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I agree with you. I think it's very shallow and the cliche. All it does is to show that you have a certain level of finance and may have a bunch of meaningless stamps in your passport.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/24 08:22 AM
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Not sure what some of the commenters are here for, but I’m trying to help, I like this energy. People need to understand that sometimes mistakes are made. Yes, it's good to learn from mistakes but to penalize a guy for a mistake, rookie or not, shouldn't be the main objective of the replies.
/r/askTRP14/04/21 09:39 AM
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It's not only a value thing. Some women view oral sex differently at certain stages of their lives. My ex never gave me a blowjob during the 6 years we were together although I took her virginity and she wanted me to marry her. She didn't want me to view her like that because she's "not that type of girl". it was only at the tail end of the relationship did she do it and only because she didn't want to have sex with me anymore. By that time I knew she had practice somewhere else before. Another …
/r/askTRP12/04/21 09:38 AM
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I'll try to respond to some of your statements and questions. Is tik tok and the rise of “e boys” taking hypergamy and higher standards to a new level Yes. It's pretty boys that are mostly popular on the app so more and more average girls (0-7) will be exposed to that level of attractiveness online and will also be looking for it in the real world. They will get 'likes' and comment replies from them and think that it can be transferred to the real world until they try to chat up a similar lookin…
/r/askTRP04/04/21 10:26 AM
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Most girls prefer lower bf %. Plus there are notable advantages to having lower bf such as higher test levels and possibly showing off your abs. However, if you don't initially have enough muscle under the fat it would be best to eat at a slight calorie deficit and slowly lose fat while building muscle.
/r/askTRP08/03/21 07:49 PM
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curious as to know what kind of content a 43-year-old guy posts on TikTok that causes 20-somethings to follow
/r/askTRP01/03/21 10:15 PM
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I've been in your exact situation except 10yr age gap. if things doesn't get better for her she'll eventually blame you
/r/askTRP17/02/21 12:35 AM
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Not needing the job. Are you saying having abundance mentality, as an employee, is an advantage in the corporate environment? IMO, this might be the exact opposite of what might be desired because of the highly bureaucratic nature and a propensity for "towing the line" that the corporate environment structure encourages. The corporate environment becoming feminized might actually be correct and feminized applicants (yes men, amiable, agreeable) might actually be more desirous than a high abundan…
/r/askTRP10/02/21 01:40 PM
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yea. I think soft nexting might be more applicable as a short term response to a plate's unwelcomed behavior or she's acting up. an OP's case it was an outright hard next.
/r/askTRP03/02/21 10:12 PM
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Interesting. And what strategy would you use if there was a high chance of you seeing her in the future and possibly wanting to f*** her? all the while maintaining frame, your respect and the "upper hand"
/r/askTRP03/02/21 09:53 PM
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Should I just reschedule to see if the bruises reduce a little (but it won't disappear in a few days and rescheduling for 2 weeks is odd) or just go and fuck it? it depends. If you view her as plate material it shouldn't matter. If you're thinking about LTR I will try to avoid her seeing it.
/r/askTRP01/02/21 02:39 AM
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Who the fuck says shit like that to someone they just fucked over? I could understand her saying "I never loved you" as a rationalization for her current feelings but what she said was done to intentionally hurt.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 01:21 AM
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If you have health and strength you have hope
/r/askTRP17/12/20 12:50 PM
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What's your height? You were 250lbs and still don't look "fat".
/r/MarriedRedPill14/11/20 09:58 PM
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probably did the same shit to the guy previous to you Yup. She would have eventually dumped his ass for good and then his wall of text would be how to get her back.
/r/askTRP05/11/20 12:43 PM
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I honestly thought women went for slightly older guys. No. They go for mature guys and it just happens that older men are generally more mature. Seems like she's comparing you to the immaturity of her brother based on age and thinking you're both the same. Just hold your frame and don't act needy or immature. Other than that, she might not be interested.
/r/askTRP04/11/20 09:46 AM
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Seems like you want her to be more than a plate. Which is okay but based on the situation you described she doesn't see you as anything more than satisfying her physical needs. if you really want her as a potential LTR you need to connect with her on a emotional level. If this is done correctly, she'll be calling you between dates asking "how's your day going" and "what are we?"
/r/askTRP03/11/20 09:39 PM
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You did PEDs? I just want to become shredded like back in my early 20s so I can have a good foundation to start with. It's much easier to gain fat at my age due to lower testosterone so my theory is becoming shredded will naturally increase my testosterone making it more difficult for fat cells to accumulate. I'm around 14% bf using army method.
/r/askMRP18/10/20 10:27 AM
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The problem is my lower stomach develops an unattractive paunch that's impossible to get rid of. Think of a snake that just swallowed a basketball. It's only now that I'm starting to see progress with my lower belly fat. My thinking is that I'll cut to about 140lbs while doing heavy weights and cardio. Then I can lean bulk and perhaps consider PEDs.
/r/askMRP18/10/20 10:04 AM
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I had a complete home gym but practically gave it away. I stay at different locations so it was more convenient to go to the gym close to where I was staying at the time
/r/askMRP18/10/20 03:28 AM
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How is she "one of" anything if you've cut contact with all the others except her? she was on of my plates at the time. I don't know what we are now. I'm just trying to be supportive to her during the pregnancy You don't go hang out with plates and not have sex. I was the one who didn't initiate sex. I was busy with my online business (I have another job) and just didn't want to have sex. could also be because she's pregnant why I'm not very interested in sex with her Regardless, I'd suggest a D…
/r/askMRP18/10/20 03:22 AM
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joint with whom my sisters and parent. I'm the only son why are they titled jointly? because I'm not married and have no kids so no one to pass it too if I unexpectedly pass. I travel a lot by myself so just putting things in place 150lbs is weak yup. I have a small frame . I tried to put in muscle for a few years but also gained fat in other places and that's why I'm on a cut now.
/r/askMRP18/10/20 03:11 AM
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Are some women just predispositioned to inflict physical abuse on men? Like, how do they reach to that point and is there anything that can be done to prevent it? My guess is it has to do something with their views on male authority and upbringing.
/r/askMRP14/10/20 09:19 PM
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I work full time 5 children wake up at 3am bang every night what you on bro?
/r/askMRP09/10/20 05:52 PM
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A 44 year old man is crying for sex from a 44 year old woman. He must have some serious other issues.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/10/20 10:29 AM
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We both were holding onto my phone and I didn't want to let go. She then told me to let it go or she would bite me. I didn't. She then bit me and ran away with it. Sad part about it was she didn't she anything incriminating. I had no other choice but to dump her. I'm not sure how she feels today and the reason for such hostility given what she did.
/r/askMRP27/09/20 02:50 PM
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I usually avoid taking about being red pilled to anyone. Don't ever mention it to anyone. You can talk about certain concepts with your friends once you realize that they're on the same page but mentioning it automatically places you in a category for some people. unconsciously red pilled' I would also call myself unconsciously red pilled in my younger days but it's not ideal. It's different when you are actively red pill because it allows you to increase your depth of knowledge in the subject n…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/20 10:18 PM
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this is my last resort but I can guarantee that they'll want to reassign us which would mean me being sent to another location to work as she can only work where she is currently. other than the total inconvenience this wouldn't be good for my career either.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 08:36 PM
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This is another sentence that signifies something is off. okay. I'm interested to hear what you're thinking.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 08:24 PM
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she'll sometimes arrive on work and not stick around to receive the information. other times she'll immediately make a phone call on arriving. I will then be forced to interrupt her to give handover.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 04:45 PM
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Why did you feel it necessary to put “to be honest” in this sentence? It signifies something is off. I'm not sure what should work towards. I don't want 'enemies' on my job because it's a high risk environment that we work in. it's always good when someone has your back in this environment. I also don't want to work with someone that has latent or active resentment towards me that maybe detrimental to my safety. additionally, I don't want to try and force a professional relationship if it's impo…
/r/askMRP25/09/20 04:39 PM
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lol. if you knew her you wouldn't be saying that. she's the kind of chick that makes you sleep with one eye open and fearful she'll bite your dick off while giving you a blowjob.
/r/askMRP25/09/20 04:29 PM
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As they say, muscles are built in the kitchen. what?? I've never heard that before
/r/askMRP14/08/20 10:50 PM
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FrankenChad put that in the sidebar mods!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/20 10:42 PM
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how would you feel if you got an LTR because of your "awesome hair" and when you started to go bald she left you? getting a hot chick by having awesome hair is okay.... but getting a hot chick while being bald... now that's noteworthy. now's a good time to step up your game brother.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 08:54 PM
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Told a girl I'm going for drinks Wednesday night at 8pm and asked her to join. no need to beat around the bush.... just directly ask the girl out. if she rejects just keep it moving She asked if it'll just be me or with a group that's a reasonable question. to prevent this see above That's nice of you but I don't let people buy my drinks doesn't matter how cute just tell her to contact you when she gets paid and wants to hang By me offering to buy her drinks, I probably came off as beta bux but …
/r/askTRP07/07/20 02:25 AM
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mostly from current or past FWBs. it's harder to meet new prospects now because social activities are few and far between. You can increase your chances by doing OLD but I don't do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/20 11:02 PM
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I'm not sure if you mentioned it before but, did he know she had a boyfriend? We know he has game and an LTR, but perhaps he was looking to upgrade and found a suitable match in your girl. I'd say if he knew then you should tell his girl because he is most responsible for the situation. if he didn't, then it's your girl's fault for not being a loyal LTR.
/r/askTRP22/06/20 10:01 AM
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looking for her 'long term, mr right' will bed 'mr right now' correct. the point it turns into a relationship is when she realizes that 'Mr right now' has all the traits and characteristics of her 'long term, mr right' and she asks the infamous 'what are we?' question. at that point you can choose to promote her to an LTR or not depending on if she is LTR material. other possibility is she ghosts or dumps you first.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/20 05:33 PM
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Wanna join me for a walk in that new park today? really?? wtf is wrong with you bro. she's not your girlfriend.. lol
/r/askTRP16/06/20 04:29 PM
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If all you do is fuck and eat together sure you'll get bored of the relationship. What do you guys have in common? Do you go travelling together? What hobbies do you share? There's a lot you can do for excitement in your relationship, given that you both are compatible. If not, she's definitely not the girl for you.
/r/askTRP15/06/20 08:22 PM
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I told her I would buy her a house just to get back with her 🤮.. We were together for 6 years and I waited until she finished her post grad degree to propose but at that point she was already pulling away and moving on. The thing is I didn't mean it, I only said it to get back with her and for her to love me 😩
/r/askTRP13/06/20 10:36 PM
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The first thing we learn on TRP is not to be an orbiter... that's like TRP 101. and even 12-year-olds on TikTok knows what simping is. either OP really hates this chick or has a lot to learn about game.
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:17 PM
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The fact that OP acknowledged her existence and how he met her in detail that comment was cringe AF. Even more than the roll around on bed one
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:11 PM
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"let's meet at X at Y time and keep the fun goin" right? this shit's too easy. he unnecessarily went all nuclear lol
/r/askTRP10/06/20 06:08 PM
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And guess what? You answer - like a tool, and give her the validation and attention she craves, and she likes it - but she doesn't like you. So she milks you for all your worth I agree with this but not fully. When he replies to her message she gets her dopamine but it quickly turns to disgust and further resentment towards him because she was never into him and was forced to message him (someone she's not attracted to). She's even more turned off by how quickly he responded to her "hey" text as…
/r/askTRP05/06/20 06:17 PM
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I also on average burn 4000kcal a day CICO is good but being able to accurately measure the calories burned is more of a challenge. Also, that's a lot of calories to burn on a daily basis unless your job is extremely physically demanding?
/r/TheRedPill05/06/20 01:43 PM
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You’ve got to meet women organically yes, this is another way to meet women but it is very limiting and doesn't add much to day game and social interactions. meeting women organically is doing it on easy mode. also, it happens much less. I’ve been approached at grocery stores and malls. That is the most awkward shit ever. in order to develop game you must cold approach. this is called being in the field. the reason why these approaches made you feel awkward was because they were awkward. these g…
/r/seduction03/06/20 10:34 AM
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I don't think height is a deal breaker. Half the girls I've been with have been taller than me and I'm 5 ft 9. 5'9" is average height for men by most standards so your anecdotal experience may not be applicable here. Larger is better but just cause it's small doesn't mean it's bad. I agree. I find that what's more of a deal breaker is actual physical deviations from normal and faults. For example, being bald, emaciated, bad teeth, unbalanced facial and body structure, etc. However, by just lifti…
/r/askTRP01/06/20 07:53 AM
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yea, I think I phrased the question badly. my question was regarding the consequences of I shaving her head with regards to the relationship. if her head is shaved or not isn't too much of a concern for me. I was thinking about the emotional impact of her having a shaved head and associating it with me.
/r/askTRP27/05/20 12:35 AM
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A few hours after she left I texted her rookie mistake bro 😂
/r/askTRP25/05/20 09:40 PM
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she's curious about you but not that into you. she might also not trust you very much. ignore her, back off, and wait for her to initiate contact.
/r/askTRP24/05/20 06:25 PM
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You might feel all powerful & dangerous, and others, including girls, might percieve you as such and that's what it's all about, perception. no one here advocates violence (except for trolls and /s comments) but having muscles and being physically strong inherently gives you a boost confidence and people perceive you as such, although the opposite may be true. it's not what it is..... it's what it seems to be.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/20 10:39 AM
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I would love to learn to dance similarly to this guy here. That guy can 'dance' because he learned how to dance. If you carefully watch his moves you'll see some of them require prior practice to get it right without looking awkward. Some people learn faster than others but everyone had to try at least once before looking natural. so just watch some dance music videos and mimic what you like.
/r/askTRP02/05/20 04:12 PM
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and for others it's a huge ref flag. best to err on the side of caution and let her hamster wheel spin
/r/askTRP30/04/20 11:01 AM
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girls with values and a good heart very rear indeed
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/04/20 08:47 PM
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correct. bachata is much easier to learn and girls are attracted to the sensual version
/r/askTRP25/04/20 09:27 AM
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dude you're 21. at your age you have lots of options and don't even know it.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:31 AM
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sounds like you two don't have much in common. she likes you and might fuck but she doesn't want to invest emotionally
/r/askTRP25/04/20 12:15 AM
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being overly conservative is not a healthy family relationship. It's primarily the reason why these daughters come out to be slutty trying to compensate for their lack of healthy outside relationships.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/20 10:54 AM
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great. but never tell anyone, especially women that you were/are "working on yourself".
/r/seduction21/04/20 04:08 PM
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women would rather share a high value male than be stuck with a beta provider not in all situations..... women like to have their cake and eat it too. they'll fuck the alpha while constantly searching for the beta provider. Once they find the beta, they'll pull away from the alpha and return to him when it's convenient for her....therefore passionately fucking the alpha for feelings and starfish fucking the beta for obligations.
/r/askTRP18/04/20 10:37 AM
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It's not creepy if you don't have a social media account but some people use it as a way to judge you before actually getting to know you. However, to some people, not having a social media accounts may mean: you have something to hide you have weird friends, family, hobbies, etc. and you don't want outside people to know you think your life is not interesting for other people to see you're weird for not doing something (social media) everyone else your age is doing Note, everything I listed is …
/r/seduction11/04/20 10:43 PM
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people usually care more about people who: like the things they like they want to be like
/r/askTRP11/04/20 09:21 PM
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plate
/r/askTRP09/04/20 09:45 AM
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'Yoga' (the poses or asanas) by itself is not meditation as you can meditate without doing yoga although there are some types of yoga that is more conducive to meditation, for example Hatha yoga. If your main goal is to meditate it might be best to download a meditation app like headspace or calm. I highly recommend both.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 02:46 AM
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am also moving out the country soon permanently so there is an end date to this if she knows you're going away it could be the reason why she's acting like that. When women do the things that you describe they view it as 'investing' and the more they invest physically is more emotionally invested she'll become. She's protecting herself knowing you be gone soon.
/r/askTRP08/04/20 08:44 PM
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it all depends on the church on how the other members will view her for being in a relationship with someone who isn't their a religion because most devout Church girls will want to be in a committed relationship before having sex with you. you will also have to consider what role her parents play in her life because they will be the one calling the shots if she still lives at home on the she will always be thinking about doing what is right in their eyes. in some cases you might actually have t…
/r/askTRP06/04/20 03:01 AM
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if you're satisfied with the relationship otherwise don't worry about. From now onwards, only have her call you (and vice-versa) and no more messages.
/r/askTRP05/04/20 11:31 PM
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They'll flirt with you to boost their ego. What's more validation than a guy in a committed relationship/marriage showing them interest and possibly cheating on their girlfriends? I assure you when they get what they want they'll discard you forthwith.
/r/seduction05/04/20 03:08 PM
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It sounds like she plated you instead of the other way around. I also think you invested too much emotionally and by your tone she sounds like she's a player who will drop you in a heartbeat if she chooses to.
/r/askTRP04/04/20 12:47 PM
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but how is the sex? I'm guessing it's not so great hence this post.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 09:55 AM
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seems likely to be a severe case of anxiety. practice deep breathing, meditation, and exercise. if all fails get medicine prescribed, but it's 95% a mental issue.
/r/askTRP31/03/20 09:28 AM
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They you like to use the word "settle" to describe the man they actually deserve. Andif you consider what they have to offer the guy might even be too good for them.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/03/20 03:35 AM
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bruh....trp is not an excuse to be a douchebag. the least you could have done is cuddle for 60 seconds after your "post sex T boost" workout...lol.. you allow plates to break...you don't break them yourself...... unless absolutely necessary.
/r/askTRP28/03/20 03:11 AM
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wait... there's another sub as bad as Female Dating Strategy??? But I must admit, they help to reinforce TRP in my mind. Also, I feel bad for some women on that sub because I know some of them truly want to become better and have a healthy relationship.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/20 08:50 PM
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One aspect of the law of attraction that I believe in is that your thoughts affects your aura / energy and scientifically speaking, physiology. Also, your intuition can sense (most times) when someone is giving off positive or negative energy based on their thoughts.
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:02 PM
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Head plate oneitis i ignored the message and haven’t call her for a week good. keep doing that until she contacts you. tell her you were busy with work/projects then meet up and fuck. never chase when a woman starts to pull away. spin more plates
/r/askTRP22/03/20 04:35 PM
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When you workout, don't workout like a beast. Increase the weight only by 2.5 lbs a week. This is important. When you're skinny fat you first need to "make" muscles and afterwards build. Doing otherwise usually results in injuries and bad form.
/r/seduction22/03/20 01:16 PM
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ohh shit. First time hearing about that sub. The women on FDS should have a look.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 01:31 PM
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TBH, you are complaining about hypergamy which is pinnacle of AFC
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 10:20 AM
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This. He doesn't even have to go all-in but red pill theory, as a man, is a great foundation to have.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 10:17 AM
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This is why the red pill community pushes plate theory so much. as a man it is imperative to have multiple women in your life then you be the one who vets them based on their behavior , traits, and other variables including looks. A woman is always looking for the best provider and plate theory allows a man to find the best partner, LTR, wife, mother of our kids, etc. and usually they are never the HB9's and 10's . There are other benefits to plate theory but this is one of them.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/20 10:12 AM
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your examples don't sound like IOIs. At best it sounded like an opportunity to say "hi" which you didn't. Next time say just say hello and gauge her response, there is no harm in that.
/r/askTRP16/03/20 09:50 AM
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It all depends on the girl. The thing is most girls know they say/think stupid shit and are constantly being judged by men when they speak. That's why they rearly speak when on dates and ask more questions. They prefer to disqualify you based on what you said than the other way around. It's best to go with safe topics that will make her feel proud and happy to talk about.
/r/seduction15/03/20 10:50 AM
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As everyone said , if you like her and she is really into you without reservations, keep pressing on. If not , you might be her first and then she'll regret it and go fuck the other guy she really likes.
/r/askTRP15/03/20 03:38 AM
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a popular social media chick said this exact thing. The men she wants to chase her don't and the men she doesn't always do. You'll know for a fact when a girl is into you. To find that out you first need to make the first move, set up a date and escalate. watch her actions.
/r/askTRP14/03/20 07:30 PM
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You didn't fuck. She's in a relationship. She has BPD. She blocked you more than once. Dude, never attempt to contact this girl. ever.
/r/seduction14/03/20 06:47 PM
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as a balding guy you need to get jacked. not necessarily grotesque jacked tho.. just have muscles, low enough body fat % and dress well.
/r/seduction14/03/20 11:57 AM
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Why the fuck does she still care what I’m doing? What makes you think she cares about what you're doing? you're just entertainment for her at this point. Do I look butthurt if I unfriend her? (p.s. it has been weeks since the date) What's the purpose of unfriending her? and it doesn't sound like she was malicious towards you. just hide your stories from her
/r/askTRP13/03/20 12:38 AM
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Hell fucking no. SHE. DUMPED. YOU. What the fuck is wrong with you. Have some self respect.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 12:12 PM
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Her parents doesn't like/trust you or might be uncomfortable with you fucking their daughter while she is living in their house and you aren't married to her. She may want to fuck you but she's also thinking about what the parents are saying (and might agree with it) and she doesn't want to make them angry. Women jump through hoops to fuck and find a way not to piss their parents off if they really think you are worth it... and sometimes depending on the situation they couldn't care less .
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:57 AM
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There's always at least a 50% chance a woman will ghost you after a hook up. Sometimes it's more or less either way and don't think you're special because men do it too. it's just the nature of the game. A good mindset is to always expect it. My way of dealing with hook ups is to refocus my attention on another chick right after so that I don't feel a loss if it reaches to that.
/r/askTRP12/03/20 10:43 AM
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If she's attracted to you you're a hot 28 year old... if not, you're a 28 year old creep who can't get a girl his own age.
/r/askTRP11/03/20 12:00 PM
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while a take note of your persistence, 0 numbers out of 40 approaches is highly inefficient and may warrant a change in your technique.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 05:10 PM
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try to set date and escalate. if she refuses never message her again
/r/askTRP09/03/20 11:08 PM
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she sounds like she doesn't want to get too emotional involved
/r/askTRP09/03/20 07:55 PM
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sometimes fellow students fill in as academic advisors. if that's the situation I say go ahead and ask her out.
/r/askTRP06/03/20 03:06 AM
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,😂
/r/askTRP05/03/20 04:18 PM
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LMFAO 😂😂😭 from the time you say he said “yeah you were sitting here. now you’re sitting somewhere else” i lost it 😂. You're a college student and he's 12... if I were you I would have reacted the same way the others dudes did... laughed at myself and continued hitting up the chick.
/r/askTRP05/03/20 12:56 PM
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why was the first date "meh"? was it because of you or her? sometimes girls will go out with you even if they're not into you but only to see what they can get and watch the dancing monkey. don't be a dancing monkey.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 08:28 PM
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I never understand this "if you change your mind" response. it almost seems like if you're begging her and keeping your hopes up which is not attractive.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 01:48 AM
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dude, are you listening to yourself? if she was within fucking distance this would've been a conversation to have. she was interested and was living close but now she's not. and if she's so interested tell her to come visit you and if she balks never answer her again.
/r/askTRP03/03/20 07:23 PM
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read The Power of Now
/r/askTRP02/03/20 10:11 PM
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Let her recommend one and if she doesn't you suggest another. If she has a problem with that one and is not willing to give you a reasonable explanation she's playing games.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 07:55 PM
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I think what you're describing is women that are gay or secretly want to be.
/r/askTRP01/03/20 12:20 AM
1

Bro, I've been there and I understand how you feel. Use the emotions to direct it into something worthwhile. University is one of the best time of your life so go out and meet people. I wouldn't be afraid to tell certain girls that you recently broke it off with your chick. Who knows, you may get some pity sex from it. LoL
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:19 PM
6

vitamin D
/r/askTRP27/02/20 06:02 PM
3

she would have already forgotten OP and then he'll come back writing to us on how to "get her back" these younger girls are finicky as hell bro..eat while you can
/r/askTRP26/02/20 12:45 AM
2

if it's that big of a deal for you then don't bang her. Just don't come back here and write some beta post of how to get back this chick you lost when you hear she's fuckin some alpha dick
/r/askTRP26/02/20 12:42 AM
5

based on what OP wrote she will have already banged 5 other alpha dudes by April.. lol
/r/askTRP26/02/20 12:39 AM
1

lol... it's like more and more 14 year olds are finding redpill
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:58 PM
2

if she was sooo great you wouldn't have done what you did and brake up with her... and even if she is there's always someone better. don't ignore her red flags. it's likely you have unhealthy trauma bonds. go to therapy, try meditation and go on a vacation somewhere far.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 09:53 PM
3

she sounds loony... if she did that when she's feeling good what would she's feeling mad or upset? state your boundaries clearly and thread carefully with that crazy bitch
/r/askTRP25/02/20 07:58 PM
2

in your opinion, who has invested more into this relationship? you or her?
/r/askTRP25/02/20 03:12 PM
3

after two days she'll say she wants two more, then four, and so on... the more time you give her is the more respect she loses for you and the harder it is to get her back when she eventually ends it...and she will. you're going through this because you've invested too much into that relationship which I'm almost certain was a toxic and one sided one. cut your losses, meet new chics and replace that bitch who is using you.
/r/askTRP25/02/20 02:12 PM
8

5 hours taking in the phone!?!? wtf is wrong with you bro? talk for 15 minutes max... ask to meet up and escalate. you're begging forgiveness because you invested too much. never overinvest in someone who isn't invested in you as well take this as a lesson learned and never repeat it.
/r/askTRP23/02/20 06:27 AM
2

In those fleeting interactions it's wise to tell them why you want their number. for example, "...hey, I know you're busy at work but I would like to get to know you better..."
/r/askTRP22/02/20 09:13 PM
-4

I think it's very submissive to go down on a woman especially if you're the one who initiates it. to me it's like a man is begging to please the woman and once you do it the power dynamic changes.
/r/askTRP22/02/20 04:28 PM
1

rejection is better than regret
/r/seduction21/02/20 09:16 PM
1

right? she's lucky that he's even talking to her. there's girls that wouldn't even talk to you if they didn't find you "attractive"
/r/askTRP19/02/20 12:37 PM
1

tbh her dumping you might be exactly what you need right now
/r/askTRP19/02/20 01:59 AM
1

i’m just worried that i’ll catch oneitis stop thinking she's a unicorn. she has flaws like everyone else and will most likely leave you for a suitable upgrade in the future.... especially seeing that you guys are still in college and everything else that you mentioned that makes you so insecure. keep improving yourself and chances are she won't have a reason to replace you. also, people try harder to retain their portfolio the more they invest in it. (sunk cost fallacy) . if she's so great she s…
/r/askTRP16/02/20 11:31 PM
2

after I've had a first date with a chick is when I make time to text other girls and set up dates with them as a distraction from the first.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 10:01 PM
8

it's not uncommon for men who travel a lot (pilots, army, international oil and gas) to have multiple SO's and families. I think it's an understanding by the chicks because they know men nature... but just don't go bragging about it and ensure that neither is felt neglected.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 09:53 PM
1

do more couple stuff and wait for her to ask for more. she might say something like "what are we"
/r/seduction14/02/20 09:02 AM
1

plates break. what a girl does in the end depends on what kind if girl she is and what she's looking for and it's party of the learning process. and I'm pretty sure she thought I had higher SMV than her. women have egos and don't mind dating out of their league...but not too much for them to feel insecure. that's where you come in with your swag to balance it out.
/r/askTRP14/02/20 07:41 AM
2

I like to keep her. nothing you wrote suggest that you have anything. if you want any chance of having sex with this chick again wait for her to message you
/r/askTRP13/02/20 06:15 PM
-1

you can have kids with a woman without needing in a marriage or LTR but it's all about finding the right one. there's also lots of women willing to raise a kid on their own and just for you to be a "sperm donor". this has its own complications but it can work
/r/askTRP13/02/20 01:53 PM
2

indifference is key. never show you get affected emotionally. just act as if nothing never happened and go meet some new chicks
/r/askTRP13/02/20 07:31 AM
2

dude, this is too easy: Google voice .....and is getting a new SIM card that hard?
/r/askTRP12/02/20 05:52 PM
2

okay... sometimes when we use words such as always, all, and similar adverbs it's mostly to drive home a point. for example, all men are dogs and AWALT. I don't believe that most people will literally believe the preceding examples to 100% true because there's exceptions and outliers. just like: "That’s not true, she’ll only start to feel that way if the relationship fails" because we can only comment based on our experiences and what we've read and heard from others.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:36 PM
3

if she loses attraction then she’ll suddenly decide she was "never really into him" that's what I was referring to
/r/askTRP11/02/20 09:01 PM
1

and she'll always see herself as better than him because she was "never really into him" in the first place
/r/askTRP11/02/20 06:08 PM
2

sometimes 'chad' means someone else she rather be with at that particular point in time... and that's how it is with women. that why we suggest give it some time at hot her back up... in the mean time spin more plates.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:48 PM
2

women get confused all the time especially when they're experiencing cognitive dissonance... However, do you really want to have a scarcity mindset and devote time and effort into some BPD girl that's not sure about you? diversify your attention and efforts.
/r/askTRP11/02/20 12:37 PM
1

when you stated that this chick was your "dream girl" you've already lost.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 09:42 PM
0

show love when they ask for it otherwise be indifferent else they start to feel smothered. it's more technical than that but that's the basic understanding.
/r/askTRP10/02/20 12:20 PM
7

just say you don't have time for social media because you're always busy on your grind
/r/askTRP10/02/20 08:38 AM
1

only one way to find out... and her out and escalate.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 10:48 PM
3

what are you talking to her about? ask her on a date and talk about it there.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 10:42 PM
3

as a person with low SMV in a high SMV crowd there's not much you can do but to observe at the sidelines and wait to strike at the most opportune time. makes no sense in trying to compete with the Chads and Brads cause all they'll do is gang up against the outsider (you) to make themselves look better. there will always be guys or girls with high SMV that's not up to AMOGing shenanigans that you will be able to connect with. there are other issues in your post that needs addressing such as your …
/r/askTRP09/02/20 01:02 PM
2

what's your ultimate goal in life?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:40 PM
1

okay.. I'm not sure how much hip-hop will increase your SMV . ALL the dances that I recommended requires a partner and when you get good women will be lining up to dance with you. but of course you have to like and want to dance . dancing is also beneficial for so many other things as well.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 12:28 PM
12

you did the right thing. this is why I always have backups /orbiters in LTR cause it's easier to get back on the dating scene and gives a good distraction. it also seems like she wanted you to stand up for yourself which you have thus she may come back.
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:20 AM
7

learn to dance... salsa, bachata, ballroom, etc
/r/askTRP08/02/20 12:52 PM
6

procedure: grinding.. her ass on your crouch in the middle of the club with her friends around isolate.. slowly drift away from her friends and get to a wall grinding.. face to face, her crouch on your crouch, breath on hey neck and shoulders feel her up.. ass, back, neck, waist, etc kiss.. her neck->ears-> cheeks... mouth turn her on.. get her hot in all ways departure.. take her outside to 'cool off' except do the opposite
/r/askTRP08/02/20 11:38 AM
5

people who usually do these things have some kind of issue going on but how you let it affect you and how you react is what's important. IMO, these people crave attention and some kind of reaction from people and are fueled to by it so the best course of action will be determined by the exact situation. for example, an elderly woman skiped the line and went before me at the cash register and I allowed her. Another situation, a jacked guy skipped the line and went before me at the cash register, …
/r/askTRP08/02/20 11:11 AM
1

yup, I do both but not to meet women per se. I think more men are are finding out that you can meet lots of women in dance class without having to cold approach. yoga class isn't as easy, but it's possible
/r/askTRP08/02/20 10:12 AM
2

to be confident in anything you have to be reasonably good at it. go to a few beginners classes where you will be dancing with women who are learning just like you
/r/askTRP08/02/20 09:51 AM
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