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I'm 23, ended a 4 year LTR about 8 months ago. Became redpilled about two years into it, and it still failed. I Was getting around to writing a FR on why doing that doesn't work, but this post means I don't have to do that. I'll just say this: A successful LTR requires both individuals to know themselves AND love themselves. If you're still working on that, congrats. You belong with 90% of the population and it's fine. But until both you AND her are secure, neither one of you is ready for an LTR…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 07:48 PM
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I was in your spot a few years ago, and I'll tell you from experience, implementing red pill within an LTR that wasn't built on a red pill foundation very likely isn't going to work out. My transition was extremely jarring. She about lost her mind. I'm not sure how you can avoid that happening. My advice is to just implement it. If she disrespects you during the transition, relegate her to a plate or dump her because redpill you likely wouldn't have gotten in a relationship with her in the first…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 04:57 PM
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I can't stand social media. I keep a Facebook to stay connected to family but I almost never post on it. Instagram seems to be the most popular (and in my opinion the most cancerous). What does it signal to potential plates that I refuse to make one? On one hand I can see having a profile with pictures of all the cool shit you've done as an increase in SMV, but at the end of the day isn't it just validation-seeking behavior?
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 04:51 PM
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Why wouldn't they? Think of everything they have to gain from a committed provider. Coupled with the security of divorce settlements it's a no-brainer.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 04:47 PM
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You can MGTOW, but that's not the answer honestly. Monk mode works wonders but it's a means to end, not the end goal itself. You're going to get rejected a lot, especially when you start to approach (props for getting out there btw). You just need to get used to it. From the way you asked this question I can tell you care too much when you approach. You care to the point that the rejection is making you want to quit. Women are subtle and perceptive, and I promise they can smell it on you when yo…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/17 04:45 PM
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Nice FR. The best thing to take away from this one is the utmost importance of a strong social network. It's one of the best things you can do for SMV.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 05:50 PM
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But she has to put in more effort than sitting there being pretty. That's the point of dread. Men who strive for women who have not offered them anything are signalling that they are low SMV. Men who clearly have an abundance of women available to them require extra effort.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 05:49 PM
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It's good to be confident, but talking about yourself in your OP makes it sound like you want the validation from others, or at the very least that the validation of others was a key motivation for why you set your goals in the first place. If you don't feel that way, that's fine, but I'm just saying what it sounds like. And when it appears that way, the SMV of your achievements gets diminished. I don't know you, so of course I can't say for sure. But I will never believe anyone who says they ar…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 05:45 PM
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To make sure I understand, you're saying all women available to you are below you in SMP value?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 05:07 PM
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I think you're on the right track, but this post is all over the place and we can simplify it to reach a more succinct truth. Hypergamy and feminism is not why the "jacket" is fucked up. The jacket is fucked up because blue pilled men are using obsolete sexual strategies in the face of new information. As has been said many a time here, there lies immense value in thinking of feminism as a sexual strategy. Women collectively realized that the old, patriarchic world was designed to maximize the s…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/17 04:48 PM
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That was beta, and if you aren't a rapist you're a dumbass. Why did you need her pussy so badly that you'd go for it when she isn't enthusiastic about it? Worse than that, you wanted it so much that you opened yourself to an assault accusation (false or not I actually can't tell from this context). If you do not have affirmative consent, either verbally or through her body language, you didn't do it right. Back off, get her number, go home, text her later that week and work on building more attr…
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 04:07 PM
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AWALT is law. She affirms this by telling you she'd "change her mind for the right guy". Consciously or not, she knows a guy who willingly neuters himself because he needs to be with her that badly will always be the wrong guy if she is hypergamist (she is). Without other context, it sounds like hardcore ASD. Did she grow up religious? She's probably looking for a lot of plausible deniability. What if she had told you she was a virgin before you were dating her? Would you still have dated her? I…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/17 08:57 PM
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One morning in college my then gf was crying because she struggled from depression and was feeling it kind of hard at that point in time. I tried to comfort her and she told me there's no way I could understand. I revealed to her I had struggled with depressive episodes in the past, and heavily considered suicide at one point. Her immediate response: "Why does every guy I date have problems with depression" I laughed remembering this. I wish you weren't right but you are, OP
/r/TheRedPill16/06/17 06:21 PM
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This post sounds to me like there's more to the abortion and backstory than you've mentioned here. That's not exactly an easy thing to go through even if it was for you. I mean it sounds like she already had a low libido and now she just had to go through an abortion. You're in an LTR man you have to pay attention to whether she's okay. Most women are less than excited when they have to get one. After you've really talked about it with her you can see if she'll be okay with heavy protection. Lik…
/r/askTRP10/11/16 08:52 PM
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here is a video of Milo Yiannopolous debating someone who is using that argument, although she never quotes a source. The argument against it is that men have been socially conditioned to be competitive and embrace challenges, while women have not. So the problem isn't a hostile environment when it comes to engineering (at my school, women in engineering are practically worshiped by their male colleagues), but rather that instead of embracing the challenges, women would prefer it to just be easi…
/r/MensRights09/09/15 05:38 AM
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In my opinion, two months isn't long enough to consider something an LTR. You're both definitely still in the honeymoon phase of everything, but stuff is gonna get harder. She'll start to feel insecure about whatever the hell, and she'll start to shit test you. Deal with those shit tests. As the LTR goes on, you're going to have to start implementing more blue pill actions to change things up. I've been in an LTR for 2 years now and I'd say a RP/BP ratio of 80/20 is the ratio I've come to see as…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/14 04:04 AM
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I think Monk Mode makes more sense too. Thanks for the response
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 08:07 AM
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OP's post is not MGTOW. MGTOW is exactly what you said, disregarding women. It's clear in the OP that he is not disregarding them, but instead hating them and staying angry, which will keep him from ever being successful.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:49 AM
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Exactly. When I was talking about a woman choosing the best man available to her, I was sort of talking about specific situations in which a girl leaves one man for one other man (I'm in a LTR, so I read everything on here through that lens). So what you said about the carousel is right, and even that doesn't give someone a right to hate her, or even be angry about it, because like you said, that anger reeks of beta and greatly diminishes one's own SMV.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:48 AM
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I don't agree with anything OP stated. For fuck's sake, the introduction post says that the redpill stance on how women maximize their own sexual strategy is that they have the right to do so. It doesn't make a woman a slut to want to be with the best man available to her. Treating her like she is is an implicit admission that you are certainly NOT the best choice for her, and you're bitter about it. She's allowed to choose the best man. You're allowed to be the best man. If you aren't, that's n…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/14 06:19 AM
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I really like this. Even though the post was quite some time ago, that thing got so big nearly every redditor gets a bad taste in their mouth when they hear "the red pill" (not that they would take the time to understand what it is besides reading one post from a guy who claims it will "kill you inside") I think the most important part of this post is refuting the claim that we complain about sexual strategy. I had talked to some of my friends about TRP and every time I brought it up they would …
/r/TheRedPill18/10/14 11:55 PM
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I don't think being "bubbly" has anything to do with masculinity. Being a man is about not budging when life tries to shove you around. So if your "bubbly" persona means you're highly sensitive to the ups and downs of life, then your masculinity may suffer because of that. But if it only means you're loud and extroverted and excited about life then fuck what people say, just be yourself, and masculinity will follow.
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 06:45 AM
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I think a more extensive PSA on this could be extremely useful to other newcomers. I was somewhat red pill to an extent before coming here, but when my LTR felt like it was falling apart I came here for help and everything in the sidebar immediately made sense to me. So much so that I decided that two days after really "swallowing" the pill, I was going to use this stuff in my relationship in order to salvage it, starting with a party that night. The change was violent. I went from failing every…
/r/TheRedPill15/10/14 06:34 AM
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She's definitely attractive, and she knows it, and I make sure to tell her often enough without being too overwhelming, she just does have lapses in confidence and says stuff like this every now and then. I just ended up making some harmless joke and we moved on. Thanks again for your advice, it helps clear stuff up.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 06:37 PM
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I've seen the video. Thanks for the feedback. Your response suggests that maybe I need to learn to better discern between fitness tests and her sincerely trying to connect with me. For instance, earlier today she texted me out of the blue just to tell me her face had broken out recently. This is undoubtedly a fitness test, right? When they AREN'T fitness tests, what is the best response that could still be sincere? I'm almost positive it isn't validation, because it has never seemed to help and …
/r/askTRP02/10/14 07:18 AM
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I personally agree. Some people are saying "trust your gut", implying that if you have even an inkling of a feeling that things aren't right, she must be cheating, but I've been there, and I promise, when it's there, you know. There's no little gut feeling about it. It's overwhelming. I'd bet money that you and your girl are doing just fine.
/r/askTRP02/10/14 06:04 AM
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If you found pictures of her in granny panties that she hasn't deleted, is it not possible that she's just really bad at deleting things? You said you noticed she's been losing weight, so maybe she took the pictures to look at herself in the mirror and just never thought to delete them because it's not a big deal. To add, if she were sending nudes to people that aren't you, wouldn't she be smart enough to preemptively delete them herself? If some random girl emailed you a picture of herself for …
/r/askTRP02/10/14 05:41 AM
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