilding contests and go mental for guys who look like this Nobody argued that women's arousal is directly tied to the size of a man's muscles.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 02:28 AM
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Reading TRM "Year One" should be a requirement before making any criticisms of the red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 01:02 AM
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No, but I think if I could take a pill that would make me super gay I would really consider taking it. I would see the social aspect as a downside but the entire relationship aspect to be an upside.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 12:45 AM
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/u/cami9x is a troll or a terrible human being or both, I wouldn't recommend engaging with her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 12:41 AM
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The true advancers of tech and society are not doing it for a woman At the very least it is highly debatable how much sexual energy contributes to somebody's passion in scientific endeavors. But that is really beside the point. The fact that so many "drones" work for women is the point. Sex drive extends to areas outside of sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/17 12:34 AM
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Exactly. Though I hold nothing against people who like to have fun at clubs and sleep around a lot. Embarrassing to admit but I recently watched Tsuki ga Kirei and I watched it like some people watch the Superbowl.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 11:06 PM
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You think most guys would work as hard as they do now if there wasn't a woman they desired in their life?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:58 PM
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Some of us aren't that interested in casual sex in the first place
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:55 PM
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It gets me so erect when Redditors angrily agree with each other
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:52 PM
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doing it to manipulate each other into sex by lowering thier self esteem That is not what is happening
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:44 PM
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The winking is super cringey. And thanks for confirming!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 10:44 PM
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Ok, so at this point I am starting to think you are an actual man-hating feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:34 PM
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No, but they do experience a lack of sexual desire and a lack of respect for such men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:27 PM
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I was referring to Black Pigeon I guess she counts too
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:24 PM
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My friends and I were negging each other long before I knew anybody had given a label to it. Its what guys do when they are in a fun mood, and like a lot of PUA techniques thats all negging is, teaching less socially skilled people things that more socially skilled people do. This often means giving things like this a label. Like for example, a friend talks about playing DnD last week and somebody goes "you fucking nerd". He's not actually trying to belittle him and plays DnD himself, its just p…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 09:20 PM
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It seems like you're not on this subreddit to debate, but to masturbate to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:43 PM
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"negging", "holding frame" and stuff like that will make you look like a huge douche How? Every time these concepts are discussed, all you guys ever know how to do is take the most hyperbolic, strawmanny version of the concept and then shoot it down. According to most bloops, an example of real world "negging" would be a guy walking up to a girl and saying "what the fuck is wrong with your face?" and then hoping she gets all desperate for validation from him because of it, except in the real wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:41 PM
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Cause the only reason that men should ever do anything is to get their dicks wet, right? Guys don't work to get a house in the suburbs for themselves to live alone in.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:32 PM
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When has an actual feminist said... . One feminist somewhere said That is literally what you asked for
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:30 PM
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I love how upset he makes you
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/17 08:25 PM
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Natalia Poklonskaya Never heard of her. I love this though. Apparently she was especially popular in Japan.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:16 PM
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He had a whole thread talking about how people who are skinny will always look that way because genetics, no matter what they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 05:38 PM
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What are you talking about? How is me saying that the top 20% are dating the hot the girls the "apex fallacy". At no point have I ever said anything about those top 20% guys being representative of everybody else. In fact I have said the exact opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:44 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 02:36 PM
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how is being more likely to go prison more attractive for a woman? That isn't the link. Men who are in prison are very aggressive. Women are turned on by that. However, being super aggressive is frowned upon in our society (rightly so) and when they do stupid, violent shit they get arrested. They are the more pure, uncontrolled kind of aggressive. The angry aggressive. The most attractive men are not all aggression. Self-control is important, comfort is very important. What makes a man a "bad bo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:46 PM
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I really don't buy this "bad boy" thing How old are you? Genuine question. If there is one thing that should be painfully obvious, bad boys are sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:04 PM
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I knew you would understand!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:03 PM
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Well, it was one person several months ago and he never actually stated his pill but I figured "sounds blue pill to me" and thus determined it must be the majority belief held by all bloops.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 12:00 PM
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It is not what half of us are saying. Why do the majority of blue pillers think all men should be sterilized?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:56 AM
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Why are so many blue pill arguments based around cherry picking the most exaggerated claims and acting like that is the consensus? You guys accuse people of doing that to feminism and then turn around and do it yourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:53 AM
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I don't think masculinity and aggressiveness are really that attractive Are you a girl? Also, some girls don't seem to be able to think of those concepts in the abstract as attractive because they can only imagine hyperbole. When they think "masculinity" they think of Johnny Bravo and "aggressiveness" they think "super abusive asshole". (Though funny enough, very violent men get laid a lot. Prisons are filled with alphas who banged a lot of women. The numbers just don't balance out on the female…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:51 AM
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A lot of people on this subreddit seem to think typical teenagers Means the hotties at the top. The douchebag "stealing" the girl you have a crush on is a common trope because it happens. All throughout high school I heard shit like this. "Shes dating that douche". I hung with the more nerdy types, and the reality is that the nerds just don't have the confidence to approach so they just have crushes and hope that one day their friendship might move into a relationship and then they watch those c…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:34 AM
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Wetness occurs outside arousal
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:28 AM
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I think most red pillers will say that the wall starts for women in their late 20's early 30's, which fits right in with you having to make slight changes because you aren't being chased as much. Nobody here thinks that when a girl hits 35 suddenly she is shunned like a witch. She just doesn't have the options she had before. Though that can be effected by exercise, diet, not spending too much time in the sun, etc. In my opinion "the wall" deals a lot more with LTRs than hookups. I think most wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:26 AM
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Ok so you believe women cannot feel arousal?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:18 AM
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I'm a women in my late 20s In other words, your own experience doesn't really say anything about the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:15 AM
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The takeaway here, is that fundamentally, what most animals are seeking out sexually is not some "ideal" set of genes. But rather, a set of genes that is extremely different from their own I don't see how that argument follows. Natural selection, including the evolution of the brain, passes on whatever works, not what works best. It could be that just having two separate sexes was enough of a defense to pass on our genes, and our biological sexual desires are truly only concerned with passing on…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:10 AM
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Yes, the whole concept of Chad is that he's at the top, he has much more access to sex than the average guy. He is by definition the right side of the bell curve.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:01 AM
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puritanical weenies ruin everything Interesting how even as more people are becoming atheist, the obsession with dictating personal morals to other people actually gets worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 11:00 AM
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tightness in your pants? When you heard this, you thought "woman"? Ok so there is some very basic biological information you may not yet understand about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:58 AM
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Here are some off the top of my head that I don't personally think are bullshit: Just being a nice and physically attractive person is not enough to keep a girl around, like it is for girls with guys. Thus, a girl will not love you the way you can love a girl, and attraction cannot be maintained as simply. Even though you were brought up looking at masculinity as gross and silly, those "douchebags" getting the girls were just more masculine than you because no matter how much it is abhored in pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:57 AM
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What in gods name are you talking about? Do you only know you're horny when you feel tightness in your pants? This is embarrassing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:34 AM
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But somehow most TRPers were part of the bottom 10% that never knew those things The fitness aspect was not the thing TRPers were confused about and you know it. The whole reason its called the "Red Pill" is because of the harsh truths about human behavior it describes. Those realities are not at all well accepted by the majority of men, let alone 90%. Those are the things that TRPers didn't know before, and found to hold true from their personal experience. TRP is not /r/fitness.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 10:32 AM
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I swear my ex dressed specifically in the way I least enjoy. Whatever I wasn't a fan of, thats what she wore the most.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:18 AM
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wub loves making excuses for his lack of effort in the gym and kitchen. Basically, he didn't follow a good routine or good diet, didn't put in the effort, and then concluded "getting gains from lifting must all just be genetic". That kind of bullshit gets annoying.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:17 AM
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The idea that different people experience and want different things is a BP stance Do you understand the difference between "a majority" and "100%"? Strawmanning seems to be a popular BP stance as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:14 AM
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Do you not think the personality of the different men comes into play? I would say that is the context. Tyler has not presented himself in a "sweet guy" light. He puts himself in the unpredictable asshole box from the get-go and that elicits a completely different response.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 08:10 AM
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No, its not really the value I got from TRP. None of the stuff I got out of TRP was the self-improvement aspect. I was lifting for years before I ever heard of TRP. I've been working on my shyness (and making slow improvements) for years as well. And again the answer is exposure, and how you get yourself to the point of exposure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:29 AM
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I've seen people get badly hurt, but I've never personally seen somebody shamed to the point of suicide, but we see it in the news from time to time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:12 AM
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Perhaps you're thinking of introverts (I hate that concept). Shyness is social anxiety, it is fundamentally a fear of being judged by others. When you have it for long enough you develop very deep negative physical responses to social interaction. When I was at my worst I would rapidly begin to panic when I walked into a crowded room. Being a shy giant is the worst. You simply cannot blend in. Shaming is somebody consciously trying to make it clear that they and perhaps others think negatively o…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 07:00 AM
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If by "naturally" you mean early childhood experiences shaped them into somebody with more resistance to shame, then yeah absolutely. I have been a very shy person my whole life, so its not too surprising that shaming language hits me pretty hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:49 AM
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NORMIES
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:48 AM
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I think your mom is pretty cool
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:39 AM
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I don't know, I haven't mastered it. But as far as I know exposure is the only real medicine in psychology, so getting shamed and rejected a lot would probably desensitize your brain to it eventually. Or it would just make you feel like absolute garbage, so you'd still have to have some philosophy under your belt to be willing to put yourself through that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:37 AM
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Wow that change in reaction to the same exact comment says a lot. Once you're in that box, its all over. On a side note, when she was telling her friends "he just asked if I was a pole dancer" I was cringing. No matter what I consciously think, those kind of shaming tactics are super effective on me. I am really interested to see what the bloops have to say about this one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:36 AM
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that's often a missing ingredient for manosphere guys To be fair, thats also because you're not seeing them existing in the world but just as a collection of words on a computer screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:35 AM
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Wow that change in reaction to the same exact comment says a lot. Once you're in that box, its all over. On a side note, when she was telling her friends "he just asked if I was a pole dancer" I was cringing. No matter what I consciously think, those kind of shaming tactics are super effective on me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:32 AM
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Oh yeah porn in storytelling form is overwhelmingly consumed by women. Women don't want to fuck bodies they want to be taken by characters.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:25 AM
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standard porn That stuff is usually the stereotypical porn that gets criticized on here a lot for being all about the mans pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 06:21 AM
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I don't, I learned many good lessons over the years.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/17 04:23 AM
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I think you really need female friendship in your life. Like, friends who are girls. I've had tons. They don't want to deal with a mans problems. So I don't get your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:45 AM
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where the guys are emotional as Hell "I'm really sad and stressed" isn't the same as "you're making me feel so confused and I cannot control my desire for you"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:44 AM
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This is a rather new development. Thats not true, it just depends on the media. Obviously James Bond movies aren't going to have deep female characters. I've only watched a few videos that offered critique on her, but those were also full of lies and a lot of it wasn't even arguments but just grasping at anything to get outraged like "she can't complain about all toys for women being pink if she wears pink herself" She does all kinds of things, like going out of her way to play games in the most…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:39 AM
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sexualized, but they are also personified. This describes the vast majority of major female characters in modern fiction. This is why people like Anita have to lie and manipulate the truth in order to create any content. Its a false narrative.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:17 AM
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No, but I really, really, really want to. I will in the future most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:06 AM
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Is she just an empty shell with tits? Objectification My problem with this is why anybody finds this to be a problem at all. Or why people decide its not a problem when its men because thats just "male power fantasy". Heads you win tails I lose.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:04 AM
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This topic is a little more nuanced than the black and white version that the manosphere talks about. If there is any group that has been consistently terrible at nuance about these topics, its mainstream feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 11:00 AM
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Nuh-uh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 10:48 PM
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Well then I guess I can't the issue. Idiot should have maintained OPSEC.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 10:48 PM
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Lol not the politician guy, I mean /u/LewisCross
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:24 PM
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largely ignore girls who don't fall into their attraction spectrum Which is a small percentage, mostly obese girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 07:22 PM
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Most people are nothing on the large scale. Really, unless you're in an especially influential position, you don't matter. I don't matter. Most people don't matter. Recognizing that is a first step to being comfortable with one's self, and building empathy for others. Maybe I'm wrong but I don't think he was saying you have to matter in terms of providing some huge value to society. Its just that women want the men who stick out, not the boring guys. Boring guys don't even exist on most girls' r…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:56 PM
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How did his reddit username get leaked in the first place? I think people have a right to privacy, but not a right to not be judged if their privacy is broken (even if the information is leaked illegally). These are two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:52 PM
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Hold on, what did he say that was sexist?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:47 PM
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Life would be much simpler if that were actually true.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:44 PM
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Well then I must be awesome then. I guess my oral obsession has its benefits.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:27 PM
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I'd be willing to bet that there is an above average proportion of fit men in TRP
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:20 AM
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Too many women fake orgasm just to end it and go do something else Which to me says a lack of desire.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 06:07 AM
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Does this work with money too? If I act like I have a lot of money, I'll definitely be able to afford more things right? No, but if you act like the poor will always be poor and the rich will always be rich and nobody moves up or down then you will be a bad moneymaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:12 AM
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I didn't in the past, and all my exes are below average height (for girls) while I'm super tall. It feels weird. I would really, really like my next LTR to be with a girl who is 5'10"+. Preferably over 6', but I have to be realistic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:41 AM
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Sure, but our society has changed in a lot of other ways that has had an effect on sex and relationships. The rise of atheism and the isolation caused by modern technology for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:12 AM
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Its ok, that is how Reddit works
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 02:10 AM
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Not far left politically Nice. Above everything else, she is nice Desires me a lot Very sexually open/weird Has at least a few similar interests to my own
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:50 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/cozyhqD.png
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:42 AM
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but also expect them not to be assertive or ambitious on the job Lots of bad bosses don't like assertiveness. I always hear this stuff online, but never see it in real life. How do you know this is not girls actually being treated to the same standard as men, and perceiving that as sexism?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:34 AM
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I've noticed in the past few years that a lot of people are becoming trans for victimhood/political points (mostly guys wearing earings and some lipstick) and at most crazy, loud, and/or violent political rallies there are tons of them everywhere. Some [actual] trans people are kind of annoyed with these guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:26 AM
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Had to google that. I think this subreddit sometimes gives porn too much credit for sexual/relationship changes in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:23 AM
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Too bad I would just look like a terrifying amazonian woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:19 AM
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Ever seen Tickled? That shit was fascinating.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 09:13 AM
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True, not being a Hikikomori is the baseline for anything romance related.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:51 AM
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Because of this
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/17 08:46 AM
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Well firstly, redpill youtubers as /u/squidracer mentioned, and also: https://therationalmale.com/ <- the most important one https://illimitablemen.com/ https://blacklabellogic.com/ https://heartiste.wordpress.com/ https://dalrock.wordpress.com/ https://markmanson.net/archive I'd say at this point these places provide much better quality content than the RP subreddit. You'll note a couple these guys don't like TRP, but they are also followed and read by tons of RP guys and are recommended often.…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/17 04:27 AM
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Oh I'm taking it as a positive for myself. I had two sexual partners during college but I wasn't exactly partying it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:35 PM
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but if he was a nose-to-the-grindstone shutin in college ... there's nowhere to go but up for that guy Yaaaaaay!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:30 PM
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I wish more people would realize that the RP subreddit isn't "TRP" its just one place. A place that seems to get worse every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 11:29 PM
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They are possibly completely impossible to find
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:40 PM
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since you do have women friends it would be easier for you to find love. Thats not how it works. Women who enjoy friendship with you think of you as completely harmless. I know this from experience. In high school I would sleep over in girls bedrooms, just me and a bunch of girls, and nobody batted an eye because I might as well have been gay. When you are seen as a possible romantic option, there is more "distance".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:48 AM
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Making friends isn't that difficult. Its mostly about being in the same place at the same time with the same group of people. Hence why everybody finds making friends in school so easy. With girls its even better because they don't have a very high barrier to entry for friendship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:45 AM
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I'll wildly speculate that the proportion of decent to shitty people is about the same for both sexes. That really, really depends on how you define shitty
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:42 AM
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When did I make such a claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 07:40 AM
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Understandable. But really those things you listed are basically my dream as well. Especially being able to play coop games with somebody. My exes all hated all forms of gaming, my last ex even hated Game of Thrones. Girls just want to go out, in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 04:15 AM
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Well I'm not much of a drinker but lets go get married, I'm free Saturday
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:52 AM
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I was always looking at the average girls and they were always looking somewhere else.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:15 AM
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What kinds of things do you want to do with this future man?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:12 AM
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Its not about the venting its about the blame. A lot of people have a tendency to blame their partner and portray them as the "defective one" after a breakup, even when they were clearly the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:11 AM
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Ah, so you are the unicorn?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:07 AM
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Even more so! It is through them women find a great deal of power. Those guys are political and social weapons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:06 AM
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Exactly. As long as it doesn't appear to be for the sake of attracting women. When girls see a guy online consciously working to make himself more appealing to women, they feel repulsed. Women are disgusted because of a very deep fear of being "fooled" into getting with a guy who didn't come out of the womb with a six pack and charisma. Even when girls consciously understand that charisma and fitness and professional success are things that grow and develop over a man's life, they still see it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 03:05 AM
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It sounds like there's an issue with the manosphere then, not the internals of self-improvement. If women don't approve, it must be wrong. This is why the manosphere exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/17 02:53 AM
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men tend to blame women and take their frustrations out on women more often than women take their frustrations out on men. Most girls and guys after a breakup say "she was crazy" and "he was a douchebag" after the fact. I'm not sure how gendered that is. Girls typically have a much better support structure, full of people who will also say "he was a douchebag".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 09:02 PM
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By expressing it in a more attractive way. Even if doing so is more difficult for us at first. Especially the part where we accept that the kind of love we were looking for does not exist. So it has to be changed to fit with reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:58 PM
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What is modern TRP mostly about? Don't really know, I haven't been on that subreddit in a long time. Its not the same place though, from what others tell me. Do you have women recoiling in horror when they see what you used to be? No, women recoil in horror when the see almost anything on the manosphere. They are absolutely repulsed by the kinds of conversations men have amongst themselves. Even the fairly relaxed ones. A lot of women in general aren't able to be comfortable with men talking abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:56 PM
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there's an issue with the way I'm expressing my love. Precisely. And RP dudes are all about changing that expression into something more attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:51 PM
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But what kind of bad stuff has she actually done? Its been a while since I've payed much attention to this stuff, but from what I recall: Did the standard practice of falsely interpreting the wage gap data to make it seem like its for the same work Used a single study on false rape claims that had one of the lowest percentage results, when many other studies have widely varying results Promotes blank slate theories which are easily disproven Calls out all kinds of "sexist" things that aren't sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 08:45 PM
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You don't get to pretend they don't exist, and in large numbers Oh they exist, but to say they are a full representation of everybody associated with TRP is at best an unsubstantiatable claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:59 PM
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I have lifted weights Yeah, and you did it badly, without the proper diet, without the proper routine. Like I said, you never really tried. You're much better at making excuses than picking up heavy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:57 PM
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I'm not sure how I could be more clear. The first sentence is saying: If you are an attractive girl "be nice" is honestly super good advice. Guys love nicegirlsTM . An attractive girl who isn't high maintenance, who doesn't act entitled, who is just fair and nice, she's the exact kind of girl all guys want to marry. Except perhaps the really psychologically fucked up guys. The second sentence is saying: In reality, hot girls usually come with more entitlement, more emotionality, more craziness, …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:56 PM
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word vomit What he said was quite clear, actually. If one day all women only wanted to sleep with guys who wore blue shirts, every guy would be wearing a blue shirt. Now personally I don't, nor do most guys on this subreddit, degrade women to "a set of holes" because that is stupid. All you guys seem to know how to do is strawman RP. Anyways here is an interesting question: if loving somebody causes them to distance themselves away from you, and that is what always happens every time you try, ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:45 PM
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Don't tell me I'm not a lion
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:38 PM
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Women generally feel sadness when rejected, men usually feel rage/anger. Men are more likely to kill themselves after a breakup
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:37 PM
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I'm pretty sure that variation of feminism is not cool with most people Laci Green is not unpopular - she is mainstream feminism - and many consider her to be part of the same dishonesty factory as those "Tumblr feminazis".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:35 PM
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I particularly think lifting is largely a waste of time Because you never really tried. We had this discussion. You're no better than the fat girls who just sit around blaming genetics and never changing anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:33 PM
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Well how you respond to those hard truths depend on your personal history.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:31 PM
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High value guys will be attracted to a hot girl who is also nice. Usually you have to choose one or the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:30 PM
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Make yourself better That is what old TRP was completely about. Now its what modern TRP is sometimes about. Girls just don't like seeing the internals of how that self-improvement occurs. They find it gross. Which is why they are supposed to be "internals".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:29 PM
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It's like you all think you are some kind of undercover, stealth super-villians or something No, its just that people who actually really learned something from TRP are not the people who run around screaming about alphas. Not once in a conversation have I ever mentioned the terms SMV, Alpha, nor have I really talked much about sexual dynamics at all. Especially not with a girl. Its stupid, nobody with half a brain does it. Being RP is not running around lecturing people on shit. Those are just …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:27 PM
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In the United States absolutely, they are Class C drugs alongside stuff like ketamine and GHB.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 07:23 PM
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Hey, he might get a little bit more of a face like the one on the right if he gets on steroids. Another of many reasons why roids should not be illegal. They just make guys look better.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:41 AM
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Its kind of true if you include old and fat people and if you are using the term "average" to refer to the entire population.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:40 AM
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PUA isn't TRP, "special snowflake" is an extremely mainstream term. I hear 65 year olds talking about special snowflakes.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 05:39 AM
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Did they say anything about the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 01:47 AM
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I once met a red haired girl with no teeth who screamed at me and punched me in the mouth. I guess thats just what all feminists are like. I mean, she never mentioned feminism, but...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:55 AM
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Being bossy and being in charge are two different things. Bossy people are people who are more willing to abuse their power. They feel entitled to treat other people like shit. Thats not the same as taking charge.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:34 AM
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Trp guys are always in their heads, analyzing their next move or trying to figure out what the girl is thinking or trying to do something to manipulate the situation in order to get something and it puts up a wall between other people That is your perception based on the fact that your primary experience of TRP guys is over the internet, where literally all anybody does is writes their thoughts down. Have anybody describe why they do what they do and it will sound like overanalyzing. Thats the n…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/17 12:32 AM
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Because its a general description and categorization of human behavior, not a claim that humans actually operate like pack animals. Why is this so hard for people to figure out?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:55 PM
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Let him who is without sin be the first to hit that dank OG kush.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 09:52 PM
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Sex appeal is just being attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:48 PM
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I really don't think men with lots of sex appeal are super aware in-the-present-moment meditative types...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 08:48 PM
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follow their book and with a lot of hard work and persistence you'll become a 360 degree perfectly well rounded alpha You made this up. Read The Rational Male, which I (and many others) consider the best RP writer on the internet. He makes no such claims. In fact, he explicitly states that he avoids being prescriptive instead of descriptive. have that confidence deep inside him when he's alone and the facade is gone and he may actually be very lost and confused The whole point of self-developmen…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 07:04 PM
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worries disproportionately about stupid shit My life in a nutshell.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:20 PM
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SUPLEX DAT STRAWMAN BABY
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:20 PM
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there is no biological difference in sex drives Perhaps you are misunderstanding. Its not that women can't feel the same level of arousal as men. Its that women are not experiencing that drive throughout the day, every day, the same way men are. Women, including women on this subreddit, describe how even with attractive men they don't really start to experience arousal until they've at least interacted with the man a little bit. A very attractive man will trigger some arousal, but its just not t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:02 PM
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You're talking averages, he is talking maximums
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/17 04:41 AM
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This is not the topic of discussion in OP's post.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 06:00 PM
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Well its not super stylish but I love the flat walls, everything the same color, etc. Not a bunch of Target knickknacks mounted along the walls.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:59 PM
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Honestly, like I said, everything on a certain level. Thats the thing with shit tests, they very rarely exist purely as tests and nothing else. And not all of them are super direct. But the salty comment definitely rings more solidly as an example.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:57 PM
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Man why do girls always want to cover everything in "stuff"? I love minimalist interior design
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:56 PM
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Zero salt, but speaking of shit testing, this is a mild example...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:52 PM
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what's your suggestion to me and all the others of my tribe empty of empathy? Nothing, its not your job. Do whatever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:03 PM
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Whats wrong with that bathroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:00 PM
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now they are addicted to working out Whats wrong with that? We all get a little addicted to things we enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:59 PM
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Roid rage? These guys aren't even very big. P.S. Roid rage is also a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:58 PM
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This is precisely it. Could not have said it better. This guided me for a long time, and probably still guides me to some extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:56 PM
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Downvote and retreat, good strategy lol. Unless that wasn't you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:54 PM
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Nice to see how you dismiss misogyny I dismiss egregious claims. Should I just accept all claims from women as gospel? If a girl says that my ten second glance in her general direction was horrifically sexist, should I get on my knees and apologize? Feel free to be a skeptic, I just think approving completely of the present family court system requires you to be anti-egalitarian. Which you can be if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:53 PM
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There aren't a lot of locations where you have to know 3+ languages. Being bilingual is something a lot of people have just from growing up speaking two languages.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:49 PM
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Tall ✔ Fit ✔ Good genetics ✔ Has degree, is clearly well educated ✔ There are many guys like that. I've met one personally (well, he wasn't exceptionally tall or anything) I can't tell if hes super rich, but it doesn't seem so. He is also not fluent in a bunch of different languages. So he does not fit the description discussed earlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:48 PM
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Some men can moderate, my point is that to get a significant percentage of men (because you are in the vast minority I'm afraid) to be less sexually manipulable requires massive societal changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:43 PM
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The male and female sex drives are not the same. It is not always present - at least not in any noticeable way - for women. For the most part, sexual arousal requires more than just a simple visual for women. This is not true 100% of the time, just most of the time. For men, anything can set it off, and it never, ever shuts down. Men who say they aren't "obsessed" are correct, it has nothing to do with being obsessed. We all tune it out but its always there. I'd say the only time we don't feel i…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:41 PM
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There is a rather non-subtle line between "my boss called me a worthless woman" and "I saw a guy spread his legs too wide on the subway". One of those things is eye roll worthy. Do you think the family court system doesn't have any issues? Its a-ok as is?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:38 PM
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Y'all need Jesus
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:34 AM
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I mean, I like having sex, but it doesn't take up every waking moment The male sex drive is ever present. We all (or at least, most of us) learn to live with it pretty soon after puberty. It doesn't mean its gone though, just existing in the background, sometimes influencing decisions without you totally consciously realizing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 07:33 AM
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always take me seriously especially when I talk about misogyny If his eyes are not rolling out of his head, then you might want to check if he's growing vaginas somewhere on his body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:14 AM
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almost any man is a Chad to somebody Even me?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:08 AM
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Damned spregs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:06 AM
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Was he fluent in the three asian languages? He didn't go to Harvard though, he just went to a decent school. . but he's gay so... So again he isn't fitting the description. I'm not saying somebody can't learn a bunch of languages or be suave and fit or get a PhD. I'm just saying I'm very skeptical that there is a man who is all of these things, and got there before his 30's.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 05:03 AM
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whining Why is it always whining? Its never expressing a genuine grievance? Its always "look at these pieces of shit having a problem with this part of the legal system".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:24 AM
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"proud to be a bitch" SWIPE LEFT SWIPE LEFT
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:20 AM
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for example the belief that inner city minority guys are 'more RP' They are. That doesn't mean RP men aspire to be living in a high-crime poor neighborhood. Nor does it mean they think the men living there are better men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:19 AM
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I don't ever want to be at a point in my life where I'm financially dependent on someone Status is not wealth, and being attracted to somebody high status is not the same as wanting a sugar daddy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:16 AM
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Every woman on PPD is a unicorn, according to themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 04:15 AM
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If all thirsty men stopped being thirsty Take this slang literally and you'll understand why this will never change. There is no off switch. Getting men to control these urges better would require a much stricter society where boys were constantly trained to appreciate the power of self-respect and self-control. I'd love to see such a society where having a designated male mentor was considered an extremely important tradition for every man, and these sorts of lessons were taught. I should be mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 03:03 AM
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I'd love to see an actual example of this. Learning languages takes a ton of work, getting fit takes a ton of work. It takes many, many years. You couldn't put much (or any) time into all that while also going through Harvard. A guy with all those accomplishments would be in his 30's at a minimum. Most of the extremely highly gifted students are socially inept and take little care of their appearance. They suck at talking to girls too, can only really "talk shop".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 02:53 AM
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That dude would not be in his 20's. That is close to being physically impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 01:57 AM
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Can we gas them with fart gas at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/17 12:40 AM
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I know she seems like a beacon of light and hope to disillusioned Americans Lol what? Shes awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 11:31 PM
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There are definitely girls who would consider both entitled, and one was just entitled and extra rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 11:29 PM
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Do you really think that every woman is a party girl No. But every non-party girl I've ever known still wanted to go out and be entertained all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 11:27 PM
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I might look for some when Im not on mobile. I mean I don't mind you saying I'm girly cuz that's pretty true but shit testing kind of means I'm trying to create conflict doesn't it? Not at all, firstly its not really "trying," girls do it without really putting a lot of effort into it. Especially girly-girls. God, there are some girls like that who will emotionally slam you into the ground like a freight train and continue talking, never really noticing. Second, it isn't an attempt to "create co…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:13 PM
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There are lots of women out there who don't need a ton of excitement to keep them interested You found some? WHERE?! I've found that many women think that dark triad men are too intense and would rather settle down with somebody who is a healthy mix of alpha and beta. These sound like words, not actions.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:05 PM
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Your have that very girly personality that is inevitably tied to creating endless shit tests (consciously or unconsciously). And just your comments on their own sometimes seem to be just that.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 09:00 PM
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Perhaps extremely attractive men do. Myself and most guys would love a girl to just fall into our lap. Shit, look at the purified male fantasy world of most anime: random loser minding his own business, suddenly a bunch of 10s jump into his life and all want to be his girlfriend. Also you don't have to be sexually aggressive to be direct and not put up artificial walls. Theres no dichotomy there. Most of us like nicegirls, as I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:38 PM
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Im starting to think that everything /u/IamTheWalkingMenu writes is a shit test lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:32 PM
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TIL Irish people are "colored"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:30 PM
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I hear women give advice to their girlfriends to make a man chase her "guys like a challenge" be confident "guys love confidence" this is all just projection. If you want to get a guy just be hot, and don't be a bitch. Guys actually love nicegirlsTM. And of course yes guys do the same thing in the other direction, thinking that if they get fit enough, wear stylish enough clothes, drive a sexy enough car, they can get any woman. If anything, TRP works to get men out of that sort of thinking, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:26 PM
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These organizations are showcasing why feminism is cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:15 PM
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What kind of reputation problems
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 08:04 PM
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no u
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 07:56 PM
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men are heralded for making this great sacrifice I see people being told constantly to appreciate the hard work and sacrifices of housewives.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/17 02:39 AM
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Oh. Well perhaps if the guy is feminine enough it might be doable. I dunno. My only male-male experience is with very big manly dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 11:11 PM
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It's all over for me. Have you considered men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:12 PM
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I turned my GoPro on This is so, so important. Video of such an incident is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:01 PM
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Personally, I say retreat, get anything you can on video, and if you're cornered and she doesn't appear to be a mortal threat, take it. Just get cut and bruised, take the assault to your body head on. Let it happen. The only possible place a man can even attempt to win against assault by a woman is in court, preferably with video evidence. Any attempts at self defense can come back to bite you hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 10:00 PM
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Most people can easily discern between films and real life at a young age. No they don't. In so many ways they don't. You don't think film, television, and music has an effect on people? It has a massive effect. It causes people to change all kinds of decisions, to develop interests they wouldn't have otherwise developed, and to often make inaccurate judgements about the real world based on these observed fictional worlds. Just look at how juries now put more weight on forensic evidence and DNA …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:08 PM
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This guy is the strawman every BPer likes to pretend is every guy who is even somewhat RP. Obviously nobody likes that guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 06:01 PM
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Anything's possible
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 05:59 PM
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And that is caused by genetics and environment, both of which we have no control over. So nobody ever makes a change based on their own choice? Its always just circumstances making other choices impossible? That is demonstrably false.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:52 PM
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me_irl
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:44 PM
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To guys who are feminized and have learned to view masculine behavior with disgust, "douchebag" is any guy who is confident and masculine and sleeps with the girls the feminized guy wanted to take on lots of dates before holding her hand.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:42 PM
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won't make him into the pansy they're hoping he'll be But it might mess him up in other ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:31 PM
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True, I was just referring back to its only rape if the student didn't consent (i.e. it would have also been rape if they were 18)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:30 PM
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Teachers having sex with students above the age of consent aren't usually charged with rape They are if they raped them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:13 PM
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They didn't force you to wear the dress. That is such a fundamental difference that I have to believe you understand it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:11 PM
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So is it fine to do to a boy?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/17 03:10 PM
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Similarly, if a woman doesn't keep up her appearance, she is looked down negatively in nearly every other aspect of her life By this argument, Hillary Clinton shouldn't have gotten very many votes, because she sure isn't a model.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:15 PM
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could easily proposition the employee for sex and then potentially negatively affect the employee's career if the boss's advances are rejected Yeah, which is why I don't think its good to do, but that doesn't mean it is rape or that it should even be illegal. Rape implies that you do not consent and you are physically prevented from stopping the act, or at least it is clear to you that if you attempt to get away you will be physically prevented from doing so. I don't agree with the notion that m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:11 PM
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Ok, so if you were to give this man advice that would make you respect him more, but he is just asking you for life advice and not asking for what he can do to make you respect him more, what advice would you give?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 11:05 PM
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Ok, if a man in his situation asked you for advice, what you would tell him to do that would make you respect him more?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 07:16 PM
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Yeah but I'm asking you a different, more productive question. If a man in his situation asked you for advice, what you would tell him to do? How should he improve his standing?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:41 PM
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And the accused is still viewed as guilty seeing as the school permitted the victim to continuously defame him, and the media helped fuel it for a long time as well. Oh and Nungesser's lawsuit against the school has been dismissed multiple times now. His parents also made a good point: After investigating the allegations against Paul for seven months they found them not credible, but when Ms. Sulkowicz went to the press and claimed Columbia had swept everything under the rug, why didn’t they sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 06:40 PM
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Apparently the more mixed you are the more likely you'll be attractive People who are "pureblood" are super attractive. I love how different ethnicities have their own unique sets of traits and I find them attractive for that. Its not that mixed races are ugly or anything, just kind of more generic. They don't have as many "peak attractive" people because they are all moving towards the mean. An Irish girl with two Irish parents and a Japanese girl with two Japanese parents can both be equally a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:50 PM
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What work do you do in China? I assume you're not another ESL teacher.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:41 PM
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Ok so ideally what should he do now to not be a loser and to find himself a wife that shows that he is not a loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:40 PM
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If she's convincing than maybe he should consider himself lucky
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:38 PM
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Whats your opinion on beards and crazy hair?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:35 PM
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Seems especially common in China. Every day there is some news story about a Chinese guy stabbing his girlfriend to death.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:33 PM
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Are you telling me that Beauty and the Beast wasn't a documentary?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:31 PM
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But don't expect everyone to think it's as necessary as you do. Everybody on this subreddit seems to make it sound like its super necessary, which makes people like me who never did any of it feel kind of bad, like our lives are already over or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:30 PM
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'ey bitch, u hear im alpha B A D B O Y E ?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:29 PM
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It was cool to fuck randoms, sleep around a lot, party hard, drink hard, and have fun at the age of 18-21. It was actually something to be proud of and aspire to. Well I guess I missed out because I did none of this. Too scared, too shy. Too depressed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:27 PM
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How can he make himself feel better unless you feel like shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:26 PM
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I think a boss having sex with an employee can be a bad idea with bad consequences, but that doesn't make it rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:22 PM
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NOW believes her story, you believe his. neither of you are right or wrong but you're outraged that someone wouldn't agree with you Are you equating these two positions? One of them presumes innocence until proven guilty, the other assumes guilt until proven innocent. You're changing the argument by saying that /u/5th_Law_of_Robotics believes the man's story. You can believe he is a rapist but still not abandon the concept of innocent until proven guilty. Belief is not proof. Do you personally c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:21 PM
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A man's testimony is worth half that of a woman's, as feminist God commanded it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:13 PM
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I don't think you can set an age of consent without it being arbitrary, because there is no perfect time where each person is "mature" enough. But I don't think a teacher having sex with a 15 year old is rape by default, its only rape if the student didn't consent (i.e. it would have also been rape if they were 18). I'm not sure who those laws protect, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:09 PM
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I couldn't parse this. Can you elaborate? I think he is saying that even though we basically peak in our teens in terms of fertility, we tend to be more attractive when we're a bit older. We don't peak in attractiveness the same time we peak in fertility, which is somewhat more the case with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:03 PM
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TIL you can't hide replies
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 05:00 PM
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Emotional manipulation of all kinds would be #1, I imagine. But the whole "toxic" concept typically comes with the implication that these behaviors are more cultural than biological.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 01:06 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=f75RTPZ6dDo
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 01:02 AM
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What do you think it's like to have a broken hip on the floor in your condo and there's no one related to you to care for you? If I ever get that unfit, I'll wobble off a bridge myself. The old people we observe today are people who didn't really think of exercise as an activity you did for its own sake, and who smoked like crazy. I think in 70 years there are going to be a lot more 90 year olds who died from heart failure while on their regular 4 mile jog. It wont be the majority or anything, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:56 AM
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Incoming: "Women aren't necessarily dumber, they're just better at different things, like cleaning and changing diapers." Lol I don't think anybody has said that. If I recall correctly, in terms of raw calculation girls are better at math than boys. There are just not as many girls who want to do more math than they absolutely have to. And yet, women are able to watch Disney films as kids, get pandering advice like "Be yourself!" from that red fuck Elmo, and still look around them and see that h…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:53 AM
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Well in my opinion: Hot trap > Just a dude > dude with earrings and eyeliner and extreme political views who is "trans"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 12:45 AM
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True yeah, barebacking is just a bad idea unless you're in a very solid LTR
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:24 PM
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they're really on the rise now. HIV infection rates have been kept stable for a while now, so its not getting worse in that respect
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 10:20 PM
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Those are the Redditors willing to meet up who live in or around Kentucky. It doesn't say much. I've seen Redditors who look like these people, and I've seen plenty who are actual models.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:01 PM
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I want to bounce on that woman's belly. I bet it would be magical.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 08:00 PM
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I assume thats mostly black girls, most of the other non-white races are treasured by men. Especially Asians and latinas.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:52 PM
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DAMMIT BIEBER WHY
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:51 PM
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Oh ok
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:40 PM
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Yes. It is his responsibility to escort her directly to her father or brother, and then apologize for even having laid hands on her.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:27 PM
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Its a mentality I observe a lot around here, and agree with. Once you appreciate how competitive sexual dynamics are, you realize that gay people are basically cheating the system and are rewarded greatly for it, you kind of start wishing you found dudes attractive. Well its great except in the places and times where straight people punish them for being gay...
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:24 PM
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I think you're ascribing too much to any of these guys and their lack of sex. These are people without empathy, and with a lot of anger. I don't think a woman is going to change either of those. Really what Elliot Rodger needed wasn't a woman, but a decent male mentor. Those are one in a million.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:17 PM
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Tall British, pale with a beautiful head of hair. Kind've edgy & alternative And you don't have to be tall. Or look like a model. In fact a lot of tops adore short twinkish types. So being short isn't a disadvantage at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:15 PM
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Mind blowing really. Not too mind blowing, gay guys are guys. They see somebody that is their type, or maybe they're just horny, and they want to get naked with em. In other words, they get to have all the fun, uninhibited by the barrier creation fueled by female biological goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:14 PM
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He's broken some chairs in the kitchen and he even broke my rocking chair =\ I don't think I could ever be that guy. I can stand my ground but I don't even yell, I never see a reason to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:28 PM
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Its about as easy as a remotely attractive male getting gay sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 01:25 PM
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The best sex I've had was when I could feel her passion. The worst sex was when she was clearly treating it like a chore. Even when I'm not really in the mood, I still communicate my desire for her. I can't say I've experienced the same in the other direction. If she doesn't really want me, I'd rather just masturbate.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/17 07:22 AM
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Guess what? We all survived just fine. The speed at which bad things happen depends on location. But if all women stopped doing their job (becoming pregnant, raising babies etc) everything would grind to a halt. The human race ≠ civilization. You can have humans without civilization. those men had wives, mothers and sisters guiding them A very broad, often untrue, statement. the vast amount of men that ever lived in civilised places were either dogsbodies... Yeah, that civilization existed becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 11:09 PM
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They look feminine as fuck, but they are still considered good looking. Alpha Alpha They all look very thin and feminine, but don't get it confused: they are Alpha. Love those songs btw.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:58 PM
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Alphas don't exist, you're talking about stuff that doesn't have any scientific backing. Until you prove that humans can be divided into 'alphas' and 'betas,' via citation to scientific research, I can dismiss whatever weird theory of yours that follows it. In short, you're just making stuff up and there's nothing backing what you claim. I assume you haven't been around these parts much if you don't appreciate that they are more general terms to describe types of people, it is not meant to imply…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:55 PM
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I mean, men are still using the lizard part of their brain when it comes to mates too. Human sexual desire works without having to consciously think about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:53 PM
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Don't underestimate the importance of women in society. I didn't say women are not important to society. I said civilization rests on the backs of men. I don't know everybody finds this to be such a complicated concept. http://judgybitch.com/2013/09/17/what-would-happen-if-no-men-showed-up-for-work-today/
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:48 PM
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I didn't argue that the human race only needs men. Biological existence and civilization are not the same thing. Humans existed before human civilizations existed. I argued that civilization relies on men, exists because of men, and exists today on the shoulders of men. If men all quit, shit gets bad, very bad, immediately.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:22 PM
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If all women stopped having children today and taking care of the children they currently have, society would collapse in ~50 years. If we're going to look at things that long term, than you're going to have problems with few children getting educated, and lots of people with chronic diseases dying from the lack of functioning hospitals. But with men not working you have immediate problems, and terrible amounts of violence and hunger in urban areas within weeks. The power grid would shut down ov…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:18 PM
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Ok so you don't think somebody can change who they are? Obviously if you don't want to change into somebody more high value, than you'll just have to deal with the options you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:11 PM
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The one female teacher that I wanted to bang (and she was giving me some hints) was in her 60's, overweight, and had short hair. Still wished I had gone for it, would have been such an experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 10:08 PM
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You're really proving the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:55 PM
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If all women quit their jobs today, life would suck, and if you got badly injured you'd probably just die. If all men quit their jobs today, wed all be freezing and starving to death, and there would be rioting in the streets. Civilization would collapse. So, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 04:53 PM
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Lucky. I would have killed for an opportunity like that when I was 16. Stereotypes exist because of the majority, usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:43 AM
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Recipe for being boring and basic af. I don't get how. If you're attractive to a lot of people it means that you have more access to high value people than somebody who is only attractive to a small group of people. The "one" who really loves you for who "you" are is not going to be very high value. For example, most girls have quite a few men in their lives who would love them "for who they are". But those men are lame betas.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:31 AM
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I hate the burden of performance, but its like how I hate going outside when it is super hot out. I may hate it, but its what has to be done. If you're not very exciting, girls will either find somebody who is or find something to replace the time they would have spent in bed with you. This doesn't mean you have to be a party animal, but you have to go out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:30 AM
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I don't understand why you have a problem with this. People aren't interested in donating themselves. If you want value, you have to provide value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:17 AM
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On a fundamental level men will always rule civilization to some degree because civilization rests on the backs of men. Also men are better at killing. Even in democracies women still vote for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:13 AM
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Do you not believe the self is changeable? "Someone else" becomes you with enough time.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/17 03:11 AM
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That only works under the assumption that enough people find your "self" attractive enough that you might run into one of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 11:42 PM
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Boys are allowed to do mostly whatever they want. Girls are told time and time again not do something because it's dangerous. Where the hell did you grow up? The 19th century? Most of the kids in my neighborhood all ran around and played, without either gender being particularly segregated from certain things. Other than, like, no sleepovers with boys and girls (as if anybody even wanted those icky girls to hang out with us overnight)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 09:14 PM
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Perhaps all of those things are manly lol. Except not wasting your time away for work and having it to spend with your family Plenty of girls like that, but not because its particularly manly.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 09:09 PM
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Well I don't think people disregard the importance of genetic fitness too. I think there are more guys who think its all about being physically attractive than it being about being manly. There's plenty of them around here even.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 08:27 PM
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Oh I agree, the idea of a woman who is just sexually needy is a fiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:59 PM
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macho myth How is it a myth? Men have admired the big and strong as long as men have existed.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:58 PM
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Well, mansplaining would imply I think you don't understand something. I'm just calling you a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:57 PM
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Who likes 'needy' people? I like sexually needy women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:49 PM
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male power fantasy A concept invented to circumvent accusations of double standards in feminist media criticism. Weren't more women attracted to Loki than Thor? Women like both of them. When the first Thor movie came out I remember women gushing left and right.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:45 PM
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I think actually half or more men today believe in something analogous to red pill, if bastardized maybe. I disagree completely. Most guys are very blue pill, even if they are very aggressive in terms of career and relationships with other men. One might come to believe that the majority of men are like that if they tend to hang out in places where aggressive men congregate (which are often also places where attractive women congregate).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:30 PM
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I'm not into Thor's type of look. I don't believe you simply based on my belief that nobody on Earth is not into his look. Also: most handsome Kpop idol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 06:28 PM
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One day I hope!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 01:50 PM
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I'm into boring shit. Writing bits of code, meditating, cooking, lifting, watching movies from time to time, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/17 07:19 AM
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Yeah but I hate that fence, I don't mind that it doesn't look perfect.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 10:04 PM
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Hence relationships can feel tiring to me. This is the burden of performance.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:40 PM
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being sexually preyed upon by an elder is as damaging to young men as it is to young women It can be, but I don't think these will ever be treated the same because men and women are different. There was an older teacher (who wasn't all that attractive) who got a bit handsy on me in high school and I would have loved to have had sex with her. A lot of these cases are only statutory. Consensual by the more direct definition of "both parties voluntarily entering the relationship," but the law doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:39 PM
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Likes order and planning, always predictable. Do most women consider this a turn off? I'm definitely like this, I like order and planning. You can't expect to have an organized, responsible husband if he is also a wildcard.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:33 PM
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If Billy beta doesn't understand these dynamics from unstructured play/observation/participation/socialization by the time he graduates high school, tough shit. That's a milestone of personal development that is wholly his responsibility. And most boys are failing at understanding these dynamics. I'm going to say the responsibility falls primarily on men. Mentors, fathers, big brothers, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:28 PM
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Because that always works out so well in deadbedrooms. 400 close, intimate emotional talks later and they are still unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:24 PM
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JAPAN HERE WE COME!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:23 PM
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take the steps necessary to avoid them If this truly happens, then RP and PUA strategies will just change to meet whatever new attributes cause attraction. But it wont happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:15 PM
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But if she learns that she can get him to do most things by taking a certain set of steps, then she is now in control of the relationship. She owns the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:12 PM
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The status quo is that everything is the mans fault. So here we all are.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:10 PM
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Guys who workout aren't necessarily more interested in a clean house or doing maintenance on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:09 PM
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Give me a torso pic and we can judge how ripped he is. You can have a six pack just by being a skinny bastard, doesn't always make a person look particularly fit though. Its that whole "a skinny guy with abs is like a fat girl with big tits - it doesn't count".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:08 PM
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Omg are you serious? You don't know how to do your own laundry? I thought the stereotype of man children who had mommy cater to their every whim and couldn't even do their own laundry was... well just a stereotype. Just wondering, are you over 25? Have you always relied on women to do basic life tasks or were you ever self sufficient at any point? Top tier shaming language here. Truly 10/10. Women don't do that shit. If something is wrong, I'm going to talk about it immediately. Because I'm piss…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:05 PM
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HOH husband is gong to go 'uh-oh, better not let her get used to doing everything herself or she's going to think she doesn't need me at all.' This sounds like a female dom relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 09:00 PM
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You have to look at the context in which something like that is typically said, and it is usually said as a way to dodge a challenging question or a statement of facts/statistics. I don't like following those arguments because you get dragged around when doing that. Sam Harris is an expert when it comes to this, the religious people he debates use this as a strategy to win, they present 400 different arguments and never refute any of Sam's rebuttals, and then declare victory at the end because S…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 08:57 PM
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That art style always made me feel ill
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:12 AM
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Yeah, I guess its kind of a baseline. I'm definitely not getting dogpiled by girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:08 AM
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the conspicuous expression of moral values by an individual done primarily with the intent of enhancing that person's standing within a social group That is literally exactly how I presented it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 03:08 AM
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M'lady
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:07 AM
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Why does it look like her face is photoshopped on
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 02:05 AM
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These height threads make me feel bad for being really tall for some reason
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:34 AM
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Good lord stop talking please
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:31 AM
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A lot of virtue signaling isn't an argument though. A lot of it is some form of eye rolling and scoffing. Basically "I can't believe you just said that" which translates to "look at me being upset by these things that I know my friends/minorities don't like, this will make them like me more". All you can do is point out the action, because no argument was made. For example, if a white guy says "you're a white straight male, you can't speak on this because you don't know [group x]'s struggles" th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:14 AM
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"feminists" don't control the world as you think I don't think most RP guys believe in a vast feminist conspiracy. Only that feminism has effected certain attitudes and laws.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:07 AM
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Naturally in shape Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:06 AM
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You're a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:05 AM
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TRP definitely espouses spinning plates as the optimal relationship arrangement.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:03 AM
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I agree, it seems to me like something done by people in certain lifestyles and subcultures that can't really be universally applied.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:02 AM
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I got confused when I saw "ass fetish". Definitely would have had something to say in that case.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/17 12:01 AM
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Short girls like really big guys I am super tall, only dated below average height girls. They love it until they realize a lot of dancing is impossible. Also it always made me feel a little weird when holding hands. Like I'm with my daughter or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 11:15 PM
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Good luck with the ladies, obviously you came to trp because it wasn't going so well for you in the first place I didn't really "come" to TRP I just stumbled onto Rollo's blog and read a bunch of articles because they were interesting. That's fine, lots of people like games and have no interest in real connection You definitely don't understand what I mean by a game then. lots of people like games Aahhh ok you think I'm talking about like "playing games". Yeah you definitely misunderstood.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:37 PM
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its very usual for people to be in a relationship and neither of them need or want control Its not about need or want. Think about the extreme example: if theres a girl who is absolutely addicted to you, who you believe would actually kill herself if you broke up with her, you probably don't want that kind of control, but you still have that power nonetheless. In such a relationship, the power imbalance is tipped almost vertically to your side. Most relationships - of course - are not that extre…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:30 PM
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Its fascinating to me that somebody believes that all relationships don't involve power. Thats not even a TRP exclusive concept, that is understood by loads of people. In every relationship, there is always one person who would be more able to cope with it ending than the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:27 PM
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Gunna need a source on that "all women are holding their marriage hostage" thing cause I don't believe that. They are holding your access to sex hostage, and divorces tend to overwhelmingly benefit them. So you don't really have negotiating power. And you cannot negotiate them into desiring you. Why do you think many men in dead bedrooms just learn to accept it? I think the idea is to find the middleground between a nasty divorce and decades without sexual companionship. That middleground is get…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:23 PM
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What do you want me to tell you? The answers to those questions, actually. That women should want to fuck red pill guys in spite of how they make them feel? I never said anything remotely close to this. If you interpreted this, than it tells me something about your fears. I've only been descriptive, not prescriptive. I have been on dates with a few red pill types and I was completely turned off Yeah I was turned off by feminist types after dating a few of them. I mean, they never said they were …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 10:08 PM
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Just reading this I can tell there is anger there and such a condecending attitude. What part of my previous post was even remotely angry? This is somewhat subtle shaming language you are using here. I've noticed girls tend to conflate disagreement with condescension, its where the whole "mansplaining" phenomenon came from. The issue is that trp isn't about becoming better to be better Nobody becomes better to be better, they become better at something because they want some result. You get bett…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 09:37 PM
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I forget sometimes that you think 26 counts as the wall. No need to panic lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 09:11 PM
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Lol I'm fine, I have been dealing with it my whole life and right now is not as horrible as it was a few years ago, but it is still pretty bad. Whenever people talk about men naturally blaming everything else or not giving so much of a shit I think "I wish" because feeling shame and self-hate all the time sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 08:57 PM
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being that man and faking being that man are very obvious to a lot of women Yes. I'll ask you a basic question. Do you think somebody with personality A who wants personality B, could read about the characteristics of personality B, and practice personality B on people until it became his "natural self"? Because if you observe a man who doesn't really "get it" yet and really is putting on an act, obviously its going to be blatant and unattractive. Its like they say, you're only doing it right wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 08:53 PM
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most gender stereotypes are complete made up garbage The average woman loses in a fistfight against the average man. The average woman will not throw a ball as far as a man The average woman is more concerned about looking pretty than the average man The average woman is going to cry more in her lifetime than the average man The average woman is going to like pretty colors more than the average man The average woman is going to scream more in her lifetime than the average man The average woman i…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 08:34 PM
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The thing they miss though is that this guy doesn't hate women, there was no manipulation involved and he didn't push me for sex in any way Ok so are we talking about all of TRP or the hyperbolic version of TRP that blue pillers see through their own lens? He wanted to stare into my eyes when we danced ... outside of the confidence That eye contact is also confidence. I think most guys (not just TRP) understand that eye contact is very, very important. Any red pill guys reading this will think h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 08:18 PM
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Oh yeah the girl from that video is physically attractive, though almost certainly I couldn't bear more than five minutes conversation with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:59 PM
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M to F trans Had no idea. This makes a lot of sense considering her political views.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:57 PM
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I really want a girl who is 6'2" or 6'3". Just slightly shorter than me. That would be amazing. But obviously I'm not keeping my hopes up for that one.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:55 PM
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They experience more guilt, shame and embarrassment I must have missed that memo pretty hard then that men don't experience this as much considering how much social anxiety has fucked with my life and my desire to end it. Edit: My desire to end it hasn't come back in about a year and half though, probably should clarify.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:45 PM
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I'm pretty sure that is exactly the guy all TRPers are trying to be
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/17 07:42 PM
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Jesus wasn't a woman, though I'd love to make him mine
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 05:08 PM
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Yes, absolutely. This subreddit always makes me feel shitty, like nothing I do will make me happy, that every second everything is withering away and if I don't act five minutes ago and do xy and z then I will die crying in a hole somewhere. The reds tell the girls this, the blues tell the guys this. Seriously though this place is overall very depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 05:07 PM
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Lol making a subreddit about a low-traffic subreddit? What do you expect to happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/17 05:04 PM
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who insists women are beautiful without make up They can, but that doesn't mean that makeup doesn't make them more attractive. Personally I love both, with and without makeup. I dated a girl for years who never wore makeup, I kind of enjoyed it for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 09:27 PM
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Well theres tons of people saying "anal isn't all that amazing in the first place" (the top comment says its overrated) then there are people describing doing it with their (eager) wives, then there are some people mentioning dread and withholding affection, but they really are the minority, hence not the consensus. And even the withholding affection guy says: Add in some SGM talk about how you make sure your girl feels good; it's a great moment. You want them to be evil so you will cherry pick …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:43 PM
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"Why does my sister keep giving me those fuck me eyes? I want to go home."
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:31 PM
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I agree. It's all "I could have had 20 sexual partners but all I got was this stupid wife who loves me and isn't a perfect woman!!!" "My wife works 72 hours a week, why doesn't she have more sex with me???" "I am 79 years old and at my prime! I want to sleep with hot 20 year old women because my wife has Alzheimer's!" Etc. Wow, way to just shame and dismiss every MRPer with hyperbole. "Are you a man unhappy with your marriage? Stop being a selfish prick and suck it up. Your desires don't matter,…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:27 PM
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how you should be resentful that she won't have it. That was far from the consensus of that thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 06:27 PM
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I think I have a special connection with those
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 01:14 PM
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Oooh one of us middlegrounders
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/17 04:46 AM
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Laughable how the left likes to paint the right as anti-poor, when the left are experts at creating poverty, and Democrats have long been the party that maintains its primary voting base by keeping them poor and reliant on handouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 10:13 PM
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This subreddit is not representative of the outside world. Of course women get a lot more criticism here.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/17 03:45 PM
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I don't know what standard sex is, but I want no part in it. Not a fan of girls who hate and blowjobs and hate cum. I do like giving facials from time to time ( I don't know why some girls are so bothered by it. I've gotten a facial, I quite liked it. Why is in the mouth better?), and I'd rather masturbate then get a blowjob from somebody who isn't really into it and I know will stop if I don't cum quickly. What I hate the most is anybody who treats sex as an extended massage, with no real passi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:41 PM
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You're an almost 6 foot 4 girl? Talk about a rarity. Wish there were more girls around who were only a few inches shorter than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:17 PM
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Lots of girls go wild over abs. Women past their mid-twenties seem to be less interested in them though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:16 PM
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serious leftists and feminist theorists esp on Tumblr This is.... you're joking right?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:13 PM
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I think this is an actual AWALT thing. The nature of the "entertainment" might be different, but girls just don't want a "boring" guy. If you relax and just kind of enjoy yourself and don't make plans to go out and do things, even very introverted girls will start to get bored of you. That wont always mean leaving, sometimes it will just mean reduced sexual attraction, more irritability, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:09 PM
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Gay men are more fit than straight people or lesbians. Being physically attractive is much more important when you are dealing entirely with the gender that puts a lot of value into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:05 PM
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Depends on what you mean. You realize using skin care products preventatively when you are young is actually a bad idea? The key to long lasting skin is to stay out of the sun, especially before you are 18, and to wear strong sunscreen when you do go outside. Anything that claims to make you look younger or reverse aging is a lie. In fact, creams and serums that claim to smooth wrinkles can actually make things worse. Your skin has a finite amount of elasticity, if you're putting things on which…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 05:04 PM
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unwillingness to let his guard down When we let our guard down, we get relaxed. When we get relaxed women leave for somebody more entertaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:55 PM
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Atlas I'm pretty sure you're a dude
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:54 PM
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I never really observed this behavior after high school. People who either are professionals or are seeking to be professionals tend not to exhibit these attitudes as much, except perhaps some fraternities.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:35 PM
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Happiness is unmanly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/17 04:34 PM
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All of the circumstances you listed have built-in selection bias. You are only recording the men who do attempt to get with girls way out of their league. You need something that uses a sample more representative of the overall population.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/17 10:50 AM
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But if you wanna attract a 20 year old at 40 while not looking like movie star, it usually entails her being more desperate than you'd think (hint, not especially attractive, single mother, insecure living conditions) or a little more than AWHOLESIXFIGURES a year. I'm genuinely curious how many attractive girls would love a ticket into a middle class lifestyle. It wont necessarily be "club girls" but I imagine having a house and a car and stability is something a lot of girls would want to be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:23 PM
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me_irl
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:19 PM
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As if Based Stick Man, our hero, our lord and savior, isn't a fucking manly looking dude
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:14 PM
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Mens bodies are built as tools of hard labor and warfare, women's bodies are built for sex and nurturing. Women are fundamentally prettier and sexier from the perspective of men and women because of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:09 PM
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Yes feminism is a shit test. But like most shit tests, it may not be that intentional. Its basically women getting burned by hot guys, trying to make rules for those hot guys, but the only guys who actually follow those rules (out of a hope of getting laid like those hot guys) are the weak unattractive shlubs that they weren't sleeping with anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:03 PM
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Yeah she's awesome
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 11:02 PM
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I suppose, if you consider libido to be tied to degree of weirdness. I want somebody who will get adventurous and do weird things with me. I have a very high limit so compatibility with me means also having a high limit.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 10:58 PM
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False Interestingly, however, the late 19th and early 20th centuries saw some of the greatest economic growth of any country in history, and it was definitely much more Laissez-Faire. And before you say "sweatshops, poverty, etc." note that those things were limited by the simple lack of goods, even if they richest people distributed all their wealth it would change virtually nothing about the standard of living of the day. However, said standard of living continually improved as the economy rap…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 07:57 PM
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Most of the real "techniques" are not a formula, they are general attitudes, philosophies about the nature of the interaction. I find it laughable that you guys are magically able to determine where a person's attitude comes from. That's some top level psychological analysis. Good manosphere advice just creates fun guys. If a guy is following some formula then he has just found bad advice or is just bad at understanding what he is supposed to do. In which case, the rejection is good for him anyw…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:15 PM
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I would not marry a virgin. Sexual compatibility is huge for marriage. Very huge for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:08 PM
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Ok I will apply this logic in the other direction: if a girl is raped it is her fault because she was dumb and didn't pick a man who wouldn't rape. Smart girls don't have to worry about getting raped because they are always able to pick men who don't rape. Its only weak, dumb women who want rape to be illegal.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:35 PM
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I know, everybody on this subreddit is a unicorn. Im not settling though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 01:28 PM
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RemindMe! 536 days "Have I come close to these goals? Am I getting closer to accomplishing these goals?"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 02:32 AM
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because they are the kind of men who most certainly voted Leave Aka good men who believe in the value of independence. I know most younger girls struggle with the entire concept of not having a big centralized-political-power community hugfest. The more distributed and decentralized political power is, the better. I talk about serious things like politics on the first date, and if he is purposefully keeping things light, I immediately see he is trying to use 'game' and I next him. The reason I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:40 AM
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Think about the British imperialism. Why did they become imperialists? They wanted resources from their colonies. It makes them money. Capitalism is not "the love of money". Its an economic system where capital goods can be privately owned, bought, and sold. It is typically tied to free markets (hence why people sometimes say free market capitalism) which says that all other goods can also be privately owned, bought, and sold. Why is it that the actions of governments (who are fundamentally anti…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:25 AM
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The ideology of nazism is defined by racism, genocide and their concept of "white purity". There are absolutely no good nazis. And communism fundamentally follows an ethical system that justifies the murder of the owners of any and all capital goods. There are no good communists. I consider communism much more dangerous than Nazism in America. Nazism is stereotypically evil. There are no Nazi clubs in universities. Reading Mein Kampf as something more than just a historical document is viewed wi…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:19 AM
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I didn't even realize I had submitted anything lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/17 12:11 AM
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If you cannot fucking figure out "enthusiastic consent" without a hand holding guide you are officially too dumb to fuck and need to remove yourself from the gene pool. We weren't the people who started pushing enthusiastic ongoing consent as the standard. Most people don't find it all that difficult to not rape. Body language isn't hard to read. Some feminists made a guide and the point is that its a stupid concept and a stupid basis for determining guilt, even just in terms of school policy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 09:13 PM
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What do you guys think about this notion? Requires a lot of false assumptions about the psychology of the people involved. This is a setup that prioritizes the male imperative, but not the female. If you tried to consciously set up this system you'd have the online dating problem - hundreds of dudes flinging their dicks at a handful of girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:32 PM
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Maybe she just feels threatened? Perhaps she feels obligated because she's concerned about what you might do? How can you really know without an enthusiastic, unhesitating verbal "yes", to be repeated at least every 5 minutes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:21 PM
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The problem is that what a lot of girls call "marriage material" basically means "safe, but not sexy". I want to be safe and sexy. Not just a provider who gets "not tonight honey" or "I'm stressed/tired" consistently every day for every year for the rest of our lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:19 PM
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I'd like to be an optimist and say that even the people who are against "yes means yes" laws are actually doing this anyways Constantly asking if she consents? No. I don't need to "constantly check in" either. Its not that difficult to tell when somebody wants to stop, because they'll physically stop and usually say stop. The problem with yes means yes is that lots of advocates explicitly say that it needs to be ongoing verbal consent. You need to hear them say "yes I want to continue" on a cons…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:17 PM
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So I have a medical condition that pretty much keeps me from drinking Shit I don't have a medical condition but I don't drink
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:10 PM
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Your emotional hyperbole is ridiculous. You literally equated white student unions to the KKK. Maybe its such a default mindset for you that you can't see the hypocrisy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:09 PM
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If I annoy you and other girls like you in this way, my chance of spending my life alone decreases from 100 percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:06 PM
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Fulfillment, purpose for your existence that lasts beyond your death. Meaning for your life in the way you contributed to humanity's progress and body of knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:04 PM
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Thats the point though, each side will defend itself from the other side attempting to take ground, and basically the whole war will occur at sea and with ballistic missiles. Large numbers of troops and tanks wont have the chance to set foot on enemy soil.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 07:03 PM
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Perhaps, but you really do need to be in the top level to be chosen by the rich and famous. Those guys have a lot of very hot options to choose from.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:31 AM
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Ah ok. It was rather hard to tell which one you were referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:29 AM
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Well I will admit I love a girl with hair down to her ankles but boy short hair isn't necessarily ugly or anything, just not as pretty.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:29 AM
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Why does his ideology factor into whether or not one supports his actions?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:28 AM
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As if this shit didn't start with leftists jerking each other off across the country over "punching Nazi's". Which amounted to sucker punching and then running away. Ah but see its only wrong when the right wing does it. Antifa and their large body of supporters set the groundwork for this. They said the time for open debate was over, and the right said "fine, have it your way".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:24 AM
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Pretty sure lots of TRPers like Milo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:22 AM
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It doesn't look like he needs to be hitting her since he out weighs her etc Why does that matter? She is equal to a man, men and women are equal, and thus they shall fight as equals. She came with a desire to fight. Do you believe she should be treated with kid gloves for having a vagina? I don't think people would be nearly as bothered by this if it was a guy who had come out to punch their political opposition. They would say "well, he wanted a fight and he got it". But because its a woman the…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:21 AM
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Nathan Damingo founder of Identity Europa Why does his ideology factor into whether or not one supports his actions? The girl came looking for a fight, she got one, and I applaud the results.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:17 AM
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Lol is that what you wear? oversized unisex tshirt On a nice body, this can be extremely sexy. bad hair cut If its not buzzcut, dreads, a mohawk, cornrows, or other extreme things I can't imagine what "bad hair cut" means. Girls are a lot more picky and knowledgeable about that sort of thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:13 AM
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The advantage is that you won't (usually) be seen as "weird" for doing it No, you'll be seen as weird for doing every time, which is why it takes courage and experience for those that do. People around you will give weird expressions, will laugh, etc. The girls friends (especially her orbiters) will say "what a weirdo" or "that was weird". There are a hundred walls of shame you have to be emotionally capable of dismissing in order to approach and do so confidently.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:11 AM
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Guns are icky and evil though
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:08 AM
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I would love to do a FFM at least once in my life. Would never do MMF though. I can't really combine my interest in vagina and my interest in dick in the same moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:04 AM
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For the sake of increasing how long they stay beautiful, absolutely. In terms of being attractive in the present moment, just "not being fat" is hot. That is less true with men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:03 AM
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Theres loads of girls who just wear a t-shirt and workout shorts and if they aren't really fat they look good.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 03:01 AM
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Except I have a thing for girls who don't get dolled up. When I said "feminine in appearance" I meant more their face+body, and at least wearing clothes meant for women. I like the cute look and the cute look doesn't require much glamour. My last ex never wore makeup for years, and wasn't wearing makeup the day we met.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 12:17 AM
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This would leave supply and demand the same, so what the dating world looked like in terms of n-count and such probably wouldn't change much, but since human beauty is mostly objective and measurable, there would be an increase in overall human happiness and satisfaction because being surrounded by attractive people just feels pleasant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/17 12:01 AM
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I feel like a five or six year age difference is realistic. I wasn't hoping to be dating any 18 year olds. But to me "neither are particularly common" isn't a statement of probability as much as it is an observed result of a lack of effort on the part of most people. Most people not only don't take care of themselves, most people actively treat their bodies like crap. This is why lifting is such a fundamentally important thing for men to do, and why it is something virtually all of the manospher…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 11:55 PM
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You don't think everyone can tell the difference between a 25yo man and a 35yo man? They look different, but I wouldn't say 35 really looks bad. And some people really do look the same. What would you say to someone telling you the same thing about a woman who was 25 vs one who's 35? There are definitely fit 35 year old women who look 25. Both of these are the exceptions though, because most people don't put much effort into physical fitness. Edward Redmayne is 35. Jeremy Renner is 46. Matt Damo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 11:27 PM
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Because I do sometimes see this on gay profiles Yeah because the sexual marketplace for gay people is much different (much better in my opinion)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 10:04 PM
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On wealth inquality: Lets say you have two choices: Choice A: Double the wealth of the bottom 90 percent of people, and cube the wealth of the top 10 percent Choice B: Divide the wealth of the top 10 percent by 20, and divide the wealth of the bottom 90 percent by 2. With Choice A you have more wealth inequality, with Choice B you have less. Which one do you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:48 PM
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If it is true that men get their hearts broken deeper I would say yes because for most average men, finding a girl who desires them feels like a blessing. Men don't have as many options, many men don't perceive any options outside of this one girl. Women have the combination of more options and better support structures from their friends to handle the heartbreak. So of course when the irreplaceable angel in the man's life walks away it can feel as bad as if a loved one died. No wonder men are t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:40 PM
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I've never met a truly interesting woman. That is, a woman I would be excited to talk to even if there was absolutely no sexual component involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:33 PM
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"Well, Chad wouldn't be on Reddit" Whoever said that isn't generalizing the concept of Chad broadly enough
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:30 PM
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My number? Uhhh 1-800-CHADCOK
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:29 PM
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I've had two LTRs
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 09:24 PM
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Because they dont actually care enough to dedicate themselves to a permanent lifestyle change so they just hop from fad diet to fad diet hoping those will somehow magically make them permanently thinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:03 PM
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Yeah realizing that user was a woman made me wonder how much of this applies to men and how much is projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 01:54 PM
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But if she loved you for your money, you could hypothetically gain weight or be an asshole or have an affair and she'd still stay because you have money. This implies I want to do these things though.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:23 AM
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Thanks, really. I think about this stuff almost every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 05:20 AM
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Trust me, metabolisms slow down around 30 - 35. It's biology; it's inevitable Im not arguing against that. Do you have a belly? Does everybody in the world past 30 have a belly? If a 30 year old eats 1200 kcals daily and runs a marathon every week will he still retain his big post-wall belly? debt Its already causing that. And its delaying the time it will take me to get a job. Ill be graduating with people several years younger than me. I really, really, really dont want to be a 8-year college …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:52 AM
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you are more likely to put on a belly You make it sound like some kind of probability problem. I have nearly a decade of experience at this point of carefully tracking my diet, and I lift. Will possibly get on roids at some point. I know from experience that relationships cause bad grades. I have been held back a whole semester because I tried to balance a relationship with school. I kicked her out of my house and broke up with her (I did not enjoy this) just so I could get through this. It woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:41 AM
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Yeah this subreddit likes to scare me about that, but I choose to believe that I will look great at 31-35 if I keep fit, which I am on track for. I simply wouldn't be able to maintain a relationship of any sort here, plus Ill be moving out of town after graduation (I hate this city). I dont think a guys face changes all that much from 25 - 35 unless he gains weight or spends all day in the sun.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 04:22 AM
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why not start dating around now, and get an idea of what you want? That requires a significant time investment - several hours a week at least. I only have time for Reddit in short bursts. And after studying and graduating (fingers crossed) I then will be learning more things outside of work, which again sucks away my available time. This lack of time will probably be present for at least three years. Going out and meeting new people takes a lot of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 03:39 AM
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Anyone who is a gold bug failed economics. we don't take "austrian" economics seriously I wonder how much you have actually read on these topics that wasn't through the filter of people who already disagreed with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:59 AM
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Aww that isn't enough? (lol) I don't think I am currently high value enough to get somebody like that. Other than being a very tall, fit, strong well-spoken guy who is an extremely good cook and has the possibility of starting a good career in a year or two, I don't have much going on. But I don't plan on dating anybody until I'm at that point. It kind of sucks, waiting until my late 20's to put myself out there, but all I care about right now is getting a decent constant income flow, which will…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:51 AM
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I'm a shut in, they are probably shut ins, this is why its difficult. If I found one I would undoubtedly get "oneitis" real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:40 AM
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How about just these, thanks. feminine in appearance monogamous wifely attributes doesn't want a big wedding doesn't want the dream house/car/husband to show off and a provider is high libido and super sexual
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:13 AM
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"Everytime I come here I leave with anxiety over my future"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:11 AM
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The debates would stop No they wouldn't, everybody already agrees with that. There is the capacity for shittyness and there is what different types of people actually do, we discuss the latter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:10 AM
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Most men hit the wall between 35 and 40 Most people hit the wall before that Many people hit the wall when they were 12. People who are fat and ugly and never change will always be past "the wall". But if you define the wall by what people are capable of instead of what most people are, then men hit the wall a bit further along than 40.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 02:06 AM
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Being beautiful is giving back. Other people value you just for existing. You are providing value just by existing. Smart ugly people have to put in work to provide value.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/17 12:05 AM
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From all walks of life, Ive never met a girl who wasnt "audience" over "performer" when it comes to casual conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 11:57 PM
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Some
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:09 AM
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Everyone knows all they talk about is clothes and shopping. They do talk about clothes and shopping sometimes, but they mostly talk about people. They can, and will, talk about people for fucking hours. It gets boring real quick. Ive never met a girl who was really entertaining, they are receivers, not givers of entertainment. The expectation is on men to guide the conversation, to "be interesting". Hence the discrepancy in the number of successful male and female comedians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 06:05 AM
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Do you all not have jobs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:45 AM
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Scrubs Scrubs was extremely blue pill. I don't know what you mean. JD was always dating these hotties even though he was a nice guy dweeb without amazing looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/17 02:44 AM
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Not a fan of man ass
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:33 PM
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You think Steven Hawking isn't respected?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:32 PM
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I do ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 03:00 AM
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RP peddles the illusion that men "age like wine" while all around us we see that's not the case Men and women who don't exercise almost always age badly. Men in their late 40's who were quite fit starting in their 20's continue to look great, in general. Most people don't take care of themselves, so yeah of course what most of us see is people getting uglier rather quickly. A lot of them are married at that point and just kind of gave up on health and fitness. Also, most men should be getting on…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/17 02:58 AM
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Anarcho-capitalist libertarianism is theoretical hogwash You can just say "I don't really want to put in the effort" instead of dismissing something before you actually understand it. unimaginatively took after his father The source of his ideas, whatever they may be, are 100% irrelevant to the discussion. a man who rejected empirical and statistical analysis If you think this, then you don't understand how Austrians view empiricism. It is not simply "rejected". As Noam Chomsky says As you did, …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 09:23 PM
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RP seems unwilling to admit this. Almost every TRPer I've seen speak on this says that men have a wall, its just later in life than a womans. And of course, both men and women will hit their wall much sooner if they don't take care of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 08:51 PM
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The change process itself is not a happy experience in the slightest
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 08:48 PM
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Maybe thats why they don't have mandatory readings lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:40 PM
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If you plan on never advancing in your career and never getting promoted then sure, but normally people do get promotions and hence get more responsibilities True, but those don't necessarily mean more loss of time (and sometimes can actually mean more free time than they had before, such as the guys I know who got promoted into a job where they can work from home). I'm more asking how you see people getting less as they age which would allow them to travel They can choose to. A lot of people do…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:33 PM
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An unwillingness to fight Hit your head on some concrete at the wrong angle and you die.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:26 PM
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Respect is earned through intimidation and strength. Maybe in prison, but otherwise you can be respected and loved without being physically large.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:25 PM
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Welp I guess I'm a weak beta then!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:22 PM
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What was your point against it? I'm not necessarily against it. You could look at my statements and conclude that the vast majority of humans must be weak by that definition. I would agree with that. The humans who truly operate and make most of their decisions not out of fear are a minority. Some are just blissfully ignorant, others are basically sages.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:21 PM
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How do you see that working out? Most jobs in engineering are about ten times easier than school in engineering. A lot of them don't really do much math at all beyond the occasional basics. That is what I am looking forward to. Then I can finally use my free time to engage in the hobbies I could never afford.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:14 PM
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> Mac
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:06 PM
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I sure as hell better have less responsibilities because I am under constant pressure 24/7 in my major
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:05 PM
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The free market is not the be all and end all. Read Man, Economy, and State and get back to me on that. The United States is not on another planet in this regard. "Canada has six MRI machines for every 1 million people; the United States has 26." America badly underperforms in standard of living rankings Standard of living is not a measure of healthcare quality. Also the Social Progress Imperative is an extremely political group. GDP is not a comprehensive indicator of progress, particularly if …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 06:03 PM
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Well no one is telling me, so how am I supposed to magically know? Tons of RP people support it and talk about it. That is how a groups "ideas" should be identified. What do they discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:51 PM
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What is China but a poor house to make rich people goods? They consume a great deal of what they produce. And you do realize they get paid for those exports right? Employees at those factories want those jobs, they are eager for those jobs. It typically is a step up from alternatives. The economy is accumulating capital, and since at least the 90's has been using this "evil Capitalist oppression" to pull millions of people out of extreme poverty. The only "slave labor" China uses is the same sla…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:49 PM
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Well I'll add it to my reading list
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:39 PM
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Just because soup exists in French cuisine doesn't mean it can't also exist in Chinese cuisine.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:33 PM
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At my school, if you don't spend your vacations and weekends working on labs and projects and studying, you'll end up behind the rest of the class. Heck I only started to get into Reddit because most other simple stimulation requires a larger time investment.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:28 PM
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Sounds fucking miserable. Well, I'm no entrepreneur and I want a stable income, so I've got to walk through a lot of mud and fire. It is miserable though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 05:26 PM
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I don't think I am applying the term any differently than /u/ManSentHisOwnWay did.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:24 PM
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I'd say its a pretty straightforward use of the term: an unpleasant emotion caused by the belief that someone or something is dangerous, likely to cause pain, or a threat.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:18 PM
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How are there all these people in their 20's with few responsibilities? I don't get it. Myself and most of my peers are in a constant state of working or studying or stressing about working and studying. And we spend "breaks" doing more study and work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:58 AM
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Most people are fundamentally driven by fear. We don't want to starve, we don't want to spend life alone, we don't want our children to be hurt, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:51 AM
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Yes you are wrong, there is no hierarchy of slavery. There are small amounts of true slavery in shitty parts of the world, that much is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 11:49 AM
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It is fun after all, ISN'T THAT THE POINT of consumerism + hedonism while sitting on top of our world's hierarchy of slavery? Man this is the kind of super sharp edge I expect to only see on /r/LateStageCapitalism
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 01:00 AM
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Women need muscles in order to ovulate This is a fact. I've never seen Mrs. Skeltal birth new little spooks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:57 AM
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*cue laugh track
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:46 AM
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I'd really prefer a girl who is at least 5'10". I'm a tall guy who has only dated below average height girls (<5'4") and I want somebody who is a little bit taller. It feels weird sometimes having a huge height difference, plus dancing is basically off the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:44 AM
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Where we hang out and cuddle and play games and make things sometimes and we have lots of inside jokes that only we understand and we have loads of weird sex regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:34 AM
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And how much better you looked then than you do now? I look 50 times better than I did in high school. This seems like a problem for the jocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:32 AM
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Embrace the day you become invisible. Hopefully, you weren't too used to the good life. In some ways, its nice that most guys have the luxury of "becoming invisible" on day 1.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:29 AM
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RP men range from left to right wing. It would make sense to expect tons of conservatives and libertarians but there are actually quite a lot of different political beliefs, though definitely a disproportionate number of libertarians. BP men and women are all left. I'm including the "moderates" which always means "center left".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:24 AM
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If she is politically active and a leftist, then no. We would argue a lot. But if shes like most girls: left leaning but doesn't really put that much thought or passion into it, then I'm cool with that. If shes around me long enough she'll start getting pulled downward and right. Most girls politics are malleable and tend to slowly start moving towards their partner's beliefs unless they were already heavily politically active (in which case they are basically only going to date people who hold …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 12:21 AM
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Dicks are awesome, I just don't find the bodies attached to them sexually arousing You truly understand my conundrum then.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 07:33 PM
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We already do that, we give sociopaths the control over writing the laws. Sociopaths are better than the rest of us at exploiting people and acquiring positions of power. Any government you create to stop them will end up being run by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 12:25 PM
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If every girl thought and spoke like this we would have hordes of Elliot Rodger types
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:06 AM
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No they don't, they breed community. Nothing makes people more numb, distant, and heartless than relying on the state to handle all of their issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 05:01 AM
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So is mine. Dicks are pretty, when theyre shaved and thick and straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:57 AM
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No i was saying dicks arent ugly and neither are vaginas. I find both to be quite sexy.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:29 AM
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"A tale of two idiots"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:28 AM
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I dont go anywhere near male buttholes.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 04:27 AM
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I don't do the whole n-count thing. If she only had one partner before me and he was a billionaire male model then I'd be wary of marriage. Also, if he was a humongous piece of garbage who drank a lot, I would also be wary of marriage. So how many doesn't really matter so much as the nature of her past relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:56 AM
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Thats true
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:50 AM
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while at the same time assuring people that even the less fortunate in society will receive adequate health care. We had that a long ass time ago until conservatives can somehow guarantee that they can make health care affordable with a true free market They wont, because conservatives basically just want a different set of shitty regulations. And even if there were people in power who did want a free market in medicine again, everybody in the country would be saying that it was going to end up …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:22 AM
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muh evil fempire of sjw totalitarian oppressing all white males They aren't, but they sure do want to!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:16 AM
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The men there are quite masculine and many of them they look up to their viking heritage Some of them do. They are being phased out.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:15 AM
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While I don't care if women are fighter pilots, a lot of people think the issue with women in those combat roles is purely about physical strength. Its not. The psychology of groups of young males is something that has been used by militaries for thousands of years to turn them into war machines. Women do not have that same psychology, that same idea of family-like bonds to a close group of peers, and they can mess up those male groups, can change their ability to do their jobs at the optimal le…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:15 AM
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there are already models of it working in other countries Except for the less positive healthcare outcomes (especially for chronic illnesses), extended wait times, and equipment shortages, that is. The ones the work semi-well would work better if there was actually a market in medicine. They only survive by eating up resources unnecessarily. The US system does suck. People call it a failure of the free market but it is precisely the opposite, it is a failure because there is no market, its a bur…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 02:04 AM
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Weew peew weew
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:34 AM
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Gorillas are fucking scary
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:34 AM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:17 AM
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Knowing Atlas my guess is "did the sex anyways"
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:16 AM
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The thing that a lot of the men here are forgetting is that women are fucked in the heads, the very fact that they can give oral sex and have disgusting penises enter their bodies, tells of this Vaginas aren't any prettier (sometimes penises can really be more aesthetically pleasing), I like having those in my mouth. And buttholes. And dicks for that matter. Maybe I'm fucked in the head. But I like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/17 01:11 AM
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Lol nobody takes over because they run into the same problem. People arent interested in busting their ass for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:39 PM
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Thats true, we need more commies to violently defend ourselves from ;). Its an American tradition to fight reds, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:36 PM
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Ancaps are all mostly normie guys on the surface. Source: am also an ancap.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:34 PM
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All those sexually dissatisfied married people and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:33 PM
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Especially in a culture where women being seen as commodities is the norm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:32 PM
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Got any more shaming language for us today?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:31 PM
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Men who dont have the ability to have sex with somebody who wants to have sex with them definitely feel the effects. Men in relationships and men with low T notice less. Its not about obsession.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:28 PM
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monks = peaceable and no sex The massive amount of gay sex occuring in Japanese buddhist temples and the massive amount of sexual abuse that was basically tradition in Tibetan monasteries begs to differ. Yeah the modern monks who totally volunteered for it tend to be alright about it, but in general if you place a bunch of men together and completely remove their sexual access to women, they will start having sex with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:25 PM
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Its also funny how rapidly conservative and traditionalist antifa guys get the second one of the masked girls gets punched in the mouth.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:22 PM
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The gay therapy shit is really upsetting to me. Why cant people just be happily attracted to each other and be left alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:19 PM
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What happens when you run out of other peoples money? How will you defend yourself when Trump sends his goons to kick down your door? I guess just letting them own you is easier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:07 PM
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We work best when not being forcefully centrally controlled. But you get called crazy for proposing such a concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:06 PM
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War communism was a fun time to be alive, if you're a fan of death and cannibalism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:05 PM
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Such a war would cause more destruction than a fertility rate drop would.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:04 PM
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You do realize that if you manage to close all loopholes then you will have people who just close up shop for half the year to avoid working for virtually no return, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:03 PM
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Lets make the minimum wage 100 dollars an hour. Im sure a cashiers labor is worth that much... right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 09:01 PM
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I assume you are including free condoms as well? Cant wait to see how expensive these products would get in terms of manufacturing costs once they are tax funded.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:59 PM
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Another problem with the left is their consistent failure to see the full consequences of their use of state power. Every time you shift resources around by force in an economy, you will change people's behaviour, and the vast majority of the time it will make everybody worse off.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:58 PM
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Remove the government monopoly on currency and allow for many competing currencies. Global markets would change drastically, in a positive direction (though probably negative in the immediate short term, as usual) in response to such a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:54 PM
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And then we wonder why people are so fucked up. Its only going to get worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:45 PM
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So what? Why shouldn't people have the right to put whatever they want in their own bodies?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:44 PM
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Not the kind of good they are looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:42 PM
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Honestly for shy people like myself the best mentality to start out with is to play a game of "how many times can I get rejected." Walk into it not only expecting but wanting rejection and it will be a different experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:40 PM
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He has a very masculine face. Id put my pee-pee in his butt.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:37 PM
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And here i am as an adult who has never touched an instrument and really wants to get into playing/making music for fun
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 08:32 PM
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If they ever bring back chocolate chip cookie dough, thats the one you want. But I highly doubt youll be able to try it without coming to the US, even in the US its only sold in 23/50 states.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 01:12 AM
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Do you live anywhere where Blue Bell is sold?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 03:03 PM
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A lot of women quit their career when they get married still. And many women are focused on career and hence do not date, and when they do date they struggle to find a man who meets their standards. Go to a major Japanese city and there is a clear hook-up culture. If you're in the know, Japan can be a fuckfest. Yeah people who want to can go experience it. Its not like nobody is having sex. Its just that a larger proportion are not, relative to most other countries. No nationalised Muslims/Mexic…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:11 AM
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Could you give me a source for that second statement? I don't believe it's correct, but I may be wrong. http://web.archive.org/web/20121028012124/http://esa.un.org/unpd/wpp/Analytical-Figures/htm/fig_8.htm Yeah, Japan doesn't have many women out of the house and working Not sure where you get that idea
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 01:07 AM
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Doesn't have to be totally equal, as long as many women are out of the home and working. Below replacement rate is another thing altogether. Half the world's population lives in countries with below replacement birthrates.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:28 AM
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Approximately gender equal job market, most citizens have internet access. Food, shelter and clothing are relatively plentiful. There is a decent standard of living for most people and a strong legal system is in place. I'd say basically that's all you need to get the ball rolling on birthrate decline. When people can afford to not have to deal with the stresses of monogamy, they are less inclined to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:21 AM
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That's not really dating, that's more like friendship Really? What is the criteria here? I'm genuinely curious. Like if date number 1 is at an ice skating rink, date number 2 is a picnic, and date 3 is, I guess he makes dinner for you and him, are these considered "friendship" dates? What has to be there in order for it to be clearly a "date date"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/17 12:18 AM
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Well, "Her" was fictional. "Her" illustrated a fascinating concept of an emotional connection with an operating system. That level of AI is very far away from what we can do now, but you don't need that level of AI to create the experience needed to draw a guy in, to make him feel a connection. I would venture the same thing applies to women who aren't even real. If she is programmed to desire him completely, how is that not desire? Its either a real girl with fake desire, or a fake girl with re…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:52 PM
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Data to back this up? Racial proportions in arrests match up pretty decently with proportions in victimization reports.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:43 PM
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Those things don't provide validation. You underestimate what the VR+peripheral experience could be like once the models are outside of the uncanny valley. Have you seen the movie "Her"? AI + 3D models will create a weird and fascinating change in how we interact with technology and each other, but there is still many years of work to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:41 PM
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Its a side effect of a modern society. The trend can be generalized to any high-tech first world country. Japan is just at the spearhead.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:34 PM
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Recessions happen because people come to believe that capitalism leads to the most productive society when free, but in free market capitalism, smaller companies get eaten by larger companies, causing recessions Good god, the bad economics here is going to make my head explode. Every major recession in American history has been preceded by a banking and financial industry neck-deep in government interaction, policy making, regulation, etc. smaller companies get eaten by larger companies The larg…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:33 PM
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If anything, people take advantage of me. How many studies did you have to read to understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:30 PM
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He sticks to casual small talk and things that don't matter and is afraid of opening up about the things that he really cares about Well shit then he's boring. I wouldn't consider "able to talk about things he does" as being the same as "being open emotionally". McDonalds 1st date Well thats just bad though. What about something like going on a walk or a picnic or day hike or something? I find it strange to have a requirement for something expensive within 3 dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:29 PM
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The problem with phrasing it that way is that love is too broad a term with too many different interpretations to be useful.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:08 PM
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doesn't wear his heart on his sleeve What specifically do you expect this to look like? If I don't cry enough times then I must be redpilled? Not wanting to commit Even within TRP that varies. Plenty of dudes in LTRs. believes that women are just out to use him If he is stating this to you then he isn't very good at understanding the concepts of TRP. not willing to invest in first dates If a guy is not willing to invest anything to get to know me, then I'm not going to give him my time. So if a …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 07:05 PM
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fill their country with factories The country with all the production wins over the country that just sells ideas and debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:59 PM
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Well, there is some kind of trend
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:57 PM
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So you just see "redpilled" as synonymous with "masculine"?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:56 PM
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Men will escape in to virtual reality. This is the future. There will be a point where peripherals and visuals are linked up to provide an experience that will take many of men off the market, and not just the stereotypical basement dweller. Sex robots would just be the next phase of that industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:54 PM
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http://cdn-ak.f.st-hatena.com/images/fotolife/n/nbakki/20140626/20140626124207.jpg https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cllO4KcdwLc https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Herbivore_men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:52 PM
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TIL I fucked up at being a woman by not liking, or eating, ice cream No, you fucked up at being human. I cannot imagine life without ice cream.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:41 PM
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Chad did 9/11
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:34 PM
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what is practical working truth? How many studies did you read as a 10 year old to find out that being polite led to people being nicer to you and liking you more?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:33 PM
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Japan
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:29 PM
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Redpill recommends not getting married. Plenty of married redpillers. Redpill doesn't recommend paying on the first date, they also have plenty of strategies to avoid paying like going to a coffee shop early and buying your own coffee so that she will arrive later and have to pay for her own. They also don't recommend dinner dates because they don't want to pay and it might be too expensive. Thats not the same as refusing to pay for things. If the date is set up from the get-go to be something c…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:28 PM
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Over obsession with fitness and talking about his "gainz" to everyone he knows Wait, so everybody on bodybuilding.com is part of TRP? Because bodybuilders sort of have their own subculture.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:19 PM
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In the case of total war, troops will be irrelevant because first world militaries have so much long range weaponry that the planet would turn into a crater-filled wasteland before you ever saw a single enemy soldier. So yeah, the draft is pointless to have in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:18 PM
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Or can it exacerbate feeling of worthlessness? Absolutely, for two big reasons: Think about every askreddit sex story. Take notice of something: the most interesting stories get voted to the top, making it seem like everybody but you is getting laid and having crazy fun all the time. This is where the internet and real life are sort of similar. Most people are standing in this donut shape, all staring at a small handful of crazy, exciting hot people in the center. We stare for so long we forget …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:15 PM
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Wearing pants is for betas. I go t-shirt only 24-7.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:06 PM
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I have no idea anymore. I'd say at least 80 percent, probably more than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 06:02 PM
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Where? Just not seeing it in the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/17 09:16 AM
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